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| 2 | Would this be considered internalized homophobia by definition?The video wasn’t about her wanting their seats though, it was about a disabled man needing their seats | /r/MensRights | 13/07/26 08:19 AM |
| 1 | guys i need help ...... she's too beautiful and high statusEh… you should look up limerence. | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Looks wont keep the girl. Money wont keep the girl.Women who need men are not high value women. Similarly, a high value man isn’t interested in being with a woman who needs him. That is what a lot of men say, that you want a woman who needs you. But a lot of the time, once you lock down the girl who needs you, y’all’s eyes will be wandering. To where? Towards the emotionally independent women, the women who don’t need you, who are fine without you, so that you have to actually work hard and chase them to impress them and make them stay with you.… | /r/seduction | 15/03/24 11:20 AM |
| 2 | Burnt outTake a break, then. If it’s costing you so much more than you’re getting out of it right now, it’s no good. Pushing through the exhaustion is just going to make it worse in the end. The energy that you’re spending on women every night, pour it back into you. Do stuff for yourself, see your friends and family, think about your future, work out, make money, practice your hobbies. Enjoy what life is outside of women, basically. Sometimes you get laid more, sometimes less. If 3-4 months is the longe… | /r/seduction | 10/03/24 03:04 PM |
| 0 | A loving marriage ❤️Surely, it does matter? Different cultures have different ways? | /r/MensRights | 07/03/24 11:58 AM |
| 0 | If A Woman Thinks You are A Player, Do Not Tell Her OtherwiseYou… just made one hell of an assumption, lmao. You have no idea what they were attracted to when they were younger. You missed out.. on what, exactly? Being able to treat women like shit just like all the assholes did? | /r/seduction | 01/03/24 06:29 PM |
| 11 | So difficult to get girls, then when I get one she gets so weird.I think most women do, actually. Some are just emotionally unavailable themselves due to trust issues, or they are hiding their attachment to protect their ego and because they don’t want to look ‘crazy’. But women naturally experience a release of oxytocin, the bonding hormone, after sex. It’s a pretty hard-wired process, one that goes all the way back to hunter-gatherer times and played an important role in women’s survival, so modern contraceptives aren’t really gonna have much effect. | /r/seduction | 11/02/24 10:15 PM |
| 8 | Do you want to go back to my place?“If she promises to behave” 💀🤢 | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 06:42 PM |
| 6 | If a woman likes you, she will let you knowTrue, but only when it’s done by a guy they already wanted to date in the first place. Which may feel unfair but makes perfect sense when you think about it. | /r/seduction | 21/01/24 04:19 PM |
| 1 | There is a active push to limit the scope of socially acceptable venues to approach a womanWell then look for that minority? It certainly isn’t gonna be easier with neurotypical women. Autistic women, like most autistic people, feel horribly misunderstood and tired from masking their autism. They also feel insecure socially. Being with a partner that is autistic too is of an indescribable relief. Suddenly you don’t have to lay out every single part of your brain to make the other person understand how you tick. But the thing is, a lot of autistic women are better adjusted socially tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 08:27 AM |
| 2 | There is a active push to limit the scope of socially acceptable venues to approach a womanThis. He should find a girl who’s ND herself tbh, that’s the most plausible way for him to get any. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 11:46 PM |
| 8 | Women hate socially awkward and/or quiet males?Exactly.. the idea of having sex with them. Which is something different entirely than hating someone as a person. Women don’t hate shy or awkward men for the people they are but that doesn’t mean they want to have sex with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 11:13 AM |
| – | "Men would still have sex with an ugly woman" is a shitty consolation prizeThat’s a whole other discussion ffs. It’s obvious that they’re talking about the risks that come with SEX specifically. I think we can all agree that sex is inherently more risky for women than it is for men, if only because of the risk of pregnancy. Right? That’s not having a victim mentality, that is stating the obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 07:24 PM |
| 10 | The fact that blue pillers never have genuine counterpoints or refutation to the countless valid TRP grievances, and only seem to be able to respond with insults and ad hominem attacks, is a strong credit to the legitimacy of TRP.Bro mentally stable, neurotypical people aren’t wasting their time on dumbass subreddits like these, they’re out there connecting with each other using their social skills that are like second nature to them, making friends, hooking up. Truth is most of us are a bunch of losers on here. Trying to understand how to be a normal human, why other people seem to have the things just come to them naturally. And I’m glad someone said it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 08:21 AM |
| 2 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocrites‘When the female homo sapiens is faced with an attractive male, she simply cannot help but open her pussy doors for him’ bro you’re talking about women like they’re some species of animal in a nature documentary. Women are not a hivemind, your rule is not a general one. It depends on the individual woman’s past and values. Some women are more promiscuous than others, for them the rule applies, sure. But there’s plenty of women who strictly only want to have sex within a committed relationship. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 07:54 AM |
| 4 | Men who are so worried about a woman not having the same standards for every man are hypocritesLol. You’ll be missing out on a lot of wonderful potential partners with that rule, but sure. Women are humans. Humans are capable of rational thinking and self-control. They do not helplessly give into their instincts. That’s literally what distincts humans from other animals. Especially women, who have lower testosterone levels… Women do not get overtaken by their horniness the way men do. They are much better at self-control in that aspect and that’s why it’s also more expected of them. But t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 11:13 PM |
| 6 | In my experience women don't care what you have to say and they are generally not genuinely interested in anything you are unless it aligns with them.Or show you their entire camera roll over and over again lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 10:26 AM |
| 26 | In my experience women don't care what you have to say and they are generally not genuinely interested in anything you are unless it aligns with them.They will fr treat you like a nuisance for having the audacity to not make their dicks hard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 10:23 AM |
| 1 | The real reason men laud “players” and shame sluts is…Being rich in itself doesn’t make you a high value man. It’s more about personality traits such as persistence, physical and mental strength, ambition, confidence, etc. A poor man that shows ambition and fairness and who works hard is way more of a high value man than a spoiled, entitled piece of shit who was born into richness because of his parents’ company. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 08:59 AM |
| -1 | "AI girlfriends are ruining an entire generation of men" - Let's Blame MenLooks matter for sure, but it’s not the end all, no. Not raw physical appearance at least. But it is all about image. For men a big part of it is social skills and social standing, so a lot of women will go not necessarily for the guys that look best objectively but the most popular or powerful ones. Which is, well, not many men. And often these guys are relatively physically attractive already. Higher standards for physical attractiveness are more evident in women, when it comes to picking sexu… | /r/MensRights | 27/09/23 02:46 PM |
| -5 | "AI girlfriends are ruining an entire generation of men" - Let's Blame MenOkay so I should have specified that I wasn’t talking about marriage. And that I was talking about the west. My bad. Still, a man in the west (which I assume is where most of us on this subreddit are from) is free to not commit to one girl, if that’s what he wants. Men can have multiple fuck buddies if they want, as long as they are able to attract the women in the first place. The problem is that only the top percentage of men is able to do so. Most men can’t. This is not men’s fault and it is … | /r/MensRights | 27/09/23 11:53 AM |
| -6 | "AI girlfriends are ruining an entire generation of men" - Let's Blame MenYou’re right, but technically, men today are free to do that. There has never been more sexual liberty than in today’s society, since hunter gatherer times. It’s just that many men don’t get the chance to sleep with and date a lot of women. Because women don’t find most men attractive. Their selectivity is the natural result of the fact that sex for them comes with the risk of pregnancy. And yes, this does mean there is hypergamy. This fucking sucks and I empathize with men on this matter, but i… | /r/MensRights | 27/09/23 11:23 AM |
| -9 | "AI girlfriends are ruining an entire generation of men" - Let's Blame MenI know this sounds harsh and it isn’t fair that it works this way but isn’t that biology’s fault in the end? Women aren’t attracted to most men the way men are attracted to most women. I think it has always been that way but it’s only now that women aren’t dependent on partnership/marriage to live, that this truth is coming forward more. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/23 09:15 AM |
| 3 | Why should a man not date younger women given the opportunity?Except she will understand it better at 25 than at 18, because she will know herself and life better and her world view will have changed entirely. 18 is fresh out of high school man… they are endlessly more stupid than 25 year olds on average. Ask any stable and emotionally mature 50 year old and they will say they could never imagine dating an 18 year old because they feel like a kid to them. Again, simply being attracted or even just hooking up is not the problem. But actively choosing to dat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 11:05 AM |
| 3 | Why should a man not date younger women given the opportunity?It’s definitely morally bad if the woman is so young that her brain hasn’t matured yet. 18-25ish. At least for long term relationships it is. I guess a hook up is fine. The differences is brain development and life experience create a power imbalance that cannot be overlooked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 09:07 AM |
| 5 | Why should a man not date younger women given the opportunity?That’s weird as shit too, but tbh a 25 year old is different than a 18 or 19 year old, the brain development that happens between those ages is insane. It’s the old men being with literal teenagers that is the main problem. In their mid-twenties women are already way more mature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 09:02 AM |
| 6 | CMV : young men today should spare themselves torment by not getting emotionally invested in one day becoming a fatherNo. It’s because of the phenomenon of people (online) using ‘female’ to describe women and specifically people using ‘female’ for women but just ‘men’ for men in the very same sentence. I suppose the original commenter is trying to be petty by turning that around. Tbh I don’t care much, in the end it’s just semantics, but it’s true that ‘females’ for women is much more widespread than ‘males’ for men so that disparity is admittedly a bit weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 05:53 PM |
| – | When a woman says "I love guys with long hair!" she's picturing a bearded masculine man to go with it.Well… of course. Women who like long hair are already kind of an outlier. You cannot be a femboy with long hair and expect to be attractive to the masses. Having a niche look is not a bad thing, you just need to find the people who are into it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 09:46 AM |
| 2 | Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had?This. It’s sexual dimorphism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 08:16 AM |
