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–	Experience that I had in school And as a highschool teacher, it's not exclusive to girls. I have boys who do the same exact thing. I have one group this year in particular who are gossipy af and looooove to tell me all their drama. I get more of my info from them than anyone else lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/26 12:31 AM
1	Titanic is not a romantic movie, it's a movie bout a 304. I am super into the Titanic and the movie is what started it for me. Iirc James Cameron said that he invented the love story to make the audience feel how awful and heart wrenching the experience was for the passengers, you're completely right. James Cameron's interest lies in the Titanic and oceanic exploration, not the love story. He's said that he literally makes movies in order to fund his deep sea exploration. The movie is about the story of Titanic (which is why, except for the main cast o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/25 10:29 PM
15	In the next 10 years we'll see women dominate every single prestigious career field (even IT) and this will end marriage for good And I won't look up how the NOT military production and maintenance was ALL TIME low during the war. You must be aware that companies shifted to wartime production during WWII... We shifted much of our production to the military. Toy companies produced military equipment, car companies built tanks, household hardware companies produced rifle cartridges... Of course our production of other things went down, the companies literally switched to making products for war. You're either not well inform…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/25 12:15 PM
–	"I see far more attractive women than men" shows that beauty standards for women are not high I think the two can coexist pretty easily. Like I do it for myself, because it makes me feel good about myself to look good, but those standards that I'm trying meet only exist because societal standards/expectstions are high. Like I do some makeup just to work in the yard. I feel better about myself when I do it, but the main reason I'm doing it is because I don't want to look like ass if I run into a neighbor, and if I DO run into a neighbor I'll feel better knowing I was a little more present…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/25 12:56 PM
4	Women who get abortions should be labelled as "deadbeat mothers". You're conflating a lot of social things with biological things here. I'm not sure what you mean about birth control. Segregation in spots doesn't hurt anyone, no one is negatively affected by it. If it were not done in sports that see a difference due to sex (horseback riding, for example, is not segregated) then it would just be men winning most of the time and most women wouldn't participate. I'm also not well versed in sports history, was it a matter of women needing to form their own league…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/25 07:58 PM
2	Women feel they don't need men despite needing men; Men feel they need women despite not needing women. Yeah, absolutely! And it really does just make sense... If you're depending on hunting for survival, why would you not have most of the capable people participating, regardless of gender? As soon as we're using tools what benefits do men really physically have? I guess you could throw a spear a little farther or sprint a little faster, but realistically does that difference really make that much of a difference? And come to think of it, I've heard that the way we initially started hunting was by…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 05:20 AM
3	Women feel they don't need men despite needing men; Men feel they need women despite not needing women. Thanks for sharing the article, it was really interesting!	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 10:50 PM
10	Do you think women have an obligation or moral duty to have children? I think it can certainly be for some men, but def not all. One of the old owners of my house never had a family of his own. No wife, no children. Yet he gave himself to his community time and time again. He was involved in local politics, volunteered in the knights of Columbus, volunteered in many community activities for no reason other than to help it. He lead a charge to clean up the local graveyard when it got overgrown, no cost, just went out there and started whacking away at brush. Organi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 12:52 AM
14	Modern men appear interested in having kids or having a large family more so than modern women Lol big doubt, nice. Have a good one dude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/24 03:22 AM
22	Modern men appear interested in having kids or having a large family more so than modern women Women don't talk about global security issues, they don't talk about war or anything else that men are the primary driving force of. International competition. They don't talk about things that seem to reverberate into the future. Because it appears to be mens responsibility to them. Yes they do lol. My social studies dept is mostly women, we're talking about this shit all the time wtf?? Like amongst ourselves and with students	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/24 02:52 AM
–	A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it. I haven't been paying attention to him cause like I already know who I'm voting for. Just read that article though, and goddamn. Idk if he's one of those who believes what he says or not, but just the idea that someone who's espoused anything remotely like all those ridiculous things is potentially a VP... Even that he's a senator now... Goddamn	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/24 11:00 PM
3	It's disturbing how many couples I know who admit that one of the reasons they got divorced is so that they can get a break from the kids every other week. Why does parenting suck so much? Yeah, in fine with that too. It's just when it's the same kids, consistently, getting stuff wrong it gets hard. The other kids realize it too and ugh I just cringe for them. I'm social studies, and many questions refer back to stuff we've already covered, so it's pretty obvious that so and so just wasn't paying attention/didn't understand	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 04:04 PM
6	It's disturbing how many couples I know who admit that one of the reasons they got divorced is so that they can get a break from the kids every other week. Why does parenting suck so much? I'm also in high school and I find it's like either one way or the other. Kids who wont answer unless itsxa super easy question and they're certain, or kids who will answer every fucking question even though they're usually wrong lol. That one's tough cause they're like so enthusiastic about it and I feel bad for them lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 03:11 PM
2	Feminists who say, "I support women's wrongs" ... what do you mean? I actually saw it on a bumper sticker on a car I was behind the other day. First time I heard it and I chuckled a bit. That's what made me click on this post I was like oh is that a thing and not just a silly joke?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 01:41 AM
3	Is this just a Southeast thing or do most women want to date a cowboy? That's really funny, my experience is totally different! Prolly cause of different areas, I'm in the NYC metro area and the majority of people keep their horses at designated boarding barns with other boarders, not at home. So you're often with other people, and then especially if you're showing you're on your barns show team, traveling around to shows with them, staying at the same hotel, etc. I can imagine the people who keep their horses at home are like way more chill lol Some of the superst…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/24 01:38 PM
4	Is this just a Southeast thing or do most women want to date a cowboy? Aw, thanks dude ♥️ I'd agree we're certainly attuned to our surroundings, kinda have to be like you said lol. The equestrian world is a weird place where we have like cutting edge medical stuff and also a proliferation of old wives tales/beliefs/superstitions that have stuck around. Add in a lot of money and people who are comfortable with controlling half ton animals and you get some weird stuff lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/24 12:59 PM
8	Is this just a Southeast thing or do most women want to date a cowboy? their horse-obsessed lifestyle (which is great; horsewomen tend to be pretty cool.) Damn dude, this is like seriously the first time I've heard us not described as "crazy" (which, tbf, as someone who's been riding since they were a kid, like yeah many of us absolutely are lol) and that's super cool thanks 👍	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/24 12:23 PM
3	Is this just a Southeast thing or do most women want to date a cowboy? I will second the "it's regional". I'm in the northeast, NYC metro area, and yeah that's not normal. If someone was wearing that stuff people would think it's a costume. If you go into rural new England it sometimes turns into the south for whatever strange reason, but even there I don't think people dress like that. Edit: I will add that we have tons of horses and horse people here. I've been riding since I was 11. But it's almost exclusively English riding, largely geared toward Hunter/jumper …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/24 12:20 PM
18	A Woman with ''No Kids and Not Fat'' is actually a high standard compared to the average man While the numbers might indicate that, the distribution isn't really as you've described. There's areas where lots of people are obese, and areas where the majority aren't. You can look at the map here (2022): https://www.cdc.gov/obesity/php/data-research/adult-obesity-prevalence-maps.html And it will vary on a more local level too. Typically the wealthier a community the less obesity it has. It's not like you're walking around and everyone is obese, unless you're in one of the areas where obesi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 12:16 PM
1	Getting hobbies is useless advice for dating. I never met anyone through my hobbies because all but one are fairly solitary. And that one is horseback riding, which is extremely, extremely female heavy. I met my bf (after social media and Netflix were around lol) through friends. We got to know each other at bars, clubs, parties, etc, doing stuff with friends. I didn't meet him at the barn and he doesn't ride, but he thinks it's really cool that I do it and I'm so passionate about it. We don't share many hobbies, but he loves that I'm reall…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/24 06:19 PM
1	A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well. Sure, those are vastly different things though. It's a lot easier to spend money on supplies your students need to do a lesson than it is to devote your time caring for random children. And yeah, literally all teachers give advice... That's like a very normal part of the job. And at least in the districts around me, office hours to help students after school are also part of the job. It's in the contract. This, though: ,a place to stay sometimes Idk where you live, but where I am this is illegal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/24 11:14 PM
0	A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well. I'm not saying they are, I'm speaking to the desire to do this of a group of people you mentioned.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/24 05:04 PM
0	A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well. Some people become teachers for moral reasons but there are many who don't. I wanted a job involving history (not the best job prospects lol) that was stable and predictable. Teaching, at least around here, is that. You get good benefits, know your schedule, know your pay raises, have pretty good job security, etc. While it doesn't pay amazingly, I'm lucky to be in one of the top paying states for teachers, so that helps a lot. Like I think it's very important to educate kids, but I'm under no i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/24 12:17 PM
2	Women have hobbies. I'll start with horseback riding, though technically I consider it a sport I'll include it here as a hobby as it's something I do in my free time. Drawing/painting (digital and traditional), building model ships, refinishing furniture, historic research on my local area. We bought an old house a couple years ago so lately much of my time has been spent restoring it. I don't love every aspect of it, but there's a lot I've enjoyed. Stripping and refinishing doors, other architectural elements (rec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/24 12:45 PM
2	Women have hobbies. Most bars near me have a trivia night! Unfortunately it's usually like a Tuesday or or a Thursday but they're still really popular.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/24 12:40 PM
3	The trad-con and manosphere assertion of femininity being inferior is why many women turned away from femininity I don't. Can you tell me where that is? Again, I'm asking for a source saying that women were not able to vote because men didn't want them to go to war.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/24 04:08 PM
3	The trad-con and manosphere assertion of femininity being inferior is why many women turned away from femininity That doesn't really answer what I've asked. You said that women weren't allowed to vote because men didn't want them going to war to war. Your source says that Woodrow Wilson said "women helped out in wartime so they should vote". Thats not the same thing. I'm asking for a source that says that women were not allowed to vote because men didn't want them going to war.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/24 03:06 PM
3	The trad-con and manosphere assertion of femininity being inferior is why many women turned away from femininity Do you have a source for this: women(women couldn't vote because they didn't want women to participate in war) This is not at all my understanding. Initially, in the american colonies women didn't vote in government because it was assumed they'd vote the same as their husbands so what's the point. It also doesn't make sense to me because for a long time the only men who could vote were men who owned property, yet owning property wasn't a factor in whether or not you were going to war. Also, wome…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/24 02:23 PM
3	Why do many men say that older women or single moms are less desirable for dating? Jsyk it's etc, not ect. Short for et cetera, Latin meaning "and so on"	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/24 05:12 AM
1	The phenomena of single women dating married men Oh okay yeah that def makes sense, thanks!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/24 01:11 PM
1	The phenomena of single women dating married men Honest questions I don't mean anything rude by it, I'm just curious. Are you American? This is the second time you've asked to clarify slang terms here iirc, is English your second language/do you not live in the US?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/24 12:13 PM
1	Opinion: You need to develop your data literacy if you’re going to use data/studies/statistics to make broad claims about society! They're not talking about the difference to the individual man. They're talking about extrapolating the data to infer how common paternity fraud is at large. If you're talking about that (which we all are) then the difference between "all men" and "men who have reason to be suspicious of paternity" are huge.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 01:21 AM
21	It's rare for a man to be with a woman who likes him for who he is as a human being instead of what he can provide. That doesn't sound weird at all. It sounds like something someone who actually loves their partner would say. Yes it does lmao. "I love him because I got him flowers"? You're talking about yourself, it says nothing at all about him. Women gushing about their partners is a way of bragging about themselves. It's not really about the guy. It can come off as braggy, which is why I don't do it. I don't tell people that I think my boyfriend is a wonderful person and a genuinely good and honest human b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 01:52 PM
3	Should Western Countries Encourage Mail Order Brides? Also I do have to ask what makes you think women want to immigrate to the west and marry local men? The men in the west are fatter, usually unable and I’m willing to speak her main language thus learning English will be pushed on her I think my neighbor may be a mail order bride (or something like that). She's much younger and from a common mailnorder bride/sex tourism country. She's very sweet, but her English is not good. Can not hold a polite conversation. Maybe her husband speaks her languag…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/24 01:25 AM
5	Women safe places on reddit are fucking bullshit and only cause a bigger divide between men and women. I don't really see the issue here tbh. One post was like very slightly rude, but barely. Honestly its a weird question to ask in the first place, but but these replies aren't bad at all... I'm not sure what you're seeing as damaging, or what you were expecting/would have preferred to see. Edit: I see you are not OP, sorry. Obviously my reply is directed at him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/24 11:54 PM
1	Why is it normalized for women to be irritable and thus yell at their partners when before they menstruate or are pregnant? Tysm, and same to you!!! Yeah, and I think they miss just how many women are handling their shit. You obviously don't notice someone barely keeping it normal, cause.... They're keeping it normal lol, it doesn't necessarily mean it's effortless. Like if you saw me in the parking lot yesterday you'd see a woman realize her coffee was leaking, wipe it off, and keep walking, you wouldn't know that it's taking everything in her power not to chuck the thing lol I had a talk with s girl at school (I wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 09:33 PM
2	Why is it normalized for women to be irritable and thus yell at their partners when before they menstruate or are pregnant? I get it before and during my period, but bc helps a LOT. I'm off for the first time in like 10 years cause I'm switching to the implant, and I have my period now. Yesterday morning I was walking into work and my coffee lid started leaking, down the cup and onto my hand. It's done that a couple times lately, I think the seal isn't good anymore, and it's annoying. But I just got sooooo fucking mad about it yesterday morning, it took everything I had in me not to throw the cup across the parking l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 07:37 PM
18	Is cheating in women ultimately a matter of time and place? Do you not have soap where you live? Like clearly you don't have health class or even bio gd Seriously this sub has the best content holy shit	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/24 01:43 AM
1	Should paternity tests be mandatory? 200$ is enought to feed a family for two months Dude where are you shopping lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/24 05:08 PM
-1	Q4W: Why is there a "Fear of crime gender paradox"? This is exactly what I was thinking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/23 04:25 PM
2	Women want to split housework and childrearing but don't want to compromise anywhere else Idk lol my dad goes into like mission mode when he's in the store. Rushes and tries to get out. Like I get it, I'm kinda the same way, but like I do stop to look at what I'm picking otherwise you e just gotta go back out again or throw the garbage you were too hurried to look at for a sec away	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/23 08:41 PM
9	Women want to split housework and childrearing but don't want to compromise anywhere else Lol wtf so which is it, there's no accurate number or it's 10-22%? Lmao this sub is wild	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/23 08:29 PM
11	Women want to split housework and childrearing but don't want to compromise anywhere else Im a young millennial who works in a high school. They are NOT internet savvy. Think the first Google result is the right answer and yes the believe everything (or almost everything) they see on tik Tok Honestly I think it's cause our generation and slightly older had to work with earlier computers and like yeah they fucked up sometimes and we had to troubleshoot. They've grown up with super intuitive tech and they have a tendency to see it as infallible. Honestly some of the shit they do/say is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/23 08:13 PM
6	Women want to split housework and childrearing but don't want to compromise anywhere else Same, except my dad held no illusions that he was good at it lol. If he went shopping it was a guarantee that at least a couple of cans he bought were dented ones.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/23 07:48 PM
6	Older men have lots of baggage too. Ime it's not ranting about little annoyances, everyone does that. It's deeper, a more systemic anger that's always present just beneath the surface.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/23 10:00 PM
1	Could the greater male variability hypothesis be the reason women are having more success than men in college? Yes, I remember my second grade drama classes well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 08:18 PM
0	Are passport bros really a thing? Never said it does, but social norms are a thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 11:26 PM
1	Are passport bros really a thing? Yeah, I always wonder what it's like when they actually come here and the reality of what not-bought women's lives are like sets in. If they wonder why their husband sought them out specifically while most other American men didn't. Yeah, I hope they are too. Honestly I wouldn't have thought much about it if the guy wasn't so fucking weird. If he had just introduced himself, or even just politely wave, like a normal person, I wouldn't think about it much at all. But his outright refusal to even …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 10:18 PM
2	Are passport bros really a thing? I swear to God my neighbor has done this. Despite being in very close proximity to each other and even me saying "hi" he has completely ignored me and refuses to speak to me. Looks down at the ground and avoids eye contact. So strange. Born and raised anerican. His wife is normal, waves, says hi, introduced herself, gives us gifts. Normal fucking neighbor. She is some kind of southeast asian, and her accent is extremely strong and it doesn't seem like she knows that much English. She is about ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 09:50 PM
5	Men don’t get to have male spaces And those women were not allowed in lodges with men. They formed their own female only groups or co-ed groups, but they are separate from the traditional lodges. Your first link explains this pretty thoroughly. Did you not read it? Like I'm sorry but everything you're providing is contradicting you. They are freemasons in that they follow similar practices and beliefs, but they are separate lodges and groups and their meetings operate as such. You will not see women at a regular meeting, it is a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/23 09:36 PM
3	Men don’t get to have male spaces That's not the same thing though. They practice similarly, but the most of the traditional freemason lodges do not allow women. You join one and attend, there will be no women. It is a male only space. Edit: from your link: These streams of Masonry function separately. For example, members from a masculine order, like the Grand Lodge of California, aren’t allowed into the closed meetings of feminine or coed lodges, or vice versa. But they are all founded on the teachings and traditions of ancien…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/23 09:29 PM
5	Men don’t get to have male spaces Those aren't the regular freemason lodges though. Those are groups specifically for women, in response to the fact that regular lodges don't allow them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/23 09:11 PM
6	Men don’t get to have male spaces Are you sure? I don't believe this is the case. Some lodges may allow women but many still don't. A few years ago they did say they'll allow trans women, as long as they joined when they were men. Maybe that's what you're thinking of? Kinda should, their numbers have dropped insanely. I'd consider joining if I could, but Im not allowed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/23 08:59 PM
1	Have you ever been aroused by a man's personality who otherwise had no remarkable physical qualities? If so, what drew you in to him ? Yeah there was a guy I was super into for a while. He was actually shorter than me (I'm 5'9"). Not in good shape not in bad shape, just a normal looking dude. He was just a good guy. Kind, funny, smart. He had a gentle, calm, way about him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/23 07:56 PM
1	I think the biggest problem in dating is that women are simply not honest about what they are attracted to, and despite the fact that men have learned this they are simply told: “so you’re going to tell an actual woman what she wants?” When men say never take dating advice from women. Are you even involved in schools? Do you live somewhere way away from me? Kids are absolutely allowed to disagree in class. They're not allowed to shout at each other and call each other names over it, but they're totally allowed to have a discussion, and they frequently do. I mean my high school actually has a debate club and they go to tournaments to compete against other schools' debate clubs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/23 11:27 AM
1	The “don’t approach women IRL” is a zoomer thing…right? Lol sorry didn't realize you were into that. Try this instead! Listen to the whole thing if you can, but at least the first 30 seconds: https://youtu.be/75Mw8r5gW8E	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/23 03:36 AM
1	The “don’t approach women IRL” is a zoomer thing…right? Oh I'm so sorry but that is awful and I cannot listen to it lmao. I did try. Yeah, I'm not upstate, more like Westchester county, but I def know the reputation actual upstate has, like confederate flags and shit wtf lol. And yeah, the first summer was def iffy to begin with but as our numbers stayed low in the summer more people were comfortable and went out Thanks for explaining, I appreciate it!	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/23 11:43 PM
1	The “don’t approach women IRL” is a zoomer thing…right? I'm right in the middle haha, about an hour north of NYC. Ah, gotcha, I thought you meant like literally going out on the boat or do outdoor activities, which def saw an increase during COVID. Never heard of it used as a culture before. What is it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/23 11:07 PM
1	The “don’t approach women IRL” is a zoomer thing…right? That's def different than my experience in NE. Like businesses being closed, yeah, but once it got nice out everyone was hanging out outside, more than normal because it was one of the safer things you could do. The lake and the sound exploded. New boats were out of stock fast and used prices skyrocketed. Restaurants built or expanded their patios. Even horses became more expensive, as you do that outside, for most of the year at least. A sane, broke but not finished TB that could jump but would…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/23 09:10 PM
16	Obesity has absolutely nuked the chance to go on a date with even regular women Okay so I'm thinking it might be this kind of attitude that puts people off. Like whoah dude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/23 01:39 PM
8	Women should take seriously the question if they want to have children or not early in life and stick to it to avoid suffering. Yes, because like I said, even those women who really want kids have clearly found the risk of having a child before they were ready to be greater than the risk of not being able to or having difficulty conceiving later in life. Put it this way, if they find having a child to be vital, they probably like kids a lot. They probably don't want to risk having a child and giving it less of a life they think it deserves. It would be worse to have a child and give it a subpar quality of life/upbringing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/23 08:39 PM
9	Women should take seriously the question if they want to have children or not early in life and stick to it to avoid suffering. It seems like there's some selection bias going on here. You're looking at infertility subs, of course you're going to see lots of things about women having trouble conceiving. You won't hear anything about women in their 30s+ having no trouble, obviously. While it's more likely to run into issues as you get older, it's certainly not a given. My mom had me at 32 and my sister at 35, no issues. My paternal great grandmother accidentally got pregnant in her 40s, they never intended on kids. My bfs…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/23 07:39 PM
1	CMV: At this point, this sub is the red pill light Yeah and that's the thing, RP guys have taken a term that wasnt meant to be used to refer to people and applied it to them to the point where most people will see it as an indication of RP beliefs. So I'm like this kid might not understand the connotation and may be using terms that people associate with other groups that he may not be a part of.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/23 02:25 PM
2	CMV: At this point, this sub is the red pill light If applied to a person, someone involved in RP/incel beliefs. Many people who don't buy into those mindsets don't buy into the alpha characterization. The wider public will use it to refer to dogs but I've only ever heard it used to describe people by manosphere guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/23 12:00 AM
-1	CMV: At this point, this sub is the red pill light Ok	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/23 11:03 PM
1	CMV: At this point, this sub is the red pill light Yeah nobody cares that much but keep overreacting to percieved persecution, it looks good on you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/23 10:56 PM
3	CMV: At this point, this sub is the red pill light I was looking at sophomore midterm short answer questions today about which characters in a book exhibit the qualities of a leader. One kid wrote that a leader is "an alpha". Haven't frequented PPD in years but I instantly had memories of RPers and incels flooding back. Almost feel bad for the kid cause idk if he quite understands the connotation it has.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/23 10:44 PM
1	Childfree culture is a hiccup due to the recent invention of birth control and will disappear in a few hundred years And even back then, you didn't necessarily want more, it just happened. I've read letters written to Margaret Sanger begging for birth control in the early 20th century. They're gut wrenching to read. One woman had just had her 11th child and was begging for help for her 15 year old daughter, she didn't want her to have the life she had with tons of kids she couldn't take care of. My own great grandmother didn't want children. Idk if she took steps to prevent it or not, but after a long time in …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/23 02:40 AM
10	Do the men in here that struggle to get laid not have any women in there social circles? That's just not true at all lol. I went out with my friends while happily in a relationship all the time. Tons of us did. I still do, on occasion, but less often since COVID.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/22 08:53 PM
1	The only type of people who care about “body count” are those who never would have the opportunity to raise their own. Yeah, that's fine. Although idk that you need to make it clear that a high count is a reason something didn't continue. If I found something out in the early stages of be much more likely to just say it isn't working out, sorry. Don't think I'd even get into the reasons why.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 10:28 PM
1	The only type of people who care about “body count” are those who never would have the opportunity to raise their own. Why would I shame anyone? What are you even talking about?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 10:17 PM
1	The only type of people who care about “body count” are those who never would have the opportunity to raise their own. Ah I tend to find that comes later on, after you're already together. Initially you just know from their reputation, their friends, your friends, etc. I met my partner when was I 21 though, maybe it gets different when you're older.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 10:07 PM
0	The only type of people who care about “body count” are those who never would have the opportunity to raise their own. Uh, yeah, wouldn't it be weird to talk about in real life? Just going up to dudes and asking how many people they've slept with, and then going "eew" or "oh alright, what was your name again?" Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 10:02 PM
6	The only type of people who care about “body count” are those who never would have the opportunity to raise their own. Nah, it's just a preference. I'm not into casual stuff myself and have turned down all but one ONS proposition. Just not for me and I'd want my partner to share similar values. Feels a little yucky to me too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 07:44 PM
2	Now that abortion rights are overturned, will you be more wary of casual sex? Sure hope that holds. Although anecdotally I've known a few wealthy and educated people who went down south. My parents are both and primarily went to FL for weather and no income tax, they basically half retired. My mom is talking more and more about moving back though, she can't stand the politics there, and they're in a blue county! A good friend of mine is educated and went to TX for work. She had an opportunity in Austin and a similar one in NYC, and even though the NYC position paid almost…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/22 08:32 PM
2	Now that abortion rights are overturned, will you be more wary of casual sex? Idk if you were joking or not, but please don't actually double up on condoms. It significantly increases the chance of them breaking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/22 08:03 PM
1	Now that abortion rights are overturned, will you be more wary of casual sex? Probably won't result in a brain drain. Most of the jobs those people are coming for are in blue states, where abortion access won't be changed due to the supreme court decision. Many blue states have been seeing population decline/people move down south (red states) because of better weather, cheaper housing, (sometimes) less taxation, and some job opportunities. Maybe this will stem it a little bit, I'm certainly feeling good about my choice to stay up north when my family moved down to Florid…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/22 07:59 PM
2	Women are invariably drawn to men who are taken and become way more attracted to a guy upon discovering he is spoken for. Most men are completely turned off when they learn a woman has a boyfriend or is married, which shows women are far more shallow than men who base their attraction on looks. My favorite was after telling a guy I had a bf he goes "okay but I'm better" that one I won't forget haha. "he's not here" "he doesn't have to know" "I don't see him, do you?" Those are all whatever, but the "I'm better than him" definitely caught me by surprise and I actually laughed lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/22 06:22 PM
2	What age do you think Men and Woman are at their most sexually attractive? I think a lot of it depends on the individual woman in question and the person talking about it. Like there are some 25 year olds I know who are decidedly immature and/or naive and it might be seen more as grooming. Others aren't immature or naive and it wouldn't be seen that way. And it also comes from the perspective of the person talking about it. I personally am not at all attracted to 40 year old men, so it's immediately strange to me in the first place (not to mention large age gaps are ju…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/22 09:26 PM
2	What age do you think Men and Woman are at their most sexually attractive? I don't see how it's a jealousy thing. I've always thought large age gaps can be a little iffy (more or less depending on the ages of the parties) and I'm still young. Have always thought that, it's definitely not a being unhappy that younger women are hotter thing lol. And your point about the military is something something that's always bothered me. ROTC programs at colleges are pretty iffy, I think it's taking advantage. The high school I work at has a Jr ROTC program and I find that to be d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/22 08:23 PM
5	What are some apparently contradicting claims espoused by the same people, that you want to point out? Yeah, I see the same thing at work all the time. Granted, I work in a high school, but the boys are saying vicious and mean shit about each other just as often as the girls, sometimes right after the person they're talking about leaves the room. They do that fake smiling and joking around stuff to them and then tear them apart the second they walk away.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 12:46 PM
2	Ladies who are well endowed, if men had to spend a month or two with large boobs, what do you think they would learn from the experience? How absolutely annoying they can be. They will literally get in my way, and sometimes it's so frustrating. Also, they will hopefully learn to outwardly appreciate women's other qualities more. This has been over the course of years, not months, but it's very clear that my main identifying feature is my boobs. Most of my nicknames (good naturedly) are related to my boobs. If people need to describe me to someone who doesn't know my name, it's the girl with the boobs. Yeah, people stare, people ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 08:09 PM
0	"pair bonding" is a fake fantasybconcept created by low tier men Because people usually do so after making vague statements, especially when asked. If you like to circumvent social norms that's fine, just expect that sort of reaction. And because when you asked me to expand on the specifics of your comment, I obliged. I didn't come back at you with vague ships in the night comments lol I gave you concrete explanations of what I was talking about. Reciprocity is another one of those social norms, which again, feel free to throw out if you want, but do expect t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 12:27 PM
1	"pair bonding" is a fake fantasybconcept created by low tier men Still not "pressing" you to talk about anything. You make vague comments about talking past each other and being oil and water, but refuse to expand on them and just keep repeating yourself over and over. I don't really care if you should, could, or would explain, just asked if you were going to. It's still weird to keep saying those things and not expand on it, but I guess if you're having a good time then that's all that matters.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 12:22 PM
1	"pair bonding" is a fake fantasybconcept created by low tier men No, never said you had to, asked if you would Weird to bring it up and then refuse to talk about it though lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 12:13 PM
1	"pair bonding" is a fake fantasybconcept created by low tier men Do you care to explain then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 12:10 PM
1	"pair bonding" is a fake fantasybconcept created by low tier men Don't really see how that's happened but ok	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 12:09 PM
1	"pair bonding" is a fake fantasybconcept created by low tier men Okay, well then thanks for not trying then? Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 12:05 PM
1	"pair bonding" is a fake fantasybconcept created by low tier men Thanks for trying though!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 12:03 PM
1	"pair bonding" is a fake fantasybconcept created by low tier men Yeah, that's how it reads to me, which is what you asked. And it's not lol, I just read it and was bothered that I couldn't think of the word I was looking for. You know that "tip of your tongue" feeling? It's annoying lol was hoping somebody could help me out	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 12:01 PM
1	"pair bonding" is a fake fantasybconcept created by low tier men "better she suffers than I" is unnecessarily formal, talking about dating using terms like "cutthroat" and "survival" is hyperbolic and dramatic, and the entire essence of the post "the cold, hard world has made us this way, we have to be this way in order to come out alive" is overly romantic and dramatic (again) and I'm still trying to put my finger on exactly what it is (there's high levels of cringe but I didn't want to say that outright cause it's rude). Mix of edgelorgy/m'lady, but there's…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 11:56 AM
1	"pair bonding" is a fake fantasybconcept created by low tier men Damn. I already explained that though, it's the language used and the overall meaning of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 11:37 AM
1	"pair bonding" is a fake fantasybconcept created by low tier men Yeah I cant quite place it. Seeing as you wrote it, do you have any input?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 11:33 AM
0	"pair bonding" is a fake fantasybconcept created by low tier men This post, the language used and the meaning of it, is giving off some serious vibes. Can someone help me place what they are? Almost edgelorgy or like m'lady a bit.... Can't quite put my finger on it	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 11:22 AM
4	Why do some women still choose to be stay at home parents? 🤷🏼‍♀️ depends on the individual people in the family I think. My parents are great and I love them, same with my dad's parents. My mom's parents can be huge assholes. They love my sister and I but they spent like 10 years seeing us one time a year cause they refused to talk to my parents when my parents wanted to sell a house they owned together. They were assholes in other ways too, but that's the one that affected the family the most. You can't pick your family, sometimes you end up with peopl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 12:54 PM
11	Why do some women still choose to be stay at home parents? And it just meant having someone who wasn't too tired to really be with me. My mom was tired at the end of the day, but she spent most of the day with me. My dad worked, and he tried and everything, but he was only home at night and he was tired. This got flipped when I was 17/18/19 and my dad was laid off then started working from home, he was home all the time and had time and energy to interact with me throughout the day, while my mom was at work and tired when she got home. Of course I neede…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 12:39 PM
1	What makes men date women with mental illnessess? My understanding is that in theory it's treatable, but in practice it kinda isn't. Nothing will cure it, it'll always take work on the part of the patient. The main reason it isn't really treatable is because most of the work has to be done by the patient. They have to recognize the problem, seek out a therapist, continue seeing the therapist, and do the work the therapist recommends. Often BPD patients don't think there's anything wrong with them or stop treatment, which of course renders it in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 08:58 PM
1	Married Women Should Take Their Husband's Last Names Looks like your husband and I have very similar histories! It's just awful all the way around, I'm sorry for him. My dad's side of the family is from Russia too (now it's Ukraine, but Russia at the time). My great grandma came over during the pogroms following the russo-japanese war (she like literally escaped while the pogrom was happening) and my great grandpa came over a little later, just before WWI I think but have to check to be sure. I think the rest of the families were killed during the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 02:54 PM
1	Married Women Should Take Their Husband's Last Names Truly astounding	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 12:55 PM
1	Married Women Should Take Their Husband's Last Names I mean really, these guys say that women initiate divorce paperwork so that means that they are the one that wanted a divorce. So the same logic would apply, right? The man is the one initiating marriage, so he is the one that wants it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 12:51 PM
2	Married Women Should Take Their Husband's Last Names Okay so your reasoning is strange and idk that I really want to engage on that part, but I don't know that I want to change my last name for other reasons. I don't love the way my last name sounds, it's not anything cool and often it's actually mispronounced as an ethnic slur (funnily, we are actually not the enthnicity that the slur is about lol). My parents only had two daughters, so the last name probably ends there. Idk if I want kids for not, so it might end no matter what, but I don't want…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 12:28 PM
1	Are women lying about body count (Post to end all Count topics) I'm actually not the person you were replying to before, I'm just scrolling through reading this thread and it's really struck me how much you want to believe the interviews with these (two? Four? I can't watch the video ATM) women over the hundreds of women in the actual studies. You're coming up with these convoluted reasons why women might not be telling the truth in studies, while not asking the same questions of the women or the producers of the content in the YouTube video. Like, questioni…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/22 01:08 PM
2	Are women lying about body count (Post to end all Count topics) It sounds like you're putting a lot of effort into believing the YouTubers rather than the studies. It seems like you want to believe that's true and are jumping over backwards to find reasons it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/22 10:43 AM
2	How traumatic is puberty for women? Yeah, that's why I was laughing about it haha, it was funny. Making me feel good about my boobs is not making it them the defining characteristic about me	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/22 04:48 PM
1	How traumatic is puberty for women? Lol made me laugh, but this is an example of feeling gross about it lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/22 03:22 PM
1	How traumatic is puberty for women? It was terrifying in a lot of ways lol. I first got blackheads around the sides of my nose in 5th grade. I remember looking at them in the bathroom mirror at school, horrified and completely convinced I was growing whiskers like the scary old hall monitor lady at my school lmao. I did not want to get my period. I was so embarrassed. I hid it from my parents for months, as long as I could until my mom finally found a pad in my bag. The first time I got it, I remember sitting on the toilet, comfor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/22 02:18 AM
1	Why is the marriage rate falling? I think a lot of it is thought to be due to wives pushing their husbands to seek medical care. On the whole women are much more likely to go to the doctor than men, and wives encourage husbands to go. This catches issues earlier and keeps ongoing issues better maintained. Of course companionship and sharing the load of day to day things probably helps too, but that's not as easy to quantify.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 09:07 PM
1	41% of women would go on a date with someone who voted for the opposing candidate, compared to 67% of men. Why do you think this is? How will this affect relationships when a majority of men are republicans and a majority of women are democrats? I just disagree, there is a point where a fetus can generally survive outside the womb, it has been determined to be around 24 weeks. Before that time, pre-term babies usually do not survive, especially without significant morbidity. That point will go down, certainly, as medical science advances. It's not philosophical or religious, it is just a matter of whether we can keep the fetus alive outside of the womb or not. The thing is, it's not only the fetus that is under consideration here. Women…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/21 02:23 AM
1	41% of women would go on a date with someone who voted for the opposing candidate, compared to 67% of men. Why do you think this is? How will this affect relationships when a majority of men are republicans and a majority of women are democrats? I don't believe that it is, these dates are set by medical professionals based on whether a fetus of that age can survive or not. It's based on data and experience from pre-term births, they know at what ages a fetus can survive and at which ages fetuses have very high mortality. I do disagree with the convenience argument wholeheartedly though I am terrified of being pregnant. It scares the absolute living shit out of me. All of the things that can go wrong, the changes to your body, it's absol…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/21 01:08 AM
1	41% of women would go on a date with someone who voted for the opposing candidate, compared to 67% of men. Why do you think this is? How will this affect relationships when a majority of men are republicans and a majority of women are democrats? But the fact is a six month old is physically able to to digest food if given it, it can breathe on it's own, it's heart beats on it's own, etc, etc, it does not rely on a literal physical connection to it's biological mother in order to survive. A sixteen week fetus will die in a matter of minutes or hours, while a six month old will die in a matter of days and is not dependent on its mother to complete autonomic brain stem level activity. These are entirely different levels of development and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/21 12:45 AM
2	41% of women would go on a date with someone who voted for the opposing candidate, compared to 67% of men. Why do you think this is? How will this affect relationships when a majority of men are republicans and a majority of women are democrats? Generally, in the context of medicine/abortion, viability is taken to mean has the reasonable ability to survive. You cannot take a 10 week fetus out of the womb and have it survive. It will die imminently. A six month old is developed enough to breathe on it's own, eat on its own, basic brain-stem level activities are there. I see what you're getting at, but it's entirely different. A six month old is dependent on a secondary person to survive-long term, but a six week old fetus needs to be phy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/21 12:15 AM
2	41% of women would go on a date with someone who voted for the opposing candidate, compared to 67% of men. Why do you think this is? How will this affect relationships when a majority of men are republicans and a majority of women are democrats? It's okay, I know it can be easy to do. I guess I just don't view a fetus the same way you do. It seems like you view it as a fully formed child with warm, happy feelings and infinite possibilities. I don't see it that way in the slightest. There is no guarantee that the child will even be born in the first place; a shocking amount of pregnancies end in miscarriage, and of course there are more things along the way that can lead to a stillborn. And this is assuming that the child will be born he…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/21 11:57 PM
