| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2352 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kid | Blue Pill Example | legion327 | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/16 09:18 PM |
| 647 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kid (Part 2) | Blue Pill Example | legion327 | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/16 09:26 PM |
| 113 | Lifting on a Budget of $0.00 - A Guide for the Complete Failure | Red Pill Theory | legion327 | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/16 06:45 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 0 | Again, the media misspelling rape when a female rapesThis is also the case in the state of Georgia in the US. Patriarchy, my ass. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 27/06/21 01:07 PM |
| 2 | How much time would a man get for doing this?Looking at your comment history, nearly every single thing you say on this platform is negative in one way or another. You’re the one who seems miserable and you seem to be projecting that on others in a failing impotent attempt to raise yourself by bringing others down. I’d recommend that you seek therapy to find more constructive ways to deal with these issues. Good luck to you. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/03/21 12:15 PM |
| 2 | A classic!Oh ok gotcha. Tone is hard to read via text and generally when people mention rp it’s in a negative context. I get it now. Thanks! | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/02/21 01:56 PM |
| 6 | A classic!Forgive a middle-aged guy but what does based mean? I thought it meant to be a positive person despite adversity but now I think I may be wrong given your comment’s apparent context. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/02/21 01:51 PM |
| 4 | Only men cheat? Betrayed husband makes sure she won't be able to twist things in court.I never said it was a scam. I think you misread my comment. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/11/20 06:28 AM |
| 7 | Only men cheat? Betrayed husband makes sure she won't be able to twist things in court.14% is a huge trend when you consider population growth which occurred concurrently over those same 20 years. Regardless, you and I can sit here all night and try to qualify the data as being objectively substantial or not substantial. Marriage rates have been on a steady decline for the last 100 years and are currently at an all-time low. That's a fact. Do stagnant wages and socio-economic problems contribute to that? Of course they do! Being married is expensive and times are WAY harder now th… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/11/20 06:11 AM |
| 7 | Only men cheat? Betrayed husband makes sure she won't be able to twist things in court.You're right it's not outdated. But the way that people meet and the social norms associated with dating and marriage are completely different now than they were 20 years ago. Which is why it's hard to take someone seriously when they say they've been with someone that long and try to dispense advice. I mean that is definitely awesome for them. No question. But it also means that they've spent a gigantic chunk of their life not having to worry about trying to figure out someone new. Doing that i… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/11/20 05:18 AM |
| 7 | Only men cheat? Betrayed husband makes sure she won't be able to twist things in court.Right or the person who says “just go to college and work part-time. That’s what I did and I paid for it no problem!” Shit ain’t like that no more. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/11/20 04:58 AM |
| 7 | Only men cheat? Betrayed husband makes sure she won't be able to twist things in court.Humans haven’t. Culture has. What is generally considered acceptable or normal is totally different. The internet age has radically altered the way people interact. How could anyone possibly think dating and marriage haven’t changed since then? I’ve been married 6 years myself but I’m not delusional. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/11/20 04:56 AM |
| -1 | Only men cheat? Betrayed husband makes sure she won't be able to twist things in court.See anyone who says “married 20-something years” I immediately discount. If you’ve been with someone that long then you started dating them in a totally different era. Getting married these days is a completely different prospect than getting married in the late 90s. Our society has changed drastically since then. It’s not even comparable. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/11/20 04:46 AM |
| 35 | 19 YO girl who made up false rape claims has charges raised to felony. Now faces up to 32 years compared to the original 6 months."Hep I got fucked by 3 black men!" "Breana, that's literally your damn job. Now shut up or you're spending another night in the drunk tank." "Yes officer.." | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/04/18 04:14 PM |
| 266 | 19 YO girl who made up false rape claims has charges raised to felony. Now faces up to 32 years compared to the original 6 months.Well I would love to say I'm surprised but sadly, I am not. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/04/18 02:46 PM |
