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Good shit Andy. Keep up the good content.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/21 05:39 AM
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That - or a missing father. Kids with internet access crave direction they are missing from their father. They discover subs like this, and absorb OP’s retardedness, creating a new generation of negative morons. This shit can be digested wrong without a parent to teach red pill truths in a healthy but still realistic way.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 03:15 PM
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The bar for stupid shit being posted on this sub has just been raised with this dumpster fire of a post. I feel for the young guys who lack strong parents, who no doubt come on here and read bullshit like this and absorb it thinking there is even a modicum of value.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 11:19 AM
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Why should you care if people like you? If you are a reasonable person and you treat people fairly according to your principles, then you don’t necessarily have to care how your actions are received. Also OP is missing a fucking HUGE fifth bucket - people don’t give a fuck about you. Wow - imagine that! Imagine people actually don’t really give a fuck about you and your not the center of the universe! Nah - no chance of that happening - thank god it wasn’t included!
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 11:11 AM
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I would advocate this only in the sense that it takes pussy off of its pedastle. Its conceivable that a virgin guy fucks an escort a few times and feels less pressure and idealizes it less. That being said, it’s obviously important to realize that fucking an escort is completely different than fucking your SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 08:45 PM
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and have fun. its sexual strategy, but it should be fun, and it should be about you. As a side bonus you might find the more you have fun the more women are drawn to you. But make it about you first. Find out who you are, what you like, what you want to experience, and use redpill tools as needed to supplement your life. BTW, this won't stop at 17 OP. Us men get conditioned early on to not think about ourselves or put ourselves first. Putting you first is a multi-decade long endeavor. It's a lon…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/21 04:14 AM
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Where did I write that I held a grudge? You've just fallen off mate, and your occasional emotional outbursts on MRP come off weird. The irony in you being triggered enough to argue here is great though
/r/TheRedPill15/01/21 02:23 AM
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shit, I can't even remember... you've been irrelevant for quite some time now.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/21 01:07 AM
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u/rstonept had an emotional hissy fit over on MRP about a month ago because he disliked some guys post and has steadily fallen off over the last few years. its funny some people still quote him just because he wrote some good stuff years ago. there's quite a few authors in the sidebar like that. anthol kay wrote great work a decade ago but his modern day work is absolute trash. thats stone in a nutshell so take what he writes currently with a grain of salt. the guy gets more triggered than a fat…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/21 05:34 PM
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Do Not Linger On a Swipe For TOo Long Though...... Those Precious Seconds Bro..... Do Not Waste What Has Been Given To You
/r/TheRedPill10/01/21 06:36 PM
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probably the best comment in this thread
/r/TheRedPill10/01/21 04:11 PM
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It's crazy how you can find idiots in any corner of the internet. Like imagine truly thinking "talking is a beta trait." Imagine having put so little thought into a statement that you generalize the ENTIRE concept of COMMUNICATION to equal beta, instead of clarifying that we simply all agree overtalking/oversharing is bad. This is u/hiktaka and u/strikethrough123 at a restaurant: What would you like to eat sir? Well, fuck, I don't want to look beta infront of my date, and I operate in her frame …
/r/TheRedPill10/01/21 04:07 PM
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Talking is inherently inferior trait in a man. Improper use of language and improper conclusion drawn. Talking is fine. Overtalking is bad. It's that simple. Stop reading more into it, and absolutely stop peddling non-sense bullshit like "talking is a beta trait"
/r/TheRedPill10/01/21 04:05 PM
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holy FUCK, I wrote words on the internet - have I been beta as fuck this whole time?
/r/TheRedPill10/01/21 04:03 PM
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This right here is a perfect example of men's right's that everyone - including feminists - should support. Congrats OP, great news
/r/MensRights08/01/21 11:46 PM
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talking is actually an inherently beta trait. Very few men could utilize his verbal communication to display high value alpha and attracting chicks Flat out wrong. Where do you neckbeards find this stuff? Talking is not inherently beta or alpha. It's a core communication tool for human life and can be used for good or bad. Body language is good insofar as it is congruent with your talking. Story telling and many DHV are done through talking. Humor is talking. Please reword or clarify when you sp…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/21 08:15 PM
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The UN would find some loose data point and then frame it something like "Women are starting to retire older and older each year: here's why it's because of men's oppressing them"
/r/MensRights31/12/20 06:42 PM
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People already talking tons shit in the comments, but if it helps some guys, then it's worth posting. I personally think it's great and kind of hilarious. Reminds me of some old NLP techniques, there was a famous phobia-killing technique where you visualized yourself in the top room watching yourself in an empty theatre replaying a phobic memory, slowly, backwards, with colour change etc. Call that shit crazy - but it worked for me. Got over a life long fear of bees by spending 2 minutes practic…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/20 06:38 PM
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Fuck these media outlets that don't use the correct language. They are complicit in making this entire thing seem lighter than it is by refusing to call it rape. Yet, the second some female SJW gets offended it's immediately called 'violence'.
/r/MensRights30/12/20 07:38 PM
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Your saying I shouldn't have posted? Nope, I think you can post, I just wanted it to be clear that the power for change lies within yourself and not some external thing And yeah everyone has shit days man. The internet is great for that, you can come here anonymously and post, and get some hopefully good feedback, with zero downside. Hang in there dude. I'm rooting for ya. If you need to talk dm me
/r/MensRights29/12/20 11:15 PM
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These are inextricably connected. Our mental health issues are often a consequence of the current political climate. This is your opinion, not the truth. What you are stating is "my internal worldview is a direct consequence of external factors and I have no influence on it" There are many people out there who would like to see changes in politics or animal rights or men's rights but who are still happy and internally well-adjusted and don't feel like the world hates them. Strive to be someone w…
/r/MensRights29/12/20 10:43 PM
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I feel like people hate me for being born male This isn't a men's rights issue. It's a mental health issue. I'm guessing you are young and impressionable, and the fringe crap you see on the internet has sunken into your head. No one in real life will ever be mean or disrespect you for simply being a man. In many cases, such as any time you need to deal with a contractor or plumber or mechanic, you will be treated better and be given more respect than if you were a woman. This is a personal menta…
/r/MensRights29/12/20 10:22 PM
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you probably were manipulative I disagree with this, you don't know any context at all at the core of human nature you will find a desire to be manipulated by someone worth being manipulated by This is a pretty interesting take actually
/r/TheRedPill28/12/20 01:21 AM
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Ya no. Car is the worst investment a young guy can make. Spend it on assets you actually need or better yet, invest it asap
/r/askTRP23/12/20 02:19 AM
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The put down is how I show love bro. I wouldn't have responded to you if I didn't think I was imparting some value.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 02:17 AM
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I second this. Get the braces. Short term pain, long term gain, and truly no one gives a fuck. Also you can even use them if alpha males are shoving you around, you can bare your teeth like a hyena and it scares them off. At least that's what my wife's boyfriend tells me.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 02:12 AM
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Rephrase your question: Is it worth it to keep a wet hole around that I can use for self-masturbation, at the risk of having my social status drop if anyone I know sees me in public with it??? Only you can decide...
/r/askTRP23/12/20 02:06 AM
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she's flirting with you at work, she doesn't want to fuck you, it just feels nice to have guys eat out of your hand. No one wants to fuck you by the sounds of it you should've said some stupid shit like "I'll have you know I require wining and dining before I answer 5am booty calls" and then just forget about it but instead your head is so far up her ass that you probably got all giggly seeing the missed call and your dick went full chub like a true-to-form simp beta What should you do: drop it …
/r/askTRP23/12/20 02:01 AM
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she's not a plate, this guy has never fucked her nor will he because he literally made a fucking reddit post about how she called him at 5am and he's already simping
/r/askTRP23/12/20 01:56 AM
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Mission. When you know your mission the rest falls by the wayside
/r/askTRP23/12/20 01:53 AM
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Keep in mind these rich and powerful dudes also get fan mail from women they don't even know. Lol, no. You're mistaking famous with rich. If the prostitute is into you and would have probably fucked you for free anyway, she is going to blow your fucking mind with how good the sex is. What the fuck kind of nonsense are you talking about? No one gives a fuck what the prostitute thinks at all. This is about my dude, the OP, getting HIS mental models adjusted. Taking pussy off the pedestal in HIS mi…
/r/askTRP22/12/20 03:44 PM
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I want to be a strong, popular, attractive guy who lives an active, winner lifestyle. How much of your goal is popularity? Popularity is external validation. Your vacation sounds like a great idea. I was going to suggest meditation or a retreat to spend some time looking into yourself, questioning yourself, figuring out what you want to live for and what you want for yourself. Knowing the answer to those questions means you will live for you, and not for anyone external.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 03:05 AM
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This is boss frame shit right here. OP, internalize this, and move the fuck on.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 02:42 AM
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you've been mind fucked by a hyena who will never let you know she actually doesn't value you that much. welcome to life brother. this is a right of passage in modern life. you aren't a man unless you've had your heart ripped out thru your asshole by a jackal. what helped me get past this was meditating on it, moving toward the pain rather than away from it, allowing myself to feel it without judgement just patiently. there's a body/mind thing that men suck at or we simply don't often tap into i…
/r/askTRP22/12/20 02:40 AM
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I'd actually disagree with the guy you responded to. Nothing takes away the power of pussy like paying for it. It actually helped me take it off a pedestal when I was in my early 20s. Some guys can get so wrapped up in the value of pussy especially if you haven't fucked for a while. It actually can help your psyche
/r/askTRP22/12/20 02:37 AM
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Some of the richest dudes in the world pay for sex and make clear its a transaction rather than fuck a girl who would sue them claiming to be a dependent. As you put well: The only thing is how you view yourself for paying for sex.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 02:35 AM
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I would agree and disagree with the top reply to this comment. On the one hand, you can't change anyone. Find someone that fits your mold. It ain't you. On the other, women are malleable. They will change how they respond depending on the man. Are you a man who's identity core includes being the hot fantasy fuck sex? I'm willing to bet a hard fuckin no. If you want that sex, then you must become the guy who has that type of sex. If you are even 1% unsure whether you are that guy, you aren't. Kil…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/20 02:14 AM
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As others have said more eloquently, you need a rehaul your mental models. Change your limiting beliefs that you have about yourself. You feel these are 'true' beliefs, but question them, because you likely developed them to protect you. Question your sources of validation - what gives value to you and your life? It would appear right now that all your validation sources are external. Develop hobbies that are social in nature. No one cares if you clutched a 5v1 cod match, but being into cars or …
/r/TheRedPill15/12/20 05:23 PM
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I agree women are more fragile. Try this test: next time a woman makes fun of a short guy or small dick guy, say “yeah I agree that sucks, and you know what else sucks, fat women. Fat women are the absolute worst and most ugly. Can you imagine going on a date with a FAT person?? Ugh I’d rather have a colonoscopy” If that triggers them then they can dish it but they can’t take it. In life, we must let stupid criticisms roll off our back.
/r/MensRights25/11/20 04:41 PM
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I find posts like this to be useless. This is a great place to highlight men’s rights practical examples in the real world or achievements. So many posts like these lately. And they just come off as whiney. I don’t care that some feminists hate men’s rights. I don’t care that some people in the world hate something you believe in. Let’s stop whining and focus on solutions. Posts are a great way to share valuable spotlight, not cry because your fee fees got hurt.
/r/MensRights22/11/20 04:41 AM
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Bro. I feel for you. It really sucks when family is so aggressive. It shouldn’t be hard for family to be empathetic and see where you’re coming from. It shouldn’t always have to be you being logical, calm, and taking the high road. Find yourself a good woman who values you and your opinion. And don’t listen to the MGTOW bullshit there are tons of amazing women out there who understand and sympathize with male struggles. I don’t know your family - but based on this chat - emotionally distance you…
/r/MensRights20/11/20 03:54 PM
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In time your perspective will change on this one too. Right now your oneitis is in control
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 07:53 PM
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Time to move on brother. Abundance mentality The most wasted years of your life are the ones spent chasing a girl who isn’t interested The problem is the ones who aren’t interested, even some of the nice ones, will lead you on and dangle a carrot here or there because the attention is good feelz They will never be the person to say “hey, I can tell you’re into me but I’m really not that into you” even though it would free you. A man needs the fortitude to move on without that closure, and abunda…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 07:08 PM
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This is beyond autism This is the stupidest TRP post I’ve ever read OP should delete this and then smash his face against his keyboard
