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Hot ones (9s and 10s) give me like two seconds of their time. Girls less hot than that give me the time of day. So yeah.
/r/seduction25/09/25 02:48 PM
66

“9s and 10s are easier than 6s and 7s” is complete and total bullshit. It’s something that has circulated for years, possibly decades, and likely started as something that was created to sell a course. It’s not reality.
/r/seduction21/09/25 05:33 PM
2

Go overseas
/r/seduction18/09/25 05:36 PM
7

Learn how to properly pull her hair. Make sure she likes it though, of course. Thank me later.
/r/seduction16/09/25 06:08 PM
2

The biggest myth/lie that’s been perpetrated throughout male dating communities: 9s and 10s are easier to get than 6s and 7s. The guys saying this have likely never even approached a 9 or 10.
/r/seduction11/05/25 10:21 PM
16

Okay, ChatGPT.
/r/seduction05/05/25 02:27 PM
1

Good advice, but it’s unfortunate that guys need a PHD in women now just to date.
/r/seduction05/10/24 12:09 AM
2

I’ll tell you how to know that you should NOT kiss her. It’s easy. Give her a hug. If she gives you a pat on the back while hugging you, then do NOT kiss her.
/r/seduction11/08/24 02:35 PM
0

You need to check her
/r/seduction04/07/24 08:33 PM
1

That seems like the quickest way to a foodie call that I’ve ever seen. But to be fair, I’ve never tried that strategy.
/r/seduction24/05/24 03:44 AM
4

This may sound old school, but get in touch with your feminine side. Never shy away from acting feminine. Let the guy lead, even if it takes him a few seconds to make a decision. I once went out with a girl that I thought was okay looking but she was so feminine that it was like she had the personality of a flower. It was so hot and instantly made her hotter.
/r/seduction02/11/22 03:52 PM
9

“Double Your Dating” - very underrated and not talked about here
/r/seduction01/11/22 05:48 PM
1

Run away screaming. Do not let a girl get away with this shit.
/r/seduction27/10/22 10:22 PM
1

CBD? Yes. THC? No, at least not for me.
/r/seduction27/10/22 04:22 PM
1

Fair enough. Hard to know your specific situation without being there.
/r/seduction27/10/22 03:16 PM
16

Yeah but how do you meet them? lol
/r/seduction26/10/22 04:25 PM
23

Dude I think if she makes out with you then there was definitely some attraction, unless she was wasted. Getting ghosted can mean she’s not attracted in a lot of cases, but not all. Girls change their minds constantly. They are all over the place. And I like the 5% rule…if she meets or talks to a guy that she likes 5% better than you, then you’re done, and likely ghosted. And with the amount of options they have now, I’m sure that happens constantly.
/r/seduction26/10/22 04:16 PM
3

I’m somewhere in between average looking and good looking. I’m 6’3”, 195 lbs, and in great shape. And I can tell you that it’s NOT as easy as you would think to just look good then you get laid.
/r/seduction21/10/22 11:47 PM
1

I’ve lost every lead that’s I’ve ever tried to meet up quickly with though, so it’s like I’m forced into slow motion bullshit.
/r/seduction20/10/22 11:22 PM
1

Because I don’t want to lose any leads
/r/seduction20/10/22 11:16 PM
1

Seems to me like you’re doing things right. Maybe don’t be so excited to set up the next date so soon, but other than that you’re good. I have also had this experience many times this year. Great first date, making out even, lots of mutual interest, but then no second date. It’s a common thing now that I read about online. The issue is likely that she’s talking to too many other sausages and you’re just one of many.
/r/seduction20/10/22 07:14 PM
1

A lot of people say “ask her out quickly” but that never ever works for me. Like I need to give it three days minimum just to get her number or else she gets spooked and runs away forever.
/r/seduction20/10/22 07:08 PM
1

It’s exhausting to have strangers come up to you and tell you you’re attractive? I could live for a week off one compliment. (That’s a quote from somewhere)
/r/seduction19/10/22 04:14 AM
189