| 2 | Judge Judy Gets ItThat shit genuinely irritates me. I only upvote/downvote based on the merit of an argument. I don't have to agree with the viewpoint to admit the argument has merit or contributes to the conversation. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/17 06:41 PM |
| 5 | Judge Judy Not Having ItIt's possible that the case itself isn't necessarily about determining custody but rather some other type of small claims related thing and the mention of custody was brought up in questioning. Judy often asks a lot of questions which aren't fully related to the matter at hand just to establish a kind of background on the individual. That said, I haven't seen the video this is from (nor found a link to it in the comments yet) so I don't know this to be true in this case. Regardless, fuck that gi… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/05/17 12:32 PM |
| 410 | Guys who go to the gym are pussiesI want a man to take care of me without having to respect him. We call that redneck feminism. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/04/17 06:18 PM |
| 25 | Guys who go to the gym are pussiesDo... do you know where you are? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/04/17 06:07 PM |
| 3 | Apparently Homelessness is only a Problem if you are a Woman.Is this in a major city? | /r/MensRights | 20/03/17 09:56 PM |
| 20 | Pokemon Go Get Laid100% agree. There's already a sub called pokemongofitness, which is a testament to how positive this is for all of us as a whole. Personally, this is the first pokemon game I've played as it was never the kind of thing that interested me when I was younger, though I know it was really popular then. However, the sheer number of benefits are too good to be ignored. The only downside I've seen so far is an increase in traffic accidents. I can't definitively say that the large number of accidents I … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/16 09:20 PM |
| 43 | Pokemon Go Get LaidNot to mention the 10+ miles we walked, dozens of local landmarks and historical sites we discovered, and the two new restaurants and an awesome local Australian bakery we found. Overall, a really great weekend with a good buddy that I haven't spent good quality time with in a long time. If you'd told me I'd get all that out of a stupid mobile game as recently as last week, I'd have laughed at you. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/16 08:47 PM |
| 174 | Pokemon Go Get LaidCan confirm. A buddy and I did this in the middle of the square in our downtown area on Saturday. Dropped lures on two side-by-side pokestops with a pokegym situated within range as well. It was just us there when we started. Within 20 minutes, over 40 people had shown up with about a 50/50 M/F ratio. We chatted up several of the women. The social engineering aspect of this game is amazing. We even found it incredibly easy to chat with them because the icebreaker is already there. You see them w… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/16 08:17 PM |
| 28 | Get a dog. Seriously.Or get a Labrador. They suit anyone's personality and are ridiculous easy to train to boot. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/16 02:33 AM |
| 3 | Alright. I'm a beta fuck. I'm here to atone for my sins and get some help.I appreciate that you have enough of a sense of humor and humility to take it in the spirit intended. That alone has you lightyears ahead of most we see here. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/16 02:09 AM |
| 8 | Alright. I'm a beta fuck. I'm here to atone for my sins and get some help.DING DING DING We have a winner! Sherry, what do we have for him? Well, Bob, we've got an all-expenses-paid trip to the lovely and wondrous Caribbean Island of Self-Respect! The weather is perfect this time of year to bask in the island's world-famous Pools of Manhood. You'll also visit the Island of Self-Respect's renowned 5-star Mexican restaurant, El Taco Rosado, where pink tacos are served fresh daily! Congratulations!! | /r/askTRP | 24/06/16 11:42 PM |
| 1 | An MRP experiment: Help me get leanWho the hell wakes up and does algebra? Kudos. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/06/16 12:16 PM |
| 7 | Disappointing Father's DaySeriously. This whole post and comments had me shaking my head. A bunch of the guys here serve or are vets, including myself. I dont mention it unless it's relevant. I sure as shit don't expect a pat on the head or 10% off. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/06/16 12:44 AM |
| 2 | LTR has friend who bullies her. Should I step in or let her handle it?This. It's all well and good for us to all think it'd be hilarious to roast a piggy but at the end of the day, your 9 years experience trumps anything we could say. Take it all into consideration but make your own decision. But if you DO do it... a detailed FR is absolutely required. We all like BBQ. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/16 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Best fashion style for 18-22yo males?I'd love to believe it did but I still see way too much of it to truly think that. Depends on the place you live too though I think. Every time I travel to Miami on business, I want to stab my eyes out. