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You're an idiot if you pay for someone else's meal. Go 50/50 or don't bother.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 11:50 AM
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I tried lifting and it's boring. Rather keep fit by doing rock climbing and cycling.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:49 AM
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You remind me of HBK from WWE back in the early days.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:47 AM
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it’s about men that try to take advantage of poor women whom they can control The women there are taking advantage of the men just as much. Most of them want their green card to get citizenship then they will simply discard the dude. They're all as bad as each other.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 11:34 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AskFeminists/comments/ye2s0y/what_are_your_thoughts_on_men_who_actively_seek/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Why are you going to subs that directly oppose this one and posting content? That's kinda dumb smh.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 11:32 AM
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This is what feminism is doing to men. I have no sympathy for that person. Wanting to kill yourself for such a stupid reason is just darwinism at work.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 11:32 AM
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Simp is another one. You can't even take an interest in a girl these days without being called a simp. I see it all over YouTube comments. Me: "Wow, that singer is so pretty!" Them: "SIMP ALERT SIMP ALERT OMG SIMP!!!!"
/r/MensRights27/10/22 11:30 AM
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Interestingly enough, this is why I still live with my parents in my 30's. I have enough money to move out. I put down a deposit for a mortgage but I backed out last minute just a few months ago. Main reason is that sure, I would have my own place but I would be incredibly lonely. I have Aspergers so I'm fairly certain I will never have a proper relationship. And I get on with my parents quite well and talk to them everyday. It's better to stay here for my mental health rather than come home to …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:11 AM
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If you must masturbate, what’s the healthiest fantasy? A picture of a naked woman you are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:08 AM
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I don't know if it's just some weird logic thing in my brain but whenever I used Tinder or Bumble nearly every single woman on it seemed to be a model or something. I just never saw any average looking people on it. It was just 9/10 looking beautiful women in a bikini on a beach. I imagine that most women on those apps who were average/ugly or overweight have just given up and all that is left is the ones who get lots of matches. I went on Facebook Dating and it's been way better with lots more …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:50 AM
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Bro, every day I tell dudes here to lift and socialize. If everyone lifts then the bar just raises. And soon if you don't lift then you won't even be minimally accepted. Bro I tried lifting and I fucking hate it. I prefer cycling and keeping fit through rock climbing. Hate when people recommend lifting as a cure to suddenly get a girlfriend. It's why you end up with guys obsessed with the gym but getting no where with women. "Just one more bench press and a girl might date me". Meanwhile, some o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 01:33 PM
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do you see someone who's in good shape, knows how to cook good, has at least 2 areas of expertise, has good habits and hygiene, is intelligent, funny, considerate, passionate about things in his life and has either worked or is working to give his loved ones the best life he can? That isn't the average man. The average man is a wageslaving 9-5er who might be slightly overweight. That is the honest truth. Anyone above is is obviously above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 12:51 PM
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North American society that hasn’t seen a grown ass male in at least 30 years I could say the same for women tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 12:17 PM
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we like the story, the build up, the hot tall brooding male character with a big dick that is both sweet but dominating Fantasising about the 0.5% of men in the entire world. Crazy. Meanwhile, most men just fantasise about waking up with someone they can cuddle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:42 AM
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They do but they struggle more than tall men. I changed my bio/setting in Tinder to say 6'2" ft instead of 5'6" and I got like 8 more matches a day. Women 100% prefer taller men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:11 PM
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Black women struggle in staying because of racism. They are racist themselves though, preferring to stick with black men rather than look at other ethnicities. Myself for example, I love black women so much. But I'm Chinese and typically black women absolutely do not get with Chinese men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:27 AM
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He meets the 6 inches and 6 figures criteria Height is probably one of the most important factors for men. I'd say height matters more than anything else actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:26 AM
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As in, if you take away your vagina, what is exactly on the table? What value are you bringing? Man I don't even care about sex as much as I care about being loved. Waking up next to a person and just cuddling and spending the day together.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:24 AM
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That said there's a lot of ausitic people on this sub. I am autistic (high functioning) and I make a lot of money. It's very easy to get into a codemonkey job or even a project manager. Autistic people can be very hard working and obsess over their projects to the point where they provide great results. They're not always the best employees for team work though as they often like to work alone. But they suffer in areas like friendship and relationships. Businesses are very black and white for me…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:20 AM
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That says a lot about our standards as men. Life is a competition to mate. No surprise we want to fuck as many women as we can to spread our seed. Even though we're civil I doubt we can ever overcome our biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:16 AM
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Yeah, at least I can afford rent. You shouldn't be happy about being taken advantage of by a landlord. Rent is basically burning money. The smart thing to do would be to stay at your parents for a while longer to get the deposit for a mortgage, which is an appreciating asset and not flushing money down the toilet on rent. The only time it's worth renting is when you live in a city and aim to work there for a year or two before moving. You don't sound financially smart. I can tell you now I live …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:57 AM
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Man I don't know if I believe you are a real person or a landlord trying to shill renting. Because I lived out at university for 4 years and my room mates were the most untidy unclean fucks ever. I would prefer living with my parents over living with scruffy house mates again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:38 AM
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no naked girls will materialize in your bedroom if all you do is play video games, smoke weed and jerk off to porn. Not unless VR picks up steam and the tech gets better soon
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:27 PM
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It takes hitting rock bottom for someone to find that motivation and drive to rise above. Or they hit rock bottom and they stay there forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:06 PM
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It was sad because I wanted to have children and everything, but apparently, I was not wired for that. People do not run from me either... they talk to me and even lunch with me, but I have never really been the best friend of anyone seriously, Sorry to hear mate. I too have Aspergers and like you said, people are more than happy to speak to me. I speak to women at work (in a friendly manner) and we get along fine. Flirting and romance is a completely different world. It's very foreign to me and…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:05 PM
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I'm Chinese and a woman has never said "Asians are not my type" to me on dating apps or real life. Maybe it's because I'm British and we're not that rude to your face. Most people will just turn you down by saying they have a boyfriend or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 11:00 AM
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Even the nerdiest most anime obsessed dude has more sexual/romantic experience than me Nerdy anime obsessed dude here. I have zero sexual/romantic experience lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 11:00 AM
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Married people cut off their friends asap. Seems that way. Funnily enough, one guy who I haven't spoken to for years just messaged me on social media asking me to hang out/come around his house for some drinks and a catchup. Then he goes "Yeah just broke up with my long term gf" lmao. Only interested in me when he doesn't have a gf. So I just yeah sure and ignored his messages afterward.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:29 PM
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It's called meeting people through friends Ahh, so firstly I need to make friends because I lost all of those after I finished college. It does seem like adults don't really want to have friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:39 PM
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Well no one looks at avatars (I don't at least) and your flair says you are taken. If you were to post in a selfie sub "Hi I'm januaryphilosopher and I'm single" you would get a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 12:49 PM
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What guys? They probably don't know that you are a woman. Post a picture of yourself on here and prepare your inbox.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 12:29 PM
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I have Aspergers and a very small penis which makes me have low self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:58 AM
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Because paying for sex is pathetic. I'd rather fap it's free and gets the job done
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 01:56 PM
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What you see is irrelevant. It's completely relevant. Average men get nothing and that's okay. You are saying that average men cannot get laid anymore yet I go outside and see average men with women. All of my friends are average men, not 6 ft 6 pack 6 figures and they still get laid. One of my coworkers just had a baby with a pretty girl and he is a 5 foot 7 gamer nerd. Too many of you clearly based your interactions heavily on Reddit. I'd say that's you since you don't seem to understand avera…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:49 AM
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Like you’re online shopping or something... Online dating is kinda that though? It's a meat market based on images.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:38 AM
