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Yeah I suppose a will to live is in fact just some small, menial bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:33 PM
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Yet the suicide rates in said western, developed nations are ten-fold what they are in those so-called “shithole” countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:20 PM
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Me too, somebody please link us.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 10:48 PM
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Idk about that man, plenty of decent women out there who are more than happy to go dutch when the opportunity presents itself. It’s simply a gesture of respect. My ex and I even split the cost of emergency contraceptives 2 weeks into meeting each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:13 PM
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Looking to move there next month. Is it really that bad? Are the latina girls obese or more “thicc”-like? Cuz I’m certainly more than okay with the latter.
/r/askTRP07/02/21 08:13 AM
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Damn, this guy’s approach to game is straight out of Machiavelli’s playbook. But instead of consolidating political power, it’s for sugar babying rich women lmao.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 10:08 PM
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That hardly sounds like “messing up” to me. Six figure salary straight out of college is incredible. I’m just surprised that despite you having such a diversified range of interests, you didn’t manage to make friends in either of them. You went to school, the gym, had internships, was heavily involved in the music scene. Those are the kind of places where people tend to congregate and mingle the most. I’m not exactly the most talkative person but even after three months of visiting the same gym,…
/r/askTRP09/01/21 04:01 PM
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Oh shit you’re that developer that got picked up by that quant firm.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 06:50 PM
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That’s when you know for a fact you gotta wear a condom.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 03:16 PM
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So what’d you do exactly? What was the “fighting”? Therapy?
/r/askTRP07/09/20 07:58 AM
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Typically, males raised by narcissistic mothers develop co-dependency issues. You learn how to mold yourself to best accommodate anyone of her given moods to ensure the family unit remains cohesive. Then we go out and repeat the same mannerisms with our romantic partners, prompting similar issues to resurface. Several failed relationships later and here we are on TRP.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 07:28 AM
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This right here is the archetype of true red pill advice
/r/askTRP31/08/20 05:24 AM
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Do you mind telling us what the career is?
/r/askTRP22/08/20 04:52 PM
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I actually live in Singapore (a little over two years). Yes to everything but the local women. They’re very primitive and most really aren’t that attractive. The white women who come here for their careers or studies, for some odd reason, are typically far more attractive. It’s a strange paradox because when I lived in the US, the asian girls are the hot ones whereas in asia, it’s the white girls that are more high value.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 01:34 AM
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Well Singapore no, Malaysia and Thailand are def on a significantly lower level.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 04:39 PM
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Seeking Arrangements. I had a plate that would find guys twice our age on that platform and make between 700-1,000 for every “date” she went on. It was absolutely ridiculous.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 02:13 PM
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How do you guys find the time to devote effort to all those things? Between college and a part-time internship, I hardly even find the time to go on dates and maintain a modicum of a social life. Ever since I took on the internship, I can’t even lift consistently anymore due to the time constraints.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 04:26 AM
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Well this sub in itself is a constant reinforcement for one’s ingrained misogynistic beliefs. I can’t truthfully say I’ve learned much since then. My beliefs regarding women have remained relatively the same. I do know that I’m also not exactly the most stable, well rounded individual and I suppose that it may just attract those types of women into my life which further exacerbates whatever biasness I have towards them. But I guess it’s ultimately all subjective and each individual’s personal ex…
/r/askTRP03/10/19 12:58 AM
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I wasn’t expecting anymore replies on this thread but thanks I guess?
/r/askTRP03/10/19 12:37 AM
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Why the fuck would you think this is good advice?
/r/askTRP11/08/19 03:40 AM
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Dude. Speaking as a white guy currently living in Singapore, I feel like your chances of landing some high quality poon are exponentially higher when you’re seen as a “unique commodity” just for being white in a predominantly Asian habitat.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 03:39 AM
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Dude, I personally don’t see anything wrong with what occured on that date. It sounded to me like you had fun and enjoyed spending time with the girl. You had a meaningful discussion with her surrounding some of your personal life and other things that actually interest you. With most women nowadays around the age of 18-22, getting them to talk about anything but superficial shit is extraordinarily hard. I think you’re overthinking this shit.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 04:55 PM
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Hol’ up “Married girl” and “colleague” my guy?