/r/TheRedPill13/11/20 02:15 AM
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It’s disgusting WB fired him. Fuck Warner Bros.
/r/MensRights09/11/20 05:52 AM
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Warner Brothers is trash
/r/MensRights07/11/20 02:38 PM
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We need more links and more ways to call out WB for this Warner Brothers is the true piece of shit here. They’re the ones who fired Depp and keep Heard on payroll Warner Brothers needs some serious social media backlash or they won’t change shit
/r/MensRights07/11/20 02:17 PM
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Don’t you understand, the killer is the victim! Isn’t progressivism great?
/r/MensRights05/11/20 02:04 PM
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The nuance is that not all women want to be controlled, but a subset of the population fucking loves it, so your job is to attract that subset There’s a subset of pop for pretty much any kink ever. Just gotta find them
/r/TheRedPill03/11/20 01:29 AM
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Who the fuck would seriously write something like that????
/r/MensRights01/11/20 12:37 AM
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Unfortunately I think the majority views Men’s Rights as some evil thing Then again, I’d also argue the majority of humans are stupid
/r/MensRights28/10/20 05:20 PM
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Women like you are the minority that are worth fighting for. Thanks for recognizing the struggle!
/r/MensRights28/10/20 03:30 PM
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You can tell where he is from wives and mothers KNOW their damn place when it comes to their men and sons. Stupidest shit I've ever read. Basically a heaping generalization In places like Dagestan a men don't marry 4 underage girls like in those stereotypes, they actually marry in young age (18-25) with 1 woman and live until dead. No divorce rapes, no cheating just good and old traditional live. Conservative places like the middle-east subjugate and dominate wives into submission. That's not "s…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/20 05:12 PM
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Well worded title.
/r/MensRights20/10/20 05:55 AM
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You guys having trouble breathing with Rollo’s dick in your mouths? “Someone said something smart once, therefore everything they say forever is smart.” Absorb good information. Discard bad information. Learn to differentiate for yourself and stop pedastalizing other humans.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/20 03:28 PM
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A lot of people don’t realize how these authors have changed over time. Anthol Kay wrote a great book in MMSLP, then fell off the fuckin rails years later. These guys sucking Rollo’s dick pedastalize him the same way simps do with mediocre pussy. Has he contributed good information? Yes. Does this mean he always will, and everything he says is bible? Fuck no.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/20 03:26 PM
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What he said does apply. Most guys who turn beta in an LTR do so because they lack a strong core Learning lines and fake shit gets you lays. Having a strong core identity will get you an LTR to the point where it feels natural because you’re confident in yourself
/r/TheRedPill16/10/20 03:23 PM
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you don’t have to work for the ltr Maybe not in the honeymoon period when everything flows easily because oxytocin is pumping in both of your veins. A 5+ year LTR takes work. “Let her work for the relationship” is a great generalization to help beginners learn not to chase and frame themselves as the prize. It’s absolutely not synonymous with “do no work” especially if you find a girl worth LTR’ing
/r/TheRedPill16/10/20 03:18 PM
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It seems the vocal minority on here are hating on your shit because they don’t get laid This was a super insightful post and good guide. Don’t let these fat neckbeards fucks dissuade you. Many of us are appreciative and thankful for your post
/r/TheRedPill15/10/20 05:20 PM
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$5 value I’d rather be paid in Schrute Bucks
/r/MensRights09/10/20 09:11 PM
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Great post dude. And Thank you for doing the work to link other posts. Adds a lot of good reading material in addition to the content written above
/r/TheRedPill07/10/20 05:17 PM
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Another reason why the UN is a joke
/r/MensRights06/10/20 01:58 PM
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You’re afraid. It’s understandable. But don’t you want to stand up for what’s right? You don’t even go to that school any more do you?
/r/MensRights03/10/20 04:06 PM
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This is the type of stupidity that needs to stop being posted. Stop concerning yourself with the masses and majorities. Women and men are incredibly complex. Filter for the population subset that fits your frame. Your whining is about x% of the population and you can simply ignore them.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/20 11:57 PM
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Mommy banged my brothers friend and I think that’s really big of her.
/r/MensRights30/09/20 10:30 PM
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DO NOT DO THIS Delete your comment please HR is not there to be your friend, they are there to protect the company Best course of action is to simply say I don’t want to work with X person, as they’re allowed to do Pointing to gender AT ALL will get you terminated ASAP
/r/MensRights28/09/20 04:08 PM
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First they need to fill their quota of women, minority, disabled, aboriginal, victimized, challenged, weak, and simple-minded, and trans. What’s left goes to the white males
/r/MensRights23/09/20 09:41 PM
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Tinder Economics Great read
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 03:07 PM
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Law of attraction is everything baby
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 03:06 PM
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What did the MDMA therapy entail? How did it help you permanently change? I’ve wanted to try this on my own. Any tips? internal validation is easily the hardest struggle because it necessitates an entire worldview change. You murder the parts of yourself that rely on external validation. You become an entirely new person. It’s something I believe maybe 5% of men actually pursue and achieve. Humans are built, programmed, to be externally validated.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/20 05:25 PM
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Am I reading correctly that you openly shared the fact you were accused of rape? Sorry but - why would you do that? Even if she was your friend, so what? What do you have to gain by sharing that? Aren’t you coworkers? You literally left the state to bury something and then you publicly share it “openly”. Mate that’s insane. I hope I’m interpreting it wrong and you didn’t openly publicly share that info.
/r/MensRights21/09/20 04:59 PM
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That loss of frame doesn’t happen to all men. It happens to weak men. It is hard to be strong. And that’s what nature intended.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/20 04:13 AM
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That’s super fucked up. Are they able to sue for sexism?
/r/MensRights19/09/20 09:34 PM
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The reason you can’t find an example of me saying women have it harder and deserve sympathy, is because I would never say such a stupid generalized statement. In some things, men have it easier. In some things, women have it easier. Both genders have equality work to do. The colour grey exists. It isn’t all black and white. Try to remind yourself of that.
/r/MensRights19/09/20 07:20 PM
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Things are certainly shifting nowadays. Although this is a relatively new phenomenon. More like, It’s not 2000 any more. woman have it harder and deserve help and sympathy Huh? Where did I say that, or even allude to that?
/r/MensRights19/09/20 05:34 PM
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I didn’t say deny changes. I’d like to see many changes to legal issues and family law, to make men equal to women. I’d like to see men not be viewed as an expendable resource in war, and “save the women and children.” I’d like to see men’s domestic abuse taken seriously, and there be appropriate number of shelters. These issues resonate with me deeply. I care deeply for my fellow men. I also love being a man, and you should too. There’s lots of things that rock about being a man, and they aren’…
/r/MensRights19/09/20 05:26 PM
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Your mixing facts and opinion. 1950s man made x wage and everything cost y. 2020s man may earn 2x, real estate costs 5y. We agree there. Real estate has exploded in my city certainly. We disagree on QoL. 2020s man has the world at his fingertips. Information on any subject can be learned within mere months with a basic internet connection. He has an iPhone. He has a flatscreen TV. He has a car and can afford vacations. More importantly, he is more empowered than ever before in life. For the firs…
/r/MensRights19/09/20 05:18 PM
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You’d do great with the legions of feminists who believe the same thing about being a woman 😂
/r/MensRights19/09/20 05:02 PM
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Hot sex is due to oxytocin. It only lasts a couple years tops. Doesn’t matter how powerful you are. Honeymoon period lust eventually fades.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/20 05:01 PM
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You can say it sucks being a man because if I was poor in Syria I wouldn’t get water. I can say it rocks being a man because I can don a suit and pitch my business idea to investors and have less hurdles to overcome than a woman. Your example doesn’t prove it sucks to be a man. Your example proves that in some cases it hurts you. Examples like this exist for both genders. Me saying it rocks to be a man doesn’t mean we don’t have disadvantages, especially in family law courts for example. Me sayi…
/r/MensRights19/09/20 04:55 PM
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We have to care about legal and social issues that directly impact Men’s ability to live healthy functional lives within society. However, posts like OPs are the result of a bad mindset. OP is no doubt a young impressionable man. He catches a glimpse of the news here and there. He sees examples of people hating men, or men being disenfranchised. He takes them to heart. He internalizes these views. As if they are the one true world. He doesn’t stop to realize the news is a business and easy profi…
/r/MensRights19/09/20 04:44 PM
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quality of life is dropping Quality of life rises year over year Less violent deaths globally happen decade over decade on average its trending downward Less people dying from diseases and starvation thanks to amazing men like bill gates The world is in excellent shape Success is 99% mindset and hard work See? I can write all my opinions down too. The difference is mine empower me. Yours hold you down. That’s called limiting beliefs. Rid yourself of yours. Rise up. No one likes a little bitch. A…
/r/MensRights19/09/20 04:33 PM
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Who cares what society thinks. If you want society to value you, you’ve already lost. Being a man fucking rocks. Validate yourself internally. And the world becomes your bitch.
/r/MensRights19/09/20 11:12 AM
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I love being a man. Our attractiveness value increases as we age like a fine wine. Women’s value starts to decrease past 30. Our physique is strong. Our only physical threats are other men. Lift weights. Feeling physically powerful lends to mental power. The world is our oyster. We can achieve or build anything we want. We are taken seriously, if we take ourselves seriously. We can attract women of all ages, well into our 40s and 50s. Any man can learn to be wealthy. Regardless of how stupid you…
/r/MensRights19/09/20 11:10 AM
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This whole thing is the opposite of survivorship bias. Redpill is a denizen of men who were scorned in relationships. We came here as a losers. Seeking a way to improve ourselves. We take advice from other men who were losers, but made an effort to learn. You know who’s not here giving advice and shaping red pill ideas? The happy men who are happily married and naturally found an equilibrium with their wives. Not simp husbands. Not low smv wives. Just plain old happily married people. You simply…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/20 10:53 AM
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Agreed. It does work for both genders let’s be clear. Both people in a relationship intuitively know each other’s value, and their own value. There is always one reaching upward.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/20 10:35 AM
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Good for him, sticking up for himself. Bullies only target the weak ones. Terribly sad they would still suspend him after the footage came out. Parents of the girls should be ashamed.
/r/MensRights18/09/20 11:10 PM
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well said, good read, thanks for sharing
/r/TheRedPill18/09/20 04:06 AM
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Well written and super relateable. Myself and my two brothers went through this even though we didn’t share much with each other I could see how it devastated them. We all got over it, years ago, but it hits hard and takes a long time the more fragile the ego is
/r/TheRedPill16/09/20 02:25 AM
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What are you talking about?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/20 02:22 AM
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I'm actually cool with anything that remotely talks about getting your life together, growing as a human, or the typical ones about gaming chicks. However, I found this post to be totally out to left field. Like, completely out there. Pay attention to potential suspects who are around you at all times? What the fuck? Fourteen paragraphs about spotting SUSPECTS and SCANNING for suspects? If you like it great. But I feel the majority of users won't get value from that.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/20 07:28 PM
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Yeah I read it all. Most of it is irrelevant to this sub. It reads like a collection of random unrelateable life advice. Particularly ironic given he starts his post talking about useless/low effort posts
/r/TheRedPill14/09/20 03:14 PM
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Great post, thanks for sharing
/r/TheRedPill14/09/20 12:26 PM
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The point is, very little of what he wrote applies to this sub. “hey man keep aware of your surroundings and try to spot suspects!” Wtf. Tie it to red pill somehow. Insanely long post that says almost nothing relevant or important.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/20 12:16 PM
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Un fuckin real
/r/MensRights14/09/20 12:11 PM
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This was an insane amount of words to convey: keep aware of your surroundings. Jesus mate. Learn how to summarize 😂
/r/TheRedPill14/09/20 04:10 AM
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Sugarmommas don’t look for dirty unhygienic neckbeards that’s why you’re not seeing them 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/TheRedPill11/09/20 05:41 PM
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Nah, it's 100% on the idiotic judge, appeal board, and general Canadian public (specifically Ontario) that don't protest or voice outrage about this double standard bullshit. Two people not living together, who are in a relationship but maintain separate homes, lives and families, should absolutely not be obliged to support each other should they break up. That's equality and simply common sense. If it were a man and his sugar momma, would it be the same verdict? What about two gay men? This is …
/r/TheRedPill11/09/20 04:51 PM
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What if you go away for a 7-day vacation with your plate? Does that constitute living together now? What about 3-days? You have bitches over to fuck them, does that mean they technically lived with you for a bit? What if your plate secretly quits her job while she's with you? Suddenly you are secretly her provider? C'mon. It's retarded and illogical to solely blame the guy for this. Is he partly responsible? Of course. Is he the root cause of what's fucked up about this? Obviously not. The prima…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/20 04:47 PM
20

