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This only happens when you get too invested in the relationship before stating your intentions. Easily avoidable by just making what you what very clear early on in the relationship.
/r/seduction21/10/22 04:10 PM
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First of all, props to you for noticing you and realising that it’s unhealthy behaviour. I’ve been there, I used to live with a friend that got laid much more than me and it made me feel like shit. I’d strongly advice talking about this with a therapist as in my case at least wasn’t something I could fix taking with friends or by myself. Besides that, if you’re feeling jealous, it’s very important to understand that different people have different processes and have lived much different things s…
/r/seduction20/10/22 09:00 PM
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I don’t think you’re leaving in an amicable way like you said if you just disappear from her life randomly just because she’s not attracted to you. Doing that is way too extreme, you’re giving it more importance than you think and it seems resentful.
/r/seduction20/10/22 08:47 PM
3

I mean have you seen Messi? Can’t blame him 🥵
/r/seduction20/10/22 08:06 PM
3

💀
/r/seduction20/10/22 01:54 AM
4

Seems like you tried all your possibilities so good job anyways bro. Sometimes there’s not something you could’ve done better, but if there was it was probably something that happened/didn’t happen during the date, which only you know.
/r/seduction20/10/22 12:50 AM
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I think the date was a little incongruent with the context. She was leaving town then next day (meaning that there’s not much to do than hook up since you probably won’t see each other again) and you guys went to have a coffee, which in my eyes seems more like a less intimate date. I’d probably have gone to have drinks or something that would lead to sex easier. Besides that, if she said she didn’t want you to know where she lives she was probably creeped out or just wasn’t attracted
/r/seduction20/10/22 12:38 AM
1

Like almost every other post in this sub, I’d suggest you seek professional help first
/r/seduction19/10/22 08:36 PM
3

From my experience the fear never goes away. If you were raised/grew up being afraid to talk to women, chances are you’ll always be. However, what you do about it is a whole different thing. If you’re waiting for fear to magically disappear, it’s probably a good time to think differently. Being afraid of it doesn’t mean you can’t do it.
/r/seduction19/10/22 12:50 AM
4

Overthinking
/r/seduction19/10/22 12:12 AM
31

Reddit banning pickup subs while r/femaledatingstrategy is still up: 👨‍🦯
/r/seduction18/10/22 10:17 PM
4

I wouldn’t lie if they ask but wouldn’t tell for no reason if they don’t ask
/r/seduction18/10/22 09:31 PM
2

I’d say yes but also online dating is quite different from real life
/r/seduction18/10/22 05:41 PM
6

Your post lacks context but what would you do if some stranger came and interrupted a conversation with your friend?
/r/seduction18/10/22 01:57 AM
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Certified r/lostredditors moment
/r/seduction17/10/22 09:08 PM
3

Exactly my point bro, I agree with you.
/r/seduction17/10/22 06:59 PM
5

Women who are attracted to you will absolutely get after it This is like saying “women who are naked in the bed with you will absolutely have sex with you”. Part of the seduction process is to make her attracted to you, you just stated a basic fact unrelated to seduction
/r/seduction17/10/22 05:25 PM
1

Yeah, OLD is arguably the worst way to meet women
/r/seduction17/10/22 02:24 AM
7

You’re thinking way ahead of time, just do oral and see where that goes, you may as well end up fucking
/r/seduction16/10/22 11:47 PM
1

Indirect approaches are often seen as either creepy or cowardly, as if you’re trying to catch her attention so that she talks to you, when it should be the other way around.
/r/seduction16/10/22 09:49 PM
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Bro set up the date when he was born
/r/seduction16/10/22 07:30 PM
2

Interpersonal relationships is not math, there are exceptions every now and then you know
/r/seduction16/10/22 07:27 PM
1

