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| 6 | What do you do or say when a girl tells you she is engaged or in a relationship?Sometimes this is a shit test. You need to push enough to figure out whether this is the case. If, infact it is not a shit test just walk away. Don't be that guy who hits on taken women. | /r/seduction | 28/01/13 03:58 PM |
| 0 | Approaching girls that show off alot of skin or show off their "assets"It should never intimidate you, it should turn you on. How about lightening the mood with abit of banter? "How about we make a trade - you stare at my package and I'll stare at your chest, 30 seconds, go!" | /r/seduction | 15/11/12 03:10 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Wait, you are a Boxer? K-CloseDon't beat yourself up, you did great. Sounds similar to a date I had last Friday, heavy makeout in a secluded alleyway. You both had fun, now you just need to make sure you guys have a great time on the next date. An f-close is almost a certainty (I would ignore the shit-test and just carry on with your own escalation). | /r/seduction | 13/07/12 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Any minority dudes have trouble with seduction?I'm 6' 2", athletic build, dress sharp, carry myself well, eloquent, intelligent, handsome, and oh did I mention I'm a turban'd Sikh. No major problems with pickup in my part of the world. I used to have a limiting belief like some of you when growing up - why would that busty blonde ever get with a Singh? Why the fuck wouldn't she? I'm a pretty awesome guy so why don't I introduce myself! Perhaps this is something that varies depending what part of the world you're in. London seems to be fine a… | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 05:02 PM |
| 2 | What is a witty, subtle way to let a girl who is trying to show off her bosom that you are infact very aware and attracted to said bosom?This one has worked for me when she was wearing something low-cut. "Hey I heard a story where some girls can't touch their elbows together, why don't you give it a shot." *elbows touch, boobs squeeze together creating epic cleavage, I will either go bug-eyed with my mouth gaped or some other exaggerated expression, she will realise at the same time as you and laugh. "Do that again ;)" | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever just blatantly ask for escalation?If you're going to blurt it out phrase it differently: "We should make out" rather than asking. Subtle difference! | /r/seduction | 28/06/12 10:13 AM |
| 1 | Having trouble approaching women (not AA)It's painful at first but I can definitely recommend this. You may bomb completely but you'll quickly get the hang of it. | /r/seduction | 27/06/12 08:01 AM |
| 1 | What are you learning right now? How are you trying to improve yourself?Have a 30 minute drive to work so I decided to learn German with Pimsleur CDs. In a couple of weeks I plan to pick up archery lessons. This is all ontop of the stuff I already do to continuously improve like weightlifting, stretching, reading, yoga and cooking. | /r/seduction | 26/06/12 10:22 AM |
| 2 | Highly effective textual deflakerHave seen this posted a few times and I think it's funny, sets up further playful roleplay and is congruent with my own personality. Won't work for everyone as not everyone has the 'I need some entertainment/amusement' mentality - just have fun with it, she'll get it. | /r/seduction | 26/06/12 09:48 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, what have you all found as the best advice for staying out of the friend zone?If I find them attractive and I want them I will let them know as early in the 'friendship' as possible. I will escalate until I get rejected and then we can be friends, but they will always know in the back of their mind that I can be a 'break in case of emergency' dick, or something to that effect. | /r/seduction | 26/06/12 09:34 AM |
| 0 | Kino in the UK?The fact that you had to ask whether you need to tone yourself down is a sure sign that you're still insecure/shy/ashamed of yourself, so there is some work to do on that front. You asked for thoughts and you got it. And we Londoners don't really say 'bro', unless you're a chav. Be yourself (especially at uni, that's like a testbed for all the crazy shit you can't do in the real world) and you'll be fine. | /r/seduction | 14/06/12 08:51 PM |
| 0 | Kino in the UK?Do what you want to do, stop trying to please everyone else. If they don't like it try another one. | /r/seduction | 14/06/12 10:01 AM |
| 2 | The 3 phases of Seduction according to yours trulyI can get behind this. Mainly because I love my inner game stuff but found myself stumbling and not being able to escalate when i wanted (as an example). Outer game is sometimes a personification of your inner desire, and unless you're truly a natural you may need a helping hand as I did to open up the pathways, and after enough practice you can call on it at will. There is a time when outer game is more dominant and rewarding, but as I continue to grow I'm finding that my inner game is the real… | /r/seduction | 08/06/12 08:14 AM |
| 3 | Libido has sharply decreased, how do I motivate myself?Heavy squats always do two things for me: growth hormone and testosterone spike. It's so noticeable I have to keep my squats to once a week so I don't end up turning into hulk. | /r/seduction | 19/05/12 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Just tried this ice breaker at a party that went really well. Thought I'd share it [x-post faimprovement]That's a good question, but what you really need is less of the "technique" stuff, and more of the solid inner game, so it won't matter what you ask when the time times. | /r/seduction | 15/05/12 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Don't know if this is the right place... but as a woman, this worked incredibly wellYou're missing the point. It's all about HOW he said it, not WHAT he said. | /r/seduction | 14/05/12 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Sedditor Locator *New*I am not sure seddit has a huge following in London or the UK but it can't hurt to add the UK with some of the major areas. South East (London), Midlands (Birmingham) would be a start. | /r/seduction | 13/04/12 09:45 AM |
| 2 | Sedditor Locator *New*Seems like I'm the only one in London. Guess I'll have them all to myself. | /r/seduction | 12/04/12 02:34 PM |
| 1 | What to answer to girl who says shes really good in bed?"Yea yea whatever dude.." or "Pfff I've never heard that one before" The list is endless. The mindset should be the same: you need to communicate to her that you want it, but don't need it. Subtle difference that women pick up on. | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 11:45 AM |