“If the first date isn’t OMG PERFECT. It’s done.” - Correct. Welcome to modern dating as a guy. You have to keep falling down, dusting yourself off, and doing it again. You have no choice. The alternative is jerking off and being alone forever. Eventually, it should work out. Keep getting better at all aspects of life.
/r/seduction18/10/22 05:44 PM
1

Source? I’ve had American friends go there and they said approaching girls and getting laid (from non-prostitutes) was literally the easiest thing in the world.
/r/seduction17/10/22 07:00 PM
2

Download rsd Tyler's Hotseat at home mastermind. You can find it easily. It may or may not teach you much but I would recommend watching Tyler's 6 hour infield. The things he does in those videos man, freaking insane. He's 33 and half bald in one video, approaches a 20yr old, makes out with her within a minute and has her calling him daddy. It's fucking insane.
/r/seduction16/10/22 05:24 AM
2

Watch comedy. It will help.
/r/seduction12/10/22 03:33 PM
5

“Maybe next week” is girl language for NO. 99.9999% of the time.
/r/seduction20/09/22 03:55 PM
2

Hit the gym every other day. Yes, I’m serious. It’s the #1 thing that will help. Also learn game.
/r/seduction04/09/22 06:37 PM
1

I feel your pain, and I get it, don’t worry. Just a lot of money. If you plan on doing other stuff there too then it would be worth it.
/r/seduction17/08/22 04:59 PM
1

I don’t get all the downvotes. Yes, it’s cheaper than other trips. But $3k is still a ton of money vs. staying where you are and taking action with girls there.
/r/seduction17/08/22 04:30 PM
-4

It’s a great idea, just an expensive one because of the plane ticket and stuff.
/r/seduction16/08/22 03:49 PM
15

There are plenty of YouTube videos and statistics out there on this topic that break it down perfectly
/r/seduction16/08/22 12:03 AM
17

The more it happens, the more successes you get, and the more it happens. The more it happens, the easier it is to take because: you become numb to it and you realize that success is around the corner. Keep taking action. Hit hit. Never quit.
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:11 PM
2

Lmao great advice actually and hilarious!
/r/seduction31/07/22 05:23 PM
49

CBD is great for anxiety. Not enough people are even willing to try it, which is weird. So far, all the science says it’s safe and even good for you. Just do your research and see if it makes sense for you.
/r/seduction30/07/22 05:20 PM
23

It’s sarcasm/humor..
/r/seduction29/07/22 05:37 AM
80

“Do want to come back to my place and fold my laundry?” Someone else here had this idea, but I love it.
/r/seduction29/07/22 01:33 AM
1

Yeah I had a girl on Friday I was talking to with negative body language but she kept asking questions and hanging around. But then she left and didn’t waNt to give me her number. I’ll keep that in mind though thanks
/r/seduction25/07/22 02:25 PM
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Not really, I’m talking about things like: folded arms, not smiling, eyes that look confused, raised eyebrows, looking away, feet pointed away, unenthusiastic voice, etc. Not ALL of these at the same time obviously, but any of them or a combo of some of them.
/r/seduction24/07/22 07:26 PM
2

I don’t understand why CBD isn’t more popular with pickup
/r/seduction22/07/22 04:48 AM
1

Predictable is the definition of boring to a women. Just don’t be afraid to mix things up and say what you want to say. Have an opinion. Learn what you think is funny and go with that. When it comes to texting, use texts to coordinate dates and don’t rely on it to game.
/r/seduction20/07/22 10:09 PM
10

I know this is a harsh generalization, but single women in their 20s are hotter, have more years left to be hot, have less baggage, and are almost always less crazy. That’s why.
/r/seduction19/07/22 03:55 PM
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Watching comedies helps me. I know it sounds weird, but it’s like if your brain is used to boring information all day and no laughing, then it will show when you interact with people. I’m not saying to change your personality, just figure out what you think is funny, watch some comedy, and that will help.
/r/seduction13/07/22 12:38 AM
1

