legendoflink3 Archive

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2	Girls walking away during approach? Talk to them as a group first. Get their interest and then isolate her. Infact if after talking to them and they like you. They will get the message and give you some alone time with her.	/r/seduction	08/07/14 04:31 PM
1	Sexual Vibe? I've experienced this. Im in my mid 20s and figured it out in my late teens. Mine works with eye contact. Apparently girls can see the "lust" in my eyes. It comes naturally when I drink. And funny enough it was my bid who told me I had a strange look in my eyes when we were looking at strippers. He said I should look at every girl like that and so it began. Also I've seen it work for other people wjo are simply just comfortable in their own skin and have no personal bubble.	/r/seduction	18/06/14 01:46 PM
2	Why are women all of the sudden interested in you if they see you with another girl Because being a pimp is real, and bitches love being hoes. But for real it's like this. If you see a guy fishing in a spot and its working and your spot isn't. You will try his spot when he's gone. Same with women. You have already been proven by another woman to be atrractive or fan, rich or good in the sac so other women notice and voila. The hotter the girl you are with the gotter the girls you will attract.	/r/seduction	18/06/14 01:42 PM
6	[FR] Persistent on the pull, lead to f-close Good hustle. Its always better to not go with the super drunk girl. Its like walking with dynamite. You don't know when it might explode.	/r/seduction	06/06/14 06:50 PM
1	She lost weight My concern is whether she is trying to get back at me. And if she is, how do I take the upper hand.	/r/seduction	21/05/14 05:52 PM
2	Hard Proof Excellent post.	/r/seduction	21/05/14 05:19 PM
1	Story of a number close If she's a really goody two shoe girl thid might be okay. Otherwise she will chew you up and dpit you out because you put her on a pedestal.	/r/seduction	15/05/14 08:01 PM
1	"She can know you want to bang her, but she can't know know you want to be her boyfriend" Ok first thing is that you must know she is attracted to you. And she must know you are too. You can't come across as someone who is immature or too nice. Don't qualify yourself to her as someone she would date. For example good job, education and all that. It gets them thinking that you are a keeper and they won't want to come across as slutty to you because they might want you as a bf. Basically the upfront bold alpha male asshole approach works here. I've been there. On one occasion I was str…	/r/seduction	13/05/14 04:48 PM
3	Does anyone here "suit up", if so how does it impact your game? I never suit up to go to a club specifically. But I have shown up after a formal event with my buds all suited up. It does wonders. First time I did that one of my buds dared me to walk up to a five set. I did with no help from him and had them qualifying themselves to me for about 15 minutes. It just made every thing easy. Girls kept asking where I was coming from or why I was looking so dapper. Got numbers easily that night.	/r/seduction	13/05/14 04:28 PM
3	John Cooper: How To Get In State This makes a lot of sense. I've done it and by the evening im in the zone and can do no wrong.	/r/seduction	09/05/14 06:42 PM
1	Went to club, stood on the dance floor drinking my beer when I was approached by a woman Did you not read anything. Dhe was making out with him and then complimenting him. And then he goes to kiss her and she trips out saying he thinks he can just get any girl he wants. If that isn't signs crazy then I dunno What is.	/r/seduction	08/05/14 08:19 PM
1	Why do women go out of their way to talk to you if they rejected you? Could be 1 of 2 things. She just sees you as a friend or you asked her out at a bad time and now she wants another shot but is too shy to ask. So she just hints at it and hopes you get it. She might be scared of being rejected by you. I suggest you get her alone and don't ask her out just see where her head is. Bring up the subject but don't make it seem as if you are pursuing her, just ask her whats going through her mind.	/r/seduction	08/05/14 02:08 PM
3	Went to club, stood on the dance floor drinking my beer when I was approached by a woman First things first. She was crazy, don't ever ask that girl for her number or give her yours. And normally I'd say sneak her into the house. But you don't want her knowing where you live. Prolly wasn't worth it.	/r/seduction	08/05/14 02:02 PM