“They lived together a bit” on holidays So what if a girl sleeps over for a weekend? Does that constitute living together? What if you go on a 3-day trip together? Does that constitute it? What’s the cutoff? Ontario courts are a fucking joke. If you think this is bad you should see some of the verdicts the “human rights tribunal” hands out in Ontario. It’s an embarrassment to the legal system
/r/MensRights11/09/20 12:34 PM
6

It’s cases like these where you question the judges and the entire legal system Like how does a ruling that goes against all common sense happen? This assholes seriously do not understand hypocrisy.
/r/MensRights11/09/20 12:23 PM
10

Christ that is so good to read. That video was beyond fucked up. Poor, poor girl. Mother and boyfriend should be in jail. Why the FUCK aren’t there criminal charges on them?
/r/MensRights10/09/20 11:02 AM
23

“Don’t hit girls” Fuck that. Don’t hit anyone unless it’s self defence, then whoop their ass regardless of gender
/r/MensRights10/09/20 02:54 AM
2

I think it’s one of the biggest challenges humanity collectively faces in the age of the Internet/social media. It is just way too easy to paint our opponents all with the same brush stroke.
/r/MensRights09/09/20 09:34 PM
0

I think it accurately captures the logical failure of mainstream feminism, more specifically the type of “all men are shit” thinking that I commonly see. You could certainly break down “feminism” into a whole ton of different groups though, and almost for sure it would be inaccurate to say all of them generalize. There are definitely some reasonable and well thought-out groups that fall under that umbrella.
/r/MensRights09/09/20 09:32 PM
10

The sad irony here is that feminists use the exact same logic as you to justify hating men 🤦🏻‍♂️ Black and white, all or nothing thinking is a real plague. Believe it or not, there are good women and bad men out there, and vice versa. Gasp!!!
/r/MensRights09/09/20 09:29 PM
12

no woman on earth has uttered a word against it Plenty of women think mainstream feminism is a fucking joke. Don't generalize all women. Lots of great ones out there.
/r/MensRights09/09/20 08:16 PM
18

There are tons of offensive and annoying subs that exist all over reddit. I'd rather us focus our energy on what changes we want to see, and then bringing them to fruition. Focusing on what you hate or dislike just invites more attention to it. I do agree we need to bring hypocrisies to light, it's important to do it only in a productive way and not get lost in hate.
/r/MensRights09/09/20 08:15 PM
21

Lol seriously. Who gives a fuck. I enjoy talking to guys on here and just sharing my view. Most of my messages revolve around reminding people generalizations are the tool of feminism and idiots in general. All men are NOT evil murders. All women are NOT cheating unloyal whores. There are shitty people. And there are good people. Nothing in life is so black and white. There's awesome men and women out there for all of us. But if you focus on nut jobs all you'll get is nut jobs.
/r/MensRights09/09/20 08:13 PM
16

BOTH men and women do this to the other gender. Pretty much everyone is turned off by an ugly person. This really has nothing to do with Men’s Rights.
/r/MensRights07/09/20 08:59 PM
1

Damn. That sucks. To think, if you only grew up with some good examples to draw from, your life might be different
/r/MensRights06/09/20 01:16 AM
0

That’s too bad. I think if you magically got plopped into an awesome relationship you would change your outlook. It really is worth the risk, because the risk is so low if you’re talking to the right women and the reward is so great.
/r/MensRights05/09/20 11:23 PM
8

Why did YouTube take the other Istandwithsophie video down? Why are reddit admins removing Istandwithsophie posts, I.e. in r/outoftheloop? What the fuck is going on, why are they censoring this poor girls struggle? The first google searches of this hashtag are all dead or banned links? What the fuck is that about?
/r/MensRights05/09/20 08:42 PM
2

Holy shit. That is so fucking sad. Edit: I’m fucking blown away. That is the saddest video I’ve ever seen. That judge should be ashamed. I’d demand a resignation. That is unacceptable. So fucking sad. My heart goes out to that poor girl.
/r/MensRights05/09/20 08:35 PM
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Legal and personal are different. You can enter or exit a relationship at any time. Don’t twist my words as if I was talking legal. Ironically I probably know more about the legal side than you. Many of my clients have been taken to the cleaners by their wives. We both agree on external validation and control. All men should strive for internal validation and a life that they feel is purposeful and driven and satisfies their own self. And guess what? A family can add to that. A family is an awes…
/r/MensRights05/09/20 06:24 PM
1

Yup. I think generalization is the plague of the modern human. Everywhere you look you find stories of this group vs that. Black vs white. Women vs men. The oppressor and the oppressed. A rational person takes a step back and says, well really and truly, most people are just regular good people. These are the vocal minority we read about. You cannot generalize the vocal minority to the entire population. People are individuals and most are decent. Simple as that.
/r/MensRights05/09/20 06:16 PM
1

You do you buddy. You’re in the minority though and you talk as though your opinion is truth. The real truth is you choose to live the way you live, and you choose to believe what you believe. Is the law more on the side of women, currently? Sure. That’s about where the truth of what you say ends. The rest is your beliefs and you’re entitled to them. But fuck. What a sad life. Alone. Without family or partner. Without close friends. The vast majority of men would be very sad to live that way. Hu…
/r/MensRights05/09/20 06:13 PM
1

How stupid is the average person - half of them are more stupid than that. I agree many men get blind sided. Many men are also incredibly stupid about women. Many cannot filter or cannot spot red flags, or cannot / do not listen to their friends and family. Being manipulated/taken advantage by the opposite sex is not exclusive to men. the real ratio is 50/50 Maybe. Maybe not. Yes lots of women are shit. Lots of men are too. Do you ever realize your thinking is the same that feminists use against…
/r/MensRights05/09/20 01:19 PM
1

women have full control over the outcome of the relationship So you have no power or agency? Both partners have the same amount of control - either person can walk away. women initiate the vast majority of false accusations and divorce Agreed. This is why you filter with your brain and not your cock. there is very little value for men in relationship To each their own. Again though. This is incel talk. Many men would argue it is the peak of human experience raising a family with a loving wife. J…
/r/MensRights05/09/20 01:16 PM
1

Yes, as you should. Everyone should fear meeting a manipulative cheat of a partner. Just take proper steps to mitigate the risk and you’ll be fine. This talk of giving up dating because of it is clearly an extreme position.
/r/MensRights05/09/20 01:12 PM
1

It’s not an insult, that is literally the line of logic incels use no?
/r/MensRights05/09/20 01:10 PM
1

So you support him using an analogy whereby you have a 1% chance at death? You think that’s a good analogy for dating women? Believe what you want brother. Convincing yourself women are “too risky” instead of using your knowledge to find a great one who wants to build a great life with you? I mean, do your thing. That’s just such a sad, lonely and deluded world to live in.
/r/MensRights05/09/20 05:39 AM
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Spoken like a true incel. You wouldn’t be here if your dad didn’t take a chance with your mom. I don’t know why you don’t think you’re capable of finding a good partner. I don’t even know you and I know you’re underselling yourself.
/r/MensRights05/09/20 04:33 AM
1