/r/seduction02/08/19 08:25 PM
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Commenting to check back on this in a few hours.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 05:48 PM
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The oil industry is definitely not gonna be sustainable for much longer. I’d highly advise against this career option.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 05:46 PM
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I wouldn't say vast majority of women. After all, the task of looking after a physically and mentally disabled individual is quite daunting and not a position most women would want to be in.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 03:31 PM
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Only will work if he's black
/r/askTRP16/06/18 05:44 PM
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I have no idea why but Gabriel is a huge no in my opinion.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 05:43 PM
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For me that wouldn't entirely be a lie.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 07:45 AM
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Really? I'm a psych student but I've always believed it to be predominated by a blue-pilled population. 80% of my entire class is women and I'm not entirely sure working as a practicing counselor/clinical psychologist would be the best route to go in terms of a 6 figure income.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 06:41 PM
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Yea I believe it's correct name is atypical
/r/askTRP21/05/18 09:51 AM
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How would getting into grad school amplify my success?
/r/askTRP10/05/18 04:38 PM
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Probably go back to the states to work.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 06:02 AM
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I'm originally from Russia but I studied in New York for 9 years until senior year. Then jumped at the opportunity to start college a year early.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 05:27 AM
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I don't think I plan on living or working here though. I can't even apply to any internships because I'm only permitted to be here as a student.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 05:07 AM
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Would you consider sales recruitment a worthy field to get involved in?
/r/askTRP28/04/18 05:29 PM
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Yeah our dorms have a 1 AM curfew. You can still get in but u get written up and if you're late too many times, could result in some consequences.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 08:46 AM
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True
/r/askTRP15/04/18 07:07 AM
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I thought it was because of my eloquent writing but okay, I can see how that comes off as somewhat robotic and inhumane.
/r/seduction14/04/18 05:16 PM
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Nerd? How'd that pop in there lol?
/r/seduction14/04/18 05:08 PM
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Thank you, that was a great take on this. Solid advice. What you've stated is definitely true but I guess I just don't understand women very well. I treat them differently from what I do with guys which already indicates some sort of toxicity. But thank you, I needed to read that.
/r/seduction14/04/18 05:07 PM
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Thank you. Solid take on this.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 05:02 PM
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But she wasn't one of the two attractive ones. Did he do it so the other females can see his ballsy attitude?
/r/seduction14/04/18 04:07 PM
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Nah I had a feeling this girl wouldn't have given two fucks about hooking up with someone in public.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 04:05 PM
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Alright thank you for that. Solid advice.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 03:58 PM
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Of?
/r/askTRP14/04/18 03:48 PM
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Yep you're definitely right.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 03:40 PM
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I get that but the dude didn't even implement any game, at least not when I was present.
/r/seduction14/04/18 03:39 PM
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So the point is to not even hit on them? Should I expect them to just flock to me? Initiate it with me?
/r/askTRP14/04/18 11:47 AM
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That's true. You're definitely right.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 11:42 AM
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Yeah that sounds like solid advice. I guess I'm not really even searching for a relationship, I'm mostly just looking to hook up with girls, for the sake of doing it. And he is a stand up dude, I'd have to agree.
/r/seduction14/04/18 10:57 AM
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Yep I'm slowly beginning to comprehend that.
/r/seduction14/04/18 09:31 AM
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You may be right but I feel like there may be other reasons as well. You're also probably correct about my frame. I do tend to slightly alter my personality to become a bit more alluring for females such as increasing my charisma amongst other things. He tends to keep his the same.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 09:01 AM
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In some ways he is. He is quite a confident guy seeing as how he's not afraid to say whatever's on his mind which is something I have issues due to my fear of conflict/confrontation. He's definitely witty and funny but I could say the same for myself, which is why we get along so well and make each other crack up constantly. He definitely has some modicum of intelligence at least from what I can tell whenever we talk about something that's highly ambiguous or thought-provoking but then again, I'…
/r/seduction14/04/18 08:58 AM
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Yeah you're probably correct. He definitely has a hell of a personality, part of which I myself find highly appealing and highly repulsive. It's a very complex one but I guess females find it enticing/relatable compared to mine which is charismatic/jokey which I guess is kind of basic. I guess each one has different standards but I tend to avoid showing too much negative emotion especially when I'm out with women.
/r/seduction14/04/18 08:54 AM
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Yeah you're probably right. It's just the first time I encountered something like this. The dude seems to just attract pussy effortlessly. You're probably right about the complex personality frame. I'm sure a lot of girls who've experienced some shit in their life like depression find it it enticing and relatable.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 08:40 AM
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Thanks. Let's hope that we get some soon.
/r/seduction14/04/18 08:38 AM
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You're probably right. Only difference is that I actually tried regardless whether hard or not, he hardly did anything at all. I guess the whole experience is just backing up the the 80/20 rule.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 07:41 AM
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What are the venues usually? Do you offer to pay or do you each pay for your own shit? I feel like going to three venues a night would make me go broke within weeks. Are they lounges, restaurants, cafes, clubs, bars?