2	I got shot down after 4 dates. Here's how it happened and how I reacted. Clearly the mistakes were made before the texting. You lost her interest somewhere.	/r/seduction	08/05/14 01:45 PM
3	What do I do when a girl buys me a drink Inarticulate. Are you saying that all black people can't speak properly?	/r/seduction	08/05/14 01:41 PM
1	Why are girls so afraid of players? I get this label all the time and I used to just give up interest and move along. Then I realized that she's telling me in attractive and so every girl that said that, i knew I could get. However it does work against me when she has been hurt before, more so if it was kinda recent. They play even harder to get. They are interested but get scared to get hurt again. So I became straight forward with my intentions and the ones I wanted to just bang I told em and even if it didn't gappen right away …	/r/seduction	29/04/14 03:49 PM
1	In a new relationship. My confidence SKYROCKETS. What causes this? I like to call this the when it rains it pours effect. As soon as I get one girl 2 more pop up and I end up choosing. Been like this since my late teens. Now that im seeing a girl. Lots of hot girls approach me. Even ones that had turned me down before.	/r/seduction	29/04/14 03:31 PM
2	How I dealt with being dumped Now thats a big bang theory	/r/seduction	29/04/14 03:16 PM
9	[FR?] Girl throws her number at me, barely talked to her? Just stay in the position of power. Let her chase but not too hard... time your moves and when its pointing tge right way. Stick it in.	/r/seduction	28/03/14 12:35 AM
2	Any PUAs out there in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia? Ayoooooooooooo	/r/seduction	28/03/14 12:32 AM
1	(FR) going to the club sober even when im drunk I don't try for girls who are too drunk. There's a limit. And when you are sober the girls who are too drunk cannot be communivated with. There are lots of girls who are sober too or just tipsy.	/r/seduction	27/03/14 11:49 AM
1	Why being nice sucks, and why you don't have to be an asshole Im a nice guy. I used to think assholes get the girls. But now I get the girls. Shit im even turning down girls too. Word of advice be nice because that will get you places. Just don't be a nice guy whore. Not every girl deserves to be treated nice. that doesn't mean be an ass. Just let them earn it and if they haven't earned it then treat them neutral much like you would a dude you didn't know.	/r/seduction	27/03/14 04:37 AM
1	(FR) going to the club sober Agreed it was good. I plan to do it more. I found myself having actual legit conversations. The awareness is worth it and I feel if I can do this more my skills will only increase and not just with trying to get women.	/r/seduction	26/03/14 11:42 PM
2	(FR) going to the club sober You guys make a good point. Some stuff was annoying. But it gave me reason to get out of there quicker with the hot girl The first time.	/r/seduction	26/03/14 05:39 PM
1	How do you guys deal with FB while dating multiple girls? Facebook can be evil. I had a girl I was seeing add me and another one who was an old fling knew about this girl started tagging me in pics saying hands off ladies he's mine and last night was fun lets do that again. And I knew the other girls saw it but I handled it. One thing I find works is to never use it as a source of communication with the girls im seeing. They can add me and all that but I respond with text messages if they want to chat that way they stop going on facebook to talk to me.…	/r/seduction	26/03/14 02:20 PM
1	Dancing, according to SCIENCE My friends and I love hitting the dance floor. Im a good dancer and ive used it to talk to many girls. Get compliments all the time. I consider myself a good looking fella but im no ryan gosling. But I've managed to dance with the hottest girls in the party even ones that were taller than me. While it works as good attraction you still need to have game to finish the close.	/r/seduction	26/03/14 02:10 PM
7	Do any of you guys use the "I can't resist you/I can't say no to you." method? I used it a lot. But only on specific girls. The kind I know are interested but are holding back. Funny though. Lately I notice its being used on me. This year has been quite the year so far.	/r/seduction	26/03/14 01:54 PM
