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I mean, she's good at getting lots of sex from men, if you want to you can also get lots of sex from men. Don't be jealous just go get some dick for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 05:47 PM
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strange because there seems to be a lot of arguments here that hinge on totally subjective value judgements, vague generalisations and anecdotal evidence. If anything I want you to stick with facts
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 07:52 AM
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yeah the dick one is funny because even us men can get dick on demand. Go on Craigslist we can have a dick within an hour too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 04:30 PM
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He goes into stores and literally buys what the mannequin is wearing. It's really pathetic Wait you're not supposed to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 04:25 PM
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They said it as a direct contradiction to a statement that having sex with someone passed out drunk is rape
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 04:21 PM
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OK so put it this way, you get blackout drunk and pass-out on the sidewalk, someone is seen on cctv robbing your wallet, in your logic there would be no case for the wallet taker to answer in court? As for the drink driving a more apt analogy is you are sleeping off your drinks in the back of your car and someone drives into it, that's not your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 04:19 PM
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Drunk sex isn't rape, if you ask someone hwo is bevvied and theyre like hell yeah let's fuck big boy that's not a problem, it's a problem when they are too far gone to say no and that's being taken as some fucked up idea of consent
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 04:15 PM
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OK here's my challenge to your view. Everyone in this subreddit and its affiliates is wrong, knows nothing, fails at basic logic and is just generally chatting shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 04:07 PM
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Yeah but it's companionship almost entirely on the buyer's terms, an escort is providing a service, the escort's only wants and needs in that relationship are to get paid and some basic respect so the benefit to the buyer is that its going to be nice and they can't fuck it up by mistake
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 07:39 AM
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that doesnt give you a fetish lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 06:41 PM
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oh no not an orgy, wouldn't want one of those
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 05:03 PM
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as a man with sub kinks what a load of BS, vanilla monogamous dating is much easier than looking for a domme or anyone else to do your kink.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 04:59 PM
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Even then, people have a right to privacy and at the very least the chance to bring up the issue at an appropriate time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 10:49 AM
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Nobody deserves to be outed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 10:38 AM
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I want money, one of us has to get paid I don't care who
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 03:23 PM
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Sure but they better be lucrative dreams
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 06:44 PM
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You know you can bash one out without the porn right? Just take your seat at the imagination theatre
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 06:37 PM
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Nobody here even has any interest in an actual real life relationship or even casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 06:25 PM
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But it's bad advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 09:39 AM
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I wouldn't put it as a strategy for dating but hell yeah people should do what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 09:38 AM
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Yeah and it's salad, yuck
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 09:36 AM
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I dunno I'm unstable but also pretty boring
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 09:34 AM
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Well think about it youre suddenly a woman nobody knows by appearance in your house with all your stuff and the you everybody knows has gone missing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 12:58 PM
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Probably get arrested for trespassing and possibly on suspicion of my own murder
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 09:23 AM
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I mean, the true answer is "act like a normal woman" which kinda takes the fun out of it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 09:21 AM
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Cute lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 07:46 PM
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I understand all your simplistic arguments
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 07:12 PM
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subjective value, it works for who? everyone? or just those who win out of the equation? also diversity and democracy with a lilt of socialism hasn't met abysmal failure just yet, don't jump the gun
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 02:10 PM
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funny, they said the same thing about the right
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 01:53 PM
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I'm not sure how I lead you to believe I had such a thing. I don't, but you know they exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 01:44 PM
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quantity of quality from the looks of it, but fair point though I am very much not going to look at thousands of crappy articles to prove something we both already know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 01:27 PM
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okay well ill one line the actual argument then play your game, it's not relevant because it's not her responsibility as a feminist to make someone else stop being a shit, he should do that on his own time. argument to support the idea. Okay let's go into an assumption of the guy's mind. is he seeing it as a reward? I think most normal people when they get laid think they're just physically sexy and don't think much on their prior behaviour, would you disagree? ok now let's change scenario, as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 07:31 AM
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Biology says nothing, it just is. It is not some supreme arbiter of meaning or morality and no fact of biology makes someone responsible for anything but their own actions. sex is inherently intimate as long as you ignore all the occasions where it's clearly not. it's only hypocrisy if we accept that she is responsible for his actions by virtue of having sex with him, I'm still just not seeing the connection, she is not the one being sexist. judging by some of those sources we're taking a loose …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 07:12 AM
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you're not going to reach me with old ideas that don't follow logic I've said it 10 times because you keep trying to take me off my point with nonesense that is not even relevant to the premise of the thread, which I'm supposed to try and contradict in a point by point flame war style until I get one thing wrong and you use that to discredit me. It's a boring game You're trying to say it's cognitive dissonance because women are the gatekeepers of sex and yet she's banging some dude who is a sexi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 11:51 PM
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OK, there was much less analysis of her psyche than promised but no worries if she is against sexism then she will be against the idea of being a gatekeeper for sex or indeed accepting responsibility for the man's choice to be sexist, as far as intimacy goes that is a subjective value you have projected onto her It also needs to be said she will not have a single principle guiding all her actions people are complex and like I said it's not unheard of for women to get their own enjoyment out of s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 11:42 PM
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The result here is irrelevant because she is not responsible for his behaviour, and because healthy people don't have sex as some kind of strange reward structure for good behaviour outside of BDSM relationships also != just say the words it doesn't make you look clever
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 11:31 PM
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lol I'm not slow, you're just talking the usual nonesense this sub has circlejerked itself into believing is logical, it's all anecdotes and assumptions and gross generalisation. In this case the woman in question is having sex with someone she doesn't agree with because presumably it's good sex, that's not cognitive dissonance because she doesn't see sex as some kind of weird reward structure for being PC
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 11:27 PM
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Which isn't really relevant but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 09:07 PM
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I don't see how having sex with someone who is sexist runs against those principles, have you never shared a beer with someone whose extreme views don't sit well with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 08:55 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 08:39 PM
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Talking the most, saying the least
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 07:50 PM
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Oh well maybe next time you'll have a good point to make buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 07:37 PM
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or just yourself if it's good cock
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 06:25 PM
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no you're having sex with them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 05:21 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 03:21 PM
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It's possible but where's the fun in that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 02:26 PM
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Or maybe he's a douche but does good sexing to her
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 02:25 PM
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You can fuck someone and still think they're an asshole, like maybe he's well good at the sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 02:22 PM
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I got a chuckle out of it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 10:19 AM
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But you don't know that fish want to have sex with you, it's the perfect cover
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 10:18 AM
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Anyone who has ever jumped out from behind a corner at people for a laugh knows men scream too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 10:14 AM
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Usually because instead of giving advice theyre just slagging women off
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 10:09 AM
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Why are you in a sexually exclusive relationship with someone you don't want to have sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 12:24 PM
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I dunno I saw a thing on youtube where a guy did make up to make it look like he had a 6 pack
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 07:55 AM
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Putting everything on yourself might be practically useful but it's exhausting and demoralising and especially in the case of low self esteem just feeds self hatred
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 09:41 AM
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Why would that be a surprise? People don't get bitter and resentful for no reason
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 09:39 AM
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whooosh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 07:09 AM
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women don't go on reddit very much and more hate from men ends up here because it's not as socially viable for us to air our grievances on facebook or twitter
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 07:13 AM
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we don't have the technology yet to swap an x for a y or a y for an x. in terms of their genes they are still male or female
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 07:05 AM
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I think you don't know enough to make many bold claims. We know men are typically physically stronger and we know women have a baby oven. some other minor anatomical differences like the shape of the feet etc. and that's all we know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 07:03 AM
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For people that matter to me I try to treat them as well as possible and for everyone else I'll treat them nicely as long as it doesn't cost me anything
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 11:31 AM
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It's actually a good filter for bad sexual partners
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 11:28 AM
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Population down, productivity up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 11:26 AM
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The gym, then the bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 11:19 AM
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You are the one group who manage to not understand both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 11:16 AM
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Why should women lower their expectations instead of men stepping up to them? No way to make yourself taller They can do what they like it's just a good idea if they don't want to be alone
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 11:12 AM
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you're still saying "chase after someone who doesn't like you." Of course work on self but the real advice here is not to care too much if someone didn't like you, plenty of fish in the sea.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 05:19 PM
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because we already know the fast food industry is to blame
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 04:50 PM
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whats the alternative pretend to be someone she likes and have to put up an act for the relationship which is ultimately doomed to misery or failure because alongside pretending to be someone she's into you don't actually like this woman but have projected what you actually want in a partner onto her?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 04:47 PM
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you're probably a bit too pushy and attached but the rest seems like wild conjecture, the truth is it just comes across badly if you seem too clingy. And I mean, you can't possibly know her well enough to reasonably want to "do everything for her" you just have a crush and you need to stay in the real world if you want to get to know each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 04:44 PM
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fuck knows, the real question is why do you care if some assholes on the internet don't like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 04:30 PM
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well you have to consider why women go on tinder, it's not to actually find a match so they only engage when someone is surprisingly irresistably attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 08:27 AM
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people don't say what they mean because social pressures etc. don't worry women are totally checking out guys with a good body all the time you can see it at the gym as for your second paragraph isn't everyone like that? like ideally you'd be with a supermodel but the cute chubby neighbour is good enough. Anyone who says their partner is the most attractive person to them is lying, pair bonded, or incredibly lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 08:24 AM
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a lot of you would come out of the closet
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 08:16 AM
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probably, it is the youngest you will be as a proper adult, probably in the best shape of your life and probably in a good mood most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 08:16 AM
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what so whip it out basically?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 08:46 AM
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masturbate, eat ice cream, cry a little bit(which, now that I think about it pretty average Thursday for me) should be a riot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 08:41 AM
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between how unliklely that outcome is and the daily mail, Im guessing none of it really happened
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 08:38 AM
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it's whatever you type into the search bar, if you like hardcore anal gangbangs that's pretty much your decision
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 08:37 AM
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and people say romance is dead
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 08:35 AM
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yeah, we're in a thread discussing the flu, used to kill fairly regularly would be putting it mildly
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 08:27 AM
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you can laugh if you want, just fuck off and laugh on your own while i sleep it off
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 08:23 AM
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ahh fuck that was meant to say adultery lol well if you think the divorce law where you live is unfair wouldn't it be more direct just to fix that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 08:11 AM
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I shave the whole torso, that way I can pretend the lack of serious chest hair is a choice
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 08:41 PM
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UK bruv innit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 08:34 PM
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oh, yeah I meant the UK, like the article
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 07:39 PM
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my parents are split up but couldn't divorce for ages, maybe they just lied to me haha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 06:41 PM
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Im a Y chromasonal person, tough one, id be immensely curious to try out being a woman but id probably be too afraid of missing being a man. also would I be sexually attracted to men now? in terms of money I think it would need to be 6 figures to make it a no brainer
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 06:35 PM
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Trickle down puss-enomics ewww
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 06:29 PM
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that's an assumption though, theres no statistics to back it up due to the nature of both of these offences, it's hard to prove a sex crime and it's hard to prove a false allegation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 06:27 PM
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I feel like this is a determination for the courts to make and it logically must be true that a lot of rapists will not face justice for their crimes. However there are a lot of problems with moving the burden of proof, suppose you make it so accusation is believed, what happens when the smart rapist gets in first and accuses the victim of raping them? it actually becomes ludicrous anyone you have a problem with you can say the word and they go to jail, and they you. It would quickly descend int…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 06:20 PM
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it's a failing of education for general life, it teaches you that the best way to get on is to put your head down don't cause trouble and do as you're told, which gets you precisely nowhere in the real world thankfully the human brain has a defence mechanism that seems to be almost perfectly planned for this; teenage rebellion, hormones get teenagers to act out and start to learn how the system can be played and where it's best just to play ball.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 06:12 PM
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them too, id imagine theres a fair bit of overlap
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 06:07 PM
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either one party admits a made up fault because it wont affect division of assets and so fuck it who cares, or it takes ages to get a divorce through, I think at least a year of living seperately is required here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 06:05 PM
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The law already has a view on being an asshole: It's not a crime, any crimes committed when being an asshole are taken on their own merits, philandering and adultery (not bigotry wtf?!) are not crimes and so the law has no interest in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 06:01 PM
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yeah those people probably shouldn't be encouraged to get married
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 05:55 PM
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Well, that and currently it takes years to divorce even when both parties are pushing it and it bears mentioning that we have much more egalitarian and child focused family law and a reasonable limit on how much child support a parent is obligated to pay
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 05:54 PM
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But, you don't know that so it's surely a moot point?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 05:47 PM
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Let's be real women need to stop complaining, and men do too, seriously it's annoying don't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 08:14 AM
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I can imagine the donkey fucking is not a result of desperation to have sex with a human
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 07:57 AM
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probably just get a sex robot by then
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 07:43 AM
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like im going on a date with a real honest person being themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 07:41 AM
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Well I've lately been thinking about my past, and I feel like having another look with the experiences I have now has shown me new things I hadn't noticed at the time. You only learn as well as you can self analyse
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 10:18 AM
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Shit flavoured chocolate though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 10:12 AM
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Great at making shit up on the internet too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 10:10 AM
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Well looks, if they don't want to get to know me in the first place a really good personality isn't much use in that regard
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 10:08 AM
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I like orgasms, I know they are awesome, why would I not want my partner to have lots of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 07:56 AM
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"don't be a cunt" nobody likes an arsehole so just think what one would do and then don't do that. Superficial approval from someone else isn't worth my self respect
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 07:54 AM
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but I mean, why would you take out the rubbish when it's not full and it's cold outside?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 07:51 AM
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we wouldn't be here if that was the case
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 07:47 AM
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there's no such thing as men or women, just female humans and male humans, the difference is reproductive function and slightly different physiology to match everything else gender is purely vanity so for me anyone who feels like a woman is one, and also isn't because they don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 07:45 AM
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Neither did I.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 09:08 AM
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0, but I can say the same for men doing that. But let me ask you, the heads of this company's legal and sales departments, are they by any chance men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 08:59 AM
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but that's the real skill involved, giving their clients the feeling of intimacy and validation even though they both know it's not exactly real.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 08:54 AM
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even if I disagree with quotas and overpromoting the underqualified for diversity women are still massively underrepresented in a lot of places so I'm not sure how you can call it matriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 08:46 AM
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you'd be surprised, you know people who do a thing for a living tend to be really good at the thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 08:39 AM
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actually a circle jerk might just be the answer to this problem
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 08:35 AM
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just bash one out I don't see why everyone makes a big deal out of it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 08:34 AM
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people enjoy being outraged, you think angry mobs would happen if it wasn't fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 07:17 AM
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not really weighing in either way, but how would one film disprove a whole trend?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 07:12 AM
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cheating requires dishonesty, if you are open about the fact you intend to bang everyone you want during the relationship it's not cheating, so similar for looking at naughty videos on the interwebs it would only be cheating if you lied about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 07:07 AM
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our penises double as projectors, it's great for netflix
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 05:28 PM
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they are insurance policies and also a good source of replacement organs But seriously even if you're not leaning on them for care or financial support the emotional support network of a family in your old age is underrated, you can dote on your grandkids and wind up your children's partners for endless entertainment too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 05:26 PM
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who the fuck is going to support you when you're old and broke and shitting yourself? frankly it's just poor planning
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 05:23 PM
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yeah that makes sense then
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 05:14 PM
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so my partner would be minted and wouldn't want all of my free time? I'm not seeing a downside here
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 05:13 PM
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Then again, if she didn't insist on a prenup that saw her supported in a separation that's her own fault for not planning her career well enough
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 05:12 PM
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I mean, it's not like you can force your partner to go to work
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 05:07 PM
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all divorce is blameless, it is merely the end of a contract. This is kinda like quitting your job and expecting to still get a paycheck every month, obviously if they make you redundant theres compensation sometimes but that would usually be a one off payment rather than a lifetime obligation. Im not anti alimony in general but I think there has to be a firm date where you are on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 05:04 PM
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it's hard to get a job with a decades long gap in your CV
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 04:59 PM
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I mean, sure if it's planned and the stay at homer is actually giving something up to be there, but often they are just unemployed and it's really not like they gave up anything to parent their own child
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 04:56 PM
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I guess we aren't talking a polite approach here?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 04:51 PM
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Nah, I don't have a clone so nobody is good enough for me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 10:54 AM
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I dunno, isn't it more of a don't ask, don't get mentallity? You might just be the outlier who happens to have a thing for short fat guys
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 10:52 AM
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The nutter who made a toilet big enough for a person to fall in.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 10:45 AM
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I mean, it's just that being lectured is really annoying, like dude just fuck off I don't care if what I like is problematic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 04:55 PM
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probably depends if they are an actual feminist or just an arsehole self identifying as one in an attempt to hide their sexist agenda
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 09:19 AM
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to be fair if someone walked up to me and started scratching at me Id be pretty pissed off about it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 09:13 AM
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Everyone being a drama queen in that sub as usual. She was rude and snapped at him, he was rude and sulked about it, most people in a relationship would not see that as something worth comment on it's own
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 03:59 PM
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x can't be more subjective value than y, it doesn't work like that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 03:39 PM
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For as much as they whinge about it, young people thrive off drama and bullshit. It makes them feel important
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 09:53 AM
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We'll see
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 01:55 PM
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Lol I did? News to me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 01:55 PM
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I mean 50/50 ought to be the average
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 01:05 PM
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It might be a yes, but I'm gonna take it as a no because I want to hear her say she wants it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 11:53 AM
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Only way she's ever going to learn about healthy consent is if people take no as a no.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 10:51 AM
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I'm going to take that as a no and disengage. we can play when she wants to be an adult about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 10:47 AM
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Yeah maybe I phrased this badly, I meant purely in the sense of companionship and emotional approval. It makes sense in the context of the comment I replied to
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 10:43 AM
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I haven't even started trolling yet...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 09:38 AM
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Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 09:31 AM
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It's really not, even if it were true psychopath is just a description of someone detatched from conventional morality and emotional empathy, but im actually not that so it's of no concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 09:24 AM
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The tribe who lost 80% of it's men is getting the other 20% of them killed in short order and then 100% of their women taken into the other tribe, meaning they have 120% reproductive capacity. it's a terrible hypothetical anyway though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 08:48 AM
0

to be fair it's not like you should care what the other half thinks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 08:27 AM
1

being able to live a satisfying and fulfilling life without depending on(depending on not including) anyone else to feel good is not psychopathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 08:27 AM
1

you're on the internet talking about gender politics buddy, none of us are normal or average at all
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 08:23 AM
1

to be fair it is hard to be super romantic towards someone you haven't even met yet
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 08:21 AM
0

that's actually still a long way off, men are still massively over represented in pretty much every government
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 08:18 AM
3