I’d honestly suggest you read No more mr nice guy, it talks a lot about what you said. Expecting women to like you just because you have things that you think are good is not a healthy posture. Wish you the best bro!
/r/seduction16/10/22 06:25 PM
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I think in terms of what women look for that’s absolutely superficial. He may be really confident, maybe he doesn’t care, may be really wealthy, etc.
/r/seduction16/10/22 06:22 PM
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What makes you think that you’re better than him though? I think it’s more like he was more her type than you, or your assumption that he’s worse just because all those superficial traits you mentioned is just wrong.
/r/seduction16/10/22 06:15 PM
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Try thinking about what’s stopping you, that’s the first thing I’d do. I could understand if you can’t get them to give you their number or go on a date with you but approaching is 100% on you, it’s just a matter of doing it.
/r/seduction14/10/22 08:56 PM
1

Wtf is a platonic relationship?
/r/seduction14/10/22 12:59 AM
2

The edit made my day
/r/seduction14/10/22 12:56 AM
1

From what you said, it seems to me like being a virgin is a big deal for you, so I wouldn’t be surprised if that made you insecure with women. I’m not saying to always have sex with prostitutes, just saying get rid of your virginity and see how you feel.
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:26 PM
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Maybe, but you won’t be a virgin anymore, which is clearly working against you right now otherwise we wouldn’t be talking about this. Just go and get rid of it, you’re just mistifying sex
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:21 PM
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This is also part of the problem described in the post. When someone that according to reddit shouldn’t be able to get laid gets laid, people automatically try to find the “but”. That’s just another way of finding excuses.
/r/seduction12/10/22 09:44 PM
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Why is it that posts on this sub always get deleted?
/r/seduction11/10/22 01:42 AM
1

Dude just get your dick sucked you’re overthinking it
/r/seduction11/10/22 01:18 AM
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Has anything happened between you in those dates?
/r/seduction10/10/22 05:56 AM
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Women rarely make the first move in the way guys do. For example women will probably not approach you directly or ask you out etc. However, their way to “make the first move” is usually more subtle, like looking at you or making herself more approachable (dressing better when they know they’ll see you for example)
/r/seduction09/10/22 11:05 PM
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Is she into you?
/r/seduction09/10/22 06:53 AM
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Seems to me like she’s freezing him, as in keeping him there’s just in case anything goes wrong with you. I don’t think there’s much you can do besides keeping monitoring the situation; if you confronted him or her you’ll just come up as insecure and that won’t look good for you.
/r/seduction08/10/22 07:20 AM
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If you think you’re overthinking it, chance are you probably are
/r/seduction08/10/22 02:28 AM
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Bro you gave 0 explanation of what you did that gave you success besides “I changed everything”, you can’t blame people for doubting you
/r/seduction06/10/22 10:07 PM
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I’d say don’t do stuff for the sole purpose of getting girls, they can tell
/r/seduction06/10/22 09:11 AM
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This is way too common to be bothered but it, you’re literally a stranger to her, once she breaks off the fantasy of a guy randomly telling her she’s cute and she realises she’s not the main character in a romantic comedy, she’ll flake. Heads up man, it’s just one of the cons of daygame.
/r/seduction06/10/22 03:33 AM
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Are you sure you’re genuinely getting a good response or are you assuming it based on them giving you their number? I know it’s not very intuitive but it’s very common for women to give their number to guys they’re not interested in, because saying “no” is much harder and arguably more dangerous than saying “yes” and then ghost you, specially if they’re not going to see you ever again.
/r/seduction06/10/22 02:20 AM
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Well it really depends on what your confidence weak spots are. What do you feel unconfident about? It could be your body, it could be that you don’t feel interesting, that you feel like you’re weird, or you’re not smart, or you don’t have much money, etc. Once you spot it, if there’s nothing you can change (if it’s a physical limitation for example) just accept it and move with your life. If you can change it, look for ways to do it and focus on that, BUT, don’t do it for the sole purpose of pic…
/r/seduction05/10/22 11:58 PM
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It seems to me like you’re waiting for things to just magically happen because you’re doing all those things you mentioned. I’d suggest you work more on your personality and confidence rather than on your looks. Just because you look good women won’t approach you and ask you to have sex with them. Are you being social enough and trying to interact with women as much as you can?
/r/seduction05/10/22 10:58 PM
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Seems like you’re only looking for someone to tell you what you want to hear. I’d suggest you don’t be so reactive and defensive to the advice people are giving you and try to apply it and see how it goes
/r/seduction05/10/22 09:31 PM
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This may be just my opinion but I don’t think you can always be 100% sure about that. Like for example I may be looking for a relationship but if I meet someone that I like enough to have sex but not enough to have a relationship, I’ll definitely have sex with them if it comes to that. Likewise if I’m just looking for sex and find someone that I really like, like the case you mentioned. So I don’t think it’s “not knowing what you want”, it’s more that you can’t really know what you want until yo…
/r/seduction05/10/22 02:41 AM
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I think that happens because deciding what you want with someone you don’t know much is delusional, you really never know what you want until things start happening between you two.
/r/seduction05/10/22 02:12 AM
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I think the good thing about this is that you notice this pattern so it’s in your power to change it. I’d suggest you read what you just wrote as it may help you realise this. I’d also suggest you try to assume the opposite next time you face a similar situation. So instead of automatically assuming they’re trolling try assuming they’re genuinely interested in you for a change and see how it goes.
/r/seduction05/10/22 12:12 AM
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Nah that’s fair, but just warning you, not many guys will be willing to wait to be in a relationship before having sex. Not all people are sexually compatible, so most people don’t want to commit before knowing if the other person is a match. Anyways, hope you can get what you’re looking for
/r/seduction04/10/22 10:45 PM
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I mean you said you got plenty of dudes on tinder asking for sex, so why don’t you start there?
/r/seduction04/10/22 10:36 PM
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I think craving for external validation is an unhealthy thing to do in general, unless it has a healthy goal
/r/seduction04/10/22 10:26 PM
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If you want attention just for the sake of getting attention you’re probably better off going to therapy, that’s not a very healthy thing. It also seems like you’re not sure what you want, which makes sense since you’ve not had a boyfriend or had sex like you mentioned. So my advice would be to try both things, you’re young so you have time to do that.
/r/seduction04/10/22 10:18 PM
1