1	Dealing with guilt No im sure she has one. Her friend told my bud. But in other news she just called me abd wants to meet up to "talk about it"...	/r/seduction	17/03/14 07:39 PM
1	Dealing with guilt Thanks.. one thing I didn't mention was the fact that she was trying to get us both drunk. So its obvious she wants to go through with it, but like you said if I got options there's no reason for me to try.. however if she offers me a seat I shall take it...	/r/seduction	17/03/14 07:17 PM
2	Did an approach on a beautiful girl at a bar, went from feeling alpha to feeling like a p*ssy. Help? You did good. Just remember to treat those pretty girls the same way you would treat the not so pretty ones. Its not an easy mindset to get into but practice gets the tip in and eventually all in.	/r/seduction	11/03/14 08:45 PM
1	Approaching older women? 3rd one I met online. She messaged me and almost immediately I let her kjow im not looking for anything serious. Turns out she wasn't either. After a few days of texting we go out one weekend dancing. (Note im a good dancer) and she was a sucker for that. Dropped her home and told her to kiss me. Tge next day she wanted to hang so I went over and banged her. We hooked up for a while until I found a gf. Months after when I broke up with gf we started hooking up again. I ran into her at that milf …	/r/seduction	11/03/14 07:42 PM
1	Approaching older women? The second one was a result of a night when I gould do no wrong. Me and a friend from work. New friend at the time. Decided to go clubbing. We went to a bar known for milfs but it sucked so we went to the club next to it. At this point my bud who was wing man was zombie drunk. I walk into this club straight to the dance floor. Saw a girl looking at my bud and said hi suggested they dance and left him dancing with her while I danced with her friend. Wasnt feeling the friend however. So I grabbed …	/r/seduction	11/03/14 07:31 PM
2	Approaching older women? When I was 21 I had a 29 yr old fwb. Banged a 30 year old a year after that. And 36 yr old fwb a few years later. With all of them I was very up front and its your lucky day because I will tell you how they happened. 29 yr old was in college. I was in line behind her for coffee. Great ass on her and she was in a open back shirt with tattoos on her back. Me and my bud were impressed but I wanted to see her face. So I made a comment about her tattoo and she stuttered with her response. This was pr…	/r/seduction	11/03/14 07:20 PM
2	St. Patrick's Day weekend celebrations are coming up - share your gaming tips for this occasion! Not much different from most pub game except more girls and ppl in general. But if ypu want to stir the pot where a color that stands out and make it stand out. Like all red or something. Easy peacocking convo starter.	/r/seduction	11/03/14 06:52 PM
3	[FR] Solo bar hopping has gone from nerve wracking to being lots of fun TIL all the dudes that talk to me at the bar that seem to be by themselves are likely in a similar situation as you. However they come across weird most of the time and I avoid them with my friends. Note to self to be a bit nicer next time.	/r/seduction	11/03/14 06:48 PM
3	How the fuck do I learn to dance? Ive been through all those things you mentioned while on the dancefloor. Then I started switching things up. 1. Don't do over the effort hardcore dancing. Moving your hips is enough to get a girl going. Infact 70% of the girls ive attracted on the dance floor tend to say they liked a man who can move hus hips. If you get in a circle. Pick on one of the ladies. Pull them un to dance, a willing participant ofcourse. It Takes the attention of you and if she isnt the one as long as you are fun and n…	/r/seduction	07/03/14 05:41 PM
2	How the fuck do I learn to dance? Im a great dancer but I never used to like dancing when I went out clubbing or anything. The moment I got over it and hit the dance floor. It worked wonders. The ladies love it. I always tell my friends who can't dance to learn to catch the beat. It doesn't come natural to everyone but if you can bob your head to the beat and be on beat you will figure it out in no time.	/r/seduction	07/03/14 05:12 PM
2	I ran "The Cube" on a 21 y.o. virgin. He said that he wanted a horse that was easy for beginners to ride. This is awesome. It worked on me and I already started trying it on coworkers to master it.	/r/seduction	05/03/14 06:05 PM