Yeah, well my friend Suzuki is a car, beat that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 06:19 AM
4

some sort of crippling injury or disease, death by immolation, I dunno theres a lot of bad but unlikely horrible shit that could possibly happen
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 06:01 AM
1

Nope that's just your average internet user. IRL we tend to just get on with it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 03:33 PM
4

Sure, just not as lovers partners or dependents. Is that so bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 03:29 PM
1

Lol stupid people are stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 03:27 PM
1

only that theres a more efficient way to arrive at being more attractive, there is a lot of counter productive ideas in TRP like the misogyny. A purely utilitarian outlook hasn't got time to spend criticising how terribly inconsiderate the fish are for trying to not get caught Hit the gym, dress well, make more money, practice speaking to people, stop being a doormat. Cut the crap that's all you need to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 07:06 PM
1

Yep, it's relatively consequence free pleasure what's not to like?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 10:54 AM
3

To be fair everyone thinks their boss is an arsehole
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 10:47 AM
1

Man spreading is bad but there's always that woman on the train who needs a seat for her bag
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 08:33 AM
1

Also it gives the impression that not hearing no means yes To answer though I guess it depends what he actually did
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 01:58 PM
2

They didn't band together in some conspiracy, they just took the leadership roles because they wanted to and either the women didn't or couldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 01:56 PM
0

Its a play on your name, because rather than saying harsh things you are clearly making shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 02:26 PM
0

The early plot is loosely based on the original BBC series The Office, where Jim(or Tim in the UK one) is a much less pathetic character
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 02:23 PM
1

I've been fat and I've been slim, it has a huge effect on your face
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 02:17 PM
1

if it aint broke don't fix it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 08:20 AM
0

are you u/makes_shit_up 's alt?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 08:16 AM
0

or, you know, people who spend a lot of time in the gym tend to end up with really sexy bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 08:14 AM
1

So do you just believe every bold claim about sex on the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 08:12 AM
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I think of it like a boxing match. If they haven't specifically agreed to a boxing match you shouldn't punch your opponent. If mid round your opponent looks like they aren't responsive and has stopped trying to punch you you should stop punching them An adult cannot have a real boxing match with a child If you agree to boxing that doesn't mean you are ok with it escalating to MMA If they throw in the towel the fight is over, you can't just get 3 or 4 more punches in just to satisfy your boxing n…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 08:06 AM
1

Then you should know BDSM without consent is just abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 07:40 AM
0

whatever man, justify your sexual abuse however you like theres nothing else to say
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 12:35 PM
1

Whatever helps you feel better about raping people haha. I know there is in my country, not 100% on the US but if there isn't that's fucked if rape is legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 11:52 AM
1

No, I can't be bothered. You win by laziness if you feel good about that but it's still rape
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 11:46 AM
1

Sex acts that are not consensual are rape. I really shouldn't need to quote that for you. All you're doing is proving the feminists right about rape culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 11:17 AM
1

If the nature of the sex act is different to the one they consented to its non consensual. Or rape to keep it succinct
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 10:51 AM
1

I mean, I'm pretty sure they don't want to be raped, certainly seems to be a prevailing theme lately
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 07:03 AM
1

she consented to one sex act, another was done to her. literally rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 07:01 AM
1

To be fair getting laid is usually the least far fetched part of these tall tales
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 07:48 PM
1

Not saying no isn't consent, it never was consent and it never will be consent. Stop trying to hide rape behind some nonesense definition of if they don't say no it's fair game. Engaging in a sex act fundamentally different to the one your partner consented to is rape. That's the law It's black and white here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 07:12 PM
1

Call it what you like, she didn't consent to rough sex and he did it anyway. That's what I call rape. The poi to of my analogy is that you can't just assume someone wants rough sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 01:35 PM
1

A bit rough doesn't include choking and hitting your partner. And actually I'm not sure it is reasonable without some kind of prior discussion. The point here is she didn't get the chance to express discomfort he just went and did it. Right put it this way if I just pin someone down that I met in the street and start fucking them it's rape even if they are too scared to say no, even if they later decided they were alright with it because they somehow had a good time it would still have been rape…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 11:58 AM
1

Im not playing this game, ladies if you're interested just go and say hi, cut the bullshit nobody finds it sexy, and if you don't want to be approached that's great I'll totally leave you alone and enjoy my drink but FOR THE LOVE OF GOD PLEASE STOP TRYING TO MAKE EYE CONTACT WITH ME WHEN IT'S CLEAR I DON'T WANT TO MAKE THE FIRST MOVE!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 07:44 AM
2

if you like schadenfreude surely a rapist getting called out is something you'd enjoy?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 07:38 AM
2

im not sure how calling women children really makes raping them any better
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 07:23 AM
1

right, how can you consent to something you wouldn't reasonably expect? especially important here is the violent aspect, if someone starts getting violent and you weren't expecting it then being afraid of escalation is understandable and doesn't count as consent You people always say "oh well why don't you communicate?" has it not occurred to you that maybe if you want rough sex with someone you should I dunno ask them if they are cool with that? Now you're gonna come back wit some idea that ask…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 07:12 AM
2

The trick is as a man to make sure you make 3 or 4 babies, at least 2 will be yours and there's probably some man raising your other 2 kids with your slice on the side so if you think about this it balances out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 12:42 PM
1

The thing about biology though is it doesn't care if you trust the person you got DNA from. Also aside from having or not having sex there is no choice in the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 12:35 PM
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Consenting to sex isn't consenting to rough sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 12:25 PM
13

the thing is choking, slapping is violent though, someone suddenly getting aggressive without even talking about it when you thought you were just having sex would reasonably terrify anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 12:22 PM
3

Largely because of the weird shit they say
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 11:43 AM
1

Also men with a low sex drive. They do exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 01:03 PM
2

Everyone expects way too much from a partner, and resents having to settle resulting in partners just being shitty to each other
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 12:58 PM
1

We can reduce violence but I believe it will always be there, same for domestic violence and sexual violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 12:48 PM
3

It's just lazy frankly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 12:46 PM
2

Murder everyone you are ever alone with
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 12:43 PM
1

Easily solved. Send the little scamps to play outside.....then move house
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 08:24 PM
1

Honestly drawing a RP like sweeping conclusion I'd have to say you'd get the impression women are only attracted to dirty lazy unemployed slobs the way it's presented
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 08:21 PM
1

Makes me think you're just looking for excuses to see a prostitute. Really? In a thread asking why men use prostitution? What a surprise
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 11:55 AM
1

Well balancing that strength and power against the need to run from predators and towards prey
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 11:47 AM
1

Yeah if you care so much a bout trafficking maybe fund police so they can do something about it? No, no let's just make it illegal and we can go back to sweeping the issue under the rug. The places with the forethought to consider legalisation are also the ones who give enough of a fuck to record proper statistics about it. Besides, the best argument in favour of legalisation is that whenever asked the actual sex workers themselves seem to be in favour of it. The anti argument comes from a patro…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 05:27 PM
1

People need love or they go crazy and kill themselves and others. like in the olden days, look I'm not saying it was a better system but it did work enough for humanity to continue existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 11:44 PM
1

Yeah but men can just force women to have their kids if it came down to it like in the olden days, force beats pretty much everything else in practical terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 06:46 PM
1

Everyone loses that one. Whichever side wins the war successfully dooms humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 06:42 PM
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Even if it's not sexual assault, you don't want someone in that position who is looking for sex with the students
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 10:56 AM
1

If describing the problem is a valid solution then I'm a world class doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 08:41 AM
3

And the rest of you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 12:17 PM
1

If that's the best compliment I have for someone they might as well be an object.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 01:57 PM
2

We're getting into findomme territory here, its a kink some men are aroused by the act of handing money over to a hot woman
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 01:39 PM
2

Yes, but think about it nobody is legally entitled to half of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 10:13 AM
1

Can only answer for myself. I know how I could make myself more attractive. I can't be bothered though I'm not that fussed about finding a partner. As for sexual selection being attractive to women was irrelevant until very recently because marriages were arranged and women had no right to choose, and when they had a choice they had to consider whether their partner will provide for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 01:20 PM
3

Dunno why you care what her exes got, if you're not getting what you want end the relationship, if you are great.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 01:14 PM
1

Probably bash one out
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 02:44 PM
1

The UK case hinged on the sex act being fundamentally different to what the victim consented to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 10:48 AM
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IIRC the deception has to pertain to the nature of the sex act, or as you say literally pretending to be someone else who is an actual real person. That sounds like activism rather than a legal case that has merit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 10:44 AM
1

They're just tools, use them however you like. That the tools are shit tools that don't work is besides the point
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 01:22 PM
1

Yeah they're alright ya know. Seem like decent people for the most part
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/17 10:44 AM
1

For me it's way more simple, Im lazy and cannot be arsed to jump through hoops. Why those hoops exist is irrelevant to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/17 10:41 AM
2

I mean, if you wouldn't date a porn user that leaves you to go gay, date a liar or get some cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/17 10:35 AM
1

Well I guess maybe if we were rockstars we would be thinking our lives had been well spent
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 02:26 PM
3

I'm 27, 28 this year so I'll take 80 but ask me that 10 years ago lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 01:27 PM
5

Meaningful, the term used before the realization that everything you could possibly do is ultimately futile, you will die, your achievements will fade and all life is ultimately doomed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 09:27 AM
2

Usually "I'm great and everyone else sucks" is the general meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 09:21 AM
2

Who cares? if you wanna fuck a trans person and there's consent I say go for it and let sociologists think about labels
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 11:30 AM
1

I say this as a boob man, but they are a secondary sexual characteristic supposed to look like a great ass, and only came about because humans like face to face fucking
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 01:10 PM
3

Well, you could always pay for the children you choose to have? That said I start from a position that we shouldn't allow anyone to be a parent unless they can prove they have a viable plan to support their offspring so maybe I'm just cold hearted about it. Also you say your responsibility but that's not accurate if someone else is paying the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 09:37 AM
1

Lol they're both making shit up, it's just a matter of what they think will impress their contemporaries
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/17 10:25 AM
1

Well you can't really know the figures just like with rape because it's one person's word against another most of the time, we assume it's probably not widespread but there's really no way to tell
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 09:43 AM
2

People don't get more interesting as they get older, they have stories to tell from living life. If their life has consisted of getting drunk and partying they won't be interesting when they're too old to party
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 09:18 PM
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Not sure it's about promiscuity so much as failure to develop character. She's not done enough besides partying to become interesting, and she's not getting younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/17 01:49 PM
0

I dunno, maybe? Assholes tend to be confident, might just be that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/17 03:34 PM
1

If you're not up for a long debate it's best just to ignore those types
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 06:34 AM
1

can't think of many religions that aren't blatantly sexist
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 06:29 AM
2

no you're thinking of Fascionism
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 06:28 AM
2

To what end? Your children will die, your achievements will be destroyed by time, humanity and all life will go extinct. Society is a meaningless monument to futile survivalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 03:27 PM
1

Yeah but that's bullshit isn't it? The term ends up being used at anyone they dont like the look of
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 12:48 PM
1

You're not accounting for the women only swiping for validation who will never talk to you, or all 6 of them to put it another way
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 11:35 AM
1

Got no time for it, got no interest in propping up a false abundance mentality in obese women. Probably works but I can't be arsed with the bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 11:30 AM
1

Probably not, but you can't hide from people saying nasty things all your life
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 10:53 AM
2

I'd say it's just harder to get women to have sex with you no matter who you are, women who like men can get laid with relative ease but women who like women end up turning to porn to satisfy their libidos
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 06:28 AM
3

If you say so lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 10:28 AM
3

I've seen statistics that both confirm this and say the opposite from reliable sources. Give or take it doesn't seem to make any difference
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 09:50 AM
1

but they can't sell their bodies, that's a thing what they're doing with their body that you think they shouldn't be allowed to do
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 09:05 AM
3

I can imagine Sweden putting actual resources and money behind enforcing the law on trafficking though, a lot of places are more interested in sweeping the problem under the rug
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 09:02 AM
1

well you say that but trafficking doesn't happen less when you ban sex work, similarly the harm from drugs to society is greater when we try to control them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 08:57 AM
1

Not misandry, misogyny. The implication is that women don't have agency to make life decisions that voters don't approve of, women have a certain role to play in society as paragons of virtue and should apparently just stick to that and nothing else whether they like it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 08:54 AM
2

So many value judgements going around here, the things you like and enjoy are highly subjective. For example I agree about videogame spectating being boring but for me live music is boring as fuck too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 08:36 AM
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Value judgement, and i hope you're not saying this as someone who drinks alcohol regularly, eats fast food, smokes, or is an avid fan of watching other people play sports. Everyone is critical of all the vices but their own is a different story That said, anyone who wants to impress with their mad gaming skillz is gonna have to get there early because the kind of twitch like reactions needed to make it look good are the first thing to deteriorate as you get older, something like sport you can im…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 08:31 AM
1

There's nothing "wrong" with it, just different value judgements on time well spent
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 07:14 PM
1

Climbed a rock face once, own a nice car, my family has a bona fide gin palace and i have a fear of flying. Still on a wet Wednesday it costs 0 effort to fire up the ole console and be having fun within a minute
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 07:04 PM
1

lol I mean seriously am I the only one playing videogames for fun and an easy thrill?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 06:40 PM
2

if you're not having fun at all why the fuck are you even talking to these people whose company you dont enjoy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 06:39 PM
2

Yeah, why do you tolerate these toxic people who shit test you and expect you to perform and have an endless amount of drama? it leads you to this ludicrous conclusion that all women are like that when in reality you just pick the wrong ones and then tolerate their BS because you have low self esteem. This bullshit about taking control and being dominant seems to fly in the face of an inability to simply tell someone to fuck off when they are clearly crossing the line. I have to ask, when you pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 06:35 PM
1

Well I'm not here to teach you how to do it why not? that would be closer to good advice than discussing key components How is that any different from what I said? I said it's not what you say as much as how you say it. Your response was its more simple and nuanced because its not what you say its how you say it?? Huh? you put a lot of waffle into why you say the thing you do and the effect it has, and FA into when and how. Should call my business school and ask for my money back for that fake d…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 06:23 PM
1

Then stop buying your own bullshit and try again
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 02:02 PM
1

One of those things that's illegal on papaer for the moral outrage but practically nobody's gonna stop you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 02:00 PM
1

Get over themselves and go socialise. Guaranteed they have barely scratched the surface with people they could get with
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 01:59 PM
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what about women who have been raped, abused, suffered acid attacks etc. I'm sure they will be pleased to know about the major inroads feminism is making against microagressions
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 06:20 AM
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Here you say it should be simpler and yet more nuanced with more specific timing? You know that nuance is the opposite of simple. but you didn't explain when to do it or how to put it across or when not to to it, you said say this because blah blah long explanation. The intelligence isn't what you say(which is simple) so much as when and how you say it(which is nuanced). Which is why we teach applicable concepts and not specifics. You can give specific examples of a concept, not specific answers…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 06:17 AM
1

Where do you live that the majority of attractive women are this negative? I'll make sure to leave it off my bucket list. Realistically most of your friends and family have some unsavory opinions or opinions you don't agree with. It's interesting how easily you would write that person off as an asshole based on one little comment. Especially something that was so easy to flip on her. I don't want to have to flip things on someone all the time, especially when I know full well there are so many o…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 06:01 AM
1

But it's typically not an exact line, more just the way in which you put across what you want to say. When I would ask a girl for her number, for example, I would almost always say it in the same way because it was innocuous and friendly. It was something along the lines of, "Hey we're having a lot of fun together. We HAVE to hang out again, give me your number!" Real nonsense, isn't it? In reality, I hit on a few key points that we are both enjoying each others company. I presented hanging out …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 05:10 PM
1