| 1 | Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had?The thing is, short men can be attractive despite their shortness, so it’s hard to give a universal, clear cut answer. It matters to a significant degree: shortness in itself is not attractive. This can be overridden, by finding ways to compensate for it and by finding shorter women (who are often more willing to date an objectively short man as long as he’s the same height/taller than her). But it’s not easy, for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had?But it does. It changes the shape of the body as in… the body gets taller. ‘How high off the ground you stopped growing’ is wild gymnastics. Creative, I’ll admit, but completely meaningless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 08:06 AM |
| – | Why does seeking explicit consent turn off so many women?Thanks for just saying it out loud 💀 So many of us here are actually just fucking autistic and it’s a big reason why we struggle. Not only because of society and dating culture. Dating culture sucks, don’t get me wrong here, but enough ugly people with great social skills get laid left and right. Check yourselves guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 03:06 PM |
| 8 | Why men are (rightfully) bitter.You are absolutely right. That is where we as a society are failing and should work to become better. Men’s loneliness is a big problem. But the solution is to have more empathy for these men and take them seriously. In the worst case scenario, if they really consistently fail to connect with people, then we need to help them gain perspective on the fact that there is more in life, and help them redirect their lives to other things. The solution is not to blame women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 03:26 AM |
| 9 | Why men are (rightfully) bitter.Acceptance that life isn’t fair. It’s no one’s fault that this is the reality for men, this is just how it is. Women aren’t doing this on purpose with some malicious intent to make all these men lonely. They are just living their life with what they have been given, which is; the privilege that they are the more desirable sex that doesn’t have to work as hard for attention. Doesn’t mean that men aren’t allowed to be sad about this reality but at the end of the day it’s still not women’s fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Would you rather date a 21 year old and pay for everything or date a women over 30 who splits things 50/50?That’s an assumption… It depends very much on who the person is. A 21 year old can have been through much more shit and be way more mentally ill/hard to deal with than a 30 year old. There’s also the fact that the brain isn’t fully developed until 25, so at 21 a lot of women are still immature in many ways. If you’re a younger guy yourself this won’t necessarily be a problem, but especially for older men, I don’t understand how it would be more peaceful with a 21 year old than a 30 year old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather date a 21 year old and pay for everything or date a women over 30 who splits things 50/50?Lmao, and you think trad wives who just use you for your money aren’t gonna nag you?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 06:16 PM |
| 0 | Being shy or a little introverted can be considered an endearing trait in women, but is usually a very unattractive one for menMmmm lot of the times they’re autistic too, making it harder for them to bond with other women, especially in groups, cause the social expectations are much more subtle and intricate than they are with men. So a lot of the times they are not like the other women. Tbh if having to choose between mostly male friends, or no friends, I’d choose the first too. Loneliness kills. Maybe they’ll get a boyfriend out of it, which would be a major win for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 04:09 PM |
| 0 | "You have to work 5x as hard as your grandfather for women 20x worse"The competition? For men that they didn’t even want in the first place? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Women who are sexually active, what’s the longest you’ve ever gone without sex and how much of a struggle was it?More like, means she’s autistic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 09:44 AM |
| 3 | Women who are sexually active, what’s the longest you’ve ever gone without sex and how much of a struggle was it?Every time I see someone use the word ‘preggers’ it makes me want to gauge my eyeballs out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 09:43 AM |
| 3 | Women, how would you or did you prepare your sons for dating?Social skills are much more important to teach as a parent imo. Of course on top of building healthy habits that include eating varied and healthy foods and staying physically active. But ‘fitness’ in itself shouldn’t have the priority, because it will always be easier to lose weight when you’re fat than it is to build social skills after growing up isolated and deprived of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 02:52 PM |
| -25 | Thank youObnoxious phrase yes but that’s not what women mean when they say that | /r/MensRights | 01/08/23 12:37 PM |
| 0 | There is a huge disparity between what young&attractive girls want and what PPD girls want and that's one reason for misunderstanding.Not directly because he reads no, but the reading indicates that he’s likely to be smart and knowledgeable, interesting to talk to, and all of that in turn indicates high value. Women are also not getting wet because he has a tan and a lot of instagram followers and makes his entire life revolve around that 💀 Where is the mystery in that? If you read any fan-fiction or erotic books directed to women you will see that for many women it’s more about how much of a story they can make around a man. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 07:22 PM |
| 2 | There is a huge disparity between what young&attractive girls want and what PPD girls want and that's one reason for misunderstanding.If you think this is what ‘most women’ want then you haven’t talked to enough women lmao. Women make up 50% of the population, and just like men, they are all individual people with individual preferences. Some might be into this type of men. Others prefer shy men, men who read, men who make art, or the musician type, etc. I really don’t understand how that’s such a hard concept to grasp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 06:08 PM |
| 9 | Women Admitting That Their Promiscuous Pasts Prevent Them From Enjoying Sex With Their HusbandsThe first one is not a good example imo since escorting is something else than having casual sex that you actually ‘want’ to have. I don’t think there’s a way to work in prostitution and not come out damaged and with bad feelings around sex. Casual sex because you enjoy it will not nearly have the same effects. And only a very very small percentage of women do prostitution so again, not a good example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 10:02 PM |
| 3 | The 'Chad C*ck Carousel* is a MythBut all surveys are essentially just ‘stupid’ surveys that don’t affect people’s life. Does that mean we should stop using surveys as a research method altogether, just because some people give inaccurate answers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 12:23 PM |
| 5 | Now they're calling Trans Men winning beauty pageants brazen misogyny"Have you considered that the women who are against this stuff always were and didn’t agree with the agenda in the first place? | /r/MensRights | 13/07/23 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Women have an hard problem knowing what they should put effort into to be more attractive as a long term partner.So if this is bangmaid then what does a valuable, caring girlfriend do that makes her more than just a bangmaid? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 05:43 PM |
| 1 | The dating market isn't fair and isn't meant to be fair, so we should give young men a breakI’m not saying men can’t be attracted to younger women, you can’t really help who you are attracted to anyways. But being attracted to someone and and actually dating someone are two different things entirely. I’m not shaming grown men for being attracted to 18 year olds, but dating them? That’s gonna get a dirty look from me. They should know better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 08:44 PM |
| 9 | The dating market isn't fair and isn't meant to be fair, so we should give young men a breakAnd you think you would have anything in common with an 18 year old? She could be your child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 05:33 AM |
| 2 | If women really want slut shaming to go away, they need to be willing to show appreciation for their advantage.It’s not just a few, singular women that don’t care about casual sex, it’s the vast majority of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 02:20 PM |
| 5 | My hand accidentally brushed my female co workers ass and I'm completely freaking out right nowGross | /r/MensRights | 24/06/23 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Men who envy women dont appreciate what they haveMmm… Worst part is not necessarily the pain tbh, it’s having your emotions so affected by your hormones. You go on a rollercoaster ride of depression, anxiety, anger, shame, jealousy, guilt, grief all in one week every month. And you can’t even feel sorry for yourself because you know it’s ‘just’ your period. Also it’s really inconvenient to just… leak blood. It gets everywhere, even if you use products to prevent that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 12:31 PM |
| 2 | Most women can’t admit that they care about looks just/nearly as much as men because they see themselves as the sophisticated and non-primitive gender as opposed to men.We are equal, but not in the way you are trying to argue we are. Women are just as superficial as men, sure. But it doesn’t present in the same way. For women, it’s more about status than it is about raw physical attractiveness. Being attractive as a guy will only get you so far if you don’t have the charisma to go with it. You can be as hot as you want as a man but if you are a social disaster, then the initial attraction that women may have had towards you will die. Men on the other hand, are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 11:04 AM |
| -1 | Has anyone noticed that lonely virgin men are now being treated as folk devils or potential misogynistic terrorists?I agree that autistic men’s struggles shouldn’t be put down, and anyone who claims autistic men are being ‘coddled’ is blinded with resentment or jealousy or something, because in general, no one is coddling autistic people other than weirdly obsessed autism moms. It’s true that autistic men are far more stigmatized than autistic women. But it’s worth nothing that even though the average autistic woman may seem less severely disabled than the average autistic man, that doesn’t mean that she actu… | /r/MensRights | 19/06/23 02:48 PM |
| 0 | CMV : Women underestimate the sheer effort and time towards looking like a big muscular gym bro, which is why they say they don’t like gym/muscular guysNot what she meant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 10:48 AM |
| 1 | CMV : Women underestimate the sheer effort and time towards looking like a big muscular gym bro, which is why they say they don’t like gym/muscular guysIs gym bunny the female equivalent of gym bro? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 10:46 AM |
| 9 | Dating as a whole is much easier for women.It’s true that it’s not a good idea to get horribly drunk when going out but that doesn’t mean it’s your fault if you get raped. The difference between rape and your car crash situation is that with rape, there is another conscious being involved, one capable of moral judgment. One that is in a position where he can actively choose to either rape or not rape the drunk person. If it’s just you and the car however… The car cannot choose to not crash you if you lose control of the steering wheel. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Women can be borderline autistic, even mentally and socially retarded and they will still be able to get guys, have dating options, overall, still be able to get into a relationship, but not so much the other way around.I wouldn’t argue autistic women don’t have to go through self-improvement, rather, I’d say they are forced into that early on to the point where they are already infinitely more socially adjusted by the time autistic men have to make the effort to stay in the loop socially. Which is why it looks like they have to do less. Because girls use more much more indirect communication than guys do, this expectation is laid upon autistic girls all throughout their life. They mask hardcore from the moment… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 04:17 PM |
