leebeebee Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Hi, I’m the 18-year-old guy who has moved past the "red pill" mindset. I have a question that touches on red pill ideas: Is a man a protector and provider by nature? The Titanic was a historical anomaly. In the vast majority of cases, men were more likely to survive shipwrecks. The only reason that the Titanic was any different was because the captain literally forced the men at gunpoint to let the women and children take the lifeboats. When it’s a life or death situation, most people are selfish. Chivalry is largely a myth.	/r/ExRedPill	12/08/26 10:36 PM
3	Hi, I’m the 18-year-old guy who has moved past the "red pill" mindset. I have a question that touches on red pill ideas: Is a man a protector and provider by nature? Money has only existed for a few thousand years, there’s no way any of us have evolved to “naturally” provide it	/r/ExRedPill	12/08/26 10:29 PM
9	Blackpilling experiences: what to do? That voice is irrational, and is not truth. You are not that voice, and you can fight back! Whenever the voice says something bad, notice that it’s happening and talk back to it. Just tell it to shut up. Tell it to leave you alone. Tell it that it’s an asshole and you’re just trying to chill. If you do that consistently, the voice will slowly lose power over you. I used to have a ton of negative self-talk, but I learned to talk back, and now I hardly ever have that negative voice. Life is soooo …	/r/ExRedPill	18/05/26 06:20 PM
9	How do you guys explain the fact that women in general want a man that is better than them in some way? Women who suffer from internalized misogyny are conditioned to make themselves attractive to misogynistic men. Misogynistic men HATE when women are better than them at anything that’s not traditionally feminine. For them, there’s nothing worse than being beaten by a girl, after all. The women in #1 make themselves weak/passive/lesser in order to be picked by the men in #2. Because these women are dependent on their men, they see any diminished ability to provide/perform as a threat to their own …	/r/ExRedPill	18/02/26 10:16 PM
3	Could Jordan Petterson be one of the voices of the manosphere? They say he's a very good psychologist. I don't like him at all. I mean, you’re incredibly ill-informed, so you’re obviously not a good source of information	/r/ExRedPill	24/01/26 05:13 AM
6	Could Jordan Petterson be one of the voices of the manosphere? They say he's a very good psychologist. I don't like him at all. You think Trudeau is a communist? Lol okay buddy 🙄	/r/ExRedPill	24/01/26 04:48 AM
9	How a girl that didn’t love you ruined your future marriage If that was your takeaway you really need to work on your reading comprehension	/r/ExRedPill	26/11/25 06:47 AM
13	I don't believe the majority of women prefer average sized penises Actually, women have different-sized vaginas the same way men have different-sized penises. It’s mostly genetic and has nothing to do with promiscuity	/r/ExRedPill	07/02/24 04:06 PM
7	What do you think of transmaxxing? If you actually read the the articles posted in the forum the conclusion they reach is often the opposite of what you’re claiming here. From the article linked in the post titled “twin studies,” posted on June 19, 2022: “The responses of our twins relative to their rearing, along with our findings regarding some of their experiences during childhood and adolescence show their identity was much more influenced by their genetics than their rearing.” From the article linked in the post titled “Inte…	/r/ExRedPill	05/11/23 09:06 PM
9	Had consuming Redpill/Alpha male kinda content screwed up my worldview on gender in a completely different way? People are all just people, dude. Men and women have far more in common than you’d think. Everybody is flawed, everybody is scared, everybody is damaged. Just try to be who you feel comfortable being, and stop hating people based on things they can’t control (like their gender).	/r/ExRedPill	03/11/23 01:09 PM
8	When men and women have high body counts, it doesn't make them any better. Bruh covid isn’t an std wtf	/r/ExRedPill	29/09/23 03:22 PM
3	How am I so bad with girls? No prob! And yeah, these dudes are really telling on themselves here, it’s kinda sad haha	/r/ExRedPill	13/03/23 08:20 PM
10	How am I so bad with girls? You know you’re on r/exredpill, right? That’s a huge part of redpill ideology so it’s a pretty safe assumption to make. Also the commenter is responding to the post and addressing OP as “you.” Do you want them to start with a disclaimer that this doesn’t apply to everybody? Seems kind of excessive bro	/r/ExRedPill	13/03/23 07:56 PM
2	How am I so bad with girls? I know? I was just responding to the question from meisterkraus. No assumptions were made, it was right there in the post	/r/ExRedPill	13/03/23 07:39 PM
14	How am I so bad with girls? The dude literally said he sees women as “mean creatures”…	/r/ExRedPill	13/03/23 07:19 PM
2	im a girl and i kind of got over learning about it but what i cant really get over is that "every guy wants every girl and wont stick with one girl since she ages and guys want a young girl who he can impregnate" I’m almost 40 and my boyfriend of 4 years is 10 years younger than me. I’m happier and more confident now than I’ve ever been. It’s not over until you say it’s over!	/r/ExRedPill	17/02/23 12:43 AM