Brother. You dodged a BULLET. This is the type of girl who would accuse you of rape without hesitation if you had a nice house. Or date you for the sole purpose of divorcing to get an income stream. There are many, many fish in the sea. Be thankful you dodged a piranha.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/20 02:23 AM
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analogy about life and death, black and white, but applied to being in a relationship with a woman or not I hope you just playing devils advocate and you don’t actually buy that. Women could say the same about men being physically stronger and simply just killing them one day. Blanket generalizations about entire groups of people is bad for any gender or person
/r/MensRights05/09/20 01:55 AM
1

You think she just wants a settlement? I don’t know that seems like blackmail. How would they even pay her.
/r/MensRights05/09/20 01:51 AM
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Hollywood types that society idolizes tend to be pretty average or even stupid in a lot of ways. I'm sure amber gave off red flags that depp didn't care or notice. I find it very unlikely she went from sweet girl, to girl who shits on your bed and conspires to frame you, overnight. I'd wager she was always a shithead
/r/MensRights04/09/20 07:02 PM
6

We need harsher punishments to deter crap like this
/r/MensRights04/09/20 06:06 PM
5

For sure and you should worry it’s a legit concern. You should also be cognizant that you aren’t filtering for what you’re afraid of. I see it all the time with my buddies that can’t manage to get a relationship. They’re so focused on what they don’t want that it becomes what they attract.
/r/MensRights04/09/20 06:00 PM
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The goal is filter well enough that you’re with a woman who isn’t an asshole. My ex could’ve cleaned me out when we broke up if she wanted to since we were technically common law. She could’ve dragged me through the courts and reemed me hard. She didn’t. There are lots of good supportive women out there who value their principles and are just good people. This sub would have you think otherwise, just like feminist subs would have you believe all men are evil. Things in life are rarely so black a…
/r/MensRights04/09/20 05:47 PM
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Jesus Christ. It’s insane how much you are INSTANTLY fucked by a false rape accusation. Women seriously do not understand the weight of their words here. Rape is NOT regret. You regret consensual sex? Too bad. Live with your decision. IMO there needs to be very heavy penalties for false rape accusations. This guy’s life is now thrown upside down because of a fleeting decision some girl made.
/r/MensRights04/09/20 04:08 PM
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I remember when I was 16, I always thought by 22 I would be like a full adult. Now I’m past 30 and I finally do feel that way now. But holy fuck at 22 I was still just a babe. You really don’t get that feeling of being a full fledged adult until you move out and live completely on your own financially
/r/TheRedPill30/08/20 09:39 PM
1

Sounds like a pretty standard friend zone to me. The thing about the friend zone is you often think it would never happen to you. As for thoughts on how to generate attraction? I’ll give you mine as a random ass redditor. It’s an internal state. Think back to a moment in your life when you knew, without a doubt in your mind, that a woman wanted to fuck your brains out. Never happened to you? Then imagine it. Vividly. Truly feel it in your body. Feel it as if it’s happening right now. As if you’v…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/20 06:18 PM
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That's definitely the goal. But is it possible? Nature is pretty stubborn. My drive tells me to leave my woman of years to chase some young pussy that I'm programmed to chase, and it's powerful as fuck. But there's another drive of comfort to stay and make a happy healthy home with kids and my own family. That drive is different. It lacks the raw power of the former. It's a more loving and connected drive. And it makes me wonder if it's possible to motivate with the raw side even while being mon…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/20 08:49 PM
2

It doesn’t though. This thread is mostly in the head of the father. He’s addressing real stigmas, but people in the real world, men or women, would rarely actually act against a single father at the playground with his kid. It’s rare to the point where you shouldn’t even waste mental energy thinking or feeling about it. Enjoy the day with your kid. Have fun and laugh and play with them. Expecting that someone will call the cops and then being anxious is like a black person assuming every little …
/r/MensRights24/08/20 10:59 AM
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What you posted resonates with me. Why is sexually motivated self improvement so potent? Why can’t we be motivated to create businesses, generate value, give to others, without a sexual component? I’m struggling with this personally. I want to believe I should be self-motivated on principle. But in reality the sexual rewards are the most powerful driver. And I don’t like it. It feels too shallow. Makes me feel meaningless, like a robot acting out my preordained reproductive destiny. Why can’t I …
/r/TheRedPill22/08/20 10:23 AM
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Why is this trash even up here Trashy people both men and women suck
/r/MensRights12/08/20 07:52 PM
3

Who says I’m offended? Just because someone calls you out for something doesn’t mean they take it personally
/r/MensRights10/08/20 08:40 PM
3

Show her what you wrote. Ask her if she thinks saying "black women are at the bottom of the dating totem pole" is racist or not If she takes your side you found a real keeper
/r/MensRights10/08/20 08:26 PM
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Who the fuck wants their Reddit identity public? That’s not the point son. The point is, would you say what you wrote publicly? You wouldn’t have the balls 😂You’d shit your pants if you had to stand up and say that publicly. That’s what makes you a pussy.
/r/MensRights10/08/20 08:10 PM
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Triggered? Threatening to doxx? LMAO I'm not threatening to doxx shit, I'm saying you'd never say publicly what you wrote in this thread - that's how you know you're racist. Clearly it seems to have sunk in though, you appear scared as fuck now just thinking about it
/r/MensRights10/08/20 07:47 PM
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“I can’t believe more people aren’t just as racist as me. You guys are soft as fuck” The irony is - you would cower if your real name got published and you couldn’t hide behind anonymity of the internet. The shit you’ve said in this thread is soo racist.
/r/MensRights10/08/20 07:27 PM
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Not even close. You’re pretty bad at this brother.
/r/MensRights10/08/20 06:51 PM
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A compelling argument is not needed when someone writes “black women are at the bottom of the dating totem pole” then believes they aren’t racist 🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/MensRights10/08/20 05:47 PM
3

Now this is a story all about how my life got cucked and went upside down
/r/MensRights10/08/20 05:46 PM
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Dude you’re racist as fuck
/r/MensRights10/08/20 05:41 PM
1

Woah, relax buddy. No need to get so defensive. Never had anyone call you out before I take it. You’re backing up a guy who got offended by some silly words on twitter. You should expect it.
/r/MensRights25/07/20 11:07 AM
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Because one instance of one person saying what kind of cloths she likes on guys is not worthy of discussion. Who gives a shit? The world is full of sensitive pussies these days. Let’s talk about REAL men’s rights issues. We’re committing suicide more, we’re less driven, becoming less educated and being made out as worthless leaches. We get smashed in family law courts and criminal courts. We have lots of REAL issues to talk about. Who the fuck cares about what some random female wrote on twitter
/r/MensRights24/07/20 10:49 PM
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Well said.
/r/MensRights24/07/20 10:47 PM
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Great post and completely agree. Not enough emphasis on maintaining, growing and valuing friendships on here. It’s so easy to grow apart from friends as a man and just focus on career / family. I think not many men realize how valuable they can be, so they don’t bother pursuing it. Then when they need a good friend it’s too late.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/20 11:13 PM
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Woah woah woah. What about asian holes?
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 04:17 PM
132

What a perfect description and use of the word Frankenchad. The internet never ceases to amaze
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 04:34 PM
8

Einhorn is finkle......... finkle is einhorn
/r/MensRights12/07/20 02:02 PM
1

LMAO So jacking off is practising war now fellas!
/r/MensRights11/07/20 04:13 PM
2

Yeah it encompasses a lot of different views all balled into one label. Thing is, I’m not even pushing for marriage. I’m advocating for having healthy relationships with women. Many men on here feel that’s impossible. MGTOW guys feel it’s a rigged game so they won’t play it. Just like radical feminists. Add to that the fact that they’ve only had negative experiences with the opposite sex. I can see why they’d end up where they are. They believe they’re incapable of relating positively with women…
/r/MensRights11/07/20 04:05 PM
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You won’t date because of a microscopic chance a woman accuses you of rape, or you knock her up and are stuck with child support. Even though you can take precautions against both those to completely mitigate the risks. 99% of people who date never end up in the courts. You’re letting a 1% scenario, which you can protect against, control your life. Is that correct? You’re not dating because of the risks. Even though stastically they happen to virtually no one. This is like saying I won’t leave m…
/r/MensRights11/07/20 03:58 PM
2

Yeah, totally normal to completely cut women out of your life and assume absolute worst case legal scenarios would happen if you meandered near one closely enough!
/r/MensRights11/07/20 03:51 PM
1

So don’t. Men can still have healthy relationships with females despite the court system being one sided.
/r/MensRights11/07/20 03:40 PM
0

You’re not going to date or have relationships or engage in a huge part of life simply because the legal system is skewed in woman’s favour? At best that’s a weak excuse. There are clearly some issues these guys have relating to females.
/r/MensRights11/07/20 03:39 PM
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Having a healthy relationship with a woman doesn’t require marriage, so divorce isn’t too important. Relationships start and end every day. I would argue that even great relationships run their course and it’s still a good thing to be in one that eventually fails. Your paragraph about having kids focuses on the negative risks of losing kids and paying child support. These are valid. But you wrote not even a word on the positive. Many people consider raising children the peak positive human exper…
/r/MensRights11/07/20 09:23 AM
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The philosophy of doing what makes you happy is a great one. It’s not wrong to put yourself first and make sure your needs are being met in a relationship. I’d argue it even makes you a better partner. However, that’s not what I see on here when MGTOW is mentioned. The sentiment in this sub with MGTOW is always something like “fuck women”, we don’t need women, just forget them, I turned my back on them it was so great, etc etc. That’s a pretty toxic mindset. I feel for the guys who are stuck in …
/r/MensRights11/07/20 08:58 AM
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Thats sad. I’m all for men’s rights but I also still love women. It upsets me that many young men these days are willing to forsake the amazing experience of being in a loving relationship with a good partner. I really feel for the guys out there who can’t manage to get this part of their life together.
/r/MensRights11/07/20 05:32 AM
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The men who hate women and the women who hate men are actually very similar to each other. Their only difference is what’s between their legs. It’s pretty ironic. Such an easy human flaw, to generalize entire groups of people and remove the individuality of life.
/r/MensRights11/07/20 12:45 AM
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No. We can’t be promoting that shit here. Are some women assholes? Yes. Are some women awesome people? Yes. Same goes for men. MGTOW is just like these radical feminist nut jobs. Both are generalizing against an entire gender. Generalization is so rampant these days. Political parties. Genders. Us or them. Etc. OP has a valid post. He is discussing a serious men’s rights issue. Let’s keep it on topic.
/r/MensRights11/07/20 12:30 AM
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I may have differing views than you on identity but I can still say, hang in there brother. It’s a trick of the brain, trying to make you think you shouldn’t be comfortable in your own skin. The base brain has a lot of old and weird wiring. Depression is meant to keep us safe and survive, for example, but it manifests in weird ways because parts of our brains have not updated to live in modern society. Our ancient ancestors dealt with some pretty harsh shit over thousands of years and YOU’RE a p…
/r/MensRights10/07/20 02:27 PM
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Did you really write this? You should publish it in a short story issue, and/or start a blog. Many successful authors got noticed because their short stories become famous. I think you’d have a serious shot at some of the big short story publications in the US. Also protect your work legally because this was a fucking fantastic read dude. Amazing job and very relatable in this age of dopamine at our fingertips.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/20 03:20 PM
2

