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| 1 | As a man it's better to be a "husband material" than having random short term encountersThere are always exceptions. You said "you will not get LTRs with high quality women without a commitment of marriage". That's an absolute statement to the negative. I can give other exceptions, some from family but Goldie is the most widely known. Not saying its the usual way of doing business but its becoming more common. Some successful women don't even want a man at all, let alone a live in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 01:10 AM |
| 3 | As a man it's better to be a "husband material" than having random short term encounterslots of quality women don't marry. Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russel for one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Women tend to downplay their dating advantageactually no i don’t want what most of what you said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 05:44 PM |
| 1 | [Q4M] If you don’t want women to have careers/work, what do you expect them to do to obtain money, resources, and meet their needs?was it? i did not know that. guess it crosses cultures | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 08:39 PM |
| 2 | [Q4M] If you don’t want women to have careers/work, what do you expect them to do to obtain money, resources, and meet their needs?i hear what you are saying he should look at her income as a positive gain. i am saying if he gains anything from her income. which i am saying often he is not allowed to use it as a gain. she has her money and his to. it’s not his view or wish that matters in some cases it’s hers. true some guys could really care less if a woman has money and do not value that, i am not speaking about those guys. personally i would prefer a financial equal as i said, but if she acts like whats yours is mine and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 08:29 PM |
| 0 | [Q4M] If you don’t want women to have careers/work, what do you expect them to do to obtain money, resources, and meet their needs?yep i agree with you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 08:18 PM |
| 1 | [Q4M] If you don’t want women to have careers/work, what do you expect them to do to obtain money, resources, and meet their needs?don’t marry or live in a common law marriage state. shack up or maintain separate living quarters. not saying it is for everyone or easy but can be done. your other option is about 40 percent chance of losing your house and half your savings.if the risk is worth it for you go for it and marry someone that is of lesser economic status than you. its worth it to lots of guys, maybe even most guys. i am not one of them. i am not anti women, anti working women or anti stay at home women either. i am … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 08:08 PM |
| 1 | [Q4M] If you don’t want women to have careers/work, what do you expect them to do to obtain money, resources, and meet their needs?there will be plenty of men. just not the kind of men the career woman will want. oh there will be some, but in short supply | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 08:03 PM |
| 1 | [Q4M] If you don’t want women to have careers/work, what do you expect them to do to obtain money, resources, and meet their needs?i think you are right you are becoming less of an outlier. Most new college enrollies are now women. The thing is as they become more successful as a group i do not believe they will as a group lower their standards of marrying someone with more income than themselves. I think this is going to result in more unmarried women and men than even currently. Many successful women now would rather raise a child by themselves than with a perceived lower value man than themselves. Men largely don’t have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 07:50 PM |
| 1 | [Q4M] If you don’t want women to have careers/work, what do you expect them to do to obtain money, resources, and meet their needs?generalizations are bad. the situation you take of tradcon men is not the case in all situations. i am not sure the internet view of tradcon ever existed. my sister is sorta in a traditional marriage, she doesn’t work and her husband provides the income. i think this is largely by her choice, i don’t think she wanted to work. partly to take care of their son who had some medical issues and partly because i think she doesn’t like the day in and day out grind. her husband has a phd in a technology… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 07:30 PM |
| 4 | [Q4M] If you don’t want women to have careers/work, what do you expect them to do to obtain money, resources, and meet their needs?shack up, provide and when she skates pay your 28 percent child support and be glad you kept the house. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 07:18 PM |
| 2 | [Q4M] If you don’t want women to have careers/work, what do you expect them to do to obtain money, resources, and meet their needs?you said it boss. Listen to the song Paying the Cost to be the Boss by BB King | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 07:13 PM |
| 2 | [Q4M] If you don’t want women to have careers/work, what do you expect them to do to obtain money, resources, and meet their needs?because in a lot of cases the mans assets are not doubled with marriage even to a financially equal partner. what’s mine is mine and what’s your is mine. Your money is my money. this may not be the case in your situation or all situations. but it is widespread. and a career woman may say at the beginning she will be an equal financial partner and then change her tune after getting a ring. if that’s your option available as man the value of a career woman is less. that’s the viewpoint of a lot of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 06:56 PM |
| 2 | [Q4M] If you don’t want women to have careers/work, what do you expect them to do to obtain money, resources, and meet their needs?it’s also materialistism. Americans have to have to much. A big house, 2 Suvs, a house full of furniture and knickknacks. Multiple computers and Tvs. The latest cell phone for everyone in the house. Then the kitchen equipment, multiple appaliances. Cable tv with 100+ channels. High speed internet. Lots of trips to restaurants. Trip to the beach or mountains every year. Then hobbies, golf or exercise activities. Not all cultures accumulate this much stuff. I did not have it growing up. Lots of me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Do men cheat more than women even now?well i think the trend has been people have gotten trashier over the last 20 years , both men and women. which is worse could be up to discussion and i bet data both ways. whether the trend continues could also be up to discussion, but i am not a optimist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 03:51 AM |