2	Can true charisma be learned? Ive been working on this. Ive always been funny but I was a shy quiet fellow growing up. Now any girl I talk to says im very confident and would never believe I was once shy. I haven't nailed it down fully as in its not always me. Some days if I get it right from the get go I can walk into a room and take it over. Other times I dont think about it and fail to show it. Things I've learned is to walk into a room happy and smiling. Announce yourself, say hi to everyone. Tell a funny joke here and t…	/r/seduction	05/03/14 05:32 PM
1	[FR] Pushing It, And How Going Sober Isn't Bad At All. Nice. Especially because im thinking of going to spain for some partying.	/r/seduction	05/03/14 01:36 PM
1	[FR] Pushing It, And How Going Sober Isn't Bad At All. Yeah man. Unless your in toronto or something. Some places might kick it a bit later. But 2am they shut em down.	/r/seduction	05/03/14 12:16 AM
1	Using hypnosis to be more free and indifferent around women I googled him. Thanks, this guys makes some inspirational videos. And you should have your own website eventually if you can hypnotize someone through video chatting.	/r/seduction	04/03/14 10:12 PM
1	An odd question, hopefully this is the best subreddit for it Then don't wait for people to gravitate to you. Initiate and decide for yourself who you want to add to your circle. Create your own conversations that will help you determine who you like. I generally will talk to everyone and hear what they have to say and how they say it.	/r/seduction	04/03/14 09:04 PM
2	Asked all the girls that I was interested in Ask all the girls you find even the slightest bit attractive and keep changing your approach until it gets better.	/r/seduction	04/03/14 08:47 PM
1	Using hypnosis to be more free and indifferent around women You should definitely log this experiment so others can see how it works. In the meantime I will try and apply this thinking and see how I fair.	/r/seduction	04/03/14 08:46 PM
2	[FR] Pushing It, And How Going Sober Isn't Bad At All. Say whaaaaat? Here in canada you can't get into a club unless you are 19. And clubs close at 2am. Plus im concerned about someone like myself potentially hooking up with a minor. You must be at an all ages event.	/r/seduction	04/03/14 08:31 PM
1	Using hypnosis to be more free and indifferent around women Sounds interesting. Though im one of those people who thinks he can't be hynotized. Either way I have friends with this mind set. We go out. They talk to girls they dont care about whether they get them or not and then they leave without asking for their number. A lot of women are super shy and won't pursue. Example of said friend. On vacation he had a girl that wanted him but he was so drunk he couldn't see it. We suggested he take her to the room and show her "something". He asked if we wanted…	/r/seduction	04/03/14 08:27 PM
1	[FR] Pushing It, And How Going Sober Isn't Bad At All. You are 17 in a club that gets busy around 1:30 am? Where is that?	/r/seduction	04/03/14 07:24 PM
1	What do you do when you get a girlfrien or something similar and exclusive? You don't have to stop doing What you have been doing to come across as attractive. Just stop closing. Also consider that she might like you because of the new improved you. So keep improving. Or go wingman mode like a bud of mine does. He just wings it. Gets numbers but never call. Just deletes them. Keep in mind you might end up getting girls who are hotter than your current. Thats a tricky situation. And given that you want to continue. You might find any easy excuse to dip on her. So be care…	/r/seduction	04/03/14 07:06 PM
1	What does it mean when a girl asks if her friend could come along? True. Its not a good situation. Very slim chance of it going your way. I suppose a counter would be to bring one of your friends as a wingman.	/r/seduction	26/02/14 08:53 PM
2	Do you guys ever sit there, after a night of going out, and wonder what the fuck did I do wrong? Ive been in your situstion before. Me and a friend met 2 girls one night while out and took them out the next night. My girl got wierd while my bud was doing fine. I didn't let it bother me. I walked away and danced with another girl who's number I got and met up with a couple weeks after. But even then after my girl had been wierd that night. She ended up being the one to chase me eventually. The key is like the 1st guy said have fun in all you do. Girks will chase the fun. If you look like you…	/r/seduction	26/02/14 08:50 PM