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Average men get nothing and that's okay. I can walk down to my local city and see average, fat, short and 'ugly' men holding hands with women who are their looksmatch. This is why I don't take this sub seriously. Millions of average men are dating just fine. The reason average men may struggle is because they have neurological issues like autism and stay inside playing video games. The average overweight tradesmen plumber who is confident can get laid any time he wants by going the pub and speak…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:23 AM
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this is a useless sub I just read it in work when I'm bored. Most of the stuff here is nothing new that TRP hasn't already discussed to death. I also don't believe a good portion of stuff posted here. You have threads like "I'm 6 ft, 6 figures, 6 pack and still can't get laid women suck!!!" and it just feels disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:19 AM
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Morals has nothing to do with attraction. Looks money status I agree. Just look at Jeremy Meeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:01 AM
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Yeah I had to try my best to ensure my social feed was curated correctly so it didn't make me depressed. Unfollowed so many people but kept them as friends just in case I need to reach out one day. At least I don't see their crap (holidays, new cars, new whatever) on my feed anymore. Plus the older I got the more I realised we have our own path in life. There is no point comparing yourself to others who may have had rich parents who bought everything for them. Comparison is the thief of joy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:49 AM
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Chad wears a basic t shirt and jeans. Gets laid 100 times a day. PPD user spends $3,000 on SUPREME clothes. Gets laid 0 times a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:25 PM
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I have a nearly £10,000 motorcycle and the only thing it has ever done is make more men come over to me. Not a single woman has ever commented on my bike lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:20 PM
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Another woman who doesn't want men to have hobbies. You have to be productive and giving her attention 24/7. Heaven forbid a man sits down for an hour to have a little entertainment. I bet you watch Netflix too. It's the exact same thing. I see you ride motorcycles. If you ride for pleasure there is zero difference riding that and playing Xbox. I should know because I also ride. Entertainment and pleasure are one and the same thing. Get off your high horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:25 AM
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Women by and large don't want to be valued as pretty objects Only when it suits them. Otherwise, they wouldn't be selling their bodies on OnlyFans for $$$.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:54 PM
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This is how online dating is supposed to function It did back when it first started. I used to actually get a decent amount of matches back 2014. But it's gone really shit now. Not sure whether women's standards just went up or the apps have just changed the algorithms to make more money out of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:53 PM
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We will have to agree to disagree. You can fake it until you make it. Mask your true self to get in the door. I already do that anyway. You think I'm going to tell a potential date "Hi, I play video games and smoke weed!"? I tell them I go on adventures, go surfing and I get out there and enjoy life. Heck, I just came back from a vacation in Ibiza and I was partying hard on drugs over there for a week. It's all bullshit though because eventually your true self is revealed, especially if you are …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:20 PM
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Reading this shit makes me want to give up dating forever. Yeah I don't have #1 and #2 but I'm too old (30+) to change my personality to that degree. I can't suddenly become some asshole bad boy now. I am who I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:07 PM
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shorter-average height guys need to learn how to I'm on the taller side and i'm pretty muscular The actual state of this gaslighting. "Hey guys I'm a tall man here's what you short guys are doing wrong" It's like saying to a homeless guy "Hey bro why don't you just make money lmao?" This thread is shit. If you were a short guy showing us your experiences of getting women it would but different. But you cannot pretend to know the issues of short men when you are tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:43 AM
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You can’t nut without porn? I suppose I could if I tried hard enough. I could nut to a picture of a clothed girl if I found her attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:11 PM
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Homeless drug addicts probably get more action than the average Redditor at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:28 AM
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Like if your in a down period of your life no one will have sex with you. Women have sex with poor dudes all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:28 AM
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The fact that I know that today 95% of men Men watch porn because they have insatiable horniness that distracts you from everyday life. No one wants to watch porn over having sex with a real person. It's a symptom of current society. Women just don't get men. The clarity we get post nut is amazing. I can finally think normally and focus on my hobbies, rather than being obsessed with women and their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:26 AM
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Play competitive sports in school, work customer facing jobs as a young adult, and don't spend weekends inside. Even join a fraternity Yes but a lot of kids just don't do these things and prefer to play games or watch Netflix/TikTok
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:05 PM
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are you taking steps to prevent yourself from doing this in the future? Not really no! Stimming is fine to me. I just hide my nails from people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:52 PM
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Is it that they lack the understanding of proper flirting cues? I have Aspergers and I think it's this one. I speak to women at work and I have no issue in speaking to them on friendly terms. Maybe they think I'm weird, I'm not sure but they seem fine. The main issue is trying to flirt. I personally just don't get it. I can call a woman pretty or beautiful if I find her attractive. That is easy. But it's just so cringe. "I think you are really pretty". That is my way of flirting. I don't get all…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:56 AM
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See if CBT will help CBT or therapy will not help autism wtf dude lmao. It's a defect with you brain that you cannot help. You just learn to live with it and hope that someone accepts you for who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:50 AM
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Being autistic is a spectrum. I have Aspergers but things like: for example not having any concept of what privacy means, Not every autistic has issues with. I always knock on peoples doors in work and at home before I enter. It's just polite.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:41 AM
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My stim is nail biting. It makes me calm. My nails are completely destroyed as result. I often bite so far that they just bleed and it hurts to grip things. But the pain makes me feel happy like everything is 'normal'. Fucked up I know. I try not to do it in front of people but it does happen in social situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:39 AM
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Introversion isn't a problem that needs to be solved As an introvert, I think it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:46 AM
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Women will approach a man if he is dripping with money Only $ millions. The average man who earns $50k/year is not a pussy magnet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:45 AM
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I'm 30 and I work in IT but ok lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:44 AM
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You could choose not to interact, get bullied, be in the rear of the pack, wash out, etc. I don't feel like people choose this. Some kids are sports jocks and some are outcast nerds. Fate be real
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:43 AM
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I'm throwing out solutions yes, which is why we are debating them. How else do you propose getting people off the video games/internet/porn and getting them outside to get involved in communities?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:14 PM
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I did not. My parents preferred me staying inside playing video games because it was "safe" in their words. If I ever have kids, they will be outside every fucking day playing sports or being active.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:25 PM
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I could order people around, give briefs etc no worries, but those are not really skills that help with seduction. Well my point is that most people on this sub seem to have social issues at the forefront of their problems. It goes beyond dating women. If you cannot socialise in the first place then what hope do you have in getting a girlfriend? Men who grow up addicted to video games and the internet need to be forced to go outside and deal with other humans somehow. And I don't mean just worki…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:53 PM
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The military isn't about teaching men to approach women. It was more to get them used to hardships and teamwork. Working toward a common goal. The youth of today are lost in the internet, porn and video games. I believe something like the army could make them stronger in spirit and have less anxiety in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:33 PM
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Mandatory service won't change a thing. Forcing people to get out into the world and deal with other humans is better than them sitting on Reddit/playing video games all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:25 PM
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Women don’t need some kind of special training to be social. Women don't need to approach men. So that's not a good argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:22 PM
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Spending 12 months dealing with other people in team building and spirit building exercises sounds better for your physical/mental health than posting on Reddit tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:22 PM
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The things you described should be instilled in a man by his parents. And if they aren't? Let's not pretend every parent is doing a proper job. A good portion of them aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:20 PM
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Why just men lmao? Are there no shy/introverted women? You fucking know why. Are women approaching men? No. Therefore, it's up to men to be extroverted and take initiative. I don't know why you ask the same for women when you know that men chase women. It's how it's always been. If men are shy it's a death sentence. If women are shy it's seen as cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:19 PM
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No woman will want to attach herself to THAT. You say this stuff as if all women are out there living some kind of exciting and amazing life that men cannot live up to. I work with women. They do the same thing as men, minus the porn. They work, go home and eat, watch Netflix and then go to bed and repeat the next day. Why do men have to do all that shit while women are free to continue doing what they are doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:48 PM