| 9 | Women can be borderline autistic, even mentally and socially retarded and they will still be able to get guys, have dating options, overall, still be able to get into a relationship, but not so much the other way around.Well it’s been said that high functioning autistic women communicate on a similar level as do neurotypical guys. There’s not as much hidden intentions, reading between the lines, etc as there is among girls. Which why you often see these women having an easier time getting along with men (and other neurodivergent women). I suppose that’s why relationships between NT men and autistic women can work out. On the other hand, having an ND partner as an autistic woman has the major advantage that ther… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 04:05 PM |
| 2 | "Looks don't matter" is the most BS lie women tell men.Of course it matters. It matters to a certain extent. You don’t need women to tell you that it does to know that now, do you? Would you date someone you’re not attracted to? Most important thing is not being physically repulsive. There needs to be a baseline level of attraction, but you don’t need the genetic lottery for that. Good hygiene, flattering clothes and haircut, goes such a long way. What a lot of women mean when they say ‘looks don’t matter’ is that looks alone is not the reason why m… | /r/MensRights | 22/05/23 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Men, I think we should start just making personal gyms.I wouldn’t say women are very rarely raped and murdered, but they definitely are rarely raped and murdered at gyms. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 01:03 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: Why do women care so much when a man prefers inexperienced/virgin women?And see, this whole ‘damaged goods’ and ‘purity’ and ‘cleanliness’ thing is exactly why it’s creepy. Do you realize you are talking about women as an object that becomes less valuable after every individual use? Sure, if a woman has had thoughtless casual sex with countless of different strangers then there may be something to say about, for example, her impulsivity, her inability to form healthy attachment and a risk of STI’s. But explain to me how sex in itself ‘damages’ a woman? What is ‘pure… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 09:24 AM |
| 30 | "if men could get pregnant, we would have abortion clinics everywhere "Rational thinking =/= logic exactly. Rational thinking just describes a way of thinking, it doesn’t always lead to a logically sound conclusion. Just look at conspiracy theorists. You see the ‘thinking’ with feelings everywhere on the political spectrum, btw. With the come of social media, people of every political flavor are becoming more knee-jerky in debates, discussions, in their reactions… Controversial articles, differing standpoints don’t even get the chance to go through someone’s mind b… | /r/MensRights | 16/07/22 09:17 AM |
| -2 | She thinks what she did is okay and that she didn’t SA him 🤬How does feminism connect to this? Could you elaborate? I think more so, it reflects a general difference between how society looks at men and women. Women have always been perceived as less dangerous because they are less physically strong, so people in general will brush off rape or sexual assault by a woman. Which is not okay. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 10:00 AM |
| 4 | She thinks what she did is okay and that she didn’t SA him 🤬Why not check out the original post to see whether the comments are supportive or not? No need to bet on it. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 09:56 AM |
| 9 | She thinks what she did is okay and that she didn’t SA him 🤬I agree that women face little to no backlash regarding that but in this particular case, isn’t confessing to shitty things you have done kind of the point of that subreddit? Would be weird to ban her when she’s doing just that. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 09:51 AM |
| 1 | Pregnant wife being irresponsibleWell, she is most likely like this now because she is pregnant. Once she is no longer pregnant, and the both of you have settled in as parents of ‘that thing’ (odd choice of word, might I add), things will almost undoubtedly change for the better and she’s bound to have more energy again. I guess at the end the most important thing is communication. You both need to express to each other your struggles and try to be empathetic to each other and try to figure out a way to make it work. Together. … | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 10:11 PM |
| 2 | FTM men are an ally to mens rights. Please read.What… are you on about? How is it retreating if I never even took a stance in the first place? If I discuss the sexual functioning of the body to kids to teach or explain them something, does that mean I want to strip in front of them and sexually harass them? The comment you replied to was talking about how biological differences between men and women are quite fragile and what I was doing was supporting that statement by explaining why the biological differences, specifically as seen in the se… | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 09:58 PM |
| 2 | FTM men are an ally to mens rights. Please read.Wow. Please point out to me where I was advocating for anything? Point out to me where I took a stance in any of this? Instead of this knee-jerk reaction, you could’ve just read what I was really saying and saved yourself a lot of frustration. I’m saying that IF you WOULD want to transition as a trans person, and you had already gone through puberty, it would be hard because IN ORDER TO DO that, you would have to ‘undo’ puberty. I explained why secondary sex characteristics can TECHNICALLY be re… | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 05:26 PM |
| 3 | FTM men are an ally to mens rights. Please read.That’s not what they meant. Obviously, someone born with XX chromosomes can’t change those to XY chromosomes. That’s well known and accepted. But hormone treatment does show that certain secondary sex characteristics are less set in stone. Such as the pitch of someone’s voice, breast development, the growth of facial hair, etc. And it makes sense, because all of these are influenced by the release and levels of estrogen and testosterone. That’s why it is harder to transition once an individual h… | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 04:40 PM |
| 4 | What does a red pilled woman get out of the ideology?Being a committed mother and partner is something different entirely than ‘existing to please your husband’. A mother can and should take care of her children and a wife can do things to appreciate her partner but she doesn’t exist solely to please him. No one exists to please other people. To say something like that about yourself shows a really low sense of self-worth and a high need for external validation. It’s not healthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 09:41 PM |
| 4 | Mandatory Vasectomies Are a HORRIBLE IdeaDid I miss something? Is there actually a serious debate going on about making vasectomies mandatory? I’ve only seen a post of a woman holding a sign demanding mandatory vasectomies but that was done sarcastically, like as in protest to the abortion bans, not to literally argue for mandatory vasectomies. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/22 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Women who go for hot men and get pumped dumped and average men who get rejected by most women are the sameAnd let me guess… You are a self proclaimed hot guy? Pumping and dumping all these worthless average ‘sex toys’ of women here and there? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 08:25 AM |
| 6 | Women of PPD, would you rather looksmaxx to become a pretty woman or be a handsome man?My god, what you said, tbh 🙁 I can relate so hard. I mean, I acknowledge that being a man probably sucks as well. I don’t have the experience to be able to compare it, but I do believe there are more struggles that come with being a man than a woman can realize (and vice versa). But something about the way people perceive men VS women… Makes my blood boil. And if I could just say I was transgender… but I’m not. I don’t feel like I should have been born a man… I just wish I had been born a man. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 09:36 PM |
| 3 | Women of PPD, would you rather looksmaxx to become a pretty woman or be a handsome man?I would trade to be a man in a heartbeat. It’s not gender-dysphoria. I just really fucking hate being a woman. I’ve tried to ‘embrace my femininity’. I have tried. All the ruffles and the lace, the stench of nail polish, the thousands of hair and skin care products… The constant feeling that I am getting less valuable as a human being with every minute that passes, with every particle of sunlight that hits my skin, with each microscopic crease on my face, because my worth only lies in this very … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 09:04 PM |
| 1 | If Eternal youth and aging reversal technology existed would older women be as desirable by men as chronologically young women?Okay, that’s from the woman’s perspective. You are implying that ‘coachability’ in a woman is attractive to men, though. I guess I’m just having a hard time imagining that? Like I can see the feeling of being strong and able to protect your girl would be nice, but to be a ‘mentor’ to her? Sounds like it would become exhausting. Also, would that mean that men who, according to you, find coachable women attractive, want to feel better than their partner? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 05:04 PM |
| 2 | If Eternal youth and aging reversal technology existed would older women be as desirable by men as chronologically young women?I feel like you can’t separate the attractiveness from the fertility. I think men have been wired to find youthful qualities attractive only because it indicates fertility. For a while, young-looking older women might be as desirable to men as younger women, but since those older women aren’t fertile anymore, slowly but surely men would adapt to still choose younger, fertile women, because otherwise we’d die out, lol. Humans will always want children, we’re wired to procreate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 05:00 PM |
| 1 | If Eternal youth and aging reversal technology existed would older women be as desirable by men as chronologically young women?Because when he talks about ‘women’ he’s only taking into account former young, wealthy, attractive white girls. He assumes that because they are attractive and women, they have never had to work for anything in their life because people have been simping for them, so they haven’t had to develop a personality yet. Conveniently ignoring that most women are not so attractive that they can have life just fall into their lap, and that there is a shit ton of women who have grown up dirt-poor and have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 04:56 PM |
| 1 | If Eternal youth and aging reversal technology existed would older women be as desirable by men as chronologically young women?… coachable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Why I won't go out of my way to "make women feel safe"You have a point about the generalization but I think it’s important to make the distinction between race/skin-color and sex. Skin color has no bearing on an individual’s brain wiring, sex does. Though generalizations like ‘all men are rapists’ are obviously just as unreasonable as ‘all black people are …’, discriminating on skin color makes less sense than discriminating on sex because differences in skin color is something which only shows in appearance while differences in sex are more compli… | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 09:19 PM |
| 3 | Why are women so much pickier when it comes to men than men are when it comes to women?Our brains still work much the same way as, say, 10.000 years ago. Back then, there were no hospitals and there was no child support. Women had to make sure they picked the right man to have sex with so that their offspring would be healthy and strong, and pregnancy and all it’s risks would be worth it. That’s very much still the reason why women are more picky, because evolution hasn’t yet caught up with more recent developments such as child support. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 04:47 PM |
