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I came here to write something like what you expressed so well. Choosing to approach life in a loving way also requires boundaries. I think it gets misconstrued so much now that people think this makes an automatic doormat.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/14 11:23 PM
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I have also been realizing this for the last years. There's a controversial response to childlike femininity. People like it, and like being around it, but on the other hand it's sucked out of many of us the way we are raised. I remember that I wanted my older brother's approval so hard when I was growing up, and he used to mock my vulnerabilities so I acted tougher so he could be proud. It's a confusing thing to think about now, because changing for his approval was an act of femininity, but th…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/14 05:40 PM
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You seriously farfetched everything said to the point of fabrication. You bloopers intentionally misunderstand everything said here so you can feel above everyone else everyday. State of the art self righteousness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/14 03:59 AM
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For me invitation is the core of feminine initiation. Nothing is more effective than making it known that he is wanted and you're open and eager to receive him.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/14 06:53 PM
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I agree, my argument was that it is not shaming (you referred to your thoughts, not comments). Anyway. I think we all benefit from a positive frame of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/14 06:44 PM
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We judge people's character for their actions for a reason. Self image is another subject entirely, and I am glad you're overcoming your disorder. I was just saying that your inner reflections of her choices aren't actually shaming her. It also doesn't mean that you conclude she is all bad, but that her example may give you an idea of why you wouldn't choose her choices, because in your own paradigm those actions may be negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/14 06:21 PM
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I was rewatching this recently and had to smile at the fact that he was an actual captain, called captain and everything. I know it's idealistically romanticized, but I really appreciated that they unquestionally go, leaving everything behind, because of his firm decision. No begging to stay, no anything. Just true support of his leadership and values. Despite the real story and personality being so different, it has merit that she came into that family by her firm faith and sense of duty to the…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/14 05:51 PM
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It's not unreasonable, but does it really call for outrage? If you're that self righteous all the time it's no wonder you haven't reached that level of honesty for someone to feel free to admit their raw thougts to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/14 05:38 PM
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It was a simple question, and it really depends of context and tone. I don't know why you would be "outraged" that your SO would sincerely express his/her actual thoughts/fears about a sudden change like that. Jealousy is common and real, it's not a huge deal like you make it out to be, and I pity the hypothetical SO that walks on eggshells around you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/14 05:12 PM
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She didn't accuse him of actually cheating, she questioned his intentions, a perfectly rational thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/14 04:57 PM
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Your thoughts aren't actually shaming her. Sure you can try to be less judgemental for your own sake and it's rude to say it, but personal choices always have to do with personality and character. It boggles me how you police your thought process like you can't even trust your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/14 04:52 PM
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Calling natural reactions insecure seems to be the BP answer for everything
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/14 04:42 PM
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It's also because media tells people that measuring those things is shallow and all you need is love. It's interesting how we are raised purely on ideals and then struggle matching these with reality.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/14 06:19 PM
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Do you put a base coat of clear polish? I use a Sally Hansen diamond strength on the bottom of anything and it makes it last
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/14 06:14 PM
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Congratulations!
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/14 05:54 PM
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Well, I have seen here on RPW couples where the man is low libido, which is a sad situation that could happen, unfortunately. It's just not talked about as much because it's not the most common issue, but in my little time reading RPW I have seen it.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/14 05:52 PM
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What. I thought he was at least ten years older
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/14 06:48 PM
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Max Steel. I would often mate my Barbie dolls with Max Steel.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/14 04:51 AM
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No, you're right. The definition of it being semen was posted after the male tears meme was all over tumblr (thus turning the "joke" on the women that have male tears mugs. Clever.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/14 05:06 PM
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Why would you advice returnofkings though. I do read Roosh sometimes but there's no advice for us there. The Rules Revisited and Ian Ironwood are far more suitable for this case.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/14 04:02 AM
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I also fluctuate between these two, but most consistently INTJ.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/14 03:03 PM
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Ironically it's their lives' lack of difficulty and challenge that gives them the time and space to whine at such level...
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/14 06:36 AM
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Really. It's kind of funny that they would be all pro-muslims and upvoting hijabis at the same time, like that wasn't dissonant.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/14 09:24 PM
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You were totally reasonable, but it seems these people become a mob whenever the red pill is mentioned. I have no idea of what that sub is even about, they all seem totally neurotic.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/14 08:49 PM
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It seemed more like a general complaint about women being attracted to status, like a fat girl being bitter about men not wanting her for her great personality and mainly caring about looks. I also disagree with the golddigger in this story, but let's not be naive here.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/14 04:36 PM
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in theory women could think the same way You're sounding very blue pill
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/14 04:12 PM
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It sounds really shitty, but I agree with that. Note it doesn't say you won't find a partner at all or that he wants someone uneducated, it says it will make it harder for you, the woman, to become satisfied with your partner because you will think you can do better (and DESERVE better) and won't appreciate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 06:32 PM
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I agree about the dominance thing. If you're with a guy with a female best friend, it's like you have to get her approval because their bond is just stronger.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/14 06:06 PM
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I think it requires the three people involved to see it as reasonable for it to be a smooth thing. My friend, his girlfriend and I all honored the relationship in this case. If he had thought she was being silly, maybe it wouldn't have been worked out. Do you think Superman truly had only the best intentions of friendship and nothing more? Was she completely okay with you texting or hanging out with other girls? Because some people are like "I can do it because I know nothing is going on, and if…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 03:17 PM
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I meant it's common sense for the friendship to move towards this, if it's going to be a lasting one. You also seem to insist it's "allowing" someone, as if they had no say in this whatsoever. If you have a LTR that is going strong and you want to keep it that way, you don't want any chances of misunderstandings here, and intimate one-on-one friendships with the other sex will bring just that. I'm glad you see no problem, but it's not the case for everyone. Every happy long lasting marriage I pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 12:44 AM
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That friend has to befriend the couple, and hang out with the couple instead of the individual. It's not even redpill, it's common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 12:01 AM
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What does AFC mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/14 05:01 PM
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I swear I go from thread to thread just upvoting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/14 03:09 PM
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Wow, I'm reading about the sigma and it really describes a lot of him, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/14 02:23 AM
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You've shed a bit of light on the attraction I have for a guy, thanks. I'm crazy attracted but he doesn't show many assertive alpha traits, which left me wondering about where he is on the redpill spectrum. He definitely has outcome independence and shows no thirst whatsoever, and overall is more laid-back confident. He has shown vulnerability which hasn't detracted from his attractiveness. I wonder if alpha here is in the eyes of the beholder, or if he's more of a beta-leaning attractive guy. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/14 12:12 AM
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