2	41% of women would go on a date with someone who voted for the opposing candidate, compared to 67% of men. Why do you think this is? How will this affect relationships when a majority of men are republicans and a majority of women are democrats? Im sorry, I think you must be confusing me with someone else, I never said those things. No, I did not tacitly imply abortion was my solution; I merely said that a fetus is those things, whether you like it or not, as you seemed to be upset by the fact that someone referred to it as an intruder. You inferred abortion, it was never implied. I brought up cancer because you brought up sharing DNA on multiple occasions. Cancer does that, sharing DNA does not by virtue of sharing DNA make something v…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/21 11:34 PM
2	41% of women would go on a date with someone who voted for the opposing candidate, compared to 67% of men. Why do you think this is? How will this affect relationships when a majority of men are republicans and a majority of women are democrats? DNA doesn't really factor into it for me. Cancer shares my DNA, I still don't fucking want it in me, it's an intruder. I don't know why you're talking about abortions, I specifically responded to your incredulity that women refer to a fetus as an intruder; abortion was never a part of our discussion? And that article references that half of all pregnancies (not children) are unplanned, which does not mean that active measures were taken against them, just they they weren't planned. Also, I never…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/21 10:41 PM
2	41% of women would go on a date with someone who voted for the opposing candidate, compared to 67% of men. Why do you think this is? How will this affect relationships when a majority of men are republicans and a majority of women are democrats? Sorry, you've totally lost me. Calling a son over, percentages, what?? I do not compare a grown child with a fetus, obviously, you were the one who decided to bring in something sharing DNA, and you were the one to bring up shooting someone?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/21 10:25 PM
2	41% of women would go on a date with someone who voted for the opposing candidate, compared to 67% of men. Why do you think this is? How will this affect relationships when a majority of men are republicans and a majority of women are democrats? ..... What?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/21 10:14 PM
2	41% of women would go on a date with someone who voted for the opposing candidate, compared to 67% of men. Why do you think this is? How will this affect relationships when a majority of men are republicans and a majority of women are democrats? It doesn't matter if the robber is a meth tweaker, the most recent winner of the Nobel peace prize, or my actual grown child; they're all unwelcome, they're all intruders.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/21 10:10 PM
2	41% of women would go on a date with someone who voted for the opposing candidate, compared to 67% of men. Why do you think this is? How will this affect relationships when a majority of men are republicans and a majority of women are democrats? No, that doesn't quite make sense, because in that situation you're making no attempt to ensure the unwelcome person didn't come over. A more apt analogy would be you had a party at your house, and someone showed up to rob it. You're accepting some risk by having a house in the first place and opening the door for some people, but it's still quite clear that you're not inviting an intruder in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/21 10:02 PM
3	41% of women would go on a date with someone who voted for the opposing candidate, compared to 67% of men. Why do you think this is? How will this affect relationships when a majority of men are republicans and a majority of women are democrats? Yeah, it's not. However, it is 99.9% effective, which is a pretty clear indicator that I do not welcome a pregnancy. Much like you cannot ensure your house is 100% free from intruders. You can make it clear that they're not welcome with security lighting, fencing, alarms, locks, and dogs, but it's never 100%. Still, we call that unwelcome person an intruder, just like I call an unwelcome fetus an intruder.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/21 09:19 PM
6	41% of women would go on a date with someone who voted for the opposing candidate, compared to 67% of men. Why do you think this is? How will this affect relationships when a majority of men are republicans and a majority of women are democrats? No, I think my stalwart adherence to my birth control makes it quite obvious that there is no invitation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/21 09:08 PM
3	41% of women would go on a date with someone who voted for the opposing candidate, compared to 67% of men. Why do you think this is? How will this affect relationships when a majority of men are republicans and a majority of women are democrats? Hell fucking yeah it's an intruder. I don't fucking want it there, and I go out of my way and sacrifice a lot to ensure it doesn't happen. It could permanently disfigure or disable me, and could also kill me. I take my birth control religiously, I have missed it twice, two times, in seven years. That is 2,553 days that I have taken that pill at 10 PM, on the dot, and 2,555 days I have dealt with the side effects and risks of it. I have gone to some lengths to avoid a pregnancy, so yes, I conside…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/21 09:03 PM
1	High value men would not date a McDonald's worker just because she is hot This very much matches with my personal experience. My dad isn't a CEO, but he's very high up in a major company that we all know. He married his secretary, my mom. It was the 80s, so things were slightly different, but he has a higher educational level than her. It was not all about looks, he thinks she is so fucking smart. On many occasions they have talked about something, she leaves the room, and he'll say to me, "your mom is so smart. I never would have thought of it that way, she just thin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/21 08:45 PM
0	Do you actually believe in all of that hyper masculine, fuck girls, don’t feel emotions kinda shit? I’m a man too, but all that chest pounding makes me nauseous. ? Religion isn't open to interpretation?? There are literally tens of thousands of denominations of Christianity..... Those are all different interpretations of it. People decide they don't like parts and split off and start new denominations all the time My bad, I read your comment to mean the opposite of what it meant, I thought you were saying religion isn't open to interpretation lol sorry!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/21 10:34 AM
1	is it important for men and women to share political beliefs while dating? Yeah, no worries, I didn't think you were, I was referring to your preference that people come right out and say "you're an idiot" rather than "beat around the bush". I think that although it may be annoying, it's generally more helpful than coming out of the gate with demeaning insults and accusations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/21 01:20 PM
1	is it important for men and women to share political beliefs while dating? ?? I thought your issue was that they would think your parents are bigoted fascists, but now that's actually not as bad as trying to nicely say that they're making unintelligent choices? It's just trying not be rude haha. Like I tried to phrase everything in my last comment so diplomatically, cause I didn't want to just come out and say that it has made me think less of them and their ability to accurately process their own situation and the world around them, that I question their intelligence …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/21 07:09 PM
2	is it important for men and women to share political beliefs while dating? I never voted for trump, I have always actively, strongly, disliked him; my bfs parents voted for him twice. I don't think of them as bigoted fascists, but as somewhat misguided and just....not entirely thoughtful. They're not religious, so it's not that. It's just very strange, because while they aren't on government assistance or anything, they're nowhere near wealthy enough to benefit from any of his economic policies. They took COVID very seriously and thought Trump handled it very badly. On…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/21 08:01 PM
2	Is female sexuality only 'passive' when she is not sufficiently attracted to the man? Thank you so much!! Will def be checking these out!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/21 11:39 AM
2	Is female sexuality only 'passive' when she is not sufficiently attracted to the man? If you don't mind linking the books that would be appreciated, I understand the struggle, fellow historian here!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/21 11:35 AM
2	Is female sexuality only 'passive' when she is not sufficiently attracted to the man? Hi, not questioning the validity of it, just wondering if you can provide your source for the belief that female sexuality was predatory before the 19th c. Im interested and would like to know more, thanks!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/21 11:24 AM
1	Do your partner's sociopolitical beliefs matter to the relationship? Wouldn't want to disappoint 😘	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/21 01:12 AM
3	Do your partner's sociopolitical beliefs matter to the relationship? Not the original commenter, but like denial of reality, support of government policies that restrict freedoms while preaching small government, engagement with conspiracy theories, lack of empathy for others, inability to think critically or think beyond what immediately effecting their own self. My parents were the "old type" republicans their entire lives. When they moved down to FL a few years ago they chose to not register with the GOP (they were for decades up here) and have not voted for a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/21 02:51 PM
6	Women in favour of vasectomy. Are you willing to do tubal ligation? Why? I had a laparoscopic appendectomy, and I imagine it's pretty similar incision sites as a tubal? I had one in my belly button, one at the top of my public bone (like right where the hair starts to grow) and one in between those two but off on my left side. I was not better in 10 days. I was fucked for a while, recovery was a while (couldn't stand up straight, couldn't bend down, couldn't laugh, couldn't drive as it turns out corners take a lot of abdominal strength! Couldn't lift anything, took f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/21 05:12 AM
1	Is it really over after a failed “shit test”? Oh I'm in a years long LTR, I'm not vetting anyone haha. And even then, I'm not much of game player/shit tester, just agreeing that that would be a red flag. Thanks for looking out though 🙂	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/21 02:27 AM
1	Is it really over after a failed “shit test”? I never said that I was weeding out all RP guys... Just said RP vocab would be an immediate red flag.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/21 02:16 AM
1	Is it really over after a failed “shit test”? I'm happy that you have that awareness. Don't know how that changes anything I said though?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/21 02:13 AM
2	Is it really over after a failed “shit test”? Honestly yeah lmao. Any TRP vocab would be like the biggest red flag besides like trying to coax me into a dark, dank basement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/21 01:14 AM
2	Women what made you have a one night stand It was with a friend, but we both knew it wasn't going to be a relationship or anything, so idk if that counts. Honestly I wanted to see if I could. I was young, I went for it (we didn't have sex though), and basically instantly knew it wasn't for me th second I got in his car. Left regretting it, never did it again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/21 11:06 PM
4	There's nothing wrong with wanting your girlfriend or wife to be like a mother Yeah, youre reminding me of when I had emergency surgery. All of a sudden, my bf needed to be strong and lead, as I was literally incapable of doing a fair amount of things. To your point of being attributes of being a mature adult rather than paternal, he also exhibited a lot of "motherly" qualities, taking care of me and being very sweet and thoughtful. It wasn't maternal or paternal, it was what a normal, mature person does when they're in that situation. I've done the same (though not for th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/21 03:16 PM
4	Would you be supportive of your boyfriend getting a hair transplant or would you tell him to shave it off? Transplant!!! I think dudes who can pull off bald are very rare and I just really don't like it. Transplant or treatment 100%	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/21 02:53 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yah, I've been gone a year or two at this point! And hahaha partly that, partly I work in a school so I've found myself with some more free time over the summer	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/21 04:07 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Love it!! Seems like that place knows how to get it done! Haha yeah it's been a roller coaster of bad decisions I forgot how much I loved. Will absolutely be doing this again lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/21 03:30 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Margaritas at a new place tonight, and they don't fuck around with the tequila. Will def be back. Shots and beer since we've been home though 😫	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/21 03:23 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Feeling gooooood tonight. Haven't drank like this since before covid.... What will tomorrow bring?? 😬😬😬 Tomorrow factory bebe's problem!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/21 03:08 AM
3	Women have historically contributed less "direct benefit" to society because, until recently, we were banned from participating in such pursuits, not because we do not need to compete sexually like males do. Lmao right like what is this nonsense? Read laurel thatcher Ulrich's "a midwife's tale". Girl was out there taking care of the animals, tending to the yard and garden, teaching children to make cloth and clothes so she could delegate that to her children, making the food, and also getting on her horse to go ride to a sick person who needed her help, or a woman who was having a baby. Also keeping the books on her midwifery to ensure she got paid, and keeping her husband's business logged as well.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/21 12:53 PM
4	CMV: All men are misogynists. Read the full text before posting. I honestly wonder how much of the "ball and chain" thing is just a social thing and an excuse. I know of a few people that blame their wives when declining to do things with their friends, so I wonder how much that plays into it. And then of course once one guy starts complaining everyone else has to too, nobody's gunna chime in about their awesome wife, giving the appearance that all these men are held down by their partners when they're just being polite. I think you're right about the age thi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/20 06:20 PM
1	Do American women feel betrayed by the Sexual Revolution and Feminism? Lmao now this is a little bit extreme cause she was a teenager immigrant who didn't speak English but my great grandmother, 100 years ago, literally sold socks on the streets of Brooklyn. That's what she did before she met her husband.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/20 05:35 PM
1	If women are innately more valuable, then why are male gender roles considered to be more important and necessary than traditional female gender roles? I disagree, I think their points are correct and backed by evidence, all you keep saying is that men are victimized at a higher rate, which is irrelevant in the conversation. Feel free to respond if you'd like, I'll be a little while in responding back though, have dinner to make!	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/20 12:10 AM
1	If women are innately more valuable, then why are male gender roles considered to be more important and necessary than traditional female gender roles? It is not based on their victimization rates, which you keep coming back to, it is based on the way they are treated after they are victimized, the way their victimization is viewed. The actual crime statistics have very little to do with this, I am not sure why they're continually being brought up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/20 12:00 AM
1	If women are innately more valuable, then why are male gender roles considered to be more important and necessary than traditional female gender roles? No, their point was that we value their lives differently, not that they're vicitimized more. You should go back and re-read that posters comments, they're very interesting and well thought out; you're responding like you're skimming rather than reading.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/20 11:43 PM
2	Pregnant women are more likely to die from murder by partner than anything else. Yes, definitely, every time a woman has sought help from their doctor it has ended badly. 🙄 It could go a million different ways. They likely don't sit them down and talk to them for an hour and plan the whole thing out, they arrange a time or place to meet privately or give them someone else to contact when they are able to. Like there are people who spend their lives researching and carrying out this stuff, I think theyve thought of all this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/20 06:55 PM
1	Pregnant women are more likely to die from murder by partner than anything else. Yeah I get asked who I live with and if I feel safe at home every year at my annual exam. Even at my physical at the GP I get that question now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/20 05:46 PM
1	Pregnant women are more likely to die from murder by partner than anything else. Then they help her find resources to get out of the situation........	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/20 05:35 PM
2	What age do u think women hit the wall Sorry, baseline view is too crazy, I'm not getting into it. I'll say that I'm a woman and they are most definitely real but that's it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/20 09:32 PM
3	What age do u think women hit the wall I didn't place any judgement on you being from 1849, just that you sound like you're straight out of it. Yeah I'm not going to actually indulge your nonsense beliefs with any sort of serious discussion lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/20 09:26 PM
4	What age do u think women hit the wall Lmao are you from 1849???	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/20 08:58 PM
2	Q4W: How Does Not Drinking Effect a Man's SMV esp. Post College? Yep! And haha I'm glad. Hope you're able to find a way to navigate this, I know it's not easy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/20 02:01 PM
2	Q4W: How Does Not Drinking Effect a Man's SMV esp. Post College? I don't mean to be rude but the way you're talking comes off very defensive and strange "I have a fucking barbell in the living room of my one bedroom flat" just sounds so defensive and weird I hope you're not taking that attitude with people when you talk to them. Still strange to me though. I know lots of dudes with abs who go hard every weekend, even weekdays too for some of them. It's not mutually exclusive. If a dude came back to me with that excuse it'd be even stranger. Honestly the only …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/20 01:42 PM
3	Q4W: How Does Not Drinking Effect a Man's SMV esp. Post College? Well, personally I don't do casual sex so it just wouldn't be happening no matter what. But are you asking why you would be unable to make a girl feel comfortable drinking with you one on one at your house, while you stay sober? Idk man that's weird all the way around. I cannot imagine a situation where a guy (assuming it's someone I don't know well either, as you said "get laid" kinda sounds more ONS-y) brings me back to his house and offers me alcohol but refuses to partake himself that I woul…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/20 01:29 PM
1	Q4W: How Does Not Drinking Effect a Man's SMV esp. Post College? It might be a hard no from me. I like to drink, as do my friends, and it would be a real bummer if my bf didn't want to join us. Even just for simple things like a beer after you get home from work, it's just something I'd be missing. I'd also feel weird always drinking alone. Alcohol is almost a bonding thing for me, idk if I could date someone who doesn't drink at all. And of course, sobriety implies there was previously an issue with substance abuse. I understand that it's a disease, and it's…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/20 01:10 PM
1	Q4all for those of you who disagree with rp tactics, what is the best most effective way for a man to obtain casual sex? Mmhhm, about an hour from NYC.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/19 02:43 PM
4	Q4all for those of you who disagree with rp tactics, what is the best most effective way for a man to obtain casual sex? For real. I have a friend who takes girls back to his 2001 Ford explorer, which also happens to be his home, to fuck. He bathes every few weeks and literally has shitty underwear in his car. But I watch it happen, and I watch the same girls go back for more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/19 12:59 PM
1	Are red pill ideas about the lives of above average looking women totally disconnected from reality or am I doing something wrong? Eh I do it and don't think it's weird. I don't smile at random people, but if I'm passing someone and our eyes meet I do a polite smile. It's not an open mouth actual happy smile, it's a polite small small that's just like acknowledging that they're there and we've looked at each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/19 09:32 PM
1	Women who are 30+, what are your honest opinions of MEN around your own age? Oh yeah people are waaaaaay thinner here than average. But I've lived here my whole life, this is average for me. Cause of the orthodoxy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/19 10:05 PM
1	Women who are 30+, what are your honest opinions of MEN around your own age? Idk where to find pictures of average overweight American men lmao I'm going based off what my peers look like And yeah I'm just curious if other places have coopted it or done something similar. Like how Jews make a bigger deal out of Hanukkah cause it happens to be near Christmastime even though it's not an important holiday, just cause everyone else is celebrating something around that time of year.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/19 10:00 PM
1	Women who are 30+, what are your honest opinions of MEN around your own age? Idk I can't see his body but he's not that bad. Seems that picture is 2010? This other 2010 picture https://www.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://www2.pictures.zimbio.com/pc/Leonardo%2BDiCaprio%2BMarion%2BCotillard%2Bred%2Bcarpet%2Bif2Q0HmkxJZm.jpg&imgrefurl=http://www.zimbio.com/Leonardo%2BDiCaprio/pictures/pro/2010?Page%3D3&tbnid=9_0epoBxrwDHKM&vet=1&docid=LnQd093IF_P4nM&w=360&h=240&q=dicaprio+2010&source=sh/x/im#h=240&imgdii=Hpiwg4T34Z7KcM:&vet=1&w=360 He is less attractive than average 25 year…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/19 09:48 PM
1	Women who are 30+, what are your honest opinions of MEN around your own age? Can you give me a picture of him in his 30s idk what he looked like then Do you guys have Russian Thanksgiving?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/19 09:40 PM
1	Women who are 30+, what are your honest opinions of MEN around your own age? Yeah he's worse	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/19 09:38 PM
1	Women who are 30+, what are your honest opinions of MEN around your own age? I'm sorry bro I would've died for leo when he was in his 20s but he is nasty now and nowhere near better than the average 25 year old American.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/19 09:36 PM
8	Why do women on Reddit never admit that they stare at attractive guys? Idk cause I fucking don't. I'm very conscious of social niceties and I'll never be caught staring at anyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/19 09:32 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (27 October 2019) It's just so typical of her. She has no filter and no idea how to act appropriately. Last year his family had 2 older dogs who were not doing well, one was a favorite of bfs mom, another was a favorite of bfs grandma. Mom's favorite had to be put down first, and after it happened mom was wailing, saying "why couldn't it have been "gmas favorite dog" instead????" While gma was right next to her. Just so offensive and rude. Who even thinks that? And yeah I do have to say I have very few regrets. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/19 06:05 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (27 October 2019) Yeah she was a good girl :) Yeah, I do. I was a little worried about it at first. I allowed my bfs mom to see her before we put her down, and I made some mistakes there. I didn't intend for his mom to be in the room but I was unable to say no to her cause I'm weak. She barely knew my cat but she kept crowding her face and petting her feet (which she hates). After the vet confirmed she was gone he gave us some time alone with her and I asked his mom to just leave my bf and I alone with her. She w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/19 05:37 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (27 October 2019) ❤️❤️	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/19 05:27 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (27 October 2019) Thank you ❤️ yeah she was a special girl :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/19 05:27 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (27 October 2019) ❤️❤️	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/19 11:51 PM
5	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (27 October 2019) Well I guess I'll do a kitty update. Unfortunately we had to let her go on Saturday. The vet thinks she had a brain tumor. We tried her on steroids but unfortunately they didn't work. By Saturday morning she was a mess, could barely walk, didn't care to eat or drink, barely responded to touch. It all happened very quickly. It was basically two weeks from when I initially brought her in because she started falling down. It went downhill very fast from there. I miss her terribly. I've had her fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/19 08:31 PM
3	Did TRP win the debate? Oh that's awesome!!! The commute time especially makes such a difference! And omg right??? It's all so incredibly foreign to me I'm like are you sure we are living in the same place???? Oh haha whoopsies yeah that doesn't bode well does it lol. My dad works from home too and he often goes to a coffee shop to do some work there, just to make him feel like he's out in society haha. And lol yes!! And it's just the same nonsense over and over and over again, you know?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/19 08:22 PM
4	Did TRP win the debate? Oh good luck, I hope it goes well! And yeah, for sure. Im surprised I ever felt the desire to argue with people who believe this stuff in the first place haha. And exactly, you never get anywhere. I live my perfect BP life and they'll never believe me. It's fine, hopefully they'll get it eventually. And yeah, there's definitely people here that I like a lot. I'll stick around prolly, but not as often. And lol you'll get some more at the new job, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/19 05:30 PM
8	Did TRP win the debate? Yeah honestly in the past few months I've quit smoking and my participation here has gone waaaaaay down. Now that I don't have little 5/10 minute breaks I need to fill I find myself bored and annoyed with a lot of the topics here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/19 04:44 PM
3	Do women have completely different standards of what's appropriate and what's not depending on how attractive a man is? In some ways yes, I've found that there are different standards for different people, and attractiveness might influence it, but I think it's mostly attitude that does it. I have a friend who doesn't give a fuck. He simply does not care about anything. He is held (by those who know him) to an entirely different set of rules. This man can (and has) walk out of a crowded bar, walk about 20 feet, and take a shit in between two cars. That is met with a laugh and "oh jeez, there he goes again!" If an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/19 11:34 AM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (20 October 2019) Thank you ❤️❤️❤️	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/19 04:50 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (20 October 2019) Thank you ❤️❤️. She's at the vet getting blood pressure taken. Also trying to warm her up cause apparently her temp is low too. Vet is thinking she either had a stroke or has a brain lesion. Might be a couple things to try but he didn't seem optimistic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/19 04:16 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (20 October 2019) Thank you ❤️❤️ at the vet now, doing some testing. Fingers crossed!	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/19 04:14 PM
4	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (20 October 2019) Taking possibly stroke kitty to the vet today. Vet likely won't be able to say for sure if she's had a stroke cause that needs an MRI and I'm not doing an MRI on a 14 year old cat. Also if it was a stroke there isn't really anything to do for her anyway. Very nervous. She's having trouble eating and drinking because she can't get her head straight. She gets water in her nose when she tries to drink and has to eat out of the side of her mouth. She hasn't eaten in a day and I finally just got her …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/19 12:22 PM
1	Q4W: Do you feel men today obsess over women too much? Yeah. I think they're supposed to be invisible or something on a desktop but I'm always on mobile and they're right there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/19 04:10 PM
10	I started giving short men a chance Thanks for checking that. I was reading and I was like uhhh I'm pretty sure this isn't a woman lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/19 12:38 PM
1	Shout Out to my Soft Harem of PPD Bitches He's so fucking cringey and broey and braggy and annoying. He's the one that keeps posting pictures of his back I think lol. I've always found him so cringey and annoying. Apparently I wasn't the only one!	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/19 05:13 PM
2	Women, which would you rather want - bad sex with a really hot man, or intense mind-blowing orgasms given to you by a really ugly man? That's a good point haha. I've missed a lot of it though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/19 04:53 PM
2	Women, which would you rather want - bad sex with a really hot man, or intense mind-blowing orgasms given to you by a really ugly man? This is gross	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/19 04:49 PM
6	The Invisible Effects of Sex before Marriage: a debate Lol yeah it's so ridiculous. Everything in the world always come back to dick haha. Thank you 🙂. If it was a stroke she might be able to recover, they're not as bad in animals as in humans. It's hard to watch though, she has trouble walking and falls down a lot, she walks in circles, and she's really confused and disoriented. But atm it's kinda just wait and see if she gets better 😕	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/19 01:14 PM
6	The Invisible Effects of Sex before Marriage: a debate Lmao what is this garbage. I've had a "thousand cock stare" for the past couple days, even though I've got a really low count. My cat likely had a stroke and is very ill, so I've kinda been staring off unhappily with no twinkle in my eye. But yes, it's actually cause I've had too many dicks, not cause I am worried about my sick, possibly dying cat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/19 11:42 AM
9	Why would any decent looking woman (5/10+) ever want to work a single day in their life? Lmao "life of relaxation and luxury" bro my mom was a sahm my entire life and my dad makes far, far more than 60k a year. Her life was not relaxation and luxury lol she was taking constant care of my sister and I and the entire household. Family shit came up and she had to deal with a ton of bullshit. Things went wrong with my sister and I, she needed to deal with that. It's not relaxation and luxury, not at all. She raised us while my dad was gone from 6 am to 8 pm. And now that we've grown up …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/19 08:32 PM
1	Why do guys here want women to get drafted and not just help get rid of the draft? So that whole pearl harbor thing, we were supposed to just lie back and take that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/19 05:30 PM
5	Why do people on PPD virtue signal AND troll? Wow, that's really surprising; I always thought blue was far more nuanced than red. Red is do x, get y result, awalt, etc. the whole thing is systematized and leaves little room for nuance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/19 02:41 PM
2	[Serious] Anybody have any experience with IBS? Oh nooooo they're so tasty! It baffles me how different we all are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/19 03:34 AM
3	[Serious] Anybody have any experience with IBS? Oh jeez that's no good. In all likelihood the gp is right, but it's very frustrating that doctors just hand out that diagnosis without any testing; the symptoms of ibs are very vague and similar to other things. Yes, def see gastro. Shell prolly have to have colonoscopy and endoscopy to rule out chrons/UC, prolly testing to rule out infection too. She should also ask for a SIBO test, it's a simple breath test (just time consuming) that is sometimes overlooked (it was in my case) Unfortunately th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/19 03:08 AM
2	[Serious] Anybody have any experience with IBS? Are you certain it's ibs? Does she have that diagnosis? Has she been tested for an infection, or for sibo? Has she had a colonoscopy or endoscopy? If she has an ibs diagnosis, is it ibs c or ibs d?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/19 02:54 AM
1	What keeps you from cheating? And I'm not ever tempted to do it with anyone but my bf.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/19 08:58 PM
2	What keeps you from cheating? I do absolutely nothing. Like it takes absolutely no effort to not cheat. I have never once in my entire life been tempted to cheat on a partner, even when I was checked out and knew the relationship was over. It's like, what keeps you from smoking crack? Nothing, you just don't want to, there is no temptation to smoke crack.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/19 08:29 PM
3	What do PPD posters look like? Post pictures from a burner acct here Omg I do not mean to be rude but are you trying to look angry in those pictures?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/19 05:52 PM
3	So when do men hit “the wall”? Yeah lol. Don't feel too bad though, he turned out to be a big asshole. He took his roomates rent money for months and never paid the landlord, when the landlord had enough and kicked them out he fled to another state! All a big shock to the poor roommate who had been good friends with him for years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/19 02:39 PM
1	Femininity is black,masculinity is light (Study).society has it all wrong. Huh?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/19 02:22 PM
6	So when do men hit “the wall”? Welcome to the club 🥂🥂🥂🥂🥂	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/19 02:21 PM
4	So when do men hit “the wall”? Yeah that's why those are two different sentences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/19 01:14 PM
7	Will prophylactic mastectomies lead to a world without breasts? No I don't think that's correct. Perhaps that could be seen as an extra benefit to women who get it done, but the reason women do it is they have a higher chance of aggressive breast cancer and they do not want to go through treatment and possibly die.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/19 11:44 AM
10	Will prophylactic mastectomies lead to a world without breasts? Because unlike most other body parts, you don't actually need it to live. Like cutting off your leg affects your quality of life much more than cutting off your breast.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/19 11:37 AM
11	So when do men hit “the wall”? I knew a guy who hit the wall at like 17. He had a dad face, it's hard to explain but his face just looked like a 40 year old man's. He also went bald in high school!!! And he just naturally had a short and stocky frame. I remember when I first met him I was convinced he was a (very bad) undercover cop lol. But I think most guys around late 20s. I'm starting to see that my friends who didn't take care of themselves are looking a little rough. A couple have a receding hair line and it ages them l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/19 11:30 AM
7	Will prophylactic mastectomies lead to a world without breasts? Nah I think they just don't wanna die.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/19 11:25 AM
2	Femininity is black,masculinity is light (Study).society has it all wrong. Wait what, those are both female hormones	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/19 10:48 AM
2	Women, post pics of the men you like physically. Omg I loled so hard I woke the bf up hahahahahahhahaha	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/19 03:47 AM
1	Purge week is showing us that “incel”/ blackpill opinions prevail due to logic. Lol I like you on Purge week! Got the y'all's coming out haha	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/19 03:14 AM
7	How did your parents' relationship(s) affect your own views on love? Prolly a lot. My parents have a near perfect marriage. Been married 35 years, dealt with a fair amount of shit during that time. They very clearly love each other and enjoy each other. Their marriage is like egalitarian as fuck, but really at the end of the day I think my mom would have the final say if they absolutely disagreed on something. Well, not always though, I can think of times when my dad won out. Idk, for real it's been pretty equal. My dad worked his big fancy job and my mom was a s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/19 05:20 PM
2	Theory I have about the 80/20 rule Yeah I agree. The idea of "average" on this sub is so skewed it blows my mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/19 08:07 PM
4	Men are more likely to leave ill wives. Women are more likely to leave unemployed husbands. Which, if any, is more f-ed up? I disagree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/19 08:18 PM
3	Men are more likely to leave ill wives. Women are more likely to leave unemployed husbands. Which, if any, is more f-ed up? No, I do not see why they would. My grandma beat breast cancer at 86. My great uncle is 95 and has had untreated skin cancer for the past 3 years; they tried to get him involuntarily admitted to a hospital last month for unrelated reasons but the hospital couldn't do it because he was healthy there was nothing to admit him for. This is the 4th time he has had skin cancer, he has survived all the other times he was diagnosed. They are not amazing success stories, cancer is not 100% deadly all the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/19 08:03 PM
4	Men are more likely to leave ill wives. Women are more likely to leave unemployed husbands. Which, if any, is more f-ed up? I don't think it really makes any sense though. Iirc the study looked at cancer patients and autoimmune disorder patients. Cancer is not always a death sentence, and autoimmune disorders are not either, they're just lifelong struggles. So there's not really an aspect of looking forward to an insurance payout. Especially considering these conditions require treatment, a whole lot of money is being spent, with no guarantee of a return. I really think that the possibility of a life insurance payout…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/19 07:50 PM
5	Men are more likely to leave ill wives. Women are more likely to leave unemployed husbands. Which, if any, is more f-ed up? I don't think many are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/19 06:40 PM
6	Men are more likely to leave ill wives. Women are more likely to leave unemployed husbands. Which, if any, is more f-ed up? Lol yeah my great aunt is about to hand over all of her money and be broke to put my great uncle in a memory care facility. She took 24/7 care of him, enduring his constant abuse, for two years because she was waiting for that sweet insurance payout. She had hundreds of thousands of dollars in the bank already, but yeah she endured all of that for insurance money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/19 06:38 PM
1	What makes men so shocked that women use makeup? I see a lot of shock online Link it. And on the second part, just no dude. Do you mean Botox or something? Otherwise I'm just gunna assume you have a visual impairment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/19 01:36 AM
1	What makes men so shocked that women use makeup? I see a lot of shock online That doesn't make anybody look happier. You're absolutely inaccurate in your description. I don't care if you don't like makeup or not bro, like literally nobody cares if you think it looks good or not, that's totally fine and not what the issue is here. However, you're just making things up, which is where people are having a problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/19 01:31 AM
1	What makes men so shocked that women use makeup? I see a lot of shock online You need to link those then, because the person making the claim is responsible for providing evidence. Makeup does not cause wrinkles, that makes no sense and is not how skin works. Makeup with oil in it can cause pimples, but most formulations are oil free and non-comedogenic, you kinda have to go out of your way to find stuff that isn't. That sounds like a you problem, not a makeup problem. Most girls don't "artificially arch" their eyebrows, they refine their natural brow shape. Not to menti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/19 09:30 PM
2	What makes men so shocked that women use makeup? I see a lot of shock online Right??? I'm like picturing a native American ceremony with like the thick white face paint and like funky designs in crazy colors all over the face haha.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/19 08:40 PM
0	What makes men so shocked that women use makeup? I see a lot of shock online Yeah I already did, I said everything. Others have pointed various issues out to you already. Makeup does not damage your skin, it does not make it difficult to read facial expressions, it is not formal or high maintenance, it is not applied to fake a happy appearance.....just like everything you have said is wrong. Which is what I said in my original comment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/19 08:33 PM
1	What makes men so shocked that women use makeup? I see a lot of shock online What in the world are you talking about? I'm saying you don't know anything about makeup or the application of it, nothing about myself personally or even women in general. It's just pretty obvious from your comments that you have no idea what you're talking about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/19 08:27 PM
1	What makes men so shocked that women use makeup? I see a lot of shock online Yeah I wasn't talking about the trowel part. You do not seem to have like anything right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/19 08:18 PM
3	What makes men so shocked that women use makeup? I see a lot of shock online .....I don't think you actually know anything about makeup.....	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/19 08:13 PM
3	Why are young men more likely than young women to realize that sex and orgasms are important? I downvoted a guy yesterday cause he said something like "falling faster than the jumpers on 9/11" and I don't even remember what his argument was about but I was just like fuck this dude lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/19 08:03 PM
5	What makes men so shocked that women use makeup? I see a lot of shock online Right?? My makeup is going to absolutely save my skin. Between the spf in it and the actual physical layer of it on my skin, my face rarely ever sees the sun. It's always 2-3 shades lighter than the rest of me. My face is nearly the same shade as the underside of my boobs! 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/19 05:05 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (21 September 2019) Yes yes yes!!!! I used the plastic bags for the litter box!!! I had to buy small sized plastic bags at the store and I was like wtf these used to be free why am I paying for them??? My bf bought a litter genie a week ago so it doesn't matter anymore I guess but i was so mad about it!! Not gunna lie I saved a couple stew Leonard's bags as a keepsake lol. And I didn't even realize our food tax went up lol. And it includes alcohol too?????? I just want him to legalize weed. I don't even smoke, I do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/19 01:43 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (21 September 2019) It's the worst!!! I want to save the planet and everything but I'm so mad they're forcing it on me!!! I have like a million reusable bags but I alwaaaaays forget to bring them!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/19 01:28 AM
1	Are bad characteristics associated with women who don't get a lot of male attention? I mean I sound awful but I promise I'm not trying to be mean....are you a little on the weird or kinda eccentric side? Cause I mean like I haven't seen girls act like this since like middle school. Not even just them, either, the comments that the guy was making are really fucking weird and inappropriate. All these people sound just awful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/19 07:09 PM
3	Are bad characteristics associated with women who don't get a lot of male attention? This is seriously so fucking weird and strange and I've never seen anything like that. Where in the world are you working??? Get the fuck out of there, definitely get a new job. These people sound ridiculously trashy and just like all around awful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/19 05:55 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (21 September 2019) That's good, glad to hear it! Did the whole thing fuck with you a bit? It's kinda freaked me out having my body suddenly mess up out of nowhere. I've never really had anything go wrong with me before, definitely has made me think a little differently.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/19 07:01 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (21 September 2019) Hmm. And oh, that's the same thing that happened to me! How old were you? Did it go okay?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/19 06:57 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (21 September 2019) Hey, does anyone know if anesthesia can give you weird dreams for weeks afterward? I had general anesthesia for like an hour a month ago (can't believe it been that long already!) And ever since I've been waking up from a dream around 6:30 or 7 in the morning. The dreams have all kinda had an element of chaos and me being out of control. Like in one I was trying to help an injured horse, and while I was on the phone with the vet my bfs mom shot the horse. Another one I was on an island when a ti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/19 06:42 PM
1	How has your time on PPD affected your view of the other sex? Hahahaha what are your impressions?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/19 05:14 PM
9	How has your time on PPD affected your view of the other sex? Maybe you just didn't notice it? I looked like a girl going out and doing nothing but getting drunk and having a good time to anyone who didn't know me very, very well. I'm an artist, but I rarely talk about that because I don't want to sound pretentious or full of myself. I build model ships, but almost nobody in my life knows about that (only people who have lived with me) because it's fucking weird so I don't say anything about it. I horseback ride, none of my partying friends saw me getting …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/19 12:43 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (14 September 2019) Aaaaah yes that's fantastic!! Do you have the "museum in the street" ones too? We have like the old metal ones that are older that just mark a few very important spots, and then we have the museum in the street ones that are much newer and have pictures and everything. I know a couple towns here all have the same ones. And omg yeah, it totally is! It blows my mind. Like the battle in my town happened on main St, like one of the busiest roads in town that I drive down every day! That big condo co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/19 05:37 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (14 September 2019) It's been a good class so far, I'm really realizing how much of the lead up to the revolution was just drunk people complaining in bars and getting belligerent lol. Aaaaah I've never been! And right?? I get proud of the dumbest things lol. General Wooster was mortally wounded in the battle in my town, and the spot where he was hurt happens to be right on a main road, they put a sign saying like "on this spot general David Wooster was mortally wounded on April 27, 1777" or something like that, an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/19 05:14 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (14 September 2019) Oh btw I'm taking a class this semester, it's an in depth study on the revolution, and I'm like way more proud to live here than usual lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/19 03:53 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (14 September 2019) Ayyyyyy! Omg though what does conmass refer to? The general CT/MA area? Or just like the border area?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/19 03:47 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (14 September 2019) 🍻🍻🍾🥂🎉🎉🎊	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/19 03:45 PM
1	Why do you think parents dont care about modesty of their sons as compared to their daughters? Idk, I'd think it should be the other way around, if anything! Boys have a lot of stuff going on down there, girls it's like....nothing haha it's like a mannequin. Never noticed this myself though. Didn't have any young boys in my family to have anything to compare it to. My sister and I were never allowed to run around naked. Like sometimes we could be without a shirt, but we always had a diaper on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/19 10:53 AM