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What about people who like you for your humor and opinions and because they admire how you deport yourself? Probably matters more if you have lots of friends IRL I guess. I don't really and I can only base my experiences from dating apps and I appearance is the only thing that matters on those.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:33 AM
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What... should women be doing instead? Everyone wants to date attractive people. I guess people should be looksmatching. Like if you're a woman and obese, you should be looking for an obese man. If you're a woman and you're a gym bunny, then you should be looking for a man who also goes the gym regularly. It doesn't make any sense for some obese neckbeard who eats cheetos in his moms basement to try and get laid with some hot blonde girl who hits the gym daily. It's the same for women. I guess i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:26 AM
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Don't know how to be romantic or flirty. I can speak to women just fine. Just being flirty I can't do due to autism
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 04:08 PM
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Why are you here? I am autistic and like to read about how other people have issues in dating like I do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:37 PM
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If I was 21 and I was attracted to a 55 year old girl, I would go to her with a bar no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:36 PM
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After running that experiment, I was never the same again. Ha, same. On my normal dating profiles I was alway respectful and decent. Tried my best to keep conversation flowing, make jokes related to their profile and ask them out on dates. Never really worked out though. They just ghosted me or flaked on dates. When I tried a fake account with a relatively unknown male model, I just used to troll or be disrespectful to see how the girls would react and most of them wouldn't care as long as they …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:59 AM
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meet women through mutual friends What if you have no friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:04 AM
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Most meet thru work, I work with 90% men and 10% boomer lady admins who are already married. school, I'm 31 years old dating apps, Don't get any matches and social circle. Most of my close friends from high school have drifted away. All I have left is coworkers from previous jobs who I see once every couple of months. Dating as a 30+ year old who is a social reject is pretty brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:03 AM
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I don't know anyone that managed to stick around with someone they met at a bar/club. It was always just a one night stand. Problem with clubs is that the person you meet is drunk and so are you. You might have zero common interests with them or wake up and realise you had beer goggles and you actually aren't that attracted to them at all. The people I know who are together long term met in high school and dating apps. My brother met his gf in work and they have been together for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:01 AM
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Fair division of labor, that's clearly a dealbreaker for men because men would rather be single than provide that. Meh this is just normal adult stuff that everyone does. I do my own clothes washing, dish washing, dust and vacuum the house, basically everything that women do. I personally don't think that is the reason men are single, most men are willing to do all those things. The only thing that matters here is being attractive and tall. Men who are that can get away with a lot of things, esp…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:22 AM
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They’re just more ruthless about everything. I was just going to say this. You only need to use social media like TikTok or Instagram to see how brazen and blunt lots of people are about things like height, baldness and men's bodies. It's sad really because most zoomers will have things like TikTok installed so they are just viewing this shit on a daily basis. It's no wonder pill-related stuff has kinda exploded.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:37 AM
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Nah. It's just shitty generic advice that gets peddled all the time. It's content with no substance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 02:42 PM
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Just go outside bro Just build some friendships bro Just go to the gym bro!!!! Thanks man, just fixed my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:09 PM
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There is already an app that does all this, it's called Meetup.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 11:04 AM
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I live in the UK and it's so bad. The inequality is insane here. You have people on 40k/year working from home and completely living a comfy life. And then you have the retail/fast food workers in complete poverty, paying ridiculous fuel prices to get to their poorly paid jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 10:46 AM
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Dude, this is why you should date autistic women People keep saying this and it's really annoying me now. Where exactly do you find autistic women? It's not like they hold up fucking signs saying "I'M AUTISTIC" Stop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 10:31 AM
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At least women admit it those things rather than just pretending "H-he was just a bad person!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 10:20 AM
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DATE AUTISTIC WOMEN And where do you find these autistic women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 10:19 AM
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do you wonder how someone with Autism might feel reading your words? I'm not Autistic, but I feel the sting. I have Aspergers and I have accepted my autism. I don't really feel about reading these types of posts. I realise I'm pretty much fucked when it comes to modern dating. But it is what it is. In the past I just masked. Now I just straight up tell people and if I go on a date I will just tell them I have autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 10:18 AM
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often times man spreading or at least rarely crossing their legs when they sit Damn, this is me to a tee. My legs are always man spreading, crossed or moving around incessantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 10:10 AM
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ADHD is a bit different from being autistic though dude. ADHD people might have difficulties but they can live a relatively normal life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 10:08 AM
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being autistic is difficult under modern society unfortunately Being autistic in any society is difficult. If anything, it's the best time to be autistic. We have the internet and can hide away when we need to. Yeah it's not good for our dating and social life but it's not like it would ever be great anyway...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 10:07 AM
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Man with Aspergers here. No I have never had to mask around men. I have to mask around certain men. Certain men are hypermasculine and will put you down unless you appear to be the same. But at the same time I have met men who just like me exactly the way I am without masking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:57 AM
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Nothing to be sorry about 😅 It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:24 AM
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What are your cons? I play video games. I watch anime. I can be sensitive sometimes and cry (like when my cat died). I don't have any muscles. I'm 5 foot 6 and I have a very small penis. When I think about it, there is not much reason to even be with me, hence why I haven't had a gf before. Having said that, I am financially stable with no debt and lots of money in the bank and I if I had a girlfriend we would do lots of exciting things (sky diving, trips to the beach, holidays etc). I wouldn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:37 PM
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Tbh from what I understand it's all about feels over being treated right. That Chad guy might be an abuser but he leads an exciting life and has lots of charisma that draws women in. That nerdy guy might treat a woman amazingly and never abuse her, but he lives an unexciting life and doesn't give her any 'feels' because he has no sexual charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:22 AM
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It's not like they can tell I make good money. I drive an old beater car and buy bargain bin clothes. I just save all the money in my bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 11:41 AM
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My issue is that I sit alone in a showroom for 8 hours a day, Car sales?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 03:53 PM
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Pay a domme
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 12:44 PM
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Yes, there are women who want an equal relationship, and some who want to be the protector or leader(some of which are on r/RoleReversal) Girls who are naturally dominant are probably such a small percentage of the population (0.1%) that they might as well not even exist. Even girls like Ronda Rousey are probably submissive in the bedroom, even though she's a dominant MMA fighter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 12:27 PM
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So the UK is trialing autistic dating programs. What trials exactly? I live here and I'm autistic and I've never heard of these trials.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 09:14 AM
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He’s on the wrong app. Is Bumble a hookup app or a dating one?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 12:05 PM
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How come? It's a fetish for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 12:01 PM
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dudes who go to jail lowkey have more clout than your typical neckbeard living in his mom's basement Shrug. I still live with my parents and because of this I have saved literally thousands of $ rather than wasting it on renting. I am financially secure and can move instantly, so I hope my future gf appreciates that rather than dating a drug dealer that goes to jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 12:00 PM
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You can't just stop liking sex wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:57 AM
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4 inch warrior here. Thanks it made me feel a bit better
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:56 AM
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How small are you? Can you give a number? 3.5 to 4 inches depending on how horny
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:32 AM
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I'm straight and I would try it if I had a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 01:05 PM
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As a short autistic man, this is why I don't put much effort in anymore. It doesn't feel like your efforts are justified. Spending years and years in the gym to get that Zyzz body only for most women to ignore you anyway since you're only 167cm or Asian and not white. The only thing I try to do is keep a healthy weight and not be overweight.
