lavyebel Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Not wanting a serious relationship doesn't make you a free hooker or a pickmeisha.	RANT	lavyebel	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/07/20 08:39 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
78	She really predicted the future ... Her songs screamed a lot "I'M nOt liKe oTher gIrls" though.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/12/20 01:12 PM
20	Libfems - BuT iT's EmPoWeRiNg From what I've seen, vegan feminists are more likely to be radfem than libfem. Veganism by itself is radical. I see vegetarians being pretty libfem, though.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/12/20 05:57 PM
21	WHYYYY Are There So Many Female led Podcasts All About the Guys They Fuck? Can Women’s Entertainment Do Better please??? In real life (no the Internet), there is still a lot of stigma around women's sexuality. I guess they want to break those barriers. I live in a non religious country, not supposed to be conversative, yet, women are called whore and sluts if they have the slightest of sexual experience, or if they are single, 'cause your supposed to belong to a man, only one, so if you're single, it's suspicious. You're probably living a degenerate life. On the internet, it's the extreme opposite with the toxic p…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/11/20 10:12 AM
39	You know what is empowering? Abstinence, modesty and not dating. People have asked me out at my job, feels empowering to let them know I'm not interested. This is a middle ground between abstinence and sleeping with every man you see.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/08/20 11:38 PM
32	People asking me if I’ve seen WAP and yes I have see this sexually performative garbage. STOP asking me. It's interesting how much female rappers need to have surgery done and be twerking in their videos to be trending, but male rappers can wear winter clothes in their video clip (drake), having weird rainbow hair colour, looking like crap and still being recognised for their music.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/08/20 01:17 PM
5	The sex positivity movement is a dangerous lie At the beginning, sex positivity was about anti slut shaming, saying that women do not lose their value if they have sex, that women can have a libido just like men etc.. but with today's liberalism culture, it turned out to be pro-porn, pro-prostitution and so on, that are NOT positive. It should be about consent, desire and freewill (aka not being pressured or influenced). Women should be able to chose to wait, or not to wait, without judgement.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/08/20 10:26 PM
1	Why on earth to pickmeishas/libfems think porn, casual hookups, and kinks are "empowering"? Some women doesn't want to take care of the emotional work that men requires, so they rather living and being single, but yet they don't want to give up on intimacy, so FWB may work for them. I heard the "sex work is empowering" bullshit quite often, it's a way men use to infuence young women in the industry. Sometimes with the help of pickme's.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/08/20 08:32 AM
37	Vetting strategy: How to read between the lines, use power of deduction to read motivations/possibilities and how to make educated guesses. Well said ! Trust your guts, I read very well in people, especially men, but a lot of times I try to convince myself that I'm wrong, just overthinking, and at the end of the day, I was right.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/08/20 12:27 PM
35	No you don’t need closure, there’s nothing to talk about. CUT that LVM out your life now! Yep ! Everytime I agreed to a last conversation, it was just more lies and the guy trying to get me back into his bed. It's better to ignore. If you're really want to empty your bag one last time, just send a text and then block them immediately. Trash men only talks garbage.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/08/20 03:44 PM
9	More than half these men can’t even make us moan whilst running their lies. So tell me, what are these LVM even good for? Women are out here sacrificing their own pleasure, giving these struggle men sympathy noises & they still can’t act right. Just roll off & hit snooze sis. Same. I'm loud, even if I masturbate alone.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/07/20 11:37 PM
15	More than half these men can’t even make us moan whilst running their lies. So tell me, what are these LVM even good for? Women are out here sacrificing their own pleasure, giving these struggle men sympathy noises & they still can’t act right. Just roll off & hit snooze sis. If the sex is trash I just leave. Happened quite a lot, if the guy sucks at it, and I'm not here to be his teacher, I just stopped the intercourse and say "it's not working", dress up back and leave. No way I wait until he finishes or something. We're two at tango or I go.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/07/20 11:36 PM
19	"Friends with Benefits" will NEVER turn into "something more" Can we just stop with the all "free / unpaid prostitution" when women have sex outside of a seriously relationship ? Now, selling sex against commitment is more likely a form of prostitution than the lady that has sex for her pleasure without wanting to belong to a man. The advice better be something like "don't get into FWB if you're actually interested by a serious relationship".	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/07/20 07:37 PM
63	Men will do whatever it takes to get in your pants. NEVER sleep with them before you get commitment! But are you having sex for YOUR sexual pleasure or to reward a man that wants you for a relationship ? I never "give" men my pussy, I wipe it on their face if I'm horny. I get that the advice here is that men will ended up showing their true colours so wait until have sex, but most are going to be nice as fuck and lie to you until they get you, even if they have to wait months. Meanwhile, they just chase other women. And once again, are you having sex because you want to, or to reward a good man…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/07/20 06:47 PM