3	(Q4W) Ladies, why did you get married? Why do you want to get married? Oh, sorry, I thought you said except children. I already said love "it's what you do when two people love each other and want to spend the rest of their lives together" Children yeah I'd have to be married in order to have a kid but I'm undecided on whether or not I want them in the first place so it's not an immediate concern of mine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/19 08:27 PM
3	(Q4W) Ladies, why did you get married? Why do you want to get married? I want to get married cause that's what you do when two people love each other and want to spend the rest of their lives together. I'm from a UMC/uc town, everyone gets married. If you're with a forever bf/gf it's weird and they prolly aren't actually serious about you. Also some stuff with my family in particular, my grandparents would die if they found out my bf and I were living together before marriage. And I find having someone to make health decisions for me if I'm not able to to be a very…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/19 07:34 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (14 September 2019) Thaaaaaaaank you! My bf (lived in the us his whole life with native born us parents) says this and I'm like omg you can't say that to people! He said it to me today (while asking me questions about what to get at the grocery store) and I was like omg you're the one talking to me and he said he just means "I'll let you go" and nobody else has been bothered by it before. I'm petty and trying to prove that they just haven't said anything, but they almost definitely picked up on it and it does not m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/19 12:39 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (14 September 2019) Yeah I mean if they explicitly say "okay, let me go" as a native English speaker.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/19 12:36 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (14 September 2019) Okay you guys, I have a question. You know how people, when ending a conversation on the phone, will often say "okay, I'll let you go" If you were talking to someone on the phone, and they instead said "okay, let me go" would you consider that rude? If not rude, would it kinda throw you off a bit?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/19 11:52 PM
2	Is female sexuality actually a trap for men? Yeah, thanks for taking it well when I was a little rude myself haha. And same here, all good 🙂	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/19 11:14 PM
2	Is female sexuality actually a trap for men? It just came off like that the way you were doing it. No biggie if that's not how you meant it, just letting you know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/19 11:09 PM
0	Is female sexuality actually a trap for men? Try not doing the pretentious bolding next time please, it's pretty rude. I often agree with what you say, but honestly this left a really bad taste in my mouth about you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/19 11:05 PM
1	Is female sexuality actually a trap for men? Both	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/19 11:03 PM
1	Is female sexuality actually a trap for men? Yeah the part in disagreeing with is "rationalizing their own thinking process onto men". There's nothing about rationalizing any thinking process going on here, I am wary because of things that have been said to me, not because I behave or view things in any particular way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/19 10:52 PM
2	Is female sexuality actually a trap for men? No, I don't think so, but it's always something I had my guard up against. Edit: not true in all cases is what I should have said. Yeah, sometimes it's totally true, but sometimes it's not at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/19 10:41 PM
1	Is female sexuality actually a trap for men? About your "girls scared guys just saying nice things to get in her pants because that's the same way she operates" theory, my sample size is just one too, but I don't think it's right. I was always worried that whatever a guy was saying to me was made up just to get sex, and it didn't have anything to do with me doing sexual things to get a guys commitment (never did that, soooo). It was cause I had explicitly been told that guys will do or say anything to get laid. That's all haha.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/19 08:23 PM
1	Ladies, what physical features do you find attractive on men and in your opinion who are the hottest male celebrities? Haha that's what I like about him though. I mean I find him to be more attractive than the average person, but he looks like a normal guy, just an attractive one. I don't like guys who seem like idk, like too perfect, fake, like the stereotypical image of a hot guy, like some of the pictures OP posted here. No guy OP posted did anything for me, at all. I like guys who look normal. Like sure, on the more attractive side of normal, but normal haha.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/19 05:38 PM
1	Ladies, what physical features do you find attractive on men and in your opinion who are the hottest male celebrities? Yah fucking all if it. He has big, expressive eyes, a somewhat refined, non-bulbous, more angular nose, and has lips that are slightly fuller. I hate those super thin lips that are like almost non-existent, they like actually offend me and I do not like to look at them lol. But yeah, that's what is attractive about his face. He also has a nice overall face shape. Like I know that I'm biased cause I love him, but like I don't think that it's difficult to see that he's objectively a good looking g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/19 04:26 PM
2	Ladies, what physical features do you find attractive on men and in your opinion who are the hottest male celebrities? Don't care, he's gorge. And nah, I don't think so. I remember thinking when I first saw him that I liked that about him, he kept his hair short and his face itself was just attractive, he didn't need to rely on his hair to look good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/19 02:46 PM
6	Ladies, what physical features do you find attractive on men and in your opinion who are the hottest male celebrities? I'm sorry, I don't mean to be rude, but like......you're not a woman. He is extremely masculine looking. It doesn't have to be peak masculinity to be too masculine to be attractive	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/19 01:35 PM
4	Ladies, what physical features do you find attractive on men and in your opinion who are the hottest male celebrities? No, I've never seen any movies he's been in. Just looked him up on Google, he looks like a caricature of a masculine man and he is waaaaaaay too muscular. He is not attractive. Like someone else said, gay men might like him though. I hate Cena cause I find him unattractive and because I used to watch wrestling with my ex and I hated his persona. I like much less bulky guys, with more feminine faces. Like Johnny Depp (when he was younger, looks weird and old now), and a couple musicians I really …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/19 01:21 PM
5	Ladies, what physical features do you find attractive on men and in your opinion who are the hottest male celebrities? Both, but I was taking about Lindgren in particular. I hate John cena.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/19 01:01 PM
6	Ladies, what physical features do you find attractive on men and in your opinion who are the hottest male celebrities? I'll be another woman confirming he is just too masculine. He looks like a cartoon. And he was way, way too muscular.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/19 12:57 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (07 September 2019) Personally, it's not the nicotine that I'm addicted to. Like yes, I'm sure I was physically addicted to it, but it only takes 3 days for that to get out of your system, that's the easy part. The part that's hard is that you come to enjoy smoking. You like the way it tastes, you like having something to do with your hands. It's something you often do with friends, so you associate it with good times. But also its something you do as stress relief, so you want it when you're stressed too, go make …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/19 01:57 PM
3	Q4W: Explain the preference to marry same-age Are you having a good time?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/19 03:25 AM
3	Q4W: Explain the preference to marry same-age That's not older men, that's in the same age range.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/19 03:16 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (07 September 2019) Omg pics of the baby???	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/19 11:34 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (07 September 2019) Really, my experience isnt very dissimilar to yours. I'm like about an hour from NYC in a suburb. We all got cars at 16 cause like you really actually need one, you cannot get around if you don't have one. There is like literally no public transportation. There is a shuttle bus that will pick up people at like 1 location and drive them to the train station to get to NYC for commuters but like literally that is it. Nobody I know moved out at 18 though. Kids went to college but they came home for …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/19 11:29 PM
2	As a woman, what's your opinion on softbois? Omg that's fantastic, congrats dude!! I'm so happy to hear everything's going well! Keep it up and have a great time!!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/19 11:23 PM
2	Are GenZ women socially inept phone addicts? Idk. I'm a young millennial, almost gen z (I'm 26) and that is not my experience in the slightest. My sister is a gen z and she used social media to meet new people when she moved to a new city, but hangs out with them regularly in person and has had no trouble finding multiple relationships. Like for sure, social media is a big thing, but I don't regularly see people ignoring real life for it in a significant way. You gotta have the experiences to post in the first place! Like girls who are sit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/19 11:11 PM
2	Can someone be so good-looking that they become a "freak"? Aaah I see what you mean! It's a weird feeling!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/19 08:20 PM
3	Can someone be so good-looking that they become a "freak"? There is a guy on tv that I see sometimes, he's like a political commentator or something, he gets interviewed every once in a while. He's a black guy (like very dark, deeply black), looks to be tall. Idk his name. His face is absolutely perfect. It's like 100% symmetrical and every feature is the ideal version of that feature. He is beautiful. He legit 100% looks like a Greek statue, he is totally perfect. But it's very unsettling! It's like watching something that's not real, because he is too…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/19 08:10 PM
2	As a woman, what's your opinion on softbois? Omg hi!!!! How are you??	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/19 02:00 PM
6	Q4W: Explain the preference to marry same-age It's been so awful. He was taken to the hospital a week ago and the my aunt was in with him, and the doctors would go "your wife" and he would cut them off and say "no, that's not my wife, my wife is young and thin!" Like he's said way worse stuff to her, but that just like.....ugh that must be terrible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/19 01:29 PM
3	Q4W: Explain the preference to marry same-age Like 3 ish years. 5 would be like the absolute max now(I'm 26 now) but when I'm older I'm sure it'd be okay. Never more than like 7 years though. But I have a bf (who is 2 years older than me) so hopefully I won't have to worry about that!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/19 11:39 AM
2	Women aren't getting the best from men in their 30s+ either, that's not a male only phenomena. Okay?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/19 02:09 AM
12	Q4W: Explain the preference to marry same-age My great aunt is around 25 years younger than my great uncle. He's 95 and has Alzheimer's (also untreated skin cancer for like 3 years and he's still somehow totally fine). My aunt cared for him for 2 years, 24/7, nonstop. He became a total dick to her, he screamed at her, called her names, woke her up in the middle of the night, called the cops on her, and finally last week he got up in the middle of the night and started hitting her. He's now finally in a home because obviously he can't be wit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/19 11:57 PM
3	Women aren't getting the best from men in their 30s+ either, that's not a male only phenomena. Idk they just own boats lol. Some have their parents older boats and some just got their own.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/19 11:07 PM
31	Q4W: Explain the preference to marry same-age It never struck me to ever be involved with someone older. I was never interested in that, to me older men were either just neutral, non-sexual beings, or they were old and gross if they were trying to cross a sexual boundary. You know how if you're not gay, the idea of dating a dude is just not an option, just not something that ever even pops into your head? Same thing with older men, for me. Just not even on my radar. Of course there are the practical aspects of wanting someone your own age a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/19 09:45 PM
1	Women aren't getting the best from men in their 30s+ either, that's not a male only phenomena. Yeah, you're not kidding! I've run into that problem myself lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/19 09:01 PM
1	Women aren't getting the best from men in their 30s+ either, that's not a male only phenomena. Aaaaah omg! Well you let him know that my mom (58) and my dad (63) live on the west coast of Florida and they drove alllllll the way across the state to Miami to see the rolling Stones two weeks ago! With a hurricane expected to hit in the next day or two no less! He has no excuse!!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/19 07:55 PM
3	At what age do women start losing their youth? Yeah it could just be individual differences. The girl I know also smoked and drank, idk if she quit smoking or not though. I can even see it on myself though. I'm pretty white (Russian, English, and Norwegian, about as fair and blonde as you can get lol) and like 5 years ago I got a pretty bad burn on my right side, mostly on my right shoulder. After that I now have a ton of freckles on my right shoulder. I don't have them on my left. They're permanent sun damage. My skin still has the same tex…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/19 07:53 PM
9	At what age do women start losing their youth? Yeah, for sure! I know a girl who used to tan like crazy. She was like a light skinned Italian, but she'd tan till the point she was like deep bronze. She's only a couple years older than me (so she's like 28 or so now) and God she looks awful! Like she is scary looking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/19 06:28 PM
2	Women aren't getting the best from men in their 30s+ either, that's not a male only phenomena. You said men become more attractive with age, that now they can take women out on their sailboats and airplanes, which is not an accurate generalization. In order to be more attractive they also need to maintain their physical appearance, so they need to stay fit and attractive. In order to get the resources to buy a boat and/or plane, you need to do well. So a man becoming more attractive as he ages is entirely dependent on doing well and staying attractive, which is not a given. And yeah I don…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/19 04:59 PM
1	Women aren't getting the best from men in their 30s+ either, that's not a male only phenomena. But neither is a guy who does super well, stays fit and attractive, and buys a sailboat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/19 04:45 PM
2	Women aren't getting the best from men in their 30s+ either, that's not a male only phenomena. Just gaining more resources doesn't mean someone is more attractive. Like if a guy works himself to the bone to have a bunch of money or have a bunch of stuff, but is never able to use it, is always exhausted and overworked, he's not more attractive than when he had less but was able to have fun.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/19 04:42 PM
1	Women aren't getting the best from men in their 30s+ either, that's not a male only phenomena. You can't really generalize that though. Some guys fuck up and end up living with their parents into their 30s, develop an addiction, or just straight up become boring. They're not more attractive than they were when they were younger. That's entirely contingent on doing well, which is obviously not anything near a guarantee. Most guys I know are just as attractive now as they were when they were younger. A couple guys went down cause they fucked up, a couple guys went up cause they were losers …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/19 04:37 PM
6	Women aren't getting the best from men in their 30s+ either, that's not a male only phenomena. I'm just saying the stuff they have (whether it be a boat or something else) is also had by younger men as well. It's not like younger men are barred from having cool stuff lol. To stay with the boat example, we sometimes go out with a guy who's like 34 I think. And he goes home way earlier than we do, cause like he's fucking tired. We stay out into the night, or even stay on the boat overnight cause we're partying. That's the thing, for a similarly young woman, why would she wanna go out with t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/19 03:53 PM
6	Women aren't getting the best from men in their 30s+ either, that's not a male only phenomena. Idk man I know plenty of mid 20s guys with boats. My bf had a boat when he was 18. Like I get that sure when you're older you have more stuff, but there's also a lot of guys who are younger and have that same stuff.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/19 03:43 PM
6	Women aren't getting the best from men in their 30s+ either, that's not a male only phenomena. Totally. My bf and I got together when I was 21 and he was 22 (almost 23) and yeah I'm happy about that. We got to share the crazy experiences of growing up together. We got to do the staying up drinking until 6 am every weekend thing. We got to do the carefree, young, nothing matters, no consequences shit together. That was fucking banging. Even now, I'm 26 and he's 28, we'll go out together and he's the one who gets tired and wants to go home before I do (granted, he works full time and im in …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/19 03:41 PM
3	Q4W: How do your feelings or behaviours change around a guy you find attractive? Omg your edit yes exactly! I have done that exact thing. Like I'll be laying in bed with my bf and look at his legs and be like damn that leg hair is hot. Like wtf no, it's not!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/19 01:08 AM
2	Q4W: How do your feelings or behaviours change around a guy you find attractive? Ah so rude! 😡	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/19 01:04 AM
15	Q4W: How do your feelings or behaviours change around a guy you find attractive? If I am attracted to him I'll be hyper aware of everything I do, I'll be laying attention to every move I make and worrying about how hell interpret it. Doesn't change from guy to guy, it's a general infatuation feeling that doesn't change. A bit of excitement, a bit of anxiety, and eagerness to do things with him (not necessarily sexual, just like shared activities). Just being around a guy who is attractive, not attracted to, nothing changes. Edit: don't really hide it, but don't really need t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/19 08:19 PM
6	Why do men not select for height in mates? I think it's more likely that we're attracted to what is difficult to obtain, what the wealthy people have. Like hundreds of years ago we preferred women with some extra weight, because the rich women were able to afford to eat well, and didn't have to do any manual labor, so they put on a little weight. Now that calorie dense food is easily accessible and cheaper than healthy food, now that we don't have to walk or ride a horse, now that we don't have to do physical labor in order to survive, i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/19 07:46 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (07 September 2019) Whoohhoo, sounds like a good time lol. And yeah, I'll be okay. I'm going to teach, but I live in the highest paying state for teachers (or the 2nd highest, idr) so i won't be buying a gilded mansion, but I'll be okay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/19 05:51 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (07 September 2019) Oh that sounds awesome! I've really enjoyed this class so far because it's focusing a lot on social history; obviously women (for the most part) weren't out there on the international stage influencing the grand events of history, so it's much more focused on daily life or local events. Ive taken a few social and cultural history classes before as well, and it's definitely my favorite kind. Like of course knowing what happened is important, but I find it to be so much more interesting to underst…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/19 05:47 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (07 September 2019) Yeah it's been very interesting so far! Lots of really cool primary sources I haven't seen before. And yeah I think my teacher likely requested it this way, I've known her for a few years and her work has generally been about colonial new England, but she has a specific interest in women's history.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/19 05:40 PM
2	Q4A Opportunist or Entitled? .... I want my £90 back because my date called me fat. Right??? I had surgery 2 weeks ago and my diet has consisted of soup (often creamy kinds), grilled cheese, and cookies. I also haven't done any kind of exercise besides extremely limited walking. I've gained 4 lbs in that two weeks (actually prolly less, cause my weight prior to surgery I was naked, weight 2 weeks later I had clothes on). I am doing like everything that makes you gain weight, so that would be like 8 lbs max in a month. And obviously if I were just like living like a normal perso…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/19 05:37 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (07 September 2019) Omg you guys I can finally be that liberal arts student in a gender studies class!!! I registered for "women in history" this semester, when I registered it was listed as a history class so I was like yeah cool. Now it's also listed as a women's studies class!!! Hahahaha I'm so excited. It's still very much a history class (the teacher is a history professor) but most of the kids taking it aren't history majors. It's been an interesting class so far though, I'm very glad I've taken it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/19 01:58 PM
1	The gender focused movements (TRP and Feminism) makes men and women paranoid and anxious for no reason. Hahaha right??? My bf went to college in TN and his textbooks called the civil war "the war of northern aggression" lol!!! He had black friends who grew up in the south who tried to tell him that the civil war wasn't about slavery. And I took an entire class on the antebellum era recently and yeah there are some elements of states rights in the civil war but it was primarily slavery, and the right for the states to engage in "the peculiar institution" lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/19 03:06 PM
1	The gender focused movements (TRP and Feminism) makes men and women paranoid and anxious for no reason. Hahahaha And yeah, I totally agree. Like not that the left doesn't engage in some shady shit too, but it seems much more like nefarious coming from the right. I def get a sense of them like taking advantage of those who don't have access to quality education and/or those who do not have the ability (whether it be due to time constraints, resources, interest, whatever) to question what they say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/19 02:45 PM
1	The gender focused movements (TRP and Feminism) makes men and women paranoid and anxious for no reason. Absolutely. It's bewildering to me that they align themselves with the party of small government and then demand massive government intervention in people's lives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/19 02:36 PM
9	The gender focused movements (TRP and Feminism) makes men and women paranoid and anxious for no reason. Then why did you even ask that question? Edit: downvoting isn't allowed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/19 02:16 PM
11	The gender focused movements (TRP and Feminism) makes men and women paranoid and anxious for no reason. Do you think planned Parenthood exclusively provides abortions? That's a very small portion of the services they offer. Do you live in like Oklahoma or something? How do you not know this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/19 02:13 PM
6	The gender focused movements (TRP and Feminism) makes men and women paranoid and anxious for no reason. Damn, beat me to it and did it waaaaaay better than I did 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/19 02:13 PM
8	The gender focused movements (TRP and Feminism) makes men and women paranoid and anxious for no reason. I don't think that's the case. Medicaid funds can only be used to cover abortions in the case of rape, incest, or if the pregnancy endangers the life of the mother. You can't just walk in and say nah I don't feel like being pregnant and have the state pay for your abortion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/19 02:12 PM
5	"Just don't marry" is not an ultimate solution to divorce rapes because feminists can just change the law and they have done so Did you like do meth or something?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/19 01:07 PM
8	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (07 September 2019) 🙄 he's been like weird lately. A few days ago I said I was attracted to my bfs kind behavior (idr what it was about, he had done something sweet for me) and he said that I was actually wrong and I didn't like his nice behavior I liked him because of something elSe??? When I asked him what that thing was he refused to answer and then told me to go do a tinder experiment to see for myself that the red pill is right. It was like really, really bizarre lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/19 12:09 AM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (25 August 2019) Awww thank you!!! ❤️ And lol omg yeah it's been a lifelong struggle to keep my word count down lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/19 06:49 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (25 August 2019) I'm a 100 on kindness! How did that happen lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/19 05:58 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (25 August 2019) Aaaaah alrighty. Apparently it's been going on for a while, the Xbox alert about connection issues says it was last updated at 1:12 pm! And that's so weird!! I guess they're all connected somehow? I'll fully own up to not properly understanding how they all work haha. That's so annoying though, so not only do you not have tv/internet you also have intermittent data!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/19 03:04 AM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (25 August 2019) Omg that's weird. We have Comcast here and it's working fine, but we watch Hulu/Netflix through the Xbox and that's not working! Won't let us sign in, so can't access any apps! They're acknowledging it's a problem on their end, wonder if it's related to that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/19 02:44 AM
7	Finances are one of the biggest reasons relationships fail and both men and women have distorted ideas about money. Lol you clearly haven't met my family. My dad brings in a lot of money, but my mom's the only reason we keep any of it. She's excellent at managing our money and our properties. My dad just throws cash at everything, like when I asked for a horse he was like "yeah sure I'll get you three" and my mom's the one to be like uhhhh chill out let's get her started with riding lessons first. She's been absolutely integral to building and maintaining their wealth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/19 10:49 PM
1	Rate SMVs of accents. Nope, history major! But linguistics has always been a really big interest of mine, I probably would have majored in it if I had the option!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/19 02:07 PM
2	Rate SMVs of accents. Haha Shakespeare's time is a while different story! They spoke in an accent that is closer to American English, but isn't exactly the same. For example, some of the words he used to rhyme don't rhyme anymore, so we know that they were spoken differently back then! But yeah generally closer to an American accent than a British accent. All those movies of pre-industrial England, of colonial America, they're all totally backwards with their British actors 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/19 11:13 AM
4	Rate SMVs of accents. One of the main ways of figuring it out is analyzing letters, books, newspapers, any written document. English was not standardized until at least the 19th century (and even that is murky, numerous attempts at spelling reform were always met with harsh pushback). So prior to that, nobody spelled anything the same way, there were no rules. You just spelled it how you spoke it. So texts from prior to standardization show how people pronounced things (like look at the way we used to spell "connecti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/19 10:47 AM
4	Rate SMVs of accents. Oh I fucking love accents. They fascinate me omg. On guys, British is nice, Irish is very nice, Australian is nice, and uh like that's it. African and Jamaican/island-y accents are kinda nice too. I don't like southern us, don't like any asian accents, don't like french, Italian is ok I guess but prefer not, don't like Latin American. German is okay too but really eh. I don't like ny accents especially Bronx accents omg no, don't like Boston accents really either But I love a middle aged woman w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/19 02:28 AM
4	Rate SMVs of accents. Wow that's fucking rude. Fun fact for if you ever see him again, the way we speak is actually how English has always been spoken. British accents are the change, not American accents. A little while after the revolution the British wanted to differentiate themselves from our ungrateful, victorious asses, so they started to deliberately speak differently and that became the British accent. But true, non-accented English is American English. So take that, Frenchie. Edit: initially, the Brits were …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/19 02:17 AM
7	68% of women who have reported to have a partner with a small PP admitted to desiring a larger one No, around 5 is the aroused length. Normally it's around 3 inches. This isn't a mystery or anything, just Google it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/19 04:43 PM
2	Can we all just agree that if you don’t want a child you shouldn’t bust a nut inside people you don’t want to knock up? Oh, I don't mean actual words in particular, I mean entire phrases from other languages that are commonly used among the french-speaking people. Like English words are derived from both Latin and Germanic words, but we have entire phrases spoken in another language that have been adopted into our everyday speech (like au contraire). We have many phrases taken from Latin, (ad nauseum) and many taken from french (bon voyage) but we also have them from German, Russian, Spanish. Loanwords, singular …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/19 03:58 PM
4	Can we all just agree that if you don’t want a child you shouldn’t bust a nut inside people you don’t want to knock up? I have no clue. English has a lot of phrases borrowed from other languages. Most likely because America in particular is a nation of immigrants, other languages work their way into our vernacular. does the same thing happen in French?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/19 03:47 PM
2	Discussion: Why are women's exercise clothes such more revealing than men's? I'll have to give it a shot! Ive tried panaches regular bras in the past and they didn't work out, but I've never tried a sports bra from them! Thanks!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/19 03:43 PM
1	Discussion: Why are women's exercise clothes such more revealing than men's? Thanks for the tip! Unfortunately I've tried torrid before, but it's not quite right for me. The band sizes are too big and the cups are too small unfortunately. My size is really uncommon so I've always needed to go to specialty shops to get bras 😕	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/19 03:42 PM
3	Can we all just agree that if you don’t want a child you shouldn’t bust a nut inside people you don’t want to knock up? It's used a lot. Au contraire, au contraire mon ami, au contraire Mon Cheri, au contraire Mon frere, are all commonly used. I must have a different keyboard, my phone recognizes it just fine, but wants to capitalize it all lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/19 03:35 PM
5	Currently 41% of working women are single. Cnn reports by 2030 this number will rise to 45%. Do you think this trend will keep moving forward? I'd assume this does not include ltr, cohabitating, or engaged. When filling out forms I always check "single" even though I'm living with my bf of 4+ years because the other options are "married" or "widowed" and I'm obviously neither of those. I imagine other people in ltrs or engaged would do the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/19 03:16 PM
1	How often do you see AF/BB play out in real life? Almost never. Like can't come up with a single instance of it atm. Also, most of my friends weren't/aren't hooking up with dudes that often, if it all. But even the ones more into casual stuff had LTRs with guys who were like the same level of attractiveness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/19 12:41 AM
1	Discussion: Why are women's exercise clothes such more revealing than men's? Ah damn, thanks for checking though! And thanks for the other suggestions, I really appreciate it! That one on Amazon looks heavy duty lol, I think I'll be trying it out! Thank you so much!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/19 12:01 AM
2	Discussion: Why are women's exercise clothes such more revealing than men's? God it's going to sound like I'm bragging but I swear I'm not, do they come in larger sizes? I've been trying to find sports bras that fit and it's been a struggle. I'm technically a 36 J but I can squeeze myself into a 38 DDD (although I will be spilling out of that).	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/19 11:31 PM
2	Are men more unhappy than women nowadays? Oh for sure, you could prolly spend the rest of your life watching and not get through all the drawing content there lol. There's also a million books you could get as well if you prefer that medium. Yeah, that usually only works if you have a natural talent for it haha. Most people have to actually learn how to do it. They're more than capable of becoming equally as good or better than people with natural talent though, it just takes a bit more work is all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/19 10:17 PM
3	Discussion: Why are women's exercise clothes such more revealing than men's? Yeah, exactly! And that's exactly what I was thinking with the baggy shirts, like omg you'll just be flashing everyone lol. I hate riding in the winter, cause even in an indoor arena it's going to be like 40-50 degrees, so you have to wear layers, cause you obviously heat up as you ride. So you ride for a bit, stop, fiddle with your clothes to take the first jacket off, ride a bit more, stop to fiddle again and take the next jacket off, do your first course and then stop to take your vest off lo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/19 10:09 PM
2	Are men more unhappy than women nowadays? Yes, for sure! Have you looked into different drawing methods? Like using a grid system, or learning the shapes to use as building blocks for figures? There's a ton of different methods out there that some people find very useful. And yeah, you're right that it takes practice, but also just looking at and studying objects in your daily life should help you a lot too. Like just on your way to work or whatever, look at how the light hits the trees, look at the shape and angles of the cars around y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/19 10:02 PM
2	Are men more unhappy than women nowadays? Why don't you just start drawing now? It's like one of the easiest hobbies to get into and takes like almost nothing to get started.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/19 09:44 PM
12	Discussion: Why are women's exercise clothes such more revealing than men's? This is blowing my miiiiiind. I'm wearing yoga pants today. I guess it's cause I'm looking for attention, not because I have 3 surgical incisions on my lower abdomen and yoga pants are way more comfortable on them than jeans. Silly woman brain, I didn't realize that I was actually subconsciously looking for male attention!	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/19 09:19 PM
7	Discussion: Why are women's exercise clothes such more revealing than men's? Cause they need to be tight, loose clothing gets in the way, as others have said. It just serves the purpose. Like in horseback riding you wear breeches, those are tight as well, cause duh you have to move and loose clothing will get stuck all over the tack and could become quite dangerous. Many breeches have suede or silicone patches to grip the saddle better. Those prolly look like weird attention seeking pants if you don't know what they are. Men and women both wear them. These look particula…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/19 09:10 PM
2	(Discussion) How much does having a feminine personality matter? I haven't found that it matters too much. I'm sure there's a bunch of guys who would not want to date me because I'm overall not very feminine (I look feminine, but I'm not a giggling, submissive, demure girl) but I've never had an issue finding or keeping a partner. I think if you're going for a specific type of guy, not having a feminine personality might be a demerit, but that's certainly not the case for all guys. Like my bf would not want to be with me if I were some feminine, submissive pe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/19 05:47 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (25 August 2019) Omg a penis car!!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/19 03:43 PM
1	We know now, from rape kit testing, that the vast majority of rapes are committed by just a few men. These men rape habitually. They rape their girlfriends, their wives and acquaintances or strangers. It's the same men. Over and over again. No, that's not why. My state is on the lower end of untested rape kits, most of them are tested and I get my biopsies back in days, because they're not competing against each other. And also, nobody is dying because of this. Where has there ever been a situation where a person had cancer, got a biopsy done, and it took 4 days instead of 2, the guy died, and the doctor said "oh if only we had found out two days earlier, we could have cured him" like are you high? Edit: you still have yet to provi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/19 03:17 PM
2	We know now, from rape kit testing, that the vast majority of rapes are committed by just a few men. These men rape habitually. They rape their girlfriends, their wives and acquaintances or strangers. It's the same men. Over and over again. You have answered exactly 0 of my points. Also seemed to gloss over the part where I mentioned my 2 biopsies that were done in a matter of days.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/19 03:11 PM
1	We know now, from rape kit testing, that the vast majority of rapes are committed by just a few men. These men rape habitually. They rape their girlfriends, their wives and acquaintances or strangers. It's the same men. Over and over again. So no source. And that's ridiculous. The state or donors pay for rape kits. Private people and insurance pays for biopsies. It's not the same money. And oh, is there a shortage of biochemists? Like come on man. I was in the hospital last week and got my blood work back in like under an hour. A couple years ago I had 2 biopsies done and got the results back in a day or two. Everything is fine, nobody is dying because their biopsies took too long, do you hear yourself? And there is no "rape kit la…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/19 03:07 PM
1	Q4W: Do you feel men today obsess over women too much? Okay then	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/19 02:41 PM
1	We know now, from rape kit testing, that the vast majority of rapes are committed by just a few men. These men rape habitually. They rape their girlfriends, their wives and acquaintances or strangers. It's the same men. Over and over again. Do you have a source for that? And I seriously doubt the same technicians testing rape kits are looking at cancer in the first place. Doesn't make any sense. They're not competing for resources. Like I said before, we can do more than one thing at once. The only issue is money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/19 02:38 PM
1	How much quality time is best for couples? Aaaaaaaah that makes sense now, thank you!	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/19 11:28 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (25 August 2019) I am truly horrified of being that person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/19 11:22 AM
1	Q4W: Do you feel men today obsess over women too much? No, you took what I said to mean worse. I just said they view women differently.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/19 11:12 AM
2	We know now, from rape kit testing, that the vast majority of rapes are committed by just a few men. These men rape habitually. They rape their girlfriends, their wives and acquaintances or strangers. It's the same men. Over and over again. No, we're more than able to do multiple things. The work on cystic fibrosis isn't taking away from the work on cancer, it's different people doing different things. The article I linked was initially written because a young girl was raped and murdered. It turned out that the guy who did it could have been detained at least a year earlier because he had raped another woman and she had a rape kit done, but the kit was never tested. That little girl wouldn't have died. https://www.google.com/amp/s/…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/19 11:09 AM
4	Is there far more pressure on men's physical appearance these days, compared to women? Omg you're not kidding about the blonde and mascara/eyeliner. I wear a full face literally every day of my life, and while I take everything off at night, a little pigment does stay on my lashes. I've been locked in the house all week since the surgery, so I haven't been wearing makeup at all. I look so weird!!!!!! It freaks me out when I catch myself in the mirror cause I'm not used to it at all! 100% truth I have been putting a little mascara on every day now even though I don't leave the hous…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/19 02:42 AM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (25 August 2019) Thank you. And I appreciate your charitable analysis lol. Unfortunately this is not the first time he's done something like this, years earlier he just made up a person and posted all over FB that they died. I hope he does better in the future too. Judging by his reply to my message, he was drinking again, so until he stops that all civil behavior is out the window for him and nothing's off limits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/19 02:24 AM
3	Q4W: Do you feel men today obsess over women too much? Oh, I'm not talking about the way I'm treated by my male friends, I'm talking about how I watch them treat and talk about other girls, whether they be friends, girlfriends, or strangers. And I'm not arguing that treating women as people is the way to get laid (although I do believe that is the case lol) I'm answering the question op asked, "do you think men forget women are people"	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/19 02:02 AM
2	Is there far more pressure on men's physical appearance these days, compared to women? Lol padded underwear	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/19 01:35 AM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (25 August 2019) I entirely disagree. While I'm not interested in fb myself, it's not right to be putting that stuff out there for everyone to see. Other people do care, and other people go on there often. My friend is dead; he would not have allowed that if he were alive and the only reason my ex put it up is because he's not here to do anything about it. He is gone, he can't fight back against anything. Something negative about him out there can't be counteracted by a good experience with him because he is no …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/19 01:01 AM
1	How much quality time is best for couples? Oh no, I'm not worried, just surprised! That seems like a lot of arguing lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/19 11:28 PM
1	Discussion about validation in relationships What does the market have to do with my relationship? Do you mean "you will see in due time" ? You are again making no sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/19 11:18 PM
1	Discussion about validation in relationships Yes, shockingly, I do not believe your assertion that I am mistaken about my enjoyment of my bfs behavior. I do not understand how speaking to strangers on tinder will either prove or disprove that I enjoy my bfs behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/19 11:14 PM
1	Discussion about validation in relationships You are making literally no sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/19 11:10 PM
1	Discussion about validation in relationships You're not answering my questions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/19 11:06 PM
1	Discussion about validation in relationships That's like not how debate works. How will speaking to strangers on tinder prove that I don't actually like my bfs kind behavior?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/19 11:04 PM
3	How much quality time is best for couples? One out of five through ten interactions should be arguments? That sounds insane to me. My bf and I have argued maybe six times over the course of 4 and a half years, and we've lived together for three of those years!	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/19 11:00 PM
1	Discussion about validation in relationships So you're just gunna accuse me of not knowing how I feel, but then refuse to answer when I ask you for what the real explanation might be. Cool.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/19 10:50 PM
2	Q4W: Do you feel men today obsess over women too much? Sorry, I didn't mean to address you specifically, just whoever it is that's doing it	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/19 10:45 PM
1	Discussion about validation in relationships Is there a misunderstanding here? I am asking you, since you believe I do not understand myself, what is the reason my bfs behavior has resulted in an successful relationship. I said that k enjoy the way he treats me, I like it. You said that I actually don't like it. So why are we still together in a happy relationship? What is the explanation that you have that better explains this? Yeah, I have been speaking about my established relationship this entire time, so idk why speaking to strangers …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/19 10:44 PM
1	Discussion about validation in relationships So then what is the explanation for it? Why have I had a successful relationship and maintained sexual attraction to a man who has always made his love and support for me abundantly clear, if my perception that I like those things is wrong? And I have no idea what you're on about. First of all, I'm not making a tinder account lol, my bf would not appreciate that. Also, idk how speaking with women online would explain anything about the established relationship I have with my bf. Edit: what do yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/19 10:37 PM
5	Q4W: Do you feel men today obsess over women too much? Red pill men might have been bp, but they were not normal men, prettymuch by definition. Edit: does the downvoting make the truth hurt less?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/19 10:31 PM
1	Discussion about validation in relationships Oh, here we go, the whole women don't know themselves bit. So the fact that I like the validation, the comfort, and the love that my bf shows me, that I respond positively, have not lost attraction, and have been happily together with my loving and supportive bf for years, is my perception bias? I'm actually wrong about the way I feel?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/19 10:28 PM
5	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (25 August 2019) Why wouldn't I care? He's posting my dead friends intimate, personal, private messages for all of Facebook to see. That's not right. And yeah, I'm a whole lot happier. He took the post down after I messaged him. I think it did a whole lot of good, it's far more respectful of his memory to not have his personal struggles plastered all over FB for his friends and family to see. I don't give a fuck what my ex is doing with his life, I give a fuck about him publicising my friends private, personal t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/19 10:22 PM
1	Discussion about validation in relationships Why would I do all of that? I already know how I operate, I don't need to make a tinder account to figure out what I think of displays of affection and validation lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/19 10:13 PM
5	Q4W: Do you feel men today obsess over women too much? I'm sorry, what are you trying to say? Of course there are sex differences, but some people over-exaggerate those differences. I find that many of the men who participate here on ppd are part of the group that over-exaggerates these differences. Men who I personally know do not over-exaggerate the differences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/19 09:48 PM
24	Q4W: Do you feel men today obsess over women too much? I feel that the men here tend to forget that women are just people. Men in general, not as much. Like most (if not all) of my male friends have absolutely no trouble understanding that, and rarely attribute behavior to a person's gender rather than their individual personality/experiences/whatever. But these are guys who have had female friends since at least high school, so they've always been aware that women are just people. But men here, oh God yeah, it's fascinating how they view women. Edi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/19 09:17 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (25 August 2019) Nah my current bf is the best guy in the world. My ex could be a very nice guy, until the alcoholism and need for validation took over. It's massive insecurity that made him that way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/19 09:01 PM