3	Do secure men feel attraction to anyone? I think your interpretation is wrong. Rather than viewing women as superior, RP men view women as collectable objects and/or status symbols. Saying that you want a “Stacy” is like saying that you want a BMW or a Lamborghini. Then, instead of trying to make enough to afford one, or accepting that you’re gonna be driving a Corolla or even riding the bus, y’all go online to bitch about how bad you want a Lambo but nobody is willing to give you one for $1000. It’s pathetic, really. All that is irrel…	/r/ExRedPill	19/07/22 06:14 PM
1	Why do women leave when men are in an emotional rough patch? If you have legitimate, peer-reviewed studies showing that the “programming” you mention is actually biological and not learned from society—i.e. that it’s the result of nature instead of nurture—I’d love to see them. If you’re just going to respond with unsourced youtube videos, blogs, or pop psychology books, don’t waste your time	/r/ExRedPill	05/07/22 07:28 PM
4	Why do women leave when men are in an emotional rough patch? Do you have any actual evidence that this is a “biological trigger that can’t be helped”? Or are you just reverting to sexist bioessentialism?	/r/ExRedPill	05/07/22 07:02 PM
16	Do women really trade sex for money, security, and safety? I mean, if all the women you interact with are bots on the internet or sex workers it might seem like it happens a lot. But irl I’ve never known anybody who’s been in that kind of situation. Most people, both women and men, have sex because they enjoy it. People aren’t vending machines. Y’all need to stop being so small-minded.	/r/ExRedPill	06/05/22 04:08 AM
1	Do women have it easier than men? Glad I could help!!	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/22 01:19 AM
3	Do women have it easier than men? A lot of guys have that too? This seems like a you thing, not a men-vs.-women thing. I saw your pics, and you’re totes a good looking dude. If women aren’t attracted to you, it has nothing to do with your looks. Seriously, if you get to the point where you like yourself, ladies will be flocking to you. If anything, this red pill crap is actually reducing your chances. But that’s not the point. Go out and experience life, bro; sex is just one of the billions of incredible things to see and experi…	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/22 12:58 AM
3	Do women have it easier than men? True, but hooking up has a lot of risks for women that men don’t face to the same extent. Even without those risks, there’s a high probability that a hookup with a man won’t be sexually satisfying for the woman. It’s kind of like having a 50% off coupon for something you don’t want. Not particularly useful. You might use the coupon and get the thing anyway, just because you can, but it ends up being more trouble than it’s worth because now you have extra crap taking up shelf space that you have …	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/22 11:18 PM
2	Do women have it easier than men? You’re welcome! I wish you the best :)	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/22 05:08 PM
13	Do women have it easier than men? Life and relationships are far more complex, varied, and wonderful than the bullshit system that you’ve described. Relationships aren’t solely transactional; sometimes people just like each other, even love each other. Unfortunately, having this kind of relationship requires loving yourself, but red-pillers seem intent on bitterly blaming women and/or society for their inability to relate to other people rather than working on themselves. Really, I feel bad for y’all, because you continue with t…	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/22 01:11 AM
16	Having genuine female friends (and generally being around open-minded people) really changed my perspective on how I view dating, relationships, women and people in general. I think you have a really good point. There’s a reason why the most misogynistic cultures on earth enforce the separation of men and women and hide women from public view… otherwise men might learn that women are gasp just normal people! You seem like a cool dude and your english is great! Glad you managed to avoid trp and its hateful ideology.	/r/ExRedPill	30/12/21 03:48 PM
1	Need help There are a lot of hood suggestions here! One thing that might be helpful might be to cultivate friendships with women. If you have female friends it could humanize women in general; when you have no ulterior motives, you’ll see that they’re just people. You can’t just walk up to a woman on the street and ask to be her friend, of course, but if there are women at school or work who have similar interests, you can talk to her about them. Let the friendship proceed organically, just like it would …	/r/ExRedPill	19/11/21 07:20 PM
1	The idea that women should constantly be afraid of men is INFURIATINGLY sexist Except that women tend to be weaker than men, while white people are not weaker than black people. Also, I know you guys hate this fact, but men commit the vast majority of violent crimes. The number of crimes committed by black people is the same as the number of crimes committed by white people who are at the same socioeconomic level. So fear of black people is unwarranted, while fear of men is just a practical safety precaution. (This applies to both men and women—men can be mugged, too.) If …	/r/MensRights	27/09/21 12:46 PM