/r/AllPillDebate01/08/22 09:22 AM
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I wish I could give him puberty blockers so he never experiences sexual desire. Damn, that's kinda sad!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 08:22 AM
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I really liked this comment thanks man I saved it. You are right that nothing is wrong with me and I should believe in myself. If a girl doesn't like me I just move onto the next. Just be myself and act with confidence in myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:44 PM
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That sounded like a date I could do myself. But I have never played tabletop games. then went to a recording of a nerdy podcast, then made out in his car and had sex back at his place. Wow 😳 He must've been pretty confident to do that If someone wants to show interest in me, just tell me. I much prefer being blunt about my own interest too. Same same!! I don't have the time nor patience for NT subtle dating games. Let's just get on the same page. If we like each other we like each other let's no…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:42 PM
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I see, thanks for that. Maybe I should delete it and just tell them on the date. The problem I have is that I don't come across as NT. I just want them to already know why and fully accept why I'm talking about strange stuff on dates instead of being all NT lusty/flirty/confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:38 PM
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I wrote out a whole deal but then deleted it. I do that too don't worry haha But maybe I ask why you ask Mostly just because I like to compare myself against other aspies to see where I am progressing in my life. It's probably not a great measurement as being autistic is a spectrum. I am fairly high functioning, as long as I keep my mouth shut because I can say weird/offensive things if I speak too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:35 PM
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I see. Where do you think it's best for aspies to meet up? I believe most aspie women are hiding in plain sight and able to mask it well. I mask my autism in my current workplace. But it involves just keeping to myself, as in previous jobs I spoke too much and said weird/rude things accidentally. So now I just don't speak from fear of saying the wrong thing. Apparently, there are dating apps for autistic people. And I agree that sex is probably better with two NDs. Although, I don't have the exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:33 PM
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I see. How old are you now? I think it's important to compare these types of things as fellow autists, although it's a spectrum. I could be worse or maybe I'm not as bad. I have been on a few dates but nothing ever came of them either. I also have OLD but I have in my bios that I'm Aspergers to get it out of the way. It's probably having a negative effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:31 PM
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It's expanded my world so much I could cry. Explain? Also, I don't really have many friends to do that with. I'm 30 and many of the people I used to know have mortgages, bills and kids to pay for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:29 PM
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Wow, I guess that is lucky! I will have to look on Facebook groups. Did you actively use Facebook a lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:29 PM
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Nerd bars/barcades/tabletopgaming bars I wish I had friends to go these types of things with though dude. I am alone and the people I used to know have kids and families now. I am not important to them as much anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:27 PM
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Dude your comment is very depressing. I grind so that I can afford to pay my hobbies and buy a house mostly, I don't grind for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:26 PM
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I'm a little bit overweight but not fat. I will lose weight and have a stronger jawline. But I still have my meek personality lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:26 PM
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Get good at things. Get money. I am good at things I enjoy already. I'm good at DIY (I fix issues on my car/motorcycle). And I am good at my job.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:21 PM
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I have thought about moving to China as I am Asian. But I'm a westernised Asian and have more western culture related to me than Chinese now. It's difficult because you never feel like you belong. Even if I went to China, English is my native language and I only really know a few words in Cantonese. I would be afraid to go to Singapore or South America alone. I wish I had friends to go with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:20 PM
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Would you date an aspie man?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:18 PM
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You were able to pass a job interview and make friends, so you do have some social skills I took beta blocker medication to pass my current job interview. It makes me very zombie-like and emotionless but makes the anxiety go away. It was helpful in making me appear confident. I don't really have many friends that can help me. Have you tried joining a dating site for autistic people? Didn't know there was any Why not join a Facebook group for autistic/neurodivergent people? I could do that I thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:18 PM
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I am higher functioning yes. But only to the level that involves work. Working is very simple I find. It's all hierarchy and rules which makes it easy. I find talking to coworkers difficult. Sometimes they are sarcastic or subtle with their intentions and I have left many jobs due to saying the wrong thing. Though I learned from those experiences. So now I am very quiet and do not draw attention to myself. That is working well because I do not risk saying the wrong thing. But I guess people thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:16 PM
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autistic people often find ways to be at peace with being alone and do not need to rely on a partner. We learn to deal with it but I do not believe most of us are happy about it. Solitude and loneliness are two different things I guess. I'm happy with my solitude but I am also lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:14 PM
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It's not really short. It's just short. Really short would be 162cm and below. I'm 167cm. The average height for men in the UK is 177cm. So I guess I'm 10cm off that but the average height for women is below 167cm.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:13 PM
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(being short, introverted, neurodivergent) is an automatic forever alone I have believed this for many years sadly. Hard to undo it all
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:12 PM
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I don't take advice from women. I don't really like TRP but I agree about certain areas like fitness and being the best man you can be. I don't agree with being rude and negging women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:11 PM
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Find a girl with Asperger. I met one on OLD one time but she hardly chats on it. I wonder whether autistic women do not like to chat that much
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:10 PM
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Do you have a girlfriend or are you actively dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:08 PM
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Do you have a girlfriend and have you been on many dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:05 PM
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Sad poem. But I do agree with you that hobby groups are best. It's a bit unfortunate that most of my hobbies are male orientated. For example, I love motorcycles and cars, but whenever I go to motorcycle meetups or car shows it's 90% men. Any women into bikes or cars get absolutely swamped by men. I have been looking at Meetup.com groups and there are a couple of board game meetups near me. But I never have been a fan of board games. I wonder whether I should go or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:00 PM
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Facebook dating? Or just regular Facebook using it for friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:28 PM
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So why do you focus on high-earning, working women? I don't personally I was just using them as an example women have money. I would prefer to focus on younger women, yes, but I believe those types are more focused on attractiveness and physicality rather than career. This is because I feel like women don't care about your financial status until they reach settling down age? But that's just what I have observed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:43 PM
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What is it called?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:25 PM
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I wouldn't mind a sex doll to be completely honest. They seem kinda enjoyable but the idea of cleaning them sounds like a lot of effort. A lot easier to just fap. And I agree with your idea that society has changed with regard to men's purpose. Since women entered the workforce, there is less onus on the man to earn a better wage. And since women can earn good wages now, some of them might not be happy if their man earns less than then. I know that isn't every woman though. One coworker from a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:24 PM
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I used to go to anime conventions but haven't been for a long time. I feel a bit out of place sometimes because a lot of people that go to those places are young now. Think 14-25. Another issue is finding people to go with me who I know. Most ex coworkers I know are quite normie and not into video games or anime.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:20 PM
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Money hasn't helped me. I personally don't think money matters beyond having millions. Most of the older women accountants at my workplace drive BMWs, Mercedes, Audi etc. They have their own money they don't need mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:19 PM
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and if you're ugly or short as well then you can forget about any realistic chance on finding a gf. Well, I'm 5 foot 6/167cm so I'm not super short but short nonetheless. I also don't think I'm "ugly" like a deformed or disabled person. I'm probably just very basic/average with nothing particularly exciting about my face. Autistic men have the highest rates of sexlessness I already knew this tbh. Though I do hold out on hope. I have struggled between being blue/blackpilled. I want to believe tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:18 PM
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Men - what makes you a catch Bad: Short 167cm Ugly/Average looking depending on the woman's opinion Have Aspergers so I can be socially awkward sometimes Am Asian, if you don't like non-white people Have a 4 inch penis that is very thin No muscles and I am thin Watches anime porn Autism means I'm not very romantic Good: Have a well-paid career in STEM Am outgoing and enjoy hobbies like cycling, swimming, rock climbing and travelling Want to buy a boat, do exciting things and build memories toget…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:37 AM
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I'm ugly, poor and autistic Ha, well said. Me except the poor part. I have a lot of money but I am short, ugly and autistic!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:33 AM