1	Discussion about validation in relationships Idk man, I feel weird being like "no, because I'm not like that" but that's pretty much what I'm going to say. Sounds like the girl just likes the validation more than the person it's coming from. Personally, I don't respond well to being ignored/ not validated. When my bf and I were first dating, he suddenly became kinda distant. I think we had hooked up once or twice, and suddenly one night when he had planned to hang out he just stopped answering texts and never showed up. By the next morning…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/19 08:35 PM
1	Discussion about validation in relationships No, he's wrong. That shit doesn't apply to me in the slightest. My bf is constantly showing me (and telling me) how much he loves me and I never question it, he never gives me reason to. I have never lost any amount of attraction to him. Idk where this theory comes from but it is so incredibly foreign to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/19 08:20 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (25 August 2019) Ugh I'm thinking about some shit my ex got up to and he's just such a piece of shit. We had a very good friend who accidentally overdosed and died a few years ago. He put up a post on Facebook (this was a while after the friend died, at least a year, maybe more) of screenshots of a conversation he and our friend had. I knew it was our friend because my ex had sent me those screenshots when he originally sent them, almost 2 years earlier. The texts involve the friend agonizing over his addiction,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/19 08:05 PM
4	We know now, from rape kit testing, that the vast majority of rapes are committed by just a few men. These men rape habitually. They rape their girlfriends, their wives and acquaintances or strangers. It's the same men. Over and over again. Yeah, I guess I wasn't born yet when they happened and I live very far from Atlanta lol. But I'm still surprised cause I've always been interested in crime stories and everything. How awful though, I hope they find some better answers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/19 02:55 PM
-1	Q4W: Is there anything a "loser" low-value man can do to raise his chances on Tinder while still being himself? Why do you think you're a loser? What about yourself specifically makes you low value?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/19 02:13 PM
6	We know now, from rape kit testing, that the vast majority of rapes are committed by just a few men. These men rape habitually. They rape their girlfriends, their wives and acquaintances or strangers. It's the same men. Over and over again. Yeah, definitely, I'd totally agree. And wow, that's really interesting! I'd never heard of that case before but yeah it seems like there's a lot of questions that need to be answered there. I'm really curious to see what they'll find.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/19 02:11 PM
21	We know now, from rape kit testing, that the vast majority of rapes are committed by just a few men. These men rape habitually. They rape their girlfriends, their wives and acquaintances or strangers. It's the same men. Over and over again. Yeah I think this is generally a nationwide issue, though I'm not 100% certain. I remember the actress from law and order coming out in support of more testing because there's a huge backlog of untested kits all around the country. I think some cities are pretty good about it, but most just have like literally hundreds (possibly thousands?) just sitting on a shelf gathering dust. Edit: https://www.google.com/amp/s/abcnews.go.com/amp/US/massive-backlog-untested-rape-kits-public-safety-issue/story…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/19 12:39 PM
42	So I was on r/unpopularopinion and saw this post I do deliveries too. Once I had to wait for like 10 mins for these people to come to the door (a couple with friends over, both men and women) I was ringing, knocking, calling, finally they came. They were so apologetic and felt awful. The wife was the one who thrust a $20 bill at me and and said "sorry for being such a bad person!" I've never had to wait for anyone that didn't apologize once they realized I'd been waiting. There's a family that lives like 8 miles away (that is too far, they suc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/19 12:49 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (25 August 2019) Omg for real I am going to do this. He has been so amazing I can't even explain how grateful I am. I've been trying to think of what in the world I can do to try to repay him. Although he's just been happy he's able to sleep! I move around a lot in my sleep and I'm usually pushing him off the bed, elbowing him, kneeing him, punching him, all night. But apparently since the surgery I have not been moving at all at night, and he's really been enjoying his undisturbed sleep lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/19 12:58 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (25 August 2019) Thank you!!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/19 12:55 PM
5	It's hypocritical for women to complain about "muh porn/Instagram/Snapchat addiction" when it's the sexual liberation that WOMEN pushed for which makes a sufficient number of women available who are willing to perform in porn in the first place. 🕵️😎	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/19 02:24 AM
1	It's hypocritical for women to complain about "muh porn/Instagram/Snapchat addiction" when it's the sexual liberation that WOMEN pushed for which makes a sufficient number of women available who are willing to perform in porn in the first place. Oh dear 😟	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/19 01:11 AM
3	It's hypocritical for women to complain about "muh porn/Instagram/Snapchat addiction" when it's the sexual liberation that WOMEN pushed for which makes a sufficient number of women available who are willing to perform in porn in the first place. Lol good point	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/19 12:52 AM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (25 August 2019) Oh I'm so sorry! I get your name now though, it's totally literal lol!!! And hahahaha yeah I've been watching a lot of nature documentaries and spending an awful lot of time on ppd lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/19 12:42 AM
4	It's hypocritical for women to complain about "muh porn/Instagram/Snapchat addiction" when it's the sexual liberation that WOMEN pushed for which makes a sufficient number of women available who are willing to perform in porn in the first place. My parents live in a really popular vacation spot for the Amish. It's really weird, you go to the main city/downtown/Beach area and it's all very nice and bougie and everything and suddenly there is a woman with a full length dress and a bonnet on and it just throws you for a loop lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/19 12:39 AM
10	It's hypocritical for women to complain about "muh porn/Instagram/Snapchat addiction" when it's the sexual liberation that WOMEN pushed for which makes a sufficient number of women available who are willing to perform in porn in the first place. You're lordbolton, right? Aren't you like 31? Why do you act like you're a grandpa from 1944?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/19 12:29 AM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (25 August 2019) Hahahahahha omg I was planning on getting that for my bf last Christmas lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/19 09:47 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (25 August 2019) Ugh tell me about it! I actually can't play any videogames cause apparently when I play I tense up my abdomen, which is very painful for me right now lol. I've been watching nature documentaries a lot lol, but now I've moved on to "draining the oceans" which is pretty cool when they're doing a topic that interests me. National geographic has been my dearest friend haha.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/19 09:42 PM
4	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (25 August 2019) Hahahahha that gave me a legit chuckle, so thank you, and also fuck you, that hurt lol And hahahaha yeah the crackers!! They're good in tomato soup. My grandpa calls it "the great depression meal" lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/19 09:35 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (25 August 2019) Lolol well cinnamon is a spice haha And thank you 🙂 Gets a little better each day	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/19 09:13 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (25 August 2019) Haha nah the one I have is quite enough	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/19 08:56 PM
5	What are some of your experiences in dating or just with the opposite sex in general that you couldn’t explain through any of the pills? 🎶 well I guess this is growing up 🎶🎶	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/19 08:10 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (25 August 2019) I won't lie, it has been an ordeal lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/19 07:59 PM
5	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (25 August 2019) Well, for anyone who didn't see my last post, I had an appendectomy on Friday. Been prettymuch stuck on the couch unable to do anything since then. Can't lift anything more than 10 lbs (have to do that for three weeks omg) can't really walk around (I can't stand up straight so I kinda hobble around hunched over), can't do much of anything. It's slowly getting better but still sucks at the moment. My bf has been the absolute best. He's done literally everything for me and is always asking if ther…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/19 07:57 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (25 August 2019) Omg I feel you. After surgery on Friday I could only eat Graham crackers, saltines, and broth for 3 days. I wanted to eat everything i saw on TV. Tacos, steak, pizza, Thai, ice cream, cake, lasagna, fucking feeeeed meeeee I can eat now but I need to take it real easy, I've been having soup and egg sandwiches. I want chocolate so bad. Good luck, you can do it!!!! Try sleeping, makes you forget about eating lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/19 07:48 PM
2	Who is the sluttiest woman you know or knew? Hmmmmm trying to think.... There's one girl who acted slutty but wasn't doing it for like a slutty reason. I mean she used to live for male attention (well, still does lol), and def put on a show to get it, but she wasn't often actually sleeping with those guys. She had a slutty phase where she had ONS with like 4 guys in a month, but she did it to make her ex jealous, not cause she actually wanted to have sex with these men. She also tried to get with my bf (before we were dating, but she knew …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/19 07:03 PM
2	How much sex and female attention are the top 20% of men actually getting? That one's up to you man. According to a lot of definitions, yeah. The way he laid out the entire situation, a guy going out and hoping that he could find a girl whose "drunk senseless" who he could have sex with, implying that the girl, if not "drunk senseless," would not have had sex with him, sounds pretty rapey to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/19 06:51 PM
2	How much sex and female attention are the top 20% of men actually getting? Dude, do you remember where we are? Nothing about anything is "obvious" here	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/19 06:42 PM
2	How much sex and female attention are the top 20% of men actually getting? Yeah, prolly, but he could have said "tipsy" or something rather than "senseless". And iirc OP's kinda on the more extreme end of things, I wouldn't be surprised if he actually believed average guys needed to go after some obliterated girl.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/19 06:15 PM
3	How much sex and female attention are the top 20% of men actually getting? Yeah, pretty sure it is. "drunk senseless" def implies being way too drunk to consent to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/19 05:57 PM
7	How much sex and female attention are the top 20% of men actually getting? "average guy has to go out and hope he gets lucky with a girl who is drunk senseless" Wow that's like rape. This place absolutely blows my mind with its conception of what the average guy's life is like. Yes, the average guy has to rape women in order to get laid omg🙄	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/19 05:39 PM
0	Dave Chappelle's comment about abortion and abandonment in his Netflix stand-up special is a watershed moment for recognition of society's hypocrisy in how it addresses the consequences of men's and women's sexual expression. Yeah, it's Lord Bolton whose the abortion nut. But yeah, their styles are exactly the same. This username is a little more toned down; the last time Lord Bolton did an abortion post he said he should have been calmer in order to better get his point across. But yeah the style, the wording, and the concepts are all exactly the same, just slightly less enraged this time around lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/19 03:57 PM
1	Dave Chappelle's comment about abortion and abandonment in his Netflix stand-up special is a watershed moment for recognition of society's hypocrisy in how it addresses the consequences of men's and women's sexual expression. Lord Bolton, is that you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/19 02:32 PM
2	the truth behind increase of violent crimes committed by women in recent years(stats) Lololol	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/19 02:13 PM
4	With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with? Idk, I'd do the same thing I did before. Wait until I found someone who I liked who liked me back, then date that person. That's what I see other people around me doing. All my friends are dating people they met in real life and are the same age (generally within a year or two of each other). Everything seems pretty damn normal around me. Edit: I was never interested in dating anyone much older than me (I turned down a guy who was 33 when I was 21 because of his age) and I still wouldn't be if I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/19 08:12 PM
1	Do you know your partner's N count? Yeah I know his cause we've talked about it before. Also I knew him during high school and we have mutual friends so although the college years were a mystery, I knew a lot of his history and knew what kind of guy he was. I was never really concerned because I already knew him to be a guy who was generally a serial monogamist and unlikely to have been around too much. I think I found out the actual number and experiences over the course of a few nights spent drinking together until 6 am lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/19 03:41 PM
1	Ladies, who did you lose your V-card to? No worries 🙂 Oh yeah, anywhere that's not a major city you really need to own a car. The us is known for its extremely poor public transport, even in the big cities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/19 02:14 PM
1	Ladies, who did you lose your V-card to? I'm sorry, maybe the language barrier is an issue. I said if you live anywhere but a major city. Like, you know, except a major city, because they obviously have public transportation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/19 02:07 PM
1	Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime? No, anything involving men being beaten for not being masculine enough is so far removed from my experience I cannot even explain how so wildly different that is from my world. I've seen guys punched for sleeping with someone's gf, I've seen guys hit for stealing or lying, I've seen guys hit for mouthing off. But I have never seen anyone physically attacked for not being masculine enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/19 01:10 PM
1	Question for Women: What kind of man would you want your son to be? I don't think op in the original post got it right though. In fact the authors/researchers of the studies he referenced do not come to the same conclusions he did. And if he ends up anything like my bf he'll be just fine. Date a couple girls in high school and college, settle down with one in his 20s. Just like pretty much everyone else I know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/19 01:05 PM
1	Darius is a savage Are you deleting your comments now? It's right here though https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/cveibd/something_nobody_talks_about/ey7il28?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share	/r/MGTOW	27/08/19 12:10 PM
1	Darius is a savage No, actually the guy you were talking to in this thread sent me a link to this comment. Like you said, nice try though.	/r/MGTOW	27/08/19 12:05 PM
1	Darius is a savage So your pm to me where you said you've been with your wife for 12 years, got together in high school and are planning on having kids in the near future, is that one the lie, or is this one the lie? Or are they both?	/r/MGTOW	27/08/19 12:02 PM
1	Something nobody talks about Omg that's too funny I guess he got banned from ppd but he sent me a pm yesterday saying he's been with his wife for 12 years! Said they got together in high school lololololol	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/19 12:00 PM
1	Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime? Nope, you're making things up in your head. I've spoken in private with men j am very close with about news articles describing particular men who are now hesitant to approach women and we had a discussion about the whole concept. But I admire your imagination 🙂	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 10:12 PM
1	Is ignorance really bliss? Yeah, I misspoke. I should have said an overly transactional view of relationships, as well as seeing every interaction as a series of power plays and games to win or lose.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 08:38 PM
1	Is ignorance really bliss? Sure, but I know of multiple guys here who have been following some form of trp for years and are still very clearly bitter and upset.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 06:36 PM
19	Question for Women: What kind of man would you want your son to be? I'd like him to be like a normal guy, which for some reason you didn't list as an option here. Dates around a bit when younger, settles down and starts a family in late 20s/early 30s. I don't want him getting any girl he's just dating pregnant, what the hell is that about? Honestly this would mostly be my bfs thing to deal with, cause you know, he'd be his dad. But I'd like him to be a lot like my bf, kind, genuine, hard-working, honest, upstanding, responsible, and caring.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 06:25 PM
1	Discussion: Research finds that women do not prefer "nice" guys; in fact they prefer "bullies" and psychopaths Choose one comment to focus on, I'm not doing 3 different comment chains with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 06:02 PM
1	Discussion: Research finds that women do not prefer "nice" guys; in fact they prefer "bullies" and psychopaths Goddamn, can you please read the rest of the comments in a chain before posting your own? I'll paste what I said to another user From one of the articles "As it turned out, the variable that could be correlated to having more sex was scoring low on a measure of humility and honesty. Someone who is arrogant and manipulative, and willing to be so, is more likely to have more sex, Volk's team found. "That's really the only one that came up as being predictive of people taking this behaviour and usi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 06:02 PM
2	Discussion: Research finds that women do not prefer "nice" guys; in fact they prefer "bullies" and psychopaths You'd have to take that up with the people who actually did the research, because that's the conclusion they came to. But nonetheless, here's a study saying people are found to be more attractive when they're believed to have positive personality traits https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886914003626	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 05:59 PM
7	Ladies, who did you lose your V-card to? Right??? Like no shit everyone has a car how the hell else are you supposed to get anywhere? This is the suburbs too, not even rural! But there's only like idk 100 people who live within walking distance to the grocery store, and most of those are single professionals or elderly people who live in the condos. You need a car, otherwise you're like literally trapped at home lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 04:47 PM
10	Ladies, who did you lose your V-card to? If you live anywhere but a major city in the US, you really need a car. It's like not at all uncommon to have one, they're absolutely necessary in most parts of the country.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 04:33 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (25 August 2019) Ugh I'm tired of laying around and doing nothing. Just wanna be back to normal right now!!! School starts tomorrow and that's gunna suck for sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 04:31 PM
3	Ladies, who did you lose your V-card to? Aaaaah thank you Yeah the Northeast is weird. I'm in southwestern CT but if you drive a little north there's suddenly legit cornfields and trucks with Confederate flags and it's just like wtf how did this happen were still in Connecticut!!!!???????	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 03:49 PM
2	Ladies, who did you lose your V-card to? What's bfe new England?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 03:26 PM
1	Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime? Yeah, cause I see and hear about rapists and murderers every day. I've never seen this stuff you're describing. I've literally never seen either of those things happening. I've seen fights when one person wronged another, not when one person wasnt acting masculine. If some guy was inoffensive but my friends didn't like him, he just wouldn't be welcomed into the group, not bullied and beaten wtf.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 03:09 PM
1	Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime? I'm sorry but I just have seen none of this, except maybe the lowest of the low are exclusively male social groups, but even that was only true for a year or two. Wtf kind of women are you talking about that throw a friend out of a group because her bf isn't up to their standards?? You must live in a completely different world. Normal men are called creeps, most men don't have female friends, womens friends ditch them because of the quality of their bf....like where the fuck do you live? This is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 02:44 PM
1	Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime? Like I said, those guys could be imagining those disgusted faces in the first place, or misinterpreting them. Maybe someone right behind him is doing something gross, and she's looking at that. Maybe she's in pain. Maybe she just smelled something gross. And all of that is assuming she actually made a disgusted face in the first place. Omg you're going to listen to women on Twitter? You're going to take what those women say seriously and apply that to all women? Absolute nonsense. And yeah, idk,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 02:09 PM
1	Is this an example of toxic masculinity? Oh God, nooooo! A few weeks ago we were out at a bar while on vacation and I asked my bf to hold my bag while I put a jacket on. He was like "omg this thing is so heavy!" And started passing it around to other friends who were like "wtf is in this thing" and I'm like uhhhh all the stuff you guys have been using all night??????	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 01:58 PM
1	Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime? Sure, but you're only getting one person's side of things. And it's very likely the person you're getting that information from may not be interpreting things properly in the first place. If they're at all worried about being rejected or being seen as creeps, or people thinking badly of them, they're way more likely to see those cues when they're not actually there. Like, for example, I'm super self conscious. Sometimes I'll be around the house with my bf, and he'll look like he's starting at me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 01:48 PM
2	Is this an example of toxic masculinity? Yeah, shit. My bf obviously doesn't carry a bag, but if I don't hear "do you have a tissue" "do you have any ibuprofen" "do you have a water bottle" "do you have nail clippers" when we go out lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 01:37 PM
1	Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime? So, they're just thinking these things, and you're only getting their perspectives, oftentimes from interactions where they literally didn't even speak to the woman in question. I didn't ask you to read the article, I just linked it for the 75% of men have female friends stat in case you wanted to question that. But it lines up with my perspective perfectly, most men, most of whom are normal, have female friends and have no issue not behaving like creeps or being called or treated as creeps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 01:32 PM
2	Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime? Are you for real? Most men have female friends. This article here https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.gq.com/story/men-with-mostly-female-friends/amp Says that 75% of men have "nonsexual friendships with the opposite gender" Idk what world you're living in man, but most men have female friends. Most of these guys are normal, and most of those girls are normal. And where are you getting this information that women are regularly upset about men simply existing near them? Like what is leading you to t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 01:19 PM
1	Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime? No, that's just the thing, my friends are just normal guys. Sure, they're privileged in the way that they live in the us and not Ethiopia, they were lucky and grew up in a very safe area with good schools, but they're no different than anyone else around them. Most people we grew up with, most people around here, had all those same things, and many of them had much more. These are just normal guys. They don't think the world is easy, or everyone is kind, shit I mean one of these guys has been to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 01:05 PM
3	Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime? No, I think I'll stick to the experiences of my friends I know in real life (none of which have been called creeps) over strange men on the internet. Edit: btw, you do know it was by boyfriend, a man, who said don't be a creep?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 12:44 PM
10	Ladies, who did you lose your V-card to? Idk what his fucking smv was. I thought he was cute and I certainly liked him. He was popular within our group of friends, but wasn't one of the "popular" kids from like a movie about high school. I guess skater would be the closest. Part of the degenerate crowd. Lol no car, no license until he was like 25!!! I think he still doesn't have a car, literally 10 years later. He was poor but grew up in an UMC/uc town with a family who used to be UMC so he had those values. Lol his basement. He tried …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 12:42 PM
1	Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime? No, not at all. That guy at the grocery store is creepy because he does not answer me. I speak to him and instead of responding, he just stares at me as I walk by him. That's not "just existing". If he just stood there and never said a word to me, I wouldn't think he was creepy. But he acts strangely, which makes his creepy. Most men are fucking normal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 12:37 PM
8	Is ignorance really bliss? The question was if bp men were happier than rp men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 03:00 AM
16	Is ignorance really bliss? Sure seems like they're happier. I mean so much of engaging with trp is just marinating in hatred of others, whether they be women, beta cucks being a disgrace and ruining things for other men, or chads effortlessly getting what the rpers want. Incels are constantly surrounded by other people telling them it's hopeless and they're doomed to be miserable. Of course these guys are going to be miserable. Most of these guys have a transactional view of all human relationships and believe in extremel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 01:46 AM
1	Something nobody talks about How long has it been?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 01:25 AM
3	Something nobody talks about Have you ever been in a relationship before?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 01:14 AM
5	Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime? No, not breaking social norms in a cool way, that obviously doesn't make you a creep. It's breaking the very basic social norms that everyone follows in human interactions. Like there's this perfectly normal guy who works at the grocery store I shop at. He's prolly around my age, and just totally normal looking. But he's fucking creepy, because every time I walk by, he whispers "hiiiii" to me. And sometimes I respond and say "hi, how are you" and he just stares at me and nods but doesn't answer.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/19 09:31 PM
7	Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime? Omg 🙄 Bf says a creep is a "guy who is not clean, weird neck beard who looks like a slob and then is just too much and overbearing" I find it more to be someone who is blatantly ignoring social norms, but since i quoted him in the first comment I figured it'd be good to include his creep definition too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/19 09:17 PM
3	Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime? The article also says that the anxiety surrounding dating could be due to the rise of online dating in general, as well as political views. Like I said, sure, there are men out there who are actually scared. But for the most part, there's not a massive amount of guys out there refusing to date for fear of a rape/harassment accusation	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/19 09:11 PM
10	Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime? Yeah, and the study isn't saying men are horrified of being accused of rape for talking to a girl, it seems like they're trying to make the girls they talk to more comfortable and are trying to be more understanding of their perspectives; they're not running away in fear.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/19 08:41 PM
2	Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime? Yep!	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/19 08:37 PM
13	Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime? Rpw is known to be full of trp dudes larping as girls. I wouldn't take anything said there without a heavy dose of salt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/19 08:34 PM
12	Q4W: in the post-#MeToo era, do you genuinely believe that men are less likely to approach women because they’re afraid of being accused of sexual harassment or some kind of sex crime? Well, I'm not still dating, but I know people who are. I've also asked my friends about this very question!! I'm sure there's some guys out there who are scared now, but they're in like such a tiny minority. When I asked my friends about whether or not they're nervous now, they rolled their eyes and scoffed. My bf said "no wtf why would I be scared just don't act like a fucking creep and you'll be fine" The thought doesn't even cross my friends minds, this is just a weird manosphere overreaction…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/19 08:31 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (25 August 2019) Lolol yup, sounds about right!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/19 08:25 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (25 August 2019) Lol yes, I'm reaaaaaaly hoping they have candid shots of people walking in/out, I've gotta see these members haha	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/19 08:18 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (25 August 2019) Lololololol no I don't believe you that's too silly to be true I love this place so much, you can't make this stuff up lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/19 08:14 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (25 August 2019) Hahaha yeah I'm really happy with how well it works lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/19 08:10 PM
4	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (25 August 2019) Connecticunts!!!! 🥳🥳👐👐 Shhhhh dont laugh at me I'm on my painkillers	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/19 08:08 PM
4	Discussion: Research finds that women do not prefer "nice" guys; in fact they prefer "bullies" and psychopaths The title says women prefer bullies to nice guys. That's not what the studies on bullying showed. It showed that bullies had more sex, not that women preferred them because they were mean. From one of the articles "As it turned out, the variable that could be correlated to having more sex was scoring low on a measure of humility and honesty. Someone who is arrogant and manipulative, and willing to be so, is more likely to have more sex, Volk's team found. "That's really the only one that came up…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/19 06:57 PM
1	Discussion: Research finds that women do not prefer "nice" guys; in fact they prefer "bullies" and psychopaths What? I'm saying that all these 15 or so articles op posted are only referring to like 3 or 4 different studies, not 15 or whatever studies. Like the first 3 links are all different articles that analyze the same single study. Same for the bullying links. It's not "all these different researchers coming to the same conclusions" it's only one or two studies per category.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/19 06:50 PM
1	CMV: Female mate selection based on height proves, better than any other example, that women are hypergamous. Lol right?? Like I'd have to be dating giants, tbeyd have to be at least 6'5 lol no way	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/19 06:28 PM
5	Discussion: Research finds that women do not prefer "nice" guys; in fact they prefer "bullies" and psychopaths Because it's an understanding of manipulation that makes them bullies, and that same manipulation can be used to get sex. They have less qualms about lying, faking, or using underhanded tactics to get sex than a normal person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/19 03:56 AM
6	Discussion: Research finds that women do not prefer "nice" guys; in fact they prefer "bullies" and psychopaths You do realize that most of the articles posted are referencing the same 3 or 4 studies, right? It's not 15 separate studies. Edit: like all the "responsiveness" articles are referencing the same single study, all the bullying articles are referencing the same bullying study, and all the ADHD articles are referencing the same ADHD study.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/19 11:08 PM
33	Discussion: Research finds that women do not prefer "nice" guys; in fact they prefer "bullies" and psychopaths Yeah, the bullying studies basically say that bullies are good at reading people and manipulating them, that's why they're good at being bullies. They can then appply those same skills to sex. And idk what this guy is doing, he's posted a bunch of links but they're all just the same 3 or so studies?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/19 11:03 PM
1	CMV: Men/Women who are concerned about past sexual acts or 'gift giving' behaviour with exes are either desperate and settling or insecure Oh shit my bad I didn't realize this was a cmv, sorry	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/19 06:03 PM
1	CMV: Men/Women who are concerned about past sexual acts or 'gift giving' behaviour with exes are either desperate and settling or insecure Yeah, maybe. When my bf and I moved in together he had given me an old notepad to write down grocery lists cause mine was done. He thought it was empty. One day I got to a page that has a note he had written to his ex on it. It was sweet, something like "wish I could have stayed in bed with you this morning, love you, can't wait to see you tomorrow, " just some sweet thing like that. It hurt, but it wasn't a huge deal cause I had no doubt he loves me. He doesn't write me notes, but I guess I was…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/19 04:24 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (18 August 2019) Yeah they were really great! The surgery nurse was so sweet, I started crying a little (I'm a baby lol) right before I went in for surgery and she started tearing up too haha. Really everyone was super nice, funny, in good moods. My surgeon was like in his 60s prolly and he came up to me and introduced himself and he was like "yup, you get the old guy!"	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/19 03:47 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (18 August 2019) Thank you!!! And yeah I was scared as hell but honestly the doctors made me feel a lot better. They were like hey we literally do like six of these a day they're so common, we're really good at them, it's a simple procedure that rarely has complications, etc, etc. They were pretty good at putting me at ease. And also the nurse gave me some chill-out drugs before I went into the OR so when they wheeled me in I was just like ooooooh look at all the lights in hereeeee so that helped too lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/19 03:36 PM
4	Do you have friends who struggle with women IRL? What do you see him doing wrong? He just won't try. He had an awful breakup with a girl he was going to marry, and it's fucked him up bad. It was like 10 years ago now and he's still not over it. He has no interest in going out and meeting anyone. That's about it though, everyone else is paired off or has no trouble getting girls.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/19 03:34 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (18 August 2019) Thanks!!! And they did!!!! Although it doesn't compare at all to the Dilaudid they gave me in the er, that shit was incredible! Took almost all the pain away!	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/19 03:19 PM
3	Q4Women: is it always a turnoff if a man addresses something in your relationship directly? What? No, why would that be a turnoff? How else is he supposed to find out the answer to his question besides asking?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/19 01:34 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (18 August 2019) Thank you!! And same to you, good luck!! Yeah, I will be. Luckily they did it laparosopically so my recovery time is shorter and I only have three little incisions, but I'm restricted to only lifting like 5 lbs k think for the first week, 15 for the next 2 weeks. I deliver food for a restaurant part time, so at least for the first week I can't work cause the bags will be too heavy. Also I'll be on pain meds for the next 2 days so I can't drive on those. So sucks cause school starts on Tuesday, a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/19 12:18 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (18 August 2019) Hahahahhaha	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/19 12:11 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (18 August 2019) Oh my God, how scary! Glad his brother was there to help him. I've been scared of appendicitis since I was a little kid. Idk if you read that "Madeline" book, it's a kids book and the little girl in it gets her appendix out and it has a drawing with the scar in one of the pictures, and it just always stuck with me! Keep in mind that your friend's story is very unusual! Most people get prompt attention. At least in my case it was a weird pain that I've never felt before, like for the first few ho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/19 12:11 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (18 August 2019) Thanks!!! Knock on wood though lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/19 01:28 AM
5	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (18 August 2019) Well, I got my appendix out. Had pain in my abdomen all day Thursday, gradually got worse. I kept thinking it was like some muscle thing cause my back also hurt a little. Kept getting worse, and by the time I went into work at 5 it was really hurting. Ended up leaving work at like 7:15, figuring just resting would help me out. So went home and rested, but nothing made it feel better. It was this weird burning pain down the entire front of my abdomen, I've never felt anything like it before. Conc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/19 01:03 AM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (18 August 2019) Larger breasts and a smaller waist are also indicative of high estrogen levels and increased fertility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/19 12:38 AM
5	Q4Men: which of these guys is "chad" and why Oh God ew no I don't think those women look good! Sometimes more masculine looking women can be "hot" but I don't think they're the ideal in the slightest. Especially Hunter eyes ugh I hate those on everyone	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/19 10:13 PM
4	Q4Men: which of these guys is "chad" and why Yeah very true lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/19 10:12 PM
6	Q4Men: which of these guys is "chad" and why Women spend their entire lives being taught what is ideal in a woman's appearance and what is not. We scrutinize ourselves and each other every day. We're all super aware of what is attractive in a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/19 09:52 PM
8	Q4Men: which of these guys is "chad" and why Okay if I am being picky his nose should be a little thinner, a little more refined. But that's being picky. He's gorge. And omg no the guy on the right is honestly kinda an instant no for me. He'd have to be like the coolest guy in the world to change that no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/19 09:48 PM
12	Q4Men: which of these guys is "chad" and why So beautiful omg	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/19 09:33 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (18 August 2019) Ah okay I gotcha, I'm kinda the same way. I get hormonal acne before my period too. Im 26 and it still hasn't gotten better (I'm even on birth control and I guess it helps a little but not really). Don't look to me for a normal example though, I have shitty skin to begin with and no matter how old I get it will never get better, it's genetic. If it's really bothering you, go to the dermatologist! When I was a teenager the derm put me on antibiotics the week before my period to help control the a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/19 03:28 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (18 August 2019) How long have you been getting periods for? Are you on hormonal bc?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/19 02:01 PM
2	men are in denial Flyingresearcher I think it is	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/19 02:44 AM
2	Psychology professor makes in-depth scientific analysis of the Red Pill vs Blue Pill debate, what do you think about it? Wtf are you talking about in almost every single country you can get a paternity test done, it is entirely legal. France is the notable exception, and the UK requires you to be the legal father of the child, or have permission from the person you're obtaining genetic material from. But that's it. Almost everybody can go get a paternity test done. Where the hell did you come up with this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/19 11:20 PM
2	Q4Women: Can you pick a "best" guy in bed? Yeah, that makes sense. So does it like make friendships and everything harder? Like with some of my friends, talking about things that happened to in the past takes up like idk 30% of the conversation. My friend's gf is new to the group so has nothing to do with the reminiscing and she feels left out when it comes up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/19 06:48 PM
3	Q4Women: Can you pick a "best" guy in bed? Huh, that's pretty cool in some ways. Are you glad you don't have memories or would you prefer to have them? I'm sorry, it feels really rude to ask these questions 😟	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/19 06:22 PM
3	Q4Women: Can you pick a "best" guy in bed? Wow, that's really interesting. Do you have memories of things that don't involve people? Like can you remember playing with a dog or idk like vaccuuming or something lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/19 05:40 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (18 August 2019) Oooh my bf will be happy about that! I'm all about the seafood though!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/19 08:42 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (18 August 2019) Omg get tf out of here I was at his parents two days ago and his mom was raving about the Crawfish she had the night before!!!!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/19 08:06 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (18 August 2019) Haha that's exactly what his dad said! He was like okay, when you pull up you're not going to want to go in, but trust me, it's worth it lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/19 08:05 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (18 August 2019) Omg how crazy would that be??? Yeah usually we're in town or up in d-block. We'll go down to Sono every once in a while but it's pretty infrequent. My bfs dad has been on us to go to the black duck (he and his mom loooove it) and we've been meaning to but haven't actually made it lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/19 07:51 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (18 August 2019) Try to encourage him to dress better and maybe go to the gym first rather than just cutting him out, unless all of you guys just don't like him as a person then like yeah you're under no obligation to be friends with him lol. There was a guy who tagged onto our friend group in high school. He was fucking weird and dressed strangely, he always wore this leather jacket and lol it's hilarious looking back on it. But he was fucking weird and annoying and Jesus I'd be lying if I said we didn't try to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/19 07:18 PM
9	Hypothetical scenario, how would you react? Yeah it's kinda like that watching a car wreck thing, you know? A morbid fascination and you can't look away.....	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/19 07:06 PM
10	Hypothetical scenario, how would you react? Yeah and when we explain they say we're liars 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/19 06:10 PM
3	Honesty: Not The Same Thing As Compulsive Confession Yeah, very much so! It sucks how easy it seems for someone to go looking for something relatively innocent to end up falling into a hateful place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/19 05:36 PM
4	Honesty: Not The Same Thing As Compulsive Confession Okay phew, thanks! And yeah I think the echo chamber has a lot to do with the weird ideas they have, like this one, and also their thoughts on the male sex drive. They paint it as this omipresent urge thats almost uncontrollable and absolutely needs to be satisfied. While I don't doubt that the male sex drive is stronger than mine, I know plenty of men who blow that characterization right out of the water. Also the huge importance on casual sex as the pinnacle of male achievement and all that. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/19 05:20 PM
1	Hypothetical scenario, how would you react? Lol yup! This is similar to how I ended up with my bf. I knew my bf in high school, although I don't think we ever spoke. But I knew who he was and I thought he was soooooo hot, he was like the most perfect guy I could imagine, physically. I remember telling me friend "omg that guy is so hot" and I was told he had a gf so I said ah well then. He was 2 years older than me, so he left and went to school out of state. When he was 22 and I was 21 he came home from school and I ran into him at a bar.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/19 05:09 PM
7	Would you reject a guy cause he didn't ask her out in a certain way? Who tf are your friends? Although you didn't explicitly ask for a date that could potentially lead to a romantic relationship, I'd say you were clear enough. If someone had said those things to me I may not be entirely sure of their intentions, but I'd figure it's prolly a date and the intentions would be cleared up for sure at whatever meetup we had. Edit: no, I wouldn't reject a guy for the way he asked. Well I mean within reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/19 04:24 PM
11	Honesty: Not The Same Thing As Compulsive Confession Idk if this should be under automod or not cause it's not really challenging your view but whatever I'll move it if I need to. In the last thread aaren was saying that women do this to alleviate some form of anxiety, and men are having difficulty understanding that. I think that's total bs cause almost everyone does it. I think the issue is that trp has a higher than normal population of people on the autism spectrum, who generally have trouble understanding why people do the social dances they …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/19 03:27 PM
1	The EXCUSE. Where does self protection become conflict avoidance? Conflict avoidance become social saving face? Nah, it's the same, not the opposite. My friend was giving shitty excuses that obviously amounted to little more than "I don't feel like it." That's why he isn't invited out as much anymore. "I'm tired" only works once in a while cause everyone's fucking tired all the time lol, but they go out anyway because seeing their friends is worth it. If you have kids and your friends don't it's a bit of a different story, but consistent "no I'm too tired" or "no I dont feel like it" is going to make peop…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/19 02:23 PM
8	What is your opinion on FebFems I have literally no opinion. They want to date women. Cool. Whatever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/19 02:07 PM
4	Is Epstein's plan to flood humanity with his DNA the most epic middle age crisis? Do ordinary men desire lots of children? Yeah really. Just this year (or was it last year) that synagogue was shot up cause of the "Jewish invasion". Like I agree that people who are ethnically Jewish are generally considered white (like my dad's side of the family is Jewish, they're all Russian and German, so yeah they're white, nobody would look at me and question my whiteness), and so do a lot of other people, but people who are really concerned with whiteness/jewness tend to disagree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/19 01:05 PM
