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lazy1121/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 10:53 AM
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It really depends on what you are searching: You want to have a hookup? As long as you are handsome women won't mind You want to have a relationship? Most women will refuse because you are too old for them. About looking predatory, yeah you will receive some nasty comment, also because of peer pressure most women tend to refuse advance from older guys even if they are interested (they think "what my girl friends will think of me if i accept the offer of this 32 guy?") so my advice is that you sh…
/r/seduction01/06/22 05:02 PM
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Hi, fellow italian here You sound like you are not happy with your life. You are waisting money with your theraphist, he cannot solve this problem. Let me ask those question: -Do you have have a job? If yes do you like it? -Are you happy living with your family instead of living alone? -Do you consider yourself happy now? Also for the last part: "I have no drive in taking girls out for a date, struggling with their shit tests and their riddles to get their attentions and maybe reach the sexual p…
/r/seduction29/05/22 01:16 PM
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I might even say personality is tertiary, with wealth/status being secondary. As a rich 28 year old ugly dude i say that wealth is almost on par with looks. Personality is important only when you are in search of LTR. After all who cares about your personality, your ideology... when both of you just want to fuck? Most people over here confuse personality with the ability to seduce a person (example you can know how to treat well a woman to a date but still be a misogynistic douchebag). Having mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:19 AM
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The person doesn’t owe you an explanation on what you did wrong though. It’s not their job to be your dating coach. Yes, but it still would be the "adult thing" to do. Ghosting is childish and just show that the person you were dating is immature and can't express their needs. You don't even need to give him (or her) an explanation, just saying "sorry i don't think we are compatible" is enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 01:21 PM
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what if they are both under 25? Like a 24 and a 18 year old or a 20 year old with a 16 year old. Would these relationship be okay in your eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 02:49 PM
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Can you explain what "beta bux" means? Anyway yes i know that most of them were not dating me for my physichal appereance but mainly because of my social status. Still i always clarify on the first (or second) date that i'm not looking for anything other than casual sex. Some of them ghost me, some of them try to "seduce me"( by trying to gatekeeping sex) and some of them are fine with only have a casual relationship. I believe that out of every 10 women that i date i manage to have sex with may…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 06:24 PM
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same attractiveness level In my experience no. I've dated with many women out of my league. I'm a doctor who is at the moment is going for a phd, i also invest and own many properties that i rent. I'm a 5/10 (in this scale 6 is average) Thing is while men consider primarily looks, women tend to consider more financial stability and social status, even if it is only for a hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:46 PM
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it's very easy to get to 20 bodies if you're an attractive woman. Even if you are average. Tinder has 75 million users, of which 78,1% are men, and 21,9% are women. There are 5 men for every woman on tinder so the competition is brutal. The top 10-20% of men get most of the like while the remaining ones basically accept every woman that likes them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:48 PM
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you are a 32 year old going after 18 and 19 year old girl. That's a bit creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:41 PM
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Personally, dating women in their 30s has been waaaaay more fulfilling. They can cut through a lot of the wishywashiness quicker so you get your answers that much faster I'm 28 and i couldn't agree more. They are far more experienced and also there is a lot less drama. I don't understand why this sub is so fixed on having sex with girls below the age of 25.
/r/seduction29/03/22 08:12 AM
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Can you list what are your standard? Also how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 03:39 AM
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Approaching is only acceptable is social settings like a bar or party. As someone who has done lots of cold approach (I've tried talking to something like 200 women) i disagree. Most of my approaches are done in casual context such as: grocery stores, shopping mall, bus stops... . Generally i like to do cold approach near coffe shops so that i can invite women to take a coffee at my expenses. I view him as an annoyance immediately From at least my experience it depends on how the men behave: i n…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:55 PM
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Why doctors?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 06:49 PM
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Confidence is a thing you develop over time. I'm 28, i have lost my verginity at 23. Now i have been with almost 50 different women. The main difference between 23 y.o. me and 28 y.o. is that now i have more confidence in myself. To build confidence you need two things: - Approach as many girl as you can: this will help your confidence in the long run - Find something that makes you proud: to me it's my job (i'm a doctor who is going for a phd), my ability in judo and taekwondo (i'm aspiring to …
/r/seduction15/03/22 08:51 PM
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west europa out of curiosity where are you from? I am from south Italy and generally girls here are free to date whoever they want
/r/seduction14/03/22 08:54 AM
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Are you interested in a serious relationship or just in ONS? Either way i advise you to not lie, you just need to search for girls that like older guys.