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Looks, Money Status should be replaced by Looks, Location, Game honestly I agree dude. It's a shame we got taught this kinda crap growing up and it took the internet to blackpill us on the truth. Yes, having a job is important but most women I would imagine would be happy with you earning a 'comfortable' wage and being attractive rather than $500k+ and being unattractive. I remember people just telling me to work hard and be successful and that my life would just turn out right. And that the peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:31 AM
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My chad friend taught me how to do my hair, dress up, I was working out for a few years at this point so I was in good shape. Where you working at the same time as this? I'd like to do it but working 40-50 hours a week leaves me with not much time and my spare time I try to relax/destress. Work is kinda the source of all my issues including gaining weight. Wish I could just quit work and focus on my body and mental but I'm not super well off, so I cannot afford to lose getting paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:26 AM
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Are you sure you're not autistic or have tendencies?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:21 AM
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No mate the average height of women in the UK is 162cm
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:41 PM
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Graphic tees and cargos screams teenager lol I don't wear graphic t shirts anymore but I do wear shorts. Why shouldn't I wear shorts when the weather is 100f outside? I see plenty of men holding hands with girls outside wearing shorts in hot weather.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:25 PM
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I probably dress like a teenager still. I don't exactly dress in a suit to go grocery shopping. Just basic comfy stuff like shorts and a shirt in summer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:33 PM
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Short+Asian is a death sentence. 167cm so it's not entirely a death sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:33 PM
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How are you doing, fellow Asian bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:49 PM
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Take two identical twins. Both are baby-faced. One spent his life growing up on the streets learning how to fight to defend himself. He went through constant stresses and tests of his character (rites of passage). He has had to work hard in order to survive. The other twin grew up in a middle-class home and enjoys playing video games and sometimes kicking a soccer ball around. He’s a nice guy but you can tell he’s never been pushed to his limit. He’s never been punched in the face. He’s never ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:47 PM
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What issues do you actually feel for women about? Probably pregnancy and menstruation being horrible but that's it really.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:24 AM
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That's me lol. I'm Chinese and I live in the UK, so naturally I can't grow a fucking beard, I'm short and I still get ID'd for alcohol at age 30 with the ladies there going "Oh sorry dearie I thought you looked under 20!" Maybe when I hit 60 I might finally look my age. As of right now I'm pretty much a babyface and I assume most would see me as a friend rather than an object of sexual desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:13 AM
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Unless you're earning $300k/year and drive a Lambo, I really don't think they care about the average dude who earns $50k and drives a BMW.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:40 PM
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I don’t think the majority of men get angry Well I mean some do and start calling them names like slut or bitch because they rejected them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:08 PM
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What Is The Biggest Risk Factor That Someone Will Still Be A Virgin By 30? Autism. Height. Face. Penis size.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 11:15 AM
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Thanks, I'm autistic and I'm gonna go the Philippines now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 11:14 AM
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I'm a virgin at 30 and I have Aspergers. Go figure. I just don't understand romance. To me, a romantic date is one talking enthusiastically about our hobbies. The whole act lusty and flirty just doesn't register in my brain. I can't do it. I mean I can say "wow you're beautiful, you look amazing in that dress and you look so pretty in your makeup", but that is the extent of my 'romantic' nature. I've always imagined if I had sex I wouldn't speak much in it either. Sex talk looks super cringe to …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 11:12 AM
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Ghosting is normalized for women of all ages. Probably because a good majority of men get angry when a woman tells them she's not interested. Anyway, men ghost too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:55 AM
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Nah kid I fall into the 200k salary by 26 bracket. So? Women don't give a shit about your salary. They care if you are attractive to them. It's 2022 not the 1990s. Women earn their own wages now and can comfortably afford what they want. So they are now looking at things other than men's wallets such as height, face, muscles, looks etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:40 AM
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Yes I have never had a gf. i am well into my 20s. You can't make a thread like this saying that the bar is incredibly low, saying that all men should self improve to get laid, and then say that you are still single after doing all that dude. You're kinda proving your own point wrong and looking like a hypocrite. If the bar really was that low and you have self improved you should have had a gf by now mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:24 AM
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which doesn’t work for many while living in the suburbs there’s nowhere to easily meet people. Then you need to move to the city
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:21 AM
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should have a job that allows him to rent a one bedroom apartment. Imagine wasting money on rent paying for someone else's mortgage. I will never rent. It's being cucked by landlords. I'd rather stay with my parents (like what I'm doing now) and saving 80% of my monthly wage to put toward a mortgage. I have friends who have no deposit for a house while I have a nice deposit already reserved simply because I stayed at home for longer, while they are wasting £800 each month just paying to live in …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:51 AM
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they don't want the responsibility so they push it onto men So feminism is about equality and more empowerment for women. But only when it suits them? Women should have more involvement in dating. I hate how I'm forced to do everything. I have Aspergers and I find it difficult. I would love just once a woman to initiate for me.
/r/MensRights23/07/22 08:41 PM
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This doesn’t mean that a woman cannot ask a man out, or give him flowers, I was given a man flowers, but mainly the Man courts the woman this is just biology Well, basic biology be damned. It's 2022. Not 1980 anymore. Men and women are equal in society. Therefore women should be approaching men, paying for dates, proposing and bringing them flowers. I thought women wanted to be empowered? Yet they still wait for men to do the whole courting process?
/r/MensRights23/07/22 06:42 PM
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I don't see how the red pill has anything to do with women taking the initiative and asking men out more often. If anything it's empowering them to make their own decisions.
/r/MensRights23/07/22 06:35 PM
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It’s the courting phase. Yes? Why can't women court men? Why is the onus on men still if the sexes are equal?
/r/MensRights23/07/22 03:50 PM
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Women's safety now at the heart of the app I guess the guys who are successful with women are the only ones to blame here. Average/ugly guys aren't getting laid on Tinder so they're not the type who are putting women in danger. Women do this shit to themselves. They date men who clearly fucking hate them and want to pump and dump them.
/r/MensRights22/07/22 10:11 AM
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redditor for 1 hour Made a new account just to troll on here, FDS? Reported either way
/r/MensRights22/07/22 10:08 AM
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Kinda glad I saw this actually. I was going to buy a new phone cause my current battery has gone crap. I was gonna go with EE because they have the best/fastest coverage. But won't be now since they're putting out this misandrist crap.
/r/MensRights22/07/22 10:03 AM
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Men swiping on every profile to get a match is a huge problem Men only do that because the odds of matching are so low. If men got a healthy amount of matches they wouldn't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:59 AM
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Not interested in wooing a girl. She either likes me for who I am and what excitement I can bring into her life, or she doesn't like me and that's it. I don't treat women like prizes or goals. They are just people to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:58 AM
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Also society seems to think anything other than a flat stomach is fat and if you have a muffin top or your stomach hangs out a tiny bit you are considered obese by most. Overweight is different from obese. I'm about 10kg/22lbs overweight and I need to lose it. I wouldn't say I'm fat. I just have a bit of a muffin top
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:45 AM
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thin men don't get approached I'd say this depends? Handsome thin men will get approached. Thin nerdy men who are short (that's me) probably won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:38 AM
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it’ll make you reconsider your entire argument. What if they don't want casual sex? I'm pretty certain 99% of men do not want a fat girlfriend. Pumping and dumping is a bit different.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:37 AM
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Maybe if women would start paying for dates and doing romantic gestures for men then we would appreciate you more. Noooooo don't you get it?! Feminism says men and women are equal but it also says men should still do the same things they always did like paying for dates, initiating flirting/dates and proposing!!! Wait a sec... it's almost like it's not so equal after all 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:36 PM
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I agree man. People don't understand what it takes to have an aesthetic body. If you want a body like Zyzz you are counting calories and measuring macros by the gram, doing steroids, spending 3/4 days a week in the gym, not drinking alcohol or eating junk food etc. If you want a good career you're going to university, getting a masters maybe or a PhD. Then spending 40+ hours a week at your job learning. Then you might go home and continue to learn, maybe create a website as a freelancer or creat…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:29 PM
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So basically just follow rules 1 & 2 😴
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:14 PM
