legbreaker Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	We all know a couple with average looking and hot girl. They are everything for the right guy and tone. The same double entendre is also what gets you slapped in the face as a perv if you give off the wrong wibe.	/r/seduction	15/06/24 09:07 AM
2	Why do most guys not need to do any of this stuff to find relationships with women? It takes time and practice. First you have to accept who you are. What are your real interests and hobbies. Don’t say what you think you should like or what you think would make you happy. Just list the stuff that makes you happy today… even if it is super nerdy or boring. Then also have something you are aiming for in the future that is true and not just something you think people want to hear. You might just be the boring guy the OP is slandering. You might have very few or you might have many…	/r/seduction	14/05/22 02:55 AM
23	Why do most guys not need to do any of this stuff to find relationships with women? Sometimes that’s all it takes. Plenty of guys who just create their comfort zone and hook up with women who have similar values. That guy knows who he is and he knows what hobbies he likes. He is confident in his friendships and himself. He is not ashamed of any of his hobbies. He probably has a pretty good idea of what he was looking for in a wife and how his future should look like. That confidence and strong sense of direction is super sexy for women. It gives them confidence about commitment…	/r/seduction	13/05/22 08:12 PM
4	How To Be An Attractive Man thugs - or anyone that is at the top of some social pyramid will always pull some women… but not any girls. They pick from a pool of women that fall for that stuff. Often with some insecurities they want to overcome by having a strong man. See victim complex above. But that leads to the question… has anyone made a dating guide that revolves around the thug/power strategy?	/r/seduction	03/05/22 06:32 PM
2	How can an average female date an attractive male? Someone “out of my league”? Look rich. Look famous. Look popular. 2-3x hotter is a tall order. But men are attracted to status and confidence. And beautiful women is the classic way for men to show status. The other way is for men to elevate their status through a woman is her money or social network or confidence. Quick fixes: So if you want an attractive dude, find a younger poorer hot dude and you might be of value for him. (This is how most men get hotter women) Or find a socially awkward or new to town hot guy that wo…	/r/seduction	01/05/22 10:26 PM
3	Does every man have to go through a “hoe phase” in order to be confident and secure with themselves? The confidence will not come from fucking 100 girls. It’s more likely that you will fuck 100 ladies if you have good confidence. If you have low confidence and hit 100 ladies you will probably have some low confidence issues from that as well. Think that you did not please them, think that you could not date them, think that they did not think you were funny think they were ugly and are hurting your reputation think that you used them and feel guilty Low confidence just breeds more low confidenc…	/r/seduction	28/04/22 09:50 PM
8	Dominant and strong women? Women that appear Dominant and strong often just have a defensive attitude because of some insecurities. They focus on not having a failure or get used. So if you want to go for a relationship then these can be good targets as there will not be as many suitors compared to how hot they are and main thing you need to show is consistency and reliability. For hookup you need to make it her idea that this is not serious so that she is not on the defense about being used. Make jokes about how she can …	/r/seduction	26/04/22 01:40 PM
9	is it not possible to pick up women if i don't drink alcohol? I have had periods of not drinking. Those were my best hookup years. I have stopped drinking because of sport training earlier and now I am not drinking because of alcohol problems. People will offer you drinks. People will ask why you do not drink. 95% of people won’t care once they have asked and it can be a conversation starter. Partying can be just as fun. But sometimes you get bored earlier and don’t stay out all night like others. But that does not have to hurt hookup possibilities. Girls …	/r/seduction	26/04/22 12:57 PM
9	[FIELD REPORT] I pulled a pornstar in 15 minutes. The reality about pornstars is that there are way more of them than you think and most just last a year or two in the business. Most of them are average looking and have low self esteem. Not famous, not stars. Just remote sex workers. Just churn and burn of the pot industry. So I would not see picking up a “pornstar” as such a long shot.	/r/seduction	26/04/22 12:26 AM