/r/seduction14/03/22 08:53 AM
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The woman in the post is delusional. If you looks in her comment history she wrote about her ideal partner: 6 feet or above (she is 5 feet) psychically attractive (she even wrote, check her comment history, that physical attraction is more important than personality for her) well paid job (she makes 6 figure alone and wants someone who makes as much or more than her) willing to start a family and have children (and no she doesn't want to date single dads) She is not interested in sex I really ho…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/22 02:44 PM
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my girlfriend’s mom was shocked to learn that I moved out on my own permanently at 23, because it’s rare that a 23 year old can be self supporting in South America. It's more because it's convenient. I've been financially independent since i was 24 but i lived with my parents until i was 26 because i wanted to save money to start investing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/22 07:48 AM
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Yeah Italy looks hardline trad outside of the cities. Italian here. It really depends where you are but generally the more you go south the more trad it gets.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/22 07:38 AM
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I would bet good money that those first three comments are from people who know nothing about real Italians and probably don’t know any Real italian here. Yes, they know nothing and are just being racist.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 05:52 AM
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The reason why the woman in the post can't find a good partner is simply because the "good" men (those who earn good money and are interested in a ltr) are already taken. I tried to explain that in the original post but got destroyed and called misogynist. Sincerely i do not care about the fact that you slept with 200 tourist, you are happy and living your life to the fullest. There is not wrong with that. What's wrong in the post is that she believe that she has no accountability for her action…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 05:52 AM
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i never said that people don't lie here. What i wanted to say is i don't lose anything by assuming what they say it's true. If they have to resort to stranger on the internet for validation they are really sad people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:20 PM
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So you re also the type of guy to get scammed multiple times and is a good target for it nah, because i never loan money to people. I personally think everyone is not to be trusted until they’ve proven they are trustworthy and I’ll tell you that shit works way better than your method Yeah i can see why you think that. My idea is i can offer you confort and empathy as long as you don't ask me for money or stuff. you probably sheltered though so I get it sooner or later you’ll learn the world isn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:17 PM
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? There is literally no way to know if someone is being honest lol Personally i assume that everyone it's honest until they are proven to be liars. Like why you even lie on reddit? what are you gonna gain from lying? useless karma points and?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:30 PM
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men teaching other men how to seduce women is deeply dumb considering that none of you ever talk to actual women about their experiences or likes & dislikes, yet you still feel confident to "teach" other men what to do. I disagree on this point. There are men who are clueless when it comes to dating, like they do not even know how to dress properly, how to read the atmosphere, how to flirt... . In those situation having a more experienced friend can help a lot. Women either hate being randomly a…
/r/seduction07/03/22 02:39 PM
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Wait you consider 40 to be low? God how many std do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:22 PM
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God you are so dumb that you can't even reply without insulting. You sound bitter that i'm right. "they’re not “mutually respecting” you enough for the “intimacy” part to come without any “financial stability” lmfao" and that's why i have a body-count of over 40. Seriously just shut up, you are just making yourself look like a clown
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:11 PM
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Have you ever been in a relationship? You sound like you don't know what you are talking about Financial stability is fundmental in a relationship, the same way intimacy, mutual trust and comunication are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:04 PM
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I think you are generalizing a bit too much. Why by default women offer more than men? I'm a man and i am wealthy. I can pay a woman to act as a surrogate if one day i want my own children. I can hire a maid if i want someone to clean my house (also i can clean myself). If i want emotional support i can go to friends or to my psychologist. Now since my partner will have same benefit that i've listed above would you say that i maybe offer more than what the average woman can offer? Or still women…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:52 PM
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To what capacity; They were just FWB, so they were just interested in casual sex. The most handsome guy i knew in residency had 5 FWB. knowingly, unknowingly or actually being into the polyamory thing? I do not consider to be poliamory, there was no love. I sincerely do not know how many FWB the two of them had. I think a lot of women might end up picking the latter in order to get good men now. I don't think so. Women don't like to share their bf with other girls. Also above the age of 25 most …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 02:35 PM
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True, from the post it sound like op does not have much experience with dating. When he says " She kinda follows me around the gym and so do I and I get this feeling like she’s trying to make me talk to her I just don’t know", how are you sure that she is following you and not just doing her exercise? Also it's strange: they make eye-contact all the time but she is on her phone during breaks? If i were op i would try and talk to her outside of the gym, even if she does not seem really interested…
/r/seduction05/03/22 06:41 AM
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Do you know if she is interested in something serious now or if she just wants to fuck? Either way if i was the guy i would appriciate her honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:40 AM
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No they simply: 1) have partner who are not in college 2) share the same men I'm not in college but i ve finished residency last year. In my experience women tend to prefer having FWB rather than actual relationship: medicine is a stressful field and relationship requires a lot of effort, so it is simply better for the women to just search for a FWB to have their need full-filled. I had 2 FWB last year that i saw weekly, but i also had a friend (really handsome) that had something like 5-6 FWB. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:28 AM
