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| 12 | suggestions for best body cam. | lebonroidagobert | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/01/24 05:39 PM | |
| 6 | anyone know if you can liquidate 401k transfer without penalty? | lebonroidagobert | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/03/24 06:15 PM | |
| 1 | anyone know if you can liquidate 401k transfer without penalty? | Spousal Support / Alimony | lebonroidagobert | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/03/24 06:16 PM |
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| 2 | First thing you did when you got the engagement ring back?yea mine kept both wedding and engagement and it wasn’t included in the assets bc gifts like others are saying. i still have my wedding ring. it was an expensive gold band. not sure what i’m going to do with it. thought about selling it. thought about turning it into something else since it’s pure gold. idk. it’s all so stupid | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/02/26 08:06 PM |
| 2 | When the divorce was done, what did you do ?here for you as well if you need to talk my man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/02/26 02:46 PM |
| 2 | When the divorce was done, what did you do ?love that. especially the i think my kids need a mother i just wish it wasn’t her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/02/26 07:21 AM |
| 3 | When the divorce was done, what did you do ?kids with the ex? don’t give up hope. it’s tough but try to allow yourself to heal. it takes time so be kind to yourself. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/02/26 07:15 AM |
| 2 | Co-sleeping with childreni’m so sorry dude. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/01/26 02:22 PM |
| 3 | Today is going to be toughgood for you. i don’t go to my kids birthdays with her. i think a perk for the kids of divorced parents is having two bdays or christmases or whatever. i can also stay totally focused on them and not have to worry about whatever game my ex is trying to play. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/26 07:49 AM |
| 6 | Here we are again... drunknot drinking with the kids is big. be kind to yourself and patient. it’s a process. hobbies def help. try and start walking or if you can run go on short ones and work your way up. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/26 01:37 AM |
| 1 | If you're fresh out of a bad marriage where she was emotionally abusive, you need to read Psychopath Freefuggin a. that almost perfectly explains my ex wife. scary good explanation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/12/25 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Alonefeel ya bro. it’s been years for me and this year we almost seemed to be turning a corner. long story short she got weird about being around each other and the kids. so i told her the truth finally - i regret ever meeting her and if i could go back i would and never marry her or make babies with her. she’s the biggest mistake of my life. now she’s giving me the silent treatment. it’s a shit show. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/12/25 12:58 AM |
| 5 | I hate Christmas.yea man. it sucks. i have the kids for the second year in a row (bc she wanted to get on her boyfriends custody schedule) and it still stings. its hard to celebrate when you see all the families together. and presents under the tree - i have none they have them all 🤣 but this year has been better - focusing on the fact that i have two healthy lovely kids who love to be with their dad. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/12/25 11:05 PM |
| 3 | Would you take a bullet🤣🤣🤣 | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/12/25 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Just simply dreading Christmas alone .this is the way. about to have 10+ days over thanksgiving without the kiddos. it’s never easy but we make it work 😎❤️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/11/25 01:28 AM |
| 3 | Just simply dreading Christmas alone .it’s not easy. try and do anything that day. play golf. drive somewhere you wanted to go. fly to see a friend. drive to see a friend. plan a big fun meal if you enjoy cooking. sending love bro. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/11/25 01:26 AM |
| 2 | Being a step dad is a jokei’m so sorry dudes. ❤️❤️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/11/25 02:44 AM |
| 5 | I just realized recently that in 10 years of marriage, she never made me a cup of coffee. Not once.it’s been a struggle but yes. better through the years since the divorce. i put boundaries around the abusive people in my life at that time and they got mad and went no contact. it didn’t bother me so much since i didnt really want them around anyway when they were so shitty. including my ex for the most part. we have kids and whatever changed she’s been around more but now with the time away from them/her i realized how much i allowed and tolerated in my life. so now with the awareness i gaine… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/10/25 12:33 AM |
| 9 | I just realized recently that in 10 years of marriage, she never made me a cup of coffee. Not once.i remember reflecting and watching videos of my ex wife and i interacting and realizing how i was really short with her and kind of an asshole sometimes. after years apart we have started to see each other again and i am reminded of how little she can try to make me feel and how previously i used really let her jabs impact me and i would always try to pretend to take it and not let it affect me. after all these years i see our relationship was a two way street and i allowed people to treat me po… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/10/25 09:09 PM |