| 1 | If a man isn't interested in exclusivity/monogamy, how is he supposed to not get labelled a "jerk"?That’s a horrible comparison. Let’s assume that in general, lower n-count is preferable in women and an n-count > 0 is preferable in men. A woman not telling a man about her high n-count is the same as a man holding back about, say, being a virgin. It’s about a quality of yourself that you are not disclosing as to appear more attractive to someone. What you are holding back is your intentions. Look, here’s the thing, the standard is monogamy, so if you do romantic things for someone, man or woma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 08:22 AM |
| 6 | Men struggle with dating and sex. So, what women struggle with?Feminism does not represent all women’s wants and needs. Also, what feminism preaches is not always equal to what the majority of women, including feminists, actually want. If a man could experience life as a woman, there’s no doubt he’d be amazed at all the casual sex he could get and he’d thoroughly enjoy it at first. However, it tires quickly and becomes unfulfilling if you have access to something 24/7, especially when only a small part of the sexual encounters you have are actually worth it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 10:45 AM |
| 44 | Men struggle with dating and sex. So, what women struggle with?From what I see she never claimed otherwise. She said one of the leading causes of death for pregnant women is homicide. Often by spouses or exes. It’s not meant to say women in general suffer more from homicide, it’s just to showcase another risk of pregnancy; something which is exclusive to women’s experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 10:26 AM |
| 1 | To the feminist at work. And in all other parts of my life.Would there be many men who actually want to get into those female dominated fields, though? I see the specific appeal for women, and people in general, about STEM. Many jobs are higher paying and STEM jobs in general are looked upon with respect. Female dominated fields don’t have that same kind of reputation. It’s not like they can force men to get into fields like kindergarten childcare, teaching, secretarial work, etc., if men just don’t want to. | /r/MensRights | 19/06/22 07:53 PM |
| 6 | (MULTIPLE STUDIES) People stigmatize autistic men more than autistic women and less willing to hang out with autistic men than autistic women.It’s true that a diagnosis isn’t gonna change much except for getting a better understanding of why your experience of the world seems to be so different from other people’s experience. For autistic women especially, a diagnosis will not change much since their symptoms tend to already be (perceived as) more mild because 1) Autistic women are often relatively well adjusted socially and can even appear more or less NT-passing. Also, being reserved, quiet, insecure, which can all come with being a… | /r/MensRights | 12/06/22 08:53 AM |
| 1 | I love happy endingsWhy is it realistic? There’s other ways to deal with debt | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/06/22 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Resists arrest because she is a woman, gets smackdownI mean there’s no sound tho. She’s definitely resisting but it seems like an assumption that she’s resisting because she’s a woman (?) | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/06/22 10:12 PM |
| 3 | There are going to be so many kids with father issues in our generationJust because male domination turns you on sexually does not mean that’s how society should work lmao | /r/MensRights | 28/05/22 06:10 PM |
| 3 | marriage is the acceptable form of prostitutionSo, what did women do in all those centuries where computers weren’t a thing? Obviously women are less physically strong than men, but young, fit women can handle physical labour and can be a valuable part of a workforce. Also, if doing physical labour is part of your everyday life, you will naturally grow the strength you need. It makes sense that if you give a woman who’s only worked computer jobs her entire life a task that requires hard, manual labour, she’s going to not be successful. But i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Men, let’s hang out our balls. And dare you to watch. It’s not allowed to like secondary genitals.Well, so are the neck, and the inner thighs. But those only become sexual in the right context, like breasts. I already said that breasts can indicate sexual maturity in a woman and can therefore be appealing. So sure, they do have sexual functions, but they are subordinate to the purpose of feeding infants. What I meant when I said they do not have a sexual function is that they don’t have a sexual function the same way reproductive organs have. Breasts can just be pretty to look at, just like … | /r/MensRights | 23/05/22 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Men, let’s hang out our balls. And dare you to watch. It’s not allowed to like secondary genitals.Well again, I think there’s points for both sides, and it’s probably intertwined like you say. They can be sexual, but it depends on context. Breasts are not quite as sexual as, for example, a vagina. Shapely breasts are sexual in the same way anything pointing to youth, health and fertility can become sexual. Long, healthy, shiny hair, clear skin, plump lips, etc. I don’t think we could ever see a vagina as non-sexual, since reproduction is literally the only function of the vagina. Butts and b… | /r/MensRights | 23/05/22 11:01 PM |
| 2 | Man Selling His Body (NSFW)Huh. Would argue rape is a bit more than ‘taking a dick’, lol. | /r/MensRights | 23/05/22 10:44 PM |
| 18 | Man Selling His Body (NSFW)Willingly is a strong word IMO. Does a happy and healthy, young, middle class woman with supportive parents and a degree go into prostitution? Nope. They’re not slaves, but often there will be at least some shit going on which made them resort to prostitution in the first place. It’s not always as bad as the stories you hear, but prostitution is not really something you get into if you have better options. | /r/MensRights | 23/05/22 10:35 PM |
| -8 | Man Selling His Body (NSFW)Nobody goes into prostitution if they have better options. It’s not easy work, it damages. | /r/MensRights | 23/05/22 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Men, let’s hang out our balls. And dare you to watch. It’s not allowed to like secondary genitals.Hmmm… I’d say there is arguments to be made on both sides. Breasts are appealing because they can show a woman’s body is sexually mature, but breasts of themselves do not have a sexual function. Instead, their direct function is to feed offspring. They don’t exist to appeal to men, they exist to feed infants. But yeah, perky breasts can translate to sexual attraction because in general, it indicates a woman is young and fertile. | /r/MensRights | 23/05/22 08:36 PM |
| 9 | Why is it okay to teach a man “how to treat a woman”, but not to teach a woman “how to treat a man”?Could you elaborate? What are men taught about being a good husband? | /r/MensRights | 22/05/22 11:22 PM |
| -14 | Why is it okay to teach a man “how to treat a woman”, but not to teach a woman “how to treat a man”?Women’s cautiousness around sexual assault is only natural. A statistic that says men are more likely to get physically assaulted doesn’t change the fact rape is a thing, and that that is something which happens more often to women. The whole society shouldn’t revolve around it and the entire male sex shouldn’t be blamed for what rapists do, but I would say women’s cautiousness in general is fair, and not a bad thing, as long as it doesn’t mean innocent men get accused of course. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/22 11:18 PM |
| 0 | Music Teacher Charged For Sex Crimes With Student After Husband Turns Her In - The Police TribuneSure, but I don’t just mean a teacher and a student. I mean any large age gap where one is barely 18 and the other is like 30. It doesn’t count as statutory rape because the law draws the line somewhere. But 18 is still young and society will look at it as morally wrong, even when it’s not legally wrong. | /r/MensRights | 21/05/22 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Music Teacher Charged For Sex Crimes With Student After Husband Turns Her In - The Police TribuneOf course 17 year olds don’t think differently than 18 year olds but 18 year olds in general still have little experience with sex and little understanding of the consequences, and so do 17 year olds. Just because 18 is the baseline doesn’t mean they aren’t still vulnerable when it comes to sex. You have to draw a line somewhere, and at 18 you are legally an adult so it makes sense to draw the line there. But legally right doesn’t always mean morally right. An 18 (or even a 15, 16 or 17 year old… | /r/MensRights | 21/05/22 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Masculine women, do you prefer femininity or masculinity in men? Which traits are attractive to you?Yeah. I love a bit of tugging for power, not straight up conflict, but playful, flirty, like a game you’re both in on. It keeps things interesting IMO, both emotionally and intellectually. But I think it’s important to have a dynamic where it’s not fully 50/50, as that could end up building resentment over time. So maybe 60/40 where either him or me has the last say eventually, and that that is implied in the relationship. The other person doesn’t mind, they expect it and accept it with no sense… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 09:00 AM |
| 1 | Masculine women, do you prefer femininity or masculinity in men? Which traits are attractive to you?I like both, and I’ve found I sort of conform to the other person’s femininity/masculinity. If they are more feminine, I recognize I can take the lead. If they are more masculine, I happily let go of control a little. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 08:37 AM |
| 3 | Masculine women, do you prefer femininity or masculinity in men? Which traits are attractive to you?Even though it makes sense when you think about it, it was a mind-blowing realization for me when I found out how much the expression on your face matters in having people approach you. When someone looks angry, you’re not about to go and bother them further by approaching them. It really does make a difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 08:30 AM |
| 3 | What are your thoughts around this? ‘Jordan Peterson sparks outrage after declaring plus-size model 'not beautiful'’The ideal is still not plus-size. No one wants to actually be ‘plus-sized’. The whole ‘body positivity’ only really exists in the media as a type of virtue signaling. It’s hardly got anything to do with real life. In real life fat people, both men and women, will still and are still being shamed because they are fat. That’s when we’re talking about overweight people though. I do think it’s a good idea to overall have more realistic body types in media for both men and women. Because of the way i… | /r/MensRights | 20/05/22 08:07 AM |
| 1 | Women have access to more sex than men, but do they have access to more "quality" sex than men?There’s always pregnancy, too. Sex for women is evolutionarily a high risk because women are able to conceive. If there’s a chance of that happening, as a woman, you best as hell make sure you only have sex with high value guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 01:54 PM |
| 8 | Men always being expected to make the first move and approach women, how did that tradition or status-quo originate? i doubt i'm in the only guy in the world who has always hated and resented thatHow do you know? Of course it wouldn’t have been super romantic, but I doubt it as much of a nightmare as you’re making it out to be. I think what you’re describing is what would happen if tribes went actively at war with each other. Not the norm. There’s not much left to tell us about the social norms of humans back then. Their lives were different, but there’s no reason to think they weren’t fundamentally the same as we are now. It’s extremely unlikely that violence and rape was the most commo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 12:04 PM |
| 2 | Is virgin shaming common in women groups if one is a virgin at a “late” age?Attractive… To a degree. Likable, yes. Great social skills and likability go hand in hand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 08:43 PM |
| 0 | Do single mothers get a bad rap?Yeah well she also didn’t state that women have wants. I don’t think it’s that deep tbh. The main point seems to be that her children should get their needs met before anything else because they can’t take care of themselves yet while adults can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 08:37 PM |