Take a broader approach and apply the spirit to any distraction. Internet, video games, fapping. All of them.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/20 03:19 PM
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Brother, you’ve drawn conclusions from a tiny sample (cheaters who visit a cheater subreddit) and blown them up to apply to all women. This is not how AWALT or abundance works. Villainizing women because you read a cheating sub is just gonna dig you deeper into a hole of hate my man. It’s ok to be monogamous, it’s ok to not spin plates. To each man his own. Abundance mentality does not require these things.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 07:36 PM
1

This isn’t men’s rights. It’s r/pussypass Terribly sad case, but not really part of men’s rights issues
/r/MensRights03/07/20 05:12 PM
2

believeallwomen
/r/MensRights03/07/20 01:17 PM
12

Nice work detective! Here’s a gold star.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/20 01:02 PM
29

It reads like a 19 year old wanted to feel really cool and validated by internet strangers
/r/TheRedPill02/07/20 05:42 AM
24

She must know contractually she has zero recourse. The thing is, she's managed to paint herself victim in the court of public opinion. So yeah, Pornhub may actually remove the videos. They do quite a bit to try and maintain their image.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 03:37 AM
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The flaw with this retard's logic is you shouldn't make a judgment call period. Let it go through the courts, let the evidence come out, let this shit get handled proper. You DON'T have to immediately do a god damn thing, especially not play judge or jury, especially when it can ruin someones life.
/r/MensRights28/06/20 12:12 AM
2

Holy shit
/r/MensRights25/06/20 04:43 PM
21

There’s a ton of world class athletes that lift during fasting. GSP in fact says he prefers to lift on an empty stomach now. You can fuel up later or after a big workout. Time your meals after your workouts and eat only then. You’ll cut the fat and won’t sacrifice muscle, and you’ll feel more alert and regulated mood wise. Fasting really has changed my shit up for the better. Haven’t ever had a 2pm dip during the work week once I started. Those were the absolute worst to get through before
/r/TheRedPill25/06/20 04:39 PM
2

This is a fucking sick write up. I want to save it I case anything happens to the post. Is there a simple way to save something like this and preserve the formatting, or should I just copy paste to word doc? Awesome info by the way. Listing all the food, but also giving sources. This is legit better than 95% of dietary articles I read.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/20 04:36 PM
2

Well said brother and thank you for the reminder.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/20 01:20 AM
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I’m getting to that point with reddit. The niche subs I browse are great. The front page is toxic as fuck
/r/TheRedPill22/06/20 01:20 AM
1

Disagree. There are both women and men out there who are naturals and attract orbiters of the opposite sex. There are also men and women who both have to work hard to maintain opposite sex attention. There’s a lot of generalizing going on in here.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/20 10:16 PM
52

Key word, self-respecting
/r/MensRights21/06/20 03:35 AM
0

r/pussypass
/r/MensRights19/06/20 01:18 PM
21

That’s sad. Parents are falling for this idea that only female kids struggle. Male kids need just as much guidance.
/r/MensRights14/06/20 08:00 PM
5

I felt as you did in my 20s but in my 30s now I’m more stuck on the purpose of life altogether. When you reach your goals for material goods, then what is the purpose of life? More interestingly, why do some of us like myself get bogged down by not having a life purpose and mission, while others can just be content to simply make money and live?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/20 07:29 PM
14

Systematic racism...... are you referring to the fact that blacks and latinos get accepted to med school with 3.4 GPA while whites and esp Asians need a 4.0? Or are you referring to bonus opportunities that non-whites receive in hiring I.e. affirmative action? “Systemic racism” has been 99% eradicated and now the pendulum has swung so far to the other side its insane.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/20 07:27 PM
13

Law of attraction can help you get out of poverty and into wealth and a mindset of abundance. Mission though, that’s another beast. A harder one. Mission is not like a goal that has an end date or a finish state. Mission is something that you identify with to commit your life to. A calling or passion that is your reason for being. Do we discover it or choose it? Do we all need a mission? What’s the point of life if we’re all just supposed to self-select our missions arbitrarily? Are we just supp…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/20 07:20 PM
3

Hey brother, Good post and write up. I’ve been in this situation before. It’s tough. First off, you didn’t do anything wrong because you didn’t lead NB on. It’s normal to feel guilty. You don’t have to. But you have a conscious so it’s normal. These things happen. Some people throw it all on the line for people they like. I love and respect women that do that. It takes courage to put your heart on your sleeve. Could you have NOT banged DB to spare NB’s feelings? Sure. But you are under no obliga…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/20 11:39 PM
3

Agreed. People like what they like. Who cares what is attractive or what isn't. Now when it comes to something like pussy pass? That's ridiculous. Casey Anthony shit where they don't convict a pretty young girl. Fucking retarded. But I couldn't give a fuck if some feminists write a post about why Jason Momoa isn't hot. Nor would I give a shit if a guy writes a post about how some fat girl isn't hot. Who cares.
/r/MensRights11/06/20 11:02 PM
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Everything said in this post could apply to women though. Most humans base level of fat will be double digits. It’s still true that both men AND women look more attractive with single digit body fat percentage. Brothers this isn’t a men’s rights issue.
/r/MensRights11/06/20 01:02 PM
5

Wow, what a retarded article with absurd claims. The comment section truly can be cancer, with retards like this running wild. Stop spreading misinformation.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/20 01:00 PM
1

Re mental state, you’re right to let it back in. “What you resist, persists” Another quote I heard was “if you don’t love your problems you’re doing it wrong” Learn to appreciate anything life throws at you, the good and the bad. Truly is a big mind shift
/r/TheRedPill11/06/20 12:57 PM
2

Women, pray this doesn’t happen to your son.
/r/MensRights09/06/20 03:30 AM
7

For every one man that gets exonerated, 100 didn’t and still lost their jobs and life
/r/MensRights09/06/20 03:22 AM
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Good man. I respect the kid putting his shit on the line to post something like this
/r/MensRights08/06/20 08:45 PM
3

Is this true? That’s insane
/r/TheRedPill08/06/20 08:06 PM
32

Not true. He didn’t give in to the guy’s perspectives. He didn’t answer his questions on the frame given. A loaded question is one that hands you a frame you’re expected to answer in. Holding your own frame and giving answers in your frame is much harder than it seems.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/20 02:54 PM
31

This only applies if you are jacked and swole as fuck, then a bit of fat is less important because you're still a truck. For 90% of us, sub 10% bf would be considered a huge SMV boost.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/20 09:44 PM
1

Be clear that this all is a generality. Mental models are generalities. Red Pill is after all a choice to believe. We cannot empirically prove it’s true. I’ll get downvoted for saying this but. Many here will argue this is closest model to the truth. And that may be true but it still doesn’t represent the actual truth of life. Models can’t. 100% truth would mean no model. Models are dumb downed versions to help explain understand and make decisions TRP generalizes a fuck ton. A healthy adult man…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/20 12:19 PM
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Guy wrote a great post about appreciating his friends even though they have different beliefs and you responded with “yeah I love seeing old friends who are doing the same old shit, makes me feel superior”
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 06:42 PM
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generalization vs AWALT is a slippery slope. thinking that amber heard in any way/shape/form represents all women is not AWALT, its picking out a batshit crazy one and then using it to prove to yourself that what you read or believe is right.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/20 06:26 PM
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Men’s biological pattern is to kill anyone who encroaches on our territory, be that land or women we have conquered. Jealousy and rage are deep seated instincts. Just because something is biologically wired doesn’t mean you shouldn’t hold individuals accountable for their actions. You’re doing a disservice to yourself by harbouring hate toward women.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/20 04:11 PM
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You need to game her. I'm guessing you suck at it if you set your ego aside. You're not your own mental point of origin. You need abundance. You didn't respond to a single thing the guy wrote in detail, instead you just wrote up some boiler plate phrases that are essentially meaningless because we all know we could lift more, read more, game better, have stronger frame.
/r/askMRP30/04/20 04:26 PM
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u/duhhhh needs his own talk show or something. man is so well written and smart, knows the stats, and is sharp as fuck.
/r/MensRights28/04/20 04:01 PM
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Great work detailing this and bringing it to light. Ridiculous how everyone doesn’t see this as hypocritical.
/r/MensRights24/04/20 06:51 PM
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You know you’re a real badass when you write loooool
/r/TheRedPill23/04/20 10:27 PM
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Just find someone who shares your same views on kids, whatever they may be, and raise one together. As long as you give the kid love and a good upbringing, and as long as you’re clear with your women on intentions and expectations, then you’re ahead of 90% of the population and you’re doing good.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/20 09:06 PM
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I can’t tell if you’re trolling with that first sentence? That’s fucked up. Your kids are not your wife. You should love your kids unconditionally. That should come natural. Your consideration of giving love only if the kids are.... superior to you.... is fucking mental
/r/TheRedPill23/04/20 09:03 PM
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“Oh my god sandals!” 😂 Seems like a great dude
/r/MensRights23/04/20 04:04 PM
2

Well this just comes off like a boom advertisement
/r/MensRights23/04/20 01:57 PM
2

Don’t bother. Useless overly theoretical post with far too much text. The current top comment about frame is all you need to know.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/20 01:53 PM
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This is a post from a nut job. Why are we even giving it attention? Even hardcore feminists don’t buy this shit.
/r/MensRights22/04/20 10:56 PM
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“Is facts” Teacher is a retard for that alone
/r/MensRights20/04/20 07:45 PM
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As other posters have said, handicap principal doesn't apply to your time/attention. However this is still a great quote: The "Mode One" book I've been reading, by Alan Roger Currie, has been interesting. A point he makes is that women think of men who give away their Time and Attention like men think of women who give away their bodies; aka: a simp is to a woman what a slut is to a man, one to be held in contempt, of no value and no self respect. That's not a comparison you hear often and it's …
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 06:51 AM
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This is unreal. Thanks brother
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 05:54 AM
2