Dating girls from work is a bad bad bad idea 95% of the time.
/r/seduction12/07/22 04:47 PM
154

The body rarely lies. Read the book “what every body is saying” and you’ll be able to read anyone easily, 90% or more of the time.
/r/seduction11/07/22 04:33 PM
2

Likely a bit more than that but that’s a fair ballpark. Depends on where in Tempe you go and how big of a place you need. Biggest downside of Phoenix is obviously the heat in the summer but if you’re able to handle heat (it doesn’t bother me like cold), then you’ll be fine. If you like baseball, Phoenix is the best spot in the country to watch it (MLB, spring training, and AZ Fall League) and also play it (and softball) because of the weather.
/r/seduction07/07/22 10:45 PM
3

I live in AZ (Phoenix area) and have been here for seven years. I’m never moving again. It’s really a great place and hot girls everywhere, especially if you like latinas. Rent and housing prices are stupidly high now but still lower than a lot of other cool places.
/r/seduction07/07/22 10:10 PM
1

Sounds good. Take advantage of your situation/living in a high population city.
/r/seduction06/07/22 04:39 PM
1

By the way, 73% of your 40 approaches is 29. So only 11 of those girls were single and available (ballparks, again). You got FIVE numbers out of 11, which is 45% of all of the single and available girls. Look at it that way. You did good.
/r/seduction06/07/22 04:25 PM
1

Whatever works for you man. I wish I was better at day game, it has just never given me results.
/r/seduction06/07/22 04:12 PM
2

Here are some ballparks. Around 60% of all girls are taken in same way. 3% are lesbians. 10% are single but not looking for someone. There you go, now 73% of any given random girl on the street you see won’t go out with you NO MATTER WHAT. That’s why a lot of guys prefer night game. At least the majority of girls there are single and looking. But of course night game also comes with its own challenges.
/r/seduction06/07/22 03:49 PM
1

Like most people mentioned, you’re looking at this the wrong way. But to answer your question, karaoke has helped me for sure. Extra bonus points if you can do it sober.
/r/seduction06/07/22 03:44 PM
1

Lol really? Last time I checked, birth control pills are around 99.9% effective. Don’t want to get into a debate here but I just don’t understand.
/r/seduction01/07/22 04:13 AM
3

In person seems harder too to me. But I’m working on it and upgrading. Getting checked out by girls a lot more. Hitting the gym hard. Never surrender.
/r/seduction30/06/22 10:35 PM
1

Both. If you want a nice alcohol alternative when you go out, combine the CBD with caffeine.
/r/seduction30/06/22 07:11 PM
1

I like CBD, but talk to your doctor first.
/r/seduction30/06/22 03:42 PM
7

What i can say for sure is even 2019 vs 2022 is night and day. The game has changed. All you can do is upgrade yourself every day, take action, and hope for the best.
/r/seduction30/06/22 03:40 PM
3

Believe it or not, even Brad Pitt is not every woman’s type. Not possible.
/r/seduction30/06/22 12:59 AM
2

Same, I’m 6’3” and have kissed many girls in the 5’0” - 5’2” range without ever thinking of it as a problem.
/r/seduction28/06/22 10:44 PM
3

50/50? Dude those are insanely good numbers. How many approaches on average get you those results?
/r/seduction28/06/22 10:42 PM
2

I just ordered Alabaster Girl. Thanks for the rec.
/r/seduction22/06/22 03:48 PM
1

Agreed, I’m looking for a book for entertainment only though. I’ve already read plenty of instructional/pickup books.
/r/seduction21/06/22 03:46 PM
1

Okay
/r/seduction21/06/22 04:03 AM
1

I’m looking for books that are not all about pickup/instructions on how to do it. I’ve read a lot of those already. I mentioned all of this lol. 😂
/r/seduction21/06/22 04:00 AM
1