| 5 | AngerThe fuss about using the word ‘female’ is a bit much. It’s not a conscious decision most guys who use it make. If anything, it just sounds weird, mostly when people use it in a situation where ‘girl’ or ‘woman’ would have been much more suitable, or when people use ‘men’ and ‘females’ in the same sentence. ‘Men and women’ are each other’s perfect linguistic antagonists, just like ‘males and females’. ‘Men and females’ is an odd word choice, especially for native speakers. I personally just don’t… | /r/MensRights | 15/05/22 12:29 PM |
| 6 | AngerGenuine question because I’m curious to what you mean. They don’t write women better, but they write better women? Would you elaborate on that? | /r/MensRights | 15/05/22 12:20 PM |
| 8 | AngerFair enough. Intelligence and its subsets are more dependent on genetics than sex, though. A daughter of parents who have good spatial reasoning ability will still be better at it than a son of parents who have poor spatial reasoning. So I’m not sure how much you can take this average into account when trying to differentiate between the experiences of men and women. I’d say there’s many differences between men and women that play a bigger role in manifesting different experiences. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/22 12:15 PM |
| -1 | Men care about n-count:The MoratoriumDoes not being a virgin when entering a relationship equal to being a hoe then? You can tell when someone’s a complete virgin but a woman with low n-count will still have experience. It could be hard to tell whether she’s slept with 3 long term partners or with 20 different one night stands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 11:26 AM |
| 4 | Women here constantly respond to every complaint by men with some variation of “women don’t owe you sex” or “sorry you can’t get your dick wet” and basically imply that sex is all that men want from women. This is obviously false and used to once again diminish our struggles.And the thing is, you can often avoid ‘friendzoning’ if you make your intentions clear from the beginning. People don’t like to be deceived, who would’ve thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 06:50 PM |
| -33 | Feminist protesting there are 17 missing women and gender violence this last year but make no mention of nearly double number of men also missing. Also this morning two women turned up. One was dead and the other, her lesbian partner confessed to the killing. Missing men don't count.Yeah. It’s called feminism for a reason. It deals with women’s issues, and there’s nothing wrong with that. Women can have their own movement, and men shouldn’t demand that that movement also benefits them. Just like how MRA isn’t about and shouldn’t have to be about women’s issues. The problem with feminism is not that it focuses only on women’s issues, because - ignoring the claims of feminism being about equality - what do you expect a women’s right movement to do about men’s rights? The prob… | /r/MensRights | 13/05/22 09:12 AM |
| 2 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+Right, lol. What even is this way of looking at relationships as some sort of conscious calculation that you have to make of the ‘pros and cons’ of a particular person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 06:35 PM |
| -1 | Does anyone else feel women have made it "creepy" to approach a girl in public?Yeah great idea, let’s punish all women for that. | /r/MensRights | 12/05/22 05:45 PM |
| 4 | Can we agree all genders have issues that need solving?Actively dismissing something is not the same as just not advocating for it, though. MRA doesn’t have to solve women’s issues just like feminism doesn’t have to solve men’s issues, but MRA can focus on men’s issues while acknowledging that women’s issues are also valid. It’s not two mutually exclusive things. Just like you want feminism to acknowledge that men face issues that deserve attention. In general both men and women would do good to try and step inside the other gender’s shoes sometimes… | /r/MensRights | 10/05/22 11:32 PM |
| 8 | Why are most divorces initiated by women rather than the man?It does say ‘infidelity or extramarital affairs’, also, ‘lack of commitment’. Just because it doesn’t literally state ‘they abandoned the home’ doesn’t mean this can’t be included within the situation of say, an extramarital affair. A few women in these comments have posted about their husband, or the husband of someone they know, moving out of the house to live with another woman. That would count as infidelity/extramarital affair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 11:20 PM |
| 19 | Girls not wearing make-up should be normalised.‘Women’s achievements are worthless to men’ what a statement, lol. Sure, women are biologically built to be mothers. What makes a good mother tho? I know it’s not just a pretty face. The challenge of raising a kid requires a woman to be emotionally stable and mature, mentally strong and to have a sense of responsibility. How do you know a woman has these traits? Well, did she finish school? Does she have a stable pattern of employment or has she been fired at every place she’s worked? Does she h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 03:12 PM |
| -3 | Feminism tackling the important issuesIt’s just that some of you are taking her ‘point’ seriously as if changing the word ‘history’ to ‘herstory’ is a major point on the feminist agenda that needs to be ‘debunked’ and unraveled for its evil. This point of hers is so dumb, it speaks for itself. It doesn’t need a bunch of Redditors to point it out. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/22 07:06 AM |
| 2 | If you're fat, there's no point in complaining about not finding any thin girls to date.Same thing, man. You get my point. Big and strong does not at all equate to fat. Fat means outside a healthy weight range. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 07:45 PM |
| 3 | If you're fat, there's no point in complaining about not finding any thin girls to date.Taller and stronger, yeah. Not fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 05:59 PM |
| 6 | If you're fat, there's no point in complaining about not finding any thin girls to date.Well yeah, if they want a thin female, they are going to have to lose weight. Here it’s about actually being desirable to the opposite sex. Those ‘body positivity’ campaigns aren’t centered around forcing men specifically to find fat women attractive, more so it seems to be about putting out a more realistic image in the media for young girls/women to compare themselves with. The message is not really ‘men, be attracted to fat women’, as much as it is ‘women, you’re not completely worthless huma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 05:50 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: How easy is it to get free stuff for being a womanI think this idea of women getting free stuff everywhere really only applies to attractive women. To most women, it’s not a regular occurrence. As for personal experiences: I was at a cafe in Rome with two friends last year. They ordered two espressos, I didn’t order anything because I don’t drink coffee. The dude behind the counter misunderstood, and made us three cups of coffee. So I was like oh no no, I didn’t order. Then he told me it’s cool, it’s on the house then. That was probably a mix o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Q4Bluepill: In your opinion why do you think more Women iniate divorce than men?Well, yeah. Don’t know how else you’d get a statistic on the subject of cheating in marriage… These are the statistics we have to work with. Even if we assume many of the women in the sample lied, I don’t think with all truthful answers you’d arrive to a conclusion of women cheating more than men. I’d rather expect it to be around the same percentage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Q4Bluepill: In your opinion why do you think more Women iniate divorce than men?That has nothing to do with that graph… It says ‘having sex with someone other than spouse while married’. It’s about their entire time being married. The cheating could have happened whenever, in their 20s, 30s, 40s, etc. They took a sample of married or previously married men and women. Apparently, if you ask this sample the question of whether or not they ever cheated while being married, 6% of 80+ women report having cheated at some point in their marriage and 24% of 80+ men report having ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 05:30 PM |
| 4 | Women say most men are “awful,” toxic or undateable, or that “the bar is so low” which is such a joke. Most men worship the ground women walk on, even attractive ones, and women are ridiculously selective.Preference is just what your ideal partner would look like. Most people can’t get a partner who lives up to each of their preferences. Preference is ideal, standard is minimum. When people can’t get a person who lives up to their preferences, they settle for a person who lives up to their standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Why have women became burden on Men?What I meant was that an absent mother will emotionally stunt a human being for life. And being emotionally stunted will prevent you from thriving in life. The bond between a mother and her offspring is necessary for the survival of said offspring. That’s not just the case with humans. It’s seen in mammals all over the world. Sorry if my point was not clear. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/22 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Why have women became burden on Men?And men build societies ONLY after a woman has carried them inside of their body for 9 months and given birth to them. But ah! These women only gave birth to these men AFTER another man gave his seed. But… this man only gave his seed after a woman gave birth to him… It’s an endless circle. Without women, no men. Without men, no women. It’s as simple as that. You cannot say one gender is somehow more valuable than the other by default. You can’t make claims of value on such grand scales. If you z… | /r/MensRights | 25/04/22 03:19 PM |
| 0 | Why have women became burden on Men?I guess men are more of a physical threat to women than the other way around. Not just today, they always have, because they are physically stronger. So, you could argue that men are a burden as in… Women have to be more cautious around men than other women, especially men they don’t know yet. They have to be careful which men they let into their lives because the wrong one could end up raping her or beating the shit out of her. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/22 03:02 PM |
| 3 | Are there many women who subscribe to and believe in Red Pill beliefs?First of all, I never said anything about dicks leaving injuries after rape whatsoever and I don’t appreciate you dragging that into it as an attempt to twist the point of the discussion. Secondly, that’s an oversimplified and false dilemma. Dicks can leave injuries, and vaginas don’t get loose because of sex. The whole point is that it’s pretty impossible for sex alone to stretch the vagina permanently. During sex a vagina obviously stretches which can come with tears and cuts, especially when … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 01:56 PM |
| 5 | Are there many women who subscribe to and believe in Red Pill beliefs?That has to do with age and childbirth though, not with how many sex partners a woman has had. Vaginas don’t get loose because of sex, it’s as simple as that. Dicks are not big enough to stretch out a woman’s vagina permanently, humble yourselves lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Redpillers are right about how women have higher standards than men. However, they're wrong when they say that's because women are inherently shallow. Women aren't shallow, they have higher standards due to other reasonsGood sex is about so much more than the mere physical attractiveness of your partner. Physical attractiveness does not guarantee good sex at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/22 01:44 PM |
| 1 | What age do you think Men and Woman are at their most sexually attractive?I’m a bisexual woman. I’d say both men and women are at their peak somewhere between 25 and 35. I’d say 28/29/30. At this point, they still haven’t aged a lot physically, but they have matured and have overall become a more rounded individual. Their physical attractiveness still being there, combined with more maturity and confidence, is what I think makes for a very attractive individual. I think the idea that men age better than women comes from the fact that women at a certain point stop bein… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 10:41 AM |