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/16 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on this research that's posted on the top of r/science?Feel free to do that, but if a woman wants empathy, I recommend she speak to her friends. That's what they're for. A woman has enough resources to hear her own thoughts reflected back at her. Her friends, her mother, The View, etc etc etc... I have no interest in making myself part of her echo chamber. In fact, part of the reason we are attractive to them is precisely because we are so different. If we put ourselves in their frame and show that we think the way they think, we neuter ourselves an… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/16 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Best fashion style for 18-22yo males?Right "button down" refers to buttons on the collar. "Button up" refers to a button front but none on the collar. I actually have probably only one actual button down and most of my shirts are button up. For whatever reason, I've always used the term "button down" to refer to all shirts with buttons on the front regardless of the collar. That said, my bad on the terminology. I also own zero short sleeve button up shirts. However, I know some guys will complain about getting overly hot. Personall… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/16 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Best fashion style for 18-22yo males?It's not a stick-measuring contest, gents. We're here to help each other. That said, I don't think it's fair to say "you're focusing on the wrong things." If we wanted to talk about lifting or nutrition or what have you then we'd be in a post about that topic. This post is about men's fashion. That is all. Whether you personally regard it to be more or less important than some other topic or men's issue discussed in TRP does not make it not worth having a posting about it at all. edit: grammar | /r/askTRP | 14/06/16 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Best fashion style for 18-22yo males?No, I am not trying to say that. I am saying that. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/16 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Best fashion style for 18-22yo males?I'm assuming you meant gold or silver, though. Correct. I'm talking about the oversized silver or gold watches, diamond/gold ear studs, gold/silver chains, etc. All of that shit is simply begging for attention. I personally wear no jewelry at all but I've seen my own father pull off a tasteful braided leather bracelet like the one you mention paired with a small medallion (a small faded/subdued Spanish doubloon - he's a sailor) on a thin leather cord around his neck. He's also in his late 50s so… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/16 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Best fashion style for 18-22yo males?So your point (outside of the obvious trolling) is "I lift, therefore I don't need to dress myself well." golfclap Well done. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/16 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on this research that's posted on the top of r/science?It is extremely difficult (nigh impossible) to practice empathy while also remaining uninvested. Empathy, by nature, means that you are putting yourself in someone else's shoes. To then remain uninvested after you've mentally put yourself in that place is not reasonable or rational and goes against evolution's tendancy to drive us to self-preservation. Personally, I don't have friendships with women at all. I can't have a friendship with one without my own biological imperative eventually raisin… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/16 06:39 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend phone call left confused?Not happening, my friend. "Harsh and hard to accept" is exactly what we do here. I'm sure if you went over to r/ relationshits that they'd tell you want to hear. We'll tell you what you NEED to hear. Take your pick, brother. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/16 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Best fashion style for 18-22yo males?No. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/16 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Best fashion style for 18-22yo males?It occured to me above that when I said "well-dressed" that it might be somewhat amorphous for some and that I may be taking my own knowledge for granted. TDSN had great guidelines here. Business casual is where it's at. I would also add the following: Jewelry is for women. Less is better. None is best. Wearing a flashy watch or earrings or rings is ridiculous. It says "LOOK AT ME" and makes you look desparate. Belt and shoes should be the same color. Brown/brown or black/black is the most commo… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/16 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Best fashion style for 18-22yo males?That's also quite true. This is exactly what I was getting at when I said "as long as it's not holey teal sweatpants from 1993 and a grey t-shirt with a tiger and a lion fighting on it." I'm saying do what is the most comforatable (thereby imparting confidence) as long as you are actually well-dressed. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/16 05:03 PM |