3	When you hear the phrase "Good personality" regarding men and attractiveness... Yeah, you're right. Good personality means fun, charming, whatever. It's a little weird though, idk if I've ever heard someone actually say "he has a good personality" I hear "I like his personality" or "we get along well" And yeah, good man/woman/person is based on their morals, and how they treat other people	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/19 11:29 AM
3	The EXCUSE. Where does self protection become conflict avoidance? Conflict avoidance become social saving face? The "sorry, I'm tired, gunna stay in" excuse only works for so long though. You can't use it too often, cause it's not a great one. You say sorry I'm doing x thing I can't get away from to show that otherwise you would be doing that. It's nicer, you know? People go and hang out when they're tired all the time, it's a lame excuse lol. So you give one that has nothing to do with them, you have a prior commitment. If you do "I'm tired" too often people will assume you just don't like them and don't…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/19 01:52 AM
8	The EXCUSE. Where does self protection become conflict avoidance? Conflict avoidance become social saving face? No, see, in that example, you did it. You said "it's too hot". You didn't say "no", you gave a reason. You weren't trying to get out of doing something with him, you were trying to get out of doing that specific thing with him. It's not always a lie when someone gives an excuse. Sometimes people just don't want to see someone at all, in that case they'd make themselves entirely unavailable, they'd say they need to bathe their dog.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/19 10:49 PM
10	The EXCUSE. Where does self protection become conflict avoidance? Conflict avoidance become social saving face? This is something everyone does. Men and women do it to men and women. It's just polite behavior. Sometimes it also serves the purpose of protecting yourself, but it's not limited to that. Everyone makes polite excuses all the time, in all situations, to all different people. I'm a little confused though, you seem to have read the thread you referenced about excuses. Multiple people brought up the fact that it's used all the time in all different situations. Edit: meant to write, it's just a soc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/19 09:29 PM
2	Renaming some of the cringiest mansphere phrases Yeah, like I said, you're putting the other person in that headspace. Or at least trying to. If I'm asking a question I'm actually curious about and they respond with a non-answer of some kind, I generally won't question it aloud (really depends on how much I've been drinking lol) but I'm not going to forget that they gave me a non-answer. I'm going to be way more guarded and on the lookout for that type of response in the future.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/19 07:57 PM
3	Renaming some of the cringiest mansphere phrases It shows that you're able to joke around and socialize like the majority of people. If you're agreeing and amplifying something positive about yourself you're putting the other person in that headspace. Though personally when speaking about yourself I prefer self deprecation, as I really have an issue with people appearing arrogant or overly self confident. Talking about objects or events unrelated to yourself agree and amplify is fine, but when talking about yourself in a positive way agree and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/19 07:18 PM
1	Renaming some of the cringiest mansphere phrases It's like the most common type of joking around. Responding with something like a level up from what the first person said or saying something in response that is obviously unfeasible or over the top is like a basic type of joke.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/19 06:38 PM
2	Renaming some of the cringiest mansphere phrases Right??? Like agree and amplify is just joking around lol I was reading someone last night saying oh shit tests are a woman assessing to see if a man is alpha or beta and it was just making me cringe so hard. It was like listening to a nature documentary and I don't think my eyes are back to their normal position yet from all the rolling.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/19 05:07 PM
4	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (18 August 2019) Naturally lol. God can you believe it took me an hour to clean the shower? The stupid landlord put the wrong type of grout in so you have to go in with a toothbrush and scrub every little space. I'm way behind it was so stupid to wait!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/19 04:01 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (18 August 2019) Omg my parents are coming to visit tomorrow! I'm excited to see them, but there is sooooo much cleaning to do! My mom is fastidiously clean, our houses have always been immaculate. My bf is allergic to cats, my parents have 2 cats but he has no problems staying at their house cause my mom keeps it so clean. So I have to get this place up to her standards and omg why did I wait till the last minute?????	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/19 01:49 PM
2	Why aren't men more open about their feelings? What's the narrative about emotional labor?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/19 12:41 PM
4	Should women go alone with men if they dont 100% intend to have sex with them? No he's actually like the picture of a Chad lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/19 09:30 PM
7	Should women go alone with men if they dont 100% intend to have sex with them? My best friend is a man and we hang out alone all the time. Bf is cool with it. He comes over to our apartment with me alone, I used to go to his house alone all the time (he doesn't live here anymore), we'd hang out alone at like 3 am. But we've been friends for like 10 years and my bf has known him for like 10 years too. Actually prolly even longer. I used to hang out with my male friends alone all the time. Not as much anymore cause we're more spread out and visits are like a big event with l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/19 05:32 PM
2	Why aren't men more open about their feelings? What are you trying to say? It has nothing to do with my bf wanting me to be attracted to him. In fact we actually just talked about this subject this morning. I said to him "okay, so imagine that youre going through some emotional shit, and you want to open up to me, but if you were to open up to me, I'd lose attraction to you" and he actually cut me off and said "well I don't think that would happen" and I had to explain that this is just a hypothetical. He doesn't Edit: whoops, hit reply too …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/19 05:06 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (11 August 2019) Damn straight. And yeah be on the lookout for "madwoman runs 15 cars off road; officers hesitant to approach"	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/19 04:03 PM
3	What red pill truths do women learn about men over the course of their lives? She said she is only attracted to one person at a time she did not say there is only one person throughout the entire course of her life that she is attracted to. It's not a lie either, I'm the same way. And she spoke like a normal person, you just misread her comment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/19 03:44 PM
2	Why aren't men more open about their feelings? Yeah, his dad isn't exactly emotionally available lol. And thanks! I think it's just pretty normal though, that's what relationships are supposed to be about!	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/19 02:18 PM
3	Where did you all go? I'm sorry that happened to you. But it still sounds like a cringey 19 year old edgelord.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/19 02:09 PM
3	Where did you all go? Ugh please don't say "pound metoo" I was so happy when Lewis was banned and I thought I'd never have to read that again. It's just so ridiculously edgelordy cringey.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/19 01:13 PM
6	Why aren't men more open about their feelings? Idfk. I'm sure you'll get a lot of "why are you trying to make men into women" and "theyre just like that" but in my experience it's not true at all. I've had many close male friends over the years, and they all have expressed the same worries, doubts, fears, sadness, disappointment, hurt, etc, that I and my female friends feel, when they get comfortable enough to open up. Like it's always taken a while to get them to that point that they open up in that way. I mean sure maybe there are some guy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/19 12:41 PM
6	Most of the men of the current manosphere have poor character and that is the main contributor to their lack of success in the SMP/RMP Yeah he's talking about guys who like beat people and steal. Nobody I went to school with did that shit, except for literally one kid who was a heroin addict, and he wasn't beating people either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/19 02:22 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (11 August 2019) Wwwwhhhhooohhhoooo!!!! Sounds great, have a fun time!!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/19 02:03 AM
1	Q4W: what was the last romantic thing you did for a man? Yeah you've almost definitely heard them before. "All the small things" and "what's my age again" are prolly the most famous songs. They were really popular in the late 90s/early 2000s, mostly with teenagers. I got into them a little late, in middle School shortly before they broke up in like 2004. They were generally juvenile and immature and funny and appealed to teenagers, so that's what Penny's joke was about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 11:33 PM
8	Most of the men of the current manosphere have poor character and that is the main contributor to their lack of success in the SMP/RMP Lol for real. There was no one anywhere close to a thug in my town. One or two of the black kids tried to dress and act like thugs, even though they were culturally just as white as the rest of us. They were noticeably single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 11:01 PM
1	Q4W: what was the last romantic thing you did for a man? Do you know the band blink 182? You almost definitely know a few of their songs. How old are you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 10:14 PM
5	Most of the men of the current manosphere have poor character and that is the main contributor to their lack of success in the SMP/RMP So much more than the majority did. Of course who knows how many of those guys didn't even try to have sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 09:29 PM
5	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (11 August 2019) Hahahahha my cars being worked on so I get the big truck!! Watch out everyone, bebe's running fuckers off the road today!!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 09:25 PM
8	Most of the men of the current manosphere have poor character and that is the main contributor to their lack of success in the SMP/RMP Yeah, I agree. I know there are guys out there who are struggling, but I don't think it's this massive issue that average men are miserable and fucked. I don't know many men who are absolutely hopeless. There were a few guys in high school who never dated and were kind of the losery types, but at least 3 of them I know are engaged now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 09:21 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (11 August 2019) Okay, then I don't understand what you're trying to say. You seem unhappy with the people you're around, so I suggested you try to meet different ones. Idk what "remember I'm in college" has anything to do with this? I'm in college too..... And yeah sorry but I don't pay particular attention to any ppd user's posting patterns lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 08:43 PM
1	Off Topic Thread: Politics (10 August 2019) The epa under this administration is an absolute disgrace.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 08:13 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (11 August 2019) Omg I'm excited! I don't remember the first season at ALL I hope they have a good recap lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 08:08 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (11 August 2019) Haaaaaaaappy birthdayyyyy!!!! Doing anything exciting??	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 08:07 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (11 August 2019) Omg then fuck yeah dude go out and meet different people! Now's the absolute best time to do that!	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 07:48 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (11 August 2019) Sounds like you just need to hang out with different people. My bf and I watch TV and play on our phones, but that's what we do after dinner when we're done for the day. I do digital painting and build my model ships, he plays his bass and mixes tracks for his band, we go out on the boat, hang out with friends, sometimes take day trips, etc. I horseback ride but he's not involved in that at all cause he's super allergic, but we'll ride the dirt bikes together. Most of my friends do similar stuff…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 05:46 PM
1	Women definitely got a raw deal from Mother Nature Omg you had your baby??? Congratulations!!! Hope everything's going well!! And ugh yeah I can't imagine being okay with it, let alone enjoying it. I mean I've never done it so I guess I shouldn't say that but I just can't see it happening with me lol. My next door neighbor (we live in an apartment) had a kid a few years ago and she told me she loved being pregnant, she got all these happy hormones, etc etc. But I was like are huuuh? you suuuure?? Cause I heard her sobbing and screaming through t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 03:29 PM
2	Women definitely got a raw deal from Mother Nature Haha no for real that is my main plan!	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 03:00 PM
1	Women definitely got a raw deal from Mother Nature I want kids, but I don't want to go through the making them part! I really am very torn on it. And unfortunately adoption prolly won't be an option, my bf is unsure about what he wants too, but he'd only want bio kids. I mean maybe when the time actually comes he'd be open to it, but that's his stance atm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 02:43 PM
2	Women definitely got a raw deal from Mother Nature I know!!! It's terrible! But also at the same time I can blame it on them cause surely one of them gave me the genes to be scared of pregnancy lol. But no for real if we end up becoming extremely wealthy I will be making a test tube baby and have a surrogate carry it. Haha thank you that's very kind but I already have another set of banging genes waiting lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 02:41 PM
2	Women definitely got a raw deal from Mother Nature Yeah, it really fucking would. I have some banging genes to pass on. My great grandparents fled the pogroms in Russia to come here, everyone but my great grandma and great aunt on their side of the family were killed. My great grandma was 12 years old when she hid in the back of a haywagon to escape to Germany and then to the us. They stabbed the haywagon to make sure no one was in it, somehow it missed her and she managed not to lose her shit and got out of there. She came here and had nothing,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 02:27 PM
3	Women definitely got a raw deal from Mother Nature Oh hell no I don't feel lucky at all! Like I just said, it makes me wish I were a man! I am scared shitless of going through 9+ months of torture and destroying my body in the process. I feel immense pressure to have kids, but the main thing that holds me back is actually having to go through all of that. If I were a dude I'd be all for kids, but having to be the one that has to have these things happen to them, I really am unsure if I ever will.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 02:21 PM
4	Women definitely got a raw deal from Mother Nature I mean it's cool in an abstract sense but I think it's mostly terrible. You guys are lucky as hell, don't take that for granted!	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 02:16 PM
3	Women definitely got a raw deal from Mother Nature You want to go through that? The horror of being trapped for 9 months with some thing growing inside you, hurting your back, rearranging your internal organs, making you sick, making you crazy? And then actually delivering it, literally tearing you apart, doing irreparable, permanent damage to your body, possibly leaving you incontinent, and possibly killing you? Having to possibly deal with pregnancy/birth is the thing that makes me wish I were a man more than anything else!	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 02:14 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (11 August 2019) Phew. I hate dieting. It wouldn't be so bad if I didn't hate cooking too....but I do lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 02:01 PM
1	Q4W: what was the last romantic thing you did for a man? Yeah I'm 26, why?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 10:48 AM
1	CMV: Consensual unprotected sex is equally both the man and the woman's fault. More broadly, there is no sound justification for EVER holding men to even one iota higher of a standard of responsibility or expectation, for any reason, on any topic. Nope, we have neither paternal or maternal leave. It's up to individual companies/employers if they'd like to offer it or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 02:22 AM
5	Q4W: what was the last romantic thing you did for a man? Hahaha jokes on you they're already black Haha yeah no worries, and I lied my nails are blue 😰	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 02:02 AM
7	Q4W: what was the last romantic thing you did for a man? 🦄🦄🦄 this mare don't fuck around Lolol no you're too kind I'm actually an asshole	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 01:54 AM
6	Q4W: what was the last romantic thing you did for a man? Fuck you blink 182 will be cool no matter how old I get why are you hurting my feelings	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 01:47 AM
9	Q4W: what was the last romantic thing you did for a man? I cooked him steak, potatoes, and spinach tonight, cleaned everything up too. Don't get me wrong, I love it too, but I got his favorite kind for tonight. Gave him a back rub this morning.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 01:47 AM
4	CMV: Consensual unprotected sex is equally both the man and the woman's fault. More broadly, there is no sound justification for EVER holding men to even one iota higher of a standard of responsibility or expectation, for any reason, on any topic. It's in the process of being equalized as we speak. Paid paternal leave is on the floor in the house, expected to pass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/19 10:39 PM
2	CMV: Consensual unprotected sex is equally both the man and the woman's fault. More broadly, there is no sound justification for EVER holding men to even one iota higher of a standard of responsibility or expectation, for any reason, on any topic. Haha oh jeez that's too bad	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/19 09:48 PM
3	CMV: Consensual unprotected sex is equally both the man and the woman's fault. More broadly, there is no sound justification for EVER holding men to even one iota higher of a standard of responsibility or expectation, for any reason, on any topic. Because it's unnecessarily harmful to everyone. Things are definitely better now than they were when abortions were illegal. And abortions have been a thing like throughout all of human history, we've always tried to get rid of that shit when we don't want it. Men benefit because they get the same out women do. Nearly 50% of unwanted pregnancies are aborted, so I'm sure those men are quite happy about that. And yeah, that sucks if the father wanted the kid, but it's unethical to force a woman to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/19 09:47 PM
2	CMV: Consensual unprotected sex is equally both the man and the woman's fault. More broadly, there is no sound justification for EVER holding men to even one iota higher of a standard of responsibility or expectation, for any reason, on any topic. Hahaha is he actually old? I always pictured him as like 19 lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/19 09:11 PM
2	CMV: Consensual unprotected sex is equally both the man and the woman's fault. More broadly, there is no sound justification for EVER holding men to even one iota higher of a standard of responsibility or expectation, for any reason, on any topic. Yeah, that's true. I don't disagree with trying to make things better for men, I'd be all for that (generally, as long as it's reasonable lol). I just think that his solution of making abortion illegal is the complete wrong answer to that. Atm with our current science and medical procedures I think what we have is the fairest it can get, both men and women benefit from access to legal abortion. I'd even be up for some type of LPS if it were able to be done in a timely manner and without a heavy …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/19 08:44 PM
2	CMV: Consensual unprotected sex is equally both the man and the woman's fault. More broadly, there is no sound justification for EVER holding men to even one iota higher of a standard of responsibility or expectation, for any reason, on any topic. Oh I'm sorry dude but it really doesn't matter which way it's oriented. We all know people break laws all the damn time. We have seen this very situation happen, in Romania. While abortions were reduced initially, after a year or two they skyrocketed again as women just got them done illegally, and tons of women died. So it's well within reason that a woman would fully intend of getting an abortion, even if it's illegal, and a man would believe her. Just as it is now. And I don't think you're ve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/19 07:55 PM
3	CMV: Consensual unprotected sex is equally both the man and the woman's fault. More broadly, there is no sound justification for EVER holding men to even one iota higher of a standard of responsibility or expectation, for any reason, on any topic. Nah not at all. You see women here all the time worrying about men because people commit rape and murder. Both of those things are illegal, but they sure do happen! We all lock our doors at night cause we don't want to be robbed, but burglary is illegal. Just cause something is illegal doesn't stop it from happening lol whaaaaat? You think a guy whose about to have sex is going to think twice when a woman says "oh yeah I'd get an abortion" even if it's illegal? I'm sorry dude but that's just not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/19 07:05 PM
2	How attractive are you? Hahahah it's like it was made for ppd/trp/incels lol, "top 20%!" Omg I can't get over it lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/19 06:54 PM
2	CMV: Consensual unprotected sex is equally both the man and the woman's fault. More broadly, there is no sound justification for EVER holding men to even one iota higher of a standard of responsibility or expectation, for any reason, on any topic. It wouldn't be a certainty if abortion were illegal either. Women will still get them, and women will tell men they'll get them. Women who intend to trap men with babies won't be affected either way. It just doesn't make any sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/19 06:50 PM
5	CMV: Consensual unprotected sex is equally both the man and the woman's fault. More broadly, there is no sound justification for EVER holding men to even one iota higher of a standard of responsibility or expectation, for any reason, on any topic. Why are men simply not acting as if it's a certainty now, since it is uncertain? Why would that make a difference?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/19 06:40 PM
2	CMV: Consensual unprotected sex is equally both the man and the woman's fault. More broadly, there is no sound justification for EVER holding men to even one iota higher of a standard of responsibility or expectation, for any reason, on any topic. Well your plan drops it from half to near zero, which is better for men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/19 06:33 PM
4	CMV: Consensual unprotected sex is equally both the man and the woman's fault. More broadly, there is no sound justification for EVER holding men to even one iota higher of a standard of responsibility or expectation, for any reason, on any topic. The laws exist because the woman is carrying the child. If we were seahorses, men would have that option. That's all this is. I don't get what you're not understanding about this. Anyways, you can physically control whether or not you punch someone in the face. You cannot control if birth control fails and a sperm successfully meets an egg. You can't just say "nah, body, not today". And the other thing I'm not getting is that this is not a punishment for men. As I said earlier, nearly half of un…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/19 06:26 PM
10	CMV: Consensual unprotected sex is equally both the man and the woman's fault. More broadly, there is no sound justification for EVER holding men to even one iota higher of a standard of responsibility or expectation, for any reason, on any topic. So you have no counter. Okay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/19 05:21 PM
8	CMV: Consensual unprotected sex is equally both the man and the woman's fault. More broadly, there is no sound justification for EVER holding men to even one iota higher of a standard of responsibility or expectation, for any reason, on any topic. Can you please answer my questions?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/19 05:18 PM
3	How attractive are you? Okay well I'm giving you my update, sorry if you don't want it lol, it's just too ridiculous not to share. Atm I'm rated 8.2 and it actually says "top 20%!" beneath it Lolol omg	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/19 05:13 PM
13	CMV: Consensual unprotected sex is equally both the man and the woman's fault. More broadly, there is no sound justification for EVER holding men to even one iota higher of a standard of responsibility or expectation, for any reason, on any topic. You literally want to harm women (and men, btw) to take them down a notch. Do you not know what vindictive means? And no, there won't be. Women are still going to get abortions, they're just gunna die more often from them. So forcing men into involuntary obligation for decades is the worst thing possible in the world. How will abortions being illegal make that any better than it is today? More men will be forced into an involuntary obligation for decades. I just don't get this. And again, please…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/19 04:44 PM
17	CMV: Consensual unprotected sex is equally both the man and the woman's fault. More broadly, there is no sound justification for EVER holding men to even one iota higher of a standard of responsibility or expectation, for any reason, on any topic. No, I just don't get it. Life isn't fair, biology isn't fair. I pump hormones that are doing god knows what to me through my body for years (and will continue to do so for years) so that my bf and I can have unprotected sex. And he does.......nothing. He gets the benefit with no cost to him. Is that fair? If the birth control fails, I have to go and get the abortion, and he does....nothing. That's not fair. So what, should I start kicking him in the balls every 4 minutes for 3 days every month? …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/19 04:25 PM
14	CMV: Consensual unprotected sex is equally both the man and the woman's fault. More broadly, there is no sound justification for EVER holding men to even one iota higher of a standard of responsibility or expectation, for any reason, on any topic. Look, it would be great if things were equal. However, the fact that women carry the child makes things unequal, and atm that s just too damn bad, there's nothing that can be done about it. Women will have one more "out" simply because they're the ones carrying the child. If it were the other way around, men would have one more "out". Believe me, I'd be so happy if there were a way to take a fetus out of a woman and put it in an artificial womb or something. I'd be all over that shit. I don't wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/19 03:20 PM
2	How attractive are you? Okay well I've done it, let's see how this goes lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/19 03:03 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (11 August 2019) The diet is not going well. Chicken cacciatore isn't thaaaaat bad if it's not fried, right? Right????	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/19 01:56 PM
2	Pessimistic thoughts on American sexuality Lol yeah what's with this?? I was in Boston last weekend and I was entirely absent on ppd cause like I was doing stuff. And also who goes to Cancun in August??	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/19 01:50 PM
2	How attractive are you? Haha I think I've decided fuck it lol. In another hour I'll do my makeup and see if I still have the balls lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/19 01:17 PM
3	How attractive are you? I wanna do it but I'm so scared that someone I know will see me on there lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/19 01:04 PM
1	The biological determinism that many prominent Red Pillers promote is nonsense. Yes of course. But my point is that that spectrum is much wider than a lot of people think.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/19 01:02 PM
2	How would you rate these two guys 1-10 Yeah, same. I think his nose is def not for me, I usually like thinner, perfect, like sculpted noses, like johhny depps (well at least younger Johnny Depp, idk what he looks like now lol). But at the same time his nose isn't particularly bad on his face, just not my thing. And I can't stop thinking that his eyes look like a noh mask lol. But I like his expression. He looks sweet and genuine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/19 12:47 PM
4	How would you rate these two guys 1-10 For one id give like a 5 maybe. I don't personally find him attractive in the slightest, just really not my type at all, but there's something like artistically beautiful about his face. It's not attractive, it's just kinda like nice to look at, the way you'd look at a nice painting lol. I'm trying to figure out what exactly it is, but it's escaping me. I think it might be something with his face shape, it's absolutely perfect. And the top of his head is incredibly round. Two is like idk a 4 or …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/19 10:54 AM
1	Why do women alienate fathers from seeing their kids? But that's what was being discussed, who does more housework, which your study showed was women. Why you chose to go with that is beyond me. I had already stated he works more than I do. But still "you just don't see the chores he does" 🙄 And that's just the thing, I'm literally sitting here right now telling you that is not the case in my relationship. I have said that the entire time. I even listed a lot of the chores I do. But statisticaaaaallllly...... Nonsense. Look up any study (one was ju…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/19 08:40 PM
1	Why do women alienate fathers from seeing their kids? Haha well this particular type of "debate" is the most annoying, personally. The type where someone says something about their life, and the other person is adamant that the first person is wrong about their very own experiences lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/19 07:27 PM
1	Why do women alienate fathers from seeing their kids? Oh no, I'm not mad, just agreeing with her annoyance with you. And the thing is, your stats do not show that men do more housework than women, they show that they do less. And no, nothing's a big deal. It's just funny how guys here have a tendency to argue with women about their lives, thinking they have a better knowledge of what happens in an individual woman's life/relationship than she herself does. You said maybe my bf is a slob or I have "neurotic standards" neither of which are the case. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/19 07:21 PM
1	Are your beliefs backed by actual Scientific Evidence? Would you be able to provide that research please? And id like to see those studies as well. Men are more likely to remarry after a divorce, so it seems there isn't some widespread paralyzing fear of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/19 05:36 PM
3	The biological determinism that many prominent Red Pillers promote is nonsense. Idk I struggle a lot with deciding how I feel on this. Brain plasticity is a thing that I don't fully understand but definitely suggests we are far more malleable than a lot of people believe. And I've said this before here, but my experiences riding/training horses has taught me an awful lot about how much can be trained into/out of things. While horses are obviously not people, we share a lot of characteristics in how we socialize and form hierarchies which is why we've been able to domesticat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/19 04:39 PM
3	Are your beliefs backed by actual Scientific Evidence? Oh that's interesting about the divorce stat, I hadn't heard that. I always had some issues with the 70% filed by women thing. From my experience the wife is usually the one handling the administrative parts of the marriage, and filing for divorce is exactly that, just filling out some paperwork. When I brought the stat up to my boyfriend he was like yeah duh, dudes are way more likely to just sit in a marriage that is essentially dead.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/19 02:10 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (11 August 2019) Yeah, she's even said that she purposefully does that so she is not sexualized lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/19 01:00 PM
4	Why do women alienate fathers from seeing their kids? Hahaha for real. Last week on one of the chores threads I mentioned I do almost all of the chores for my bf and i, since I only work part time atm. He proceeded to tell me that statistically men do more chores so there were probably a lot of things my bf did around the house that I didn't realize and I actually wasn't doing most of the chores. The nerve/delusion of some of these guys never fails to surprise me lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/19 12:41 PM
7	what would you tolerate with your "pre-wall" wife that you wouldn't once she's "post-wall"? Don't listen to his bullshit. From everything I've seen on here you seem like a sweet girl. He's a crazy loser who actually took the time to analyze the actual math about what kind of a deal a man is getting in a relationship. Don't even bother with his nonsense word vomit, he's wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/19 09:48 PM
4	any time a person with options makes a choice they are "Settling" Mmmmmm yeah I think that's what we've been missing!	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/19 08:22 PM
8	any time a person with options makes a choice they are "Settling" Oh shit, I've been invading other countries trying to find a war husband, I've been doing this all wrong 😕	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/19 07:01 PM
2	any time a person with options makes a choice they are "Settling" Apparently they don't, I've seen people mixing these up on multiple occasions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/19 06:22 PM
1	Virtually all men would rather have a 15 year old than a woman in her 30s It was actually uncommon to marry around 14/15 for most of (if not all) us history. Records going from the present back to 1890 show the median age of marriage only got as low as 20.2 and that was around the time of WWII and shortly after, in the late 19th early 20th century it was higher (around 22) Colonial era through the late 19th century is harder to pin down, but is believed to be around 19-22 for women in the colonial period and between 22-24 for women after reconstruction. There's data f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/19 06:21 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (11 August 2019) Oh it's prolly just from the cold then. Take some Mucinex, it might help your ears. If it doesn't get better for like a week after the cold runs its course then go to the doctor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/19 04:24 PM
10	any time a person with options makes a choice they are "Settling" I've also seen some people confuse "settling" for "settling down". Those are two different things. "settling" is taking a less than ideal option/person/thing. "settling down" is what most adults do eventually, they commit to one partner, put down roots, and start a family. Someone who is settling down is not "settling".	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/19 04:18 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (11 August 2019) Is it both? And do you feel anything else or us it just the ears?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/19 04:13 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (11 August 2019) Both of them? How long has it been? And any other symptoms? The past six months or so my ears have been a little funny, one of them will be kinda messed up, like not totally clogged but definitely annoying, but in a day or two it passes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/19 03:13 PM
1	Virtually all men would rather have a 15 year old than a woman in her 30s What specific time period are you talking about?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/19 02:06 PM
1	Men are shit at birth control He just doesn't like that women have the option and it's not faaaaaaaaaair to men. Like literally that's his entire position.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/19 12:33 PM
1	Is it inappropriate for highschool-college age girls to wear croptops in class? Fuck yeah people are nasty cover that up. Also idk why people like walking around their houses in various states of undress. I like wearing clothes and I'm def uncomfortable without them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/19 08:14 PM
1	Is it inappropriate for highschool-college age girls to wear croptops in class? Hahahaha thanks for the legitimate lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/19 08:12 PM
2	Is it inappropriate for highschool-college age girls to wear croptops in class? Hahahaha it's always the ones who have no business dressing (or not dressing lol) that way!!! I guess I admire the confidence....or maybe it's delusion idk haha	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/19 07:11 PM
2	Is it inappropriate for highschool-college age girls to wear croptops in class? Haha yeah idk! Most guys wear shirts around here, often enough that when I see a shirtless guy it throws me off. Honestly it's all unwelcome lol. There's this one guy who jogs at the same time as I head into work, he's prolly like 20 and he is in absolutely perfect shape, like this man is a Greek statue. He wears nothing but these tiny little shorts that go 1/4 of the way down his thigh. Even though hes absolutely perfect I'm like nah dude go home and put some clothes on what are you doing lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/19 07:10 PM
1	Is it inappropriate for highschool-college age girls to wear croptops in class? I saw a guy a week or two ago walking down the street with his button up shirt totally open. He looked so damn proud and walked with such swagger. He was skinny, but he had like a pregnant belly. I felt embarrassed for the girl he was walking with lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/19 07:02 PM
2	Are lower class women more sexual or are higher class women hiding their sexuality? Idgaf I hate them all they're the fucking worst	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/19 05:25 PM
4	[Ask BP] What is The Blue Pill's advice for Men to get laid? What about for an LTR/family? How does it make you wonder? That's like the most generic, common advice in the world, it's not mimicking trp in the slightest. Like literally the wikiHow for "how to get a girlfriend" has all of these points except "go the the gym" which is also just common sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/19 04:06 PM
4	Are lower class women more sexual or are higher class women hiding their sexuality? Well obviously you'll never hear myself or my UMC/UC friends say those actual words, like the vocabulary itself is different. The thought process is different a bit too, like seeing an attractive (or unattractive) guy doesn't make my mind jump to sex. I can't speak to what my friends think, but they don't seem to jump to that either. But it's not like a rule, you know, there's some girls that seem to have that stuff in mind more than others obviously, and if they say that kind of stuff we'll lau…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/19 01:06 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (11 August 2019) Thanks for the tips! We're home now but we were saying we'd like to go back. We spent Friday and Saturday with friends in Gloucester and stopped in Boston on the way home. We want to go back to Boston for like a full weekend soon! We stopped by faneuil Hall but it looked under construction, there was blue tarp covering the whole building! I think you could still go in though? And yeah, we saw a bit of the sketchyness. We were walking down....ugh I can't remember what street, walking back to Quin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/19 10:22 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (11 August 2019) Omg that's too funny!!! And yeah I like it there a lot too!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/19 05:11 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (11 August 2019) Yes for sure! And it's amazingly clean, we were walking around and it almost felt fake, like a movie set. Ohhhhh yeah I can imagine! My friend has a place in Kingston (I think it's south Kingston but idk) and it's nice, but it has more of a beachy vibe than a super preppy vibe. That's when I was in Newport, just spent a couple hours there. And wow that place looks incredible!! Ive gotta get over there, thanks for the recommendation!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/19 04:14 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (11 August 2019) Haha I know! I think the last time I was there was for a school trip in like 7th grade! It's totally worth it though, it was super cool! I think I like Boston more than NYC, though I obviously haven't been there as much. The drive really isn't bad, it was a little over 2 and a half hours to get back, we left at like 5 last night and got back around 8:30, no traffic or anything. You just take 84 to 90 I think it is, it's a really easy drive. We were visiting friends in Gloucester and stopped in B…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/19 03:52 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (11 August 2019) We were up in Boston yesterday, went to see the Constitution, went to a tavern from 1780 that George Washington visited and Paul Revere frequented. Really cool shit. But we also went to Quincy market, Boston common, the harbor, and walked all around and ooooomg.....my legs!!! My phone says I burned 900 calories from all the walking!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/19 02:35 PM
2	Changing trends? Or has this always been unattractive to women? Yeah that's been a criticism of Democrats for decades. Again, whether you like it or not the two are connected. Doesn't mean that you specifically are an alt-right racist, but there's significant overlap in the two groups. There are articles on the subject, you can look into it yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/19 01:18 PM
1	Are chores really such a huge fucking deal to couples? Oh yes, I forgot, this is ppd, where the guys know everything about strange women they've never met before and said women don't actually know what goes on in their own lives. Yeah, I clean the bathroom, living room, bedroom, den, kitchen, do all the vaccuming, dusting, cooking, dishes, cat box, mopping, sweeping, and windows, but yeah of course there's tons of chores he's doing around the house that I just dont appreciate because he's a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/19 01:13 PM
1	Changing trends? Or has this always been unattractive to women? But rather than try to get into a new industry, they spend time online and at rallies protesting that immigrants/other races/other religions are here. Of course there are structural problems, there always will be, but "turn back the clock send these people away" is never the answer that actually solves the problem. It's easier to say "just make them go away" than work to actually come up with a solution to the problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/19 01:01 PM
2	Changing trends? Or has this always been unattractive to women? It means that many ideas and beliefs are shared by the two, and men can easily get into one and then go down the rabbit hole into the other. At some points prominent manosohere guys have even spoken at alt-right events. I think you're reading things into my comment that I did not say. I didn't say every guy on the manosphere is a part of the alt right, just that the two are connected and you're going to find more alt right guys in the manosphere than in the general population.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/19 12:55 PM
1	Changing trends? Or has this always been unattractive to women? Yeah, I have the same bias. But many of then are losery types haha! A lot of the problem comes from the fact that these guys are struggling. They're having difficulty finding work and are dealing with the hardships that come from that. At least in the us. So like the guy with the coal mining job is upset he can't find work, and it's easier to blame immigrants, other races, other religions, etc, on your problems than to realize that it's just a dying industry and you need to learn something new. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/19 12:39 PM
2	Changing trends? Or has this always been unattractive to women? I hope this isn't too close to the no race rule. I dobt think this is really related to women or dating directly. In the us there has been a rise in nationalism, racism, and white supremacy in the past few years. Or at least openly expressing it more. I don't believe this is exclusive to the us, it's happening in Europe as well. I think that's what this is. I don't think those types of beliefs or comments are changing dating at large. These comments are notable because they're abnormal. Although…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/19 12:18 PM
1	Are chores really such a huge fucking deal to couples? Sorry bro but I'm not your wife.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/19 02:33 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (04 August 2019) Yeah for sure, I find a lot of stuff in politics to be really weird right now lol!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/19 11:42 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (04 August 2019) Oh cool, good shit. Thanks for the link!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/19 11:37 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (04 August 2019) Haha yep! I was just wondering, usually I watch the news pretty often but I've been missing it the past few days. Just wondering if there'd been some new development.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/19 11:32 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (04 August 2019) Yeah but what is the reason?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/19 10:28 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (04 August 2019) What's going on now?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/19 10:26 PM
7	How does a woman's sexual strategy change after menopause? Lol yeah I remember learning in health class about the rampant STD epidemics in nursing homes cause no one thought to wrap it up anymore lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/19 09:32 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (04 August 2019) Yeah do everything you can for your skin. My parents moved down to Florida a few years ago so I've been down there a lot recently. You can't definitely tell who grew up there and who moved down there later. I've seen some scary shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/19 08:47 PM
3	Are chores really such a huge fucking deal to couples? I hope you're referring to someone else, cause there is literally one thing that I refuse to do because I'm not my bfs mom. Also never even thought "you're using me for sex" let alone said it. Where in the world did you get this from?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/19 08:42 PM
2	Are chores really such a huge fucking deal to couples? We'll see how it goes when I graduate. I'm in school right now and only work part time so I'm okay doing most of the chores. If it continues after I get a full time job then that'll be an option we consider. And yeah, idk just laundry in particular seems like such a mom thing to me! Idk why??	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/19 07:49 PM
2	Are chores really such a huge fucking deal to couples? He has once or twice. On occasion I'll do it if like he needs the clothes for an event and he's unable to get it done. When we got our washer/dryer (the apartment didn't come with one) he asked if I'd be doing his laundry and I said no thank you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/19 06:51 PM
5	Are chores really such a huge fucking deal to couples? No we don't go out of our way to separate anything. I have my hamper from when I lived on my own, he has his from when he lived on his own. We throw our own laundry in our own hampers. It's just always been that way When it's time to do laundry I do my darks then my lights. When he has to do his he does a load of work clothes and a load of everything else. We rarely do laundry at the same time, I usually do mine during the day, he does his in the evening.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/19 06:16 PM
8	Are chores really such a huge fucking deal to couples? What? No, we have separate hampers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/19 06:09 PM
15	Are chores really such a huge fucking deal to couples? I do most of the chores cause I work less. When my bf and I were working near equally I still did most of the chores and yeah I got annoyed. I don't think he has cleaned the bathroom once since we've moved in together. Idk what's going to happen when I graduate and get a job, but he's going to have to start doing more. I do refuse to do his laundry cause that's shit your mother does, I'm not doing that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/19 05:49 PM
1	Men actually get pissed/judgey when women date younger guys too. Yeah there's definitely bars that cater to an older crowd. We have one club-like place around here that usually has kids 19-25 but every once in a while a big group of like 40 somethings comes in and honestly it's kinda weird.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/19 04:15 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (04 August 2019) Yeah I realized it a second later and was honestly disappointed lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/19 02:21 PM
