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Well, you were right. Fate had it that I go to a very large university but I ended up bumping into her again walking home from the gym with some friends, completely coincidentally. She actually was sick. And she thought she had Corona so that's why she seemed disinterested before and didn't want to have a session. Not sure if I should try texting her again in a day or two and ask one more time or wait for her, she was the one that approached me and my friends and told me that she was sick right …
/r/askTRP02/10/20 11:59 PM
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Agreed. Very possible she found another guy or the desire cooled off from not talking for a while. I didn't respond to many of her IOI's because I still have a beta mindset lingering from prior to getting red and blackpilled, my confidence still needs improvement. Next time I'll work on responding to the IOIs and setting up something quick. Covid definitely didn't help this situation though, it may have gone through if it wasn't a factor.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 03:51 AM
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Possible, but I texted her only a few days later and she was interested then, she said "that sounds great!" and we were going to on Friday but then she got quarantined. But you are right, if I would have done that sooner my chances would have been much higher. I missed that opportunity.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 03:42 AM
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Telling me what as a truth exactly? And I don't think that's an attraction killer, but it definitely didn't help. I guess there's quite a few lessons I can take from this in talking to girls in the future.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 11:27 PM
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Yeah, but I never gave her much attention to begin with. And when I was in person with her the IOIs were very strong. But I think too much time has passed like the first guy said, its too late. Have to move on and spin other plates.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 08:38 PM
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Good point. And I wanted to make sure that there was no interest so I know for future reference this type of excuse. Shits changed a bit with covid.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 08:30 PM
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That's what I did, I said "I'm not gonna keep asking, just let me know if you want a session." I'm not thinking about it anymore.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 08:24 PM
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Yeah, you're probably right. Too much time went by. The apology and "I'm sick" seem like an excuse. The only reason it seemed different to me was because Covid could be a genuine excuse.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 08:00 PM
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There needs to be harmony. You can't have height but a shit face and be attractive, or vice versa. That being said, looks open the door (so they are the most important). Status after unless you're a celeb, in which that would be first. Then you have to know game/humor to close the deal. As for looks, height and face have to be adequate, and bone structure/symmetry is the most important.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 08:47 PM
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pdfdrive also has a ton of free books if libgen doesn't work
/r/askTRP25/01/20 10:42 PM
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Whatever your weakest knowledge points are (as long as you're taking some action on what you have read). You could venture to career related stuff such as Deep Work, Game Changers, Rich Dad Poor Dad, or social stuff like The Power of Body Language or The Charisma Myth. Philosophy (Meditations, The Power of Now) can also be interesting.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 04:12 AM
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I've had similar things happen. No, ignoring won't make you look weaker if you actually DGAF. You could also respond with lots of positivity to throw them off. Sounds like they're just shit testing you and you're letting it get to you. HS is full of stupid games like this.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 04:56 PM
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I've had similar thoughts as you express in your post. Do you read philosophy? It's helped me understand and come to terms with the corruption in the world that you talk about.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 02:24 PM
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Agreed. Its just not worth it to me to try to jump hoops in hopes of plates since most people are very immature at HS. Guess it's just more monk mode and maybe get lucky. Friends still keep nagging me as to how it's possible I don't have a gf/plates haha. Thanks.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 12:41 PM
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Wow, this was powerful. Reminded me that where I'm at it's mostly just chicks looking for emotions and validation, entering the CC where it's just the hot party and 'popular' guys. To me it's not even worth it to try to spin plates at this time if I have to act like that. Thanks.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 12:36 PM