This sounds more like something you need to talk with him rather than in a reddit post
/r/seduction04/10/22 06:30 AM
1

I think she wanted him to magically stop being a weirdo, if he had been a random she probably would’ve left much earlier in the interaction. After she left, feeling betrayed, she shamed him on the internet out of spite, that’s the way I see it. And I think the right way to do it would’ve been as easy as just not behaving so needy and pushy, she obviously considered having sex with him at some point but he ruined with his neediness
/r/seduction03/10/22 07:00 PM
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Also the fact that she never left the place (while being able to do it at any time) reinforces your point, she wanted it to happen, just not that way. I don’t think it was rape, he just behaved like a creep
/r/seduction03/10/22 08:42 AM
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I read this a while ago, and it’s a clear indication of how important it is to learn about social dynamics and game. It’s so interesting how very poor seduction knowledge can be interpreted as sexual assault, you gotta be extremely careful. My guess is that he must have thought that his seduction technique wasn’t important because he’s a successful man which I guess it’s true to a certain extent but this also shows that a success high value man can also be perceived as creepy
/r/seduction03/10/22 08:34 AM
1

By realising there’s literally nothing you can do to change that. Just remember how bad it feels the next time you’re about to approach and use that as motivation
/r/seduction03/10/22 12:03 AM
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Yup, from my experience, women are ok if you’re taller than them, you don’t need to be super tall
/r/seduction30/09/22 05:45 AM
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For real though, my point was that: confident 5’5 > insecure 6 ft
/r/seduction30/09/22 05:33 AM
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F
/r/seduction30/09/22 05:32 AM
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Looks matter as long as you’re not using them as an excuse for doing bad with girls. Lots of guy are like “of course I can’t get girls, I’m only 5’11”, that’s when you need to stop giving a fuck about looks. Also I think looks do matter but how you feel about it usually has more impact that looks itself
/r/seduction30/09/22 01:29 AM
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I swear posts in this sub last 30 minutes tops, just don’t post it if you’re gonna delete it right away 💀
/r/seduction30/09/22 01:11 AM
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I agree with being honest but I think explicitly confessing your love is just not the way. As with everything else regarding seduction, things are much better when there’re implied rather than explicitly said. Like for example when you’re in a date and want to kiss the girl, saying “I’m going to kiss you” or “can I kiss you?” will most definitely kill the vibe.
/r/seduction29/09/22 09:38 PM
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Confessing your love only has place in movies, it’s tough that you had to learn it that way. Kinda sucks but that’s how it is
/r/seduction29/09/22 12:00 PM
1