| 4 | We Got Married, She Went off Birth Control, We Had The Baby, Now She Wants Divorce! - Hormonal based birth control, the secret killer of relationshipsimagine what IVF does | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/25 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Keeping your last name.mine moved my last name to her middle name and put her last name back to her maiden. she sucks. who cares. ❤️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/02/25 01:01 PM |
| 7 | This Has Been Absolute Hell, But I Secured 50/50 Custodyjust sending love my man. you aren’t alone and i’m so sorry you had to deal with this. ❤️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/25 01:09 AM |
| 1 | She pulled the plug while it was my weekend with the kidsbig facts | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/11/24 07:15 AM |
| 2 | Ex is engaged and I see her playbook and my former role in this man in front of my eyes100000 | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/11/24 12:46 AM |
| 5 | Missing her latelyit’s true. set boundaries for yourself. at least to let yourself heal. you can always change them down the road when the pain has subsided. even with the boundaries i have for myself to speak minimally with my ex it still hurts. the silence speaks loud though for my own emotions and i have found that less is more. doesn’t really change the pain i feel though but has been allowing me to heal and move on in a much healthier way. ❤️❤️❤️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/24 03:33 PM |
| 5 | Ex wife got arrested tonightgross. sorry you had to deal with that. sounds awful. glad you still battling with us tho! | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/10/24 02:58 AM |
| 2 | She wants a divorce after 40 years❤️❤️❤️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/24 01:17 AM |
| 3 | My ex loves telling me about her sex life.100 | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/09/24 12:08 AM |
| 6 | Hopecould be due to their incomes and the 50/50 split. either way i love to read these posts. so glad he made it through 3yrs of what must have been hell on earth. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/24 10:16 PM |
| 4 | Missing her even though everything that happened, happened.my ex says nothing to me other than if it’s about the kids. she treated me like absolute dog shit and never said sorry or showed any remorse blowing up our family and still projects her insecurities onto our children. and i can honestly say that over 2yrs separated/divorced there aren’t days i miss her so so much. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/09/24 01:06 PM |
| 4 | Just Wondering - Were you warned about Divorce?bruhhhhh. my life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/09/24 02:42 AM |
| 1 | You're going to be just fine❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/08/24 05:37 PM |
| 7 | Court today. It’s over. After 30 years.damn dude. i feel you. celebrate yourself today. give yourself space to feel though and be easy on yourself. cheers to new beginnings. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/08/24 12:22 PM |
| 3 | Were you once these things or subscribed to them prior to divorce?big this. hell yea brother. love this perspective. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/08/24 02:56 AM |
| 2 | How pissed off should I be?facts!!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/08/24 12:14 AM |
| 1 | How pissed off should I be?facts | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/08/24 11:59 AM |
| 2 | Struggling hard today in the early phaseswell it it makes you feel better my mom took my ex wife’s side. basically bc i set boundaries with my narc mom and step dad and she didn’t like that so now they are all a team. my dad passed when i was young so it’s just me and the kids. been battling for years now. it does get better though. just keep fighting. it’s worth it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/24 02:56 PM |
| 3 | Struggling hard today in the early phasesugh. hate reading this. reminds me of the shit i went through though this sounds tough af. hang in there man. keep trying to show up for your kids. take it one day at a time. be easy on yourself. i feel for you my man. ❤️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/24 01:58 AM |
| 3 | Signs you're ex is not over you (or you're not over them)bro. did i write this?? eerie how similar some of these people can be. hope you are well. ❤️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/24 12:49 AM |
| 5 | Friend of mine recently died of cancer at 47. He spent 20 years in a toxic marriage afraid to leave because of finances. Life is short, get out of you can.so true | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/24 12:41 AM |
| 3 | I’ll die aloneone day at a time. some days are better than others. focus on the present and the near future. try not to look backwards. it’s tough man. just know you aren’t alone. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/08/24 01:45 AM |
| 8 | I’ll die alonehang in there bud. i feel the same way sometimes two years later. i thought she was the one for me too. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/24 03:05 PM |
| 6 | My marriage is no longer viable, but divorce will ruin me financially. Am I trapped?hang in there. there will be bad days. and there will be good days. eventually the good will outnumber the bad. ❤️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/24 01:14 PM |
| 5 | Looking for a replacement father for my son bas I am a toxic father.whoever told you those things is toxic af. go and get help and be the best man you can be. if she wanted to have kids with you and you were worthy then you are still worthy now. no one is perfect and i’m sure their mom brings her own toxic traits (like degrading men) that she is probably totally oblivious to. focus on yourself and be the man you want and can be. ❤️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/24 03:53 PM |