My advice if someone says "EW, that's GAY" to you is to have the self esteem to stop interacting with someone so negative. Plenty of attractive women that aren't assholes to go for Of course it's going to help, flirting isn't some special skill it's just an amicable joke around same as you would with the guy, be yourself but a yourself that is having a good time joking around with someone you find attractive. By not insult I mean don't actively try to insult her like TRP seems to think you shoul…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 03:09 PM
4

They tend to just get a cat instead of whingeing on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 11:29 AM
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No refractory period. No one minute wonders. No needy bs. Think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 01:17 PM
2

It's not a shit test though, it's flirting, the woman in question wants to joke around with you you're not passing a test when you flirt back you're just flirting, then you just don't follow it up with an inslt out of the blue or any red flags for an emotionally abusive partner and you're getting somewhere. Most importantly it's got to be natural, not natural as in you are naturally charming but natural in that it comes from a desire to joke around with someone you are attracted to and/or intere…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 01:12 PM
1

No I'm saying PUA presented as some special power but really it's advice so basic as to be meaningless with nonesense mixed in to obscure the fact that what works is their confidence and charm so they keep subscribing to the bullshit parts that actively harm their chances. I think it because you're overexplaining basic social interaction. It's not a better explanation, it's waffle. As to your second part I understand that well, but I don't see parlour tricks or magic, I see bad advice mixed in w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 12:58 PM
2

Actually there are weird naturey people who go without shoes entirely, the skin on the bottom of the foot hardens and the bone gets thicker and it doesn't bother them so much eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 12:26 PM
1

Any attire should be socially acceptable, also no attire should be fine. As a society were pretty far up our own arses when it comes to appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 12:25 PM
1

Game done according to PUA doctrine is comedy gold. Game done right is just charm and can be arrived at much more easily without the PUA nonesense. The difference is you believe your own BS so much that you think rolling with a flirt is some kind of enlightened wisdom. The only solid advice you are offering here is to practice socialising and see what works
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 12:20 PM
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Can't see what ain't there mate. Training wheels would need to be way more basic and contain much less BS to achieve anything other than confusing the person saying them and the person they're trying to chatting up
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 07:40 AM
1

Or to put it succinctly, you flirt back like you don't actually have autism and a serious insecurity about your masculinity. This isn't some secret master ninja technique it's pretty basic social stuff. Of course if you follow up good flirting with a random insult cause some tit on the internet said its attractive I can see why you would believe it takes special techniques to get women to like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 07:32 AM
2

The basic social skills are the chassis, if you don't have that you're just sitting in a pile of car parts, or talking nonesense and creeping out the girl you're trying to chat up to put it back to the situation. Like negging for example you're telling people to throw around insults that according to your doctrine require subtlety, people who are already struggling with basic social interaction. Anyone who learns the basic social skills will quickly realise that PUA is 50% generic basic social a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 04:06 PM
2

They need to build social skills, not resort to some formulaic nonesense that is going to make them look even less attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 03:43 PM
3

exactly, so the only people desperate enough to use those techniques are random and/or unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 11:29 AM
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so your average pua? if you have the basic social skills needed to not look like a weirdo and the confidence to say hi the only thing left of pua is cringey nonesense
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 11:06 AM
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I think you took my other reply as an answer to this, but it actually works pretty well that way. girls wouldn't fall for it because it's obvious that they are trying to sell themselves, it's just that they might actually point out some good qualities they have in amongst the BS sales pitch
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 11:02 AM
1

It's formulaic, even the best ones go about the conversation with a certain structure, shouldn't be hard to notice if you care. A good sales pitch is not subtle
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 10:56 AM
5

The need to resort to pua nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 10:53 AM
1

I'd say more fictional than naive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 10:52 AM
1

Nope. Just a johnny opinion with this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 10:02 AM
3

Nice selective citation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 09:57 AM
3

Probably the less likely to reoffend because they don't spend as much time getting prison raped, with prison you're traumatizing a person for several years and expecting that to make them less violent
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 09:55 AM
3

Yes, but they usually get written off as desperate or needy. As a man you learn to pretend not to care about anything at all ever. A good poker face is attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 08:49 AM
1

It's regional, where I live everyone's a cunt
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 08:02 PM
8

being actually wanted for you isn't the point, incels are bemoaning that nobody will do sex acts with them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 04:51 PM
7

To be fair you can't complain that nobody wants you at the same time as rejecting interest
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 03:33 PM
15

No offence but very few of you strike me as easy company
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 03:31 PM
0

Sounds like she was on an ego trip tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 03:23 PM
1

The one that allows educational institutes to hold kangaroo courts in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 06:50 AM
2

well I probably say this as theoretically an MGTOW(but not politically I just like to play video games and masturbate a lot, fuck me right?) but we can take or leave the deal being offered at the end of the day, whether that includes sex or not. Cheating doesn't allow you the option to end the deal because you don't even know it's being broken. For me it's more important to not be walked all over than it is to get regular sex or the affection of a relationship If he was honest and just told her …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 04:32 PM
2

the premise of your statement is only being with the girl for sex, therefore if the sex stops you lose nothing by ditching the girl
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 04:13 PM
1

yes, but I'd say cheating is worse. Cheating leaves no recourse to the offensive situation because they don't know it's happening until they find out, at least if you're not getting enough sex from your partner you know that is the situation and have the option to leave them or drop an ultimatum
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 04:06 PM
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Cheating isn't a gendered concept, and the lie is what's bad about cheating, you deliberately give an impression of monogamy but have no intention of making the that true
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 02:59 PM
1

1 and 2 straight no, just tells us this guy really likes prostitutes. As for 3 it feels good, it's almost impossible to fail if you have the money and there are no strings. Also there's a possibility of an unmentioned fetish he doesn't want to share with his SO
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 01:38 PM
1

No he said men choose vapid sluts for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 10:36 AM
2

That's an easy one though, vapid sluts are more likely to have sex with you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 06:40 AM
1

Why would the guy described marry you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 06:38 AM
2

I mean in 2017 it's about time they made an effort to be rational
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 01:29 PM
3

All those values came about because society rewarded them, when it doesn't very few individuals are selfless If anything our strength is manipulating individuals to further our own ends
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 01:22 PM
1

There's like 3.5 billion of em so we can afford to take the risk
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 01:21 PM
1

The answer is simple, don't spend time with someone in the hopes it will go further, only ever spend time with someone who's company you enjoy and never put in more effort than they do. If sex is actually something they want with you you won't have to put that much time in.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 07:00 AM
4

Works for me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 06:48 AM
1

respect is not doing it, lying to people isn't respectful. Also why are you replying to a 5 month old comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 09:15 PM
1

Never underestimate a chump
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 03:12 PM
1

Mostly they don't, psychological dysfunction plays a big part in those who do, they have no empathy and no concept of right and wrong besides what they want and how to get it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 03:21 PM
1

I mean ultimately you're wasting time on the internet however you cut it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 12:22 PM
1

didn't say it was unreasonable, just not a great way to address the problem of hate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 08:19 AM
1

I dunno, someone gets tied up and we see where it goes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 08:06 AM
1

Weird? You would be surprised how common it is
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 08:03 AM
1

But you still want people to watch their words because of the consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 07:59 AM
1

You can't persuade someone with logic and reason if you don't let them express their ideas, even hateful ones
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 07:55 AM
1

You'd do more damage trying to ban ideas than openly confronting them with reasonable logic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 07:53 AM
2

Yes, insofar as one can be a victim of someone being an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 01:05 PM
2

theres a difference between actual diversity and the idea of diversity held by liberals. No quotas just keep in mind that variety is an asset
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 03:24 PM
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Diversity of opinions and ideas, anything that can help avoid group think has a benefit to a board.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 12:16 PM
3

Either the person is chatting shit or you're evading reasonable arguments, no reason for a gendered term
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 12:15 PM
2

I think what's missing is the man has to actually want to change for it to work
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 06:56 AM
3

I mean, sane people don't tend to get stabby
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 06:34 AM
1

Worth saying this happened in the UK, pansy ass non sentences for pretty serious crimes taking into account whatever bullshit sob story the culprit has are not rare here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 06:34 AM
1

Putting aside the gamer shame there seems to be a common issue with the men in question, they don't feel like their careers are stable enough time to start a family
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 06:53 AM
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Wishful thinking that it's within a decade, it might happen in the next 30 if political and economic stability holds true, which I find unlikely. The fertility options are still prohibitively expensive for the most part but again within 30 years this won't be the case And it's all nonsense anyway because this "wall" is more of a gentle slope of fading beauty well into the 40s of most women unless they allow themselves to get fat As for these men in 2017 I dont think settling down is or ever will…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 10:04 AM
1

I'm not phrasing it well. What I'm saying is to objectify a woman I only see her as a means to fulfil my sexual appetite, which is bad, but take the sex part out and I just don't see her at all(as is the case for me with most men) and that's fine. If the missing component here is the sexual desire then decrying objectification is simply a shaming of unwanted sexual desire
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 05:37 PM
2

Probably end up in jail....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 02:07 PM
1

I don't get it, like it's fine if I don't give a fuck about someone, unless I want to have sex with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 02:00 PM
3

Heard far more about how STEM is hostile to women, about the how it needs to change to accommodate women, never at any point are we saying women need to choose STEM and work hard to get into it. The responsibility is never on the women to make it happen
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 02:00 PM
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It really doesn't, I mean successful women in certain fields get praise sometimes but there's never a narrative where they need to make it happen
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 01:01 PM
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I'm not TRP, I don't agree with them on a lot of things. What I see as the issue with feminism is that it tries to give women positive feedback simply for existing, instead of praising successful women and urging less successful women to try harder
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 12:32 PM
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That's not quite the message though, they need to be hungry for success and confident, not told some lie about how great they are even when they fail
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 12:28 PM
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To be fair feminism is telling then not to, it's telling them STEM subjects are hostile to women, its telling them they won't be treated equally in the workplace and it's telling them theres a glass ceiling to their career progression. It's also telling them being a stay at home single mother is an achievement
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 12:19 PM
2

Cities would look different if we had designed them. How so? Please don't say something like less phallic buildings high rises in a city are a logical use of limited ground space
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 11:23 AM
1

Ultimately it comes down to getting women to fight their own corner and be ambitious. You can't represent women in jobs they don't go for, better division in the household comes from not accepting an unequal division. Right now women can do everything, albeit with some resistance from gender expectations, but society is telling them they don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 11:20 AM
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They always say the reasons are societal, but that the solution is to force the same level of pay. Can't have it both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 10:30 AM
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So exactly what we've been saying the whole time, women need to be encouraged to go for higher paying work, rather than us paying them more for the less valued work they choose. The gender pay gap should be a challenge for socoety rather than an accusation levelled at men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 10:28 AM
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The other side being full of it doesn't make your bs true
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 10:26 AM
2

probably the same reason some men want a shitty kebab after a night out, alcohol just makes some people crave strange meat
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 05:29 AM
1

Not sure how seriously I can take a movement that gets so petty over its nomenclature. If people who say they're a humanist or whatever share the same goal you have no business whingeing because they choose a different word. This article highlights exactly why feminism struggles to find allies when they take such a hostile attitude to any kind of disagreement. On the whole I agree with feminism, but I reserve the right to disagree with anything they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 01:22 PM
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You have to have been enormous for the skin to be an issue after weight loss
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 08:22 AM
1

they have priveleges, not priviledge if we're playing whose got it better I'm glad I'm a white western man THat said I'd rather not go by the idea of privelege we need to address each inequality separately to try and find a balance that suits everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 06:17 PM
1

Well if the amount of time spent rewording the same verbose arguments over and over on this sub is anything to go by both women and men need to find a hobby or something
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 06:12 PM
2

if your friends wont be on your side nobody will, and if they're not on your side they aren't your friend so who cares what they think
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 07:25 AM
1

you can do it just be prepared to lie about it afterwards and lie about it well
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 07:23 AM
3

People who say this seem to have a caricature of the average sex worker customer. I wonder if that holds true for the normal, reasonably attractive ones
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 07:15 AM
1

tough one, on the one hand any instigator of violence deserves their legs being broken but on the other hand this should be a matter for the legal system with a side order of reasonable self defence
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 07:09 AM
1

sorry when is circumcision in the child's best interests? in Africa because it marginally reduces their chances of getting HIV according to sparse evidence? isn't that a decision they can make as an adult? I'm against it without a good reason, of which there are none for an infant
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 05:27 PM
1

that's a medical decision in the child's best interests, not a cultural decision in the invisible sky deity's best interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 04:53 PM
2

Damage with a helpful if niche side effect is still damage
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 09:36 AM
4

modification requires consent, anything involving permanent bodily damage however small without consent is mutilation
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 07:13 AM
1

Some random hobby is usually a whole lot of DIY and all the gardening consuming most of their free time, but don't worry cause your wife did the laundry this week you lazy man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 02:29 PM
1

Who actually pays for the porn though? Someone has to or it wouldnt happen but I don't know anyone who would buy it when its available for free
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 02:21 PM
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They cant get rid of porn without banning it which is impossible because no politicians will admit to knowing what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 02:04 PM
1

ask them out, I mean I dont consider myself short at 5'8, some women want a taller guy sure but theres no accounting for taste
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 06:52 AM
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it is rape, they didnt consent to the sex act being done to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 06:49 AM
1

If you read up on the heat death of the universe and entropy it suggests an eventual environment that life couldn't possibly survive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 02:53 PM
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If it's our ultimate goal we are doomed to fail by the apparent nature of the universe, all life will die so it's futile, even if life could survive forever why would that be important? Faster compared to a changing environment
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 02:46 PM
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That's how it happens, not why it's important. The evidence of random mutations and natural selection, what evolves is determined only by survival in a habitat, if life had a goal adaptation would be much faster
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 02:40 PM
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How can you argue that the act brought you to life was not important. Because I can't find an argument that it was important, although in this case I just posed the question, why is it important? The evidence we have of life suggests it is fundamentally random and has no goal
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 02:29 PM
2

Nope, not gonna lie
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 01:40 PM
3

Lol that's not true, and why is reproduction important? What's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 01:39 PM
2

Sex and relationships really aren't that big a deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 12:18 PM
3

Sperm donation, there's a shortage so if you give every day there's a very good chance of making some babies. Low risk high return
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 10:29 AM
1

I don't get why the gazelles don't just gang up and kick the shit out of the lions, they have the numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 10:26 AM
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It's eye catching when someone looks like a clown Seriously though humans aren't photogenic at all, you can cover up for the camera a lot smoother than for the eye
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 12:00 PM
2

I could, but then it wouldn't work. Its just the opposite of what you said
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 02:53 PM
4

So you want them to succeed easily in taking a shower of intelligence?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 02:48 PM
3

Yes but less obese
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 08:44 AM
1

Accusations shouldn't carry legal consequences without a conviction
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 07:45 AM
1

No but when you demand that person change until you don't love them any more questions have to be answered
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 04:12 PM
1

Unquantifiable
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 01:17 PM
1

Probably start arguing that women contribute more to society because childbirth and deserve more money
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 01:12 PM
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People get attached, intentional or not. Also herpes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 01:09 PM
3

And then be disappointed that he's not the man you fell in love with
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 01:04 PM
5

It's just bad advice, you either get hurt by all the bad boys or disappointed by the pansy men. Also none of us are getting any younger the later you settle down the more baggage you and anyone you date will have Better advice is to find someone who is both or choose a priority
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 12:58 PM
1

Parking the car, dealing with spiders, opening jars and dealing with the fight the women just started with that massive bloke in the pub
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 11:27 AM
1

It's the same line when the debate about paternal financial responsibility comes up so yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 09:29 AM
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Well it just occurs that someone is paying the bill for the baby, in a lot of cases it's me as a taxpayer. I don't hate them but should we encourage people to be a drain on society?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 09:26 AM
1

OP described money as the major factor. Or gold, if you prefer
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 02:32 PM
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Theres only 1 reason to want a partner to make more money than you. You want a slice of the pie. This is naturally unpopular with people who don't have enough pie to entice you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 01:48 PM
2

Everybody loves a gold digger when they can afford one
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 01:29 PM
2

Usually human empathy extends the most for "people just like me" and tapers off based on differences
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 10:39 AM
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That's selfish(again nothing wrong with selfish), empathy isn't quid pro quo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 10:28 AM
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You're not reacting harshly, you're being honest about reasonable selfishness. Empathy is a bonus, not a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 10:20 AM
1

Oh yeah me too funnily enough
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 09:58 AM
1

I hate everyone, some of them happen to be women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 03:11 PM
2

Don't know where this talk quietly in a French restaurant comes from, I was in France recently and their restaurant goers are anything but quiet
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 12:42 PM
1

To be fair they'd probably single parent and cut the mother out entirely
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 10:22 AM
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If they don't want to have emotional intimacy with the women and the women don't want to have sex with them it's a logical conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 10:17 AM
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Except for all this homeless people, but we don't count them as existing so it's fine
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 01:52 PM
2

Just interesting that the best interests of the child seem to end with child support payments
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 11:21 AM
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I mean, neither look like the healthy aspirations of sane people
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 11:19 AM
1

US people are predominantly fat, if you're a not fat guy you're in better shape than most Americans
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 08:32 AM
1

/r/thathappened
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 08:27 AM
1

Being friendly is a great way to make friends
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 12:43 PM
1

What's ENTP?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 12:33 PM
2

So a stereotypical white woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 12:31 PM
3