Agree yeah, I was just going with the flow of the post, which is a little satirical in my oppinion because what she’s asking for is just not possible. How does one even “drive any man madly in love with you”? She wants to be the main character of a romantic comedy
/r/seduction29/09/22 01:02 AM
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Be hot, dress slutty
/r/seduction28/09/22 11:42 AM
2

He solved the problem guys, let’s delete the sub already
/r/seduction28/09/22 05:18 AM
4

The disadvantage is not the glasses, but the insecurity they give you, that applies to mostly every external thing
/r/seduction26/09/22 07:41 AM
1

On that note, the book No More Mr Nice Guy talks a lot about that so it may be worth a read :)
/r/seduction26/09/22 01:14 AM
1

100% natural, men feel threatened by stronger men all the time, if anything it’s proof that you’re doing things right. Only advice I’d give is to not take it personally
/r/seduction26/09/22 12:28 AM
0

If you like it how come you couldn’t even do it once in 3 hours? Seems like you’re forcing yourself to do something you hate just for meeting women; not a healthy thing to do. I’d suggest you look for women in places you like
/r/seduction25/09/22 10:35 PM
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You are forgetting that some of the women who say no would’ve said yes if you had had some conversation before
/r/seduction25/09/22 12:08 PM
12

And this is why you shouldn’t ask for advice on reddit. Go to a therapist OP, that will be much more helpful considering your case
/r/seduction24/09/22 11:52 PM
0

Because touching the girl you’re on a date’s arm is comparable with being a sexual predator. I call that ridiculing my point to compensate for your lack of argument, so let’s leave it at that, hit me up some other time when you have something else besides “verbal consent is good game”
/r/seduction24/09/22 12:06 AM
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If you think being able to read people’s cues and knowing when they’re giving you consent is treating them as objects, then you have the social intelligence of a grape
/r/seduction23/09/22 11:07 PM
0

Didn’t answer the question, figured
/r/seduction23/09/22 01:03 PM
0

NEEDS to be based on what exactly? There are no laws that say that at least in my county so don’t try to put your ideology on other people’s heads
/r/seduction23/09/22 04:22 AM
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You always need consent, but it’s ridiculous to think it necessarily needs to be verbal.
/r/seduction22/09/22 10:37 PM
0

OP Don’t listen to that bullshit, that really depends on the country you live in, just observe how people do it and learn the social dynamics of your country, that’s the best thing to do in my opinion
/r/seduction22/09/22 12:29 PM
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Yup, I’m not denying that she’s attracted to you, just saying that work relations can be complicated but it depends where you work too. If it’s a shit job that you wouldn’t mind ditching or don’t plan on staying for long definitely go for it
/r/seduction22/09/22 12:26 PM
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Not enough context but just based of the fact that you work together and she’s 12 years older than you I’d say it’s a hard pass
/r/seduction22/09/22 12:18 PM
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In retrospective most of those videos seem kinda staged
/r/seduction22/09/22 05:43 AM
2