| 4 | I really need some help... I am rock bottom...***❤️❤️❤️❤️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/08/24 09:07 AM |
| 3 | Lonelinessone day at a time my man. some days are harder than others. it’s all a process. be gentle and kind to yourself. especially while you are going through it. there was never hope for me and my ex after she nuked our family and even over 2yrs later there are still days i miss her and feel lonely. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/08/24 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Dad of a 1 year old.sorry to hear. it’s going better. kids are a few years older now but those were definitely some of my darkest days on this earth. i still have bad days with or without the kids but i keep fighting and refuse to give up regardless of the situation. hope you guys are hanging in there too. go easy on yourselves. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/08/24 01:55 AM |
| 3 | Cackle of hens…(borrowed that term from another’s post)join the club. my own mother. her mother and my ex. one of the things that brought my ex and i so close together was not having a father (both passed away when we were young) but now that i see the other side i empathize with our dead dads and how terrible these hens can really be. hang in there bud. ❤️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/08/24 08:07 PM |
| 8 | Dad of a 1 year old.it’s hard af. i had an under 1 and a 3yr old when my ex decided to blow up our family. just focus on being present and doing the best you can. one day at a time and you’ll survive. gets easier every day they get a little older. ❤️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/08/24 03:43 PM |
| 3 | What are some of the most important lessons you've learned from your divorce that you wish you could share with younger men facing similar situations?def missed one. nailed two tho. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/08/24 01:19 PM |
| 2 | ED?it’s prob the meds. i used to have those weird side effects when i took it in my early 30s | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/07/24 02:54 PM |
| 1 | I just wonder whether the unfortunate calamity of divorce unlocked some superman powers or traits within you, O fellow divorced men!hell yea dude | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/24 03:27 PM |
| 3 | How long did it take your ex wife to move on after you initiated divorce?hahaha i love this response | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/07/24 02:31 AM |
| 6 | Struggling with STBXW’s glow-upmine did something similar tho mostly to her face and lips and whatnot. avoiding her helped and just knowing she isn’t a good person when i see her has helped. one day at a time and keep focusing on you. keep her away from you as much as possible. if you can even bring friends or family members for exchanges with the kids. that helps me diffuse a lot of my own personal despise for her and she usually acts less ridiculous when it’s not just me there. some things can’t be avoided but that has help… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/07/24 05:21 PM |
| 8 | Nothing in this life is sacredi feel you dude. feel like i could have written that myself. two years out. so much debt. so much betrayal. anger. sadness. if you ever want to chat feel free to message me. it always helps me knowing other men who went through something similar. support systems are impt. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/24 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Has your and your Ex’s upbringing influenced your marriage and divorce?big time. trauma cycles are real. one of the reasons why i stayed for the kids was to break these cycles and be a present father for my kids. ❤️❤️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/24 12:51 PM |
| 2 | Strategy to mitigate the Anxietydef meds. helped me so much. also working with therapist and really trying to mentally challenge myself to face my anxiety and fears and overcome it. it’s been challenging but i’ve grown mentally so much. hang in there my man and know we got you! | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/07/24 05:04 PM |
| 10 | I wanted to believe it wouldn't happen...but you guys prepared me.i’m sorry dude. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/07/24 02:05 AM |
| 2 | Dreamshappens to me all the time. over two years separated too. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/07/24 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Ever wish she cheated?thanks dude. that means a lot. i’m sorry too. sucks. but i’m ok. continually trying to move forward. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/24 12:35 AM |
| 2 | Do you wish her happy birthday?same | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/24 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Ever wish she cheated?sure. my ex wife about 6mo after our second child went completely off the rails mentally and instead of taking care of herself she just blamed me. accused me of everything under the sun and made it completely impossible to live together. refused couples therapy. refused to talk. even still to this day two years later offers no apologies and shows zero remorse. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/24 01:08 PM |
| 3 | Ever wish she cheated?sounds extremely familiar | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/07/24 05:12 PM |
| 4 | Did you ex change her name back and if so did that bother you? Because it did for me.god that’s gross af | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/07/24 12:50 PM |