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Great advice if you are going for a ripped, strong physique. Cardio is underrated and keeps you healthy (avoiding health problems), cuts weight, gets you nice calves, quads and glutes, and helps you increase you focus/feel better when done right. A few 3-4mi runs or 6-10mi bike rides per week is great. I run 40 miles per week on top of lifting (I enjoy running/biking a lot). Most people could get the greatest amount of benefits from 15mi per week or so.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 03:25 AM
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It depends. From my experience the best way to learn and remember is reading the text if you really want to understand and retain the material. However, I personally listen to many ebooks, but they are almost always topics I am familiar with. For example, I listened to Rollo's first two books on Audible, since I was already accoustomed to the material and have less of a need to think/question while reading/listening. I use Audible primarily when working out or doing work that requires no thinkin…
/r/askTRP28/07/19 03:51 PM
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It will likely depend on the spread of information such as the TRP, where the majority understands the truth of intersexual dynamics. It's hard to predict a turning point or exact consequences, but we have seen things proposed such as consent laws where women can retract consent under false assumptions of a male that tricked her hypergamous filters. The government and family courts is also a woman's provider at this point. It will only get more ridiculous unless it is realized and changed, which…
/r/askTRP03/07/19 03:37 PM
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Yep, this is it right here. Read sidebar and remember, texting is an accessory to setting up dates and maintaining attraction and emotions that were built in person.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 03:30 PM
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Agreed. I watch around an hour of YT a day, but try to make it informational. It's not possible to work non-stop every day, people need breaks. I'd cap it at 2 hrs though, or try to find something else that provides any higher level of value.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 11:42 PM
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Jason Capitals Make Women Want You is decent from my experience. Go to PDFdrive if you want it.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 11:39 PM
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I used to be and sometimes still am in parts of your dilemma, as well as many others in TRP. This starts to become more philosophical and subjective (based on your beliefs) as you go deeper. Men let the de-regulation of the sexual market occur, and in some instances supported it. It was similar to when Adolf Hitler was given parts of Czechoslovakia by the EU, saying he would stop threats of invasion after he got one part. He didn't, because he knew he could manipulate them. And women didn't eith…
/r/askTRP02/07/19 11:34 PM
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Ask yourself this: How would you act if you were one of them, an attractive female, from birth to the present, and had society pandering to you and your feelings all your life? I know I damn well may be one of them if I was born as an attractive female. And it's nothing to even be mad about. Without females, our species would die. Their evolutionary instincts which greatly influence their thoughts and actions were created by nature for survival, and we all know Darwinism and nature can be ruthle…
/r/askTRP02/07/19 10:45 PM
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I'm in the same situation, but about 2 months left with mine. I got the clear ceramics so they were less noticeable, about the same price as regular. Honestly the SMV loss is there temporarily but it's so small it's negligible and in the end your smile will look a lot better. I wouldn't worry.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 05:10 AM
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I'm not sure what the question is here, but it's clear she's seeing if you're an orbiter. It's TRP basics that women will dump there emotional baggage on a dutiful orbiting beta, then complain about Chad and proceed to fuck him the same night. Why should you be talking to her if she's your ex, let alone give a shit about her problems in life? As soon as a girl told me they were going to make me cry (huge red flag and sign of disrespect), I'd immediatley ghost and block them then and there.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 01:43 AM
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Texting should be mainly used for setting dates and occasional flirting/fun to stoke the fire of connection and emotions in a girl. Try to avoid long or random convos, save those for face to face where you can express emotion, tonality, and body language.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 03:53 PM
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Text the day after, relaxed. "Yesterday was fun (insert something that elicits good emotions in her-callback humor, tease etc.) I have a cool place we can drive to on (day), I know you'll like it." But keep it a surprise if you want to build anticipation and mystery. After she expresses interest, offer her one day, and if needed other alternative day to meet or have her suggest her own. Meetup after a few days, maybe 3. Best of luck man. If you need more help, look for a good product like magnet…
/r/askTRP30/06/19 05:19 AM