Any insight into why? I mean, I get it as a turn off but angry?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 12:22 PM
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The former, sort of, there's a lot of men who fetishise dominant women but only in certain ways that suit their own sexual fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 12:18 PM
1

Say what you mean, no sense trying to be nice about it if you don't like someone
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 01:49 PM
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If you don't like it compromise or dump her, the reason is immaterial
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 03:01 PM
2

If you don't have any stis and it's not you any more I can't see a context to bring it up. Not sure why you would want to be with someone you have to lie to though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 02:44 PM
1

Arrogance is his brand, simply enough that persona makes the guy money
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 01:53 PM
1

TIL Tupac was a goat
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 01:46 PM
1

Like they listen to his lyrics, Weekend is a pretty boy with silly hair and a smooth singing voice. It's classic fangirl bait
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 01:44 PM
4

Nothing gay about having butt sex with another man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 07:29 AM
2

I'd go off appearance in all shallow honesty. Sort of male chromosomes, used to be a man, is still a man. Don't care if the appearance is attractive I'm dtf
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 08:34 PM
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I think there's a distinction to be made between actually strong independent women and women who describe themselves as strong independent women. The latter are just women with a chip on their shoulder
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 01:56 PM
4

I wonder how any of them plan to afford it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 01:41 PM
1

Money
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 12:26 PM
11

Its a dick move to hate people you never met
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 02:27 PM
1

Well I think of it this way, the model looks good and will probably starfish but the artist is gonna be way more fun both in general and for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 10:58 AM
2

Wow that link doesn't work on a mobile. Anyway from what I gather he's just a regular harmless asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 10:52 AM
1

Free market? Some socialist you are
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 01:54 PM
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Socialism doesn't work because people won't choose it, these socialist values would need to be backed up with force and then it's not a utopia.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 01:50 PM
1

In that case yeah never ask that question that joke is low hanging fruit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 07:15 AM
1

"yeah I'd tap that" probably a test but I couldn't resist answering for a reaction
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 07:11 AM
1

I mean accidental pregnancy happens but in most cases it's because someone wanted it to happen
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 07:35 AM
1

Both sides are wrong, women like attractive men. Good or bad is just the picture frame
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 07:29 AM
5

perhaps a comedy show is not for you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 07:24 AM
2

did you just assume my directional context?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 07:21 AM
1

Average according to who? An hour buying groceries for your entire family is really slow, and I'm starting to strongly suspect you're one of those people who blocks the fucking aisle chatting to a fellow unemployed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 12:47 PM
1

3 hours? Thats a joke in terms of productivity. Seriously just try not fucking around things get done a lot faster
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 10:17 AM
1

when is the last time groceries took anyone that long?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 08:05 AM
1

I just did my bi-weekly Costco (warehouse store here in the states) run today. Start to finish, it took me about 4.5-5 hours. no offence but you're not very good at grocery shopping
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 08:05 AM
2

Sure, but it's still unemployment. There is no oversight or consequences for failing to carry out those responsibilities, and no avenue of complaint for the dissatisfied service recipient
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 07:52 AM
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which being the sun I'm like 75% certain it's bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 07:14 AM
2

oh, to use similar phrasing im a stay alone lover, looking after a home and having a job is not that hard
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 07:05 AM
2

Halve it, they're your kids too remember?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 02:59 PM
2

Can we stop calling unemployment "stay at home wife/mother" please. It's not a job
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 02:57 PM
1

No respect in the idea that she can and is perfectly happy to manipulate my sexual desires, no attraction in that she doesn't want sexual intimacy with me. No at best that just suggests she wants a romance fantasy out of me and actually has very little sexual desire towards the real me. It says to me that she doesn't have any feelings for me at all so far but do the things she likes some more/buy her more dinner and we'll see
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 02:52 PM
1

I want to be with someone who has both respect for and attraction to me, this kind of behaviour suggests neither
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 02:27 PM
2

She likes guys who breed chickens
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 02:19 PM
14

Pretty hard to miss them since they're enormous
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 02:16 PM
5

This is a value judgement, nothing anyone says can sway a view on this one
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 02:42 PM
3

I'm puzzled by that too, fortunately nobody actually says that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 03:40 PM
1

That the house is clean
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 12:02 PM
1

Whatever you do you have to make it look easy and natural, that's not something you can teach
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 11:59 AM
1

Yeah but it's telling them "you're right because you waste money on our shite" if anything they're trying to sell a fantasy of being right
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 11:56 AM
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Anyone who buys the crap being sold by the adverts is proving they shouldn't have any purchasing power
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 11:54 AM
2

Well the flipside is the women are portrayed as heartless fun police
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 11:44 AM
1

No, but you should treat every stranger with an appropriate degree of suspicion
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 09:04 AM
2

ok Mr psychologist, you just solved the problem. Well done!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 08:08 AM
2

It's possible, just not likely because why would they?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 12:13 PM
2

Women don't get rejected enough to not take it personally
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 05:18 PM
2

I shave my balls, but I would if it was a strict preference of a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 07:49 PM
1

its not all of their fault but, and I say this as a man who has finally become not obese again just recently, most of the time it's because they eat too much shite and don't exercise
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 07:40 PM
1

Why do you think the HAES movement is so big? presumably because they keep eating too much food
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 07:34 PM
2

care to share your source on that one?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 07:33 PM
2

cant speak for other men but I'd say well groomed pubic regions are a 2 way expectation
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 07:01 PM
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I'm not having all the sex I want the way I want when I want it but frankly that would be a logistical nightmare and would require all kinds of elaborate and expensive sex furniture and toys, catering staff on call 24/7, sexual screening for months in advance for dozens of people, complex legal liability waivers and it's almost inevitable that someone ends up in the ER
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 06:44 PM
1

Easy, feels good, good deed for the day. What's not to like about banging an undesirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 10:15 AM
1

Usually it's because people describing themselves as intelligent Or independent turn out to be an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 08:29 AM
1

Yeah that's their problem For that specific guy you're only insulated because you assume he would commit to someone else, but that's not necessarily the case I mean If people simply aren't committing then it can't really be an insult in a personal sense
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 02:05 PM
1

Maybe she just didn't want to commit to anyone? That's how it is for me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 01:51 PM
1

It's only insulting if you think the average guy would commit to the average woman, in which case it's either the case and you don't notice the guys who will, or its not and there's no reason to be insulted
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 01:49 PM
1

Well you can't spend that much time with someone and not be influenced by their views and personality
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 01:41 PM
3

Terrorism, the damage was the primary aim.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 01:06 PM
2

By killing them? And what free them from their democratic right to self determination?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 12:28 PM
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No not a criminal act. THAT criminal act. Well Gerry Adams is a terrorist so not a great example
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 12:23 PM
1

I'm gonna read the article first next time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 12:22 PM
4

That criminal act invalidates anything she has done or possibly could do
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 12:16 PM
6

For some actions you don't deserve rehabilitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 12:13 PM
2

my thoughts: Your legal system is fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 12:10 PM
2

To be fair most people buying the sun probably can't read anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 02:31 PM
1

I wouldn't call the sun news exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 02:31 PM
1

Attraction is still required
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 02:28 PM
1

Hell hath no fury like butthurt overweight people
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 02:20 PM
1

well id have to at least once for the novelty
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 12:21 AM
1

I mean, which terminator?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 06:09 PM
1

I dunno the automated train announcement lady totally works for me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 06:06 PM
1

what if it was sentient but programmed with a need for dick that overrides their better judgement? would that programme count as consent, what if it said no but people just altered the programming so it said yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 06:03 PM
1

I did but you haven't actually given a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 06:00 PM
2

If you can't articulate why it's creepy perhaps it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 04:16 PM
1

Oh I see, you're a robophobe
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 06:55 AM
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If it feels good do it. Why would it be creepy it's just a sex toy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 06:53 AM
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cunt, I don't really see why these words become offensive but it's all about how people react to them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 10:01 AM
2

would you start a fight if that was a possible outcome?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 11:59 PM
1

Oh come on im not saying that is the law. Just, maybe that should be the law
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 11:37 PM
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Any and all from foul language to nuclear war. You started it so have no right to complain just becuase someone else does better violence back
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 12:33 PM
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IMO if you instigate violence you consent to it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 12:13 PM
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Nah I have a hit nobody unless in self defence mentality, when shit gets real though I'm thinking free for all. Adequate force in self defence is to kill or fuck up your attacker so badly they can never be a threat again
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 12:10 PM
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Biology pushes them to a strong provider, things that cost money are nice and fun, also daddy issues and generally the longer you live the more interesting your chat becomes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 02:32 PM
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We don't "deal with it" we rely on evidence like any other progressive legal system. The only important rhetoric here is innocent until proven guilty
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 07:22 AM
1

Well current marriage is dying, you can't force someone to sign a bad contract so having such a contract as standard is a moot point
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 04:42 PM
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if the state wants to intervene to protect the needy, and circumvent natural advantages that's fine but both the burden of cost and the benefit needs to be spread fairly and evenly, rather than going from certain hapless individuals to other unscrupulous individuals. Nothing in a marriage contract deals with divorce, therefore legally it should hold no consequences for either party. Intervention by the courts is a governmental choice, and IMO a bad one Further I don't see why a legally binding c…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 04:40 PM
2

Your point assumes the men actually want to settle down at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 03:04 PM
1

Well yeah nothing wrong with that situation, it's just there's also nothing remotely enticing about it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 06:57 AM
0

I mean if they aren't disadvantaged any more job done.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 08:26 AM
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Bet you don't buy them any as a gift though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 04:16 PM
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Buying clothing for anyone is a bloody minefield, wrong size, wrong cut, looks Fuckin awful you really cant win Jewellery is a safe bet I suppose, perfume too Maybe if more women liked video games and toys you wouldn't be so hard to buy for
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 04:14 PM
1

Sick of the whingeing, "oooh this minor annoyance in my white middle class life is a problem, now what is literally everyone else but me gonna do about it, I demand action from other people?"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 08:29 AM
1

Depends if we're talking about what's best for mankind or survival of the fittest
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 04:19 PM
1

Yeah and men are also better and more successful at violence. Better not fuck with us in case we violence a over you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 02:39 PM
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The people who should reproduce are not the ones who reproduce the most
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 02:36 PM
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Nope, no excuse for the dishonesty, sleeping around is fine as long as the other partner knows you're going to do it, even if that's a matter of saying "Fuck you I'm gonna go bang some hot young piece of ass"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 04:52 PM
1

Well I can only speak for myself but when faced with a woman(an attractive one at any rate) who is totally sober looking me straight in the eyes I have the opposite reaction to performance anxiety More likely though I'd suggest they were simply nervous, and didn't want to be the only one drinking for fear of embarrassment That or you come across creepy as Fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 09:52 AM
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When confidence is needed reality is your worst enemy. End of the day successful or not these are just ways to try and get women to like you, what people do with that approval is their own lookout
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 09:43 AM
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Yeah but those aren't white western children so it doesn't count
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 08:50 AM
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not really, only that something happened to the victim, not what and more importantly who did it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 07:24 AM
2

not sure if kinky sex requirement or no chance
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/16 12:42 AM
1

Zero expectation from me towards the kiddo really. I like kids and they usually like me so we will probably get along fine but I'm not signing up to be a dad to another man's kid. As for getting locked down it would need to be really good sex, watertight prenup(family wealth to protect) and a probably be looking towards making some offsprings for me Thing is I'd never get married though because if my partner ever changes into an asshole or resents me I want to leave without consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/16 12:37 AM
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HIV and aids is relatively low, birth control is good and varies right now, and antibiotic resistant STIs arent going to be a real issue for another 5-10 years That said nobody I have ever had sex with had an issue with using a condom
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/16 12:19 AM
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if i were on the jury solid evidence, if theres reasonable doubt then I'm legally obligated to say not guilty. More than one accuser with a consistent story would be pretty solid along with witnesses placing the accused in the right place at the right time, and an absence of defence evidence of collusion between the accusers. If it was on videotape it would be compelling but unless the victim is vehemently saying no you can't really prove a lack of consent Also if the defendant was proven to hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/16 12:14 AM
1

Maybe if the conversation was good?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 11:57 PM
2

that's unusually empathetic of you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 11:52 PM
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it's really not that rare, but I take your point about anecdotes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 12:18 PM
1

settling, wheres the challenge in that? wheres the excitement?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 12:17 PM
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yeah but that's boring
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 12:02 PM
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6 to an 8 isn't a miracle, 4 to an 8 is i guess, but also attraction is subjective, unusual features won't do you any favours with the majority of women for attraction but theres plenty enough who find those features interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 09:43 AM
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not giving a fuck doesn't imply you couldn't give me a reason to start also that might be an over reaction mate
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 08:23 AM
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I don't see the logic on that comment, people I don't know are interchangeable not because I only want sex but because I know nothing about them. What are they expecting someone to experience love at first sight or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 06:48 AM
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but if everybody settles then you might as well punch above your weight because someone will settle for you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 06:41 AM
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I've seen 4-6 guys go home with 8s, hell iv even been that 4-6. most of the time an 8 will just be like nope but I can only really date or have sex with one at a time anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 06:40 AM
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I guess to go from their perspective your existence is irrelevant to them because you are a rarity, and becuse even if they did want you, you wouldn't want them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 06:33 AM
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I mean at this point it's pretty much a troll sub
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 06:28 AM
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if it shouldn't be taken literally that means it's wrong mate
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 06:25 AM
1

Serial killers are dangerous, people who give off a creepy vibe are mostly just unfortunate
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/16 12:34 PM
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Wouldn't the rapist serial killer analyses introspective and correct their off putting behaviour though? Seems like flawed logic to trust strangers just because they don't look dodgey
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/16 12:32 PM
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if I'm being friendly and someone else is rude I don't care, I might wonder what their problem is today for all of a second then move on unaffected
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 09:16 PM
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I mean to be fair if you stuck five whole marijuana plants into a major vein you would probably die
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 09:08 PM
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not for advice, but it doesn't take a social guru to point out some of the inconsistent and fallacious logic you people throw about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 09:07 PM
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next thing you know you're 8 years into your marriage and he tells you he's a transgender woman or a furry otterkin and he needs to "express himself" by sleeping with other people in your bed. fuck. we've been rumbled guys
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 08:59 PM
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oh I didn't realise you were Chuck Norris
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 08:57 PM
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Probably, I mean why not be a strong independent woman who don't need no man, it makes sense to be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 08:57 PM
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except it means they're more choosey now, if it's just for sex my being a responsible caring person with my shit together and a fair bit of financial backing doesn't do the trick, now I actually have to be sexy, I actually have to put effort in. In days gone by picking your partner just because they were physically attractive was an objectively terrible life choice Now I'm not against feminism in theory but to say it helps anyone get laid is hard to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 01:34 PM
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what you're missing when you say it simply doesn't make sense is how easy it is for men to get sex with other men, having sex with a man is just not an achievement. And if we consider homophobia they are consistent with a logic of disgust at anyone who has sex with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 01:18 PM
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The existence of TRP shows a need for certain aspects of men to be more appreciated, people don't realise that it's not just the hateful vocal people who are hurting from the way society currently works. It cuts a feminist ideal too when people notice the militant feminazis and ignore the factors that in addition to that person being total asshole to begin with has led them to take the hardline position
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 09:53 AM
1

the reason dread game works is also the problem it's trying to solve. When some people hate or have 0 respect for or attraction to their partner they don't just leave for whatever reason be it fear of being alone or the resources they are getting out of it, and then that resentment only grows and leads to even less partnerly treatment. I don't endorse dread game as a tactic but it does force these people to make up their mind about the relationship and whether they actually want to be in it, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 09:39 AM
2

An investment in which ownership can be removed at a whim is not a good investment, that said they can be practically free if you avoid big commitments
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 06:02 PM
1

well actually saying that is a mistake you only make once even if it's the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 07:38 AM
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A great way to never get what you actually want is to hint at it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 07:32 AM
2

Actually they pedestalise themselves, I'm not sure thats the same thing. That and theres a tribal immaturity about boys being awesome and girls having cooties Would you disagree with these qualities if they were presented as most men are x rather than men are more x than women? fundamentally I think the average person is pretty decent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 07:27 AM
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I mean it's not really my thing but I can see the appeal of someone who doesn't argue with everything you say, also it's nice to feel like you're looking after someone, sort of like a provider complex I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 10:28 AM
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That's an easy conclusion to arrive at when you don't agree with any of their values though
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 10:23 AM
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Why would I not get along with women in general just because a select few are batshit crazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 10:20 AM
1

team me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 10:19 AM
1

Ask your mom, she's the expert
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 10:15 AM
2

What long nails don't scratch back well at all, well manicured nails are way better when you got an itch
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/16 09:55 AM
1

Single
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/16 08:12 AM
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I mean the internet being what it is that's not exactly far fetched
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 10:53 AM
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Well it's going to be skewed by attraction/how turned on she was by the men in question Actually seems like a really bad idea if it's counting towards your degree because there is absolutely no scientific approach to sampling, it's neither qualitative nor quantitative, and none of the results can be verified Also leads me to an assumption that she probably isn't particularly good at sex herself. No she's a narcissist 50/50 between she wanted to fuck the athletes and the more intelligent/studious…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 10:28 AM
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you're so similar to the people you fear and hate it's uncanny. why the fuck should I conform to their bullshit values, why should I accept how unfair it is, why should I even take the time to listen to what they say, why should I let them win?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/16 09:15 AM
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what privilege don't you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/16 08:49 AM
1