| -5 | Why is this ok?I’m sorry you had to experience that and I believe you. Ugh. I’m not saying it’s all men who say this, or that it’s only men who say this. Hell, have I heard women do some mad victim-blaming. It’s just me stating the fact that people who experience sexual assault are often questioned in one way or another. People just can’t believe that anyone can be so messed up they would sexually assault someone, so the victim must have provoked it or asked for it is some way or another. It is the exact same … | /r/MensRights | 19/04/22 06:24 PM |
| -4 | Why is this ok?I’m not necessarily defending the ad. I couldn’t really care about the ad. I just hate the whole forced, corporate feminist shit because I hate when corporations try to play the whole political moral high ground game just to get more sales. All I’m saying is the message of the ad is not as simple as ‘kill men when they smile at you’. The sentence ‘he was asking for it’ only makes sense in the context that ‘she was asking for it’ is associated with sexual assault on women. It’s not just random ‘h… | /r/MensRights | 19/04/22 02:37 PM |
| -10 | Why is this ok?I’m sure you have heard someone say ‘they were basically asking for it’ as a response to something happening to that person. It’s a fairly common phrasing in general. ‘She was asking for it’ is just that phrase applied to a woman being sexually assaulted. My point is not to argue whether or not it is valid to say ‘she was asking for it’ is used commonly, all I am saying is that it is a fact people have recognized it as one way people can react to sexual assault. Whether or not people actually us… | /r/MensRights | 19/04/22 02:24 PM |
| -21 | Why is this ok?I think it being ridiculous was the point. ‘She was asking for it’ is a phrase often heard when women get sexually assaulted or raped. This ad is a play on that phrase. It is obviously ridiculous that a man should be killed for smiling at a girl, just like it is ridiculous that a woman should be raped for smiling at a man or dressing a certain way. By turning the scenario around and making the victim of the uncalled-for violence a man, it becomes clear just how ridiculous the phrase ‘they were a… | /r/MensRights | 19/04/22 10:17 AM |
| 2 | "Incel" is the misandry equivalent of misogyny's "slut" — The difference being: the use of the latter is unequivocally seen as morally wrong & hateful by societyPencils are cool :) A part of me just dies every time I see the key analogy because of how overused it is in the whole alpha-male-podcast community. It feels overly simplified and reeks too much of bro-science for me. So I was poking fun at that with my sharpener analogy, where the roles of men and women in the original key analogy are reversed. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/22 06:28 PM |
| 0 | "Incel" is the misandry equivalent of misogyny's "slut" — The difference being: the use of the latter is unequivocally seen as morally wrong & hateful by societyThis is true, however, you have to think reasonably about what promiscuity means in this day and age. A century ago, promiscuity would probably mean any sex partner outside of marriage. Today, casual sex and dating is more normalized. I’d say sex with a person you have known for some time, who you trust, etc, cannot really be considered promiscuous or at least not the ‘dangerous’ type of promiscuity. So, this could be sex within a LTR but also a FWB for example. The real problems start if someon… | /r/MensRights | 17/04/22 04:38 PM |
| 1 | "Incel" is the misandry equivalent of misogyny's "slut" — The difference being: the use of the latter is unequivocally seen as morally wrong & hateful by societyA pencil sharpener that sharpens everyone’s pencils is a good pencil sharpener 👍😝 But a pencil that has been sharpened by every pencil sharpener… ✋🚫😠 no one wants the short stubbly pencil!!!1!! 😒🙁😩 | /r/MensRights | 17/04/22 04:26 PM |
| 2 | If white only establishments are not okay why female only (gyms,hospital)areYou’re right. The entire social dynamic changes when you are with people of your own sex. It makes a lot more sense to have female-only or male-only spaces than to have white-only spaces because there’s not actually a difference in the way you interact with people of another skin color, and if there is, that is often because of prejudice on either side, it’s not hard-wired into your brain like it is with men vs women. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/22 02:15 PM |
| 3 | If white only establishments are not okay why female only (gyms,hospital)areBecause white and black people are not different in the way men and women are. Skin color and sex are not comparable. Your sex influences your hormones and the way your entire brain works, skin color does no such thing. Skin color is only different appearance-wise whereas the differences between the two sexes go waaaay beyond that. The entire social dynamic, the atmosphere changes when you look at female-only spaces, male-only spaces or mixed spaces. Women feel more comfortable around other wome… | /r/MensRights | 16/04/22 02:11 PM |
| 6 | Do women realize how little maintenance men need to be statistically faithful?They never said anything of the sort, you are just so desperate to see your view of women being worthless sacks of flesh to fuck confirmed that you are getting ahead of yourself. They are saying that, apparently, for a man like you there is no reason to be with a woman other than her body, so why don’t you get a sex doll? Never did they say that for other men there can’t be more to a woman than her body. For other men, there are plenty of reasons to be with a woman besides her body, but you pers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 01:58 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about not dating and only visiting sex workers?Nice circle jerk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 12:20 PM |
| -1 | What every man wants and what very few get….perhapsI can personally see two types of women who would react that way to emotional vulnerability. There’s the woman with attachment issues, who will feel threatened in her freedom when she feels she is growing too emotionally close with a partner and therefore chooses to run. And then there’s the woman who is dating a guy she is not genuinely into for whatever reason, and then she views his emotions as an unwelcome burden on the, in her eyes, already unsatisfactory relationship. Like many women, I sp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 07:26 AM |
| 2 | Divorce attorney says that in 13 years of practice, the women who were her most difficult or litigious were the SAHMs.I’ve seen dirt poor, struggling musicians hitting it off. The whole artist lifestyle air that hangs around these guys can be attractive enough to get women because it speaks to a very specific kind of woman. Anyways, I was just trying to bring some nuance. There’s lots of professions that women find attractive, not just the ones that end up having the most abusive guys in ‘em. You seem to have made your mind up that women simply want to be abused and I don’t think I can change that view. Just to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Divorce attorney says that in 13 years of practice, the women who were her most difficult or litigious were the SAHMs.They’re among them, yes… Writers, artists, musicians, businessmen, lawyers, engineers, teachers etc., are also among them. It’s not all just masculine, hierarchical professions. Intellectual and creative professions are high up on the list too. I’d argue that a police officer or firefighter might be attractive because of the protection such a guy could provide. The flip side of this coin is that he could end up hurting you really badly too (and apparently this happens fairly regularly) but as lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 05:29 PM |
| 3 | Divorce attorney says that in 13 years of practice, the women who were her most difficult or litigious were the SAHMs.What kind of challenges might that be? Do you have any examples? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Why do people get so upset by the word "female"?Damn… That’s pretty absurd, thanks for showing me! I’ll have to check that out some time. I have to say in my personal experience, I’ve seen the combination ‘men and females’ more often than ‘males and women’. The latter I’ve mainly heard women do on purpose to get back at people saying ‘females’. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/22 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Most people want the benefits of trad relationships without upholding their end of the bargainNah, that’s where you’re making the mistake of assuming dominant, masculine men automatically have a lot of women to pick from. It’s not that easy. It’s only true when they are attractive enough in other areas. Looks-wise, success-wise, personality-wise. I know lots of men who are dominant but they are not socially skilled or below average looking. These men surely do not have a lot of choice. Anyways, I was trying to debunk your statement that masculinity, dominance and chivalry are oxymoronic … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 01:56 PM |
| 4 | Most people want the benefits of trad relationships without upholding their end of the bargainYou’re oversimplifying things. Many people have seemingly contradictory feelings and traits but still they coexist. No one is 100% alpha masculine dominant mega super giga chad all of the time and that’s good, because those traits will not be desirable in certain situations. The most important thing when it comes to attracting women through personality is emotional intelligence. Social smoothness. You need to know when to be assertive and when to let go of control a little. A guy with high emoti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 10:37 AM |
| 4 | Why do people get so upset by the word "female"?It seems like you are searching for words that are the literal equivalents of each other… I don’t think that’s necessary. My point is not that the two words should be perfect equivalents, just that they are about equal in casualty. Dudes is very informal, female is more stiff and formal. It’s just a weird combination. ‘Girls’ still works a lot better than ‘females’ IMO because it’s less formal, same goes for chicks and bitches. Of course chicks and bitches aren’t exactly polite but that was not … | /r/MensRights | 10/04/22 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Why do people get so upset by the word "female"?I don’t think you have to use ‘female’ to specify you mean cis women to be honest. If you say: ‘I’m into women’ the vast majority of people will automatically assume you mean cis women as this is the norm. And either way, that was not the case in the specific example I gave. ‘Dudes’ was not used vocatively. It was referring to men as a group, ‘females’ was referring to women as a group. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/22 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Why do people get so upset by the word "female"?It doesn’t have to literally be the feminine form of the word ‘dude’. Just anything more casual than ‘female’ would have been my choice in that sentence. ‘Girls’ works fine. Chicks. Even ‘bitches’ would make for a less weird contrast than ‘dudes’ and ‘females’ lol. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/22 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Why do people get so upset by the word "female"?Yeah, in scientific context it often makes sense to use those terms. Not so much when telling your friend about this girl you met at a grocery store. ‘Bro, I was talking to this female yesterday, she… ‘ | /r/MensRights | 10/04/22 04:37 PM |
| -4 | Why do people get so upset by the word "female"?I’m just giving one explanation for why it might be frowned upon to use ‘female’. Linguistically it sounds off to use that word to describe the girl you had a conversation with at the grocery store like ‘oh yeah dude I had this conversation with a female today and…’. It’s just kind of like… Why would you say ‘female’? Why not just ‘woman’ or ‘girl’? That would make much more sense in such a sentence. You don’t really hear people saying ‘I was talking to this male yesterday…’ either because it ju… | /r/MensRights | 10/04/22 04:28 PM |
