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Eh, coddling doesn't have much to do with intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 12:57 AM
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My mom was a nurse. My dad stayed home. My parents filed for bankruptcy I found out later, but paid for tennis lessons, figure skating, horse riding. I never HAD to clean or learn to do laundry or cook. Does that clear it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/17 03:01 AM
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I'm a bernie sanders loving rpw. By that I mean I largely favor progressive politics but I also think gender roles have real value.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 06:21 AM
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Obviously I changed my perspective. I just genuinely thought why should I bother with these menial things when I can just... outsource. I didn't even KNOW I liked cooking/sewing etc. Didn't even entertain the idea of it. Now I love cooking. I'm really good at it and honestly mostly love it because of the pleasure it gives my family and friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 06:10 AM
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Exactly! We were out once with his friends at a bar and I pulled cookies I made earlier out of my purse and offered them to everyone and he was ridiculously proud. Maybe he was just really hungry.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 06:05 AM
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Lol! Yoire absolutely right. You know what I use Pinterest for? Cheap organizing ideas. That's literally it. Dollar store organizing hax0rz.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 06:01 AM
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Yes, but I should mention he also doesn't care about my running either, not just yoga.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 05:58 AM
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My parents were working class. But... Yeah. Till I was 18 I didn't learn any domestic skills. I did get a job in my teens tho ironically cleaning offices. In college I worked part time as a nanny for extra money so I could afford to buy new clothes/eat out still. Domestic things had previously always fallen to the wayside for money/school/career.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 05:56 AM
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That's the goal. Vulnerability.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 05:52 AM
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Honestly? When I was full career mode I had no time for any of that. I would work 60-80 hour weeks and spend most free time running just to not become a blob.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 05:51 AM
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I guess I was curious if others has a similar experience. I'm happy because honestly, it's far less stressful to focus on raising my children and domestic things and hobbies rather than continue to try to climb the career latter. I was going to get ANOTHER degree some time ago to be even more marketable and hopefully enter the 7 figure realm because "I can therefore I should". I have reconsidered and am pretty happy "stagnating" in my career and excelling at home. My family is anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 05:43 AM
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Until I was 18 yes. Then I lived off dorm food. Then I built my career and hired people in my early twenties to clean/nanny when my first kid was younger. I made changes in my life twenties/ early thirties when I realized how unsatisfied I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 01:08 AM
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I make 6 figs and 4x what he does. It's probably more a sore spot now that I think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 01:04 AM
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I had a stay at home dad and was coddled and told that earning power mattered most.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 10:25 PM
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Funny enough I did start doing power yoga and advancing through some hard poses a while ago and he didn't show ANY interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 09:14 PM
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Oh no, I could cook and clean when we met. It was more I thought we should mutually split the domestic duties since I made so much money and blah blah. I'm talking my early twenties when I was outright against being a "domesticated woman"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 09:11 PM
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I think it's more I felt like I was above those domestic tasks. Like, "I make 6 figures, I'll hire the help and buy what I need " I didn't see any value in doing it myself when I could afford to outsource it. I
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 09:09 PM
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I like traditional gender roles and the more my husband and I take them on and stop trying to practice gender equality in every task the happier we are. That's just us though. My career success and financial success have brought me little satisfaction compared to being a mother and making my husband happy. Like it or not we are biologically different and will have differences in what we excel at or enjoy because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 09:05 PM
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Good point. I started going to lasertron and playing overwatch with my husband and really enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 07:06 PM
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I suppose I mean all other things being equal.. No one's picking the fat knitter over the hot lawyer ;) But you make a good point. I am married so I guess I'm more concerned about making my smv higher to my husband to prevent boredom and keep his attraction not being more cute and wifey since I already had enough rmv to "seal the deal" anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 07:05 PM
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It depends. My choice of make up is based on my desired outcome. Date with my husband? Natural make up with a bit of a sultry eye and enhanced but neutral lip. Out for dinner with my girlfriend's? I'm gonna use my skills and have a little more fun with color and lipstick. If I'm trying to attract a man I focus on enhancing my natural features and reducing my perceived flaws. Otherwise I will be more artistic with my make up (cat eyes, stronger lip, glimmery shadows) because frankly I love the ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 06:40 PM
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agree with this somewhat but sexual frustration can build up without a release. If it isn't just a chemistry issue then I suggest bringing in a small vibrator into play. I can't get off without one and my husband is glad that it works and takes the pressure off him.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/17 02:03 AM
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Edit: 38, I have NO idea how that got posted as 1. Lol!