3	how many women in this sub? I’m not fat or ugly, I’m definitely a woman, and I live with my boyfriend. But you should really check your attitudes about women. They are just as varied as men. We don’t all care about astrology or traditions. It sounds like your experiences with women have been really limited—I think you’ll find that if you get out more and interact with a wide variety of women, there are many of them who will share your interests and ways of thinking. It’s unfair to judge half of the world’s population based…	/r/ExRedPill	09/09/21 12:59 PM
12	how many women in this sub? I’m a woman, and I’m glad you’ve decided to listen to women instead of men who think they know “how women work”	/r/ExRedPill	08/09/21 02:21 PM
0	Based Unfortunately, these dudes think that all women are interchangeable, and that they’re just tools that function as sexual objects, incubators, and housekeepers	/r/AntiFeminists	09/05/21 10:00 PM
2	Wait, why do a lot of you believe that men don't respect women (including women they love)? You know the employment rate only includes people who are actively searching for employment, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/21 12:26 AM
2	Men and women are more similar than RP people often think, and more different than BP people often think. You know that animals have culture, too? In this study, a baboon troop had all the adult males wiped out by tuberculosis. When females ran things, there was much less fighting, much less stress, and significantly more grooming behavior. Several years later, the researchers returned, and in spite of the fact that none of the original troop were still alive and the gender balance had returned, the same behavioral changes—less fighting, more grooming—persisted. There were physiological changes as w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/21 12:24 AM
1	Men and women are more similar than RP people often think, and more different than BP people often think. Though I can’t read the study you posted due to the paywall, I don’t think it supports your point. “Women were more likely to rate male targets as more desirable when presented alongside a female while no obvious effects were detected with male choice. These sex differences disappeared in studies that ‘augment’ cues, as both sexes rated targets as more attractive when in the presence of more desirable others. We also detected high levels of heterogeneity in effect sizes and a moderate publicatio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/21 12:04 AM
0	Wait, why do a lot of you believe that men don't respect women (including women they love)? Wow you just really hate women, don’t you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/21 03:10 PM
6	Wait, why do a lot of you believe that men don't respect women (including women they love)? Dude you should read about actual feminism, not just what other dudes tell you in the red pill subreddit	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/21 03:06 PM
19	Wait, why do a lot of you believe that men don't respect women (including women they love)? You should read up on benevolent sexism. It’s not a good thing, and generally changes into hostile sexism as soon as women stop acting typically feminine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/21 03:01 PM
5	Wait, why do a lot of you believe that men don't respect women (including women they love)? with Coronavirus women’s participation in the workplace is the same as it was in 1984, so we’ve taken some steps backward	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/21 02:58 PM
2	Why do women watch porn? What kinds of porn do women like? Totes totes! I meant it in the general sense. I’ve had enough sex to know that focusing on getting off pretty much ruins it	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/21 10:37 PM
3	Why do women watch porn? What kinds of porn do women like? Fellas, is it gay to want to watch a woman cum?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/21 10:21 PM
3	Why do women watch porn? What kinds of porn do women like? I’m not talking about men, I’m talking about patriarchal culture. Women perpetuate it as well. You seem to really want to feel attacked, but I’m talking about a larger cultural phenomenon, not the actions of specific group of people. Do you have control over what arouses you sexually? Could you just suddenly stop finding breasts attractive, or start being attracted to morbidly obese people? I doubt it. Sexual orientation is largely inborn, but the more specific aspects—e.g. what body type you’re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/21 09:13 PM
9	Why do women watch porn? What kinds of porn do women like? As a sexually liberated woman who often has rape fantasies, I want to point out that there’s a huuuuuge difference between actual rape and rape fantasies (at least for me). My fantasies involve the man (or men) 1. wanting to get me off, and 2. not hurting me. Real rape doesn’t work that way. My theory is that, just like many men, women want to be the focus of sex. However, most of the conventional ways to do obtain this kind of attention requires us to perform for the male gaze, to focus on plea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/21 08:17 PM
9	Why do women watch porn? What kinds of porn do women like? This is why I don’t watch porn very often. I put myself in the woman’s shoes and most of the time it looks unpleasant at best (and at worst it looks scary, painful, and traumatic—the opposite of a turnon)	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/21 07:38 PM