| 0 | Women control the entire relationship realm, men have no say in anything.your point is valid but marriage is not the only form of long term relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 08:04 PM |
| 4 | Women control the entire relationship realm, men have no say in anything.shitty anecdotes always count. they may be outliers but are data nonetheless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 07:58 PM |
| 0 | Women control the entire relationship realm, men have no say in anything.and 50 percent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Do men cheat more than women even now?people are trash. some are men, some women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Do men cheat more than women even now?that’s what i think i will say now when someone accuses me of anecdotal evidence. It’s a statistical study, sample size is one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 04:31 PM |
| – | Why do men see Hypergamy as a horrible evil that destroys the face of the planet?women now outnumber men in college. not all those men going to college are going to successfull. all the women are going to be going after a minority of successful men. going to be a lot of unhappy people of both sexes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 12:17 AM |
| – | Why do men see Hypergamy as a horrible evil that destroys the face of the planet?i agree with your statement except that it’s not evil to go for the jugular. no that shiate is evil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/21 11:58 PM |
| – | Why do men see Hypergamy as a horrible evil that destroys the face of the planet?can you define what is a mediocre man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/21 11:44 PM |
| 3 | Women focus on careers because a career is a good investment, a man generally isn'ti think this OP is about 30 years out of touch. How many women nowadays don’t work? also if you look at the current college enrollments i think it’s more women than men. i am single but all my friends wives have careers. i only know of one person near my age that is a stay at home wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 12:51 PM |
| 2 | Have women on OLD sites noticed men getting more or less "simpy" since pandemic?i don’t know if you are young or old and did not speculate on that. you said eharmony and match were for old guys. I am an old guy, have tried them and no better luck than bumble. I will say eharmony does a good job of policing the fake people. they still come in but get blocked. but other than that it’s no better for me than tinder, bumble, and a lot more expensive.i am swearing off OLD a while it’s not been beneficial to me. if they don’t stink for you perhaps you are not average | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 05:58 PM |
| 3 | Have women on OLD sites noticed men getting more or less "simpy" since pandemic?i am an old guy and the two sites you mentioned stink for the average guy as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Have women on OLD sites noticed men getting more or less "simpy" since pandemic?i think you are correct | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Why do men push the Older Man/Younger woman dynamic?true it’s anecdotal, however the post comment i was responding to said only gold diggers marry old men. that’s not true and i put up evidence to back my statement up. i prefer statistical evidence but if someone makes a absolute claim that does not jive with myanecdotal experience i wave the b.s. flag if the post had left it at the statistical evidence supports most women that marry older men are gold diggers i would have let it go. instead it was an absolute statement, and like most absolute st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 08:28 PM |
| -1 | Why do men push the Older Man/Younger woman dynamic?i have two friends that married younger. neither is rich. both are bald. both are in good shape. both are funny outgoing guys. one does have a good job and a masters but his wife has a phd. neither of the wifes are gold diggers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 01:12 PM |
| 1 | What I love about being a man in the dating worldyes i think he made a bad decision to marry her. but that’s past. he did not know she was an alcoholic, she hid that. there probably were signs. he did meet her at a bar and did not know her long enough before bringing her into his house to live. but like i said that’s past does no good to blame him for a past decision. i think he knows himself he probably made a mistake but is trying to make the best of it. She is a likable person, i like her as a person she volunteers to take care of animals. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 12:41 PM |
| 1 | What I love about being a man in the dating worldi am not sure that calling it being dumped in a nursing home is accurate. the traditional days are over. people have to work full time to support a living , this usually goes for women as well as men. There is no one able to take care of momma/grandma full time so she goes in assisted living facility or nursing home. It requires a lot to take care of an elderly person. I think more than a child. New borns require more but after that i think elderly. I have a friend who’s mom has bad dementia and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/21 07:10 PM |
| 1 | What I love about being a man in the dating worldyep i would say i am a little jaded for lots of reasons, not just about women. I am not sure living by yourself is a healthier way to live tho. Especially when you get old. Particularly talking about men, not sure single men usually take care of themselves. Maybe for women it’s different. Health care for the elderly is a real issue for either sex. I have seen several aunts and uncles go through the aging process, currently mom’s in assisted living she needs more care than I can manage. Tradition… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/21 06:29 PM |
| 1 | What I love about being a man in the dating worldYou are clearly jaded and probably not open to seeing the full picture. You have known some assholes perhaps but that does not mean all men are or all lack empathy. I have a friend who was divorced twice who did nothing wrong, probably both times for money. He is currently married to a supportive hot younger woman, he finally found a good one, she is good because she is supportive the hotness is extra. I think his last wife was good looking to but I think did him a favor by divorcing him. I have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/21 05:10 PM |