| 5 | Didn’t think I’d get here, but here we are.ugh man. i’m sorry. mine is doing the same with her bf and i go through phases of not caring and completely wrecked by it. i’ve been wrecked lately by it but i know these feelings will pass. and i try my best to make space for myself to feel these ways. good and bad. i’m sorry though dude. i wish it on no one. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/24 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Fuck itman i’m sorry to hear this. i’ve def thought that before and all the time. i stay though bc it’s not the kids fault. and at least at the end of the day even if you are alienated and whatever other kind of nonsense can happen at least you can say you showed up and tried your best. ❤️❤️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/24 02:22 AM |
| 2 | I Can’t Stop Crying Todaywell said. similar feelings here too. glad to know we are together in this and will agree - two years apart and it gets better every day. those lows are low though and the only thing i would add is just let yourself feel the way you feel. it’s valid. and it’s ok. don’t try to fix it. just go through it and deal with it and you’ll come out on the better end eventually. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/24 11:46 PM |
| 2 | There’s no “beating” the narcissist ex wifesame | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/24 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Modification / wish me luckwow | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/05/24 12:05 PM |
| 3 | School Functions with Ex Wifeagreed. and also you don’t need to sit with her at those events either. my kids teachers are aware of the situation and so are most of the other families in the class so i don’t need to fake for anyone. i’ve never sat with the ex at any of them and it’s always been the right choice. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/05/24 06:50 PM |
| 4 | Women keeping their ex-husbands last name after the divorce😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/05/24 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Stopping My Emotional Responsesright there with you bro | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/05/24 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Stopping My Emotional Responsesbut sadly par for the course. add my ex to the pile of vile | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/05/24 02:19 AM |
| 2 | This is my reality nowsorry bro. i feel you. mostly the same for me but been separated longer aka the divorce just continues to drag. but like others said be easy on yourself. find things you can enjoy. one step at a time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/05/24 01:02 PM |
| 5 | Does one ever get over her betrayal of choosing to open up our private marriage to her friends, over communicating with me?🤢🤢🤢 | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/24 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Children stopped talking to mei’m sorry dude. i can see this in my future. my kids are young though so i still have time but know she will work them through the years. much love homie. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/24 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Officially Divorced! BOOM!love it | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/24 03:21 PM |
| 2 | If this is not evil then what is it? To the young guys here thinking about marriage, don't do it, she is not that amazing, she doesn't love you that much, she will definitely divorce you once she gets tired of you🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡 | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/24 01:27 PM |
| 1 | He was emotionally abusive and narcissisticBIG facts | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/04/24 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Fundamentals: Do Not Move Outsorry but what’s mrp? | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/24 11:22 AM |
| 2 | He was emotionally abusive and narcissisticlol this sounds exactly like mine!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/24 12:27 AM |
| 1 | He was emotionally abusive and narcissisticlove it | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/24 12:26 AM |
| 0 | He was emotionally abusive and narcissisticugh | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/24 12:24 AM |
| 8 | He was emotionally abusive and narcissisticbro. 100. and i’ve realized dating that i rarely go for/take on a date a divorced woman. especially if she has kids. i just can’t get myself to believe their nonsense. just zero trust and i think that’s a good thing for you and me at least. 😎 | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/24 12:23 AM |
| 4 | The hardest part of all of this for me...i feel you bro. allow yourself to feel that way. it’ll keep getting better. one step at a time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/04/24 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Do not want a divorceughh same | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/04/24 02:45 AM |
| 6 | Ex wife refers to new man as her ‘Dom’mine switched fingers aka to the other hand then doesn’t wear either but still wears these diamonds my great grandma had i made rings for her. she also has a bf running around the house we still own together feeding her cats and helping her pick our daughter up. all while going against the rules of our agreement. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/24 02:23 AM |
| 15 | Ex wife refers to new man as her ‘Dom’gross frfr | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/24 02:21 AM |
| 1 | I don't know, guys....right there with you | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/24 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Do you remember the last time you genuinely smiled?right there with ya bud. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/04/24 10:43 PM |