3	People Having a Hard Time Accepting That You’re Higher Value Now? This! Dont try to get them envious, humiliate them or trumpet your own greatness. That’s serious simp. Just be awesome but be friendly and humble about it. And Don’t ever brag about girls, that’s huge douchebag move. Out of this sentence you mentioned: “listen bro, I got really fit since I wasn’t the person I wanted to be yet. If you guys don’t like the fact that I get girls now, that’s on you not me” I would only keep: “I got fit since I wasn’t the person I wanted to be yet.” Better yet I would…	/r/seduction	02/04/22 02:06 PM
5	How do you talk to women when you're not into Harry Potter, The Office, astrology, Marvel movies, anime, or video games, etc? Talk about why like these things. How they make you feel. Not the specifics or details. People relate to feelings.	/r/seduction	19/03/22 11:59 PM
1	How the hell do some people have such interesting dating lives or sex life? It’s all relative. You can have a very active sexlife as long as you just focus on chicks that are a bit less attractive or less confident than you.	/r/seduction	19/03/22 04:56 PM
1	How the hell do some people have such interesting dating lives or sex life? Don’t be afraid of mistakes or rejection. Don’t have too high standards, you don’t intend to marry so they don’t have to be 10s. Younger chicks and 6-7 is gold zone. Girls with less confidence than you will find you to be very hot. Be confident Don’t care too much about others, because you will break hearts and have drama. It might sound fun… and it can be for a period in your life… but the drama catches up with you	/r/seduction	19/03/22 04:50 PM
14	Camgirl wants to meet up She might have invited 20 other guys in private messages. She is in business. Asking you on a trip is a sale. She might like you as a person, but in the end this is her job. Do not make any mistake on that. This is just the same as other sales jobs: I like a lot of my customers in my work. Take them out to dinner. But I am not going to give them my product for free just because I like them.	/r/seduction	06/03/22 01:27 PM
8	Camgirl wants to meet up I would not mistake cam girls with online dating. It’s categorically different. Both can lead to you spending money and getting laid… But only One can lead to a serious relationship, finding girlfriend or wife… the other cannot. At best you can become a sugar daddy. There is nothing wrong with enjoying this trip as long as you know that she is there for the money. Good prostitutes can choose their clientele and decline people they don’t like. They try to have regulars they like as persons. Just …	/r/seduction	06/03/22 01:17 PM
3	Does being in your late 20s or early 30s really limit your dating prospects as a guy? Around 28-32 was my prime before I settled down. I was still young and active. I had way more confidence in who I was as a person. I had some money and could still hit on 20yo without being too much of a creep.	/r/seduction	21/02/22 01:56 PM
2	[deleted by user] This. The only girl who’s a validation you need long term is your wife. I would not introduce them. Why would you? It’s not like you are all going to become friends and hang out. I only see negatives coming out of this. She might have said it also just to be nice and friendly and not mean anything.	/r/seduction	14/02/22 05:14 PM
1	OLD feels impossible when you're unphotogenic What type of girl are you looking for? Does she have to be photogenic? But like others say… tall and fit makes everything easier. Many athletes get great girls for just those two things. They can be dead boring and ugly. Girls want people that are motivated and confident. Show that you are putting effort into your life. Girls generally avoid people without confidence and those that are lazy. Focus on your strengths and not your weaknesses. With confidence in your strengths nobody will really car…	/r/seduction	13/02/22 01:39 PM
1	Surprise bitch shield on a date, what would you have done? Yeah she is insecure towards the friend. She handled this poorly. No foul on your part. You could have suggested that you are terribly sorry to interrupt, that you have to be somewhere else in 30 minutes and you would love to get a few minutes with date girl in private to finish the date and that if two of them could meet up after that. But it was most likely a lost date. Insecure girl plus bitch shield girl is a terrible combo.	/r/seduction	28/01/22 11:59 PM
4	What is the difference between going on a date and going out with her as a friend? 1. Make sure you know what you are looking for in this yourself. Going out with a friend and going on a date can be exactly the same. Except you might do a few more gentle kino touches if it’s a date. Although I know plenty of people that are just naturally flirty and touchy with friends. Otherwise it can be exactly the same. Just make sure you know what you are looking for. Don’t go into a meetup and wait and see how it develops. Go in with intention. If it’s a group thing. Then it’s probably n…	/r/seduction	19/01/22 06:38 PM