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People say go to yoga clubs. But then you are going to yoga to with the intention to hit on women. Can't imagine that being a good thing? Surely they would not like this. And if you go with the intention to pretend you're into it just so you can find women? Sounds kinda boring to me. I'd rather explore a hobby I actually enjoy. Unfortunately, most hobbies I enjoy like cars and motorcycles are sausage fests.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:11 PM
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This is exacerbated like you said by the fact many women only engage online But aren't dating apps like 70% men and 30% women? How can they all be online when there are more men on apps? Shouldn't it be the opposite? Or 50/50?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:03 PM
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it is all about just accidentally bumping into them at the right moment. All the people I know in relationships in real life met by chance. One met her in work, a couple are high school sweet hearts and another through friends of friends. I really don't know many people who met on Tinder and stuck together. I think it's all luck based but being out there and socialising obviously increases the chances of meeting the right person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:56 PM
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I remember in high school when the girls would date the bullies and laugh at the quiet nerds. Shit doesn't really change when you grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:34 AM
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Honestly half the women in my close friends groups are currently with men who have cheated on them, earn less money and are lazier around the home. They must be attractive. The women in my workplace complain so much about men not being good enough for them. And they're not hot shit themselves. I feel like women have less time today for manchildren.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:21 AM
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3- I’d say the standards are damn low. Women here get excited if their partner is understanding about them being in pain on their period, or picks up washing off the floor, or god forbid cooks dinner 1 day out of the 7 in a week. The standards are LOW. Low enough that a lot of women I know sadly stay with men that cheat on them. I must live in an alternate dimension of the UK then since that is not what I have experienced at all. I'd say standards are as high as ever here. I can walk to my local…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:09 AM
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Just an FYI, I also live in the UK and I think that guy is wrong about #2. People have high standards for men here, even the obese women. If you're short or average you're gonna struggle to even get an 'average' woman. Especially when it comes to online dating. Honestly, the UK is just the same as the US in nearly every way except we don't have gun crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:07 AM
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I love how if a girl lives with her parents at 30 it's cool but if a guy does he is a loser. More double standards keep them coming bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 12:54 AM
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Being early 20’s with my own flat was the shit. I wouldn't pay a landlord ridiculously expensive rent just so I could get laid. Rather stay at my parent's house and save huge amounts of money (like I am doing now). Everyone I know who is renting is complaining they can't save for a mortgage, even if they are getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 12:52 AM
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Shrug. Average to me is just an overweight woman at this point. I'm not a paragon of fitness myself. An average man is a man who has a dadbod but isn't necessarily ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:32 AM
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Given that he made a thread last month saying i sometimes look down at myself and see my member just down there. its there to procreate but its not being used its literally worthless. i abstain from caring for my dick just to punish it since it is not being of any use to me. no point in maintaining a useless body part. Then I'm pretty sure he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:31 AM
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No mate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:27 AM
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If you are 5'7" and built like a tank who can whoop an average 6'2" ass I personally think this doesn't matter. Girls don't care if you can "whoop an average 6'2" ass" lol. Tall men get priority over short men, even if the short man has muscles and the tall guy is just skinny. Face/Height>Body>Personality. Sometimes women will pick a guy simply because he is tall, as long as he doesn't have a goblin tier face. I think it's some fucking unconscious biological thing that draws women to tall men be…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:22 AM
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it’s not just to improve their body, it’s to improve their confidence I think you need to do more than just go the gym. You also need to change your lifestyle. Like imagine a guy that does nothing except spend 2 hours at the gym daily then goes home and plays video games. Do you think he's gonna be getting laid much, even if he has a great body? Nobody even knows he exists! I think gym/muscles + having an outgoing lifestyle and engaging in social situations is what will work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:21 AM
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If you want to have casual sex, muscles are kinda important. My work friend has a great body. Big muscles + six pack and his diet is strict. He has a topless photo on Tinder with his muscles on the beach and it's the one all the girls comment on. I believe you need to look good like this for lots of casual sex. I don't believe you have to look as good for a long term relationship, as that can grow from facial attraction + a good personality. As I see plenty of fat ass dudes getting into relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:18 AM
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so clearly everyone else is meeting through real life interactions. I think they are meeting through social circles, personally. No way is the biggest percentage of people meeting through cold approaches. Social proofing is really important I think. If a girl recommends you to another girl, it means you basically aren't a serial killer to the new girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:45 PM
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They keep asking because these ideas don’t work. Probably because a lot of hobbies are just male orientated because that's what men like. Men like adrenaline junkie stuff, or at least I do, so I'm always into things like fast cars and motorcycles. Zero women there, except for the odd one that gets simped on by everyone. Another thing I'm into is gardening. But that's a solo hobby. I also play guitar but that is just in my room or in the yard. I think I would need to join a band to have any chanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:44 PM
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Social circle. If you don't have it it's over.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:41 PM
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I feel like this is 50/50 for both sexes. I've met plenty of women at my hobbies who are pretty cool and knowledgeable about the subject. My hobbies are mostly male-orientated so it's pretty cool when I meet a woman who knows her shit. Although they often get simped on. A hot girl in the motorcycle community? You can bet they're getting thousands of likes/follows on social media for their rusty $3,000 motorcycle. Whereas I'm here with my $20,000 Ducati getting nothing because I'm a man. But at t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:35 PM
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You sound like me mate but I'm 30. I have no doubt I will be in your shoes at 37. I just don't have the energy to 'court' women. Been pretty much rejected my entire life for being Asian and short. I really did believe when I was younger that "true love conquers all" and that someone would love me for me. I used to think I was a good decent person and I work hard and care for those important to me. But that didn't matter in the grand scheme of things. Women don't want a just a nice but shy and in…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:51 AM
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People be moaning here about not being touched for a few months while I'm here alone for 30 years. smh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:19 AM
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If you're autistic I would just give up. Modern society only rewards extroverted men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:07 AM
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Better be fun, cool, receptive, clever, funny, a good listener, a good dancer, a solid spiker/chipper/splitter/deck builder etc. Yeah just be a perfect man basically it's easy guys. Either this sub doesn't live in the real world or I'm just an idiot. I don't see average normal men who have gfs doing all this shit. Most men are SHIT yet still get laid. The fat bricklayer who bullies his wife is still getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:45 AM
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But what they miss is that socialization matters even more Socialization is related to looks. I got bullied pretty badly in school due to being Chinese in a 99% white school. Because of that I 'withdrew' from society to play MMOs through my teen years. Ugly people generally have less friends and are less confident. I don't think that's me just projecting I think it's a fact. Attractive and tall men who have been validated and confidence boosted their entire life will no doubt have excellent frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:42 AM
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I don't see the difference between going camping or playing video games when it comes to attracting a woman. An unkempt nerd can go camping and won't get laid. A handsome 6ft Chad who plays CoD all day on the weekend but gets hundreds of matches on OLD and can get laid easy. Your point is basically moot when it comes to hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:19 AM
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Yeah but I'm literally a nobody. Same same. Just a middle class IT worker with a dadbod. Need to start up cycling and running again to lose weight but I have no interest in weight lifting. Most women earn the same if not more than me probably these days. So I have nothing to offer. Especially since other men can offer their bodies if they are tall, ripped, alpha attitude etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:40 AM
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It starts with the physical, since that is the clear win-win. Just be in better shape than her. Be strong, lean and capable. Do sports with other guys. Learn how to move and dance gracefully. At least look like that lust-instilling Alpha of the primordial savannas, even if you will act differently. This is basic TRP. It creates a constant lust bonus in a guy's favor, though it is not enough. The other stuff is the hard part. Behavior. How to be fair, equal and kind. But also masculine and domina…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 05:53 PM
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If she was she’d be texting back like she wants to get to know you. This. I have a friend in work who is an absolute 'alpha' through and through. 6ft, drives a nearly £100,000 car (new BMW M4), handsome and has lifted weights for years. He showed me his Tinder today and the way women speak to someone they perceive to be either the same (or higher) status than them is crazy. Especially if you come from a world (like I do) where you are average to below average and get zero interest from women. He…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 04:43 PM
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So now it's personality and not having a shower or my job? Stop moving the goalposts. You can't come into a thread and tell people they need to take more showers or get a better paid job. And then when they tell you they already do those things you just say "well uhhhh okay actually you just need a better personality lol"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 12:28 PM