Thanks
/r/seduction21/06/22 03:07 AM
1

Ask yourself this: would she give YOU one last chance? The answer is clearly no. You’re trying and she’s giving you zero chances. Would she do the same thing to a Chad? Find another girl. You got this.
/r/seduction19/06/22 07:28 PM
6

If you want to win at this game when you go out, you better get used to it.
/r/seduction17/06/22 11:51 PM
2

Dead convos and one word replies? The best thing you can do is never contact her again. If she reaches out and convincingly wants to hang out, great. Just move on, don’t feed her bullshit validation.
/r/seduction17/06/22 08:06 PM
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Girls are actually checking you out, half the work is done for you. Just talk to them. Most guys would kill to get regularly checked out.
/r/seduction17/06/22 08:03 PM
1

“Maybe next week” means “No” 100% of the fucking time. Move on.
/r/seduction15/06/22 05:55 PM
2

OP is correct. I don’t know what you all are smoking. Hot girls have never been easier than average girls, at least for me. I truly think it’s the #1 myth/lie of the pickup community. Hot girls have a million options.
/r/seduction14/06/22 06:17 PM
1

I showed up to a first date once and the girl was with a friend. She didn’t tell me. A horrible, bitchy friend. It went horrible.
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:25 PM
1

I also read that getting girls in Thailand is easy. Why?
/r/seduction09/06/22 06:18 PM
2

Yep, similar things have happened to me this year. It’s frustrating enough to put my first through a wall bro. I swear even three years ago this shit didn’t happen. We’ve reached the point of “adapt or die”.
/r/seduction07/06/22 11:05 PM
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Sadly, all she needs is ONE reason to next you and then she’s on to another guy in her list of hundreds or possibly thousands of matches. Welcome to dating as a guy in 2022. It’s happened to me lately too. Sometimes I’ll even get a make out, or she’ll proactively mention “our next date”, or will get tons of interest, and still ghosted afterwards. The solution? There isn’t an easy one. Upgrade yourself every day as much as possible. Hit the gym, work on style, work on social skills, get a tan, it…
/r/seduction07/06/22 06:02 PM
10

Bro 2019 was awesome compared to now. I miss those days.
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:32 PM
2

Yes, only if she is cool with it.
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:48 AM
4

Maybe, but I think he needs to break that touch barrier and feel out the situation thoroughly before diving into the pool and possibly embarrassing himself. He mentioned that he’s not totally sure if she’s into him.
/r/seduction07/06/22 12:45 AM
4

I’ve been doing that one forever. It always works well, harmless and easy.
/r/seduction06/06/22 05:06 PM
43

That would be weird. Baby step your way towards what you want to do with her physically. Touch her arm here and there while talking. She seems cool with that? Progress to keeping it there a few seconds. Cool with that? Keep progressing. Ask if she’s ticklish and try tickling her a bit, give her a compliment, then put your arm around her for a little while, then give her a kiss on the cheek, then go for the make out. Then keep things moving forward, etc. basically just keep escalating slowly unti…
/r/seduction06/06/22 04:59 PM
1

Wait. “Girls are constantly looking at me when I pass them”. Why not talk to the ones that look at you? How on earth do you consider this as being invisible to women?
/r/seduction02/06/22 11:22 PM
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I’m not going to get into a “looks matter” battle here, but looks do matter to women. You don’t have to be a male model, but she has to at least be able to envision you on top of her naked. Yes I’ve seen exceptions to this but generally speaking. But I agree that if she doesn’t like you then that’s fine.
/r/seduction02/06/22 05:23 PM
1

I agree with most of this, but you forgot an even more common reason: she isn’t attracted to you.
/r/seduction02/06/22 04:15 PM
5

Men are light switches. Ones and zeros. We like you or we don’t. Simple. Women are rubix cubes tumbling down the street in a rainstorm.
/r/seduction21/05/22 05:45 PM
2

