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My problem is that I cant adjust the amount of beta I am supposed to be. I dont know which behavior is too beta and which one is to aloof and cold.
/r/askMRP28/11/18 03:27 PM
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I'm not really sure what you mean by "use dread" on her. Dread is something that should be constantly running in the background as the result of being a high value man with a busy life and abundant mindset. Don't be a try-hard faggot that feels like you always have to show her that you can get other women. If you truly are the prize, she'll feel that and adjust her behavior accordingly. Deliberately making her jealous is totally unnecessary if she's doing her part, and it reeks of desperation. I…
/r/askMRP28/11/18 03:26 PM
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I did. Not completely, but I have been lurking and reading for a year. All I can find is advice for plating or advice for dead bedrooms. Not so much about simple LTRs.
/r/askMRP28/11/18 03:14 PM
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I did read that. As I said, I keep myself busy and lift. I sometimes act mysterious. I dress well. But I am not openly gaming other women. For example I have bought a nice shirt recently when we were both shopping. She kind of got curious and asked me when I am planning to wear it. She generally thinks I am a high value man. I dont really give off an unexperienced vibe.
/r/askMRP28/11/18 03:11 PM
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6 months of lifting is not enough to cut and and show off your muscles. Try to lean bulk after summer so you dont gain too much weight until your next cut.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 06:45 AM
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Yeah, but after you made your progress and heavily increased your SMV, you will find many more chicks and will come to the conclusion that your ex wasnt anything special. After approaching and dating a lot of girls you will realize that you can just hit up any woman you like and will develop an abundance mentality. I mean most of the people on this subreddit are here because they had oneitis and got their hearts crushed.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 08:26 AM
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She just texted me in WhatsApp with "here is my number :D" It just came of wrong. I didn't do it to puss out I gave her my number because she was complaining because Instagram is not working out. But ill remember in the future.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 04:49 PM
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Should have asked her out without the logistics and then ask her for her number and settle things there, you are right, but now what's the comeback?
/r/askTRP05/07/18 04:26 PM
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I get the problem but whats the comeback my dude
/r/askTRP05/07/18 04:25 PM
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Dont know guess you have to burn your fingers before you can learn out of it.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 04:21 PM
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I already set up the logistics on instagram. When and where. She said ok. Thats why it's weird for me.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 04:10 PM
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So she is telling me Ask me for my number and I ask her for her number because she wants it like that? Isnt that also entering her frame?
/r/askTRP05/07/18 04:09 PM
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Its called humble bragging
/r/askTRP26/06/18 08:35 AM
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I have a friend like that. She shit tests like crazy. She had this guy which she openly called fag and stuff. He was persistent and got a date but the drama is not worth it. Its like a protective barrier which you have to breach but in the end you will get the same as with any other chick. So why bother?
/r/askTRP25/06/18 12:42 PM
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this
/r/askTRP21/06/18 11:58 AM
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lol
/r/askTRP21/06/18 08:08 AM
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Its a shit test. Apply rape.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 08:00 AM
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Thanks, you are being a big help. I think she is def into me. We had a conversation before and I intentionally let it end with a short reply. I am mainly using her for experiments, because she is a disposable instagram chick, but I am still trying to score. She reinitiated the convo yesterday and I hope I didnt fuck up with the sarcasm today.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 02:51 PM
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Thats my problem. I am busy this weekend. My plan was to reply her a couple of times with long reply times and then come up with something like "lets just discuss that stuff in person with a coffee sometime."
/r/askTRP20/06/18 02:34 PM
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Got you. What do you think is the best way to continue? I am planning on not replying for a couple of hours (she wont feel like I do this to dodge her, because I always took my time replying) and just change topic and act like nothing happened. I dont even know if she is actually mad because it is hard to translate what she said. Her response was more like "Yes, it is ok." than "Yeah, whatever." Could also be like an annoyed way to say ok, lets just switch the subject.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 01:52 PM
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Isnt sarcasm somewhat part of teasing? I mean you use it for A&A or to disqualify.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 01:40 PM
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Thank you for your advice. Stripper seems more unrealistic than janitor to me. But you are right. It is propably also hard to realize via text that I am being sarcasting than telling her the same thing in person with a smirk in my face.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 01:28 PM
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this.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 09:14 AM
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where do I find those archive links?
/r/askTRP20/06/18 07:59 AM
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Bro, dont worry, you are not going to have to marry her against your will. Just see where it goes. If you try to befriend her without making moves, she will definately use you as a validation source, just saying. She is nothing special. Just your chance to jump in the cold water and get used to the whole thing. I think it will help you with your depression because you will feel like you are going forward in life.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 06:47 AM
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Just do it bro. But dont go in thinking maybe she is the woman of your dreams. See her as an opportunity for experience and to learn "the ways of a woman". I dont think you are ready for a relationship.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 02:43 PM
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Yeah, just confusing and weird to react to.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 04:41 PM
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Could be true. She always was flirty but my coworker found out she had a boyfriend. Propabyl was checking if she couldnbranxh swing or trying to attract a new orbiter. But I've seen the same behavior on other women too.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 04:41 PM
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Does it count when you start somewhat warm and you work your way up to cold ?
/r/askTRP14/06/18 12:39 PM
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The way I handled this situation in the past is: I try to part ways first so I dont have to deal with his bullshit and see him again. If option one is not possible then I confront him and tell him straight to the point that his behavior is pissing me of and I feel tested and disrespected. And if he doesnt change his behavior we will have to settle this differently. Dont tell him in front of the others though. Ask if you can speak eye to eye for a minute. My line was something like "Why do you ke…
/r/askTRP11/06/18 10:00 AM
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Useful female friends: The ones that are good company and dont use you as a emotional tampon. The ones that cook for you and you can use for preselection for example. You don't. You set your boundaries for yourself. If a woman does not fit into them you would not promote her to commited relationship in the first place. This was helpful thanks
/r/askTRP29/05/18 11:10 AM
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Depends on what you mean with getting hit on. If you mean women approaching you then then be around them and be busy with shit not giving a fuck. She has to be interested obviously but that worked for me for example at the gym or at clubs. If you want them to beg you to hang out then flirt with them and then ignore them.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 08:50 AM
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Allright, thanks dude.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 09:25 AM
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So there is no fitting approach like playing it cool for 2-3 weeks? Just ask her when interested?
/r/askTRP28/05/18 09:18 AM
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So they wouldn't care? Hard to believe when you think about the opposite which would make me more desirable because of preselection.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 09:19 AM
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Kind of this. A friend of mine got nudes from a russian MILF because he wasn't sure about meeting her and she tried to convince him like that.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 01:13 PM
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maybe shes playing hard to get or other games I'd meet with other chicks and when she contacts you, you can try again or not.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 08:45 AM
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