| 1 | How did you guys get your self confidence back?i feel ya bud. right there with you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/04/24 12:30 PM |
| 6 | Reach out if you need it fellas.same thoughts for me. and she’s bringing some dude thru my house while we finalize our shit and around our kids. she’s so toxic. it makes me sick. sorry dude. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/04/24 02:26 AM |
| 3 | Deep depressionsorry you had to deal with that but great words of advice and hell yes. let’s all use the fuel for our own fires to be the best versions of ourselves. especially the versions of ourselves that went unnoticed/underappreciated/taken for granted. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/03/24 02:02 PM |
| 2 | How did you move on?ugh man. love to you and i hope it gets better. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/03/24 11:05 AM |
| 3 | Emotionally nauseated.jesus bro i’m so sorry | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/03/24 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Wedding/rantugh | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/03/24 11:34 AM |
| 3 | How much net worth did you lose?god that motivating to read cheers you glorious divorced daddy | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/03/24 12:58 AM |
| 1 | anyone know if you can liquidate 401k transfer without penalty?i owe so much debt from this fucking divorce. i should have stated that the reason why is bc i already have a nice 401k savings myself and prefer to have that cash she’s going to give me than put it in retirement. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/03/24 06:15 AM |
| 3 | anyone know if you can liquidate 401k transfer without penalty?i believe the tax is only bc i plan to sell it. but that’s good news for me bc i don’t want to pay the penalty. taxes for liquidating is fine with me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/03/24 07:00 PM |
| 1 | anyone know if you can liquidate 401k transfer without penalty?401k is with current employer. it’s written as a qrdo. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/03/24 06:59 PM |
| 3 | Stuck todaydude. so much of this is exactly what and how i feel. i’m sorry dude. it sucks. i can say i’m not totally out of it and not sure i ever will be. but i can say time does heal and it does get better. hang in there bud and message me if you want. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/03/24 02:07 AM |
| 3 | Divorced Men: With what you experienced, would you ever remarry? If you could go back, would you have ever married knowing what you know now?no | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/24 08:05 AM |
| 2 | Please tell me it gets betterbig facts. and it’s ok to cry and be upset. make that space for yourself to feel those feelings. it sucks and it hurts but it will get better! | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/03/24 02:32 PM |
| 7 | Did you sleep with your x-wife after the divorce?hell. nah. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/02/24 04:15 AM |
| 6 | I’m outmuch love bro. here for you. dm if needed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/02/24 03:19 AM |
| 1 | I don't have the money for this!!!same thing here | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/02/24 12:01 AM |
| 2 | He’s at my goddamn house right now❤️❤️❤️❤️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/02/24 02:00 PM |
| 10 | Has anyone’s Ex-wife ever apologized for putting them through hell?not even once. and i like it that way. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/02/24 06:32 PM |
| 2 | After divorce, did you take the time to go through your entire photo album and social media accounts to delete pictures of your ex?same | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/02/24 06:51 AM |
| 3 | Do woman give back rings after filing for divorce?honestly the last thing i’ll ever care about. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/02/24 03:31 AM |
| 2 | What do you miss most? (serious)❤️❤️❤️❤️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/24 04:44 PM |
| 4 | What do you miss most? (serious)seeing my kids every day by far and away | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/24 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Broken and confused❤️❤️❤️❤️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/01/24 05:30 AM |
| 1 | If you're a good person and got married, how did it feel when your marriage broke down? Did you ever wonder as to where you went wrong, and why God made you meet the person that you ended up marrying? How did you reconcile these events whilst still believing that God still has a plan for everything?hope for us all then | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/01/24 06:37 PM |
| 2 | If you're a good person and got married, how did it feel when your marriage broke down? Did you ever wonder as to where you went wrong, and why God made you meet the person that you ended up marrying? How did you reconcile these events whilst still believing that God still has a plan for everything?like what if you don’t mind sharing? | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/01/24 06:36 PM |
| 2 | suggestions for best body cam.from what my lawyer said it doesn’t matter. you don’t need consent to film in your home. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/01/24 03:38 AM |
| 1 | suggestions for best body cam.was looking at this one but might go with the camera app… Body Camera, Wireless Full 1080P Body Wearable Hidden Camera with Powerful Auto/Manual Motion Detection and Night Vision, Police Body Camera Lightweight and Portable with Complimentary 64GB SD Card https://a.co/d/f23pQgR | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/01/24 11:20 PM |