Message me too please
/r/seduction19/05/22 04:35 PM
1

The weather or traffic
/r/seduction11/05/22 04:48 AM
1

A lot of guys like the style line but I don’t. Sounds like maybe you’re just into her fashion or possibly even gay. Better to just tell her you thought she was cute and introduce yourself in my opinion.
/r/seduction09/05/22 05:48 PM
2

Practice karaoke, it’s a skill that takes time to be good but it has helped me because girls don’t expect it. You get a lot of Bonus points for doing it sober btw, she can see your balls on stage. But of course if you don’t like to sing then don’t just do it for girls
/r/seduction03/05/22 03:48 PM
1

Play with your hair
/r/seduction02/05/22 05:45 PM
1

Always keep in mind that a ton of girls will flake, so you might be getting all psyched up for nothing. Not trying to be negative, just letting you know.
/r/seduction29/04/22 05:39 PM
15

Or even just the first and last bullets lol.
/r/seduction27/04/22 05:59 PM
1

DM please
/r/seduction14/04/22 08:08 PM
2

Agreed, and some new clothes too
/r/seduction06/04/22 01:27 AM
10

Bro there are a lot of great things you could do with $8k. The internet has an endless amount of free material and tips at your disposal. If you’re looking for one on one help, make a guy friend who’s good with girls and ask if he’ll give you advice.
/r/seduction05/04/22 10:47 PM
1

The answer is yes. But be careful! Use proper form. ONE really bad injury, like a lower back injury, could affect you for the rest of your life. And then you will never get jacked again. I know this from EXPERIENCE.
/r/seduction04/04/22 05:31 PM
1

Fuck everyone else man. A lot of the guys are probably jealous because they want to date younger girls too.
/r/seduction31/03/22 10:52 PM
7

-Yes, just get tested regularly and use protection. Every six months should be fine depending on your situation. I’m not a doctor though so none of this is medical advice. -I’ve asked plenty of times and it’s never made them mad or run away. But they always say they don’t have anything. So kinda worthless question lol. -I kiss girls whenever, I don’t think about that. You can get things from kissing but it’s pretty rare and I’d rather just have fun. STDs are real and they absolutely exist.
/r/seduction30/03/22 05:52 PM
2

I agree with most of this. But for girls, I mean they have more tools at their disposal in my opinion. Nails, makeup, hair, push up bras, form fitting yoga pants, etc. makeup especially. It can turn a 6 into an easy 8.
/r/seduction26/03/22 10:40 PM
5

We didn’t say that you aren’t. We have no idea. But there is always room for improvement, so take advantage of that.
/r/seduction26/03/22 09:02 PM
7

It’s the #1 way to improve, I don’t care what anyone says
/r/seduction26/03/22 07:30 PM
2

Hit the gym and improve the way you look in every possible way
/r/seduction26/03/22 06:28 PM
5

Facts. Also I found foreign girls to be WAY more feminine, which is so so so hot. They actually enjoy and embrace femininity.
/r/seduction23/03/22 04:46 PM
1

It helps but it’s no magic pill, unfortunately. Unless your band is successful on some decent level.
/r/seduction08/03/22 12:11 AM
1

“I know you think you’re too old for me…but you’re not.” ;]
/r/seduction02/03/22 05:04 AM
2

Haha not a bad idea
/r/seduction02/03/22 01:19 AM
5

Same. For me, it’s like if I pull the trigger to get the number even a BIT too early, then they get spooked and run away forever.
/r/seduction01/03/22 11:03 PM
2

Awful idea dude
/r/seduction01/03/22 09:02 PM
2

That is actually a great point.
/r/seduction01/03/22 07:30 PM
5

I’m white, tall (6’3”), and somewhere between average looking and good looking. And I can tell you first hand that it’s not nearly enough. Although also keep in mind I was only half serious when creating this post.
/r/seduction01/03/22 06:07 PM
4

Do you know what satire is? There is some truth here too but relax bro.
/r/seduction01/03/22 02:58 PM
2