Great link
/r/askMRP04/04/20 01:02 AM
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Good post Body language is like 80% of communication. Tone is one of the ways your inner state is conveyed. The surest way to improve communication is improve your mindset and inner game. Then all the other pieces of body language you’re missing will naturally fall into place and convey your status / IDGAF attitude. Absolutely fake it till you make it, but don’t stop trying to make it!
/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 02:30 PM
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Thanks, I’m going to check out those links and let all this stuff settle in my head before responding any more.
/r/askMRP31/03/20 02:51 PM
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I’m envious of religious people for reasons outlined in your post. I almost wish I had faith in a god, I feel like it must give real depth to life for those who are deeply religious. As someone non religious, finding my mission is definitely my greatest struggle in life right now. Thanks for your comment.
/r/askMRP30/03/20 10:17 PM
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Thanks, this was a helpful read. Maybe I need to reframe the question in a way that addresses changing myself
/r/askMRP30/03/20 10:11 PM
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I’m interested what you mean by your last paragraph. Another commenter here said something similar. Do you mean, the very fact that I want it is what is preventing me from getting it? Thanks
/r/askMRP30/03/20 09:59 PM
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So with the duty sex part, I have messaged with other MRP mods that would disagree with you there. Can you elaborate why you think there’s never duty sex? And re frame. I absolutely agree mental point of origin is ground zero for frame. But it seems like you’re saying because I’m considering her viewpoint that automatically means I’m not in my mental point of origin. Is that what you’re communicating or am I misunderstanding it?
/r/askMRP30/03/20 09:50 PM
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Reeeeeeeeeee!
/r/askMRP30/03/20 09:30 PM
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I agree that men with frame hold to their narrative, thoughts, and ultimately their truth, above all else. I'll gladly lay my ego on the floor for advice from men who are smarter and wiser than myself which is why I posted here. I also won't hesitate to call out men who's posts are a power trip designed to scratch their own itch for feeling like a big shot instead of helping their fellow man.
/r/askMRP30/03/20 05:07 PM
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Thanks, this was worded very well. You can't get a woman's full devotion and submission unless you don't need it. This seems to be a recurring theme in a lot of areas in life. "The hungry don't get fed" as I've read it put elsewhere. It is tough because I don't feel I need her increased devotion and sexual enthusiasm - but I want it. So does the same thing apply to wanting? Do you let go of the wanting to get what you want, so to speak?
/r/askMRP30/03/20 04:56 PM
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Insults and put downs have their place. There is no substitute for calling out faggoty behaviour when someone is being a faggot. My comment was geared toward the guys who respond on these forums with only insults and little-to-no advice. Those guys are engaging in public ego masturbation, not advice-giving. You read enough of those comments and it makes you appreciate the good ones.
/r/askMRP30/03/20 03:01 PM
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You are like the bouncer in the club who thinks he’s hot shit because he’s a bouncer, but at the end of the day he’s still just a bouncer. Flair doesn’t make you smart. If the shit you say is useless; then it’s useless. Parrots get cookies too sometimes brother. Anyways, are you done jerking yourself off on your insults, revelling in your sweet sweet power for the entire sub to see? Maybe when you’re finished you can dole out advice or STFU. Because those are really the only two options you shou…
/r/askMRP30/03/20 02:53 PM
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See, that’s an elaboration that is actually slightly more fleshed out and helpful. It still reads of a man who thinks he’s hot shit because he must include insults. This is the trait of an insecure man. But there is a nugget of helpfulness nonetheless. Normally I would just take what is useful and go, but you seem particularly attached to your bigshot anonymous online persona I had to call you out on it. Your previous one line of “she isn’t attracted to you” was not true, not helpful, and just p…
/r/askMRP30/03/20 02:47 PM
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Lol. Shit like this gets so boring after a while. Man comes in looking for advice. Other man pulls some full metal jacket shit because, well, he feels cool doing it. Do you feel superior? It’s what you wanted from writing this right? Good for you brother. There’s a line between giving advice and being condescending and it’s obvious where you are on that line. I appreciate the intention but if you truly care about helping other men you must realize your delivery is brutal.
/r/askMRP30/03/20 01:34 PM
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Thanks, I think there’s truth to this. Also as a side note, I find comments like this underrated in here. I appreciate that you just gave your advice and kept to the point. About half the comments here are shitty one line boiler plate lines or posts that essentially boil down to 5 paragraph insults, all from men trying to get a power high from calling other men faggots because they are seeking advice. Posting here makes you appreciate the men who actually have substance to say and can say it wit…
/r/askMRP30/03/20 01:29 PM
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See this is why it’s hard to have frank discussions on this forum. Very often comments are just “you’re a pussy, faggot, homo, she isn’t into you, lift sidebar and you’re dogshit” Put some work in for Christ sakes. Did you even read the post? Sex on demand doesn’t happen unless there’s a baseline attraction or you’re a billionaire, even in the latter it’s not guaranteed. There certainly is attraction. This scenario wouldn’t exist without it. Any man who knows his woman knows there are times when…
/r/askMRP30/03/20 01:19 PM
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How am I adjusting based on her actions?
/r/askMRP30/03/20 01:12 PM
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Out of curiosity, why do you want to improve this ratio Sex is better when its enthusiastic compliance vs just compliance. I would wager most men get satisfaction knowing she is horny as fuck and excited, rather than just going through the motions. Don’t you? Are you then dependent on her emotions, validation and living in her frame? Just because you care that she enjoys your sex?
/r/askMRP30/03/20 06:20 AM
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Thanks, good recommendations.
/r/askMRP30/03/20 06:08 AM
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I’m having trouble understanding why this means I’m operating in her frame. Can’t a person take note of his woman’s enthusiasm and satisfaction, and want her to desire him, without it being a negative or frame deficient thing? Sure I can ignore her position. I can operate solely based on my whims and consider my view only. I can and do quite frequently operate unapologetically from my frame. Yet, I still like knowing she enjoys our sex. I still want to know she enjoys it. All else equal, isn’t i…
/r/askMRP30/03/20 06:07 AM
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Your post is well written and I think many dudes suffer from this. You might be getting laid frequently yet still suffer from this. There is lots of of information on here about “what not to do.” Don’t be needy. Dont be too available. Don’t be unattractive. It’s harder to know what you should do because it’s contextual to you. It sounds like you feel that she doesn’t feel excited or important to you. If you’re like me then you suck at communicating the ways she is valuable to you. She wants to b…
/r/askMRP29/03/20 10:25 PM
2

Why is it free, who’s paying for this?
/r/MensRights25/03/20 01:54 PM
2

Amazing ending to that story
/r/MensRights24/03/20 04:44 PM
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Pure gold repost. Probably the best breakdown of SMP I’ve ever read
/r/TheRedPill24/03/20 02:39 AM
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Stone is a bitch. I’d take whatever he says with a grain of salt. I’ve talked to a few people who were banned by him from MRP because they called him out on something. Essentially he got shit tested and became so emotionally triggered he banned them. Sounds like a real secure guy yeah? 😂 Lot of awesome sources of MRP/TRP content out there. Some of them with great blogs and video channels. Don’t waste your time with stone.
/r/askMRP24/03/20 02:05 AM
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Great post with solid examples and breakdown. Thanks for sharing this. There is some gold buried in this sub and these reposts are an awesome way to make sure everyone is seeing the good old stuff. Keep em coming!
/r/TheRedPill21/03/20 01:07 PM
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It’s Knight brother. White knight.
/r/MensRights17/03/20 12:38 PM
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A great and well written post. It’s hard to navigate these mindsets sometimes especially because they can confuse guys and appear mutually exclusive. For example, you need to want something to get it, but at the same time, the hungry don’t get fed. The latter statement is harder to absorb. It was a big turning point for me when I finally got it. You’re right about it being a lot of work too. Spinning plates nearly always means exiting your comfort zone and really growing as a person.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/20 05:29 AM
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Your 2nd paragraph is a fantastic answer.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/20 06:20 PM
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4-5 years or even 10 year for a significant profit..... It may take longer than you think for everything to go back to january levels The market is forward looking. Players are attempted to discount back to today, every day, a fair price which includes future paybacks. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion but I don't think you'll find any serious investor thinking that 5-10 years is the amount of time it will need to return to January levels. Christ, that's not even the timeline of the 2008…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/20 04:02 PM
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I know, isn’t it hilarious. Banks are loving it. People with 5-6 figure sitting on cash? Fuckin beautiful. Banks making income on that and paying virtually nothing in interest. Investing is so intimidating to people, unfortunately.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/20 12:48 AM
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Corona hasn’t knocked down shit I don’t know whether you’re trolling or just incredibly stupid
/r/TheRedPill15/03/20 08:49 PM
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Any discount broker or your own banks brokerage
/r/TheRedPill15/03/20 04:00 PM
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Paying off debt is almost always the better move over investing in a 401k or similar 401k is very different than holding a personal investment portfolio. Holding cash to maintain a cushion or emergency fund is fine. Having cash in excess of your cushion is useless and any smart person would be investing it.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/20 03:23 PM
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Huge companies. Think Microsoft, Disney, McDonalds. Generally, the bigger the company the safer the stock
/r/TheRedPill15/03/20 02:27 PM
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I also have to add to this, rich people invest. Be it in stocks, bonds, real estate, whatever. The amount of friends I have that simply hold cash is astonishing. Now is an incredible opportunity to buy some equities for cheap. Just plan to hold for 1-2 years minimum. Don’t bother daytrading shit. Corona has knocked prices so low and they will continue to tumble for a few weeks. Get some big blue chip stock for cheap, wait 1-2 years, then profit. It’s fine to hold some cash. But anything beyond a…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/20 12:49 PM
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You could say it about anything in life “all things come to an end” so I don’t find it a particularly helpful statement. It’s like saying, don’t get a dog because it will die in 15-20 years. Sad way to live. Instead, you could focus on 15-20 years of joy and companionship a dog brings, lessons it can teach, doors it can open and opportunities it can create, and the immense personal growth that happens over that time. That’s an article I’d want to read!
/r/TheRedPill13/03/20 05:54 PM
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Damn dog that shit is depressing
/r/TheRedPill13/03/20 04:26 PM
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I’d clarify that by saying logic is something humans suck at. Your average fool doesn’t consider that his outrage at women’s issues doesn’t match men’s. It’s emotional and lazy thinking that are the issues, not necessarily humans
/r/MensRights13/03/20 03:37 PM
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Thanks for sharing this. What a great experience that must have been to feel that
/r/ExRedPill11/03/20 05:51 PM
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Female pickiness and male thirst are yin and yang. One doesn't exist without the other. Evolutionary, females MUST be picky, males MUST be thirsty, if they are maximizing their sexual strategy. Tinder numbers are just embodiment of this. If biology worked out that females should be thirsty to propel the species forward there would be 9x more females on tinder than men. Blame is an odd word to use. These things are just the truth. There is no blame to biological truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 05:06 PM
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Yeah I disagree, I'm in the other camp. Looks really aren't that important for men aside from baseline hygiene. Some of my buddies are what women consider gorgeous, but they are so anti-confident that women's pussies actually shrivel up and die a bit when they open their mouths. Then there are a few dudes who I know, like one buddy in particular is fat as fuck but he owns his frame so hard he's dripping with confidence. This guy gets more pussy than anyone I've ever met. It's hard to imagine the…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/20 04:45 PM
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TL;DR The story of a guy with no abundance, no OI, presumably weak frame, who gets oneitis and it hurts his fee fees. Writing is decent though not a bad read
/r/TheRedPill10/03/20 06:44 PM
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It’s interesting, written well and better than half of the ridiculous 35 page long posts about irrelevant theory that have been littering the front of TRP lately
/r/TheRedPill10/03/20 06:48 AM
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Dudes underrated for sure, and I say that knowing how popular he is
/r/TheRedPill10/03/20 06:46 AM
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Yeah honestly. PC culture has moved so far that one of the biggest companies in the world can openly mock men. None of these idiots ever consider the reverse and how bad it would look.
/r/MensRights09/03/20 12:47 PM
2