1	What does it mean when a girl asks if her friend could come along? If you met online it could be a precaution. Other wise she could just be unsure about you and just doesn't want you to think its a date date. Kinda friend zoning you. Or the rare case of her friend's opinion matters to her.	/r/seduction	26/02/14 08:31 PM
1	I think i've discovered a way to quantify one girl attraction to you (just theory...) Hahaha oh dear.	/r/seduction	24/02/14 10:18 PM
2	Seddit, I've been approaching for over two years and have yet to get laid. You sound like a very logical thinking kind of guy. Kinda like sheldon from big bang theory. Not nerdy but very attention detailed and logic driven. A side effect of that can be that you end up being oblivious of simple things. Also try and approach with friends doing it by yourself all the time won't help with feedback and you come off as less creepy. And not having your own place shouldn't stop you but if you live at home it can be harder with parents and all.	/r/seduction	24/02/14 08:54 PM
1	Social Circle Pickup vs Bar/Public Pickup I do think guys spend too much time at bars. Its always a sausage fest. Lol. It is easier in other social settings. But it can also easily start some gossip if people start talking about who banged who and so on.	/r/seduction	24/02/14 08:40 PM
1	I think i've discovered a way to quantify one girl attraction to you (just theory...) I agree with you. The more funny a girl thinks you are the more likely she will want to hang out with you. She thinks you are fun and girls just want to have fun.	/r/seduction	24/02/14 08:12 PM
13	Convential wisdom says don't approach in the gym; but are there exceptions? Just make light convo. Dont deliberately hit on the girls. say things that will spark work out convos. If she is interested you will know from there. Truth is sometimes half the girls at the gym are dressed up to show off. Ive seen girls saying the gym is a good place to meet guys.	/r/seduction	24/02/14 07:50 PM
1	FR "What Do You Do To Make Yourself Happy?" I almost avoided this post because I thought you were asking the question. But now I see its a brilliant question to ask. Especially with a group of girls. I once asked a group of girls after walking up and saying hello. "How do you ladies like to be approached in an everyday setting?" Heads turned and discussions began and I had no wingman. Crazy night.	/r/seduction	24/02/14 07:21 PM
2	[FR] "I'm too old for you" No problem, anytime. Im slacking at work too :o	/r/seduction	24/02/14 06:59 PM
1	[FR] "I'm too old for you" Considering they are a year or two older you gotta be careful. Girls usually like older guys because of maturity. Confidence will be your key. Approach with no fear. Dont pick on one in particular because you are unsure. Invite them both to hang out with you and a friend. From there one of them will have to fork up the number or some form of communication. Keep it short too, don't stick around and talk for too long let them know you got things to do. And remember don’t ask them suggest or tell t…	/r/seduction	24/02/14 06:52 PM
2	[FR] "I'm too old for you" Girls can be complicated at times. Lol almost all the time. And rarely bold. Chances are the one that seemed shy was the one that was interested. I've been in a similar situation where the talkative one was not the one interested. Her friend was but was too shy to speak.	/r/seduction	24/02/14 06:13 PM
1	How do you guys approach traditional "chivalry" on the first date? It is over played. But could depend on the girl. The last girl I went out with hadn't been taken to a nice restaurant ever. While sometimes just a quick bite can be good like ice cream while you walk.	/r/seduction	24/02/14 06:11 PM
1	How do you guys approach traditional "chivalry" on the first date? Its boring where I live too. I just find the most random things to do. The easy one is eating. You could be suprised by all the little places ypu can find in a small city. Just check your local trip advisor.	/r/seduction	24/02/14 03:39 PM