Bro you’re being very defensive. I know whatever you’re going through must suck, but take the time to read what people are telling you instead of trying to deflect it instantly
/r/seduction19/09/22 02:21 AM
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I think what matters is whether the advise they give works for you or not. The best thing to do is to just try it and if it works good And also I think it’s important to be mindful that they are making money when you watch their videos
/r/seduction17/09/22 04:54 AM
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If you’re attractive just put yourself in a social environment and be open to be approached. It’s not very common to be approached in the street or public places but if you’re in a social environment as an attractive 22F it should be extremely easy
/r/seduction13/09/22 03:03 AM
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How often are you having social interactions? You may just need more exposure
/r/seduction12/09/22 11:28 PM
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Is this a turn off for women? Will women not want to date me cuz I’m a virgin? Yes, for non-Christian women or women who don’t agree with your lifestyle in general it’ll be a huge turn off, so you’ll probably need to stick exclusively to Christian women, which I’m sure you’re fine with. Whether this is a good idea or not, it’s still your choice but your options are limited. Another important thing that you should consider is sexual incompatibility, please read about it
/r/seduction12/09/22 10:49 PM
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“Most people are compatible” is probably the worst and further from reality advice I’ve ever read in this sub. Compatibility is extremely hard to find, that’s why most people settle with people they don’t really like. And also, saying it’s not a turn off is also a lie, it IS a turn off for women who are not Christian which depending on the country may be a lot of women.
/r/seduction12/09/22 09:02 PM
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Flirting is not explicit at all, the opposite is more the case. I see it more like a tease that you could do with anyone without necessarily meaning something, so it’s up to the other person to interpret the meaning
/r/seduction12/09/22 07:22 AM
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No hate either but I’m also wondering how you manage to do this without it consuming a huge part of your time. 56 in one year means more than one per week, and that doesn’t account that not every girl you talk to will have sex with you so you need to constantly be talking with 5-10 girls every week. Even if you only chatted for logistics, you still need to go out with them which takes up time. Again, not saying it’s not true, just want to know
/r/seduction12/09/22 01:58 AM
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Here’s a better tip: don’t trust someone who’s clearly trying to sell you something and isn’t honest about it
/r/seduction10/09/22 12:57 AM
1

I’d say don’t change it if it doesn’t bother you. If you want to change it, good, but if you’re doing it because she said it maybe it’s not such a good idea
/r/seduction09/09/22 11:52 AM
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Yeah except that’s not what I said. Being a virgin can be a very big hurdle if you’re in your 30s, it was for me when I was in your 20s. So I’m not saying that he should pay for sex forever, just to get rid of that
/r/seduction09/09/22 08:49 AM
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No sure what being a john means
/r/seduction09/09/22 08:19 AM
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If it’s legal in your country and you’re ok with it, I’d strongly suggest you go with an escort and get it over with. Being a virgin in your late 20s-30s can have a huge impact on your dating life, consciously and subconsciously.
/r/seduction09/09/22 04:31 AM
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I’d say it’s a good help if you just want to get laid but it’ll be a problem if you ever want to get a girlfriend, because you certainly can’t wear the inserts unless you’re willing to do it your whole relationship without her noticing. Furthermore, I think you’re solving the problem on the surface but not the actual core problem which is you feeling insecure about your height, specially because you’re not THAT short. And one more thing, you’d be surprised of how little women care about height i…
/r/seduction05/09/22 03:07 AM
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I guess the question you need to ask yourself is what do you want to happen at this point. If you don’t want anything to happen with her, just don’t do anything, I wouldn’t say anything to her or your GF unless you have clear proof that she wants something. Now if you do want something it’ll depend on whether you’re willing to leave/cheat on your GF or if you’re in an open relationship. From what you said I wouldn’t be too sure she’s into you, but you’re the one that was there so I may be missin…
/r/seduction03/09/22 11:43 AM
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Maybe cause life is not a porn movie bro, she wasn’t gonna show up in lingerie and a mini skirt
/r/seduction02/09/22 01:48 PM
0