Interesting link
/r/askMRP08/03/20 11:29 PM
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Though it’s easier from school and work, meeting other men is doable anywhere. If no other men care to hang out with you I’d wager you just aren’t “cool enough” (same applies for women). Think about it mate. If you met a dude at a club and you two vibed, dude cracked some jokes that were hilarious and he was good with women, you’d probably want to see him again or wingman with the guy. Be that guy.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/20 12:31 PM
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-1, nice, I see you used both your accounts to downvote
/r/TheRedPill07/03/20 01:13 PM
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Sounds like you’re responding to yourself from an alt account here brah Both you and commenter you replied to write essay-length posts in this sub despite having little to no proven success with women
/r/TheRedPill07/03/20 12:58 PM
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It's worse than that. Look at their correction wording: The original version said that 61% of male victims of domestic violence were victims of men; this was in fact the figure for male victims of domestic homicide. This has been corrected and the figure for female victims of the crime also included. For domestic violence as a whole, evidence suggests that where victims are male a significant number of perpetrators are female. They kept numbers that paint men in a bad light. However, where women…
/r/MensRights06/03/20 01:18 PM
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Did I miss the memo where we were all supposed to write essay-length posts that were utterly useless? OP is the same guy who threw another massive useless text block post up last week. Take a break and go outside mate.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/20 11:09 PM
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That’s not fair to say. You can’t disregard the value of an idea that someone is fleshing out because it begins as opinion. Many of the most valuable posts on this sub started as opinion pieces. They’ve been iterated upon and expanded over time to become core MRP ideas and philosophy. Advances in thinking here, as in any place, will start out controversial or opinion. In this particular case, many people see the value of OPs opinion. Hence the conversation and attention it’s drawn.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/20 06:20 PM
1