5	Don’t settle, you’re doing just fine. She's trash and has always been.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/07/20 08:53 PM
7	Man cheats on woman, publishes it in a pathetic attempt to get her back & scrotes in the comments going “You REAL for that bro! Get her back!” If it was the other way around, theyd call her a hoe & the man a simp. double standards on display right here, folks. "Losing you is not an option" is what an abuser would say.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/07/20 11:34 AM
19	I want to have good sex at least once in my life. Well, I don't want waste my time or get emotionally attached before I really know how he is in bed. And men will tell you in dates that they love eating pussy and blabla and when you do have sex with them you realize it was lies. And I more into having sex if I desire to, rather than waiting the supposedly "right time". But you do you ! I'm not judging.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/07/20 07:54 PM
32	I want to have good sex at least once in my life. This is why I don't wait long before having sex, if the guy is bad at it, then I'm not gonna commit to him and have a bad sex life. And I want a man that doesn't need sex ed class to make me cum. I'm not a teacher.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/07/20 04:37 PM
46	I’d rather be single forever. Who the heck would ever want this life?! Well, actually the dominant partner is supposed to take care of the submissive one, but surprisingly (lol not) woman always have to take care of the man, doesn't matter if she's the dom or sub.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/07/20 04:30 PM
13	A Simple Exercise for Objectively Evaluating Men It's an example from her preferences, nothing more I'm sure.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/07/20 09:48 AM
12	A Simple Exercise for Objectively Evaluating Men That's so right. Just a few days I dumbed my ex and block his contact number, it was hard considering it's pretty rare I find a man attractive like he is, but his behaviour was straight up manipulative.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/07/20 09:45 AM
9	reddit is obsessed with spreading this narrative that women are afraid to age compared to men lol I saw the post and the top comments were women saying JLo doesn't need Photoshop and that she is stunning in the real picture 🤷	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/07/20 10:52 AM
10	“Do you have Snapchat?” - Boy bye. Well, I actually do haha. The only social media I share with my friends and family, useful to send plenty photos of my cats to my mom. 🤷 But I understand that may be a red flag for some, now from my experience, men ask for nudes or every platform possible.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/07/20 02:21 PM
6	Men hate women so much they hate other men for not hating women. So.. most women only love intimacy aka sex to please men ? Sounds like you're saying women are not sexual beings, have no desire. Of course, lots of women have sex because they have to more than they want to, and it's a problem, but let's not fall into the misogynistic mind of "women are not sexual beings, they're just romantic and emotional blabla".	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/07/20 03:53 AM
30	Men hate women so much they hate other men for not hating women. I agree but it's hard to convince people to give up on love and intimacy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/07/20 09:15 PM
1	I’m speechless True.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/07/20 12:54 PM
2	An unpopular truth all girls should know: if you are considering casual encounters, only go for the hottest guys Amen ! 🙌♥️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/06/20 10:06 PM
31	Two brothers see a woman paying for gas with pennies, and give her money from their pockets. They had no idea that her husband had just died and she was struggling. I always find it weird when it's filmed. Before I do something good, I don't ask myself if I should record it and then put it online or not	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/06/20 05:50 AM
20	Ladies, the bar continues to be so deep beneath the floor that it is in Hell Even when I didn't want be in relationship with a man and was looking for casual only, I still had high expectations when it comes to respect and attitude. So, I guess only desesperate pickme could be interested by him, especially those who think you can change a man with love and sex.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/06/20 07:29 PM
24	Nothing but truth Nah, the thing is that men shame women that refuse to have sex with them. If she's "prude" then they may think she's traditional or something, but a woman that has/had a lot of partners and tell them no is the most offensive think they can experience for their fragile masculinity.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/05/20 10:59 PM
26	So many women are in relationships where they are just thankful the man doesn’t hit them, control them, rape them or cheat on them. That’s how low the bar is for men. It's the same bar for fathers. Even if there are not much in the picture, not helpful or anything, we're thankfull if the dad do not sexually abuse his kids.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/05/20 09:52 AM
46	Man loses respect for a woman because her feces was on his finger after her put his finger in her ass Or if they want to do that, they should expect that kind of thing to happen.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/05/20 12:11 PM
40	Doing my best to internalize this when reminiscing of how 'nice' they are in the beginning. So true it hurts 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/05/20 07:56 AM
12	So proud of women for not settling for less! Great he's honest, it's the bare minimum, yet a lot of men lie on what they want only to get laid.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/05/20 11:00 AM