3	[FR] "I'm too old for you" Don't say too much about yourself. Just ask them all the questions. And never ask for the number. Demand it. Like hey give me your number and we will talk sometime. Also its very likely that out of the two older grocery store girls the one that wasn't the cutest was the one who's number you could have gotten. Never go for both at the same time. And gage to see which one is the one that wants you. One of them is just the others wing girl.	/r/seduction	24/02/14 05:51 AM
1	How do you guys approach traditional "chivalry" on the first date? I always take a girl to a few places qhen I date. Its a game where the more places you hang out the longer she thinks you have been together. equaling quicker panty access. Anyway with this its easy for me to pay for one thing and her the next thing.	/r/seduction	24/02/14 05:43 AM
1	Advice on opening via online dating? I find reading their profile and then mentioning an interesting thing about something they like to work. Otherwise for profiles with little description I send funny messages. Like, you are in trouble now "username". Thing is. You can say the perfect thing and get lucky but its all about presentation. If she doesn't like what she sees what you say can easily be ignored. So find a way to look like a fun, confident fella. Pics of you doing things help.	/r/seduction	24/02/14 05:35 AM
0	How can I move on from touching/kissing/cuddling to actually having sex? Girl almost kicked me in the head I remember those days. Ill give you some tips so you can give her the tip. Go slow, It takes time for girls to get turned on. Once you make it to touching her and you start working your way to the vaj. The anti slut defense will kick in. she will stop you. What you do next is important. Give her the cold shoulder. Don't seem mad or anything. But don't cuddle or keep making out with her. She will ask you whats wrong. And eventually she will want to get back to making out and shit. You will try ag…	/r/seduction	24/02/14 05:26 AM
2	Abundance mentality only with girls I'm not super into I can say I have been this way and im in the zone of changing it. I just try to be conscious about it when it happens. Its easy to naturally forget to stick to your game. So I started off with interactions like texting and talking online. Example: a hot 8.5 solid face nice bum. Met her online and she only responded because I was vulgar. Wasn't rude to her but I came across as I didn't care. She wanted to hang that same night. I was on a so so date. I finished the date and met up with her. That w…	/r/seduction	24/02/14 05:12 AM
1	What do you do if the girl you want to hook up with is drunk and you are sober? I've been in this situation. Once with a super hot petite university girl. She called me up late one night. I was working late and she said come over. She was lonely. We had went on dates prior but she seemed flaky and uninterested. Anyway I didn't know how drunk she was until I got there and she let me in, she wanted to cuddle. She could barely walk. Said the room was spinning. I got in bed with her, she made me take of my pants. No jeans in her bed. I was so tempted but she was drunk as hell a…	/r/seduction	31/01/14 10:02 PM
2	How the fuck are you supposed carry conversation over dinner? Here's the answer you are looking for. Appetizers. Food you can munch on but not sit there and focus on. Sushi for instants. Easy to chew and take breaks. Plus all the little pieces of meat. Things you can pick away at will keep your mouth free most of the time to talk.	/r/seduction	31/01/14 09:44 PM
1	Accidentally insulted a girl while meeting her You got this ricky. She's gonna try to prove you wrong now. Ask her what her brains like.	/r/seduction	20/01/14 07:16 PM
2	How do I make it clear I want to be friends with benefits and not a boyfriend? Say it from the get go. Dont be blunt about it. Say it in a respectable way. If you miss that chance you will end up looking like a player. Ive been there and im here again because after I banged her a few times I was like meh. Now i must be the asshole. Sigh...	/r/seduction	20/01/14 07:14 PM
2	[FR] First time approaching in public, not difficult at all! Be careful with that parent thing. Ballsy but girls are different people when they are around their parents. If ypu do though get your pals to record thst shit lol.	/r/seduction	20/01/14 06:39 PM
1	What are some ways a guy can be more playful? Any ways to immerse myself in a more playful mindset? The alcohol. If you don't drink. Find away to not give any fucks.	/r/seduction	20/01/14 06:12 PM