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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
90	Tired of being a loser		lcville100	/r/becomeaman	03/02/14 08:06 PM

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1	Tired of being a loser I'm a math major, but I also took a lot of computer programming classes. Honestly, after reading what you just posted, I'd be happy with any job once I graduate. Ideally I'd like a programming job, but I also love working with people (as in the public, not working with teammates). I'm not sure what exactly my career should be, but I've taken a lot of quizzes and surveys, and sometimes I get results like engineer or programmer or technical writer, but sometimes I also get results along the lines …	/r/becomeaman	14/02/14 01:06 AM
1	Tired of being a loser Thank you so much for this amazing reply. 4 weeks strong now, but still sometimes look at erotic pictures on imgur or tumblr. I'm determined to get over this though, and with enough time I will regain my confidence. I'm definitely distancing myself from toxic relationships too... A have a friend who considered me as his best friend, he even said it one night when we were drinking at a party. He moved to a different state last year, and I've been the only one of his friends to visit him. I've vis…	/r/becomeaman	12/02/14 11:18 PM
1	Tired of being a loser This is great advice, I need to definitely stop hanging out with those "friends" and continue building myself up. I'm on week 4 of NoFap, and it's getting really REALLY tough, but I'm determined. I've changed my diet completely, I'm getting more strict on what I put in my body, and I'm working out 5 days a week now. I've also started taking Kratom pills to help with the anxiety today, and so far it seems like it's working! (though it might be placebo). I read No More Mr Nice Guy, and that book c…	/r/becomeaman	12/02/14 10:51 PM
1	Tired of being a loser It absolutely is the most important part of all of this. I have so many cringe-worthy moments haunting me in my past, and I don't want to get that feeling of embarrassment anymore. I think my brain is protecting me by forcing me to stay quiet and avoid eye contact so that I don't make a fool out of myself by either saying something stupid/weird/strange or staring at someone too long in a creepy way. Maybe my brain thinks it's better to be perceived as awkward or shy than to be perceived as weird…	/r/becomeaman	04/02/14 04:46 PM
1	Tired of being a loser Thanks for the uplifting reply. Sorry you had to go through an ugly divorce, I can't imagine how draining that must be. It puts things into perspective though, my life isn't that bad, I'm probably exaggerating all of my anxieties.	/r/becomeaman	04/02/14 04:39 PM
1	Tired of being a loser Solid advice. One of my biggest problems is thinking about other people's thoughts of me. It's a terrible habit, and I need to reprogram my brain to learn how to live in the moment.	/r/becomeaman	04/02/14 04:32 PM
1	Tired of being a loser I've always wanted to go to Columbia... Hottest women on the planet IMO.	/r/becomeaman	04/02/14 04:30 PM
1	Tired of being a loser That guy sounded so fratty/bro-ey haha. But he makes a lot of good points. I'm definitely considering trying Kratom. I've also thought about other drugs too, like Provigil and Alpha Brain. Nothing to lose, only the world to gain.	/r/becomeaman	04/02/14 04:29 PM
3	Tired of being a loser My psychiatrist said that I'm not lazy, I'm just depressed. I believed her for a little while, but even on medication I still make bad decisions on how to spend my time. Then she said it might be due to my ADHD, as I tend to hyperfocus on random things. I'm on adderall now, and I guess it helps me stay focused and aware, but I can easily forget to take my addys. I know I tend to be lazy and seek instant gratification, and I absolutely hate that about myself. Overcoming laziness is easier said th…	/r/becomeaman	03/02/14 10:56 PM
7	Tired of being a loser Funny, because TRP led me here to BaM. It's a good subreddit, but you're not allowed to post questions as a noob	/r/becomeaman	03/02/14 10:48 PM
1	Tired of being a loser I just checked that out, he's got a unique perspective on meditation. I never tried meditation, but I'll give it a shot now. Nothing to lose.	/r/becomeaman	03/02/14 10:46 PM
1	Tired of being a loser You're right, I do know how to dig deep. I feel like I was in a cloudy fog for the past few months, and the fog is starting to clear up. Like I was in a coma of some sort, pretending everything was OK. I gotta be passionate about my studies, so I can finish school and get a job that I'll actually like. I gotta be passionate about myself so that I can be awesome and get friends and girls that I like. I'm going to be "wisely selfish" as ForPony commented below. It's MY life!	/r/becomeaman	03/02/14 10:45 PM
3	Tired of being a loser It's crazy, I thought weed was what was ruining my life, so I quit smoking about a month into getting my old job. Turns out that it was my porn addiction, combined with my pure hedonistic laziness that drove me to watch youtube videos all day instead of studying. It was addiction to instant gratification and pleasure in general. I'm working on it, and I'm seeing some slight progress. I guess I just gotta keep pushing and be patient.	/r/becomeaman	03/02/14 10:41 PM
4	Tired of being a loser You mean stop being lazy?	/r/becomeaman	03/02/14 09:08 PM
2	Tired of being a loser You know what... This comment just boosted my confidence immensely. Hearing that recognition (or reading it), and considering it a HUGE success really validates the effort that I'm putting into it. Then you go beyond that and put it into perspective: It's the first step into my new life. Maybe I'm a very emotionally charged guy. I look back at my life and I think that the only times I've ever had success was when I was passionate about something. I wrestled in college, and it was basically the o…	/r/becomeaman	03/02/14 08:55 PM
3	Tired of being a loser I'm not much of a reader, but maybe I should change that... Which book do you think is the best to start with? "No More Mr. Niceguy"?	/r/becomeaman	03/02/14 08:28 PM
1	Tired of being a loser Thanks for the reply. I used to have very lofty goals actually. I was quite ambitious. But when I said I took many huge hits to my self-esteem, I mean that I failed at many of my goals, and now I feel like I'm a broken man. I want to regain my manhood!	/r/becomeaman	03/02/14 08:27 PM