| 1 | suggestions for best body cam.my lawyer told me as long as we are in our home i have every right to record our interactions. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/01/24 10:55 PM |
| 3 | What are your communication boundaries?🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/01/24 07:56 PM |
| 9 | Be honest did anybody cheat at their bachelor party if so to what extent?didn’t even do one. still wasn’t ever good enough. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/01/24 07:55 PM |
| 5 | How many of you got arrested during your divorce?wow - sorry you had to go through that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/01/24 02:36 PM |
| 2 | How much money did you lose in your divorce?ugh | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/01/24 05:21 AM |
| 2 | I can't stand my stbxwgood for you bro. hang in there. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/01/24 04:23 AM |
| 3 | I can't stand my stbxwgross. be happy you aren’t with that. what a shitty person. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/01/24 04:22 AM |
| 2 | Excited for 2024❤️❤️❤️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/01/24 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Does wife making more than husband contribute to relationship issues?jesus man i’m sorry that must have been awful to go through. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/12/23 03:04 AM |
| 2 | The Wifeylol i used trash in her updated name too 😂😂 | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/23 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Should I go off the grid?we all were. hang in there bud. much love. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/23 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Should I go off the grid?just know you aren’t alone and fuck that bitch | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/23 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Is getting married even worth it?No | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/12/23 07:10 PM |
| 1 | I'm not strong enough for thisHang in there. You are strong enough. And it gets better. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/12/23 05:03 PM |
| 1 | It can get worse.Oh dude. This is brutal for me to read. Can’t imagine what you must be feeling. Just know I feel for you and try your best to stay strong and present. Much love my man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/11/23 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Healing After DivorceWhat do I do when all I want to send to her is a big fuck you text | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/11/23 03:00 AM |
| 3 | Why do you guys even bother getting married?Ugh bro. I’m sorry. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/11/23 02:58 AM |
| 5 | Why do you guys even bother getting married?Same | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/11/23 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Feeling the failure pretty heavilyClearly divorced men is a place for women too 🤣🤣🤣 agreed she needs to buzz off | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/11/23 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Feeling the failure pretty heavilyWell said. And it does get better. I was there too. Luckily not for long. But I also just kept fighting and kept perspective. You’ll come out better on the other side. We just can’t see it yet. But better days are ahead. I’m still waiting for my break through but I keep battling every day. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/11/23 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Wedding ring after divorceSold my shit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/11/23 02:24 AM |
| 3 | Is that a good sign? My ex got a TPO granted until the hearing in march. This week her lawyer reached out to me with a deal. The deal is 2 years no contact which can be reduced after 1 year (more below)100000 percent. Fuck all this shit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/10/23 12:23 AM |
| 2 | How to catch her cheating?Big facts | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/10/23 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Does your ex refuse to see reality, understand what she did?Mine for sure. She’s toxic af | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/09/23 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Marriage is undefeated in killing libido and it appears there's nothing I can do to stop itUgh bro that must have been rough. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/23 04:56 PM |
| 1 | She really is heartless🔥🔥🔥 | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/08/23 02:51 AM |
| 11 | Is there a scientific or evolutionary reason so many women are so negative towards their husbands after kids?Sounds exactly like my life! Stay strong bro | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/08/23 05:04 AM |
| 4 | Is there a scientific or evolutionary reason so many women are so negative towards their husbands after kids?Well said brother. ❤️❤️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/08/23 05:00 AM |
| 3 | How Do They Turn It Off So Completely?I feel you man. I’m sorry too. It sucks. Just know you aren’t alone in those feelings. I share basically all the same ones you have. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/08/23 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Did Anyone Else Divorce a Slob?Truth | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/08/23 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Did Anyone Else Divorce a Slob?The funny/sad part is I thought my ex was a clean person for 95% of our time together. People can be pretty good at hiding who they really are. So yea. I’ll try my best but in the end you never really know. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/08/23 05:08 AM |