2	Are men actually more obsessed with kids than women? Yeah, I totally agree. Ive loved animals for as long as I can remember. Its def not a replacement for kids, I'm 26 I can have them anytime I want lol, and atm I'm not sure I ever want them. My grandma is the same way, shes always loved animals and if I'm being honest she actually preferred her pets to her two actual children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/19 02:13 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (04 August 2019) Haha for a moment I thought you meant she owned two ships and I was like damn I'd marry her too!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/19 01:39 PM
9	Are men actually more obsessed with kids than women? Haha I'm seeing this really clearly with friends of mine right now. The husband wants a ton of kids, and the wife is like uhh slow the fuck down, I'm the one that has to grow these kids!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/19 01:35 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (04 August 2019) Oh God oh no you're totally right!!!!! I could never make it down there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/19 01:58 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (04 August 2019) Yeah, I totally get that, they just don't have the food I'm used to is all. Most of my favorite foods aren't available there, or just aren't very good there. That was my bfs biggest problem living there lol. And haha yeah that's what he had said too. He was in a college town so it was relatively normal, but when you got outside of it it was like a whole different world!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/19 12:18 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (04 August 2019) Yeah theres tons of places to eat, they're just mostly bad lol. If I liked barbecue more I think I'd do okay there, but I need my northern food. Chains are apparently way more common there too, which isn't normal up here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/19 12:08 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (04 August 2019) That's good, way better for you haha. Mexicans always a good choice though. But idk about in TN lol let me shit on them some more haha my bf said there were like 11 Hispanic people in his city!! My friends are about to move to Austin and they're mourning the loss of pizza but they're really excited about the Mexican.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/19 12:02 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (04 August 2019) Yeah, there's a million other things to do, he clearly didn't look into it very much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/19 11:22 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (04 August 2019) Don't you get tired of that though?? I mean don't get me wrong I love shitty food, but after a weekend of beer and pub food I'm like craving a salad lol. And no I cannot live without my bacon egg and cheeses. And where the hell am I supposed to go for eggs Benedict and home fries at 3 am if there's no diner?? Waffle House doesn't count.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/19 10:44 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (04 August 2019) Yeah exactly. And most people have cars that need to have the brake depressed to even start it, so almost anyone would notice right away. My friend's actually doesn't need to have the brake pressed, but it's that way on like every other car so he just puts his foot on the brake to start it out of habit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/19 10:41 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (04 August 2019) But the food is bad!!!!! Edit: also omg no Kaiser rolls either!!! How do people survive down there	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/19 10:33 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (04 August 2019) Yeah and the guys clearly an idiot. My friend has like a 2001 blsck Jeep Cherokee, and the guy whos car he was going for is a 2004 green Cherokee, which is a different body style. Also if you look up "cut brake lines" on Google everything says to not do it cause people realize they've been cut before they start driving so it's a terrible way to try to hurt someone. Clearly he didn't look into it at all lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/19 10:32 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (04 August 2019) Ah damn he was so certain. Yeah, it's nice in some ways. He went there for college, like 45 minutes outside Nashville. He said it's cool and everything but the winters suck, it's just cold and gray for 3 months straight, but it's not quite cold enough to snow. And we live in CT, so we're used to good pizza, delis, and diners. Apparently that's impossible to find down there. Idk if I could handle that lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/19 10:14 PM
1	Discussion: The Reality of the Beta Bucks Sex Hahahhaa I love sleeptalking stories! She sounds like fun lol. once when I was asleep I asked my bf what his last name was, and he answered me. Apparently I gave him the most exasperated sigh and said "no, your real last name!" Like he was the biggest idiot in the world lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/19 07:57 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (04 August 2019) Ok so can you tell me the state you were looking for a lake house in now? My bf was guessing TN and he really wants to know if he was right lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/19 07:44 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (04 August 2019) Hahahahhaha it's comforting to know that high school never ends	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/19 07:43 PM
6	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (04 August 2019) I have an update on my friend with the cut brake lines and slashed tires! It was mistaken identity!!! They finally saw the security tapes, they didn't recognize the guy and the camera didn't catch a plate so they had kind of resigned themselves to never finding out what happened. Then my bf was there with them last weekend fixing the car, and while they were working on it, a tow truck pulled up and said they were looking for the Jeep with the flat tires. They were like.....huh. The guy with the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/19 07:40 PM
1	Would you break up with your woman/man if you found out you were his very-direct backup plan? Hmmm, I'm really not sure. I'd have to do a lot of thinking about it. When my bf and I met, neither of us were looking for a relationship but we ended up liking each other enough that we got together. It had been over a year since both of our previous relationships ended though. I understand that things can change, people can change, so I don't think I'd break up immediately. I'd really have to think about it quite a bit, I'm not sure what id do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/19 02:36 PM
3	Men want sex and women want money Haha yes of course I appreciate my dad lol. But yeah, it's easier to appreciate my mom. One of the consequences of my dad doing well was that he was always at work, so my mom was the one interacting with us the most, but he always made an effort to come to my horse shows and my sisters swim meets.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/19 12:52 PM
3	Men want sex and women want money Thanks! She really has been the best mom I could ever ask for!	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/19 12:42 PM
7	Men want sex and women want money Ugh this is nonsense. My mom was a sahm to my sister and I. She managed the entire household. We have always had an immaculately clean house (all my friends have commented unsolicited that my house is amazingly clean) my sister and I were loved and well taken care of. She did the decorating and all the things that made the house home. She did almost all the cooking (my dad did the grilling, and he had a couple dishes he liked making) she did the gardening and landscaping. And the most important …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/19 12:36 PM
1	What is going on with crashing sperm counts and testosterone levels? Are we heading toward a species-shattering male infertility epidemic? How will male-female relationship dynamics weather this? Idk man they're often violent and are literally called riots. Looting, vandalism, violence that requires police to come in and control, crowds of hundreds to thousands of people...sounds like a riot to me. 2010 – Santa Cruz May Day riot, May 1, 250 rampage through downtown Santa Cruz attacking 18 businesses, causing an estimated $100,000 in damages. 1 arrested. Santa Cruz, California 2010 – Springfest riot, April 10, 200 police disperse crowd of 8,000 using tear gas, pepper spray, rubber bullets…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/19 09:07 AM
2	What is going on with crashing sperm counts and testosterone levels? Are we heading toward a species-shattering male infertility epidemic? How will male-female relationship dynamics weather this? They're more common than you think (more common than I thought too) https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_incidents_of_civil_unrest_in_the_United_States At least one a year, usually more. Many involve setting fires, spraying graffiti, smashing windows, vandalism, looting, and occasionally violence. Usually involve multiple arrests and many incidents have hundreds of arrests. One had more than 700 arrests, and that's all just looking at the list from 2010-2019	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/19 01:17 AM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (04 August 2019) Yeah, I'm really liking it! I wonder if it's Matt skibas influence, he just joined in the past couple years. New album coming out September 20th, they say it's supposed to sound a little more like the self titled album. If it's anything like darkside and one of the other songs they released recently https://youtu.be/ZQ-NycSnGsc I'll be happy!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/19 01:11 AM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (04 August 2019) Idk what it's like now but when I was in elementary/ middle school(late 90s/early-mid 2000s) that shit didn't matter. We got participation trophies but everyone knew they were bullshit, it didn't make anybody feel better, if anything it made me feel worse, like jeez let me fail alone don't draw attention to me lol. And yeah there were big pushes against bullying but it didn't make a difference it still happened. I know multiple kids who were pulled out of school and sent somewhere else cause of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/19 09:28 PM
2	What is going on with crashing sperm counts and testosterone levels? Are we heading toward a species-shattering male infertility epidemic? How will male-female relationship dynamics weather this? Riots happen all the time in the us, revolutions not so much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/19 07:10 PM
3	What's the thought process behind these games young women play? Depends a lot on the individual woman, like crush said. Generally figure around early/mid 20s. Personally, I never really did those games even when I was a teenager, but I know a woman who's turning 31 this year who still does them. It can vary a lot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/19 02:57 PM
0	Do you/would you engage in pick me behaviour? Nah I'll tell you 100% it's not meant to bring myself up in the slightest. Just cause I'm calling her out on her flat ass doesn't somehow make me better, im just gunna do it cause if you're gunna act like a dick everything's fair game. I'm harder on myself than anyone else, I know what my good and bad parts are, bringing someone down to pull myself up makes no sense to me. She has a flat ass, that doesn't magically make my crappy skin go away. I'm well aware that people do bring others down to p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/19 02:48 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (04 August 2019) Really liking the new blink 182 song https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=4lkmgS7BfuQ Come shit on me for my poor taste in music idgaf this song is banging. Matt skibas voice will continue to be my favorite comfort until the day I die ❤️	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/19 02:40 PM
1	Do you/would you engage in pick me behaviour? Yeah, I said that in my comment haha. And it's not meant to puff myself up, it's meant to drag the other person down. If theyre going to act like an asshole, I'll mention all of their faults. And in the case of the trashy girl, it wasn't even meant to drag her down, we were just in awe of how trashy she's become lol. She had these enormous heels on, this big clunky bag with lots of jangly metal accents, those super long nails filed to a sharp point, and she had enormous angel wings tattooed on h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/19 01:59 PM
1	Do you/would you engage in pick me behaviour? Oh God those women are awful. I soooometimes do number 1, but not to be a pick me. Like last weekend my friend and I were shitting on a mutual acquaintance for being trashy (but omg for real she's so trashy). I judge the hell out of everyone, but I won't actually say anything about it unless they give me a reason to. Like if there's a girl who has a flat ass I will certainly recognize it, but not say anything. But if she starts yelling at the bartender, I'll lean over to my friend and say wow lo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/19 12:51 PM
2	What changes once you move in with your SO/partner? Honestly didn't have to change much, things fell into place really easily. But like in your example, keeping each other more apprised of your plans is a slight change. Oh haha well for the longest time I wasn't able to use the bathroom while my bf was home but after years I've finally gotten over that. That was really annoying at first. But besides that northing really changed. I cook more cause now I have another person to cook for, it never felt worth it making like an actual meal just for mys…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/19 02:50 AM
1	Discussion: Can we have an objective discussion about the number scale on looks, and possibly come to some agreement on a standardized baseline? Oh, I mean they were freaked out because my spine is the shape of an "S", not because they could see the bones haha. I can see some of the bones in most of my friends spines. Yeah I mean I wouldn't be actively dying if I stayed at 130, but it looked bad, you know? Like you could see too many bones, I looked freaky. And the doctor didn't think I should stay at that weight. You should come up around here then though, there's a ton of girls who are too skinny. I knew a few girls who were diagnosed …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/19 06:53 PM
1	Discussion: Can we have an objective discussion about the number scale on looks, and possibly come to some agreement on a standardized baseline? Yeah my spine was totally visible at that weight. I have pretty severe scoliosis, like right on the cusp of needing surgery, and I would freak my friends out when they saw my back!! And yeah I was def getting too skinny. I look back at pictures of that now and I look very strange, my arms looked super lanky and scary. I also don't lose my boobs/butt when I lose weight, so it just looked a little weird. That might play into it too, I must've had like at least 5 lbs of boob haha. I look much bette…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/19 06:36 PM
1	Discussion: Can we have an objective discussion about the number scale on looks, and possibly come to some agreement on a standardized baseline? Damn, id think that's too skinny! I'm 5'9 and when I got down to 140 my doctor told me to stop losing weight, I was getting too thin. When I got to 130 you could see my ribs too much and it was def too skinny. But I'm muscular, so that might have something to do with it? Also not even as an excuse or anything but I am actually big boned lol, like my wrists and ankles will never be dainty, no matter how thin I am haha. Maybe that makes a difference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/19 06:07 PM
2	Can you ever be truly vulnerable in a relationship? Yes!! That's fantastic, sounds like a great time! I think it has something to do with doing an activity that requires focus, but at the same time it's so ingrained in you that you don't need to consciously pay attention to what you're doing. Like when I'm riding, say something unexpected happens and the horse bolts, I will sit up straight and pull back on the reins without a second thought, it's all just muscle memory. It's the same thing as driving, if something jumps out in front of you you sl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/19 05:49 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (04 August 2019) Blueberries can do the same thing. I had a couple pieces of blueberry pie one night last year and had a heart attack the next day lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/19 03:27 PM
2	Can you ever be truly vulnerable in a relationship? Yes, doing something else is so helpful! I know this isn't accessible to everyone, but I've found that horseback riding takes my mind off of everything. I am rarely actually consciously thinking about problems when I'm at the barn. When I'm getting the horse ready and doing our warmup (just walking on the horse) my mind wanders, but magically somehow it only wanders to good things or neutral things. The coolest part is when I'm actually riding at more than a walk, my mind is completely blank. I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/19 12:45 PM
13	Why can’t women simply say “no” That is exactly what is accomplished by this little dance. You're treating someone with respect by not flatly telling them no. Are you perhaps from a different culture? The "justification" that many people on this thread as well as psychologists are agreeing with? I'm sorry but it seems like you're the one who's trying to justify your inability to engage in a near universal social practice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/19 07:23 PM
1	maintaining interest in LTR Awww what a sweetie!! And what a cute gift!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/19 06:59 PM
15	Why can’t women simply say “no” Not in the slightest. It's a simple thing adults engage in every single day. It's rude to outright say no to people, being more "honest" is not the way adults behave. You have many people in this thread saying as much; it's just a common thing everyone does. There's a link someone posted describing how this is a thing people do in order to have both parties save face, you should check it out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/19 06:58 PM
14	Why can’t women simply say “no” It's not treating anyone like a child, it's simple social lubricant that almost everyone engages in. If anything, the people who don't understand why this happens are more like children, unable to understand the function of social niceties.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/19 06:52 PM
9	Why can’t women simply say “no” It's not being treated like a work obligation, I just gave that example to explain that I do it outside of strictly social settings as well, to describe that I do it to all people in all situations. And yeah, it's exactly what you're doing with your friends. It's rude to tell them "no I don't want to" so you come up with an excuse. That's all, it's just being polite and trying to not hurt other people's feelings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/19 05:40 PM
18	Why can’t women simply say “no” I think a lot of it is just being polite. It's rude to just say outright "no" to people on most occasions, so you come up with some dumb excuse. I do it to everyone, men and women, and ice had it done to me by men and women. Like when my job calls me to come into work on a day off, I don't just tell them outright no, I say oh sorry I have plans, sorry I have a class to go to, sorry I'm not in the area, etcz even though most of the time I don't have an outright conflict I just don't want to go in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/19 05:25 PM
2	maintaining interest in LTR Omg I've never seen her face before, she is absolutely gorgeous! And good job on getting her weight down, it's so hard to do with cats!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/19 02:01 PM
2	Why is the message given to men and women completely different? Men are told to improve themselves, women are told they are perfect just the way they are I wonder the same thing! Of course emotional support is usually there as well, but I almost always get practical suggestions when venting to my female friends, and I always give practical advice (or at least try to lol) when people vent to me. I've never understood when people say that. It often happens that my bf will be complaining about something, I'll offer a suggestion, and he'll say "yeah but I just want to complain". I've never found this to be exclusive to either gender.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/19 01:58 PM
2	Why is the message given to men and women completely different? Men are told to improve themselves, women are told they are perfect just the way they are This isn't a competition in who has it worse. OP said women are told they're perfect just the way they are and are never told to improve themselves. That is obviously false, which is what my comment is about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/19 12:38 PM
5	Why is the message given to men and women completely different? Men are told to improve themselves, women are told they are perfect just the way they are The op doesn't say we just discuss something the other gender does? Doesn't matter if it's from men or women, that's the messaging women get. Nobody ever said it was exclusively from men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/19 11:30 PM
55	Why is the message given to men and women completely different? Men are told to improve themselves, women are told they are perfect just the way they are No automod, so I'll comment here i guess. The whole women are perfect the way they are thing is an overcorrection of the messages they've gotten for a long time. Women are constantly getting the message that they need to be perfect, it's absolutely everywhere. Need to be skinny, blonde, but still have an ass and boobs, etc, etc. Parents putting their kids on diets and exercise regimens to make sure they stay skinny I mean look at all the beauty products marketed to women, beyond just makeup. Pro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/19 01:33 PM
4	Which, If any, parts of TRP do you consider to be morally wrong or using the wrong tone, yet factually correct or efficient? The average age is increasing because people are dating/cohabitating longer. The average is 3-5 years of ltr before marriage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/19 12:25 PM
1	Q4W: How attracted are you to the idea of a guy who earns $1MM/yr, travels a lot, big house, that kind of partner/lifestyle? I don't think it affects my interest that much. Like sure if there's two exactly identical guys and one makes 100k and the other makes 1 mil I'll go for the 1 mil, but how much I actually like the guy himself matters more than the money he makes. Like sure at first that lifestyle might be tempting, it'd be nice to go and do all those things, but it's only exciting for so long, just like anything else, you get used to it eventually. And yeah that sounds alright I guess. I kinda like what I had gr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/19 02:41 PM
1	Q4W: How attracted are you to the idea of a guy who earns $1MM/yr, travels a lot, big house, that kind of partner/lifestyle? That man definitely has things going for him, but personally those things alone aren't enough. I've gotta actually like the guy haha. But yeah, the lifestyle is nice. I know lots of guys like this, but I know them as parents. My dad's like this, but we weren't taking like elaborate exotic trips all the time cause like he had to work, my sister and I had to be in school, all that. And idk how that worked for him in the smp, him and my mom got together before he was that successful. And like idk h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/19 02:24 PM
2	Who Overestimates Their Value More? Haha omg yeah, I hadn't realized that!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/19 01:13 PM
2	Who Overestimates Their Value More? Oh yeah for sure. Once I saw the videos op linked (I didn't watch them, just looked at what they were) it was pretty clear they were just motivational/self help videos.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/19 01:12 PM
18	Who Overestimates Their Value More? Lol omg do you live in a movie or something? I've never heard those phrases said in real life. Also, there's this https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/social-instincts/201507/when-men-arent-good-looking-they-think%3famp Which cites multiple studies that found men rate themselves as more attractive than they actually are, while women's ratings of themselves better match reality. There's also a slightly different study here https://www.iradio.ie/men-think-theyre-better-look…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/19 08:43 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (28 July 2019) Oh that's interesting, I didn't know that! Is the new stuff cheaper? I'm surprised we don't use the old stuff here then, we have a lot of limestone here. Idk if it's quarried nearby or anything, but we have a limstone Rd, a limestone terrace, and a limekiln Rd in my town haha. A lot of people have trouble with their water, even with a softener the well water here has a ton of lime, it tastes bad and gets all over the glasses!	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/19 06:55 PM
1	CMV: Most men, for the most part don't have much of any standards, they have preferences. Women have standards and preferences and that is something I admire very much. No, it doesn't make me uncomfortable at all. It doesn't have anything to do with mgtows and incels being assholes. They just tend to be very set in their ways and completely opposed to considering any alternate viewpoint so it's usually useless to engage with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/19 04:04 PM
1	CMV: Most men, for the most part don't have much of any standards, they have preferences. Women have standards and preferences and that is something I admire very much. It doesn't make me uncomfortable, it just reeks of a incel/mgtow-esque worldview	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/19 03:13 PM
5	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (28 July 2019) I'm not denying that it happens, but why are you taking this as some concrete thing when the second paragraph says "The idea has been criticized for the methodology of the research and because sexual activity decreases for all long-term couples regardless of sexual orientation. Subsequently, researchers have regarded it as a popular myth.[6][7][8"	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/19 03:05 PM
0	CMV: Most men, for the most part don't have much of any standards, they have preferences. Women have standards and preferences and that is something I admire very much. I'm not sure I want to engage with someone who uses the word "gynocentric" seriously.... But honestly I think it has to do with how women are raised and cultural influences. Women are constantly bombarded with the message that physical appearance is supremely important, from when they're little girls. It's basically inescapable. Therefore, women pay closer attention to these things. They spend a lot of time tearing themselves and each other apart, looking at tiny flaws on everyone around them. T…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/19 02:58 PM
2	The Modern American Home is Overly Feminized and Dysfunctional Yeah I'd say I agree with you there. My only thing is idk if that connection to ownership is exactly necessary. Like obviously we think of western history and culture as own land=powerful/good, but that's just our cultural perception. Like for example, when Europeans first came to North America, they didn't intend (generally, at least) to take the land away from the Indians, it was generally a big misunderstanding due to big cultural differences. Many Indian tribes didn't have the concept of lan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/19 02:04 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (28 July 2019) Yeah, exactly. I have a bit of an issue with dealing with other people's filth, whether or not you can actually see it, I know other people have lived there and gotten their disgusting dead skin cells and shit all over the place haha. Don't have to think about that in a new build! I also like the inside of older homes if they've kept the historical elements of it. Like all the Victorian built ins, the old colonial stoves/ fireplaces, all that stuff. When I was a kid we were considering an old ho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/19 12:55 PM
3	CMV: Most men, for the most part don't have much of any standards, they have preferences. Women have standards and preferences and that is something I admire very much. Nah that's not what the study found. Men and women rated each other, but the men also rated the men and the women rated the women. https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/23311908.2014.996316 They found that men rated themselves higher, and also rated others lower. Women did not. "Overall, men rated the attractiveness of others lower...Overall, men rated themselves higher in self-perceived attractiveness than did women" "These findings are consistent with past studies that report that men t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/19 10:34 AM
4	CMV: Most men, for the most part don't have much of any standards, they have preferences. Women have standards and preferences and that is something I admire very much. Or the answer could just be the conclusion of the study.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/19 02:30 AM
8	CMV: Most men, for the most part don't have much of any standards, they have preferences. Women have standards and preferences and that is something I admire very much. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/social-instincts/201507/when-men-arent-good-looking-they-think%3famp According to the studies referenced in the article, men actually overestimate their attractiveness. Women do not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/19 01:42 AM
1	The Modern American Home is Overly Feminized and Dysfunctional Ohhhhh okay I get what you're saying. I kinda think that has more to do with individual personality differences than general men vs women. Like my bf is big into owning land, and a lot of it. His parents house has been in their family for generations and he feels a big pull to stay on that land and take care of it and everything. If everything goes as planned, that will be our house someday. But there's some other guys I know who are perfectly content living in their basic apartments, or even th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/19 10:22 PM
4	CMV: Most men, for the most part don't have much of any standards, they have preferences. Women have standards and preferences and that is something I admire very much. I agree that there are certainly men out there who do have extremely low/no standards, however I dont think that can be extended to the majority of them. Most guys I know have their standards and have stuck to them. I can't say there's been a time where one of my male friends has brought a girl around and I've been like ewww he has no standards....actually there is one, but it was way back in high school and we all joke about what an idiot he was back then lol I've watched my friends reject girl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/19 09:50 PM
2	The Modern American Home is Overly Feminized and Dysfunctional I'm sorry I'm kinda not getting what you're saying. Why is their lack of care and issue? Like he doesn't care how the house is decorated, I don't care about the type of motorcycle he buys or how he chooses to organize the garage. It's just not of interest to me. And hahaha, it's the worst! My bfs parents built a lovely colonial farmhouse, and then his mom goes and throws a bunch of mid century furniture and art in there (very poorly chosen too, not just cause I don't like the style) and it's jus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/19 09:43 PM
5	The Modern American Home is Overly Feminized and Dysfunctional I think you're underestimating how little fucks a lot of men give about the spaces they live in. The decorating is shared pretty equally between my bf and I, we both have veto power and neither of us buys something or hangs something up without consulting the other. We're both young millennials, and I'm sure some of it comes from the way we've acquired things. We're limited by what we can afford and what we currently have; most of the furniture is stuff my parents gave me. We're gradually accumu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/19 09:29 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (28 July 2019) Actually we lucked out in that regard! The place was built in the late 1870s to early 1880s, operated until the 1930s, and then sat vacant until it was remodeled in the 1980s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/19 06:44 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (28 July 2019) Yes, we're going through the same thing atm! We're planning on buying a house in a year or so so we've been looking around and the new builds are very tempting. We actually found a place that is perfect, it's in a great location, has all of the requirements both of us have, but it's brand new and it just feels so lacking. And even then, it's not a sure bet. My parents had a brand new house built two years ago, and they've had multiple problems already due to some shitty subcontractor work. Altho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/19 06:41 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (28 July 2019) That's a good point too. I know there's a lot of old machinery and equipment and God knows what else in the basement here. Apparently they couldn't get it out when they turned it into apartments in the 80s, so they just walled it all in! I also know there were a lot of chemicals used here. Idk how long Mercury sticks around for but I wouldn't be surprised if we had some.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/19 06:35 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (28 July 2019) Oh no, that's such a disappointment! I don't know how people keep up with them! And it's crazy how many small intricacies there are in having one that you never think about. Like our building is brick, built in the late 1870s/early 1880s. It's very difficult to do repairs to the actual brickwork because apparently they used a different mortar back then than we use today, and the two types of mortar do not stick together well! And apparently because of the actual way this place was built, it's be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/19 04:15 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (28 July 2019) I love living in an old building for the historical aspect and the character and all that....but uuugh the problems and repairs suck! The parking lot is totally torn up right now while they're fixing a massive sinkhole. The drainage isn't up to our current standards, but it was left as it was when they converted the building because it was too much to modernize it. So now we have a 17 foot by 8 foot sinkhole that's being fixed. And then this morning we had people here because the old pipes are l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/19 04:02 PM
2	Why are men looked at as pervs when they are with a child? I can't say I've noticed this. Yeah, women are more cautious around random men with their kids than random women, but I don't see men being labeled as pervs on the regular for interacting with their own kids ,(or even a stranger's kids) I know that men have been accused of being pedos while just doing things with their own kids, but only through the news. I think those stories make the news cause it's relatively uncommon.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/19 01:20 PM
18	Q4M: Why Do You Expect Women To Think Like Men I constantly have to remind myself that the majority of the men on here are not average men. While some of their worries and concerns might be present in the majority of the male population, they're amplified in the guys on here because they've spent time on trp and the like. Of course guys have insecurities, that's totally normal, but this fixation and anger isn't as present in normal guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/19 08:48 PM
2	Women Created Their Own Unattainable Standards of Beauty Omg a middle aged man I delivered to complimented my nails a couple weeks ago. First time that's happened!	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/19 07:31 PM
1	Do you really don't understand why men don't wanna be the "great guy" who ends up with you after you go through all the "assholes"? Obviously this is assuming your partner does not have an untreated STD. This is something that should be discussed no matter what, it goes without saying. The assumption here is that you're with your gf/wife, this should have been taken care of already.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/19 05:38 PM
15	Do you really don't understand why men don't wanna be the "great guy" who ends up with you after you go through all the "assholes"? No, I don't get it at all. There's just so many issues with this in my opinion. First of all, how many guys are ending up in their late 20s with a girl who knew him and rejected him in his late teens? Unless that is your exact situation, you have no way of knowing if your gf would have dated you or not. You did not exist in her world yet. Then, people change. Teenagers are idiots, and they make poor decisions. That's how we come to learn what we like/dislike in relationships, by trying it out, b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/19 03:57 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (28 July 2019) Haha yeah, give it a shot. I have oily hair and there's no way I could go a day without washing it, but I know a lot of people shampoo every other day or a couple times a week. For what it's worth though, my vagabonding friend has been back from his trip for years now, and he immediately went back to washing his hair every day haha.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/19 02:03 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (28 July 2019) I have a friend who vagabonded across the country over 6 months or so with very infrequent showers. He has oily skin/hair. He said you go through the initial gross disgusting greasy hair stage for a bit, and then your hair magically becomes nice and smooth and not greasy. Not something I'd personally do or recommend, but that's his experience with it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/19 01:45 PM
2	Men are systematically oppressed into taking the loosing deal Haha oh God no, he'll never straighten himself out then! the past two years have been incredibly difficult, just tragedy after tragedy and he hasn't been able to cope. He's really a great guy with a heart of gold, but too damn stubborn to listen to any of us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/19 09:46 PM
3	"MaN uP" and "men and women are equal" are fundamentally incompatible and contradictory. Pick one! Yeah, it's a shame. I guess she's fine in the end, but it sucks she wasn't able to do what she wanted cause of her mother's traditional beliefs. I should be thankful though, she met my dad while working as a secretary haha. Oh haha noooo not at all. Everyone has their own ideas of how the world should work, how people should behave, and a lot of people want to force that on others. I think gay marriage is a good example of this. Gay people marrying hurts absolutely no one, nobody is forcing anyo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/19 07:57 PM
7	"MaN uP" and "men and women are equal" are fundamentally incompatible and contradictory. Pick one! Yeah of course it's a bit of a struggle figuring out what the right way to do things is. My own mom ended up doing secretary school instead of college because of her mother's "girls don't go to college" belief and she regrets it till today. I don't see why you think anybody would or should be benefitting from any of that though. It's just how life is, different people think differently and think others should act in different ways, and they talk about it. You end up getting mixed messages, every…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/19 07:05 PM
3	The PPD Demographic is too Abstract / Fringe to Have Well Rounded Discussions Around Modern Dating Hahahaha my (boomer) dad was guilty of this for so long. He's better now but when my sister and I were teenagers it was unbearable!	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/19 06:59 PM
13	"MaN uP" and "men and women are equal" are fundamentally incompatible and contradictory. Pick one! Nobodys benefitting, it's different people saying/believing different things, that's all. You just gotta figure out what you like and how you want to live and go for that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/19 06:54 PM
12	Men are systematically oppressed into taking the loosing deal Yeah I think there's a lot of guys just hearing what they want to hear (not that women don't do this too) We're dealing with it right now with a friend that's been going through an extended rough patch. He has been literally homeless, living in his car, going on 6 or 7 months now. He's also dealing with a drug problem. And he's complaining that he needs a girlfriend. We keep telling him no dude, you need to get yourself right first. No girl who's not also a homeless addict is going to date you. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/19 04:54 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (28 July 2019) OHHHHHHHHHHH hahhahahhaa that makes so much more sense!!!! That's lovely lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/19 02:06 AM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (28 July 2019) Aaah no id never wear my mom or grandma's perfume!! Imagine like having sex and all of a sudden you get a whiff of your perfume it'd take you straight back to them. Aaaaah!!!!! It's a cool idea but nooooo And also the perfume older women wear is nasty. It has that powdery smell I hate. I wonder if the fruity scents I like now will smell like old lady to young people when I'm 70.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/19 01:46 AM
6	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (28 July 2019) It hurts when our actual selves don't match up with our ideal selves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/19 01:42 AM
5	Analyzing what women want based on the animation they create and consume (because f*ck it) My aunt is an animator/ director! She's worked at Disney and Nickelodeon. And she's said that up until recently cartoons were a total boys club, and now a lot of it is outsourced to Asia.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/19 09:09 PM
1	Does BP accept or reject the idea of the dual-mating strategy (AFBB) ? It's real in that it exists in some cases, which I acknowledged in my first comment, but trp makes it a blanket theory that is pervasive in female behavior, and I find that to be incorrect. And nah, they're really not. You brought up women's behavior in developing countries, and I said I don't have any experience there, but explained what I've read on the subject. You can read it too if you'd like, it's in the book "everyday life in the Muslim middle East" by Donna Lee Bowen and Evelyn a Early. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/19 07:27 PM
14	Where Does This Trend of Men "Waiting For Women To Save Them" Come From? What are you talking about? Just type it into Google and there's all kinds of articles about the FBI investigating threats against outspoken feminists. https://prospect.org/article/look-inside-mens-rights-movement-helped-fuel-california-alleged-killer-elliot-rodger One woman (just a regular ass woman) got into an argument with a guy at a protest, so some mra guys got together and released her phone number, address, work location, everything, and she got tons of threats. She brought it to the att…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/19 05:57 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (28 July 2019) Nah, I don't go for guys like that. One of the things that attracted me to my bf was how kind be was, how he was a genuinely good person. That's the thing, I think most of it is wrong, and don't want to be with someone who thinks it is right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/19 05:27 PM
1	Does BP accept or reject the idea of the dual-mating strategy (AFBB) ? That doesn't make any sense though. It doesn't account for any of the men who would prefer a monogamous relationship, and who do not seek to engage in casual sex, not to mention men who do not want children. It's not because they're forced to do anything, it's just because of the natural course of life. A lot more is expected of everyone when they're 25 versus 16, it's just a part of growing up. Nobody expects a 16 year old to have their own money or place to live, none of them do, because they'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/19 04:33 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (28 July 2019) It's not being involved with this place (I am haha, so I can't say shit) it's the alignment with rp ideals and beliefs. If he were on here arguing the bp side it'd be no issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/19 03:20 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (28 July 2019) Yeah, I'd definitely be curious, but I wouldn't look at it. My bfs phone dings when I'm next to it all the time, and of course I want to look, but in the 4 and a half years we've been together I've never done so. And itd be pretty bad. You're significantly older than me so I prolly wouldn't be dating you anyway, but ignoring that I saw some stuff about awalt. While you overall seem quite reasonable, I would not want to be with any guy who even entertained awalt. Any knowledge of trp would be a b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/19 02:28 PM
15	Lacking Emparthy Towards Men Yes, this is exactly it! Remember that thread not too long ago, asking men if they wanted the strong friendships that women had? The men in here were all "we dont need to talk about our feelings" "stop assuming men feel like women feel" And then here we have "men are scared to confide in people because they'll be called weak" It's the other men calling them weak!! They were right here, days ago, doing exactly that!	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/19 12:54 PM
1	Does BP accept or reject the idea of the dual-mating strategy (AFBB) ? In some cases, sure, I guess. But I still don't see that happening regularly. I think the most common way people are having sex is in a relationship, and the second after that it's with a "friend". Especially early on, most teenagers are having sex with their committed partners. And also, iirc, the studies done that have supported a dual mating strategy have either been debunked or failed to be replicated. And the thing is, this is now so watered down that it's essentially meaningless. If you're…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/19 12:48 PM
17	Lacking Emparthy Towards Men Those groups (only 2) are listed on SPLC's hate group list because they openly call for violence against women, not because they want to help men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/19 02:14 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (21 July 2019) Hahaha omg that's too funny!! It was a big surprise that the cameras were newer, the place is owned by a non-profit that is not known for updating the buildings they have (my friend's apartment still has the old circular fuses and an ironing board that pulls out from the wall from the 50s, and still has the shitty contractor grade cabinets from the 80s)	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/19 11:43 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (21 July 2019) They weren't totally flat yet, it was a small hole that made a slow leak. And the second tire the guy a really did a really bad job with, he didn't cut the valve stem all the way. Bf was able to put the spare on the bad tire and fill the second tire and was able to make it to a shop. But yeah it would be a dead giveaway, I think it's more the guy was bad at it than he was being ultra sneaky haha.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/19 11:40 PM
15	A Persons Pill Color is Directly Tied to Their Native Socioeconomic Class Yeah Trump isn't UC at all, he's never fit into their social circles and everyone has known he's a shady grifter for decades.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/19 10:09 PM
2	Does BP accept or reject the idea of the dual-mating strategy (AFBB) ? But that's not what trp says, is it? It's not "oh I went after these alpha guys once or twice, it's just not working out, I'll have to try someone different" it says girls fuck alphas until they will no longer have them due to declining looks, then rush to find some supplicant guy who they're not attracted to. And sure, some women might do some of those things, but I'm personally someone who never went after an "alpha" (I find alpha/beta to be nonsense in the first place) and never desired to. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/19 08:12 PM
3	Q4A: Where do you rank on the Kinsey scale? I totally understand! Honestly the idea of a 3 way is gross to me, not interested. It's all good, we are how we are 🤷	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/19 07:13 PM
5	Q4A: Where do you rank on the Kinsey scale? Ah total same!! I think women are by far more beautiful and I think their bodies look nicer. But I have no interest in anything sexual with another woman. Made out with a couple girls during spin the bottle in high school and just didn't like it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/19 06:48 PM
1	Does BP accept or reject the idea of the dual-mating strategy (AFBB) ? I addressed it by saying that I don't think that's trps stance, that they simply get tired of it; their belief is that they love those alphas and they only settle for a beta once they get older and realize the alphas aren't into them anymore. That's why the whole wall concept is even in trp in the first place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/19 06:37 PM
1	At what height of a man specifically does height become a problem for women? Yeah, I'm very aware of that. I've already given you tips. Get her as close to orgasm as you can before penetration. Don't pressure her that this is your goal, cause then it'll absolutely never happen. And it's just very likely that it's not going to happen. Whether you like it or not, the majority of women cannot orgasm from penetration alone. She is likely part of the majority. It doesn't mean anything is bad or wrong with you or with her, it's just literally how her body is built.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/19 05:08 PM
2	At what height of a man specifically does height become a problem for women? No, it doesn't really matter. My bf is 5'10. And no, that is incorrect. Just like some people have longer legs, some people have stubby fingers, some people have long torsos, genital anatomy differs from person to person. Some women are capable of it, most aren't. And ignoring the issues of me having a bf, you having a gf, me not doing casual sex, and not meeting strange men, why would I do anything with a man who is admitting he's unable to give a girl a vaginal orgasm?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/19 04:17 PM
