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3	I need to improve my sex life with my wife. We’re not a dead bedroom situation. And this isn’t something I can’t control. No I'm the type of person that doesn't let other people's problems bother me so much, that I feel the need to get so aggressive that it comes across like you've still got a shit load of issues and anger that things didn't work out as planned. Yeah you might be getting laid frequently, but most of us here are as well. Yeah you lift and are in shape, but most of us here are as well. Yeah you might be doing well in your career, but most of us here are as well. Yeah you might have turned a bad situa…	/r/MarriedRedPill	10/01/20 09:07 PM
4	I need to improve my sex life with my wife. We’re not a dead bedroom situation. And this isn’t something I can’t control. To be fair, most women will respond well to a man in good shape. But you'll find a lot of steroid infused answers here, as can be seen from some people replying to your post, from people who think having frame is calling everyone who has a rational approach to a problem either a pussy or a faggot. Makes me laugh how so many people talk of frame, which is essentially composure, and then lose their shit the second someone wants some genuine advice. The advice about getting fit is good advice tho. …	/r/MarriedRedPill	09/01/20 09:11 PM
1	Low libido ltr with high libido men Dude, get the fuck out of there. It will never work with such unbalanced needs and expressions. You might get some good runs where you get it a bit more than usual, but it'll never become what you want. Most mrp is dudes trying to improve their situation because they either can't or don't want to leave due to family etc, you have the option to run, so do so. Even if as you say, you're not the most attractive man, you'll still be able to find someone who actually wants to fuck, so have more confi…	/r/MarriedRedPill	16/05/19 04:14 PM
2	Low libido ltr with high libido men You're fucking crazy if you marry this girl. Safe can and does very often lead to complacency.	/r/MarriedRedPill	16/05/19 04:06 PM
3	MRPs - why your wife? Appreciate the effort I put in to sustaining the shared lifestyle, and I will do the same from you. Understand that I need space and it's not because I don't want to specifically be with you, but rather I need some time alone to clear my head. Allow this and I'll come back to you with renewed enthusiasm. Understand that due to experience and genetics, I'm better at some things than you are, and I know that you are better at some things than I am. It's not sexist, it's nature and effort. Don't f@…	/r/MarriedRedPill	13/04/19 02:24 PM
3	Ego and Lies, Self Actualization, Belief Systems, and Free-Will Maybe I've misunderstood, but by it seems that going by your logic, I can go out today and, I don't know, rob a bank at gunpoint and blame the universe because I'm not in control. Seems a lot like trying to pass the buck for your actions. Some things we can't control, but we can't blame all the things not going our way on everyone or everything else.	/r/MarriedRedPill	25/02/19 08:17 AM
1	Gender War It's an analogy and the same principles apply. But sure, you occupy your mind with feminist drivel, I'm sure it'll be healthy for you and not at all negative.	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/01/19 05:08 PM
7	Gender War A lion doesn't concern himself with the opinion of sheep. Well done for pointing out the feminist directors of the advert, because it exposes the lack of transparency and the conflict of interest. But otherwise, live your life, own your s**t and don't let the current narrative overtake your thought processes, nor let it influence your mood.	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/01/19 08:25 AM
3	The power of holding frame (Business Example) I appreciate that the ease of it is convenient. But how do you expect anyone to take you seriously when, by the looks of it, you don't actually do all that you need to do in order to build your world and life in a way you like? I'm only going from my experience and observations, but my and most people's sh1t didn't really start to come together until I/they learned to fend for myself in a continuous manner and thriving, despite having to do all the sh1t your mom does for you now.	/r/TheRedPill	01/03/18 09:12 PM
4	Observations on Eliminating artificial sugar from Diet. Processed sugar really isn't good for you at all. Agreed it's not some sort of horror food, but I'd go as far as to say that you're better off eating regular 'non diet' versions of food which have a more balanced protein/fat/carb ratio than 'diet' versions of the same food which eliminate fat and compensate by adding sugar. To be fair though, it's wise to eliminate most, if not all processed food. Eat well and cook food from scratch using ingredients that are grown (veg, herbs, fruit and meat) r…	/r/TheRedPill	17/10/17 08:59 PM
20	Fucked up pretty much everything, still scored because held frame. If it seems too good to be true, it usually is. There's something up here. She either has low self esteem, in which case you can get seriously good and dirty with her, or there's some kind of baggage meaning she doesn't often meet men and is trying to land you for the long haul. Either way, be careful, have fun, take the confidence and lessons from it and run.	/r/TheRedPill	03/10/17 08:39 PM
9	Don't get married. That is all. Some serious wisdom and experience in your post. Especially the part about not being able to maintain an iron fist forever. Look at dictators......once they get old or weak, people want blood. It's a ticking clock and is unsustainable. Same goes for dominating LTRs. But it's hard to disagree with the OP. Half of marriages end and the other half are forced relationships due to children and/or religion.	/r/TheRedPill	02/10/17 08:21 PM
4	power of emotion in men: thinking about my mom going through chemo and benched 350 yesterday You sound like you're from the UK, so to that end, good luck finding a woman who isn't disrepectful. In my experience British women are the worst. There are exceptions, but on the whole they're drunks, ignorant, let their selves go and are openly whores. Not a clue how to dress with style and class either. Their dress sense goes from slut, to grandmother once they get comfortable in a relationship. Either way, great post. Using past negativity to make things more positive going forwards......thi…	/r/TheRedPill	30/09/17 09:04 PM