| 4 | What I love about being a man in the dating worldI suppose you don’t know of any women who hit midlife and started something on the side or flat out left. I know several. Or how about women that left a decent man who had a job but divorced him because he did not make enough money or had to work to much. Again I know of several. You mentioned several times men leaving women as they age to get better. I am sure you are aware women initiate most divorces. Men are not all angels but you seem to paint a very broad brush against men and have no tole… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/21 05:39 AM |
| 6 | Biology versus Cultural Conditioning. Female perception of Men showing Emotion and opening up and masculine Men.he did not dump his feelings. he disagreed and you took offense and you attacked him. much like if a man cries at the perceived wrong time he is subject to be mocked or attacked. i have seen it with my mom and dad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Women having toxic beauty standard is a result of their own high sexual disgust and seeing only top tier men as a qualified partner.for hook ups on tinder nope may not matter, like i said the top 20 percent get matches. outside of tinder meeting it can matter, yes people still do that, lots of people meet at work. for maintaining or keeping a relationship it absolutely matters unless you can find a woman that is willing to live with your parents, live off snap and essentially be single in government housing or one willing live in a trailer. and ya people do those things, but not any women i want. i have been turned down lots… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Women having toxic beauty standard is a result of their own high sexual disgust and seeing only top tier men as a qualified partner.ok i looked at the article and it says top 20 percent men get matches on OLD. I don’t doubt that. I still say however what kind of job a guy has is very important. More than likely if a guy has great looks and no job or prospects he is going to end up as a fuckbudy, FWB or something. My statement about the average looking broke guy is still valid. Its also still valid that its not right to say one sex has it harder than the other with OLD and that’s my main point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 05:15 PM |
| 4 | Women having toxic beauty standard is a result of their own high sexual disgust and seeing only top tier men as a qualified partner.To say its harder for either sex is incorrect. Everyone's situation is different. How about the average looking 20 year old men that have trouble getting dates because they are broke. Women are judged initially by their looks, men by their wallets. May not be fair but that is generally how it is. Sure not always but generally. After that communication skills blah blah and the rest of the qualifications. But the gate test is looks and wallet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 01:17 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Society should encourage men to marry youngmaybe, but they are getting something out of it because the majority will do the same thing again. you may be an optimist. I am not. i think society is headed down the toliet. maybe if enough of the quote high value men start marrying women from conservative countries it might wake USA women up but I am not hopeful of that either. I am doubting at this point that most guys want conservative women. At the top both sexes are currently getting what they want. Also when the most popular song of last… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/21 09:31 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Society should encourage men to marry youngI don't think the poor effects of casual sex are immediately felt. There is instant gratification and the negative effects take years. I am not advocating it but a lot of people enjoy it and that's a fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/21 05:22 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Society should encourage men to marry youngdrugs , alcohol fried foods and vaping aren’t good for you. How’s that working out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/21 01:24 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Society should encourage men to marry youngi hear what you are saying but do not expect it to happen. i think many people, both sexes enjoy casual sex to much. as drug use increases and is legalized or even more socially accepted it’s only going to get worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/21 11:36 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Society should encourage men to marry youngwon’t happen political suicide | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/21 11:31 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Society should encourage men to marry younghow do you propose for governments to strengthen marriage? people want divorces to be easier to get not harder. It would be political suicide for any political party to make it harder to get a divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/21 11:31 PM |
| 13 | CMV: Society should encourage men to marry youngonce women stop choosing to have casual sex. I don’t see that happening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/21 09:08 PM |
| 12 | CMV: Society should encourage men to marry youngthat ship has sailed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/21 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Women, describe a physically "universally attractive man" which encompasses what you feel is attractive and what the majority of women also find attractivei did say there are types that are considered more widely attractive. of course there are you can see it in fashion magazines or hollywood or news casters or now internet media broadcasters. i don’t know if you are a man or woman but don’t know where you get the information that women can’t be rude on the internet. i think there are plenty of rude women on the internet, of course men to. neither sex has a monopoly on rudeness . and as far as the whole white is considered more automatically attra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 10:09 PM |
| 14 | Women, describe a physically "universally attractive man" which encompasses what you feel is attractive and what the majority of women also find attractiveyours was a good post. i think the OP question is stupid. i personally know there is no way in hell i can become some kind of universally attractive man to women. i am not going to waste my time trying. that’s not to say i can’t improve some things, i would like to drop about 15 pounds and be more active. also i don’t think there is one universal type. there are a couple of types that are attractive to a wide audience of women, yet not all, and again i will never fit in either type. there’s brad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Two rational but opposing hypothesis about beautiful women.I think people encompass a spectrum and are more complicated than just two hypothesis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/21 06:18 PM |
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