It was satire with some truth mixed in. Must’ve went over your head.
/r/seduction01/03/22 02:30 PM
23

“I’ll let you know”, “We’ll see”, and “Maybe sometime next week”. All of these mean “No”.
/r/seduction21/02/22 07:19 PM
1

This guy (JacobMoogberg69) fucks.
/r/seduction28/01/22 04:15 AM
7

I was genuinely interested if it works. While at the same time thinking it wouldn’t. Not saying you’re lying. And I’m not young.
/r/seduction27/01/22 10:44 PM
20

You say this in real life or online dating? I can’t say I’d think either strategy would work well lol.
/r/seduction27/01/22 08:15 PM
3

I’ve scratched enough itches at this point to bleed for the rest of my life.
/r/seduction07/12/21 03:33 AM
19

I’m 37 and the only pressure I feel is my own. I don’t give a fuck what society or my parents are saying about me. But personally I’d rather settle down now because dating and hooking up is old to me now and a ton of work.
/r/seduction06/12/21 09:03 PM
1

I hear ya. And don’t forget what happens when you actually get the DATE. Now it’s the same minefield, only in person. If they don’t like one thing, then they’re on to the next in line. I’m thankful to have had quite a lot of success with online dating, but it still takes me a LOT of time and tolerance just to sift through the BS, flakes, and ghosts, and get a date.
/r/seduction06/12/21 08:46 PM
1

My suggestion is turn off all of your read receipts, it makes life much easier
/r/seduction02/12/21 03:39 PM
1

Two weeks out? Don’t count on her not flaking. There’s a good chance that a flake is coming. Never get your hopes up for anyone you haven’t met yet. But to answer your question, yes you should send her a quick message here and there, maybe every four days.
/r/seduction02/11/21 05:53 PM
3

Not true. Would you ever consider fucking a butter face?
/r/seduction07/10/21 07:55 PM
0

This is interesting but honestly I would’ve just fucked her lol
/r/seduction26/09/21 11:45 PM
3

I disagree, I’ve had close to zero success with day game. They might as well say “I have a boyfriend” before I even start talking, just to save me the time.
/r/seduction18/09/21 12:14 AM
4

Yeah, being rejected is really fun lol
/r/seduction12/08/21 08:54 PM
4

Here’s what I think to myself when I ask if I want to go to the gym on any particular day: “I have an opportunity to improve the way I look today. Do I want to take that opportunity or let it pass?” This always motivates me to go.
/r/seduction09/08/21 03:47 PM
1

How to seduce a woman: everything you mentioned. How to seduce a man: look good and show up naked.
/r/seduction08/07/21 08:15 PM
1

This doesn’t happen to much for me, which would mean I get to die alone. Unless I just approach who I want.
/r/seduction01/06/21 09:33 PM
0

If anything, I figured the girls on a Dating Reddit sub would be generally less attractive than average, meaning their standards would be lower than average. But the age range probably skews young.
/r/seduction26/05/21 05:20 PM
1

What Every Body is Saying is a classic, very underrated and will help you with all people, not just girls.
/r/seduction25/05/21 02:28 AM
2

At the gym? Only approach if you are absolutely sure she’s into you (multiple glances, smiling, etc.). Even then it could get awkward.
/r/seduction25/05/21 02:27 AM
1

Good idea but I bet the radical left would try to cancel it
/r/seduction19/05/21 09:25 PM
6

This strategy greatly limits the number of girls you’re able to meet. If nobody looks over, then you do zero approaches and just stand there all night. Not the best strategy if girls aren’t checking you out that night.
/r/seduction18/05/21 05:29 PM
12

Good question. One strike equals one flake or one unanswered text after four days.
/r/seduction13/05/21 01:25 AM
12

Lmao dad bot
/r/seduction13/05/21 12:57 AM
102

I always give girls two strikes, but then I’m out. Absolutely no more than two strikes. 90% of the time, they’re already disinterested after one strike, but 10% of the time, I get her out. Sometimes that 10% turns into something real nice. This strategy still saves face while giving you additional girls.
/r/seduction12/05/21 08:17 PM
1