You can't trust any advice from anyone ever. Try a few things, see what works
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/16 11:33 AM
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That's fine just dont go whingeing about men being shit when the interesting dickhead you chose turns out to be a dickhead
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 01:22 PM
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Most adults don't care. But you do? this essay says a lot more about you than it does about them. Were you the big fish in the small pond by any chance? You probably can't deal with the fact that these people are getting a lot of casual sex with attractive partners and you're not so you have to go with some long winded explanation as to why you're still winning and the guys bragging on the internet? mostly lying but the ones who aren't would have been the same in high school but for opportunity
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 07:15 AM
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The word makes perfect sense, most of its usage is wrong but that's not the word's fault
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/16 08:27 AM
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Probably bored looking to troll
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/16 08:25 AM
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haha yeah, anyway I think the point being made was make do with what you have
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 07:27 AM
2

European women go crazy for tall guys
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 07:24 AM
2

if life gives you lemons make lemonade throw them out and buy a pizza
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 07:21 AM
2

how short, I'm lie 5 8 and it's no problem but I think people shorter than me do have a hard time of it I mean yeah personality and all that other crap but let's be honest and say physical attraction is important to women in relationships. it's not an unreasonable thing to desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 07:18 AM
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id imagine in actual fact it wold go down like suggesting a pre nup "what why don't you trust me?!?" even if they have no intention of screwing you over people are not objective about these things
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 07:08 AM
1

accidental parenting does happen
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/16 06:26 PM
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I suppose but why would a woman agree to that? best thing to do is go gay, can't get another man pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/16 06:09 PM
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well I see two interpretations here if we want to be cunty about it. One is that men were too weak to deal with the side effects of birth control The other is that women were to stupid to stop dealing with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 01:26 AM
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only interesting thing I see is how many people replied seriously to a clear shitpost
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/16 07:48 AM
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That's not a standard coming from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/16 12:44 PM
1

People are whatever use I have for them first, and people second
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/16 12:41 PM
1

family busines forcing me to deal with shit sales people, we're in property so that's everything from shitty real estate agents to furniture showroom people to advertising sales people. I've seen good sales pitches, and upon later reflection realised I've been sold an absolute crapper before. Mostly though it's obvious and ineffective I dunno, maybe I just know what to look out for already, presumably it works on soemone
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/16 02:26 PM
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You only notice the bad ones because they're everywhere you go
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/16 01:24 PM
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Most sales people are so bad at it they would be a lot better off just being polite, the same is true of game
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/16 07:22 AM
1

Because work life balance, no use making 6 figures when it makes you miserable. None of these things come for free
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/16 12:17 PM
1

Fuck it if that's the game were playing I'm going to only wear either a mankini or Speedos from now on, oh no I'm not trying to show off my package it's just comfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/16 10:58 AM
1

I don't think I've ever seen a rejection that wasn't an awkward affair where the woman was saying no but wouldn't actually say no. If that harsh rejection is a thing maybe the person you asked is just horrible?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 01:44 PM
1

I think you missed something in that: men lie about their sexual experience and partner count I mean women do too but it's usually to downplay it wheras men exaggerate
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 08:50 AM
1

then what I'm saying applies even more. getting clued up only gets you so far, it's practice that makes a champ
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 08:36 AM
1

That's actually far more common than you would expect
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 07:22 AM
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Can't practice without a partner, can't get a partner to stay when you're bad in bed. Also why do you expect a mind reader, if you want something you have to let your partner know and being vague will leave you disappointed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 07:10 AM
2

Women like attractive men and possibly confident attractive men, you include all the other stuff but different women react differently to other behavioral traits depending on their own desires and issues
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 07:36 AM
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and thousands of dollars wouldn't help them with those interests, dreams, hopes, and desires?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 07:22 AM
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Theres usually sex expected and involved, it's just not something you can advertise explicitly being illegal in the US and all And believe it or not sex work is still work, it will take both a physical and emotional toll if the woman in question isn't cut out for sex work, customers of the sex trade will not continuously pay and not get their money's worth so getting any kind of stable income requires a fairly large amount of hard work Also it's not something they can put in their CV so unless t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 07:20 AM
6

Well then she needs to be talking to a therapist and not some guy she's trying to lead on
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 07:11 AM
5

Honestly sounds like she just enjoys drama
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 07:05 AM
7

to be fair at least TRP is entertaining to read, the others just whinge or compain all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 06:51 AM
2

Not even a little bit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 12:19 PM
-1

As always you're projecting your bad choices onto an entire gender
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 07:36 AM
4

"Nice guys" don't exist. Hate to point this out but they're a fiction of the internet. Maybe at some point someone wondered out loud what it was they were doing wrong that nobody wanted to be his girlfriend and people misread that as entitlement Also the friendzone was never an accusation but a noted phenomenon of unrequited love
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 12:38 PM
1

I know, the connection was my point you're using the same logic as those religious nutters
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 08:23 AM
1

let's be honest, the word means nothing when every agenda picks it up and says that's what they're doing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 06:59 AM
4

yeah let's all live in sharia law where modesty is enforced by the death penalty so you don't have to feel uncomfortable about some women who happen to have great assets and won't fuck you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 06:55 AM
2

I don't think many people who are involved in some sort of cheating or secondary in an open relationship really consider themselves to be in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 08:14 AM
1

These days it's much harder to be in a financial position to settle down and purchase a property, forget an expensive wedding plus marriage has no meaning besides legal protection from separation costs now anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 07:07 AM
3

They are dating whoever asks them out that they like, evidently that's not your friends for whatever reason think of it statistically, for every girl with a boyfriend theres a guy with a girlfriend, so it entirely must be a bias in who you hang out with
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 07:03 AM
1

2 is the obvious option, if theres no attraction no amount of friendship is going to change that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 07:10 AM
2

I dunno, pretty sure murdering women and children will get you laid
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 06:56 AM
1

Well the best one is living decades longer than men. Also they are generally the desired gender in sexual terms and they have the ability and all the choices about reproduction. Only advantages men have are already covered by technology, strength and stamina are surplus to requirement
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 11:42 AM
1

They do have advantages
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 10:54 AM
1

well i'd make it subsidised but nobody would vote for me That said it's no more arbitrary than any number of other health problems people can develop with treatments that cost them, if as a society you're saying everyone pays for their own needs this is equitable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 06:57 AM
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autonomically, their body just does it. As for what we do to compensate society makes all kinds of painkillers, anti inflammatories and sanitary products to make the times when a woman's body decides to be a shit involve less suffering
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 06:53 AM
1

That or just some people have a terrible choice in partners and project it onto the entire gender
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 06:47 AM
1

I don't get why you keep going on about women's bodily suffering, you quite literally do it to yourselves it's the one problem men cannot be blamed for.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 06:44 AM
3

they can have a girlfriend for half an hour then go back to doing whatever they like and pretend it never happened enablers of what though? I don't imagine their clientele feel particularly taken advantage of
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 06:41 AM
3

not only that you both take yourselves way too seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 06:37 AM
5

bad example, having given up McDonalds almost a year ago the very thought of a big mac turns my stomach, get past your addiction and it's just shit food sorry not that it's relevant just fuck McDonlds
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 06:31 AM
1

it's not gynocentrism, society has, and has always had, a prescribed 1 man 1 woman view of relationships, anyone living differently to that catches flak also they do tend to justify their othrwise perfectly reasonable decisions with some misogynistic ideas
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 06:25 AM
1

Thing is though, there are plenty of people who just decide to go it alone without the bitterness. For example myself, last few months I just cannot be arsed with dating, nothing against the women or anything like that it's just too much effort when I can be enjoying a lazy lull in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 06:20 AM
3

every concern a man has is addressed just as harshly by society at large, you can't act surprised to find a lot of men who see life in those terms
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 03:56 PM
0

You have to objectify to be objective, otherwise your goal gets lost in a sea of selfless consideration for feelings, it's a mentality of "who has what I want and how do I get it" It's exactly the same as people in the marketing industry treating the consumer like a total idiot because statistically enough consumers act that way that it's the best method for selling their crap
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 03:51 PM
3

like I said I think of emotonal abuse as being an intentional pattern of coercive and manipulative behavior, if TRP is used exactly as they claim it should be I don't think it's coordinated enough to be considered abuse. The aim seems to be making women like and think about them rather than controling said women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 03:39 PM
2

I can have an orgasm pretty much any time I want on my own, if you can't get yourself off it's pretty unreasonable to expect someone who doesn't even share your anatomy to know how to do it. also I'd happily help out plenty of women with this if they would let me, if they don't even want to do it how is that my fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 06:53 AM
1

No they don't. you guys claim to put all this other effort in to self improvement and put the credit for your increased sexual luck on some silly manipulation tactic you seem to misunderstand. You worked your fat ass out and stopped looking repulsive Have some self esteem and realise that if they stay it's because you have value, not because you're cheating the system
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 06:49 AM
5

did you phrase it this way on purpose?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 06:44 AM
1

Everybody would if we're being honest
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 06:43 AM
1

if you're attractive and play it right, or just want any sex with whoever it's not hard to find sex also people lie on the internet, it's totally a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 06:39 AM
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care to cite that definition? I can't find it with a cursory google search I was given the understanding that emotional abuse had to form a pattern, so the odd occurance of what many consider shitty behavior would not qualify I mean, TRP is basically one big misguided attempt for young men to look mysterious and edgy, I don't think the intention or result of what they try is an abusive situation Also consider their love of the plate spinning analogy, they're trying to get casual sex, they don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 06:31 AM
1

Do you not have couples where you live that have been engaged for years and never bothered marrying? I wouldn't suggest it only I know several people who pull it off
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 12:28 PM
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Someone you promised to marry, do you know what lying is? you buy them a ring to let them know you're serious but you never get round to signing a document giving them a claim to half your stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 11:57 AM
1

ahh tribalism, OP why do you put any stock in dickheads on the internet? Everyone here is wrong and believes they are 100% right in everything they post
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 06:56 AM
1

you make it sound like you don't see some guys and be like "ohh yeah I'd tap that. dayum!" it's cause you said radar, when I use the term I'm talking about what I pick up on, not necessarily what I have sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 06:47 AM
3

yeah wtf dragoness why do you keep cheating? sort yourself out mate
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 06:46 AM
1

that's like the lie you tell your girlfriend when she totally just caught you checking out that total babe that just walked past.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 06:43 AM
2

who said anything about marriage? just have a girlfriend or fiance and never actually marry
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 06:39 AM
5

I mean, if you never trust anybody ever it's hard to get betrayed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 06:35 AM
1

Well that's a sure way to know someone needs help
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 03:35 PM
1

The whole crazy lot of you need therapy, so do I, and you too OP
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 03:31 PM
1

With advice I find the best solution for any problem to be be punch him/her/it in his/her/it's stupid face, why complicate things?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 05:09 PM
1

I wouldn't if it wasn't for the school on my route to work, sure ladies just park your unnecessarily large car right outside the gates and open the door straight in to the road to let little timmy jump out into oncoming traffic. Great idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 07:11 AM
3

Reluctantly agreeing and then only continuing out of fear isn't exactly consenting
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 10:06 AM
3

he surprised her with an opportunity to act out his fetish, set up a sex meeting with a man she had never met, and demanded she go through with it, and from the description she's giving it pretty much sounds like the guy raped her, or at the very least had no interest in enthusiastic consent
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 06:54 AM
2

the insult doesn't make a distinction between the fetish and getting cheated on, for that matter neither does the word. That said I guess theres something to be said that porn has made some men over adjusted to the idea of watching other people fuck, although I guess it's a question of whether the porn simply brings out a desire they already had or if it actively cultivates that desire
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 06:49 AM
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it's bordering on femdom, that's a major turn on for a lot of men, sounds like it might work for you too OP
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 07:28 AM
1

but good leader is naturally measured by charisma rather than making the correct decisions, people would follow "Chad" (or female Chad if you like) off a cliff but someone they don't find attractive couldn't lead them to their favorite restaurant
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 07:24 AM
1

The inevitable results of actually thinking through your viewpoint rather than choosing your tribe
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 07:15 AM
3

Sounds more like you're developing self esteem than not giving a fuck, it might seem like simple logic but getting to a place where you can be content and comfortable with yourself and your lot in life takes time and character
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 07:02 AM
1

Who said it couldn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/16 02:51 PM
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Anyone who wants to see boobs only needs an internet connection anyway, and if everyone is going out with their baps out they will lose their titillation value
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 10:49 AM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 10:45 AM
1

I don't think rules 1 and 2 are news to anyone here
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 10:08 AM
1

Well there's no legal reason to be honest with either unless contractually obliged
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 10:05 AM
1

because it doesn't happen very often, for us it really is a compliment
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 09:58 AM
1

For most guys I'd say it's more a question of don't go there, some feminists will have a go if you claim to be one and others will have a go if you say you aren't, have an easier life if you avoid the subject
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 09:30 AM
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What's the point of all this analysis if you can't come up with an answer about how to make people want to know you? Not trp but every successful relationship I've ever had has heavily relied on lying or not being honest about my true self
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 02:07 PM
1

I just ran for it, call me a wuss but it's not worth the risk of standing your ground. but yeah i guess you had no other choice on that one, scary shit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 09:54 AM
1

yeah ive had a knife pulled on me, not fun. still if you feel confident enough to tell them to fuck off you clearly have no reason to fear them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 08:56 AM
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I wouldn't tell someone I was afraid of to Fuck off but you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 07:21 AM
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Question to ask is whether they would do the same for another man
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 07:11 AM
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hard to say, some people are just genuinely considerate of others, but maybe he was hoping to curry favour. Other possiblities include that he didn't know the other one was broken, saw the broken one as a challenge he didn't want to back down from, wanted to show the silly girl how theres nothing wrong with the other soldering iron, or that you have a reputation for being a pain in the ass if you don't get what you want and he didn't need the headache although a pussy pass would be more like you…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 07:01 AM
3

muscles, confidence, big dick, money, everything else is window dressing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 06:54 AM
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I mean does anyone not hate that? I've wanted to be like "hang on a sec" when stupid people I know have started listing things they don't like about most men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 06:51 AM
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I dunno if it exposes anything but you're right in that it's a direct accusation at most women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 06:46 AM
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If that were true it would happen. As it stands you have to consider the risk, the overheads of somewhere to work from, possible considerations of security, and the fact that most of them make the most money from repeat customers, they are better from a financial standpoint charging more and giving a better service, if they can make a day's money seeing 1 guy that's better than seeing 3 and only making a day and a half from them. In my quite limited experience the only ones you find who are chea…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 06:23 AM
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i dunno i live somewhere where it is effectively legalised, even so supply and demand places it outside of most people's price ranges with any kind of regularity
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 05:36 AM
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if you wanted to do morally right you wouldn't start looking at anyone living in the west, but obviously you just want an appeal to your self-interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/16 07:42 AM
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I mean short of enforced prostitution you can't close that gap, and personally I don't think that's a step in the right direction
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/16 07:40 AM
1

sure, as long as we're being honest about the actual amount of time spent working, staying home all day doesn't necessarily mean 8 hours of housework gets done But the point is that you can't say men are lazy form the statistics ignore the work they do in the actual workplace in mainstream society
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 07:21 PM
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Again I want a source not a wild claim. Also that's just not for housework, nothing said about their occupations and the hours worked there, full time work can be anywhere from 35 to 70 hours in a week
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 07:14 AM
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Yeah are you going to provide a source on this? Maybe something based on western or mainstream society?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 07:09 AM
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So yeah if we ignore the work men do they start to look really lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 07:03 AM
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A culture needs to be endemic, the opinions of the odd person on the internet does not make a culture, to be a rape culture these would have to be the mainstream opinion I mean in this case I'd say it sounds like a sexual assault that she just went with, the actual penetrative sex part sounded consensual, or at least not technically rape. The earlier statement is actually irrelevant because consent needs to be current, it's really the getting on top of her and kissing that's a problem here. But …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/16 11:32 AM
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assumptions are fine as long as you're assuming the same thing about everyone in the country, or based on a certain action an individual has already taken, I didn't think of good assumptions like you pointed out but what I had in mind was assuming things about say a gender or an ethnicity. So yeah I'd say assumptions based on the individual's actions are fair Edit. Actually if the person has already acted out is it even an assumption? they already proved themselves capable of posing a risk
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 08:48 PM
1

the ones I know tend to enjoy a really crappy takeout as much as anyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 08:47 PM
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unless it's a small man and a big woman, assumptions should not apply to law
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 06:46 PM
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technology requires resources to continue to function, who knows how the world will develop when their scarcity because a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 06:42 PM
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Everyone craves a good shitty takeout every once in a while
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 06:41 PM
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Burn. Still that's a shit answer. 3/10
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 07:34 AM
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for someone claiming not to be an alien you're getting awfully defensive about it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 07:27 AM
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It's a simple matter of consistency, you can't claim your behaviours come from an amoral standpoint and then complain that everyone else's are immoral. Your serial killer analogy interests me, if we are saying some people are just evil then they never really had a choice, and if we're saying people are not inherently evil then something is wrong with the mind of a serial killer
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/16 11:19 AM
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You don't get a choice because his dread game is so tight /s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/16 07:06 AM
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So yeah OP if that does happen shes totally faking and you should carry on fucking/s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 12:24 PM
2