This doesn’t make much sense to me because verbal consent has no value whatsoever anyways. If the next day she decides that she didn’t give you consent, it’s still your word against her at the eyes of the law, take a wild guess as to who’s going to win that one. You absolutely need consent from the other person, there’s no denying that, but saying that consent HAS to be verbal is ridiculous.
/r/seduction31/08/22 09:54 AM
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Absolutely. Not a single person in real life asks to kiss/touch the other person. Of course you won’t grab a random stranger’s ass and force them into making out with you but if you’re in the context of a date and you believe the other person may want you to kiss them, just go for it, if they don’t want it they will reject it, simple as that
/r/seduction31/08/22 08:56 AM
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From what you said seems like being a virgin is a big part of the problem. Depending on where you live and whether it’s legal or not, I’d suggest you go to an escort and get it over with.
/r/seduction30/08/22 08:59 PM
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I agree that it’s a little resentful to block someone even though it doesn’t make much of a difference, but on the other hand (and I think this is why some people do it), ghosting someone is a very shitty and immature thing to do so I can see where the resentment comes from.
/r/seduction29/08/22 06:13 AM
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I’m always confused as to which one is which
/r/seduction27/08/22 09:17 AM
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He’s looking for ways to invalidate your success and validate his lack of success. I’ve seen this kind of behaviour in reddit time after time, everyone is in denial
/r/seduction26/08/22 11:17 PM
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Being introverted is not the same as not being social, introverted people do socialize but they don’t do it the same way an extroverted person would. That said, if you’re an introverted person it’ll most likely be hard for you to socialize but you have to push yourself to do it unfortunately. Just try to do things that you like with other people and start slowly, pushing yourself to go to a club for example will probably be too much and won’t help much. Patience and consistency is key here. Good…
/r/seduction24/08/22 05:30 AM
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And only OP can do such advanced thing because he’s immune to rejection, how dare us mere mortals even try to pick up girls at a Walmart?
/r/seduction24/08/22 12:40 AM
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I’m not sure why you’re still talking about this if there’s no way to fix it. Just focus your energy on something else, get a hobby, personal project or something I guess. I’ve already given you my point of view but you don’t seem very open to take it
/r/seduction19/08/22 04:03 AM
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You know that’s a lie and that’s why you keep posting and commenting stuff here
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:58 AM
1

Ok cool good luck with that
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:54 AM
2

Seriously speaking now, trust me when I say that blaming anything else for your problems will not help you at all. You can spend all your life saying that you don’t get laid because of society meanwhile there’s normal average guys getting laid and in relationships. In my opinion the healthiest way to see this is, assume it’s your problem even if it may not be, and then do all you can to fix it, but really do it cause I highly doubt you’ve been doing it .
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:45 AM
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What 0 pussy does to a mf
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:31 AM
1

You’re an OG PUA, I’m sure you’ll figure it out
/r/seduction17/08/22 09:27 AM
2

Lying to someone about you is actually lying to yourself, which means that you’re not happy with who you are. That is lower value than actually having thing that are usually perceived as low value and owning them.
/r/seduction16/08/22 11:24 PM
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Ah yes, the mandatory monthly “I know everything, you don’t know shit, buy my course” post.
/r/seduction16/08/22 03:45 AM
3

It do be like that sometimes. Seriously though, the trick with tinder for me was to not have too much expectations and not investing too much energy and time on it
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:29 AM
5

Tinder, ladies and gentlemen
/r/seduction15/08/22 01:18 AM
12

Literally just exist
/r/seduction15/08/22 12:55 AM
1

That’s some toxic bullshit, the idea is not to leave the other person annoyed, nobody cares about that. He just asked for a way to leave the interaction.
/r/seduction14/08/22 02:59 AM
1

Honestly if you’re a 21 years old attractive woman, just wait and it’ll just happen.
/r/seduction14/08/22 02:52 AM
0

This is so true that there’s a whole subreddit dedicated to it r/niceguys
/r/seduction11/08/22 11:28 PM
3

Bro what are you even doing in this sub? That’s literally all it is about. OP, just find something in common, maybe something related to the class. Classrooms tend to be very casual environments so don’t sweat it too much!
/r/seduction11/08/22 10:34 AM
10

Oh well, time to start picking up men, I’m sorry bro
/r/seduction11/08/22 09:17 AM
10

The way I see it if you approach a girl and you hit it off, why would you not spend more time with her? If you’re talking with other girls maybe it’s because there wasn’t enough chemistry or you didn’t like each other so it wouldn’t matter anyways. This depends on where you are too, not sure if you’re talking about approaching at a club or where
/r/seduction09/08/22 02:14 AM
27