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The biggest way abundance comes is through the spinning of multiple plates. There is no 'video' or 'content' that will give you unshakeable confidence/abundance that PUAs try to sell hopeful and willing betas on (been there, done that) other than some personalized video/thought that pumps your state right before an interaction. Stop focusing on that one woman and fantasizing about your perfect, beautiful future (if you do). Focus your energy on improving yourself and having fun/helping others, a…
/r/askTRP30/06/19 03:19 AM
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Just like riding a bike. After initially learning, It might be a bit bumpy and wobbly when you get back on for the first time in a while, but you'll smooth out quickly. Just meditate a bit if you want and work your way back up step by step as quickly as possible. Some failures/dropped plates are inevitable. Plus, if you follow TRP lifestyle, your SMV should be higher now that you're older and have done more stuff.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 02:56 AM
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If you're coming from a RP perspective, your friend's comment shouldn't phase you at all as guys razz each other a lot. I don't understand as to why you'd be afraid to approach other women, most of whom are likely not like your mother. This really just sounds like a classic case of AA/insecurity. All it takes is slow baby steps talking to women and doing some research from PUAs about AA (one thing they get right besides game). Also, meditation helped me get over most of my AA (a tiny bit is norm…
/r/askTRP30/06/19 02:32 AM
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Mostly, although men also seek an LTR with one partner or as many as he can confidently secure to guarantee paternity and spread lineage. And of course all men would be more aroused by a higher HB. A woman isn't always seeking a "10." Shes seeking the highest value man she can obtain, be it an 6, 8, or 9. Tens don't exist unless a 9 had man's/womans preferences in personality and looks.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 06:19 PM
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Unless you really want to bang her for some reason, it's better to just continue on. A fresh plate that you have no beta history with will always be much easier and more worthwhile.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 06:35 AM
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I'm not a doctor, but I've personally had a few random times where mine wouldn't work for a few days, theres a million possibilities. I'd just wait another week or so and give it a break if you jack it a lot. Make sure your T levels are normal, you're lifting your normal weight in the gym and stress is low/sleep is adequate and diet is good. I wouldn't be concerned unless other problems start manifesting. Just tell her you're busy or stressed until your body comes around and if the plate falls, …
/r/askTRP29/06/19 06:03 AM
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That was probably a bit much, although I understand the frustration. It sounds like you might still be in/have remnants of the anger phase. More time and experience with RP knowledge will slowly diminish the anger as you'll likely learn to accept female nature as it is.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 09:28 PM
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From my experience, yes. Occasional visualization/focus meditation as well as contemplation have helped me in certain circumstances. I'd also recommend increasing your SMV as much as possible, this will increase your confidence and help build your frame in most interactions.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 04:07 AM
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I'd mostly agree with the other responses in terms of experience, but there are some good lessons in the book. https://www.pdfdrive.com/sex-god-method-2nd-edition-e183976087.html
/r/askTRP26/06/19 03:51 AM
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All depends on what your goals/intentions are. I'd say in proportion to your bench, your squat could probably use some improvement. 8-12RM stuff for a while and then 5-6RM power phase, try to focus on a slower eccentric movement as well, and throw in some hypertrophy days with drop sets and sets to failure with shorter rests. Two leg days every week, no excuses. Personally I'm at a 225 BP and 240 squat at 150 BW (been lifting a long time) but I can't increase those numbers further since I run ar…
/r/askTRP26/06/19 03:35 AM
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Exactly. However, that obviously doesn’t mean you actually are. I think it’s good to have empathy and feel sorrow for others problems, but remembering not to get caught up in it and realize their perspective. It may be a bit harder since you mentioned you haven’t been through an awakening and were always RP. For me, I remember my BP days of “There’s no way girls/people are actually like that LOL, they’re all nice” and RP awakening and how even before TRP I still had a relatively enjoyable life (…
/r/askTRP27/03/19 09:00 PM
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I’m in the exact same situation as you. I often catch myself feeling sad for others who are still caught in the ‘‘matrix” and wish to help them. It seems the best way to help is to drop hints and hope for them to have a positive traumatic event-I’ve tried more direct approaches but most people do NOT have the capacity to unplug without trauma. In the end, does it really matter if they know what you think they should? They may be thinking the same about you from a blue-pilled perspective. I remin…
/r/askTRP27/03/19 08:28 PM
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