| 5 | Did Anyone Else Divorce a Slob?My ex is the messiest bitch I know. Emotionally and physically | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/08/23 12:35 AM |
| 3 | Struggling how someone you spend 2/3 of your life with can just end itGreat perspective and will definitely be interesting to see play out. Even more reason for us men to be there for our kids (especially daughters) as present good fathers. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/08/23 07:21 PM |
| 3 | Struggling how someone you spend 2/3 of your life with can just end itUgh. Same bro. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/08/23 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Struggling how someone you spend 2/3 of your life with can just end itSpot on. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/08/23 07:13 PM |
| 3 | They never loved usFuck em | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/23 12:53 AM |
| 3 | RantWell fuck. I’m sorry dude. Hang in there. Better days ahead. One day at a time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/07/23 02:09 AM |
| 1 | She's not the woman you married100 percent bro. Stay strong. Same boat as you. Almost same ages too. It’s so tough but we got this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/23 12:56 PM |
| 1 | She's not the woman you marriedThis is good | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/23 12:54 PM |
| 2 | I’m going through it !!Same bro. Seems like it will never end but it will and it will be better than before! Stay strong brother. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/23 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Anybody ever regret getting divorced because you never got as good sex again?Hahahahha 100000 | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/23 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Noticed a trend, they always leave when it gets hard❤️❤️❤️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/07/23 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Let's be honest here. No macho answers, and no judgement. In reality, how many guys here would be happy to get validation from your ex that the divorce was not your fault?❤️❤️❤️🫡🫡🫡 | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/23 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Is it a bad idea to blow this whole thing up?I’m sorry bro. Ugh. Much love. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/23 03:38 PM |
| 3 | Thousands of dollars to the trash just because she wanted outSo truthfully ugly. Gross. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/23 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Going no contact …so hardWord | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/23 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here feel like they're just never gonna date again?I date but I’ll never get married ever again | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/23 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Coping with financial lossDude I’m sorry bro. But it’ll be ok. Work on you and the things you can control. Brighter days ahead. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/23 12:29 PM |
| 2 | She’s moving onDamn bro. I’m sorry you have to go through that. ❤️❤️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/23 12:52 PM |
| 7 | Why did she cry?Same | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/23 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Don't feel comfortable going back to a home to pick up kids.It’s awful man. Unforgivable shit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/23 04:55 PM |
| 0 | My ex-wife refers to my by my first name to our kidsTerrible. Do you have a custody agreement? Get it written in there that she can’t do that and take her ass to court | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/05/23 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Feeling defeated, need to ventSorry dude that you have to deal with this. It sounds like you are doing a great job though. Hang in there bro!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/23 01:00 AM |
| 3 | Brain just continually searches for answersThis is the answer. I’m also same boat. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/05/23 12:54 AM |
| 2 | Want divorce, wife breadwinner, what should I know?God bless America | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/05/23 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Want divorce, wife breadwinner, what should I know?Not in CA but my ex made a decent amount more than me and I still owed CS. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/05/23 12:52 AM |
| 3 | How often does it end in suicide?I’m so sorry my man. ❤️❤️❤️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/23 02:46 PM |
| 2 | I get how fathers abandon their childrenLove this. Good job my man. Gives me hope. ❤️❤️❤️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/05/23 03:38 AM |
| 3 | I get how fathers abandon their childrenBro I’m so sorry. ❤️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/05/23 03:34 AM |
| 1 | I get how fathers abandon their childrenSorry bro. ❤️❤️❤️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/05/23 03:31 AM |
| 2 | I get how fathers abandon their childrenWe are all together. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/05/23 03:29 AM |
| 1 | I get how fathers abandon their children❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/05/23 03:10 AM |
| 3 | How many of your all’s marriages were savable? But your wife refused to work with you.🙋♂️🙋♂️🙋♂️🙋♂️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/23 03:26 AM |