Why would you even feel the need to even download tinder if you get models and other 9s?
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:23 AM
1

Those girls who say they wouldn’t like it is because they’re picturing a weird man and a weird and creepy interaction. If you do it naturally and know when to leave if she’s not interested, it won’t be creepy nor impolite.
/r/seduction08/08/22 01:51 AM
1

The problem with cold approaching is the way you do it. If you are very nervous you may come up as creepy for some women
/r/seduction06/08/22 07:37 AM
54

Honestly, I can’t even begin to explain to you how relieving it feels to shave it all when you’ve been fighting with your hair for years. No more being careful of the wind, no more fixing your hair every 3 seconds, it’s like you’re finally free. I agree that hair looks better than no hair in general, but shitty hair and being constantly worrying about your hair looks much worse than no hair.
/r/seduction06/08/22 07:29 AM
5

Ok buddy I got it, we’re all clueless, you’re not
/r/seduction04/08/22 06:30 AM
7

Kinda seems like you’re attracted to him now but I get your point. Seriously though, my point is that being famous is also part of who he is, so even if I don’t agree that he would have trouble getting laid like the other guy said, if he was a total looser he may. I don’t think it’s fair to say “if he wasn’t famous” because the guy as everybody know him is famous so your image of him is subconscious based on that too. Kinda confused myself there but hopefully it makes sense
/r/seduction04/08/22 06:20 AM
15

That’s not really something you can separate. Attraction is not only based on physical appearance
/r/seduction04/08/22 05:40 AM
1

This. Don’t waste time on people who can’t communicate properly
/r/seduction04/08/22 04:26 AM
2

I find it hard to believe that she doesn’t want to see you again because you didn’t escalate, if anything she’ll be more interest and curious. An exception to this would be if she explicitly stated that she wanted to have sex and you refused/didn’t do anything.
/r/seduction02/08/22 05:27 AM
1

I doubt asking for sex ever worked for anyone. My point is that if she really is not into having sex in the first date, she may get creeped out, so the best thing to do in my opinion is read the situation carefully
/r/seduction02/08/22 03:35 AM
0

The problem with this is that reaching for sex in the first date could seem pushy if the l girl is not into it, that’s why it depends on the girl
/r/seduction02/08/22 03:32 AM
3

“I have a Lightning McQueen twin bed”
/r/seduction29/07/22 04:37 AM
5

Reminded me of this
/r/seduction25/07/22 10:19 PM
2

This is exactly the answer to your question in my opinion. Rules define what can be done or not, when in reality who is approaching matters more than what is being done. If she finds you attractive, I doubt it’ll matter whether you approach her at the gym or at the supermarket or whatever.
/r/seduction25/07/22 01:19 AM
2

Lift weights is actually very important as it boosts testosterone, if that doesn’t make him feel like a man I don’t know what will
/r/seduction15/06/22 09:19 AM
2

I think this is more related to the way you approach them than your looks.
/r/seduction14/01/22 02:28 AM
13

The good thing of being fat on contrast to being short, is that you can change it. I think it’s not about how fat you are but more about how determined you are to change it
/r/seduction28/12/21 05:40 AM
21

There’s really not much you can do to prevent other guys from reaching and trying to hit on her, especially considering what you said about her Instagram. Considering this, I believe the best you can do is keep improving yourself and ignore them, because the more you feel insecure about that, the less she’ll like you. One last thing, instead of thinking that she has lots of guys around who can steal her think that she chose you over them.
/r/seduction26/12/21 05:52 AM
2

Like everything else, don’t take it seriously and just say whatever comes to mind. I can’t think of a serious answer that would bring a good outcome hahah
/r/seduction17/12/21 06:31 AM
4

OP: I get girls consistently Also OP: please guys give me a pickup line
/r/seduction17/12/21 04:11 AM
1

I get what you feel, been there. In my case, I found out that the reason it made me so resentful when a girl stopped talking to me was because I was trying to be someone I was not while texting, so seeing that I was betraying myself AND not getting results made me feel like shit. What I’ve done to fix that is to just be a little more myself on texts and care about it a little less, correct me if I’m wrong but it seems like your whole dating experience is based around texting so I’d focus more on…
/r/seduction06/12/21 10:20 PM
1

