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| 0 | [FR] How to hook up with one of those "Rachel Mcadams" good girl types that every guy falls in love withhey can you give some tips on being more present? Cause I think thats what unlocks everything else | /r/seduction | 30/07/17 12:58 PM |
| 2 | The girl is not the goal. The goal is to become a happy, driven, successful, self-assured man.It seems like you are assessing your own situation up against someone elses based on the measure of Getting laid or not, if you look at this way it's hard not to be discontent. External measure like getting laid can't be directly influenced at any one given moment and this lack of ability to influence will lead to frustration. Like imagine you do get laid a few times, a new metric will come up that you find yourself lacking in, e.g. a fruitful loving relationship. Then it's going to feel like sq… | /r/seduction | 24/05/17 07:29 AM |
| 9 | The girl is not the goal. The goal is to become a happy, driven, successful, self-assured man.I mean you could just explain it and add something to the conversation | /r/seduction | 24/05/17 07:19 AM |
| 0 | The girl is not the goal. The goal is to become a happy, driven, successful, self-assured man.I don't really know what that is | /r/seduction | 24/05/17 02:30 AM |
| 4 | The girl is not the goal. The goal is to become a happy, driven, successful, self-assured man.What external metrics are you using to assess yourself compared to other people, realise you have no control over external measures. Realise the beauty of measures and comparison is that the choice is with you to look at what you want and even if you want to let it define your state of being. | /r/seduction | 24/05/17 02:10 AM |
| 3 | The girl is not the goal. The goal is to become a happy, driven, successful, self-assured man.If you look at external metrics you are seeking approval, if you use internal metrics you are exuding acceptance. | /r/seduction | 24/05/17 01:05 AM |
| 1 | If you have known a girl more than 2 weeks and you still cannot tell if she's attracted to you, she's not. Move on.Yeah, I've been on a semi structured 6 day a week workout which hits each body part twice except for legs. Also tracking macros and went on a lean bulk for most of last year (+300 above deficit with 150g protein), followed by a standard bulk for a month. Last few months of last year was maintenance or slightly below, as I got busy and a few injuries. Currently at the tail end of 3 months out of the gym due to shoulder surgery, just eating maintenance and not follow protein, started with regular … | /r/seduction | 23/05/17 06:48 AM |
| 1 | If you have known a girl more than 2 weeks and you still cannot tell if she's attracted to you, she's not. Move on.Yeah, do a fair bit of weight work, lost the initial weight a few years ago now but still seeking external validation from being in my first relationship but there's mounting internal conflict as time goes on. Times I feel great progress but times I feel in the same spot as just after losing weight. | /r/seduction | 23/05/17 06:12 AM |
| 3 | If you have known a girl more than 2 weeks and you still cannot tell if she's attracted to you, she's not. Move on.Any other tips for coming to terms with your insecurities? I've lost weight as well and see myself as more aesthetic but I think my mind is still in limbo and is waiting for external validation before accepting I'm ready to be attractive? | /r/seduction | 23/05/17 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Alright - A couple things: I got laid, I read this sub, but I did it a couple years ago and now I fuckin' suck at life and couldn't get laid unless I resorted to fat chicks - My Life Lessonswhat does HB stand for? | /r/seduction | 02/02/17 12:48 AM |
| 1 | What made you guys start learning seduction?Cause I'll never fuck if I don't put some effort in | /r/seduction | 06/12/16 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Valium use while out.Is there any links between caffeine and nervousness for someone without any pre existing conditions? | /r/seduction | 10/10/16 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Haven't talked to this girl in years. How to start?Just slide right in | /r/seduction | 26/09/16 11:34 PM |
| 1 | For me OLD texting is completely different than real lifeAny tips on bantering over text? | /r/seduction | 26/09/16 11:32 PM |
| 1 | For those of you working on your physique, if your shirt is on 99% of the time, arms and shoulders means more than absThis is the real trap and leads to misery. tfw used to be a fat slob, now you shredded still no gf | /r/seduction | 20/09/16 09:03 AM |
| 2 | Are Tinder Girls Always This Flakey? (2 Matches, both when getting down to the date go silent)Any other guidelines for transitioning the convo to a date? I feel like I'm missing something from the initial bull shit to actually meeting up part | /r/seduction | 05/09/16 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Are my logistics fucked?Sweet will do, just got on models now | /r/seduction | 22/06/16 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Are my logistics fucked?so what are you meant to do instead of hooking up? (/how do you build comfort and get her to invest in you?) | /r/seduction | 22/06/16 02:15 AM |
| 6 | Is it better to let the girl know that you're a virgin or pretend you know what you're doing?This is a nice mind set, will try to embed it. | /r/seduction | 05/06/16 11:59 AM |
| 2 | How to Just Not Care?bit defeatist | /r/seduction | 01/06/16 11:20 AM |
| 1 | I am fairly ugly but I get noticed, here's why.My bad, saw some insight about it in your comment history so thought I would ask for more, seems to be my sticking point at the moment. Understood what you mean, oh well just got to focus upon myself a bit more and socializing to get leads going so that the ball is rolling. | /r/seduction | 26/05/16 02:36 PM |
| 1 | I am fairly ugly but I get noticed, here's why.How do you get the ball rolling on creating an abundance mentality? | /r/seduction | 26/05/16 09:56 AM |
| 8 | I am a 25 year old virgin here for advice to get rid of the burden.Australian slang I think, means a non-Anglo-Celtic European, esp. from Southern or Eastern Europe (e.g. Greek, Italian, Balkan, Slavic, etc.) | /r/seduction | 26/05/16 04:51 AM |
| 21 | I am a 25 year old virgin here for advice to get rid of the burden.I imagined the bouncer as a big wog guy | /r/seduction | 26/05/16 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Is it ever a good idea to message/DM on Social Media?Studies conducted on the effectiveness of direct messaging in North America suggests that it is potentially rewarding if played accordingly. Source But seriously, it could if you are good enough at text game, odds are against you but if you don't take it, no chance anyway? | /r/seduction | 20/05/16 08:10 AM |
| 1 | I don't have an issue making friends with girls but I seem to struggle with being sexual with any of them?Reading this comment and having a flash back to the exact moment when it was clearly up for me to make a move last night out, sigh. | /r/seduction | 16/05/16 05:40 AM |
| 2 | Calling out a flake - "How to" without seeming like a needy jerk.I don't know why fucgirl isn't as common language as fucboi, | /r/seduction | 09/03/16 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Took on my daily fear; I finally asked for her phone number.You give yours rather than get theirs? | /r/seduction | 03/03/16 11:27 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Went clubbing for 1st time, learned alot about myself.mdma can make any night amazing. Feel like you have to take this into account. | /r/seduction | 01/03/16 04:20 AM |
| 1 | How To Respond To Flake Texts?Can you elaborate on the reset text or have a link to where they talk about it? Cheers bro | /r/seduction | 22/12/15 09:42 AM |
| 1 | First cold-approach went bad, but.....But you would have had a solid base level of all the PUA skills which were complimented by what you learnt in the book yeah? | /r/seduction | 20/12/15 03:28 AM |
| 3 | First cold-approach went bad, but.....The sense of closure outweighs the embarrassment of the encounter | /r/seduction | 20/12/15 03:25 AM |
| 3 | What are some fun alternatives to lifting/fitness?String together 30 days to make it a habit and part of the daily routine. | /r/seduction | 07/12/15 02:10 AM |
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