/r/RedPillWives26/07/17 06:43 AM
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I honestly would prefer to do them to ensure they get done but he seems deflated when I do. Like he feels he failed us. He says he feels guilty because I do all the cooking, cleaning (and the childcare when I am home) and work full time (of some relevance I make 3x what he does, I mention this because he does seem to be bothered by it). I've made a great deal of progress in working through feeling resentment over feeling "over burdened" with everything and don't mention it.
/r/RedPillWives25/07/17 12:31 AM
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My 3 year old son FINALLY is using the potty. It's my own fault. I should have made the sticker reward chart months ago. But it appears he won't be arriving at kindergarten in pullups. Phew.
/r/RedPillWives24/07/17 03:32 AM
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Unfortunately my second one was just as difficult with sleep and eating... But you get through and at least you're hardened. ;) My friends seemed to luck out with super easy babies the second time so... there's hope!
/r/RedPillWives24/07/17 03:31 AM
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Ehhh. I kinda want to know too but I figure if you're drinking alcohol infrequently the apartame is the lesser of the evils anyways.
/r/RedPillWives17/04/17 04:15 AM
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Do you mean feminist? I'm largely liberal politically and still redpill.
/r/RedPillWives17/04/17 04:12 AM
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Congrats momma! The difficulty of breast feeding was the biggest surprise and frustration for me! And the post partum hormones. I honestly thought once the baby was out and I had my body unoccupied (hah!) again I would stop getting irrationally irritated and irrationally tearful. It honestly took me 4 months to feel emotionally normal again. It's probably post partum I felt my MOST vulnerable. Unattractive, lumpy, saggy, leaky, bleeding, and crying out of frustration/exhayation when the baby wou…
/r/RedPillWives17/04/17 04:08 AM
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To me it looked more like modcloth, which is supremely hit or miss in quality. But I digress, I haven't tried this particular one yet.
/r/RedPillWives15/04/17 06:03 AM
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I think it's a 4 in US.
/r/RedPillWives15/04/17 06:02 AM
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I'm not sure, I'm on a spending freeze and frankly enjoy fast fashion however... my friend who is a dressmaker orders from them so that would probably not be my assumption.
/r/RedPillWives15/04/17 05:59 AM
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This article REALLY hit home for me, it mirrored so much of my own transition from shrew to surrendered. STFU and listen. Really listen. It's incredible what just being pleasant, letting go and not trying to control every detail... even how he shows he loves you... will change everything.
/r/RedPillWives03/04/17 08:14 PM
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I completely agree he doesn't need to explain himself nor is he lazy/careless but that's what she clearly thinks). I think, as women are prone to doing, she's clearly over reading into the fact that he's opting to take off time right now based on cumulative assumptions she has made on him so far and it scares her that she chose wrong for what she wants. That's all this really boils down, she's realized he isn't behaving the way she expects/wants him to, fears she invested in the wrong man and he…
/r/RedPillWives03/04/17 07:50 PM
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Exactly. There are so many clues she doesn't trust him and sees him as unable to make good decisions nor are they in line for what they want for the future. My husband was just off for nearly 4 months after graduating college at 37 and I never questioned his desire to find a great position and provide. I have supported us financially exclusively for 3 years during this process. He was more worried than I was. We mutually have talked about how to reach our goals (me home with the kids if not excl…
/r/RedPillWives03/04/17 12:01 PM
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I agree with what you wrote but I think there may be an element of hard working men feeling more stable, more leader like. It's perfectly within his rights to burn his savings and take time off, but that doesn't necessarily make it attractive from a feminine standpoint. I think "laziness" or perceived lack of ambition can set off arning bells for a lot of women who enjoy traditional roles and desire to domestically care for their family while the man consistently financially provides. That isn't…
/r/RedPillWives03/04/17 11:45 AM
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I was literally just saying this to my husband! By the time I realized the wealth of information my grandmother had she had passed away. My mom worked hard as a nurse to support us and my dad stayed home so I never learned ANY homemaking skills, I need a good old fashioned grandma to help me!
/r/RedPillWives28/03/17 03:53 AM
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Ahhh. Round ligament pain. So fun.
/r/RedPillWives07/03/17 09:29 AM
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I've switched to leggings and a comfortable stretchy form fitting dress or leggings and a camisole with a cardigan, but furry slippers often with these because I'm cold, luckily my husband thinks they are cute. Edited to add I'm not a SAHM but I only work 12 nightshifts a month.
/r/RedPillWives03/03/17 02:07 AM
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