I agree to an extent but I think there are much bigger issues with dating apps, mainly the insane amount of other competition from guys. She will easily get hundreds or even thousands of messages if she’s decently attractive.
/r/seduction12/05/21 07:51 PM
2

I feel ya. Yeah, try day game during times when you’re already out and doing things. That way there is no opportunity cost to you. And also go out for a couple hours once per week to do night game.
/r/seduction12/05/21 03:54 PM
1

If you get them on the phone or video call, then yes I agree that’s good practice. The problem is that’s a minor percentage of the time spent with online dating.
/r/seduction12/05/21 03:52 PM
13

Yeah I’ve seen online dating post corona as FAR worse than pre corona. I said fuck it a month ago and focusing entirely on offline game. It’s working well. It keeps you sharp socially and even when you don’t get a number, you get great experience that you can use to your advantage with the next girl. Online dating does absolutely nothing for your social skills and offline game and is a dopamine dump factory.
/r/seduction12/05/21 03:10 AM
6

Never ask before a kiss bro
/r/seduction11/05/21 06:00 AM
2

This is great, did you end up going on a date with her?
/r/seduction10/05/21 11:00 PM
1

Stop taking social situations seriously. I made that mistake too. Checkout Angrypicnic and Thatwasepic on YouTube.
/r/seduction10/05/21 06:25 PM
23

I’ll be honest. Look as hot as possible is priority number one. It’s literally 80% of the equation. All remaining tips: eye contact, give a compliment to stroke his ego, laugh at his dumb jokes, and be sweet/nice. That would do it for me. Giggling is very cute btw!
/r/seduction10/05/21 06:12 PM
1

Lol I def wouldn’t mention anything related to shit
/r/seduction09/05/21 11:34 PM
2

And to answer your other question, yes it will take time but everyone has their own learning curve. You might accelerate faster than others. You can do this.
/r/seduction09/05/21 12:01 AM
2

Please. I’m 36. Fuck society and what they say is too old to do this. You’re good.
/r/seduction08/05/21 11:27 PM
1

Push yourself. It’s the only way. And then do it again and again. The reward is girls!
/r/seduction08/05/21 11:18 PM
3

We’ve all been there. It’s tough at first but continuously gets easier. You’re not interrupting them, although I know it seems that way. Instead, you’re giving them a compliment and showing them how much balls you have to just walk up and say hi. Nothing bad will happen to you, just walk away if they aren’t interested or are getting uncomfortable. The truth is most people don’t give a shit about you or anyone other than themselves.
/r/seduction08/05/21 09:48 PM
2

Read “What every body is saying”. Also lots of YouTube videos on the topic
/r/seduction08/05/21 01:26 PM
4

Yeah, body language is extremely difficult to manipulate when you’re in the moment. The limbic system at work. It’s why acting is so difficult. Everyone check out the book “What every body is saying”, it’s great.
/r/seduction08/05/21 12:39 AM
8

Body language typically doesn’t lie..learn to read female body language, it will help you a lot like it helped me.
/r/seduction07/05/21 11:59 PM
1

I really and truly don’t think this is the case.
/r/seduction07/05/21 11:11 PM
1

Yeah I will. Have you seen girls come back after something like this?
/r/seduction07/05/21 10:39 PM
7

This is the way I see it…”I have a boyfriend” means: -60% of the time: they have a boyfriend -30% of the time: fuck off -10% of the time: shit test. This typically happens if she’s flirting with you and showing interest but then brings it up.
/r/seduction07/05/21 10:19 PM
3

Remember it’s your life. Asking girls for their number is perfectly acceptable. You aren’t harming anyone. The only key is that you always need to leave or walk away if they aren’t interested, and don’t make them feel uncomfortable.
/r/seduction07/05/21 09:30 PM
15