| -18 | Feminists Don't Demand Equality In Times Of WarThere’s a grain of truth in it. If a population loses too many of its young, fertile females, the population completely crashes. Like, dies off. You need a lot of females to repopulate, and need less males as one male can impregnate several females. You just need to make sure there’s enough males to keep diversity in genes. For this reason, women going to war has been pretty much a no-go as this brings far too much risk on the entire population. I don’t see this changing anytime soon. Men going … | /r/MensRights | 10/04/22 12:39 PM |
| 3 | Why do people get so upset by the word "female"?They can, but usually when you refer to women as ‘females’ you do so in a scientific context. It’s just an odd choice of wording to say something general like ‘I saw a female in the grocery store today’ when the expected wording, especially for a native speaker would just be ‘I saw a woman in the grocery store today’ or ‘I saw a girl in the grocery store today’. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/22 12:15 PM |
| 257 | Why do people get so upset by the word "female"?Exactly, you don’t say ‘males and women’ or ‘men and females’, you either say ‘men and women’ or ‘males and females’, the latter often being used in more scientific contexts. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with the word ‘female’ by itself, but I have seen people referring to women as ‘females’ and to men as ‘dudes’ in the same sentence, something like this: ‘… dudes working out to get females…’ and that is a rather odd choice of wording. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/22 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Only men can be the abusers. Only women can be the victims. Stop Violence Against Women.Am I correct to assume ‘gyno fortis’ is just a pretentious way to say girl power? | /r/MensRights | 09/04/22 09:53 PM |
| -8 | Some feminists have an alternate view of realityThe argument of ‘men invented everything so be grateful to us’ is logically unsound. Just because some man at some point invented a dishwasher does not mean all men deserve gratitude for this. And that goes for all inventions in society. Because the fact that these men invented those things was not because they were men, it was because they were intelligent men, innovative men, educated men who were wealthy enough to spend their free time not working themselves to death but researching. Man =/= … | /r/MensRights | 08/04/22 06:07 AM |
| 9 | The threat of violence and sexual assault, while real, is dramatically overblown and overused by women as an excuse for misandrist behavior and to generalize the entire male population, most of which is harmless to themWomen who are attracted to abusers most often have attachment issues. Their attraction to abusers then has everything to do with their personal history and experiences and not with the fact they are women. They have been in abusive relationships before, be it with a parent or romantic partner and they are trying to recreate that dynamic. So, nurture, not nature. About 50% of the population is thought to have secure attachment. That includes women. You won’t see a mentally healthy, secure woman g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Average people follow Societal Norms (And judge others by them): Age Gap ExampleHow do you define exceptional though? Exceptional just means they’ve got something going for them, you don’t have to be a world-famous celebrity to be exceptional in a woman’s eyes. Obviously attractive women are attracted to celebrities, because everyone is attracted to celebrities. But everyone also knows that celebrities are damn near inaccessible, no matter how attractive or unattractive you are. It’s not like any random attractive woman can just dm a celebrity and he’ll respond. There are a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Asking as a feminist: What is the ideal societal outcome with r/MensRights?I’m here to try and challenge people’s black and white views on the world. If you would’ve done more than a quick scan, you would’ve seen I’ve argued that feminism is toxic because of the generalization of and the hostility towards men. I am not pro-feminism. I am not anti-men. I am not pro or anti anything. The only thing I don’t like is blind, irrational close-mindedness and even then, I understand where it comes from. The OP here is trying to be open-minded and this I respect. I see your ange… | /r/MensRights | 02/04/22 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Asking as a feminist: What is the ideal societal outcome with r/MensRights?You read feminist and immediately stopped listening. Behind the ‘feminist’ label is a human who is showing themselves willing to learn and you are shutting down that conversation. How do you imagine things will change like that? | /r/MensRights | 02/04/22 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Woman; have you ever given advice to your male friends regarding attracting Woman?No, you’re the one making stuff up to fit your worldview. No one said anything about spending time, money, etc on women, but because you’re already angry about this topic you just assumed that’s what they were talking about. Why would they not know about his internal issues being his friend? Surely they know more about his situation than you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 07:46 PM |
| 8 | does modern feminism enable women to be irresponsible and lazyWell where did the male parent go? Why isn’t he stepping into the picture and taking responsibility for his own child? | /r/MensRights | 01/04/22 05:47 AM |
| 7 | does modern feminism enable women to be irresponsible and lazyYou’re right, I think he was being sarcastic though. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/22 05:45 AM |
| -1 | ‘Gender reorientation’: Work is changing. But men are resistant to the shift.I don’t think it’s one or the other. Both can exist at the same time. ‘Gender bigotry’ existed when racism was still normalized in society. I think it’s just the good old ‘battle of the sexes’ and sadly, I think that one is here to stay. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/22 12:56 PM |
| -2 | why don't more women and feminists support men's rightsNo gender is more oppressed than the other. If that was the case then the human race would probably have gone extinct by now. Where men have disadvantages in one area, they have advantages in other areas, same goes for women. That’s how the power balance and therefore the rates of survival between the two genders is sustained. For every false accusation a man falls victim to, a woman gets raped for real. Men and women both face issues and you can’t say one gender has it worse than the other. You… | /r/MensRights | 31/03/22 10:32 AM |
| 11 | why don't more women and feminists support men's rightsYup. At some point, feminists started saying they are for equality for everyone but that doesn’t make sense. It’s feminism so of course it’s going to primarily focus on women’s issues. And there’s nothing wrong about that. Women can have their own movement and men shouldn’t demand that this movement also benefits men. It’s the grouping together all men and blaming men as a whole that makes modern day feminism so toxic. Men as a group can never be responsible for all of the problems women face. T… | /r/MensRights | 31/03/22 10:21 AM |
| 4 | The “Real Man” mentality is a fucking joke.I guess it exists, in the form of the ‘real women have curves’ shit. And with behaviors that are typically regarded as less feminine: burping, farting, talking loudly, smoking etc, which are really just annoying behaviors regardless of gender but when women do it, it affects their perceived femininity while with men it’ll just generate laughs from their friends, maybe an eyeroll here or there, and people move on. You don’t see it nearly on the same scale as it happens with men though. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/22 08:31 AM |
| -16 | Teaching assistant, 21, took schoolboy, 15, home to have sex after saying 'age is just a number' - receives suspended sentenceI agree that women face far less backlash and even get away with shit like this way too often, but no one thinks it’s ‘empowering’ dude. Don’t make things up. | /r/MensRights | 29/03/22 06:11 PM |
| 1 | The eastern reaction to Will Smith demonstrates how traditional masculinity is treated so differently in our modern societySure. I think everyone has different boundaries when it comes to that. Ideally she would take it lightly but if she feels offended she has a right to I guess. I was responding to the comment of ‘we don’t call it a medical condition when people are making fun of bald men’. People don’t call it a medical condition when it’s about men because it’s literally not (unless a guy has Alopecia as well ofc, but with most bald men it’s just the result of aging) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 06:07 PM |
| 5 | The eastern reaction to Will Smith demonstrates how traditional masculinity is treated so differently in our modern societyMaybe cause men bald naturally and women don’t? People make jokes about women aging but balding is not part of that for women, the balding is indeed the result of a medical condition, not just nature like it is for men. A bald woman is not the same situation as a bald man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 05:18 PM |
| 2 | "No woman is like that" is ALWAYS a lieBut then again, I don’t think people are trying to deny psychopathic women exist, on the contrary actually. They mean that a healthy and stable woman: the average woman, the vast majority of the female population, is not like that. If a woman is like that then she’s a psychopath and not representative of the female gender, thus she cannot be used as an example to make generalizations about the whole female gender. I usually see this type of argument in response to generalizations based off of in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 07:40 PM |
| 2 | "No woman is like that" is ALWAYS a lieWhat is the point in having the debate about psychopathic women? To allow men to share their experiences with said women? Then a support group for psychopathic abuse would still be a better fit. That’s where the people are who have similar experiences and knowledge on the topic, that’s the people who actually have something useful to share with you. It’s not necessarily that the debate is not worth having, it’s just kind of pointless to do it in a community where the two sexes/genders are discus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 07:32 PM |
| 2 | "No woman is like that" is ALWAYS a lieWhy obsess over semantics? When people say ‘no woman is like that’ they mean ‘the vast majority of women is not like that’, which in the case of psychopathy is correct. They don’t mean that literally no woman walking the surface of the earth is like that. I see where you’re going but the discussion of psychopathic abuse has no place in a general discussion about gender like PPD, exactly because as you’ve already stated, the small percentage of female psychopaths is not at all representative of w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 06:38 PM |
| 6 | Both men and women just want to be treated like they are humanSure, you have to make an effort so that you’ll be worth spending time with. That’s what companionship is, be it friendship, relationship: Two people spending their time entertaining each other. If you have no ambition, no interests, no hobbies, nothing to talk about, never make a genuine effort to have a fun time with someone, how the fuck do you expect people will want to spend time with you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 01:39 PM |
| 10 | I feel like young men should never commit to a relationship if women will have sex with them regardless.You could say that with literally anything in life, though. What if you start a business but it doesn’t work out after spending 10 years of your life building it? What if you make a friend and after some years you end up fighting over some dumb shit and the friendship ends? Sometimes you have to take risks in life in order to ‘unlock’ certain experiences. If you’re already thinking ‘what if this ends’ before you’ve even started on something, you’re not off to a good start. If you’re young and in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Barney Stinson(HIMYM) and Howard Wolowitz(TBBT) are an example of how certain men are seen by women and society.That’s just pretty privilege. Good-looking people get treated better in general, it’s not gender specific. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 12:09 PM |
| 10 | Man gets a false accusation of SA and no where in the comments is he received as a victim in this…Well, an accusation by a kid about his own family is not your average accusation. Perpetrators are most often adults whom the child knows and if it happens within the home, chances are it is happening continuously. You have to take such an accusation seriously, if you don’t, you are potentially horribly failing the child. You don’t have to go straight to the police though… At least try to get some more evidence. | /r/MensRights | 24/03/22 12:01 AM |