6	The Women who are too Smart to have a boyfriend No not really. He worked his ass off because his goal in life was to reach as high a number possible in his bank accounts. It was all about bragging rights for him (classic insecurity), as opposed to providing for his family (which he did, but on a very tight shoestring, thereby further swelling his bank balance). All that time and effort doing something he didnt enjoy made him physically abusive, so I started to lift from circa 15 years of age (now late 30s) which in time resulted in me dominat…	/r/TheRedPill	30/09/17 08:16 AM
9	The Women who are too Smart to have a boyfriend If anything, they're the ones who love a good f@ck because all they've done is study and once that sense of lust is awakened, they realize what they've been missing out on. Truth is my woman is a thick as sh-t. I don't want an 'educated' woman, just one who isn't a literal dip sh-t would be a good start. Explaining everything gets old quickly.	/r/TheRedPill	29/09/17 09:03 PM
18	The Women who are too Smart to have a boyfriend I hear you buddy, my dad's the same. All he's ever done is work so much that now he's retired, he doesn't know what to do with his ridiculous final salary pension because he forgot to take an interest in life. Add a cancer scare to that and you truly have to ask yourself, was it really f#cking worth it?	/r/TheRedPill	29/09/17 08:33 PM
13	AWALT - My Sister Yeah well said. I wrote something similar in another post but it's apt again. TRP is a useful set of tools for self improvement and navigating social situations to your advantage. Unfortunately when you mix those set of tools & knowledge with unhinged anger from being on the worst end of infidelity/divorce, the end result is someone who at best, has views and opinions that will quickly burn all their bridges and at worst, a budding sociopath. FFS people, don't let the women who f-cked you over t…	/r/TheRedPill	22/09/17 08:51 PM
13	Yes, Virginia, you do have to be an asshole. I'd get some breath freshener then.	/r/TheRedPill	21/09/17 03:01 PM
6	Yes, Virginia, you do have to be an asshole. Well said. Too many posts on here are clearly from angry man-children who are reminiscent of toddlers throwing toys out of their pram. Their anger is purely a reaction to infidelity and due to their anger, they think being an alpha means being a total c-nt to anybody at any time in any place. Wrong. Without composure and as you said, situational awareness, all you are is an angry twat working to a clicking clock of impatience who will get flattened by a real alpha or a white knight beta. Arguabl…	/r/TheRedPill	21/09/17 02:55 PM
6	"Do the women around here get to talk?" A short lesson in how women completely control men and the dialogue Well, at least the way you used italics doesn't come across like it's all about you.....	/r/TheRedPill	15/09/17 09:24 PM
13	"Do the women around here get to talk?" A short lesson in how women completely control men and the dialogue Great post. That 'thing' you talk about that people sense as being 'off' with the left is the relentless pushing for normalization of controversial and what would historically be deemed as unnatural agendas. I think the trans agenda, or more specifically pushing for normalization of this in class rooms and seeing the results of post-op kids as adults is, and potentially will be, a very big turning point for many. Another stage will be the ever decreasing influence and credibility of science as i…	/r/TheRedPill	15/09/17 09:13 PM
1	A month out from the wedding... Finds TRP... Do I call it off? Don't get married. You've just shifted all the crap from your other relationships to this one. Nothing's any different other than the woman and your desire to get laid. What happens if you finally get your sh-t together and don't need a co-dependant relationship? I'll tell you, you'll grow apart, want a divorce after you've had kids and you're f-cked. Also to echo the sentiment of the other posters, who the f-ck needs reassurance from strangers about getting married? People who aren't sure that'…	/r/MarriedRedPill	14/09/17 09:10 PM
6	FR: 1 Year from the artist formally known as prarrott I don't know you and am relatively new here myself, but this is a public forum so I'll post my 2 cents worth based on past experience. It seems you're over the moon because you're getting laid again and also because your wife finally apologised. I mean great, it's reason to be positive but it shouldn't be the sole reason as to why you're happy. You should be pleased that the current marital narrative is going well in addition to already having your sh-t togethet, not because of it. Otherwise you…	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/09/17 09:32 PM
5	‘Cheap sex’ is making men give up on marriage Excellently put. Another way to put it is to trust your instincts. As for the point above regarding what is the objective in western society; isn't that part of the beauty of it all? We get to choose. Those who don't have the strength, courage or dedication to follow their own path are destined to wallow in the pool of "average" unhappy people. Those who dare might just succeed and hit the next level. Evolution at a social level, which in turn affects reproduction and is therefore evolution at a…	/r/TheRedPill	03/09/17 08:52 PM
8	The two pillars of game - Leadership and Acceptance Great post. I strongly urge people to follow the route of breaking from the the mental prison and attempting a transition to alpha. I had a major shift in perception and decided to change my own reality....i.e. not accepting a shitty fate and wanting to change who I was and how I came across. I have since been working on this for the past few years and my life is immeasurably better Strong career Happier marriage My child respects and listens to me far more Much more capable of getting on with d…	/r/TheRedPill	21/08/17 09:17 PM