Agreed for the most part, but sometimes they’re just bored af and wanting to talk to someone.
/r/seduction07/05/21 05:48 PM
1

I’m thinking about asking that in like five days if I get no response but anytime I’ve asked in the past I either get obvious BS or no response
/r/seduction07/05/21 05:18 PM
1

Yeah I know, I just like learning from my mistakes and not getting left in the dark but it happens to everyone
/r/seduction07/05/21 05:04 PM
1

I actually wish she would tell me I did, or at least tell me wtf happened. Yeah I know I do need to move on.
/r/seduction07/05/21 04:48 PM
0

So she’d rather cut me out of her life vs. wait one more date to see if I’ll make a move? I dunno, I just don’t understand that logically but girls make no sense.
/r/seduction07/05/21 03:38 PM
1

This is good bro
/r/seduction07/05/21 05:27 AM
57

I agree with a lot of this, but guys need to be careful. Many think that everything is a shit test. It isn’t! Sometimes “I have a boyfriend” is her either telling you the truth or telling you to fuck off.
/r/seduction06/05/21 06:07 PM
4

Oh man. Just literally ask them if they’re single. And if she’s with a guy ask how they know each other (way less awkward).
/r/seduction04/05/21 09:12 PM
2

Snaps are better than nothing but definitely try for the number
/r/seduction04/05/21 05:50 PM
1

Thanks
/r/seduction04/05/21 02:48 PM
1

I guess I agree to a point. If you’re a 9/10 or 10/10 guy, then most rules go out the window. But that’s such a small percentage of men.
/r/seduction04/05/21 02:47 PM
1

Another good point
/r/seduction04/05/21 05:29 AM
1

Three girls really is nothing. I feel your pain but really three is such a low number. It is a numbers game, as cliche as it sounds. If you swiped three times on Tinder, what would you expect from that? Exactly. Make sure you’re being clear in your intent though. Sounds like you tried to win them over as friends first, which is typically a very big mistake.
/r/seduction03/05/21 10:35 PM
4

“Okay, not a problem, enjoy your night”. And then the key is to walk away with a smile or while laughing, that will pump your state and also the girls around you will have no idea what just happened.
/r/seduction03/05/21 04:04 PM
52

When introducing yourself, tell each girl you have a different name. Hi, my name is Mike. Hi, my name is Greg, Hi, my name is Kyle, etc. whenever I use this, it gets laughs. But after that, of course tell them your real name.
/r/seduction30/04/21 10:52 PM
0

I’ve done this before, although not ideal because you could use the time for self improvement. Just be sure to keep things as cheap as possible, or better yet, free.
/r/seduction29/04/21 06:41 PM
1

“For every hot girl you see, there is some guy who is tired of dealing with her shit.”
/r/seduction29/04/21 03:51 PM
1

If you tell her you’re going to beauty school, won’t she just assume that you’re gay though?
/r/seduction27/04/21 11:48 PM
1

Does this..work?
/r/seduction27/04/21 09:54 PM
138

This sounds about right. Guys, it’s okay to be nice. Just add in confidence/strength. Don’t be afraid. Trying to be an asshole when you’re clearly not one will not work.
/r/seduction27/04/21 09:47 PM
8

Agreed completely. I distinctly remember multiple times where a similar thing happened to me, I didn’t approach, and I still regret it to this day. Changing things up now.
/r/seduction23/04/21 03:28 AM
1

Agreed, it’s overlooked that being good with game correlates with being a solid communicator with people.
/r/seduction22/04/21 05:21 PM
1

CBD helps me a lot.
/r/seduction19/04/21 08:59 PM
1

I recommend trying CBD instead of meds, but of course talk to your doctor about it.
/r/seduction27/01/21 06:09 PM
3

Check out “The Truth” by Neil Strauss, I liked it even more
/r/seduction16/01/21 04:17 AM
1

Where do you live? A place with an active nightlife? I didn’t think that existed anymore.
/r/seduction30/11/20 03:26 AM
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