| -21 | Another new Non-Hormonal Birth Control Pill for Men Could Start Human Trials Soon. We have seen these stories in the past, to date they have all failed, this one may also fail. But the important thing is that soon one will succeed and it will be a game changer for men.It’s almost like some of you are hoping women will complain so you can get that ‘haha, gotcha’ moment. No one will be preventing women from getting babies if male birth control is introduced. In a committed relationship, the man and woman tend to be on the same side when it comes to wanting kids, and if they’re not, they eventually break up to find a better match. Male birth control is not gonna change the fact that if a man wants to be a father, he will still be there to make a woman have all t… | /r/MensRights | 23/03/22 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Women aren’t innately innocent because it’s their nature to exploit menHe is not asking you to defend the part about women murdering, he’s asking you to defend your statement that ‘a lot of girls don’t have morals’. The part about women murdering is merely a hyperbole that he uses to point out the absurdity in the original statement ‘a lot of girls don’t have morals’. There are a shit ton of women on this world so of course there are a lot of girls who have no morals. By that logic, a lot of men also don’t have morals. Relatively speaking though, men and women who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 02:49 PM |
| 0 | A lot of hate to a men’s rights supporter from the daily beastThe point of the article to me was more about this particular guy supposedly being an asshole than ‘stopping the flow to men’s communities’ as you put it. It did ignorantly generalize when grouping MRA, red-pillers and incels together and the part about the Ukrainian draft is ridiculous. But this post is more anti-Lira (and maybe anti-redpill) than it is anti-men’s rights, focusing in large on his defending of Putin, his personal career, his spreading of misinformation and conspiracy theories, e… | /r/MensRights | 23/03/22 07:15 AM |
| 2 | Feminism can only exist in peaceful rich countriesIf you know it’s not their duty then what are you mad about and what is your point? OP is highlighting how feminism, a movement normally claiming to be for equal treatment, is now staying quiet in the presence of unequal treatment between men and women (the war). You, on the other hand, seem to be blaming feminism for not stopping random riots and dictatorship as if those things are any of their business in the first place. Feminism is not about stopping riots, it never was about stopping riots,… | /r/MensRights | 22/03/22 05:04 PM |
| 10 | Feminism can only exist in peaceful rich countriesThat makes no sense. What you’re talking about is just general violence. There’s no reason why feminism would fight to stop riots, violence and dictators as these things have nothing to do with feminist or gender issues. | /r/MensRights | 22/03/22 12:32 PM |
| -2 | my brothers text book ( he is 12 )Explaining the real issue of female infanticide is ‘feminist trash’ now? My, the standards for what should be considered feminist certainly have become low. | /r/MensRights | 21/03/22 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Women, how often are you approached by men? How do you usually react when it happens?And you know that because… you are a woman? Don’t make the mistake of applying your own values and desires as a man to women. Women and men value different things. It’s true, women, ugly or hot, get approached for hook-ups. But women don’t value sex as much as men. So the fact that they can easily get sex is useless to them, because sex is not what they want. What they want is a relationship and in relationships, men go for hot women just as much as women go for hot men. Thus, ugly to average wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Women positively reinforce the “bad boys” but love complaining about themThat’s what I’m thinking too. It might be some evolutionary thing. Women evolutionarily have needed male validation to survive. Bad boys are no exclusion. It may feel more safe to get on the ‘good’ side of a bad boy, who has lots of confidence and resources to protect you. This may sometimes win women over despite his abusiveness. Yes, he might abuse them, but as long as they can keep pleasing him, he won’t kill them and he’ll be able to protect them from threats if needed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 09:48 AM |
| 2 | Women positively reinforce the “bad boys” but love complaining about themIt’s not one or the other. Confidence is hot. It’s what can raise someone from average/just decent looking to hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Men aren’t going to be there for women in traditional ways and most feminists I know are losing their $hit over it.Yeah, stereotypes exist for a reason but the idea that we shouldn’t rely on stereotypes to judge individuals also exists for a reason: Stereotypes are not representative of individuals. Men being aggressive, pure sex-driven beasts who are horny 110% of the time is also a stereotype. But that isn’t representative of all men either, no? | /r/MensRights | 19/03/22 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Men aren’t going to be there for women in traditional ways and most feminists I know are losing their $hit over it.To exclude actually intelligent, competent women from participating in decision-making just because they are a woman would be quite a waste of intelligence. I would rather have a woman with 120 IQ make a decision involving reason than a man with 80 IQ. That woman is gonna be way more understanding and logical than the lower IQ man, regardless of any stereotypes or averages. It’s true, women’s and men’s brains are wired differently. On average, men score a few IQ points higher, but this differenc… | /r/MensRights | 19/03/22 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Women, how often are you approached by men? How do you usually react when it happens?It seems there’s some miscommunication going on. By no means did I intent to start a debate of how easy or hard it is to get game for men as opposed to women. With ‘opportunity’, I simply meant: when you come across a woman you find attractive and you find a way to strike up a conversation. I am all for guys striking up conversations with women, dude. But don’t go to the grocery store specifically to talk to every woman there, with two groceries in your basket serving as nothing but a prop in yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Women, how often are you approached by men? How do you usually react when it happens?What’s wrong is when you go to the grocery store with the sole intention to go and follow around every woman you see there in hopes of getting any reaction. That’s the level of desperation and lack of self-respect that can be smelled from a mile away. If you’re single, it’s fine to be on the look-out of course, but make sure you’re actually going to a grocery store to do groceries and THEN see if an opportunity arises. Otherwise just go to a bar or some other place where people generally come wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 09:18 AM |
| 7 | Women, how often are you approached by men? How do you usually react when it happens?Only if you assume this is how it goes for most women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 09:03 AM |
| 2 | What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men?Neither, really. Evolutionarily, it has been beneficial for women to reproduce with higher status men. So I guess evolution is to blame. Societal structures have changed, but evolution hasn’t managed to catch up yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 08:36 AM |
| 1 | What benefit do women have being more emotional than men?A lot of the comments seem to miss what I think is the main question in your post; about the use of emotional expression in survival. I’ll give my two cents. It’s pretty simple really. First off, all humans benefit from emotional expression. Expression of emotion is crucial for forming bonds with other people, which in turn is crucial for survival: it is well known that humans need other humans to survive. Men also express emotion for this reason, if they didn’t, the human race wouldn’t have mad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 01:35 PM |
| 4 | NSFW/TRIGGER WARNING: This is an article listing the sick, perverted and vivid ways women want to castrate men.Nahhhh tf that’s some twisted BDSM shit. I don’t get the feeling most of them have a real intention to castrate men. It seems like more of a fantasy where the castration is supposed to symbolize the female domination, but the fact that they have these fantasies alone is sick enough. And obviously the ones dead-seriously saying men should be castrated are well out of their mind. | /r/MensRights | 16/03/22 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Men being judged based on how they lookSo I realize this was a month ago, but here we go anyways.My point was that, theoretically, men are physically able reproduce pretty much all their lives, while women can only reproduce up until they are about 40, so no matter how cruel or harsh or painful, it kind of makes sense for women to be more picky than men, at least about their sexual partners. I never said anything about what women say they want in a man. I don't care what other people say; I say attractiveness does matter a great deal… | /r/MensRights | 23/12/21 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Texas ‘Teacher of the Year’ engaged in sex acts with student in classroom, affidavit saysI don’t know if her being a woman is the primary reason in this case, although I’m sure it has something to do with it. I’ve seen this happen a lot when it comes to rape in general. People hate to use that word, instead coming up with the most inventive euphemisms. | /r/MensRights | 11/12/21 07:39 PM |
| -4 | Opinion on feminism?While I’m sure that women weren’t enthusiastically standing in line to serve in the army and risk their lives, it must be noted that part of why women weren’t in the army around that time is probably due to the fact that they weren’t allowed to enlist in the first place. | /r/MensRights | 11/12/21 05:21 PM |
| 3 | I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this."I don’t think that’s true. I think it does happen, enough for it to be a problem on its own. That being said, it’s definitely less accepted if men bully women for their body than vice versa. I also think when men do it, it expresses itself in slightly different ways. But rarely have I seen it get as severe as telling women to go off themselves, like what is shown in the pictures. | /r/MensRights | 05/12/21 02:22 PM |
| 11 | I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this."Well, having a preference is one thing. It’s fine to have a preference for tall guys just like you can have a preference for larger breasts, but it’s unnecessary to go bully people if they don’t live up to your preferences. What is shown in the picture has of course got nothing to do with their personal preferences anymore; that’s just straight up bodyshaming. | /r/MensRights | 05/12/21 01:33 PM |
| 46 | Made a post on Facebook about how no one gives a shit about International Men's Day. Didn't get a positive reactionIt’s more like saying “you don’t think all lives matter?” in response to someone saying ‘black lives matter’ | /r/MensRights | 22/11/21 07:17 AM |
| 15 | Men don't have problemsYou’d get a hell of a lot of backlash, but you would also get agreement if you could get the right people to see your post. The audience that you post for makes a significant difference in how it is received. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/21 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Men being judged based on how they lookYeah, they do. People in general judge other people based off of looks. That’s how humans work. I don’t know if it happens more for guys, there isn’t really a way to measure that. But it would make sense biologically: Women can only get pregnant a few times in their lives. They only get a few ‘chances’ to spread their genes so their first priority is that the guy that impregnates them has good genes. They look for the best possible genes to produce healthy and strong offspring. That way, their o… | /r/MensRights | 25/10/21 10:18 AM |
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