This is a very interesting video on the topic: https://youtu.be/rZTqF5oYUqo
/r/seduction05/12/21 10:41 PM
0

Yes, you are overthinking the situation. In my opinion, in virtually every case like this the best thing is to assume she is flirting with/attracted to you. Worst case scenario, she isn’t. Easier said than done but I think it’s the best way to think about it.
/r/seduction26/11/21 12:45 PM
1

I wouldn’t pay too much attention to that. Remember girls have a more covert way of communicating, don’t take what they say literally.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 12:55 AM
3

If the date is during night time, I usually text her earlier that day, around noon or early afternoon (not too close to the date). As a general rule, always the same day of the date, that's what makes more sense for me. Regarding what to say, just anything that doesn't sound like "you still want to go on a date with me, right?". I usually say something related to both the date and something we've been talking about before.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 10:48 PM
2

Honestly, I think everything except an honest answer is a good answer to her question. Just play with what she said and don't take it too seriously. That would be my answer to your question, but besides that, my advice would be not to worry too much about specific cases like that. I'd suggest you get more plates spinning and when you do that you'll just say to them the first thing that comes to your head and it'll feel good. Good luck man!
/r/askTRP09/06/20 10:43 PM
1

Boy does this sub need moderation
/r/askTRP27/12/19 01:08 AM
3

I believe this is something that should be talked about more. I believe the red pill has a really big potential to make men “hate” women, but not because the theory is wrong or bad in any way, it’s because men struggle so much with the truth. The way I see it, after a man understands the red pill theory, there are three ways this can go: one, they deny it (which is what happens in most of the cases). Two, they “accept” it but blame women for that. And three (and, in my opinion the most healthy o…
/r/askTRP26/12/19 09:51 PM
2

I’ve been in this situation, in both sides actually. And since I’ve been on the side of being jealous, I can tell you that the problem is more his than yours. What happened in my case was that since I was now getting any sex at all, hearing my friends who were my same age and roughly same SMV (basically the same opportunities) would make me feel like something was wrong with me. But answering your question, there’s not much you can do. If you care about your friend, I’d help him improve himself …
/r/askTRP18/12/19 11:53 PM
5

Definitely do it if you can. Waiting to have sex with a virgin is absolute nonsense.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 11:45 PM
1

One thing I do with this kind of situations is to pretty much always assume they’re shit testing me. I think it’s smart to always take what a girl says as a shit test just in case.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 11:43 PM
3

I’m my opinion that difference (15 to 10%) doesn’t matter that much. I’m pretty sure you would get more benefit trying to improve in other way. I believe you get a lot of benefit if say you’re very fat and lose a lot of weight or if you’re very thin and get ripper but if you’re already pretty good (15% is pretty good in my opinion) I wouldn’t focus my energy on that.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 01:11 AM
1

If you don't have to work you're probably already a top 5% man.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 05:39 AM
4

The way I see it, feminism is just the biggest shit test that women have come up with and most men are falling for it. Since I came to this realization what I do is just ignore what they say about it and move on.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 09:03 PM
1

Women are never sure of anything so I would not worry about it! No but seriously, I think for starters that you could have asked her better, I try not to ask girls if they want to do X thing. For me, saying things like "let's do x thing tomorrow" or "why don't we go for drinks tonight?" have proven to work better than asking them if they want. Besides that and going to your original question, I wouldn't stop talking to her. What I'd suggest is to reply to her something in the lines of "ok maybe …
/r/askTRP16/12/19 09:00 PM
2

What I tend to do in situations like case 3 or 4 is definitely try to avoid them but if it comes to that, I still do it. The reason for this is that you never know what's gonna happen and going out even if it's as "friends" (which could also probably be a shit test) gives you more chances of getting laid than if you don't go out with her. My advice would be: just go out, have fun and if you don't get laid at least you know what would have happened. Good luck!
/r/askTRP16/12/19 08:49 PM
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