scare him into what, checking his partner hasn't just died or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 12:01 PM
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But you do have to ask, no? Personally I prefer everyone being pretty vocal during sex. But I don't know if that's actually what the law means, I don't think it says anywhere that nonverbal cues are not acceptable although I'd guess the only way to be 100% sure of a defense in a court of law is to ask in some way. I think the law is looking in to situations where the nature of the sex act being done changes beyond what they could reasonably have expected from consenting to sex, I actually knew s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 10:35 AM
1

some do, some don't, same as any other occupation really. But then again you hear in certain media sources this idea that the working partner should still do half of the household chores despite being at work all day and it does seem a bit lazy to not have everything ship shape despite being at home all day
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 10:16 AM
2

strange philosophy though; you can have anything you want, as long as you don't want it any more
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 10:14 AM
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appetites is a good analogy, think of a hunter if he just chases after the meat it will run the fuck away, you have to play it smart and not let the prey see the predator until you already have them trapped(well that sounded more abusive than i hoped)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 10:11 AM
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it's the difference between asking someone to be your girlfriend and seeing if they want a drink with you, the best approach to women is to let them know you're intentions are a good time of some kind, people want to spend time with happy people who are having fun without getting serious too quickly More than that it stops you playing the numbers game well because you want each attempt to succeed instead of taking a view that it doesn't really matter if someone rejects you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 10:09 AM
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i'd imagine if you're keeping an eye on the nonverbal cues or if your partner suddenly freezes up as well as being receptive to a no you're following the law there, I don't think the wording is actually saying consent can be revoked mid act without saying anything, I think the spirit of the law is to stop people using the ambiguity of the situation as a defense for abuse. I guess you don't have to ask in such unsexy terms as well, go with a "yeah you like that?" rather than a "do I have your con…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 09:58 AM
4

wait I thought the idea was we were supposed to offer a cup of tea before having sex with someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 09:47 AM
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yeah i'm sure they are but why the assumption?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 09:45 AM
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twice, first time at a party and she took my virginity, she was hot and 19 (but then again so was I) second one she approached me in a bar and we danced kissed exchange numbers and it never went anywhere, pretty hot too. I'd probably put myself as a 6 because I have a minor case of the fats but on the few occasions i've managed to get into shape I could go 7.5 i reckon
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 09:44 AM
0

wait how do you meet people if you only go out with people you already know?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 09:40 AM
2

no the modelling agency does
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 09:37 AM
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the real world is a pretty good source for this one, look past the smoking hot girl with a killer rack and you see 99 fugly bitches desperate for any dick they can get
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 09:33 AM
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well I'm a glass half full kind of guy, so i'd say they react to our beauty much less
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 09:29 AM
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no one wants a virgin man either, for that matter they aren't particularly enamored by the boring guy who has had a pretty normal amount of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 09:23 AM
2

why does everyone assume ugly infers something about hygiene? maybe the guy is just, you know, ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/16 09:19 AM
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but the problem I have in hearing such a statement is that i know people who entirely do have and openly express those prejudices and women still seem to love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 08:17 AM
2

Or to read this the other way successful people are more altruistic than unsuccessful people
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 05:18 PM
1

In that case i don't like an asshole in saying that you should man up and deal with the world as it is
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/16 11:52 PM
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no the people who do it are either trying to fit in with other people who do this, deliberately being obnoxious because they think they have something to prove, or are just looking for attention and it's not all gay people or just gay people doing it. Plenty of gay men are manly as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/16 11:51 PM
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I'd say easier to survive but harder to thrive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 06:04 AM
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Alcohol is only a factor if she gets so drunk she can't give an answer either way, i dunno who put that poster up but it's quite clear misinformation and im not sure any reasonable legal system would support such a claim
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 10:51 PM
1

Everything you do is a biological function, although if we want to compare reproductive function a man can theoretically impregnate hundreds of women in the time it takes to carry 1 pregnancy to term
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 10:28 AM
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can we please stop calling these people trolls? Trolling is funny, like coming here and making up a ridiculous real life story and claiming it proves both pills wrong. Sending threats to people over the internet is just sad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 06:39 AM
1

I meant more pushing against the various stigmas associated with gender stereotypes around work, rather than demanding people do jobs they dont like the sound of
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 10:30 AM
1

well you say that but the people in great shape with the really smooth skin and low body fat are going to live a lot longer than the obese people with a smoking habit or people who age quickly and badly, and importantly the healthy people are more likely to have their children survive to adulthood, although I guess this is assumed to be pretty much a given in modern times
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 08:10 AM
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Are you sure you were a "nice guy" rather than just a nice guy who sucked at talking to girls? And anyway the only way to truly reinforce such an attitude is to have sex with the guy just because he was nice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 08:04 AM
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I mean, you could still push for more women and men to fill the jobs they currently don't want to take, push women to take more hours and men to have more flexible family time or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 07:59 AM
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I mean it does for the most part, it's just people have interesting views on what equality looks like. Some of them think that means exactly even handed legal/societal treatment Some think that means the law/society should make up for inbuilt biological differences. Some of the more nutty ones think we need to compensate women for the thousands of years of patriarchal oppression they themselves did not experience and the men today did not cause And of course human nature being what it is we all …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 07:52 AM
1

I mean both of these subs are pretty circle jerky when it comes down to it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 06:27 AM
1

It's not security forces or heroic individuals who are likely to save your life in a terrorist attack - it's men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 06:22 AM
1

well no the unfairness of paying for someone else's kid would have a detrimental affect on the attitudes of society towards parenting, also randomly assigning child support is the same drain on society as a tax, only it's not based on income so some people would be completely screwed through no fault or actions of their own
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/16 09:13 PM
1

Better for who though? It's not better for society as a whole because someone has to foot the bill for the single mother's bad life choices. Here in the UK the state pretty much picks up the tab, with a small means tested contribution from the dad
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/16 03:52 PM
1

Because they assume it proves feminism wrong, when actually BDSM allows people to live out these desires while still maintaining as much control as they want over it, although I think some feminists do see it as affirming the patriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/16 03:49 PM
1

A lot of fetishes come about out of fear or insecurity but that doesn't mean every fear always becomes a fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/16 03:43 PM
1

I mean yeah you can wear makeup and dress up, but ultimately you can't polish a turd
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/16 04:44 PM
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sorry not what i meant, the point is that subreddit is not about debating the issue but you tried to use it as a forum to make social commentary, showing that you both have no respect for the subreddit and have no actual interest in the subject matter there. WHether or not you're correct is irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 10:07 PM
1

red flags all over the show, if you don't notice then you aren't looking
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 07:01 PM
1

And that line of thinking is what lets actual creeps slip through. You seem to be under the impression some outward behavior should automatically give you a bad feeling only and always when someone is a threat to you. It's not a good idea to ignore that feeling, it's a good defense but at the same time you would be an idiot to assume it will spot everything. Engage your conscious mind and look out for subtle red flags in how they act towards others rather than only looking if they seem peculiar
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 07:00 PM
1

just because it's shamed doesn't mean that deep down they don't want to bang the fuck out of smoking hot 19 year olds
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 06:50 PM
1

Assuming this TRP totally selfish idea is true the man might be high value but the resources she can use from being involved are limited by sharing the man with other women to the degree that logically it might be better to get a man all to herself who has fewer resources but ones that can all be used to her benefit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 06:37 PM
2

I mean is that subreddit really the place to have such a discussion? it would be safe to assume you were trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 06:34 PM
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I mean you can have no strings sex with a hot blonde 21 year old or a hot blonde 32 year old, which one are you gonna choose? simple supply and demand That said it's bad science to assume it carries over into a long term situation, you probably wouldn't marry the 21 year old if she is really annoying or immature
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 06:29 PM
1

everything is contextual, but i'd suggest that for pretty much everyone the sexual attraction is heavily weighted, and then a slightly less weighted "what's in it for me" factor (the answer mostly being the sex itself for men but not always)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/16 07:37 AM
1

I mean to be fair if they treat white women that way the police show up
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 05:27 AM
2

i dont think you're wrong, i think you have causality in the wrong order, men on average are bad in bed because they don't get enough sex to get good at it, I can't count the number of how to please your woman guides ive read but it was meaningless, it's experience that improves your skill as a lover, ultimately if women as a group put out more they would as a group have more orgasms
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 06:52 AM
1

No, as long as someone believes a crime has been committed it's their duty to investigate, regardless of how ridiculous the allegation may be
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 07:53 PM
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A lot of people who grow up with a lot of money or are just generally a bit spoiled turn out really nice because they never face any adversity ever, conversely a lot turn out like spoilt shits who feel entitled to everything and have no qualms about demanding it. This is probably the same of people and sexual charisma, some are really nice, some are outright horrible, on the other hand people without this can grow up humble and grow real character and learn to make the most of what they have or …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 06:00 AM
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yeah prosecution still requires evidence, contrary to popular opinion. We can freely report anything we like to the police and they have a duty to investigate
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 05:45 AM
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The police have absolutely no say over what is a crime, and I guess it could fall under harassment if you were say following one person around taking photos all the time and getting right up in their face with the camera or just bothering someone to a measureably unreasonable degree
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 03:42 AM
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I mean it doesn't change the law, only how they record their statistics, it's still perfectly legal in the UK to take a picture of whatever you like in public
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 10:04 PM
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Because they read about some feminist theory and misunderstood what it meant, it's fine to view women sexually as long as you keep in mind that they are a person and afford them the same respect as someone you don't find sexually appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 08:48 PM
1

It's human nature to have an opinion on things that aren't any of your business and want everyone to know what that opinion is. It's part of the appeal of reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 06:53 AM
2

As a Brit I can tell you that giving a say to ignorant backwater idiots on politics just gives you a Brexit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/16 07:02 AM
1