2	At what height of a man specifically does height become a problem for women? Idk wtf is going on here but anyone significantly shorter than me (I'm 5'9) would be a deal breaker. And the majority of women cannot orgasm without clitoral stimulation. Your best bet would be to get her as close to orgasm as you can before penetration, an hour of thrusting is not going to make it happen for women who need clitoral stimulation, personally that sounds godawful. But it just might not be possible for her, and that is normal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/19 04:04 PM
1	Men love women's bodies. Women don't care very much about men's bodies. What makes up for this? It's not just about memory, in fact I'd say that's the least important piece, as a lot of art is done with a reference so the memory aspect is less important. https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.livescience.com/19878-drawing-ability.html I think the most important parts are the way artists see the world, and the knowledge of what lines to put down on paper. Obviously when you draw you don't put down every single thing you see (like you don't draw every individual blade of grass, every strand of hai…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/19 02:43 PM
2	What seperates the UC/UMC from the other classes? A lot of it is difficult to explain and emulate because it comes from a lifetime of being raised that way, but it's not impossible. I mean you have somewhat of a grasp with it with those quotes you have in there. You don't show off your wealth, nothing flashy or anything. Like yeah, sure, you have nice things, but it's not a big deal because everyone else has those nice things too. You don't flaunt what you have. Be humble about anything you're complimented on. You're not special because you hav…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/19 01:37 PM
2	Off Topic Thread: Politics (20 July 2019) I remember reading on Reddit, like three years ago, before the primaries, someone writing some inconsequential comment about everyone's thoughts on trump back when no one was taking him seriously and just kinda laughing him off. It went something like "oh, he won't get to the primary" "There's no way he'll win the primary" "Okay well he won the primary, but he won't win the general election" "Oh shit hes the actual president" And that's kind of exactly how it went. I think about that comment lik…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/19 01:15 PM
3	Men love women's bodies. Women don't care very much about men's bodies. What makes up for this? Ugh I have a new neighbor who never fails to stare at my chest for way too long. Every time. I find myself looking at everything (duh lol) but like looking at the shape, the color, the tones, of everything. It's not sexual though, it's like an artistic thing. I do it with animals, trees, people, objects, like literally everything. I don't think this is gendered though, if anything it's cause I'm an artist. Apparently the current theory on why people who are naturally good at drawing are good at …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/19 11:30 PM
3	Does BP accept or reject the idea of the dual-mating strategy (AFBB) ? Again, that's not really the case. https://rewire.news/article/2014/03/25/golden-age-teen-sexual-responsibilty/ Only 16% of teens had sex before 15. Around 50% of highschoolers say they've had sex. That number keeps going down, there's not more young people having sex. And my understanding was that rpers say that women see their options declining as they get toward their 30s and then realize oh shit I have to settle down, which wouldn't be happening to a 23 year old.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/19 05:52 PM
1	Do you think pregnant women should legally be allowed to drink alcohol? Please tell me how that is wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/19 04:56 PM
2	Do you think pregnant women should legally be allowed to drink alcohol? Wow, no need to be rude. What in the world are you talking about, diet in the past was awful. Nobody even knew what vitamins were until the first half of the 20th century. Have you looked at menus and meal planning guides from the 19th/20th century? Their food was strange as hell and entirely unbalanced. The age of menses has dropped in the past century or two from around 17 to 12, and that is in large part because of our better nutrition nowadays. In the past people weren't getting the right nu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/19 04:49 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (21 July 2019) I don't think she can legally get a gun, she's an immigrant who's not a citizen yet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/19 03:42 PM
3	Does BP accept or reject the idea of the dual-mating strategy (AFBB) ? Nah, not really. The average for losing virginity is 17, and the number has only been rising.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/19 03:36 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (21 July 2019) He'll never go for that. He's mostly worried about his wife, like if she had been the one to get in the car she might not have noticed the brake pedal, or would have not realized what it meant and driven off (down, no less, they live on a huge hill and she would have rolled right onto a very main road) They annoyed someone in the parking lot a day or two earlier, a guy asked if they were leaving their spot and they said no, he seemed annoyed. That doesn't merit cutting someone's brake lines, but…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/19 03:35 PM
4	Does BP accept or reject the idea of the dual-mating strategy (AFBB) ? Sure, in some cases that happens, but I think overall no. I think the theory is severely hampered by the fact that the average age for marriage for women is 27, and people generally date for 3-4 years before marriage (and often longer) so this whole "woman turns 30 and realizes she needs a beta" thing isnt happening. Most women are meeting their future husbands when they're around 23 years old.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/19 02:11 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (21 July 2019) Fucking love garlic omg	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/19 02:04 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (21 July 2019) Oh, that's a good idea, maybe that's what happened! So there is a video, it caught the whole thing, the guy pulled up in a car (that my friend doesn't recognize, he doesn't know anyone with that particular car) around midnight, got out, cut off the valve stems and cut the brake lines, didn't do anything to any other car in the parking lot, and left. Videos being given to the cops. Apparently the quality of the video is very, very, good; hopefully they can get a plate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/19 12:38 PM
5	Do you think pregnant women should legally be allowed to drink alcohol? Lol right?? I mean shit, my own mother is perfectly fine and her bio mom was by all accounts a total fuckup who almost certainly drank during her pregnancy and died young from some alcoholism related issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/19 11:47 PM
3	Do you think pregnant women should legally be allowed to drink alcohol? Yeah, exactly! And iirc fas causes notable facial characteristics. I've looked at a lot of photographs from the late 19th/early 20th century, and although I was never looking for it, I never noticed those characteristics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/19 10:36 PM
5	Do you think pregnant women should legally be allowed to drink alcohol? That's really interesting and I always wondered about this. Ill look into it to see what I can find, but I've always assumed that in the past women often drank during pregnancy. I remember reading a story about someone's mother (in Ireland lol) who had a drink almost every night and all her kids were fine. I also knew a couple women who drank a little during their pregnancies, but it was extremely limited, they had like 3 drinks over the course of their entire pregnancies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/19 09:26 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (21 July 2019) Someone is trying to murder my friend???? Last night he called up my bf for help, someone had cut the tire valves off 2 of his tires and cut his goddamn brake lines!!! Luckily he noticed the brake pedal went straight to the floor when he tried to start it up. The parking lot he was in has cameras, so hopefully they caught whoever did it. It's really strange though, he has no enemies or anything, he's a nice guy that everybody likes. He doesn't do anything wrong or sketchy, it's so weird.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/19 08:08 PM
5	Are there more objectively unattractive men than women? Yeah I think this is true. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-scientific-fundamentalist/201101/women-are-more-beautiful-men%3famp And just personally I see more attractive women in my day to day life than attractive men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/19 04:47 PM
4	True crime, horror movie obsessed girls make me nervous in relationships the same way my porn/sex addiction has for my partners. I'm sorry, I'm not certain I understand what you're asking. It does not affect my relations with men. I am actually more trusting of random men than other women on this sub. Watching the shows does not make me worried that my bf is going to kill me or anything like that. I don't want to hurt him because I watch the shows. What exactly are you trying to ask?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/19 10:30 PM
1	Why does it seem women biologically need something to complain about/fix/keep in order? [SERIOUS] Yeah they're a lot. My bfs dad has a great performance boat that goes at least 80 and I think has hit 100, and it's somewhat practical. It's nice cause it can go fast but it's also just a nice place to hang out, you can sleep on it and everything. Going 80 doesn't even feel like you're going 80 if you're in a well built boat. It's practical as long as you actually use it haha. My bfs family friend has a 250k cigarette and it hasn't seen the water in 2 years so that's entirely impractical lol. Al…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/19 06:45 PM
1	Why does it seem women biologically need something to complain about/fix/keep in order? [SERIOUS] That doesn't contradict anything I've said? I mean he could very well just not had anything that went over 75. They definitely exist though, I've literally been on them. You can look them up and watch them on YouTube. These boats are expensive and they're not common in random run of the mill marinas.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/19 05:51 PM
1	Why does it seem women biologically need something to complain about/fix/keep in order? [SERIOUS] Various "go fast" boats. Some cigarettes, some outer limits, I think some progressions as well can reach over 100 mph. Our boat already goes I think 70, I've been on his dad's boat going at least 80, but I think they've gotten it to 100 but I'm not positive on that one. Edit: 100 isn't terribly fast, there are boats around that can hit 200, you just have to pay for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/19 05:23 PM
6	True crime, horror movie obsessed girls make me nervous in relationships the same way my porn/sex addiction has for my partners. I watch a lot of true crime shows and like murder mysteries and serial killers are interesting to me. It doesn't impact my relationships with men at all, idk why it would. My bfs isn't as into it as I am so we'll switch the tv to something else when he gets home but that's it haha.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/19 11:23 AM
1	Why does it seem women biologically need something to complain about/fix/keep in order? [SERIOUS] Yeah neither of us does that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/19 01:53 AM
5	Why does it seem women biologically need something to complain about/fix/keep in order? [SERIOUS] Yeah same here. My bf always wants something new, something better. We get a boat and now he wants a jetski (tbf so do I lol) after a year of having the boat he wants a new, better boat, and I'm like the one we have is fine we go on a crowded lake where the speed limit is 45 mph we don't need the boat that does 100. Like don't get me wrong, I want a megayacht but that's a whole different thing lol. And he does this with everything. Idk why he hasn't tried to trade me in yet lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/19 01:00 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (21 July 2019) No I hate it lol. Too cold!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/19 09:04 PM
1	Q4A: Should female-on-male sexual assault be viewed the same way as m-on-f assault? Okay, sorry for misinterpreting it. And nah, I know the girl pretty well. while she didn't necessarily want to hurt him, she knew he wasn't into it. She spent the whole night trying to get with him and he kept rejecting her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/19 09:04 PM
1	Q4A: Should female-on-male sexual assault be viewed the same way as m-on-f assault? I'm sorry that all of that has happened to you. I'm a little unclear on what you're trying to say though. Are you saying that my friend is at fault because you think he couldn't have been drunk enough to not stop her?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/19 08:27 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (21 July 2019) Jeez this weather is crazy. Like 98 degrees on Sunday, 70 degrees today. I remember a few months ago thinking 70 was incredible and so warm, now I need a jacket!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/19 06:59 PM
16	Q4A: Should female-on-male sexual assault be viewed the same way as m-on-f assault? Yes to all of the above, men can be harassed, assaulted or raped by a woman. Yes, it should be taken seriously. Yes, I know a guy who was raped by a woman. It wasn't violent, he was super drunk and she just did what she wanted with him. He struggles with it cause although he said no, he didn't fight back against her cause of how drunk he was and he just didn't know what to do. It doesn't affect him in his day to day life, but if he thinks about it he'll get a little upset. I feel bad for him, th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/19 12:53 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (21 July 2019) I used to watch that show a lot and I *always" thought about ppd and incels haha. Every single time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/19 10:33 PM
5	If your fiance asked you to delete your Instagram and Facebook accounts as a condition of marriage (with him deleting both as well), would you do it? He'd have to have a real good reason. I have FB and insta but I haven't posted anything or done anything on insta in over a year, fb like 3 years. Asking me to delete it would be really strange.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/19 06:59 PM
9	Q4Men: What would you say are the MUST-HAVE traits of a "LTR-worthy" woman? How rare is it for you to find someone with all those traits? .....no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/19 05:11 PM
3	What measures do you take to prevent the idea of cheating from becoming a reality? I don't do anything, I'm not the slightest bit tempted to cheat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/19 05:04 PM
6	My boyfriend just told me about “the one that got away”. Is he still in love with her? This is pretty strange, he wasn't even actually her boyfriend. But yeah he seems hung up on her, among other numerous red flags.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/19 12:33 PM
2	Is the fear of divorce (and all its negative repercussions) holding you back from getting married? Nah, not at all. A lot of my friends parents got divorced/were divorced, but nobody in my family is. My parents have been together for 30+ years and have been very happy, so that's prolly a big influence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/19 05:49 PM
4	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (14 July 2019) Ugh, you guys know when people smell like alcohol? Not like they're currently drinking and you can smell it on their breath smell, the like got totally wasted the night before and it's coming out of their pores smell? Met a guy yesterday that was talking about how good he'd been doing on not drinking, he's been sober, etc, but he had that smell. It grosses me out so much, it's like the visceral disgust and just this awful pit of my stomach feeling when I smell that. Do you guys have that same re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/19 05:40 PM
1	You are not a biologist and evo psych doesn't work. Then what are you trying to argue?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/19 07:13 PM
1	You are not a biologist and evo psych doesn't work. https://www.google.com/amp/s/digest.bps.org.uk/2018/11/27/many-social-psychologists-are-impeded-by-their-ideological-aversion-to-evolutionary-psychology/amp/ Many psychologists surveyed do not recognize evo psych https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Criticism_of_evolutionary_psychology There's a whole Wikipedia article of all the (very, very many) criticisms of evo psych, including "A frequent criticism of evolutionary psychology is that its hypotheses are difficult or impossible to test, challenging…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/19 07:08 PM
2	Q4W: Would you lose respect for your SO if he backed out of a fight? Huh? Should've told what?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/19 06:36 PM
0	You are not a biologist and evo psych doesn't work. Yeah I think evo psych is mostly bullshit. New research on brain plasticity really damages a lot of the ways their theories work. Edit: also, I was a psych major for a few years. Evo psych was almost never covered (besides explaining that it existed) because it is just not a recognized discipline by most psychologists, biologists, or anthropologists	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/19 06:06 PM
3	Q4W: Would you lose respect for your SO if he backed out of a fight? Nah, not at all. I'd generally prefer him not to fight at all, unless I'm like being attacked or something then yes I would like help lol. We just went through this last weekend actually! My bf, my friend and his gf, three other male friends and I were out at a bar. A guy who's a well known asshole (and also crazy, and jacked) was hanging around and trying to start shit. As I walked by him he shook my hand, I did it as I was walking past him and then he didn't let go right away and said "wow, wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/19 05:38 PM
1	Anyone had any experiences dating someone with dark triad traits? Yeah, I definitely thought so at the time and still kinda think so now. I do know someone who I am 99% sure is an actual sociopath, my old boss. She could be very, very, charming and definitely knew how to make people feel at ease. Luckily when I started working there all my coworkers warned me about her, but it was just crazy to watch her operate. So much manipulation and gaslighting, I've never seen anything like it. But she could put on a fantastic front. We worked with animals and you could …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/19 04:39 PM
1	Anyone had any experiences dating someone with dark triad traits? My ex has some of those traits. He could be manipulative, and while not exactly egotistical, he needed a lot of validation and attention. He also told me at one point that he thought he was a sociopath, he had no real empathy. That could have just been a ploy for attention though, I really don't know. He was obsessed with psychology, but not in a "it's fascinating" way, it was a "I want to know how to get into people's head" way. It wasn't these traits that I was attracted to though, those came …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/19 01:20 PM
3	Have you ever considered RP from the male prerspective? Yeah, that too. And yeah, I don't think that all men don't want casual sex, or even that the majority of men don't want casual sex. I'm just so tired of the belief that all men everywhere want to be constantly nsa fucking, no matter what, and if for some reason they're not doing so it's because they're defective. It's just a ridiculous notion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/19 08:04 PM
2	PPD Members, how was Sex Education in school like for you? 5th grade we had the puberty video, we learned about the basic reproductive organs and their functions, breast growth, pubic hair, periods, all that stuff. They gave us a bag with deodorant and pads in it. I remember comparing our bags to the boys bags on the bus ride home but idr what they got besides deodorant. 7th grade we had it again, had more of the reproductive process and then had some stuff on consent, contraception methods, some STD stuff. I remember learning about hiv/aids. Idr if the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/19 06:54 PM
6	Have you ever considered RP from the male prerspective? Nah, they've had casual sex before and just came to the conclusion that they didn't like it. There's another guy further up saying he finds it to be boring. Different people are different, amalt isn't a thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/19 05:30 PM
4	Have you ever considered RP from the male prerspective? There's a guy denying that further down in this very comment chain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/19 04:47 PM
6	Have you ever considered RP from the male prerspective? Like I just said, that's just not true. My best friend (who is like the picture of a Chad) has had multiple conversations with me about how he's just not interested in it. He's said he only wants to have sex in a relationship, casual sex is boring and does nothing for him. And he's shown as much through the....11 years I've known him. I've watched as a single friend of mine, on multiple occasions, got approached by attractive women and then turned them down. He's another one that's said he's not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/19 04:41 PM
7	Low N-count women in serious relationships, what kind of man did you pick? Yeah. I said in that other thread about n count that I'd have an issue with a guy who was a manwhore. Of course it's not an issue for us because we agree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/19 03:35 PM
7	Have you ever considered RP from the male prerspective? This absolutely kills me. I know many men who are not interested in casual sex. I think a lot of rp guys struggled with sex (obviously) and place a waaay higher importance on it because of that. Then they to to trp and they meet a bunch of other guys who have also struggled and place that same importance on it, so they think all men are like that, and it's just not true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/19 03:33 PM
13	Low N-count women in serious relationships, what kind of man did you pick? My count is 2, my bfs count is 3. He was always a relationship guy, never into anything casual. Actually, the night we first hooked up was the most casual thing he'd ever done. He doesn't care about my count and I don't care about his. He's happy I wasn't into casual sex cause it matches up with his preferences, and vice versa.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/19 12:58 PM
3	Both pills are true Idk, it can work out just fine. My parents are blue as fuck and have always been happy. They always had the perfect idyllic life, like sure some there were some struggles, but they've weathered them together and done so very well. One of my houses even had a white picket fence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/19 12:45 PM
2	Ladies, do you connect the kind of alcohol a man drinks to his inherent masculinity and/or sexuality? Nah. Sometimes I might chuckle internally a bit if some totally jacked, stereotypically masculine guy has a pink umbrella drink in his hand cause it's a funny image, but I don't actually think anything of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/19 12:30 PM
8	People in serious relationships (1 year+), do you ever have doubts? Do you ever wonder if your SO is "the one"? I'm female, 26. I've never doubted our relationship. I think there are other people people out there that I could have a successful relationship with, but I think my bf is perfect in almost every way and I think I'd be hard pressed to find someone else that could compare to him. I can't say I've ever thought to myself that he wasn't someone I could spend the rest of my life with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/19 09:26 PM
2	What are your hang ups about discussing things here? Ooooh I know what I'm watching tonight	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/19 08:02 PM
6	Do you think the headline and narrative of this news story is fair? I guess the male friend should have been mentioned, but I don't think the headline is that far off from what actually happened. The girl is quoted in the article saying that she thinks it happened because she rejected the guy in front of his friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/19 07:05 PM
11	Do you think the headline and narrative of this news story is fair? I'm sorry, I just really think you're reaching. And her story absolutely supports that, the girl says in the article that she thinks it happened because she rejected the guy in front of his friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/19 07:03 PM
14	Do you think the headline and narrative of this news story is fair? No, that leaves out a portion of the story. The headline written on the article is more descriptive. You seem to be looking for things to be upset about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/19 06:57 PM
17	Do you think the headline and narrative of this news story is fair? Yeah I think you're reading way too much into this. The headline is a succinct explanation of what the full story describes. That's what headlines are supposed to be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/19 06:52 PM
18	Do you think the headline and narrative of this news story is fair? I don't see anything nefarious about any of this. The girl and the guy both said they were followed and then beaten up when the girl said she wasn't interested. The title says as much. What is unfair here?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/19 06:48 PM
4	The Childfree Lifestyle was caused by Helicopter parenting I'm totally the same	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/19 06:41 PM
1	What are your hang ups about discussing things here? Omg I had only ever seen him in peaky blinders and I always thought he was absolutely stunning and incredible. I just looked him up on Google when I made that comment and like ....he looks terrible!! I read some interview with him like a year ago and he seemed like one of those weird actors who was way too into "the process". Blegh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/19 06:39 PM
4	The Childfree Lifestyle was caused by Helicopter parenting Yeah, it's definitely a really strange thought. It kinda freaks me out too cause like there's no going back. If you suddenly decide oh wait, this isn't for me at all....too bad, you have to go through it all. The idea of that just makes me feel trapped. I remember I was like 17 or 18 and my science teacher was super pregnant. She came in to visit and had us all touch her belly. When I touched it I just got this realization that there was actually a baby living inside her and it just freaked the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/19 06:37 PM
3	What are your hang ups about discussing things here? Cylian Murphy is perfect. Apparently only in peaky blinders though, just looked him up on Google and he looks awful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/19 05:50 PM
5	The Childfree Lifestyle was caused by Helicopter parenting Although helicopter parenting was around when I was a kid, I wasn't helicopter parented, I spent a ton of time playing outside in the neighborhood with friends, I was allowed to go bike riding all over the island we vacationed at with my friend when I was 15, I was allowed to go on vacations with my friends and their parents when I was like 11 or 12. I am totally unsure of whether or not I want kids, but most of it is cause I'm horrified of pregnancy. That has more to do with the internet than a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/19 05:48 PM
1	What are your hang ups about discussing things here? I'm not particularly concerned about it, I did actually post in that thread thats being referenced. Just agreeing that it's not totally anonymous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/19 04:37 PM
2	What are your hang ups about discussing things here? Haha red is the color of power And nah, I'm pretty open here cause I'm usually open in general, I was just agreeing that it's not totally anonymous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/19 04:14 PM
4	What are your hang ups about discussing things here? Haha nah you're cool, just throw some rocks at a window and I'll let you in for some drinks!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/19 04:12 PM
7	What are your hang ups about discussing things here? For real. Some people here know what I look like, some people here know where I live, I don't feel anonymous at all. A few months ago I was out with some friends and a girl brought up a subject we'd just been discussing on ppd earlier that day, and repeated something some women on here had said. I know she uses reddit, she might be here and shed pretty easily figure out who I am based on what I post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/19 03:09 PM
1	[Q4W] Can you say something objectively bad about your partner? Oh, I'm sorry, I guess I didn't express myself very well. It's not done in a rude or shitty way at all, it's basically all a big joke. He's a fantastic guy and is one of the best people I've ever met. He's just fucking around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/19 02:17 PM
1	[Q4W] Can you say something objectively bad about your partner? Oh. My. God. That's why he's your ex, right?? And yeah my bf takes a shower an hour or two before bed, so it gives it just enough time to soak into the sheets before I get in lol. And aaah thank you I'll def be doing that!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/19 01:55 PM
1	[Q4W] Can you say something objectively bad about your partner? No, it's not!! It gets the fucking sheets all wet. He just likes that it gets me riled up. He does the same thing with his goddamn "corn butter". He thinks it's appropriate to take a perfectly good stick of butter and roll his corn around in it, destroying it and getting corn hair all in it. He's only done it once cause I put my foot down about that nonsense, but he always brings it up cause he likes to get a rise out of me lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/19 12:55 PM
1	[Q4W] Can you say something objectively bad about your partner? do it	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/19 12:33 PM
2	[Q4W] Can you say something objectively bad about your partner? Ugh, yes, the socks too! My bf leaves them everywhere too! I go to vacuum the rug in the living room and there's like seven socks under the coffee table!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/19 10:58 AM
5	[Q4W] Can you say something objectively bad about your partner? He's always later than he says he's going to be. He has a little bit of an issue admitting when he's wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/19 10:10 AM
1	[Q4W] Can you say something objectively bad about your partner? My bf does this too, and he also thinks it's very, very funny!	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/19 10:03 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (14 July 2019) I was just wondering the same thing last night 🤔	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/19 11:32 PM
2	Q4W: What would you consider a high N-count for a man? How many partners would a man have to have for it to be a dealbreaker? Haha stay strong!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/19 10:39 PM
1	Q4W: What would you consider a high N-count for a man? How many partners would a man have to have for it to be a dealbreaker? Aaah that sounds awful! And I think there's a shot for shingles now, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/19 10:04 PM
2	Q4W: What would you consider a high N-count for a man? How many partners would a man have to have for it to be a dealbreaker? Hahaha oh yeah!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/19 09:58 PM
3	Q4W: What would you consider a high N-count for a man? How many partners would a man have to have for it to be a dealbreaker? Yeah I think oral herpes is super common. I had it when I was like idk like 10 or 11. It was just one cold sore and I haven't had one since, but I technically have it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/19 09:52 PM
7	Q4W: What would you consider a high N-count for a man? How many partners would a man have to have for it to be a dealbreaker? Depends on how he got that count in the first place. Cheating would pretty much be a non-starter for me. I'd prefer someone with similar attitudes toward sex and relationships as me, so I'd be looking on the lower side. Like maybe around 10 partners I'd be okay with (for a man around my age, 26.) 20 might be pushing it. I guess 30 or 40 would be close to "no way" but again, the context matters more than the actual number. Before I came here I did not even give the actual number any sort of thoug…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/19 09:30 PM
2	Do women even like sex with men? Oh, alrighty. I mean it's quite well known that the majority of women require clitoral stimulation to orgasm. Mmhhm, it's all dependent on how each woman's anatomy is. Everything down there can be positioned differently from woman to woman, so some are more sensitive to penetration than others. For me, penetration feels good and everything, but it's never going to make me orgasm. Some women are lucky and are able to orgasm from that alone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/19 01:06 PM
6	Do women even like sex with men? I'm not sure how that negates anything I've said? It could be, idk. I think it's all up to the individual woman's anatomy. Look up what the clitoris actually looks like. Most of it is internal. If it is positioned in such a way that it can be stimulated by penetration alone, that woman is way more likely to be able to orgasm from penetration alone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/19 12:55 PM
9	Do women even like sex with men? Not the one that made the original comment, but for most women, I agree. Some women are totally able to get off on it though. The reproductive organs and the clitoris and everything can be positioned differently in different women, so some may be able to enjoy and orgasm from penetration. The majority do struggle to orgasm from penetration alone though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/19 12:33 PM
1	Can we discuss "men are more visually stimulated than woman"? Idk, it might not apply in the context of the study. Like if I were in the study, being in a room and hooked up to machines and knowing people were watching me/would be looking at my results would be pretty much the ultimate "brake" for me. And yeah personality and other factors are absolutely a big influence. Idk if i would consider that to be a brake though, that's just a part of initial attraction. At that point in time that I don't know a person, I'm not aroused. From reading that article, i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/19 11:45 PM
0	A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic. Eww. Around here delivery people are all high school or college kids. There is one guy though that works at one of the pizza places in town who is a complete disaster, he's gross, unwashed, greasy, smelly, and disgusting. People have actually declined their food when he came to their door. Idk why he isn't fired yet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/19 11:04 PM
1	Sociology researcher Alicia Walker: "Then I saw another study that some high 80 percent of folks never get caught cheating and that number is even higher if you’re a woman." Because he trusts me anywhere. It's not a blind leap of faith at all, it's a safe bet. He knows me, I'm not some stranger or some girl he's been on a date or two with, we've been together for years. Haha nah he just wants me to have a good time and he doesn't want to hold me back from seeing my friends. Sorry about your ex, but that's not every girl who's out. Like I don't dance, so I'm pretty sure he knows I'm not grinding on dudes. And what are you talking about "more extreme sensual experienc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/19 10:27 PM
1	Sociology researcher Alicia Walker: "Then I saw another study that some high 80 percent of folks never get caught cheating and that number is even higher if you’re a woman." That's so funny, I go out without my boyfriend sometimes. He encourages it, actually. Nothing ever happens cause I'd never cheat, and he doesn't seem the slightest bit worried about it either. Then again, he trusts me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/19 10:03 PM
1	Can we discuss "men are more visually stimulated than woman"? Can you explain this brakes thing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/19 09:52 PM
3	Can we discuss "men are more visually stimulated than woman"? Mmkay, that's good to know. Honestly, I thought men and women were pretty similar regarding these things until I started coming here. Of course I thought men had a higher sex drive, valued sex more, but on here the guys talk about how it's a physical need, how it's so integral to their well-being, and how it's just this constant thing in their lives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/19 08:27 PM
2	A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic. Yeah, like I said, that's the worst I'll do. And I'm happy to hear that, glad it worked out well for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/19 07:09 PM
4	A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic. I'll repeat: yeah, you prolly never will. I never react negatively to being hit on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/19 06:50 PM
3	A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic. Haha yeah for sure, that could be a good one! And yeah, sounds likely!	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/19 06:44 PM
4	A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic. Yeah, you prolly never will. I never react negatively to being hit on, the worst I'll do is roll my eyes and keep walking. It's like, you know, you didn't do anything to look the way you look. Like clothing choices, makeup, hair style, that's all things you chose to do and are fine things to compliment people on. But just saying "youre cute/hot/beautiful/whatever," you didn't actually do anything to be like that, it's just how you're born. So it's just kinda meaningless and there's no easy/natur…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/19 06:36 PM
3	A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic. It was so weird!! We were passing each other in the aisle and I actually stopped, turned around, and said "what?" But he just kept walking. And yeah, I always wonder that too! Like what is the purpose of all that??	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/19 06:27 PM
7	A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic. That's not the way to do it. That's how you end up seeming creepy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/19 05:49 PM
6	A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic. Yeah, exactly! Like how do you even respond to that? I'd like laugh awkwardly and not know what to say. And yeah, the only times I'm uncomfortable are when it's just weird. Like once a guy passed by me in the store and whispered "you're such a beautiful girl" and just kept walking. I wasn't like worried for my safety or anything, but it was just really strange. Normal people complimenting me in a normal way is totally fine haha.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/19 05:48 PM
8	A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic. I guess, I never really thought about it too much. And I think there's a difference between complimenting someone on their looks (you're cute) versus their choices (their hair, their clothes). Just complimenting their looks I'd see more as hitting on them, complimenting their shirt I'd just see as a compliment. Like if you had said to me "you're too cute to be working here" I'd be a little weirded out. Like what am I even supposed to say to that? It'd just be an awkward chuckle and "haha gotta p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/19 05:40 PM
6	A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic. Yeah, that's a little strange. I've gotten that a few times and it throws me off a bit. I get it from older women though, and it makes a little more sense for my job. I do deliveries for a restaurant so I'm constantly going up to random peoples houses. It's more out of concern, I think, from the older women. Although I live in literally one of the safest towns in the country so I'm usually not worried about it. Once I had a woman tell me I looked too nice to be delivering and I was like, huh? I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/19 05:32 PM
2	A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic. I'm a woman and I do the same thing. Ill see guys with some shirt or something that I like or some cool hair and ill want to compliment them, but don't want them to think I'm hitting on them so I just don't say anything. I do the same thing with women. They'll be wearing something I like, have a great hairstyle, or smell awesome and I'll want to say something to them. Sometimes I do, but usually I'm like ehhh that's weird and just keep my mouth shut. The funniest thing happened to me a couple we…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/19 04:44 PM
1	Can we discuss "men are more visually stimulated than woman"? Oh cool, no worries.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/19 01:34 PM
2	Can we discuss "men are more visually stimulated than woman"? Yeah, I'm agreeing with you...	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/19 01:29 PM
7	Can we discuss "men are more visually stimulated than woman"? Yeah, I had just posted something similar. Although I think the study being referenced was done by doing MRIs of the brain, not genital arousal. But I agree, I can be turned on by seeing sexual activity in porn or a movie or something, but that does not mean that I then desire sex. It's just something that's there in the background kinda, it doesn't become something I suddenly need to act on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/19 01:00 PM
12	Can we discuss "men are more visually stimulated than woman"? I think there's a lot of different things going on here. As far as I can tell, the study was done by using MRI scans of people's brains while looking at porn, and they found both men and women were (equally? Idk) aroused. When I see porn (or even a sex scene in a movie) I'll get turned on, just from seeing/hearing sexual activity. But that doesn't mean that I desire sex at the moment or find whoever is on screen attractive. It does not inspire desire in me. I think (correct me if I'm wrong, I'm …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/19 12:57 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (14 July 2019) Ah damn, that's a shame. Hope it gets better soon!	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/19 09:45 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (14 July 2019) Oh that makes me feel better haha I was thinking the same thing; the boat is being worked on right now so we haven't been doing our usual summer activities, but other people have said it too so I was curious how people here felt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/19 09:21 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (14 July 2019) Yeah it's summer weather but it doesn't feel like it. A couple people around me have mentioned it too, but maybe it's just us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/19 09:15 PM
2	Off Topic Thread: Politics (13 July 2019) My dad did a lot of traveling for his job, hes always said that people in other countries see Americans as very hard-working. That's in like the business sector though, don't know what they think of us outside of that or as tourists or anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/19 08:23 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (14 July 2019) Aaah that sucks! It's pretty normal temperature for us, and it's gunna get even hotter (95) over the weekend, but it just doesn't feel like summer to me 🤔	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/19 07:11 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (14 July 2019) Does anyone else not really feel like it's summer yet? Like it's been sunny and 80-90 for weeks now, but it just doesn't feel like summer....	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/19 07:02 PM
9	Q4A: How many of you aren't interested in casual sex, and desire sex mostly only with someone you have a strong emotional connection with? Female. Not the slightest bit interested in casual sex. Had a casual hookup (no sex though) in high school and realized it was definitely not for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/19 04:25 PM
3	CMV: Women under 25 can't be trusted with their own sexual choices. I was under the impression that his impeachment was because he lied about it, not that he did it in the first place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/19 03:11 PM
2	Could the obesity epidemic be another reason for the sexlessness epidemic? Ugh we were literally just at lunch and this place has a lobster club and I had it for the first time today and I'm going to gain 50 lbs in the next month because I don't think I will be able to stop eating it	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/19 07:35 PM
1	Do you have any silly dating standard or pet peeve? Yeah, same! My cat is old and has a belly now so she has trouble cleaning her back, but even that is not the slightest bit smelly, she just has some dandruff there. And yeah I never had that much of an issue with cats destroying stuff either. One cat my parents had was a scratcher but besides that they've all been very good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/19 07:31 PM
3	Do you have any silly dating standard or pet peeve? Yeah wtf. I can't say I even know what a cat smells like, and I've had six of them.....they don't have a smell!	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/19 07:26 PM
4	Do you have any silly dating standard or pet peeve? Haha that's funny! I'd be super impressed if a guy used a semicolon lol. I think it's that English and grammar has always come easily to me, so when people get it wrong I'm like ugh come on this is so easy you must be stupid lol. I know that's not right, but I think that's what happens haha	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/19 07:08 PM
2	Do you have any silly dating standard or pet peeve? Yes, thank you!! My bfs mom cannot pronounce anything correctly. She blames it on her immigrant french speaking parents, but that's just a cop out. She asked me what caprese salad was called, I said caprese salad, and she immediately repeated it but said it totally wrong. Also says 'cilANTro" instead of 'cilahntro'. Kills me every time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/19 07:07 PM
2	Do you have any silly dating standard or pet peeve? Oh yeah that's totally understandable	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/19 06:06 PM
3	Do you have any silly dating standard or pet peeve? Yeah nah fuck that it's not elitist. It's some if the most basic grammar rules you learn all throughout school. I used to feel bad cause I'm naturally very good at spelling and grammar and everything, so I was like ugh I should be more understanding of other's strengths and weaknesses, but like now, just fuck that. Especially with smartphones now, if you really don't know then just look it up real quick before you hit send.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/19 05:40 PM
12	Do you have any silly dating standard or pet peeve? For real, people who dont know the difference between your/you're, there/their/they're. Not an immediate deal breaker, but a huuuuge mark against the guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/19 05:20 PM
1	Do You Date Outside Your Socioeconomic Class? Yeah idk. Most people around me seem perfectly normal to me, but that's what I'm used to so I'm obviously biased haha. And what beliefs do you mean?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/19 03:33 PM
2	Do You Date Outside Your Socioeconomic Class? I was raised UMC/UC, and that's all I've ever dated. An ex of mine was financially LMC/LC but was raised in the same place as me and by parents who had previously been UMC, so idk what he'd qualify as. My bf is UMC too. I think by some metrics he'd be considered UC cause he's set to inherit a business and property, but I personally wouldn't consider him UC cause it's all very new wealth that his parents generated, and they don't have the UC culture. I live in a big ass UMC/UC bubble. I don't run…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/19 03:59 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (07 July 2019) Went out last night and ended up meeting the most egregious asshole. He's ridiculously loud and obnoxious, he hit on me rudely, said rude shit directly to my bf and my friend, refused to tip the bartender because he "does a lot of shit for the owner," accused my friend of selling the heroin that his family friend ODed on (my friend has never sold heroin and was living in another state at the time), and said the girls family is in the mafia and looking for someones head in her death. We had peopl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/19 01:15 PM
1	Why is Women Entitlement praised? Yeah, slightly curious to see how this resolves. But only slightly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/19 11:03 PM
3	Why is Women Entitlement praised? Yeah I read them both, and my impression was that the prize money is a completely separate thing. The politifact article said the issue is with their salary, the world cup prize money is just a bonus, I don't think they have any complaints about how that's handled And yeah I have no interest in it whatsoever haha. I kinda don't get sports as a whole really, just watching a bunch of people move around in various ways lol. I think it's ridiculous any of them get paid as much as they do	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/19 10:59 PM
1	Why is Women Entitlement praised? Yeah I don't think any of this is about the prize money though, that's governed by international bodies that have nothing to do with what the teams make as base pay	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/19 10:51 PM
1	Why is Women Entitlement praised? Idk shit about soccer what does any of that mean and how does it relate to this	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/19 10:48 PM
1	Why is Women Entitlement praised? That's the prize money for winning the world cup, that's not what they're talking about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/19 10:44 PM
