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leaiaiai/r/seduction07/05/18 10:46 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/selfimprovement/comments/773las/tldr_how_to_be_an_attractive_man/
/r/seduction12/06/19 09:47 PM
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Did you sit down and opened or were you standing when opened?
/r/seduction28/06/18 03:55 PM
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there are also other kind of meditations. Lots of guided meditations (there are tons of apps). one example would be: labelling or body scan (althoug hthe later is more mindfullness)
/r/seduction24/06/18 12:27 PM
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Just a little hint for the bra problem: You can actually open it with one hand. I usually move my hand over the clasp so I feel where I have to grab it. Then you can just "slip" it open with a few fingers. You have to practice it, so maybe get yourself a bra and put it at pillow or whatever and practice. Or if possible, just ask a women to practice. Also from my experience, it isn't that bad if you get a lost a bit. Once I didn't get that the bra clip was in the front, made us laugh a bit. Or so…
/r/seduction24/06/18 10:45 AM
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It's a personal feedback, something she's reading at home and then'll throw away. The course isn't even organized by the university itself but from the student organisations. She's also a student to. So it's really not that of a big deal, like she couldn't lose any job (since it's just a 2 day job anyway) or whatever by being approached. The course was finished. There was absolutely nothing left, so I though, why not use the feedback (with feedback I mean a peace of white paper we had to write d…
/r/seduction21/06/18 10:43 AM
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So TA might have been the wrong word. In my university, TA's are students too. They just pick the best students and tell them to teach the other students. I'm not in the US, no idea how things work over there. But basically approaching your TA isn't a big deal here afaik. And even if it was, I wouldn't probably care too much. Like I wouldn't risk it for excersicing or for fun, but if you have a legit girl you somehow really like, why not. The leaving the number sucks of course, as I said mayself…
/r/seduction21/06/18 10:39 AM
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Invite her to your house, for a tea or whatever fits to you both. Then you can suggest watchign a movie and yeah, take her in your arm and all that shit and try. If she says no, just pause and try again - but dno't be offensive. Depending on your skilsl and the girl etc you can fuck her.
/r/seduction21/05/18 10:59 AM
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My goal at the speeddating was to experiment with that. Yeah as I said, just buying goo cloths won't do the magic for me but I still think it's a important tool. It makes you feel comfortable etc. Yeah that's actually what I'm trying atm. I know I could have googled him - tryed to make a joke. Seems to fail. :P You kind of talking about a "last minute panic"? I don't even know if I want that shit, so no idea why I should panic about it. But as I said, in general, the point that I have a pre-maid…
/r/seduction09/05/18 01:06 PM
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Thanks for the answer! & 2. You have a point here. Can't say much. That was a theory, like a possibility. Didn't want to put it in here that absolute. But yeah, I think I might have a tendency to that - which is terrible. That though crossed my mind before. I'm going to shift more energy exploding this. (E.g. when I meditate, write my diary etc. that are my tools for reflection) What I tried to get rid of is judging people too early. I don't mean that I think "oh this person is stupid" or "oh, t…
/r/seduction08/05/18 08:55 AM
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yeah, that really wasn't such a formal event. Just a bunch of students. So we were at the bar beforehand and everyone could talk. The gender split up though and I was, afaik, one of the only ones talking to girls. The problem is that speed dating doesn't really help you build up social skills. You might have a point there, yeah. In general, I'm following any path I can find to put me into new (social) situations. 1. because i just like to be in strange new situation 2. because it can't hurt. I a…
/r/seduction08/05/18 08:21 AM
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A social interaction is not "people telling stories to each others", but an >interaction between the two. There's a nuance between an interaction and just >"two monologues"! I think it's a big thing and most people don't care what the other person is acutually saying. I usually don't drift away, so maybe this time I really was just thinking way too much. I think overall I really was interested in them, like I like to talk to people in general. When I said no one really interested me, I meant a m…
/r/seduction07/05/18 09:42 PM
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Yeah it's organized by students. So the next time will be in a few months. :) The tip with the phone might be a nice one. The music was quit loud though, so not sure if that would work - but I'm going to try it again next time.
/r/seduction07/05/18 09:36 PM
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Yeah, I'm probably very detached from it since I looked at it being more kind of a training? Anyway, that would work. Would liek to try that out but I kind of struggled directing the conversation. Guess that's the problem overall. No having the skills to properly control the conversation + being there experimenting, creating a strange aehm "atmosphere" or whatever you want to call it
/r/seduction07/05/18 09:34 PM
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They actually had only one out of 4 or 5 groups in that age range. I only attended because a friend said it was fun and another one was going - why not try it out, right :)
/r/seduction07/05/18 09:30 PM
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I'm native to my country if you meant that. They were mixed. I might used a bad phrasing, so with dumb I rather mean something like "uninteresting". Of course I want to learn about my deficiencies. I really do a lot of self-reflection. E.g. I'm writing diary for that. But I guess analyzing my social game is rather new to me. As I said, I'm an eas-going guy who usualy gets along with most people, but e.g. today a friend of mine pointed out a few flaws I hadin generals, like being to nice. (Like i…
/r/seduction07/05/18 09:29 PM
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oh since it was a student event, it was only like 10$ + free unlimited drinks. E.g. a beer in my city is about 5-9$, depends where you are. Anyway, it seems to be trash indeed. Wondering why? Maybe it realyl does attract the whole trashy people.
/r/seduction07/05/18 03:02 PM
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Maybe start on working on that anxiety before trying to be a "player"? Google "comfort zone challenges" maybe that helps you. If you can't talk to a stranger girl, then maybe just start by asking any stranger where XYZ is, or for a lighter or whatever. Then maybe just say hi to someone on the bus etc. :)
/r/seduction24/02/18 02:01 PM
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