/r/askTRP02/04/18 04:27 PM
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Goddamn dude. This is like some game of thrones shit you applied to high school clique interactions. Reminded me of little finger for some reason lol.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 04:22 PM
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Okay I see. Informative answer. Thank you.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 03:40 PM
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I'd honestly rather have a girl just use her mouth without jerking me. Just my personal preference but girls jerking me off usually fucking hurts my foreskin. Her head was already really fucking good, probably best I've had yet cuz she was giving me neck. I think it was the other factors that fucked with me.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 05:19 PM
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Probably a bit of both.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 05:17 PM
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That was actually quite informative lol. What you wrote sounds like it belongs on r/psychonaut tbh. Great take on it.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 06:12 PM
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Yeah I don't blame her for it, just sucks is all. I've had this problem for a while now. Most people think I'm blessed to be able to last so long in bed but there's a shittier side to it like not being able to cum by the time the girls worn out.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 02:13 PM
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You'd be surprised
/r/askTRP28/03/18 04:09 PM
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If she does, how do I respond to it? Should question her about and try and make a joke out of it or just ignore it completely?
/r/askTRP28/03/18 02:16 PM
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How would I respond to a question like that? I feel like she's not into LTRs, we hooked up on my first day of class.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 02:14 PM
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I guess I was subtly insinuating she was a hoe lol. Sort of my way of teasing her considering I hooked up with on my first day of class.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 02:12 PM
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Okay I won't. Probably should've just left it at the rain check.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 10:54 AM
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Should you avoid ever empathizing with a woman?
/r/askTRP22/03/18 01:40 AM
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Dude please let us know how the date went.
/r/seduction21/03/18 02:21 PM
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Agreed.
/r/seduction21/03/18 02:20 PM
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Lol shoulda said that
/r/askTRP21/03/18 10:26 AM
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The feedback loop from hell was also mentioned in Mark Manson's The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck. That too is a great read in my opinion.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 07:08 AM
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lol true but I don't regret it
/r/seduction17/03/18 01:15 AM
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That's a pretty solid explanation. Would you say that ego can go both ways, in terms of negative and positive reinforcement? Such as thinking in grandiose, "im the shit" terms or self-deprecating, "I suck" terms? Technically, they're both perceptions of yourself, just the polar opposites of one another but I only really hear it being said when someone's lacking humility so I'm not particularly sure.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 11:21 AM
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I thought that'd come off as being too needy and that I shouldn't base my mood off of hers. I would've asked if it was a friend but because it was a hot girl that I was actively trying to game, I thought it'd be the wrong move. I guess that's also part of the fuck up.
/r/seduction15/03/18 07:29 AM
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What do you mean withdraw my attention even harder? Just completely stop talking to her and just chill on my phone as well?
/r/seduction15/03/18 05:16 AM
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Yeah I was probably overdoing it at this point. At times she'd be super open and talkative and laugh at stupid shit but at others, she'd say nothing and won't try and engage in conversation. Can't really tell because her behavior varied throughout the whole night.
/r/seduction15/03/18 05:14 AM
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7.5 rating based on what? The report itself or?
/r/askTRP15/03/18 02:10 AM
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That would've been ideal but I plan to fly out of Russia in the next 24 hours so it's a no go. That's sort of why agreed to go hang out with her and her friend since it didn't matter whether it turned out well or not considering the fact that I leave so soon. But yeah, thanks for the reply. If she was interested in me but was too invested in ASD, I get it. Just kind of sucks that I didn't even get to make out with her.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 01:36 AM
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Yeah I knew that but it's not like I'm gonna see her again after I leave Russia. I just thought it'd be good practice and the girl was too hot to deny so I just went for it. I fucked up by imposing expectations on how it would go.
/r/seduction15/03/18 12:35 AM
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Yeah but I doubt I would've smashed. She wasn't bad looking but def not my type and wayyy out of the other girls league.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 11:23 PM
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Already am.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 11:16 PM
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Yeah you're probably right.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 11:12 PM
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This was very informative. Some of the best advice I've heard here yet. Good job incorporating both sides of PUA.
/r/seduction13/03/18 02:25 PM
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I've never been to this hookah bar before and not really sure what the layout is. I'm not particularly sure whether her friend is gonna be attractive or not but I guess I can ask my friend whether he'll be a bro and make a move on her anyway. If theres a dance floor I definitely don't mind going out.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 11:31 AM
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I mean, it only happened like a year and a half ago, I was 15 lol. I'm not exactly highly experienced in PUA but I've had more sexual encounters since then and I find it much easier to cum when I get head like you said. I think another component is the fact that the porn I was watching was some pretty intense fetish shit ever since regular porn became kind of mundane and sex wasn't as exciting as I hoped it to be. I was too fearful of really dominating the girl even though I would've loved that …
/r/seduction13/03/18 04:22 AM
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So I know you should her the time and date you want to meet but what if she's busy and wants to compromise? Should you go along with it or what?