11	How do you avoid the 'friendzone' when playing the long game? The only long game you should be playing is personal investment in yourself. Never long game investment in one lady.	/r/seduction	01/09/21 11:20 AM
1	how to build sexual tension with someone you've been with for a while? Very good points. When taken for granted things get slow. Good to build excitement by exciting her when you can’t act on it.	/r/seduction	03/08/21 05:31 PM
5	Fixing, or the importance of (or lack of) online presence You can definitely do either or; Create a quick strong online persona: People dont scroll too far back. You just need the most recent 10 posts to look good. When I broke up with a long term GF before I needed to refresh my social media. I did a spree of activity photos of myself with probably just 5 posts (me with friends, me partying/doing activities, me showing off my better side) I did some very posed ones, so bringing a camera, ask someone to take a photo, waiting till sunset to get good lig…	/r/seduction	28/06/21 01:21 PM
7	Women Want Men Who Are Superior To Them I think it varies. If the guy builds his status on money making and career. Then it can be a threat. Many men want high status women. But at the same time not a woman that makes him feel weak... not a direct competitor. She can be high status for beauty for social status for arts But if her career is more important than the guy’s... then that can threaten the guy. Because many guys build their self worth on their career and money making. If the dude gets his status from something else. Then he w…	/r/seduction	12/03/21 07:53 PM
5	Besides confidence, what qualities attract women? I agree. Where you start can be based on all kinds of bad luck and unfortunate circumstances like you mention. My comment was more on the question of what qualities attract women. And the answer being, not being a lazy wimp. You can be without money and without style and still be sexy if you are not a lazy wimp. As a general assumption. There are exceptions to everything.	/r/seduction	19/07/20 12:06 AM
8	Besides confidence, what qualities attract women? Sense of humor is not essential, although nice. You can be very entertaining without ever telling a joke. Just show your date interest. Main thing is not to worry about humor. Don't focus on how you are not funny. Focus on just having a good conversation, listening and being interested in the moment. Overthinking humor can make you afraid of conversations = stop being afraid, just talk and enjoy not worrying about trying to be funny.	/r/seduction	18/07/20 06:04 PM
2	Besides confidence, what qualities attract women? Yeah, what if you don't have money? Is it just game over for life? No of course not. You work harder, cut your spending and work towards having more money. You don't have to have money to be sexy, you just have to have a plan and actions that lead to having more. You can be dirt poor and still sexy if you have a plan and are working towards it.	/r/seduction	18/07/20 05:34 PM
8	Besides confidence, what qualities attract women? Yeah, sorry did not want to make it sound easy or that you should do all of them well. Main thing is just identify that you can change things with action. Don't set goals where the bar is too high or out of your control. You are already taking action by going to school, so that's awesome. That is definitely putting in hours to improve yourself. For anxiety, go to free group meetings like Co-dependency or some church. Set the goal just to show up. That is taking action. You don't have to love it …	/r/seduction	18/07/20 05:22 PM
17	Besides confidence, what qualities attract women? They can also be solved without any money!	/r/seduction	18/07/20 03:33 PM
11	Besides confidence, what qualities attract women? Exactly the opposite. I'm not telling small people to get tall. Stupid people to get smart or ugly people to get beautiful. Its just stop being lazy and do actions.	/r/seduction	18/07/20 03:24 PM
559	Besides confidence, what qualities attract women? Basically everything that is the result of not being lazy or afraid. No Money = you are lazy, work more Out of shape = you are lazy, work out more Dress poorly = you are lazy, google trends Don't stand up for yourself = you are lazy, fight back Don't talk to strangers = you are afraid, get out of your comfort zone Basically, don't be a lazy wimp. You can be small, stupid, poor, and ugly. But if you show the effort of being improving yourself through direct action... You are sexy	/r/seduction	18/07/20 01:22 PM
1	I just got out of a 6 year relationship... I´m one week out of a 6 year relationship myself, I ended it. Not looking to start anything serious for a long time. Do you guys think there is any reason to wait before I go see other women?	/r/seduction	24/04/12 11:33 PM