Just wanted to say, not only your post, but your replies to commentors in this thread - both are incredibly insightful. Wealth of knowledge in here from what you have written, to the replies many of which include hyperlinks, to your responses back. This whole thread is 10/10
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/20 04:55 PM
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It was more commentary that stems from how insane it is that people (myself included) in red pill subs go to such GREAT lengths to successfully co-exist with women while women merely get to go through life being whatever it is their hormones and our society shape them to be. Disagree. This is a generalization. Plenty women in life read more self-help and personal development than you do, work harder than you to keep in shape, and many probably spend more energy challenge the beliefs they grew up…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/20 04:09 PM
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I read through your convo and it seems you're missing the fact that this post is an opinion, and it isn't an attempt to generalize. But you are taking it as if it is. Blarg explained to you the value this dynamic and communication brings to him, and then you proceed to say "no it doesn't bring value". Many of us actually enjoy spending time with our wives, communicating, and not just cavemanning shit with little-to-no communication. To each their own. It's an opinion. Take it or leave it. You sh…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/20 04:06 PM
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You don’t. Next. STFU applies to you buddy. What kind of moron would advise to next your wife after a minor fight? This is MRP not TRP. So many of these fags around lately.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/20 02:20 PM
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Underrated comment
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/20 02:17 PM
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Learn to discern between shit test and comfort test. Shit test is passed with your response. Comfort test, however, you failed with your response. If these are comfort tests you need to change your approach. It’s actually proper to show her beta-ness and love, reassurance, in these cases. Read the fuckin sidebar you twat, and search this sub for comfort tests before you fail even more.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/20 02:17 PM
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Let’s recap You read OPs post and started arguing the right and wrong move, addressing it like it was a casual thing, no big deal mate, just have OI. Your comment would be great in TRP. It’s very relevant to plate spinning. It isn’t relevant here particularly because it is a husband and wife and long term relationship/marriage. This is a major boundary breaking behaviour that must be met with full on confrontation. Consider rereading MMSLP and MAP, and releasing sidebar links in MRP as well.
/r/askMRP05/03/20 02:44 AM
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If your wife starts making out with another guy, do you think most guys are stopping to think “hey, I should be outcome independent! I should just be happy no matter what xDDDDD” Basic RP tips and advice are great. But this isn’t a scenario where they apply. This is a major relationship breakdown and your pointers on OI and mate guarding don’t mean fuck all. He can react however he instinctively chooses and there isn’t a right and wrong. All there is, is simply, what should be done about her beh…
/r/askMRP05/03/20 02:23 AM
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Yeah I think shit like this is where normal RP theory falls apart No one gives a fuck about mate guarding, OI, all that fuckery when your wife starts making out with another dude in front of you That is all bets off at that point. Any response where you’re acting congruent with your values is fine. Whether that be grabbing her by the hair and dragging her out, or just leaving by yourself. Doesn’t matter. Relationship is done. To look at that moment and try to talk proper RP theory is fucking stu…
/r/askMRP05/03/20 01:09 AM
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You asked her a legit question, she cried, you buckled at the mere sight of her emotions, and then comforted her, implying she was right and you did something wrong?? You have a fuck ton more to worry about than just your wife screwing your unborn child with cigarettes. Get her to stop ASAP. Confront her directly. Threaten to tell her friends and family. Then actually tell her parents if she continues. Shame her and embarrass her. It’s not ok to put the health of the kid at risk. You should beli…
/r/askMRP04/03/20 07:18 PM
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What’s with the science-jargon I’m seeing in posts lately? And why are so many posters writing paragraphs and paragraphs, of which so little is good practical advice? “If I had more time I would’ve written a shorter letter” - Mark Twain
/r/TheRedPill04/03/20 06:08 PM
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cannot imagine what role a woman would play in my life You’re imagination fucking sucks then, you dumb faggot. Think. Stop being a stupid pussy. You clearly feel you’re missing something. The vast majority of humans desire companionship. Get it on your terms. You come off like a little birch who feels so above companionship that you’re just ohhh so confused on whether it even exists! Edit: gonna leave that typo, because you ain’t an oak son
/r/askMRP04/03/20 05:51 PM
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Do what you need to do to financially protect yourself. Talk to lawyers or accountants if need be. This isn’t the legal/Financial advice sub. I agree 100% she should be tossed to the curb though. Don’t let the sex dissuade you, that was a cold as fuck move on her part to ram her tongue down another dudes throat. No matter how drunk you are, you’re aware you’re crossing a major line when you do shit like that.
/r/askMRP04/03/20 05:16 AM
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Scared to nut in her is low confidence? Uhh.... that’s fucking common sense my dude, unless you’re looking for a kid
/r/askMRP03/03/20 05:13 AM
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A more pressing question: can these hormones be absorbed only vaginally..... or are throat and anal valid delivery vehicles
/r/askMRP03/03/20 02:46 AM
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Because fuck half the population right? Imagine you changed the word “circumcision” to “mutilation” Then you changed “penis” to “vagina” The mods at r/sex would be fighting over who could upvote and comment more with their alt accounts
/r/MensRights02/03/20 08:23 PM
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It’s a complicated concept. It doesn’t mean not having a goal in mind, rather it means not caring if your goal is met and truly just having a good time. You’re still approaching with the intention to see if it works out and moves to sex. And you can still playfully lead it there if she is willing. But you don’t care if it gets there or not. You’re having a good time regardless of how the other person reacts. As soon as women pick up that you’re going to be mad or salty or disappointed if it does…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/20 02:02 PM
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Great post. I think this is a seriously underrated concept. “The hungry don’t get fed” as I’ve heard it put. When you go into that cold approach with a goal in mind, stressing over it - you’re not getting it. You’re not truly outcome independent. Your post details the correct attitude to have, and it matches up with being outcome independent too
/r/TheRedPill02/03/20 04:26 AM
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Well said Although good intentioned, this post reads like some ridiculous theoretical science paper from a guy with no practical experience
/r/TheRedPill02/03/20 04:14 AM
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Things ain’t looking good for you then brother. It’s easier said than done to take other commenters advice and just go about your life and business while not thinking of her whatsoever. It’s a 24 year marriage for Christ sakes. 24 year marriage means you WILL be thinking of this person while the marriage is still on. So it comes down to, 1) you address it directly, blow the lid off it and demand she stops, 2) do you actually trust she stops, should you monitor her phone or whereabouts to confirm…
/r/askMRP29/02/20 12:23 AM
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That’s a pretty big red flag if the wife is basically saying “gonna go out for some cock” The question is whether she is at all serious or whether it was 100% a tease and shit test. Because if it’s even 1% serious I’d address it different than a shit test. Shit test is simple AM or a&a or ignore. If she’s serious then that’s a problem. Is this behaviour out of the ordinary? Why not confront her directly about it? If it was me and there was a serious element to this then I’d address it directly. …
/r/askMRP28/02/20 09:33 PM
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Comfort tests fucked me up hard too. For YEARS I failed those. It’s still a struggle. First I would puke some gay shit out like aw baby I love you I love your personality your everything. She would be off put by it because it came off fake. Then in MAP anthol talks about a great way to handle the question that I use now. But also I’m gonna try the method you describe. Forehead kiss and silence. Then I will attempt to transition it into butt sex. Will report back brothers.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/20 08:31 PM
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I look forward to other people's answers in this who are more knowledgeable. Here are my 2c in the mean time. You can be self-serving and rationally egotistical without feeding your ego. IMO, the name is a bit misleading "rational egoism". Transcending your ego is key. You will always have that voice in your head that wants to whine, bitch, cry, be afraid, whatever. Recognizing it as the ego, accepting and loving that part of yourself by understanding that its biological and still trying to help…
/r/askMRP26/02/20 04:46 PM
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Lol. Still a good read though.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/20 03:45 PM
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What is "telling the truth" and what is "lying"? Let's say you meet a woman at a bar. You're an honest man, right? So do you tell her all your qualities both shitty and good alike? No. You make yourself look good. You make yourself look high value. You don't lead with the fact that you have anger issues or the fact that you pick your nose constantly like a faggot. On the flipside, do you think she's going to lead with "I make $30,000 a year and I have tons of student debt, I'm batshit crazy and …
/r/TheRedPill26/02/20 03:17 PM
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I didn't think you could top your previous post with stupidity but you have gone and done it again. I'm only gonna say it one more time brother: The OP is referring to intelligence and being quick-witted, sharp, savvy and smart. These are hugely important factors in getting laid for multiple reasons. You are referring to being nerdy and unattractive. No shit that type of personality is unattractive. In other news, water is wet.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/20 02:00 PM
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You fucking moron. You wrote this entire thing assuming OP was talking about being nerdy. Intelligence is among the top rated factors for women. That doesn’t mean nerdy or socially awkward. It means quick-witted, sharp, savvy and smart. Read a book you dolt
/r/TheRedPill26/02/20 01:27 PM
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I wouldn’t understate the importance of physical training by comparing it with intelligence. There’s a reason why #1 in the sidebar is LIFT. Get the fuck off your ass and in the gym. So many men see a massive improvement in quality of life nearly immediately when doing this. Not to mention it’s the most surefire and easy way to improve SMV. No one can deny intelligence is important. But I think you’re understating physical training’s importance.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/20 01:24 PM
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Niggas be lookin gay af smh Most of your comments read like a high school kid pumped up on adrenaline but this one takes the cake. On a serious note, STFU. No one wants to read any more of your bullshit sounding 16 year old garbage. This post is well written, enlightening and helpful. Great call for a repost especially when it’s a valuable one like this. Good reminder to the men here.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/20 03:25 PM
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Agreed. Some solid reposts lately. This one hits in the gut because it’s so relatable.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/20 03:19 PM
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Just based on what you write here it sounds like your wife has eyes for someone with higher value than you. Combined with the fact that you appear to be operating in her frame and you don’t appear to be secure or outcome independent, I’d say you have quite a bit of work to do. Also if you suspect something you may want to check the MRP sidebar links for the one about monitoring. If you go down this path use recorders/GPS tracking and see if you can catch her in a lie. If you can, as someone else…
/r/askMRP24/02/20 09:07 PM
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How did you realize that? Genuinely curious
/r/askMRP24/02/20 02:33 PM
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That's great advice. I've practiced meditation for a long time but never tried that particular method, will have to give it a shot.
/r/askMRP24/02/20 02:14 PM
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Good link re the Ego post. ‘Tis a good read
/r/askMRP21/02/20 11:55 PM
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I second what he said, this was a great podcast and your posts on here are also extremely helpful to us. And for every guy that says thanks there are 100 that are thankful but silent. So thanks, pops!
/r/TheRedPill21/02/20 03:37 PM
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Great post. On a side note, I love when the OP includes links in the body text that lead to other great posts. Makes the post informative on multiple levels.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/20 02:25 AM
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Double standards? No way, this is progressive!
/r/MensRights20/02/20 01:57 PM
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Thanks for posting this, have been in the same struggle as you recently
/r/askMRP20/02/20 01:51 PM
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Not sure why other posters are giving you shit 80/20 is not a bad ratio and it’s essentially important to have your own life outside of women That is the key point here no one is addressing. You must have your own life outside women
/r/TheRedPill14/02/20 06:33 PM
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Why the fuck is this in ask MRP?
/r/askMRP13/02/20 02:06 PM
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If you knew for a fact that your wife was fucking someone else, would your behaviour change? If you had videos or recordings of it, or lets say you paid a PI and he was able to give you this evidence, would your attitude change? If you KNEW she didn't give a flying FUCK about you, dead or alive, would your attitude change? Because those things are closer to reality than the fantasy world you are living in. I've been in your state before, and it is very easy to cling to the idea that this person …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/20 04:23 PM
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Well said. I personally am struggling with this issue. There is a rampant need for “perfection” that we men feel. Have to be perfect on this approach. This text has to be perfect. This date has to be perfect. Everything has to be perfect OR things are terrible. Giving your best shot is necessary, but the OR condition should still be happiness that you tried and most importantly: you took action. It’s worth it to first become aware, then work to eliminate, the black-and-white thinking that perfec…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/20 03:42 AM
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Re your height. I remember seeing a documentary about these two twin male dwarfs, both probably 2-3 feet. One of the guys went from zero to hero. Owned his own business. Sports car. Smoking hot tall blonde wife. There’s also some guy who vlogs and he’s in a wheelchair fully disabled from neck down, has a great relationship with an attractive woman who is his primary caregiver and wife. Something that often helps me is realizing that other people have succeeded facing the exact same problems that…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/20 04:02 PM
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Fair points. I should clarify that I don’t mean higher partner count is inherently better (although my wording may have insinuated that). I’m referring to the willingness and ability to enjoy sex. Sometimes these women have high partner counts sometimes they don’t. But this quality is a good one IMO as it shows a woman doesn’t have sexual hangups, insecurities or childhood trauma that prevents them from simply enjoying something they are designed to enjoy.
/r/MGTOW08/02/20 06:15 PM
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Men just don’t want anything serious to do with them OYS. This is about you. You believe it’s a bad thing or unpure in some way. Not all men. You. And you attempt to support this belief with a secondary belief that all men would also agree with you, which somehow adds justification in your mind. Plenty of men have no issue with, and in fact would prefer to choose, a woman who is sexually vivacious to be their wife rather than a prude with only a couple partners and no experience. Your beliefs ar…
/r/MGTOW08/02/20 03:32 PM
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It appears I may be in the minority thinking this, but I think it’s unfair to perceive a slutty women as bad. Humans enjoy the act of sex and attraction. Imagine you could fuck most girls you met on the street or the bar easily? Well, welcome to a woman’s life. Let’s not pretend we wouldn’t do it if it wasn’t easy for us too. And while we high five each other because it is admittedly far more difficult for men to get laid, it doesn’t make the act inherently bad or good. Don’t get me wrong. A dir…
/r/MGTOW08/02/20 01:49 PM
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Well said!
/r/MensRights08/02/20 01:00 PM
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Agreed. If the OP you responded to truly never has relationships longer than 6 months, then that sucks. There is a lot to be said for finding, investing and training the right woman and that can take years but the payoff can be awesome. Hypergamy can last a lifetime. It is not incompatible with monogamy although in the vast majority of cases, after the honeymoon hormones wear off, women will succumb to hypergamy if you are not truly a high value man. So I’d argue that guy does not actually have …
/r/TheRedPill08/02/20 12:49 PM
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Thanks for sharing this. Well said. There’s one spot we see things differently: the soy-boy inside / inner romantic. In my experience in relationships 5+ years this is roughly the point where comfort tests start to hit. These happen if you are sufficiently high value and/or if she’s feeling big dread I failed, and still so fail these almost all the time because I was so used to passing shit tests and handled them the usual way. Unlike shit test a comfort test is actually best passed by cracking …
/r/TheRedPill08/02/20 12:42 PM
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This is a great comment. A lot to be gleaned from family relationships, especially how the mother views the father. If the mom is a tyrant and dad is thirsty the wrong views can imprint on her and she may subconsciously resist/make it difficult for herself to accept and enter your frame.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/20 12:36 PM
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Thanks, this was a great read, A lot of what you wrote is relateable. We are similar in that we genuinely enjoy spending time together for extended periods and I actually like hanging out with my girl as well. It's been 8 years, you know if she has any red flags vs you being nervous about getting locked down. If she has any red flags - any - run. The problem is I'm in this really shitty state of confusion right now where I don't know if I trust my own judgement. She has given me very few red fla…
/r/askMRP07/02/20 02:48 PM
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I did. I was initially gung-ho on engagement and marriage, so I set that timeline and made it public among my and her family which in hindsight was a bad move. As the engagement date got nearer the concept of marriage started to scare the shit out of me more and more though and its rattling me more than I anticipated.
/r/askMRP07/02/20 12:58 PM
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Fair point. Thank you.
/r/askMRP07/02/20 12:55 PM
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Thanks, those are fair points. Have cut gaming almost completely and hitting the gym religiously for a while now. Knew about game and TRP for years but MRP I am new to, its definitely hard mode. One problem for me is I have a timeline on the engagement i.e. families know about the ring and there are expectations. I certainly agree working on my own shit and flaws is priority but there's not enough time to get my shit together before the 'do or die' point. Given that time crunch I am trying to de…
/r/askMRP07/02/20 12:51 PM
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Thanks, that’s a good list. Can you expand on low social media and girls nights out?
/r/askMRP07/02/20 12:40 PM
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Yup. Agreement or something like “oh I’m 100%, definitely not boyfriend material” with a shit eating grin would’ve been good responses
/r/TheRedPill07/02/20 12:57 AM
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This is the correct response OP did not use Amused Mastery right and his reaction made it look like he was offended Shit tests are not something to be offended by. Think of them as being biologically programmed and opportunities to arouse interest, because responding to them with AM always sets you apart from the pack.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/20 12:56 AM
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Great post. This is quality content and I love seeing stuff like this on this sub. Thanks for sharing. A side note: I wasn't even browsing this sub before the quarantine, I started to come out of curiosity after it happened, and it's been an interesting ride. Funny how their attempt to stifle the voice of men trying to help each other out has worked against them.
/r/MGTOW06/02/20 01:18 PM
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“Always believe her” Have you ever heard anything stupider in your life In my experience women are more predisposed to lying than men. And even if you don’t buy that, it’s at best 50/50 in which case you’d still be retarded to believe that
/r/MGTOW06/02/20 01:09 PM
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This is actually a really interesting perspective. Only two sentences that speak volumes and may not be far from the truth
/r/MGTOW06/02/20 04:06 AM
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Super interesting stuff thanks for writing this up. It's important to note we can't paint everyone with the same brush. A lot of men are shitheads and never make it anywhere near stage 6. And there certainly are some women that progress past stage 3. I'm sure many of us have examples of both in our lives. Nonetheless, my personal experiences align with the idea that women highly value what their friends and society thinks of them and their situation, whereas men tend to care significantly less a…
/r/MGTOW05/02/20 05:12 PM
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Well said. We often forget that no matter how “good” our ex partner was, statistically, there are likely thousands of people in your city right now that can do the exact same things even better
/r/MGTOW05/02/20 03:37 PM
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common sense always told me there are plenty of reasonable muslims and not just the extremists you read about. It is nice to finally see a post from one, lol. rock on my man
/r/PussyPassDenied16/05/17 01:13 PM
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far too many people don't realize this is the case. the last thing you want is for some nutjob with a knife or gun to step in. pack your pride away and just de-escalate. most people's views on this change when they start a family, and they realize wow maybe its not worth potentially dying just to look proud.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/05/17 01:04 PM
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they will be one tenth of what they'd be if the gender roles were reversed
/r/PussyPassDenied16/05/17 12:55 PM
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I want this to be true so badly
/r/PussyPassDenied16/05/17 12:45 PM
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imagine this was a male teacher with a similar type of discrimination against female kids
/r/MensRights18/04/17 07:31 PM
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