/r/seduction13/03/18 03:30 AM
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Dude I had the exact same problem when I lost my virginity. I think it mostly stems from performance anxiety and constantly being stuck in your head thinking whether you're doing the right and futurizing/catastrophizing how the scenario would go and whether you're making any mistakes. The fact that I was high on weed also didn't help my case but it was definitely anxiety induced.
/r/seduction13/03/18 03:27 AM
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Lol yeah I'll move on and start hitting on her friend soon as she shows signs of rejection. Any advice on how to nonchalantly respond to a scenario in which she rejects my advances? Like what to say and how to act?
/r/askTRP13/03/18 01:14 AM
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Damn that's a shame. Would it be futile to attempt to escalate at that point?
/r/askTRP13/03/18 01:00 AM
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What do you mean by isolate? How do I go about doing that? Call her outside where it's -11 degrees or sit at another table or something? I'm just not too sure on how to do that.
/r/seduction12/03/18 09:49 PM
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Hey man, following the 12 step program and doing all that your sponsor ask you to do will result in a spiritual epiphany sooner or later. It'll be completely spontaneous and may take a while but it sure is to come. It'll unlikely be as an intense moment of enlightenment but more of a gradual god consciousness. As long as you strive to improve yourself little by little with each day, you're bound to benefit from it one way or another. I've know plenty of people in the program who never got to exp…
/r/askTRP12/03/18 07:13 PM
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Yeah you're right. Fuck, it just seems so inherently terrifying for some reason. Paralysis by analysis is the motto considering I over think the fuck out of situations like these.
/r/seduction12/03/18 02:01 PM
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Hey man, good shit. As a fellow 17 year old who'd also have experienced extreme anxiety in situations such as these, I commend you for your effort. I read the whole report and I gotta say you provably would've done better than I have. Although I'm constantly being told I'm a relatively attractive, smart, athletic guy by people and ex girlfriends, the anxiety of engaging in a conversation with a girl that that's a complete stranger and feeling the need to somehow impress her and have a shitty man…
/r/seduction12/03/18 05:33 AM
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Oh I see. Yeah that seems like a pretty solid game plan. Are you sure it'd be wise to kiss the girl as soon as you engage in conversation. I'm currently in Russia and speaking from experience, the men here are hyper-aggressive and very possessive of their women. If I did that to the wrong girl on the dance floor, things could turn bad real quick. I've seen it happen before, I've even had friends get into fights with people who shot disdainful looks their way.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 03:18 AM
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Ohhh like what they use with the whole sugar daddy aspect of relationships?
/r/askTRP12/03/18 03:09 AM
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What's SA?
/r/askTRP12/03/18 02:27 AM
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As a fellow 17 year old, I agree. The thing that bothers me most about high school parties though is that hooking up with girls is relatively easy but actually persuading them to go back to your place or even into a bedroom in the house is where most problems arise. I don't know whether it's because they're too protective of their virginity, too fearful of an uncomfortable situation or in fear of being slut shamed by whoever saw her leave with me. It may just be a high school thing but hopefully…
/r/askTRP11/03/18 11:24 PM
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Hey I'm 17 as well and I was wondering, is the girl approximately in the same age group as you? At my gym, most of the women seem a good 5-10 years older than I am, especially the hot ones. I usually don't risk hitting on older women bc in my mind, no older girl would wanna hook up with a kid in high school.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 03:39 AM
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Yep I experienced that first hand. Moved on from regular porn to intense bdsm/gangbang porn to incest porn. It's a slippery slope and I'm currently glad to be fap free.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 04:16 PM
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Okay will do. Thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 01:06 AM
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Our mouths didn't touch but were pretty damn close. I did kind of blow a good opportunity but no use dwelling on it now.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 01:06 AM
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Oh whew. You telling me that's that's culturally acceptable takes a lot of weight off my shoulders. Good to know they are more like that here. Appreciate it.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 12:07 AM
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Black mirror style
/r/askTRP07/03/18 11:34 PM
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Singapore had some really hot chicks and you won't have to worry about the language barrier either.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 10:22 PM
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Let me know once you've posted it. Reading this has actually inspired me to do something similar. Good luck my dude.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 01:53 AM
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So instead of assertively communication, one must adopt a passive aggressive stance? Are you sure that's the best way to handle a situation?
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 01:36 AM
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