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Looks get you in the door personality does the rest
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 11:20 AM
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Finding a kindred spirit in a like minded partner, is not That's because women are too obsessed with fucking a tall Chad man who is actually just an asshole who will pump and dump you, since he is stringing several women along at the same time on his OLD apps. That average short guy who is basically invisible in the dating world? He may be the nicest and exciting person ever, a genuine kindred spirit who would always put you at the forefront of his focus and wants to go out and do fun events and…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 10:09 AM
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you literally need to beat out 90% of the population Fuck that. I'd rather just chill and enjoy my copes. Also a 5'6" Asian guy here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 09:44 AM
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You realize a lot of the attention you received isn’t because you’re special, but because people want to sleep with you. Some men would kill for that kind of attention. To feel that you're actually coveted in some way, even if it is solely your looks. Some men will go their entire life not being wanted and just die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 09:40 AM
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when in reality alot of attractive people are super friendly. When you achieve nothing but success in life due to being genetically gifted, I can kinda see how handsome people end up friendly and well-adjusted. As opposed to people who just get shit on their entire life and then develop poor attitudes and outlooks. Those friendly attractive men aren't coming to PPD. They're out there enjoying the fruits of their labour. The only people coming to PPD are losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 09:34 AM
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I know a dude IRL that was fairly nerdy during his university years. Used to just play WoW in his dorm when he wasn't attending class. He managed to pull some pretty hot girls because he was 6'3". Even one of the shorter guys who was more extroverted and was on steroids (had an amazing body) but was 5'8" didn't pull as much as this autistic WoW guy did. Height is so fucking important now. Maybe it always has been and we didn't realise until dating apps. Like a girl will straight up just date you…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 09:31 AM
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I would guess that at least 20% can't even meet the shower requirement. Can't tell if you're trolling but stop this blue pill bullshit. I have a shower every single morning. Where is my girlfriend? guys need room to succeed or we get a little wonky. I have an above average career in STEM and lots of money in my savings. Where is my girlfriend? Everything you're saying is bullshit blue pill stuff. A handsome tall man could get 1 shower a week and still get laid. A guy who works in McDonald's but …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 09:26 AM
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these are always about OLD, aren’t they? What else are they going to be about? It's pretty clear women don't want to be cold approached anymore. And if you have a less than ideal friendship group, well, OLD is your only resort.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 10:08 AM
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Their complaint is they have no chance with women who are in their leagues (looksmatch, economic, education level, etc) All I want is a woman who is not obese. THAT'S IT. I don't care about her job, her height, if she has acne, if she has a poor family etc. Just one fucking thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 10:06 AM
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I see this constantly when I'm outside. No way. I visit my local city a fair amount and the amount of tall men with short women, or at least the man is taller is the MAJORITY. I honestly can't even remember a time I saw a genuinely tall woman holding hands with a short man. I don't get why it's controversial to say women prefer taller men. It's a fucking biological imperative.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 10:02 AM
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Would most men date women taller than them? Yep I would. But sadly the standards are reversed for women. They want a man taller
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 10:01 AM
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the 6ft tall thing is a myth It's not a myth for casual dating like on OLD. It's not a myth that women want a man taller than them. I can count on one hand the amount of women who are taller than their man in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 09:58 AM
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Short and unattractive men must surrender and accept their place as betas. I already accepted that. I'm not very masculine in a predominantly white country (UK). I'm 5 ft 6, 30 years old and still get ID'd for alcohol because they think I look under 18 lol. Being Asian can be a curse sometimes because I can't grow a beard. But oh well. My self hating days are over. Instead it's just acceptance now and enjoying my copes and hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 09:40 AM
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I'm probably adhd or high functioning autistic. You don't get to 30 being a virgin without something being wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 09:34 AM
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The media has a huge effect on how people view attractiveness. Like you can be a healthy weight as a man who is physically fit (cardio-wise). But told you are not good enough because everyone lifts weights now due to gym bro culture. I think it definitely affects women more than men, since women will internalize what is popular for men at the time. You can see it on shit like Tinder, where every women says she wants a 6 ft man, for no reason other than "that's why everyone else is asking for". E…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 09:28 AM
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The ugly man is a creep, the handsome man is confident. It’s such a joke. This applies to non-mainstream hobbies as well. Like anime as a 30 year old unattractive man? You are a creep that needs to grow up. Like anime as a 30 year old attractive tall man? You are such a nerd teehee so cute! I find it so crazy how the halo effect can do that https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Halo_effect#Role_of_attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 09:24 AM
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Did you spend most of school playing video games and hanging with other (male) nerds? Or were you hanging with mixed gendered groups and being invited to/hosting house parties? I was the former. My friends were all a group of outcast nerds who talked about WoW during school hours and then went and played WoW after school. We sometimes rode our bicycles to the local skate park and hung out there. We were inseparable, at the time at least. None of us were pulling girls. In fact, whenever anyone di…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:07 PM
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If you aren’t successful in dating, then you’re simply not attractive Wow, thanks for telling me what I already know!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:57 PM
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They’re the ones who’ve probably tried that and realised that it’s beyond their reach. Pretty much me lol. I'm probably not really a lost cause I don't think I'm terribly ugly. It's the being Chinese in a Western country and short part. My city is 97% white people (that's what the Wiki says). I'm 30 years old and I still get ID'd for alcohol because the staff thing I'm 18. It's great when you cannot grow a beard lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:17 PM
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Men play videogames and do drugs because most women would never date them. It's a symptom of the main issue. When I was in high school I was bullied pretty badly by both women and men and I escaped into my own world of escapism in video games (MMOs) and anime. Women have never been interested in me from the beginning. In high school it was the bad boys who were always causing trouble as an adult it's the exciting men who have a lot to offer. Thing is, I didn't just stay home after my crappy chil…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:12 PM
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tl;dr just go to Russia to get a hot gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:06 PM
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What you might be seeing is a guy who's perhaps a bit overweight and probably quite tall (just a 'big fella' in general) who might have a good looking girl on his arm Girls like feeling like they are protected. Being tall and study (even if some of it is just fat) is really a boon to men. Being short and thin is a fucking death sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:04 PM
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You do realize that overweight and obesity rates are pretty much identical across genders, right? If that's the case, why are men told to improve themselves and stop being fat. While women are told to embrace "Who you are", with non-stop adverts about embracing their bodies and fat acceptance? I'm not saying being fat is good for either gender. It's just not equal in terms of what we're told.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 11:52 AM
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I mean, at least he isn't fat? What is an average women these days? Most of them are overweight. But then again so are most men. So not being overweight in today's society for me is at least average.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:38 AM
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learn to fight Why do you need to do this? We aren't living in the 1200s where you need to fight people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:23 PM
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This is me too but sadly you (and I) have no excuses. You'll have to find another job with less hours and then dedicate some time to networking or using apps like Meetup to meet new people. My current job is 45 hours a week and I'm too tired after work to do anything social. So now I try to dedicate my weekends to meeting new people. It's difficult and a lot of weekends I end up procrastinating but it's our only hope cause OLD doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:22 PM
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Sure, there's societal influence at play, such as the arbitrary line in the sand of being 6 foot. However, I think only the most naïve of bluepillers would think that biology has no influence. I guess I agree. What about greek statues? I'm not 100% sure but they're all drawn having small penises because back then small penises were said to be elegant and a sign of a man. Where's big ones where a sign of someone is a brute. If that was true, would that have an influence on what women thought of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 01:06 PM
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Those men probably would've lead productive and fulfilling lives by now Maybe. Maybe not. Some men are just born to be janitors or shelf stackers and that's the end of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:22 PM
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Women support women. Publicly and through social programs Meh. You have subs dedicated to mens support like r/mensrights but people just call it a place for incels. Any man that tries to speak out for other men is just called an incel. All men's problems will never be spoken about because they are inherently shameful. If a man speaks out about not having sex, he is a incel. If a man speaks out about penis size, he must have a small dick. If a man speaks out about having no friends, he must be a …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:15 PM