get over it/pay a hooker/use their videogame addiction on pokemon go and get some fucking exercise
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/16 06:53 AM
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Without emotion your experiences are of no interest, life is meaningless, and you are just a machine. Imagine all the good times you have had in your life. Take out emotions and all that's left is someone else's story in purely factual terms For that matter emotions are part of your drive as a life form to survive and thrive, and your body's user interface. Emotions make you dissatisfied with a situation that isn't maximising your reproductive output or resource gathering ability
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/16 06:23 AM
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I mean really the moral of the story is not to marry someone whose habits annoy the fuck out of you, and expect those habits to stop. Theres no deeper emotional reasons, no validation or love issues, and there doesn't need to be. It's plenty enough that the person you still love is far too annoying to you to coexist with them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/16 06:08 AM
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Lol satire is like comedy only not particularly funny and the person delivering it is genuinely pissed about it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 06:57 AM
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I though child support just went to whoever had custody of the kids
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 06:55 AM
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They can smell inauthentic shit a mile away. if that was true there wouldn't be so much whingeing about guys leaving once they got sex
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 06:50 AM
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$1250 a month will maybe get you a shoddy studio apartment in the ghetto in California. there you go, plenty. If you're spending every weekend with your kids, you will be associated with their fun time. And what does it matter if your kids aren't grateful? You don't want them to eat because you want them to be grateful? as long as the mother is happy for me to have them that weekend, and the kids ought to be aware at least of who is sacrificing time and dealing with pressure to buy them all thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/16 01:29 PM
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It's plenty, you just don't get to enjoy the luxury of someone with a more demanding job, I know it's almost like you're expected to make sacrifices for the best interests of the child or something those kids will be grateful to the mom and not the dad despite the dad paying for everything, she gets to enjoy all those nice family times and he gets to go to work and pay for the kids to like him even less Until she's not, but the money still rolls in whether she is being reasonable and actually ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/16 01:08 PM
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both/either/neither depending on who they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/16 06:58 AM
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If she can't support the kids on 50k I'll happily take custody
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/16 06:52 AM
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because an infant has the ability to support itself, right? this in itself is an interesting assumption
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/16 06:49 AM
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yeah if only you didn't disregard the experiences you read that don't fit in with your opinion...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 05:48 PM
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to be fair sex could feel way better for men than women(also the lack thereof could feel way worse) and we would never know because you can't actually have both
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 05:03 PM
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goes quiet and looks kind of uncomfortable every time sex comes up and you also never see then with a girl in like the 20 years you've known them they probably put 2+2 together. Yeah that they're probably gay
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 04:55 PM
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You went to the moon though, be a bit strange for Neil Armstrong to have said "this is a small step for a man, but not really a big deal all in all"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 04:53 PM
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The only thing waiting will do is throw off people who don't want a relationship, doesn't make it more tempting for everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 07:26 AM
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Best course of action for an LTR is to find someone you actually want to have sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 07:22 AM
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All kinds of kinky shit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/16 01:55 PM
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I mean ultimately all of us and our descendants are going to die, hard to 100% win on that basis
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/16 07:36 AM
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you sound like a great friend
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/16 07:33 AM
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Teenage pregnancy would like a word with your argument If you really want a kid it's not hard to find one of those crazy career single mother types and put a bun in the oven
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 05:44 PM
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well chicken and egg, they don't have much experience/are burnt out cause it's not easy, it's not easy because they don't have much experience/are burnt out But for the sake of devil's advocacy going by what TRP says an LTR increases the barriers to success(at least sexually) while rewards get more scarce, in a classic videogame hard mode looks the same the best things in life come from delayed gratification. can you give some examples where taking the hard path leads to more pleasure? I can't t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 05:37 PM
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To me it's fine as long as you inform her that's what you intend to do, it's the lying that's shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 11:10 AM
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Only reason I don't watch it is the trailer looked shit, same reason I never watched the first one
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 11:06 AM
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Cry and be sad? great that solves all our problems then, job done We love men. Did you not understand that I'm not saying women alone would make a better world but we need their equal input? We do for completely different reasons but nothing will change With the advent of the pill and the wave of feminism in the 60s, came the protests against the destruction of the world. and when did the large scale destruction of the world start again? late 50s/early 60s? had the forests and waterways and ocea…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 06:43 AM
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she can Pokemon Go fuck herself comments are banter
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 01:07 PM
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oh do one with this women would rule the world a lot better, you didn't seem to have any complaints while this shitty world was being built, you didn't intercede when any country wanted to go to war, actually historically women would shame the men who chose not to go to war, you don't refuse or boycott any of the modern conveniences that are poisoning the world. Worst of all when we have democracy women haven't voted for anything outside of the mainstream everyone else is voting for. The only th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 08:16 AM
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yeah but ask someone in the 50s if they are happy and they're thinking about how they have food, shelter, family support and no war Ask people today they are saying they're miserable because they don't have everything they could possibly want
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 08:11 AM
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oh yeah that thing I do, that's real strength, those other things I don't do are really easy, probably. I'd do them well better, I'm not going to but I totally would
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 08:04 AM
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Women invented agriculture. Women invented language. got a source on these two, not trying to be a dick I actually want to know if that's true But when you look at the world today, you can see the results of the lack of input from women. We needed more women in all spheres all along. The world is a fucking mess because men primarily built the infrastructure. yeah I'd totally run the world better than it's leaders, if i ruled the world it would totally be a utopia
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 08:00 AM
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The middle east is completely patriarchial, much more so than the west, they're just also fucking crazy round there
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 07:55 AM
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Yeah a system full of holes is a bad system
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 07:51 AM
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To be honest I think it comes about because people are too trusting, when someone is unattractive or unconfident they get treated with suspicion, I don't think this is where girls get it wrong. They get it wrong by actually trusting confident good looking guys, like what if you don't feel uneasy around someone they must be trustworthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 07:48 AM
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Yeah don't buy the sun
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 05:01 PM
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because you have only met a tiny tiny minority of them, it's not a big enough sample to draw any reliable conclusions. Form this point of view you have to be cynical towards anyone you haven't met but have a fair amount of optimism that they have every chance of being a good person until you know otherwise. You want to group people by their genetic gender but I would group people by common beliefs and behaviors, so one group of humanity are bigots, and the rest are not bigots, the people being h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 04:51 PM
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None of these are a makeover, the men in question all hit the gym pretty flipping hard
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 07:24 AM
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ok accepting your premise that men are the evolutionary booster, the inbuilt violence you claim of men is part of the package, you exist because men engaged in violence on behalf of your ancestors, or indeed themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 07:15 AM
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by realising that half the population is not a homogeneous glob of goo that goes around killing people? try it this way, men are vastly more likely to suffer from gout than women, doesn't mean all men have gout all the time. the same is true for violence
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 07:08 AM
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daddy issues much?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 07:03 AM
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ahh okay we're playing "I didn't do it, so it's not my problem" why should I care about crime, I'm rich and live in a safe area. why should I care about rape, I'm neither the rapist nor the victim and not likely to be in my lifetime. Also do you not think those men who don't engage in violence deserve just as much protection from it as the women who don't engage in violence? This is my main gripe with feminism, you all group me as the same as the worst kind of men simply because I have similar g…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 06:47 AM
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I find it especially interesting given how often they will say not to ask the fish for advice on how to catch them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 06:07 PM
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why shop around when you already bought the best model?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 06:40 AM
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nothing is difficult when you have loads of money
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 06:39 AM
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ITT How to you achieve Y "I do x" "that's wrong, you're wrong, that doesn't work on me!"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 06:38 AM
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it's not, this is a fear certain people have that they are being taken for a ride by every woman they date, similar to the blanket assumption that all guys just want you for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 06:36 AM
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yeah but how are you going to know what she gave other guys? if she's playing it right you think she does this with all the guys
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 06:32 AM
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it's more like anti respected, you're essentially telling the guy he's the least attractive person you ever dated. at that point the only man who is going to hang around must be desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 06:30 AM
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is this advice you learned by experience? I know I personally wouldn't wait for it, but then again I'm not that into anyone, or a relationship in principal really
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 06:20 AM
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I'm sure they would say the same
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 11:47 AM
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Yes exactly which is why I stay away from males raised by single mothers. Most of you are damaged goods. Yeah you don't generalize at all. Seriously though where do you go irl where more than the odd nutter accuses you of things?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 11:21 AM
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So? I don't see how those people and their views affect you? I mean Fuck 'em I guess is what I'm trying to say, plenty of people are hostile to my various demographics, but Fuck 'em why let haters bring you down? Also isn't everything you just described what you're doing now?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 10:57 AM
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Why can't it be both? we are biologically compelled to stick dick in vag and make babies, any babies we can, but we also have some compulsion towards medium term pair bonding. Doesn't mean we instantly pair bond with everyone we stick it in though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 06:37 AM
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i mean I think most people dealing with foreveralone don't go to the site, they just live their life in semi contented comfortable loneliness
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 06:31 AM
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good for you, who knows maybe if you go out and actually do it instead of talking big on the internet your life will improve drastically
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 06:28 AM
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seriously you are totally redpill. And like i'd say to TRP I don't get it theres enough men out there who will play by the rules you want, go find them instead of spreading hate about the people that want to live life differently, your attitude smacks of entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 06:21 AM
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I think they view everyone in a purely selfish light, their own behavior is a means to an end, other men's behavior is incidental and irrelevant to them, and women's behavior is simply an indicator of how likely they are to get their own way in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 06:13 AM
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can be abuse as part of a pattern of behavior with he specific intent to control their behavior, simply depriving it because you don't want to give it alone is a sign only that your relationship is failing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 06:08 AM
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it's never irreparable, but i think it gets to a stage where they are beyond caring enough to try again, from certain people I know the age appears to be in the mid 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 05:27 PM
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it's legal in the UK, similar attitudes all the same, then again given brexit we're all in for a good fucking anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 05:23 PM
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oops, I meant that to say intentional. The comment started out as they don't realise it's not intentional. I just woke up in my defence
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 08:09 AM
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I mean given the number of women on reddit that seem to genuinely believe boners are intentional this doesn't surprise me. it's only obvious if you find out first hand edit. intentional, we don't decide to have a boner
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 06:40 AM
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personally I don't have any, I figure they must exist though because the other guy seemed to know what he was talking about. I just wanted to point out what your observation was missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 06:34 AM
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it's a symptom of the human condition, when the caring cooperative side of humanity isn't nurtured the selfish side takes center court with a mentality that the only person you can rely upon for anything is yourself. It's learned behavior, when everyone you see around you is shitty vain and selfish you don't randomly start acting nice modest and helpful That said it does feed a cycle, when women only see guys that want to fuck them and leave they start to get interesting ideas about the rules of…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 06:27 AM
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more women are involved now, because there are a lot more women, but as a proportion of the female population there are fewer prostitutes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 06:18 AM
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No it means literally nothing, if someone asks for advice on what to do differently, or what they're doing wrong when their normal self isn't working you might as well tell them to fuck off as say be yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 06:12 AM
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Correct me but TRP seems to advocate simply nexting girls who do the LMR thing. That girl got raped, not TRPed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/16 10:40 AM
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why join a culture at all, to me intelligent people who think their views through can't possibly back a "culture" as much as people do. Listen to every culture you come across, and form your own damn views, anything less is just lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/16 07:07 AM
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yeah but that's because Americans are pill crazy, they want a pill for everything, even when theres nothing wrong with them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/16 06:39 AM
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they can always pay for it, true of a lot in life TBH
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/16 06:35 AM
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Well which is it, a substitute for intimacy or just the feeling of sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/16 10:48 AM
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That's not a reliable assumption though, like with any other sex toys it's masturbation, doesn't say anything about how he views sex or women. Also if its just feeling why would he be interested in the rest of the anatomy being there? Surely porn and some sort of fleshlight would be a cheap and and easier way to achieve it? Finally why can't a man have an interest in both feeling and the mental side of it, even sometimes independent of each other? And if you found him otherwise attractive why wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/16 10:26 AM
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People who post comments online already have a strong opinion on things, otherwise they wouldn't care enough. That doesn't represent people in general at all. What did you believe exactly? That people were starting to give a shit about and respect each other? Humanity is was and always will be selfish to the extreme. That said the rules of engagement these days favour a nicer approach, people are at least trying to get along, but some people hate whatever demographic you exist as part of, you wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/16 08:14 AM
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Most people I know are under 30 and don't even know what TRP or the manosphere is, you are hanging out in niche places and extending your observations to the mainstream
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/16 07:55 AM
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It won't become the norm, but part of me would rather that than be settled for by someone who really wanted a more attractive man
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/16 07:50 AM
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To be fair its not a concept that comes up often in conversation Although I do find statements like this though I'd be put off on a personal level if a guy had one) Interesting, I mean why does that make you uncomfortable?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/16 07:41 AM
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theres enough genuine amateur porn out there to get info about real people
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/16 07:02 AM
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play it both ways, next time these women are about to unload on you start whingeing about your own problems. This will play out one of two ways, either you are wrong and will find a sympathetic ear that does like you and wants to know, or you're right and they will fuck off to some other guy with their BS
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/16 06:58 AM
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I'd protect them I reckon, sucks for the victim and their family but shit happens
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 04:47 PM
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yeah please don't fake it, if you fake it then the guy isn't going to know he's shit and therefore isn't going to improve, and if they're just being inconsiderate who the fuck cares about their feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 06:35 AM
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well in my experience women are terrible at communicating what they actually want in bed, meaning you have to try a few times to get a good idea of what does it for her
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 06:27 AM
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it's like a really shit car with a few smells you don't even want to consider the scource of but one that runs, and driving is still fun no?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 04:15 PM
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you see fat men with thin girls but they tend to be really tall and strong despite their obesity. actually when I give ti thought it's a similar story for fat women with attractive men, they are usually pretty damn tall, I only ever tend to see short fat people with each other
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 06:15 AM
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I mean if most people really wanted to get laid tonight and live near a city, theres always some ogre of a woman who will be easy enough to flatter with attention in any busy club or bar
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 06:13 AM
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if we're playing caveman fat meant you had an abundance of food, a survival trait if ever we saw onen not ot mention impossible since there was no abundance of food, plus i highly doubt cavemen went around looking for informed consent
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 06:04 AM
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Also all 3 carry the risk of death
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 11:48 AM
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Random chance, other factors, and straight up lies. You actually have a small amount of good advice amongst the bullshit and you can have the success without acting like a bad egg
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 11:47 AM
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nobody wants to be the horny dog chasing a bone they can't have, I say it's better to filter out people who think they're better than you regardless of it being true or not
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 07:00 AM
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Well my life went downhill the moment I started wearing pants, I guess it's true of everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 06:22 AM
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for me no hate, those cuts just tend to look shit IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 06:17 AM
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Those feelings or similar are still true of men, they just handle them badly, hence the bravado and overcompensating. deep down most of the "incels" simply lack the self confidence to act in a way that is attractive to women, suffer crippling anxiety and turn to denial as a coping mechanism. That is if none of it is their fault they can probably avoid getting too depressed about it by being angry instead
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 06:10 AM
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I have to admit that sometimes I feel jealous of men because most appear to have a default, possibly biologically determined, overestimation of their attractiveness, competence, and intelligence, whereas I have struggled with body image and self-esteem my entire life. oh, I think I missed the memo on that one, guys where do we pick up the high self esteem again?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 09:18 PM
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if that's what they feel they have no business complaining about society not treating them well
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 09:14 PM
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I don't get why people care what some cunt on the internet says about them, she's entitled to that shitty opinion Personally my shitty opinion on this is that I have every right to act "creepy" and if people are uncomfortable by my interacting with them that's not really my problem, and they are perfectly welcome to leave
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 09:10 PM
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Morally repugnant? Tony Blair is a war criminal
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 07:20 AM
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i love lamp
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 07:08 AM
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I love how hateful you are, for someone who is firmly anti TRP you have a lot in common with them. I'm gonna hazard a guess though that you haven't actually encountered one in the wild, so I have to ask why you sought out the part of the internet that is most hostile to women and expected anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 06:58 AM
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somehow men resorting to a relationship with a sex doll don't strike me as the kind people want to have sex with. Also I'm pretty sure opinions aren't genetic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 06:56 AM
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if it makes him happy and isn't harming anyone who are we to judge?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 06:54 AM
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neither gender is oppressed in western society, disadvantaged undeniably, but oppression means more than having to look after your own children
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 06:52 AM
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actually given the prison system in the US that's likely part of the process
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/16 10:31 PM
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well it is at issue, it's a different class of crime to be treated differently, what the false accusation is actually of IMO is less relevant, any perversions of justice need to be treated more seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/16 03:10 PM
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Trying to use the justice system as a weapon to destroy someone is a direct attack on the foundation of society, not to mention the damage it does to the credibility of genuine victims
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/16 02:30 PM
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No, selfless isn't an achievable trait in humanity, the enlightened are simply better equipped to achieve their own ends
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/16 02:28 PM
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Your mom promotes rape culture
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/16 09:34 PM
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so you ever make the approach? forgive me but it looks like you tried nothing and are all out of ideas
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/16 06:07 AM
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Whatever is in their names, you shouldn't try to value the intangible "support" type of contribution to the asset, it relies on too many assumptions to be an exact science and it's better left to a premarital negotiation
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 12:30 PM
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Well he's not exactly an equal opportunities terrorist
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 12:25 PM
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so which if any of these are you currently doing? oh you might want to add "whinge on the internet" just to be sure you have an answer besides none
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/16 04:29 PM
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For every person with common sense making smart decisions there are 19 pig ignorant fuckwits making bad ones and blaming everyone else for the results. So I guess what I'm saying is both?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/16 04:22 PM
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Yes, the problem is when they are still entitled to the same financial beneifts that came from the other partner, regardless of actual contribution, and not being partnered any more this will cost the other partner more money than if they stayed together. Forget which gender it benefits, alimony is bullshit as a concept. Maybe a payment to keep them going for like a month is fair, a month is time enough to get a job. It's akin to quitting your job and expecting them to keep paying you forever
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/16 07:11 AM
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they will be expected to earn their own way in their life pursuits. That's at least 100 years away
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/16 07:53 PM
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probably, good PR move though The statistics on college sexual assault haven’t gone down in the past two decades. Yeah it's funny how persistent made up statistics can be
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/16 07:50 PM
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been fat, been not fat. got more pussy when not fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/16 07:48 PM
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focusing on things you have no control over is never helpful
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/16 07:47 PM
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I'm pretty fat, got moving furniture down to a fine art, we are used to walking short distances with a lot of weight to carry
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/16 07:33 PM
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women put on fat more easily, but obese is obese
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/16 07:32 PM
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There's a term for girls like this: NOPE!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/16 07:18 AM
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none, only consequences in the real world inflicted on yourself and others
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/16 05:08 PM
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The problem is morality is inherently subjective, you won't find 2 different people with the same moral ideals on every subject
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/16 05:07 PM
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I dunno there's enough trump voters to suggest people will follow a really bad idea to a worrying level
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 10:42 AM
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Right imagine a morbidly obese woman with really bad acne, no amount of foreplay is gonna give you an erection there
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/16 12:20 PM
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They might like sex as much as men, but require a higher level of arousal to get the same enjoyment from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/16 12:03 PM
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Successful and interesting is attractive, it's not a matter Of earn or deserve that's just what gets them going
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/16 11:51 AM
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it's also inevitable. First world nations chose to evolve beyond it but that's only our choice for so long
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/16 06:54 AM
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only by the shortsighted, I mean yeah let's enjoy progress while we can, because when humanity's overindulgence catches up to us it I highly doubt looking after the vulnerable members of society will be considered. That said in this instance I wasn't advocating eugenics, merely a much looser governmental support system than is currently imposed, and I don't see anyone as being genetically disposed towards bad life choices, the factors are mostly socio economic so a socio economic encouragement t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/16 09:31 PM
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Everyone dies, no escaping that one matey
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/16 08:44 PM
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It's more of a happy side effect than active management
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/16 08:19 PM
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I agreed with everything but the racism
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/16 06:54 PM
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There's a big step up from refusing financial support to eugenics
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/16 06:52 PM
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Oh. I think I'd rather just have mutually attracted sex but you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 04:39 PM
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If you don't want sex why even bother dating? I mean you sound like you could afford your own dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 06:58 AM
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You know in days gone by she would say this shit out loud with normal people, be told "that's fucking stupid you muppet" and that would be the end of it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 06:54 AM
0

why do you care what some dickhead on the internet thinks or does?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/16 06:31 AM
2

take the stairs you fat fuck, but no not sexual assault needs context, and are we talking inner or outer thigh, and how high, a pat on the outer thigh can just be friendly but then again it could be an attempt at sexual assault probably but I'd be surprised if it went to court
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/16 06:27 AM
1

oh no the progressive part is the not honour killing people for refusing to conform to your own conservative world view
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/16 06:47 AM
1

If you include sexual harassment and unwanted touching in that I'm surprised it's not a lot higher, I always though sexual assault had a much more fixed definition
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/16 06:44 AM
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I dunno, it's not like they are particularly widely used here in Europe, it's still more preferable to have sex without paying for it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/16 06:35 AM
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I don't know if learning game actually helps with either but logically increasing the frequency of sexual partners increases the chances of having sex with a higher quality partner. I guess the point of the self improvement and learning game or whatever is to shorten the list of reasons for a woman to not want sex with you, if you have fewer flaws you are more attractive and will attract better parners, though how much improvement is open for debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 06:37 AM
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Because they keep getting told by feminism that they won't be welcome in STEM
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 12:18 PM
1

Their aim is to study why women are not in these fields That's probably the reason
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 12:17 PM
1

I mean end of the day it's a value judgement, you can't prove things like that either way
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 12:14 PM
1

If everyone had a sex bot we would all be much more pleasant to each other
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 10:38 AM
1

How was he?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 10:36 AM
2

That's not true. It's small by comparison but the market exists
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 10:35 AM
0

It's a pretty vague term, people who take the time to label themselves are just sour grapes but most who fit the description probably don't care enough to discuss it on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 10:26 AM
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I dunno about the others but I sure as fuck am not
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 07:08 AM
1

presumably such waiving would revert to a state of whoever's name is on the deed being the owner? in which case her concern would be towards taking his stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/16 11:07 PM
2

and that's terrible but a handful of one sided anecdotal examples on the internet tell us nothing about a trend I get out and about plenty, tell me do these slutty girls tell you or are you assuming? both, and some of the guys are friends of mine, and I don't know since most are only a few years into the relationship but the attraction between them is clear for all to see I don't see how when they get to 30 and want a partner it would make them stop desiring good sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/16 07:23 AM
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The only rights she would be waiving would be to do with his finances, if you're already planning your divorce you shouldn't get married
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/16 07:13 AM
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yeah funnily enough getting older can mess with your libido, as can your partner getting fat and lazy. and I went to those subs, it was thoroughly depressing but that doesn't make them the norm. Lol, where are you getting that from? the real world, maybe you should go and see it some time, most of the slutty women I met in my early twenties have ended up marrying some guy they started out just fucking That or they don't fancy being single into their thirties. perhaps both? I don't see how wantin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/16 07:08 AM
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you shouldnt go to clubs and bars if you want to meet the polite friendly section of society
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 11:56 PM
4

you say that like it's a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 11:50 PM
3

no but tall tales might be something to consider
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 11:50 PM
1

I actually don't think most women would care all that much, I mean some might be all like "eww" or moralistic but personally I'd only date open minded mature people who know how the world works to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 11:48 PM
1

oh shit, bit late now haha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 11:47 PM
1

duped? that's the price of marriage to that man, she's not being fooled if he says he wont marry her without a prenup, and frankly if I was engaged to someone and whether my property was up for grabs in a divorce was a big deal to her I'd be rethinking the wisdom of marrying her
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 11:36 PM
1

the only protection against ruinous divorce is no divorce, and by extension that means no marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 08:13 AM
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sticking your head in the sand offers total peace of mind if you ignore all of the risk it leaves you at, for myself I can't pretend the risk of financially ruinous divorce stops existing because of a piece of paper the courts can choose to completely disregard
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 07:28 AM
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cause contrary to TRP narrative they aren't just done fucking around and now want to find financial support, the reason they go to so many guys is that they can't find a decent fuck, if they still want to be with you after the first couple of weeks chances are it's because the sex is working for them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 06:36 AM
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if you want 100% ease of mind don't get married
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 06:32 AM
1

but the point is the court is under no obligation to accept any of the terms of the penup
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 05:37 PM
2

to be fair the woman typically doesn't need to protect herself financially
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 04:59 PM
2

so you're saying a prenup is only good as long as it doesn't differ from what the court says?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 04:57 PM
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that's about it really, nothing bad will happen because of a prenup that wouldn't happen anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 04:56 PM
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The aforementioned paranoia, and even then you could leave before harm is done
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 02:00 PM
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Anyone with that much paranoia and foresight would leave before it got abusive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 06:32 AM
2