| 1 | PUA has changed not only my chance with women but my life.PUA is just a conduit through which you unlock your inner Sean Connery. After that you graduate to being a cool motherfucker 24/7. Nothing creepy about that at all. | /r/seduction | 12/03/12 09:55 AM |
| 2 | Some choice adviceIt's great to see some advice formed through real experience, and even better to see that it is 99% inner game and self improvement rather than technique based. Good luck with the rest of your journey, sir. | /r/seduction | 09/03/12 09:03 AM |
| 1 | 22/f here, just thought I'd let you know some things that have worked for me recently if anyone's interestedNope, just Jedi Master level. You'll learn one day. Hopefully. | /r/seduction | 06/02/12 09:53 AM |
| 1 | seduction advice for a lady?When you go to bars try and eye up your potential targets, then isolate yourself from your friends. The likelihood of males approaching a group of women is slim, but a lone female is a good target. To let them know you want them to approach just look over a couple of times, throw in a smile or whatever you normally do. If they don't approach after that it's no loss, wait for a guy with bigger balls. | /r/seduction | 26/01/12 03:06 PM |
| 2 | What to say when she asks why you don't have a girlfriend?There are literally hundreds of responses you could use. Plenty posted here, but abit of advice: try and speak from your testicles rather than a crib-sheet full of lines, it will be much more convincing! What is your natural response, regardless of the gender of the asker? Also, given the scene you set it seemed like an IOI from her, I may have that wrong if you've left out some details. | /r/seduction | 24/01/12 03:52 PM |
| 1 | I don't live an adventure, what's your status on made up stories?If you aren't doing stuff then talk about the stuff you're interested in doing. As long as you're passionate about it and this comes accross you'll be fine. No way in hell can you fake it unless you're some kind of mastermind at spinning a good story, and not good long term. | /r/seduction | 24/01/12 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Very sexually experienced woman, willing to answer ANY questions you have.Sexually Liberated Brummy Lasses Invade London. An invasion I can get behind /ZappBrannigan Anyway, londonsocialclub arrange loads of stuff that are wallet friendly and include alcohol, ie. Science Museum Lates, so be sure to check it out. Good luck with the exam, double-dare you to draw a penis on the back of the paper. | /r/seduction | 18/01/12 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Very sexually experienced woman, willing to answer ANY questions you have.Ok you totally need to bring your Brummy asses down to London. Check in at r/londonsocialclub if you're game. | /r/seduction | 18/01/12 12:30 PM |
| 2 | Female perspective on common mistakes when projecting value1 Very fine line with this one, talking about yourself can get boring and turns the other person off. Less is often more. 2 is dead on, and infact I am guilty of it. Being off your game can totally blow your chances especially if a girl has already heard stories about you from your friends. No idea how to solve this problem, can't be on your game 100% of the time after all, you're only human. 3 is something I've been saying for a long time: a PUA technique will not hide a deeper insecurity or la… | /r/seduction | 14/01/12 10:36 PM |
| 1 | [FR] How do I turn this into something more?I've had girls call be dude/man/bro all the time, some girls want to be 'one of the boys' even if it's ironically. Try not to overthink that and still assume she wants your dick. As for next moves, you could ask for her digits and casually ask her out with something like "I was gonna check out x place tonight, wanna come?". Listen to your testicles, not your ovaries. Just go for it! | /r/seduction | 14/01/12 10:27 PM |
| 1 | [FR]First number closeA close is a close. Outstanding work, sir. | /r/seduction | 09/01/12 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Your introduction. 25 words or less. GoNice to meet you, first time ever I'm not the hottest person in the room. | /r/seduction | 06/01/12 03:12 PM |
| 5 | I'm so beta it hurts.Don't make up the girls mind for her. They are there to be won by whoever has the biggest balls. Who dares wins (after frequent failure). | /r/seduction | 06/01/12 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Short Indian Kid Picking up Girls at a Club [Infield Video]6' 2" indian here. All my cousins are around the same height. Fear us. | /r/seduction | 13/12/11 06:42 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First Cold Approach, #-CloseI personally would've gone with something like "Reckon I could get her number?", half to myself an half to the table, then I'd have to study each of the girls' reaction to figure out which one wanted my dick the most. | /r/seduction | 09/12/11 07:38 PM |
| 2 | What are some good ways to sexualize the conversation?You'll want to be smoother than that, ie. "Mrs Shamanfa, are you trying to seduce me?", raised eyebrows, pokerface/wry smile...it works, don't knock it. | /r/seduction | 07/11/11 03:30 PM |
| 2 | [FR] [Follow-up] [Text game] Epic slowburn pays offIt is mainly food that I have cooked (protip: learn to cook, women love it). And baking doesn't count as cooking, you need to be able to cook a steak with veg and a side, maybe some guacamole, mostly gourmet stuff. | /r/seduction | 03/11/11 10:06 PM |
| 2 | [FR] [Follow-up] [Text game] Epic slowburn pays offThat was a really good read with lots of useful info. I've been unwittingly doing the 'ping' thing with a girl I've met a month ago (HB9, and a surgeon to boot). Girls seem to love photos of food... Thanks for posting, I was about to delete her details but I think I may hang in there and see where I can steer this. | /r/seduction | 03/11/11 09:57 AM |
| 1 | It seems like RESPECT = FRIEND ZONEProblem is when I found someone I was attracted to, I friend zoned myself with the nice guy attitude instead of making things a little more sexy. Making in my head I associated escalating as disrespect I have this exact problem and I'm glad someone has been able to push through to the other side. If you can, could you elaborate on how you managed to let it be known that you found them physically and mentally attractive without sounding forced? | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 03:17 PM |
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