2	Why is Women Entitlement praised? For real, I'm like jeez am I having a stroke or something this is not making sense?????	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/19 10:37 PM
2	Why is Women Entitlement praised? I don't think the conversation right now is about what happens internationally. I think the problem is women's us soccer brings in more money than men's us soccer. They're not going by how women do as a whole versus men on the international stage, it's the individual us women's team compared to the individual us men's team.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/19 10:37 PM
2	Why is Women Entitlement praised? The girls are bringing in more money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/19 10:34 PM
1	Why is Women Entitlement praised? No idea, just going off the stats in the article. And yeah I don't care about any sport outside of equestrian haha.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/19 10:32 PM
3	Why is Women Entitlement praised? The men's team was paid more, but they did not bring in more revenue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/19 10:30 PM
4	Why is Women Entitlement praised? So tell me how any of that changes the fact that the women's team brings in more money than the men's team.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/19 10:23 PM
1	Why is Women Entitlement praised? Haha 💪	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/19 10:20 PM
3	Why is Women Entitlement praised? https://www.politifact.com/truth-o-meter/article/2019/jul/11/does-us-womens-soccer-team-bring-more-revenue-get-/ Apparently it is hard to tell because of the way they're dispersed, but as far as they can tell, yes. This year's women's final did 20x better in the us than the men's. Nike says women's soccer jersey sales are setting records for both women and mens teams.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/19 10:18 PM
6	Why is Women Entitlement praised? There is no source because the women's team brings in more than the men's. https://www.politifact.com/truth-o-meter/article/2019/jul/11/does-us-womens-soccer-team-bring-more-revenue-get-/	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/19 10:08 PM
5	Why is Women Entitlement praised? https://www.vox.com/2019/7/10/20686692/us-womens-soccer-team-parade-equal-pay The women's soccer team brings in more money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/19 10:05 PM
21	Do women naturally care about the physical act of their man having sex with other women ...or is it socialized ? I definitely have a visceral disgust about my bf engaging in any kind of sexual activity with another woman. Like imagining it grosses me out and I think of his body as like tainted and disgusting. I'm going to stop thinking about that now lol. I don't think I'd be able to get over cheating. I don't think I have the ability to let go of the fear it would happen again, the betrayal, any of that. I'd constantly be worried it'd happen again and I'd be questioning every move he ever made. My ex chea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/19 08:06 PM
8	What's the reddest and bluest thing you believe? Yeah the whole alpha dominance/aggression thing has always been an issue with me too. I work with horses, who have a similar social structure to dogs and humans (which is why we've been able to domesticate them so well, we generally understand each other). Yes, of course you have to be dominant when working with them, but that does not mean you need to be the strongest/most aggressive. Horses are always going to be stronger than you, they will always be able to kill you pretty easily, there's no…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/19 05:25 PM
2	what traits do you require in a (wo)man you're going to date/marry? Oh God the turmoil!! Not even being sarcastic, that would totally influence me too lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/19 02:15 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (07 July 2019) Happy birthday! Don't get too down on yourself, most people don't have much to show at 24, I know I didn't!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/19 02:13 PM
3	I think the importance of Voice is ignored Haha I know a guy with a pretty deep voice who also speaks a little slower. He was working as a cashier and happened to check out a guy who worked on tv or in advertising or something. The guy immediately picked up on his voice, gave him his card and everything, and he ended up being a voice over guy for commercials! Iirc he ended up doing some pretty big, national commercials. We've all prolly heard his voice lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/19 12:34 PM
3	what traits do you require in a (wo)man you're going to date/marry? Omg that's too much!!! Stop living my life! That's so funny though! So I guess all this time you were just working toward someone with the most J name possible 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/19 11:51 PM
2	what traits do you require in a (wo)man you're going to date/marry? Omg I get you with that "A" thing. I went for a long time being interested with guys whose names started with "j". My bf now doesnt have a j name and I shit you not I was a little worried at first lol. But his middle name is John so I think it still counts haha.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/19 11:15 PM
2	what traits do you require in a (wo)man you're going to date/marry? Thanks!! I got pretty lucky :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/19 11:09 PM
8	what traits do you require in a (wo)man you're going to date/marry? I think my bf is pretty near perfect. He's sweet, thoughtful, kind, funny, goofy, ambitious, smart, honest, and just a really good person. He's honestly everything I ever wanted. If anything ever happens with us I'm gunna have a lot of trouble finding someone who compares. The manly part is a little strange to me, that was never a requirement for me. Like my bf is great at fixing stuff and working with mechanical things, I guess that's manly? But I never sought a manly man and didn't know he was…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/19 10:16 PM
3	Q4Women: How important is weight to a man's attractiveness, to you? It depends a whole lot on how the weight is carried. Some people carry extra weight better than others. Some guys look entirely different when they gain/lose weight. I just ran into a guy I hadn't seen in a couple years yesterday. He used to be pretty fat, and he dropped a lot of weight. We said hi and everything, but it took like a good 4/5 minutes for me to recognize who he was. His entire face looked different. So it can really, really vary. There's a couple thinner guys I know who would look…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/19 09:19 PM
6	What do you think about players? Never dated one and not interested in doing so in the future.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/19 05:13 PM
1	Why do men think most women will accept having their children outside of marriage? I'm a young millennial and around me that wasn't the case at all. Religion wasn't ever a big influence in my life, or my friends. I had to go to CCD classes when I was a kid, but nobody took them seriously. My family was always a "church on Christmas and Easter" one, my dad's Jewish and he goes to Temple once a year. I'm in a very liberal part of the country though, idk if it was different in the south or Midwest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/19 05:12 PM
2	At what age/stage of their life do most women generally develop princess or entitlement syndrome? Become uninterested in their partners. I know multiple men who have suddenly lost physical attraction, and many more who have lost interest (how much of that is physical, I'm not sure on those guys). I know men who have told their partners that they love them more than anyone else, and meant it, who were intending to marry the woman they were with, who later lost interest in that person. "I'm just not into her anymore" is something I've heard a lot, actually. They either break up or let the rela…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/19 04:28 PM
2	At what age/stage of their life do most women generally develop princess or entitlement syndrome? Yeah, that's what I'm not quite understanding. I see men do this all the time so I'm just not getting why this is significant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/19 03:03 PM
3	At what age/stage of their life do most women generally develop princess or entitlement syndrome? I've read that post a couple times now and I'm having some trouble understanding it. I don't get what about any of that is exclusive to women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/19 02:19 PM
3	"Be Hot, Be Nice, Be Pleasant." I'm pretty sure the person who made the comment is a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/19 07:49 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (07 July 2019) No idea	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/19 06:14 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (07 July 2019) I'd guess that many of these women would push for commitment before sex. But I literally only know one so idk lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/19 04:04 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (07 July 2019) Yeah, for real. My friend married a well educated but poor Colombian woman. Her parents are still in Colombia, but he pays for their phone bills. They have a house they rent out, but the tenant just moved out and they can't afford the payments right now. Last week he was asked if he could help out with that too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/19 03:06 PM
1	Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim. Okay, go ahead	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/19 02:15 PM
1	What is the most attractive height for women? Yeah it is. There's a guy in my town, idk how tall he is, but he has to literally bend over to walk through doorways. He's too tall lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/19 01:00 PM
2	Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim. Yes, that is true. If she had asked for an example of women and children being put into boats first, you'd be all good. But she asked for written policy and you answered that the Titanic was an example of that, which it is not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/19 12:53 PM
3	Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim. Just asking you to use actual facts. In your opinion there are many ways to support your belief, so use the ones that are actually true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/19 12:48 PM
3	Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim. Yeah, still not interested in any of this. There was no written policy in maritime law or white star line policy that stipulated women and children should be evacuated first in 1912. As far as I am aware, there was no policy regarding evacuations at all, the first time the passengers and crew dealt with the boats at all was when they were launching them after the collision, many crew members did not even know how to work the davits, which contributed to the enormous loss of life during the disas…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/19 12:45 PM
2	Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim. Sorry to come at you again, but she asked for a written policy. The women and children first on the titanic was suggested by 2nd officer lightoller to captain Smith when they recognized that the ship would sink. It was not written policy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/19 12:10 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (07 July 2019) Aaaaah that's exactly what I'm doing! I think I'm going to ask them to take some extra lessons to see if I can get more comfortable. I think I need to get my trim sorted out properly too, I'm always falling all over the place underwater and being off balance like that makes me want to go to the surface to regain it, you know? But if those lessons don't go well I guess I'll just call it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/19 12:05 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (07 July 2019) This is actually making me feel so much better haha. I was thinking scuba was something everyone does with no issue, and I felt like a total failure! Still feel like a failure cause everyone in the bfs family dives, but not quite as much as before!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/19 12:00 PM
3	Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim. As I said, not concerned with any of that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/19 11:23 AM
4	Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim. Yeah I'm not concerned with any of that. Martitime history is a big interest of mine, so I like to provide the correct information when someone is mistaken.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/19 11:16 AM
5	Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.newscientist.com/article/dn22119-sinking-the-titanic-women-and-children-first-myth/amp/ Historically women are far more likely to die in a shipwreck. Men had double the survival rate when a ship goes down. "women and children first" was a fluke that has only happened three or four times in history.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/19 11:12 AM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (07 July 2019) Thank you!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/19 10:51 PM
4	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (07 July 2019) Honestly this is making me feel a lot better hearing that other people didn't like it either!! I kind of pictured it as something that comes easily to everyone and everyone likes, but I guess that's not the case haha. And ugh, I wish that would work. He bought us a whole lesson program, it's very flexible and we can choose when to do our lessons and everything, not just one individual trip.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/19 10:18 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (07 July 2019) Yeah, that's what I'm planning on doing. We've done two lessons, there's only one left before our certification dives out in open water instead of the pool. I'm thinking of asking them if I could do an additional one in the pool to get more comfortable with it. And yeah, that's what I'm hoping for!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/19 10:16 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (07 July 2019) Yeah, but I would feel so guilty. And I want to do it, even thinking about it I'm like oh yeah that's something I wanna do, but when I'm actually there it freaks me out. I need to figure out how to get over this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/19 08:36 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (07 July 2019) Yeah, I understand why he did it though. I love all things involving water, the ocean, lakes, pools, boats, ships, water parks, aquariums, fucking evvverything. I know he was just thinking it was something the bf and I would really enjoy doing. I thought it was something I'd enjoy doing haha. Even just thinking about it, I'm like oh yeah I wanna do that! But then when I'm actually there it's scary. Hopefully in a few more lessons I'll get over it. It's just that my natural reaction to being unba…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/19 08:30 PM
3	Q4All: Even if you don't agree completely with the other side, what have they taught you? Nah, not really.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/19 07:37 PM
4	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (07 July 2019) Oh I totally get that! I'll dive down and swim around just holding my breath no problem, but strap a tank on my back and all of a sudden I'm a mess lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/19 06:40 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (07 July 2019) Oh yeah, that too lol!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/19 06:06 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (07 July 2019) Yeah, same! I expected to love it! The instructor keeps talking about how relaxing it is and I'm like idk man I'm stressed as hell lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/19 05:58 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (07 July 2019) I know, but he had such good intentions and he's a good guy, I feel so guilty!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/19 05:41 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (07 July 2019) Yep! And okay that's a little comforting haha thank you! I don't mind doing all the exercises at the surface, that's no problem, it's when we're underwater that I freak out a bit. Like last night we did the swimming and ascending using a buddy's air source and I screwed up. I put the regulator in upside down and then had to switch it, but by then I'd run out of air and swallowed some water and I just shot up right to the top of the pool. Like if that were the real deal I'd have been in some seri…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/19 05:40 PM
5	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (07 July 2019) Ugh yeah it's so hard not to lose my shit! I actually screwed up last night, we were practicing taking a buddy's extra air in the case ours failed, I put it in upside down and then had to flip it but by then I'd run out of air and I freaked out and went right to the top of the pool. If you're actually down deeper you can't do that, you could really hurt yourself. And I'm like...jeez, I'm just not prepared for this at all!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/19 05:35 PM
5	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (07 July 2019) We've been taking scuba diving lessons, and I think it turns out that I really don't like it. I'm just so uncomfortable underwater. I've always been a good swimmer but I just can't get balanced underwater with the bcd and the tank and everything, and I can't get neutrally buoyant to save my life. They say it gets easier when you go deeper (we've been practicing in a 12 foot pool) but I'm horrified of going deeper! It's very scary to me that I can't just shoot up right to the surface. I feel so g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/19 04:08 PM
4	Have you even (been) Alpha Widowed? Yeah, I totally agree. Teenagers are dumb and they're especially dumb when it comes to relationships haha. I'm sorry to hear that, that's shitty as hell! And haha yeah I figure that's the best way to look at it	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/19 03:58 PM
2	Have you even (been) Alpha Widowed? Yeah, it's all good though. I mean dont get me wrong, it was awful at the time and was definitely one of the worst periods of my life, I was 16-20 so not really the best equipped to handle it. But it was years ago now and I learned a lot from it. I'm very happy where I am now and that experience helped me get here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/19 03:11 PM
3	Have you even (been) Alpha Widowed? Yeah, he ended up becoming an alcoholic who lied, cheated, and stole. Looking back on it, I don't know if those shitty parts were entirely due to the alcoholism or if they were always a part of him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/19 02:33 PM
2	Have you even (been) Alpha Widowed? That was him, my first relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/19 02:25 PM
9	Have you even (been) Alpha Widowed? Hasn't happened to me. My first relationship was bad, it definitely didn't leave an imprint on me more than "don't do that again" lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/19 02:13 PM
1	Q4All: Even if you don't agree completely with the other side, what have they taught you? This and the subs related to it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/19 01:28 PM
1	Q4All: Even if you don't agree completely with the other side, what have they taught you? Maybe, that's possible. That's kind of the whole point of my comment, this sub has taught me that these people exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/19 01:27 PM
3	Q4All: Even if you don't agree completely with the other side, what have they taught you? What? And I meant to mention in my other comment, I see the men around me go through the same things with women that men on here say they've been through, but somehow the men I know don't turn bitter, don't start generalizing all women on the actions of a few. They just deal with it and move on. I've listened to m my friends bitch about their girlfriends, and its never extended to all women, society, etc. Even after being cheated on, taken advantage of, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/19 01:22 PM
5	Q4All: Even if you don't agree completely with the other side, what have they taught you? Yeah, I get that. But Ive had/have some very close relationships with men, and while perhaps they don't tell me everything, its never even hinted at. Some guys here, the amount of bitterness they're carrying around, you're not hiding that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/19 01:19 PM
8	Q4All: Even if you don't agree completely with the other side, what have they taught you? Honestly it's taught me how bitter and petty some people can be. Like the guy the other day who was saying he doesn't tip waitresses cause "beta cucks will tip them extra". There's just a lot of bitterness here that I do not see in my day to day life. I'm pretty young, so maybe the people I'm around just haven't had enough time to become bitter yet...but idk some of this stuff is really surprising. And the guys who've had a few bad experiences with women and end up treating all women in a certai…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/19 12:47 PM
1	Can a man divorce without damaging his status and reputation? About 40 or 50% probably. This is over the course of years though, the examples I listed span from middle school to college.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/19 02:13 AM
9	Can a man divorce without damaging his status and reputation? I'm not quite old enough to be dating people who are divorced, but if I were older I'd consider it. Yes, the reason for the divorce would absolutely matter. No, I wouldn't think less of him if he were not at fault (to an extent, you know, like if he married a psycho meth addict who tried to stab him before the engagement, yeah I'd really question his judgement) for the most part. Edit: yeah we'd gossip about parents divorces all the time. Idk if one gender was blamed more than the other, just de…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/19 06:24 PM
5	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (07 July 2019) 🤷 if you're okay with living your life like that then. Not something I could personally do, but we're all different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/19 06:08 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (07 July 2019) Not "so respectful" as much as just not a dick. I think you're going to get a better result that way anyway, which is the whole point, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/19 05:57 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (07 July 2019) Yeah, I don't really take that as an indication this is some ongoing thing that has been brought up before. You can get a general idea of an experience from doing it once or twice. And it really seems like he hasn't brought this up before, otherwise he would have made mention of it. Oh, that entirely depends on how you handled it. If you brought it up politely to me and told me it bothered you, I'd be apologizing like crazy and feel terrible about it. If you gave that rude speech you wrote I mig…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/19 05:30 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (07 July 2019) I don't see that at all. Op doesn't really give much info, but it kinda seems like this is a new thing "how should I handle ..if it happens again". Doesn't seem like he's brought this up with her at all. She might not even realize she's doing this, and might not realize it upsets the guy. Him going straight to being a dick is a big escalation that I don't see as warranted. And even if this is something that's been brought up in the past, what you wrote is not going to be conducive to any change …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/19 05:04 PM
6	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (07 July 2019) You'd get a much better reaction out of me if you just sat me down, told me it makes you uncomfortable and makes you feel bad when I do that, and youd really appreciate it if I wouldn't do that in the future. The little speech you wrote would piss me off to no end. If the guy saying that and I weren't together for that long, I'd just be done with him. If we'd been together for a while and things were otherwise okay, we'd be having conversations on why talking to me like that is an issue and the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/19 04:25 PM
5	Is Legality the Only Thing Keeping Omega Dudes From Just Hiring An Escort? Did you read your own link? That was the entire point of the study, to determine if hiv pos people on art with a certain viral count were infectious, because previous studies had shown they might not be as infectious "Several studies have demonstrated that HIV-positive people taking antiretroviral therapy (ART) who have low plasma HIV-1 RNA load have markedly reduced infectiousness for sexual transmission.1-4 In particular, the HPTN 052 study, conducted primarily in heterosexual serodifferent co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/19 01:24 PM
6	Is Legality the Only Thing Keeping Omega Dudes From Just Hiring An Escort? Omg you should not be irresponsibly flinging this shit around. That study was done on people who have hiv who are taking anti-retroviral drugs. Not every person with hiv is taking those drugs. Anybody who is not yet diagnosed is not on those drugs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/19 01:08 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (30 June 2019) Have you used the ones with the screen? I haven't, but it seems like way more difficult than a regular tablet. I don't see any advantage over a regular one except for portability?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/19 04:50 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (30 June 2019) You're welcome!! And it comes pretty easily. I think it was within a day or so that I got the hang of it. And I'd go with something like this for the beginning https://us-store.wacom.com/Catalog/Pen-Tablets/wacom-intuos/wacom-intuos-s-bt I have an older version of something similar to that one, and then I have a more expensive intuos pro. They're similar enough with the pen pressure and everything that you'll do just fine with the cheaper one to start with. I honestly don't see many advantages t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/19 04:33 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (30 June 2019) If you're talking about what I think you're talking about, Wacom is the way to go. Although I'd suggest getting a cheaper one without a screen first (they have some for around $100) to see if you like it. It takes a little bit to get used to drawing that way, but you pick it up very quickly. Honestly I'd recommend a regular one over a screen one no matter what.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/19 02:26 PM
2	How would you feel if a guy you were interested in was super nice? My boyfriend is a lot like this. Except he can tell when I'm being sarcastic. And he doesn't deal with my mood swings cause I don't have them, but when I'm sad or anxious he's very understanding and comforting. It's awesome lol. He's great and I honestly couldn't ask for anyone better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/19 12:42 AM
1	This whole red pill/blue pill culture is something very American. Why though? Idk maybe somewhere there are nude beaches here but I'm totally unaware of them. And yeah unless you're at a bar/restaurant you can't just walk around drinking in public generally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/19 09:40 PM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (30 June 2019) That's awful dude. They still did the service, they still brought you all the food and everything. It's not exactly waiting tables, but I do deliveries at a restaurant. Most people tip all of us the same, regardless of age, race, gender. Out of the thousands of people that order, there is one customer who tips the girls more than the guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/19 10:31 PM
5	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (30 June 2019) Why don't you tip, that's so damn rude. And a few people where I work have added tips onto cards. Interestingly, it's only men that have done it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/19 10:23 PM
3	Why do people here keep acting like sex is something a woman "gives" to a man? I did! 🇺🇸🇺🇸🥳🎆🎇 Hope you did too!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/19 06:55 PM
2	Why do people here keep acting like sex is something a woman "gives" to a man? I'm not interested in whether or not women feel that way. I just think that your example is a poor one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/19 06:51 PM
3	Why do people here keep acting like sex is something a woman "gives" to a man? Okay then. I mean it's literally used in other contexts, the link I posted didn't even mention anything between a man and a woman, there are so many other contexts it's used in. It's just a phrase that means someone convinced someone else that their position was favorable. But if you wanna keep reading tea leaves, go at it I guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/19 06:46 PM
4	Why do people here keep acting like sex is something a woman "gives" to a man? I think it's just a phrase, i don't think you should be looking at the particular word choice for some kind of meaning. https://idioms.thefreedictionary.com/won+me+over It can, and is, used in many other contexts besides a man and a woman's romantic relationship. I'm surprised you've never heard it in any other contexts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/19 06:40 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (30 June 2019) Often the delivery fee doesn't actually go to the driver, the restaurant takes it (or in this case, Uber)	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/19 05:26 PM
1	What do you do in early stages of a relationship to keep the clingy in check? Haha this was rough for me!! It was just basically forcing myself not to be clingy. Like if we were texting and making plans and I was waiting longer than I expected to hear back, I'd set a time that I could text him about it, and force myself to stick with it. Like if I had asked "does 7 work" at like 3:30 and he hadn't gotten back to me, I'd tell myself okay you cannot ask again until 6:07 lol. When my bf and I were first "dating" we did a lot of group/social activities, we'd kind of take turn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/19 01:53 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (30 June 2019) Oh cool, I completely agree. This is the USA 🇺🇸🇺🇸 we do not need to display our military power, everyone already knows we're strong. That's like some North Korea/Russia shit. And that's just not what this day is about, you know? We celebrate America's birthday, our independence, our freedom, the fruits of our long struggle to be our own etc, not the fact that we have big things that can kill lots of people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/19 10:03 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (30 June 2019) Ah alrighty. Eh I'm not too bothered by it I guess. Not what I would have done as governor, but it's just one state. Just read that California said they'd be happy to have the factory there. How do you feel about Trump's military parade in DC?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/19 09:47 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (30 June 2019) Oh, I hadn't heard anythibg about government pushback. What are they doing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/19 09:41 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (30 June 2019) I'm not necessarily mad at Nike for pulling them, I'm mad that people got so upset about the shoes. Obviously Nike is not advocating white supremacy, don't let the supremacists define what the flag means. Oh yeah fuck that I'd never buy them either lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/19 09:09 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (30 June 2019) Yeah, I mentiojed that further down. Fuck that shit, don't let them take it. Don't let them turn it into that. By boycotting it and whatnot you're just handing it to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/19 08:54 PM
5	The most women can feel towards a passive man is a lack of repulsion I don't get what you're talking about. What exactly would seem subtle? What actions would they be taking, how would they behave? I don't understand what you're referring to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/19 06:53 PM
5	The most women can feel towards a passive man is a lack of repulsion I'm still not understanding. Can you explain to me what this would look like?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/19 05:51 PM
4	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (30 June 2019) No taxation without representation!!!!! 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/19 05:21 PM
9	The most women can feel towards a passive man is a lack of repulsion What do you mean by aggression?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/19 04:04 PM
1	Casual sex is more freeing than relationships because you don't fear embarrassment Nah. I hooked up with a guy once but didn't have actual piv sex. Did not enjoy that and very quickly decided casual stuff wasn't for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/19 03:57 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (30 June 2019) 🙄 Omg I obviously mean everything combined. I would have said army if I meant to exclude the Navy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/19 11:31 PM
2	Casual sex is more freeing than relationships because you don't fear embarrassment Omg same!!! Four years now and I can still only do it comfortably if I've had a few drinks lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/19 10:31 PM
5	Casual sex is more freeing than relationships because you don't fear embarrassment I get why some people might be that way, but I am nooooooot. I will fear embarrassment and be nervous and self conscious no matter who I am with. I did not feel freer with the guy I hooked up with than any of my LTRs. I am self conscious and very aware and concerned of what others might think of me all the damn time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/19 10:15 PM
1	[CMV] Low quality women don't like red pill men because they know those men see through their BS and tricks, all the other excuses they make for why they don't like red pill men "omg, like so cringy!" are just shaming, bullying tactics designed to keep other men from embracing the red pill. What is always happening?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/19 06:40 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (30 June 2019) Yeah, although I've heard defenses for the Confederate flag of southern pride and states rights. My bf went to school in Tennessee and mentioned he had a couple black friends who supported the use of the Confederate flag.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/19 05:43 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (30 June 2019) Yah for real. I feel like a bit of a hypocrite cause I don't see a problem with people taking issue with the Confederate flag. Like I'm not personally offended, I just kinda roll my eyes and think you know you lost, right? But I totally get why people would be offended by it. But at the same time, that flag stood for slavery in a much bigger way than the colonial flag.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/19 05:25 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (30 June 2019) Any more shit like this and I might start thinking you have a point lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/19 05:21 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (30 June 2019) Thank you!!! Although I'm not going that far lol. Ugh, right??? Like the colonial flag is used aroubd this time of year because the 13 colonies are the ones that, you know, fought the revolutionary war. I understand that white supremacist groups have taken to using that flag lately, but like just fuck them, that's not what it's intended for and that's not what it means. don't let them turn that flag into that, don't relegate it to meaning because that is not what it is for. It just kills me caus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/19 05:19 PM
9	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (30 June 2019) Omg I just heard about Nike pulling shoes with the colonial Betsy Ross flag on them cause some people don't like the flag cause we had slavery during the colonial period. Fucking making me mad, that shit is ridiculous. Bad shit was happening at literally every point in history, so what are we just going to not celebrate the good things cause bad shit was happening too? I am biased, I live in a revolutionary town, we literally have a building that still has a British cannonball lodged in it, Geor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/19 03:19 PM
2	Q4W: when was the last time you felt uncomfortable or in danger? Yeah, that's what she was saying. I had read recently about people who had been living there their whole lives and now are so priced out they're living out of RVs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/19 01:53 PM
2	Q4W: when was the last time you felt uncomfortable or in danger? I was just talking to a neighbor last night who had moved from San Francisco. She was saying her and her little kid literally had to step over hypodermic needles when they went out to play. Seems like the homeless problem out there is insane.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/19 11:40 AM
8	[CMV] Low quality women don't like red pill men because they know those men see through their BS and tricks, all the other excuses they make for why they don't like red pill men "omg, like so cringy!" are just shaming, bullying tactics designed to keep other men from embracing the red pill. I'm not arguing that they utilize the same concept. I think dread is an ineffective way of keeping a partner. At first, sure, the person being dreaded might panic and strive to maintain the relationship, but that can only last for so long. Most healthy people do not want to remain in a relationship where they are constantly questioning the stability of the relationship and the faithfulness of their partner. Also, dread does not work on everyone. Some people say fuck this I'm outta here right awa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/19 08:16 PM
10	[CMV] Low quality women don't like red pill men because they know those men see through their BS and tricks, all the other excuses they make for why they don't like red pill men "omg, like so cringy!" are just shaming, bullying tactics designed to keep other men from embracing the red pill. Guys who subscribe to "she's not yours, it's just your turn" are expecting their partner to be less committed, expecting her to leave when she feels like he's not good enough anyone. They're expecting that outcome, they're expecting that the relationship will not last.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/19 08:07 PM
11	[CMV] Low quality women don't like red pill men because they know those men see through their BS and tricks, all the other excuses they make for why they don't like red pill men "omg, like so cringy!" are just shaming, bullying tactics designed to keep other men from embracing the red pill. No, it's not. It's a self fulfilling prophecy. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pygmalion_effect#Rosenthal%E2%80%93Jacobson_study Teachers were told that certain groups of students would blossom the following year, while teachers of other students were told that their students would not. The students were IQ tested before and after the school year. The students who were expected to bloom had gained more points than the ones who had not, even though there was no real difference between the two gro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/19 08:02 PM
9	[CMV] Low quality women don't like red pill men because they know those men see through their BS and tricks, all the other excuses they make for why they don't like red pill men "omg, like so cringy!" are just shaming, bullying tactics designed to keep other men from embracing the red pill. How is his mindset irrelevant? If you believe that your partner will leave when a better option presents itself and that is a part of their base nature, you're not going to be as committed as someone who doesn't hold that belief and is expecting and putting in work to make it last.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/19 07:33 PM
12	[CMV] Low quality women don't like red pill men because they know those men see through their BS and tricks, all the other excuses they make for why they don't like red pill men "omg, like so cringy!" are just shaming, bullying tactics designed to keep other men from embracing the red pill. But if you're in that mindset that it could end any minute, that she's just faking her commitment to you, you're just waiting for her to leave. You're then going to be less committed because you're just expecting her not to be, whether or not she truly is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/19 06:52 PM
4	[CMV] Low quality women don't like red pill men because they know those men see through their BS and tricks, all the other excuses they make for why they don't like red pill men "omg, like so cringy!" are just shaming, bullying tactics designed to keep other men from embracing the red pill. Notice I said usually, not always. Nonetheless, relationships are generally discouraged on trp, mrp is more for guys who discovered trp after they were already married or in an ltr.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/19 06:00 PM
32	[CMV] Low quality women don't like red pill men because they know those men see through their BS and tricks, all the other excuses they make for why they don't like red pill men "omg, like so cringy!" are just shaming, bullying tactics designed to keep other men from embracing the red pill. Nah, it's just that trp makes for a shitty relationship. Who would want a partner who isn't committed to you (she's not yours, it's just your turn), who seeks to undermine your confidence in the relationship (dread), who is constantly seeing the relationship as a series of power plays that they have to win, and who doesn't see you as an equal? Sounds pretty shitty for everyone involved. And not to mention, trp is usually about getting casual sex, not relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/19 04:28 PM
3	Men are less dangerous AND more dangerous Yeah, I'm not understanding what point he's trying to make.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/19 10:29 AM
6	Men are less dangerous AND more dangerous Okay, so? That doesn't make much a difference in day to day life, you don't know whether a man is going to hurt you or protect you (if they're a stranger) until it happens. Many horses kick with their back legs if something behind them startles them. Some horses have never done this, and will never do this. But you never walk behind a horse, because you don't know which one is which until it's too late. I don't get what this post is about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/19 08:36 PM
4	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (30 June 2019) I'm so sorry for what you're going through. I had an ex who was an alcoholic, and it's what ended our relationship. Im here if you ever need to talk or anything. And fuck yeah you go out and prove those bufoons wrong!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/19 03:49 PM
1	Why ar women so hard on men who don't approach them right away? Eh I think it's legit, I've heard the same. However I think the effect is really minimal. Like if red isn't your color, you'd be better off just wearing whatever looks good on you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/19 03:21 PM
1	Discussion: Are American men the most immature on earth? ....yes, because of the gi bill and the complete shift in how our country's economy and social structure shifted. Its much more due to that than it is to a less than universal child rearing method.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/19 02:23 PM
4	Discussion: Are American men the most immature on earth? No, I am quite aware of the difference between authoritarian and authoritative. Yeah, I had a great family, a lot of people do. I'd argue that if you're saying American men are immature, that's more due to the extended adolescence we have today, rather than parenting styles in the 1930s. I'd say you have more of a bone to pick with the gi bill than early 20th century educators and psychologists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/19 01:51 PM
3	Discussion: Are American men the most immature on earth? Idk about you but my parents were definitely the authority figures in my life, not school. Getting in trouble in school wasn't a big deal, the big deal was "oh shit are you going to tell my parents??"	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/19 01:16 PM
1	Women say that one of the most attractive traits of a man, is his motivation to achieve stuff in life. But what if a mans source of motivation and inspiration to achieve stuff in life is a woman? Oh yeah, for sure! You gotta think, a lot of the guys on here and trp struggled with sex and/or relationships. They place a higher importance on that stuff because it feels like they're lacking in a way that a lot of people around them aren't, so they're going to place more significance on sex because it feels like it's something they're missing out on. Then they go to those places and meet others that are also struggling and placing the same exaggerated importance on it, and then it seems like …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/19 03:55 PM
1	Women say that one of the most attractive traits of a man, is his motivation to achieve stuff in life. But what if a mans source of motivation and inspiration to achieve stuff in life is a woman? That sucks, it seems like you've put a lot of pressure on yourself to do what they couldn't. And I think you and your desires are more normal than you're giving yourself credit for. Hanging out here and in trp can give you a skewed idea of that everyone else is doing, all the talk of casual sex and ons and men just wanting to fuck 24/7 without caring about anything else, I'm sure the men here do feel that way, but that's not how all men feel. Honestly, most of the guys I know are not really like…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/19 02:40 PM
1	Women say that one of the most attractive traits of a man, is his motivation to achieve stuff in life. But what if a mans source of motivation and inspiration to achieve stuff in life is a woman? I'm sorry about your mom, that's a tough way to grow up. My mom was in a similar situation, she was entirely unplanned and her mom was 16 when she had her. Her mom was entirely uninterested in having a child, and her and my grandpa broke up when she was an infant. My mom was mostly raised by her grandmother (dad's mom) and then when she was a teenager she lived with her dad and his new wife. She used that as a type of motivation though, she knew that she wanted the type of family that she never …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/19 02:01 PM
1	Women say that one of the most attractive traits of a man, is his motivation to achieve stuff in life. But what if a mans source of motivation and inspiration to achieve stuff in life is a woman? I'm sorry you're going through this. What you're looking for is honestly so sweet and touching. I'd agree that yeah, casual sex just doesn't seem to be for you. Don't feel bad about it, a lot of people are that way. I am too, actually, I don't want to have sex with some random person who means little or nothing to me, just not interested at all. My boyfriend and best friend are also the same, just never interested in it. And if it's not bringing you happiness and actively making you more depress…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/19 01:12 PM
3	Women say that one of the most attractive traits of a man, is his motivation to achieve stuff in life. But what if a mans source of motivation and inspiration to achieve stuff in life is a woman? What parts of yourself are you worried about losing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/19 12:53 PM
3	Women say that one of the most attractive traits of a man, is his motivation to achieve stuff in life. But what if a mans source of motivation and inspiration to achieve stuff in life is a woman? Nah, I would much prefer he does what he actually wants to do. That could easily cause resentment, if he's only working for a woman. My boyfriend is in a somewhat similar situation. He was going to go into the music industry, he got his degree and had recently started working in the industry. Soon after, he found out that the family business (completely unrelated to music) was struggling a bit. He came home to help out his family and now he's not going to do anything with music in the foreseeabl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/19 12:47 PM
1	Television shows where “homely” men get “the girl”? Oh, no, that's not what it means. Look it up, it's like pretty much everything Adam Sandler is haha	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/19 06:37 AM
1	Television shows where “homely” men get “the girl”? I think he fits homely perfectly. Not attractive, unremarkable, kinda unrefined, plain, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/19 06:34 AM
1	Television shows where “homely” men get “the girl”? Okay then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/19 08:55 PM
1	Television shows where “homely” men get “the girl”? Yeah, he's pretty homely but he gets the girl cause he's funny, sweet, endearing, etc. Isn't that what's being asked?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/19 08:45 PM
6	Television shows where “homely” men get “the girl”? Not tv, but I feel like a lot of Adam Sandler movies have some variation of this dynamic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/19 07:40 PM
2	CMV: Men Are Dangerous Why didn't you just honk at her when you realized she was parked in your spot?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/19 04:06 AM
3	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (23 June 2019) That sounds like a bad idea	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/19 10:21 PM
4	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (23 June 2019) That's how it goes ☹️. My dad's company just laid off 3 people in his immediate department 6 months ago and he's had to take on all their jobs. No raise, of course.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/19 09:32 PM
5	Why pro-male activism isn't nearly as widespreed as female one? ...I just gave you examples. A leader of a mra chapter called for war and violence against cops. Paul Elam would have had a point if he said subdue the woman attacking you, but no, he said go over the top, smash their faces into the floor, etc, etc. https://prospect.org/article/look-inside-mens-rights-movement-helped-fuel-california-alleged-killer-elliot-rodger "Elam is founder and publisher of A Voice For Men (AVFM), one of the main hubs for the burgeoning “men’s rights’ movement.” In a blog po…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/19 04:06 PM