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I think, as people mature, many prefer regular sex with someone they love and trust over tons of crazy, adrenaline filled hook ups. Sex with someone you love is 100x times better than a casual hookup. As someone with many causal hookup i'm jealous of my best friend who has a stable, loving relationship with his long time partner. I have many times more his bodycount (i've had sex with more than 40 women while he has a body count of 3), am richer and have also way more liberty than him (he has a …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:54 PM
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Anything else IS her settling, in their minds lol. To me settling is when a woman marry a man only because she can't find better. Like she is not attracted to him and only wants him because he is the best she can get. Here an example of a woman settling for a guy: I told him if I knew his personality then sure but I wouldn’t have gone for him for him off the bat. He then says that if I saw his profile on Tinder I would have swiped left and not thought about it. I said sure if it was online just …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:36 PM
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only one of my friends had cheated on her s.o, but it was a one time mistake because they were in a bad place but he's trying harder now and they seem to be a bit better. Tell me you are a member of r/FemaleDatingStrategy without telling me you are a member of r/FemaleDatingStrategy . Seriously i already answered all of this here . Instead of rewriting the same thing again why you don't reply me there?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:21 PM
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Passionate romance and lust are rare In relationship where women settle down yes, in REAL relationship no. You (nor anybody, man or woman) gets treated with desire by default Which include moaning about them and not wanting to have sex with them sometimes Why you contradict yourself? If you desire me why you don't want to have sex with me? Men offer commitment in exchange for sex. If you don't give us sex it means that you are not desiring me and frankly i do prefer to be alone at this point. No…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:22 PM
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No wonder you are still single, no men want dedication. We want passion. We want to feel desired, we want you to tell us that you want to have sex. The reason we enter in relationship is because you offer sex in exchange for commitment. I could not care less about your "dedication", a good men is still a men and as such needs sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:53 PM
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they're not sexually attracted to, which is a huge factor behind so many relationship problems. EXACTLY, you nailed it. I find especially insulting when they tell me that they won't give me sex until marriage because "they are not young anymore, now they've matured". Then they complain when i leave them on the spot. It's incredible how many women think that just because i'm below average looking i should be honoured to settle with them. They do not offer anything except for bad sex. Good thing i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:23 PM
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It's gonna be vanilla starfish sex with little foreplay with him and she'll blame him for 'not exciting her enough' you perfectly summarised my problems with relationship. I'm a 27 y.o. doctor (also i own many properties that i rent) and needless to say i'm very rich. I get a lot of attention but only from women who wants to settle down. I know that they crave me only because of my job but still i make the most of it. I had more sex in last 2 year than in the first 25 year of my life. "It's gonn…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:45 AM
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You nailed it. Only thing i want to add is that most men are not stupid, they know their worth. I like this quote from Jordan Peterson "Young women are invaluable, older women are worthless. Young men are worthless, older men are invaluable"; this quote sums up dating: young women decide who they want to have sex with, old women have to accept a male partner. This is also why women over 30 y.o. have almost always no physical requirements (assuming that the partner is financially stable) for a ma…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/22 10:50 AM
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I couldn’t get any female attention in my 20’s. Me too, no matter how much i tried i was always rejected. I remember one time i asked out a "friend" of mine and her response was "I'm sorry but you are too nice for me, I'm not in search for a relationship now as i want to explore my sexuality. Maybe in a few years I'd be interested but for now let's just be friend ok?". Her words shattered my confidence, i started questioning myself and thinking: Am i really good only as a provider? She is seriou…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/22 01:50 PM
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So a woman could always lower her sky high standards and have sex with a less desirable option, therefore she wouldn’t be celibate, right? Out of curiosity: what are the standard of an average woman? Would you say the 666 rule (6 figure, 6 pack and 6 feet tall) is true?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:46 AM
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Also, I don't consider women who sleep around a lot as "hoes". Sex is a basic need like water and food. I disagree. It has even been shown by scientific studies that women with an high body count are more prone to cheat. I don't know if I'm an high value male but i would rather having a wife with no sexual experience rather than one more experienced than me but that has slept with half the neighbourhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:39 AM
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Because she knows that she can't get a "chad". She is a fat single mom (probably has even more than 1 kid) that basically survive paycheck to paycheck. I'm a 27 y.o. doctor with many properties that i rent and the only match i get on tinder are with women like her. They bring nothing to the table and just fake interest into you with the hope that they can leech off you. Except that people like me have seen this script too many times (also most of them are really bad at faking interest) so they o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/22 05:56 AM
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I have NEVER gotten a match on tinder. It seems strange to me. How old are you? What's your job and your tinder bio? Usually people like you should be full with girl ready to hook up with you. Maybe you're a bit too picky? Out of 100 girls how many like you give?
/r/seduction11/02/22 08:33 PM
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Just go on tinder it's full of them. As a 5/10 dude (in my scale 6 is average looking) with a really nice job ( i'm a doctor and i own many property that i rent) 7-8 out of every 10 girl i match are single mom. Most of them are younger than me (i'm 27) and are only interested because of my financial situation. The trick is just to make them believe that they can use you: you date and fuck them but refuse to have a serious relationship with them. After a while they will understand the trick and w…
/r/seduction11/02/22 07:47 PM
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