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I'm just talking about rock climbing and shit 😅 I think it makes sense to actually befriend them before asking them out. Especially in meetup groups. I can't imagine going to a bouldering session and then just saying to a girl "Wanna get coffee?". Seems... kinda cringe? Although maybe I we've been brainwashed to feel that way. I would always hang with them a few times doing an event like indoor rock climbing and then maybe schedule an event like a bar night via Meetup. This would help ease tensi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:47 PM
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I actually am autistic You were diagnosed? Do you work?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:16 PM
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I don’t think 5’6 men with micros can do anything about their situation I'm 5'6" with a micropenis too :(
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:12 PM
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Sounds a lot like me. I don't like this type of situation and want to actively change it. I am successful with my career and I have a few friends hanging around me still. But romantically, I am essentially hopeless. I did used to wonder if I am autistic. But I think the issue is just not enough social development when it comes to romance. I am a manager where I work, so I regularly deal with people in a position of power. But I just never learned to speak romantically with women. You could say m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:00 PM
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Go home from work and invite your male and female friends to the pool or hot tub, have a few brewskis and play some card games Damn, you have the energy to do all that after work? After 9 hours of office politics and meetings, I'm absolutely dead and just want to kick back and relax after work. Not deal with even more people. Especially when I have to be up early to do it all over again the next day. If I didn't have human interaction every single day I'd literally km Suppose you're just an extr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:57 AM
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most girls like the "dad bod" tbh Aren't people with dadbods just overweight?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:20 AM
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Okay so if a guy is physically (cardio-wise) healthy. Does running, cycling, hiking etc on a daily basis, is he not ideal for women because he doesn't lift? Does the lifting advice apply for people who are slobs doing no exercise or for anyone? My point is that whenever someone mentions they are having a crappy time with dating, the default advice seems to be to "go lift weights". Are they saying that lifting weights is linked with getting a girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:57 PM
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There’s just lots of unmotivated Not everyone wants to lift weights so I don't think people who don't want to do that are unmotivated. I love to cycle. I'm bored as fuck when I to go the gym. I love being outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:52 PM
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No, there is no pressure on the average man to have a 6 pack and look ripped. Then what's the deal with the constant pushing of lifting weights to people down on their dating luck? What about people who are already physically active? I personally do indoor and outdoor rock climbing, as well as cycling. I don't care about lifting weights.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:50 PM
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Muscles are not a “recent trend”. Muscles have always been celebrated yes. But I guess the Greek statues were obtainable physiques. Most of the shit you see on social media these days is not attainable. It's the same for women with all these fat ass models that have had a Brazilian butt lift, but they preach the same "you can be just like me with exercise and squats!"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:49 PM
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Overweight tradesmen plumbers with beer bellies seem to do okay getting wives and having kids. Maybe it's just us introverted nerds that can't do shit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 11:20 AM
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Your social circle needs to be introducing you to other girls, more than likely. Would never happen for me because my social circle was a bunch of other hopeless nerdy guys who didn't know any women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 11:17 AM
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I am a below average guy. I thought I was average but meh. 5 foot 6, average $45k/year job, dadbod with a very small penis, acne scars from my teen years, boring solo-focused hobbies, live with my parents still... Yeah, no hope really.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 01:58 PM
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Most of them literally hate women and see them as objects to play games with So do most of the successful men? This is a poor point because men who are very successful and get lots of sex can also be misogynists.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 01:49 PM
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I'm a 4channer and a Reddit male. What now?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 01:47 PM
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That they can be just as toxic and bigoted? Sometimes I do wonder if the current state of men are due to women. Like I realise there has always been a status quo with men. Group of men friends? Everything is cool and everyone gets along. A hot woman comes into the group? The men turn into assholes trying to one up each other and bully their own friends to impress the girl. I've experienced this myself. Like, who's fault is that? Is it men's for wanting to bully and one up their own friends just …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 11:35 AM
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What do you bring to the table that makes that idea a positive for them? Absolutely nothing. I'm short, not that attractive, have a very small penis and introverted. It's why I don't bother with dating
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 09:35 AM
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I somehow doubt he is mentioning that he is living with his parents on his online profil. Of course not. I don't even get the matches to get to the point of telling them that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:47 PM
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Do you have any backup plans if your dating life collapses? Mine collapsed years ago. I'm a virgin at 30 and I still live with my parents. I have a good job in STEM and can afford my many copes. So these days I just enjoy working + my hobbies. Most of my hobbies are solo ones. Things like motorcycling, guitar, gardening and a few others. Why haven't I moved? Well I just see no reason. I get along with my parents and save huge amounts of money (80% of my monthly wage) living here. I have no partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 04:55 PM
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Even the mod was banned and she was a nice person. RIP /u/board_gaming
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:08 PM
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What makes them losers? Idk. Maybe I'm a loser. I have a good job but that's it. Had a pretty shitty upbringing and I've never been motivated in my life. I'm not good anything. My hobbies are all solo hobbies. Motorcycling, cars, video games, gardening, music and cycling.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 11:14 AM
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she would be happy if he had his own place (rented is fine), any kind of job, and was kind All of my friends tick these boxes but their romantic life is dead. They need more than that. They need confidence and charisma. Even if a guy has what you mentioned, if he's shy it's not going to work. I've pretty much come to the conclusion that even if you are a hard working career man who is kind hearted, no one knows you even exist if you aren't putting yourself out there. And if you're hard working a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 10:57 AM
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most of my below average male friends Do they have jobs? Really interested in this. I have a few friends I know who are really good people. They work hard, have good careers in web dev and make a lot of money. One of them flat shares with his other mates and another just rents. But both of them are virgins at 30. It's crazy really because I feel like they'd be good partners to their girlfriends. But they aren't super attractive. Both are below 5'8" and kinda shy when it comes to romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 10:30 AM
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What eventually happens to most of the single men on online dating? Speaking as an unattractive man that has zero success with online dating, I just give up and ignore the app mostly. Sometimes I go on it out of sheer boredom but then give up after about 10 right swipes and zero matches. Got better things to do than waste my time on that depressing crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 09:58 AM
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It has retarded them with memes of what "desirable" men are. The manlet memes were made tongue in cheek but maybe people are taking them too seriously now. As if short men are a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 01:59 PM
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It's over for my 4 inch pp
/r/BlackPillScience06/04/22 09:36 AM
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He's on the taller side of average though, yeah, I would say 5.9' or 6'. Sounds like he was just a chad hiding in plain sight. There are some men that will never get out of the 20%, even if they dress better or hit the gym. Some men are real short like 5'6" or Indian/Asian men living in a predominantly white country.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:16 PM
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Do you know what they are called? Cause I am also Asian and have a small penis
/r/MensRights18/02/22 02:23 PM
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The micropenis subreddits Which ones?
/r/MensRights18/02/22 02:14 PM
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Is it because so few women would ever choose a short man as her mate, thus wouldn't want a short child? Uhh, yeah? It's basically eugenics. Short men are not good for society, for whatever reason. Tall men can protect women better and look more physically intimidating. It's kinda just the way it is. You only need to look at dating apps to see how bad it is. I feel like dating apps are forms of eugenics at this point. Filtering out ugly and short men over handsome tall men.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 02:13 PM
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Thanks. I have a below average sized dick so it hurts to see comments about small dicks all the time.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 02:00 PM
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Getting laid is easy as hell. Sure, if you're physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:22 PM
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I think it's very sad to look at interpersonal relationships as nothing but transactions. I don't look at relationships like that but I'm pretty sure lots of people do. If they didn't they wouldn't care if someone 30+ years old didn't have their own house yet, or how much money they have in the bank, or whether they have muscles or an athletic body instead of being overweight/obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 02:36 PM
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Well that's a sad way to look at life. It really isn't. Relationships are transactional. What can you offer them and what can they offer you? No one is getting with a bum who doesn't work on himself, as well as not having a stable financial lifestyle. He has nothing to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 02:12 PM
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Looks like Eggman from r9k
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