Waste of money when the courts can ignore them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 06:31 AM
1

Yeah people might approach you in public and say words. Deal with it. Also I dunno if it's just polite rural Brits but round here it's not unusual to say hi to someone you meet out walking and have a random conversation with a total stranger, but yeah we do tend to have manners
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 06:25 AM
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right because that never happens
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 08:59 PM
2

Naming the wrong man as the father by mistake rather than malice or self interest
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 01:30 PM
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Too much scope for innocent mistakes to make it criminal, if financial support was given for the kid maybe a civil action against the true parents for the money should be a thing . Then again for court costs and the outlay of enforcing the new laws it might be easier to mandate a paternity test upon birth
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 10:46 AM
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Says something about this place that you took my flippant comment at face value as genuine advice
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 06:19 AM
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I see we don't do jokes here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 06:17 AM
0

if someone hands you their purse and you want them to not just start having a look through it, guarantee that will only happen once
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 05:50 AM
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it's false, someone still has to open jars seriously though it's hard to give credibility to silly what if scenarios, even ignoring the vested interest making them borderline propaganda
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/16 11:26 AM
1

It certainly looked like you intended it as an insult
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 02:44 AM
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No believe me I'm aware you have nothing against appearing homophobic. And I wasn't trying to expose anything, simply attempting to get you to think about the logic behind your use of gay as an insult. As for your fear that fear is not of some action that might be taken against you but a fear that your position as a man would be somehow undermined if you were to allow an emotional connection with another man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 02:24 AM
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You could be a giraffe for all I know, not important, point is homophobia is a sign of homosexuality, like it or leave it You're afraid that your homosexual desires make you less of a man, is what I mean, that's what leads you to throw the word around like it's something to be ashamed of, something indeed that requires exposure like it's a dirty secret. I could imagine me having sex with guys and maybe one day I'll be comfortable doing it too, not a big deal really.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 01:21 AM
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if he's not related to the child and not actively with the mother, he's got no more to do with the kid than you or I, might as well just pick the closest person at the time of birth and make them the parent if there is a husband, he should be supporting the child rather than the taxpayers. based on what logic or morality? And again why not the real father?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 04:50 PM
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if we're determined to arbitrarily designate responsibility to support a kid based on no relation it might as well be the taxpayer, if the priority is actually the child then relying on a father who may or may not be able or compliant to giving money or support for the kid is not the best plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 04:12 PM
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But couldn't you rely on the actual father for these things?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 02:55 PM
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but if he's just in the male changing room creeping up and eyeing up elementary school boys it's no drama
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 05:59 AM
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It's pretty telling that I'm not sure which them you're talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 05:52 AM
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I like the fishermen analogy, it always highlights the number of people who don't understand the concept of an analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 11:01 AM
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It's not supported by fact though, life's behaviour is competitive not harmonious, there's no observable reason to assume a direction towards balance, or in fact a direction at all
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 10:35 AM
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Not cruel, uncaring. Nature doesn't give a shit either way about you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 10:34 AM
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your fear of other men having sex with you is gay as fuck bro
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 06:50 AM
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Doesn't sound like you're capable of letting go fully, even if you let someone take the lead it's no good if you can't trust the person to make those decisions, no comment on whether you would even want to do that but to get carefree you either need to find more reliable people or entertain the possibility that your way is not always the only way to get things done.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 08:48 PM
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I was more going for the suggestion that TRP think of themselves when they come up with these theories, based on the fact that they are men and have never cheated but then have they actually had the opportunity?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 03:18 PM
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Everyone is loyal when there's no temptation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 11:47 AM
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It's just good advice, much easier to get with a less attractive person since they have fewer other options
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/16 01:59 AM
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tell me how awesome I am and shoot the shit while I drive around. are you sure? that sounds like a pretty awesome girlfriend to me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 07:36 AM
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obesity is the result of the urge to eat, naturally there is no reason not to keep eating until you're full of food because before modern wesern society food was not abundant and life not long enough for this behaviour to cause a problem, of course now you can eat until you're full with every meal, and food is now packed full of calories so you can also take in more sugars and fats in that stomach filling exercise, it is now a force of effort to not get fat, so I'd actually say dieting is a cult…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 07:21 AM
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I swear women are just trolling men when it comes to fashion, like none of you will admit it looks kind of ridiculous because it ruins the joke
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 07:11 AM
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that sole biological purpose is a dead end, making the bold assumption we survive the next 200 years, our planet dies eventually, even in the event we somehow survive that the universe is eventually going to stop being liveable, so if it is a problem it's only a problem for a short while towards an unachievable goal
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 06:41 AM
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it's frequent on the internet, not so sure about real life but there's never been a world where the man was always at fault. neither has there been one where the woman was always at fault, what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 09:02 AM
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That's not advice, thats just shaming from shitty people, happens to every demographic you can group. What I'm talking about is when they complain about being alone the advice from the people close to them who they listen to is along the lines of "be yourself" "that guy is a shit for not staying" and plenty more fish in the sea" they never get "maybe you should be more chill", or "get in shape", or "don't be so needy" Now I'm not saying this doesn't happen to men, I mean that's TRP's argument bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 08:48 AM
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I can't really believe your argument. because in one different example it went another way? that's a specific one person one time situation, perhaps in that situation it was the woman and perhaps the man, it's different when it happens frequently to the man in question. The logic goes if it happens once it's 50/50 could be you or the other person, if it happens every time the problem is probably you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 08:32 AM
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Right and were a guy on here complaining the same thing the advice from both pills would be that he's probably doing something wrong and needs to adjust his attitude or behaviour to be a better prospect, problem is nobody gives women this pragmatic advice over sycophantic sympathy. Most women have been loved, not sure how that's relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 07:57 AM
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You mean they had a potential relationship but it fizzled out? so what I've been head over heels for someone I've dated and they just lost interest, on average men are probably a little less likely to get even that. I don't know where people get this idea that men only want casual sex, every man I know is in an LTR or looking to find one. Getting off topic but you don't have to have children, I can't not look the way I do. Also personally I'm probably going to have kidney stones at some point si…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 07:15 AM
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I dunno the equivalent man becomes invisible way before that woman would on her journey into morbidly obese insanity
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 06:59 AM
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yeah with the other hot gay men, now imagine you're gay and a fat old man, nobody wants to give fat old man head, but you're also rich so fuck it someone will sell that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 06:55 AM
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Is there some reason they can't be both?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 06:49 AM
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The thing is, if you offered me large sums of money to have sex with some rich older men I'd be sorely tempted, fuck it name a high enough price they can even shit on me. I don't know if it's common for them to sell themselves but the truth is everyone has a price
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 06:46 AM
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supply of pussy > supply of male ass at least the kind that's for sale
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 06:39 AM
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you can make a bomb without considering the ethics of violence, actually it probably helps not to
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 06:50 AM
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If morality was based on what we expected from others the world would quickly fall into anarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 06:48 AM
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so wear the first outfit again and see how she reacts, maybe it's just the way you dress?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 06:46 AM
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better that than date the riddler
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 06:34 AM
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Problem, cause, suggested solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/16 12:51 PM
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Just outright say what it is you want the man to do or not do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/16 12:45 PM
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yeah it's an analogy not a parallel, you get poetic license. But if I wanted to be a kick ass salesman I wouldn't ever look to the customers for tips, I'd look to the person with the highest figures, and if you manage to get money in exchange for a rotten fish you're a pretty good sales person, sorry no refunds it was in good condition when you bought it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/16 07:03 AM
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only a very naive person would believe that means nobody would
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/16 07:53 AM
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honestly if someone else gets $100k you can punch me in the face
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/16 07:50 AM
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it's not hard to follow mate
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 10:32 AM
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I like pizza, doesn't mean it replaces and in a sentence. You're making less and less sense. Not all instances of fanaticism or fear-mongering are sexist. And certainly not in the sentence i used those words. I didn't say any instances of fanaticism or fear-mongering were sexist. The word I was referring to the meaning of was sexism, any kind of discrimination along gender lines is sexism, trivial or not. I don't see these jokes on their own as sexist. They are, as is the issue at hand, trivial.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 10:25 AM
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no it's not fanaticism, fear-mongering(you forgot the and). that's just what the word means, any kind of discrimination along those lines is sexism. To give an example more befitting your prejudices, jokes about women drivers do not impede the rights of women and are trivial, but they are still sexism
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 10:06 AM
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you seem to be saying it can't be both trivial and sexist
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 09:56 AM
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you're attaching undue gravitas and context to a word with a clear definition
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 09:44 AM
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it's a trivial issue either way around, the fact that they will make a song and dance out of it when it's a fringe internet group against women but wouldn't care(and rightly so) when it's a fringe internet group against men is where it gets sexist
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 09:30 AM
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but then you called me a fool when I said it was racist and sexist(admittedly I said call me a fool but still) which suggests you think it's not -ism if you're of the stereotypically privileged group
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 09:13 AM
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YOU!!!! You can say more insensitive things about white people and men in the media because they weren't recently oppressed. You can't say as insensitive things about women or black people in the media because they were, in the recent-past, subjected to a level of oppression. or are you saying every black person or woman has been opressed and that no white man has been opressed? otherwise you are just drawing arbitrary lines, like the author of the article, and it's a definite case of -ism
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 08:43 AM
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and yet who wants people to be treated differently based on arbitrary genetic traits?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 08:16 AM
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call me a fool but that's still racist/sexist
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 07:29 AM
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and if all else fails you can always pay for it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 05:55 AM
1

No not just be yourself, be fake as Fuck just be really good at faking
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 11:19 AM
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Usually the only advice I get from women is that I need to get a girlfriend, no how involved, I'm like yeah thanks for that one
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 11:15 AM
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So want to have sex with her, but don't appear to want to have sex with her? My brain hurts
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 11:10 AM
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That's great if you're looking for a repeat of a ONS, but you need to get there first
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 11:08 AM
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It feels good, why would anyone not?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 11:03 AM
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I'm going to tell you straightforwardly I'm tangentially part of a disruptive leaning community, and in years to come you're going to see disruptive as more of a mainstream word. It's so interesting, engaging with this point of view~ someone thinks highly of themselves on an intellectual level
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 06:31 AM
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yes mean are tools, and women are pleasure giving baby machines, this nonsense of people giving a shit about each other beyond biological function as people is a social vanity
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 06:24 AM
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According to the law no contract is enforceable if the terms are deemed unfair by the courts, it's pretty simple though, don't get married if you don't want to deal potentially with divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/16 08:35 AM
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if kept under control anger can be a useful tool to motivate you to get the job done, crying to get sympathy isn't effective for grown men, also I dunno about you but I get back to a normal emotional state from anger in seconds, wheras after crying that balance takes a few hours to get back
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/16 08:29 AM
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probably loads, but naming them always just feels like I'm making excuses for my shortcomings
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/16 08:20 AM
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fuck no, missed a good opportunity to make a quick buck though, "what's in it for me?" is an underused question
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 10:20 AM
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not even the extreme nutters of feminism would attempt such an argument
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 10:19 AM
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That article doesn't say that though, and it's a simple matter that outwardly submissive men vastly outnumber outwardly dominant women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 10:16 AM
1

ok I admit it, you're gay
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 08:08 AM
2

is that an insecurity thing or do you find it a turn off?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 08:06 AM
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CMV is shorthand for "fuck you, you can never CMV"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 05:42 AM
2

I understand it, sort of, but most fetishes are pretty complex, it's not likely to be a single, simple factor And yes, I don't see why she couldn't, insecurities on both sides might get in the way, but one or both of them would be getting off on it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 06:26 AM
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The "real you" doesn't get a chance unless you are attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 06:16 AM
1

depends, think you have to make the distinction between women who are just cheating and couples doing that as some sort of fetish, I don't think anyone could honestly say they give much of a shit about a partner they cheat on and lie to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 06:11 AM
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but it is esoteric, if you don't have that fetish it doesn't make sense that people would accept the situation, but the reality is that in these couples the situation is fulfilling a bizarre desire the man has
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 06:10 AM
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ok to bring it back to context, what Im saying is that most women aren't as naggy as that at any age, and I'd suggest a selection bias was occurring in people looking for a long term partner
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/16 06:19 PM
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because that's what TRP seems to want in a relationship, IMO the naggyest women are the ones who want a patriarchal provider, it's not as big a concern to women who can handle their own shit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/16 06:05 PM
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Well yeah, but if some women choose to be in that role that's on them, and theres plenty of women who will happily be lead only they won't play second fiddle to a total loser
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/16 05:32 PM
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if you want to be in the patriarchal position you better be prepared and equipped to fulfil the patriarchal role
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/16 05:21 PM
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because then they would have to lie about it to anyone they would have a normal relationship with in the future, also a lot of them do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/16 07:07 AM
2

A human history of religion would suggest it's not
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 07:49 PM
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Because intelligent people want to have the views they formed challenged so that they can be refined, rather than simply seeking out echo chambers for the mantras they tell themselves and ignoring the existence of people who don't have the same opinions as them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 08:59 AM
1

as much as it is to hit anyone really
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/16 04:06 PM
1

Always find it entertaining when people take the internet this seriously how do you justify this behavior? Do you care about the harm you're causing? mate it's a bunch of idiots chatting shit on the internet with 0 consequence
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 07:27 AM
2

to be fair, it's no proof she didn't fuck Tom
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 07:18 AM
2

wait why would you need her DNA for a paternity test?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 07:15 AM
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Depends on how good a liar they both are
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/16 06:01 PM
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There shouldn't be a draft at all IMO just pointing out that it's comparing apples and oranges to try to use the ability to carry children as an excuse
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/16 02:21 PM
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No it's not a true sacrifice, people who WANT go to war are the reason wars happen in the first place, and what with the overpopulation and all the orphans who could be adopted it's a bit rich to say having your own kids is anything but selfish
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/16 10:15 AM
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Bit late to the party aren't we? It's not a sacrifice if you're doing it for your own selfish reasons. Most people have kids because they want to have kids, you have every option to not have kids and nobody is asking you to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/16 09:53 AM
3

I'd assume this came out after the sex lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 11:20 PM
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bet they didn't get pregnant though
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 11:07 PM
3

I mean at least she knew in clear terms where he stood on the issue of parenting
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 11:06 PM
1

I reckon this birth control failing idea is overplayed anyway, if you rubber up you're not likely to get an oopsie, but to play the harsh game we're playing I don't think women stupid and irresponsible enough to single parent are trustworthy as a parent, maternal custody should not be assumed when she has already proven herself to be that selfish
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 11:02 PM
2

What a fuckin ponse. ooh look at his enunciated shit poetry to aggrandize the absolute shit he's chatting. Anyway on to the crux of the matter, I'm a man, I didn't do any of that shit, why the fuck am I more responsible than the average woman for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 06:13 PM
1

To me TBP comes across like they are majorly butthurt SJWs trying to pretend they are not, and the impression I get from TRP is that they put up a wall of not giving a shit when really the hate they perhaps reasonably attract hurts their feelings, and I'd bet most of them don't practice what they preach in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 05:58 PM
1

Sometimes that's the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 05:50 PM
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on the one hand yes, on the other if shes never in the mood then it's fair to question whether you should remain married
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/16 09:04 AM
2

mutually beneficial and transactional are similar but distinct
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 07:35 AM
1

Mileage varies, no two people experience life in the same way, what TRP and TBP call fulfilling are very different experiences, and these strategies will attract people looking for the complimentary thing to your thing You all seem to fall to the trap of "that's not my experience, so it must be wrong"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 07:29 AM
1

I dunno, if you just don't get conversation like I don't there are plenty of stock phrases and lull fillers you can use to keep things flowing and arrive at some interesting topics. It sucks because I can get bored as fuck talking even to people I like. That said even if you won't be the best at it you can get your social skills to the point where they don't hold you back or make you look weird or stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/16 10:26 AM
1

Well if that ever happened I would smile. Hint: it doesn't
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/16 10:19 AM
1

I dunno about you but to me sex is about sex, winning does not give pleasure to my genitalia
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/16 10:12 AM
1

actually to be entirely honest that might have been something someone in the pub told me, maybe ignore that claim as probably BS?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/16 12:49 AM
2

That's assuming honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/16 08:59 PM
2

The insurance industry isn't exactly a moral benchmark
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/16 08:53 PM
1

Fuck no, but ive heard it said usually when anyone discusses the problem and someone says anything about precautions
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/16 08:52 PM
6

You might just chalk that up to "shit happens"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/16 12:45 PM
3

That's the terms of your insurance though, it only covers you if you take those precautions, there's no assertion of blame there
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/16 12:43 PM
3

It's always after the fact, but before the next one, the question to ask when something shitty happens is how do all of us make this happen less/not happen, it's not blame to point out places and times someone might be more vulnerable than they think
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/16 12:42 PM
2

Most of the FA men could find a nice man to fuck, same as the women, the issue is with finding someone you are not sexually repulsed by
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 09:07 PM
1

I know plenty enough skilled failures
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 05:50 PM
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