| 5 | Anyone else’s wife lose her mind after kids?Thanks bro. Same to you. But yea. I feel a lot of things. Duped is definitely one of them. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/23 03:06 AM |
| 12 | Anyone else’s wife lose her mind after kids?Happened to me. We did ivf as well. It was devastating and I’m still battling to be a part of my children’s lives. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/23 03:02 AM |
| 2 | I feel like I now hate womenI have toyed with this idea many times. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/23 02:20 AM |
| 3 | I feel like I now hate womenWord | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/23 02:20 AM |
| 1 | When your ex-wife start dating someone new🤢 | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/23 01:56 AM |
| 3 | Handling rich new guy❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/05/23 01:21 AM |
| 2 | unconscionableBro. Preach. I feel your pain. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/23 08:52 PM |
| 3 | Don’t worry fellasThanks dude. I needed this reminder! | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/23 01:05 PM |
| 3 | Brotherhood is AmazingAwesome. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/04/23 03:49 PM |
| 1 | It turns out my now ex-wife was emailing everyone in my family throughout the divorce and they're so poisoned I've had to estrange myself from themSomething similar happened to me. Better off without all of them. Hang in there though. It’s hard. Find support from other areas of your life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/04/23 02:57 AM |
| 3 | Why are women like this?So true. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/03/23 05:20 AM |
| 1 | It’s official, there’s someone elseYIKES!!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/23 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Mediation pointers pleaseUse lawyers | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/03/23 11:34 PM |
| 5 | It’s official, there’s someone elseDamn - 75%? That’s wild but makes so much sense. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/03/23 10:32 PM |
| 10 | It’s official, there’s someone elseExactly | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/03/23 10:21 PM |
| 1 | I Ruined My Marriage and I don’t want to live anymore.Beautifully said | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/03/23 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Just wanna give a big shout out to every god damned salt of the earth man in here .100 | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/03/23 12:23 PM |
| 2 | I can't do this anymore. What's the first 3 steps to get out of this deathtrap?Yup. My ex couldn’t hang and didn’t want to do anything so had her mom chase me out. Not a good decision but it all worked out in the end. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/23 10:25 PM |
| 2 | What are some strange new interests your ex developed?Same | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/23 01:02 PM |
| 2 | Wife just informed me she wants a divorce.100 | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/03/23 09:10 AM |
| 2 | Wife just informed me she wants a divorce.Second this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/03/23 07:59 PM |
| 2 | How bad is this?Yupppp | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/03/23 02:30 PM |
| 2 | How bad is this?100000000 | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/03/23 02:30 PM |
| 1 | After my divorce, I don't know if I'm better at vetting women or if I am just broken.Good job | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/03/23 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Ex asking to do things as a familyI just tried this. I kept my mouth shut most of the time. Grey rocked her. She stopped asking to hang out. Luckily for me I made it comfortable enough for her to realize that it isn’t what she thinks it is. Bc it isn’t. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/03/23 02:19 AM |
| 4 | Am I being a sissy? How much putting down is too much?🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/03/23 04:51 AM |
| 5 | Advice so the soon to be ex wife birthday is Saturday. I keep on going back and forth of getting her something or not getting her something. What do you guys think?Yea same. You can do it. But it’s totally worthless. So don’t do it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/03/23 08:27 AM |
| 2 | GaslightingHahaha so sad bc it’s so spot on. Fml. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/23 04:06 AM |
| 1 | What did y’all do about your social media? Scrub it? Start over?I blocked mine on both. I still use them too but just don’t care about her and easy to do when she’s blocked. I also blocked many of her relatives. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/02/23 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Personal Items in Marital House😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/02/23 02:19 AM |
| 3 | What’s with her?Same here dude. It’s tough but hang in there and let time do it’s thing. Rise above her bullshit. Remember in life everything is temporary. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/01/23 06:47 AM |
| 2 | Living alone for first time in 20 years.Sorry my man | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/01/23 05:06 PM |
| 8 | It's been years & I still can't let her go.Damn man I’m sorry. Time will help. Try and keep your head up and know there is better coming your way. | /r/MenSupportMen | 14/01/23 05:13 AM |
| 3 | My wife has schizophrenia and I'm exhaustedIf you don’t mind sharing - what kind of episode of psychosis did she have when you called the police?? | /r/MenSupportMen | 11/10/22 10:44 PM |
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