| 3 | Best fashion style for 18-22yo males?The thing I like best from internet searching is Rugged/Workwear/Super Americana What you like best is what you're going to be most comfortable in. What you're most comfortable in is what will most facilitate your advances in the rest of your life because confidence is key. That said, wear what you're comfortable in and grow the beard to go with it if you're comfortable with that too. I'm not saying you should ALWAYS do what is most comfortable (otherwise we'd all be up to our eyeballs in porn a… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/16 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Old but not too lateOops yeah sorry I missed "her parent's" in that sentence. My apologies. Well clearly that's not your domain, so no issue there. But yeah definitely take over the household stuff. It's clear that she is capable if she's capable of managing the real estate. Be sure that she understands that you're not questioning her capability and that she's done a fine job but that you feel that you should take over that responsibility. Avoid using "it is my turn to take on that responsibility." That suggests th… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/06/16 02:42 PM |
| 6 | Girlfriend phone call left confused?CCDoritos, it doesn't matter if you're 100% sure thats not true or not. The proper course of action is the same. (See RPShitlord's response above.) You'll either do it or you won't. It sounds like you don't want to hear it and are therefore looking for a 3rd option. There isn't a 3rd option that will give you the results you want. Take the advice or don't. Your choice and your responsibility. Next caller, please. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/16 02:30 PM |
| 1 | What can I do for my little 8 year old brother?Phyzis has the right of it. I have a 9 year old son. At this age, my primary goal is teaching him self-discipline and work ethic. We work before we play. Always. Also, if you ever tell him to do something and he replies "but I don't know how" immediately drop what you're doing and teach him. My boy is 9 and does his own laundry and can cook basic meals. Self-sufficiency is the heart of RP. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/16 02:30 AM |
| 3 | All this hysteria about false rape accusations is making me wanting to quit on women alltogetherI'm not sure if this is legal in the UK. Here in the US it varies from state to state so check your local laws. But if it IS legal, record the audio. On an iPhone, you can launch the "Voice Memos" app and start recording, then simply lock your phone. It will continue to record. Then just before you put it in her, ask "do you want my cock in you?" and wait for a yes. Now you have record of consent. The voice memos app and locked phone trick actually totally saved me in my 2nd divorce. Got a verba… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/16 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Old but not too lateI think this is a good approach. Understand that while TRP generally advocates taking over finances to indicate you're captaining the ship, the real application of that is somewhat complicated when finances are more complicated. If it's a typical financial situation of just paying the mortgage and bills, that's one thing, but when you get into more complicated things like 10 million in real estate, the game changes. Obviously, most guys here don't have quite that level of complication. That said… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/06/16 01:40 AM |
| 3 | caught wife cheating, it's over. how do I get over this as soon as possible?Yes, much. All that was years ago. If anything, know that while things are a bit nuts now, there is life on the other side and you will absolutely be happy again. Nothing is permanent, not even this. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/16 09:18 PM |
| 33 | I permanently deleted FacebookFacebook is cancer. That is all. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/16 04:06 PM |
| 7 | Girlfriend fuxked a whole frat house right before we metWhat you're describing is called "sunk cost fallacy." Read this | /r/askTRP | 13/06/16 03:51 PM |
| 7 | caught wife cheating, it's over. how do I get over this as soon as possible?This is what saved me when I was in your situation, OP. A dog is all the things a woman can truly never be to you. Loyal and unconditionally loving. Also, check my post history for gory details on my divorces (plural) and don't make the mistakes I made. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/16 02:07 PM |
| 4 | Girlfriend fuxked a whole frat house right before we metBased on other comments, you already caught feels for her and you seem unwilling to demote her to plate since you live together. (So she would obviously notice if you brought another girl home.) That said, your best bet is to find somewhere else to live or tell her to find somewhere else to live depending upon whose name is on the lease for your place. If you can't even look at her or talk to her, that's a sure indicator that you need to bail. I looked at your post history and found your post in… | /r/askTRP | 13/06/16 02:01 PM |
| 0 | How do I use instagram to improve my smv?You don't. That is all. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/16 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Why are American born Desi chicks so stuck up?I've noticed that Desi women, or at least, American Desi women, are incredibly rude and stuck up. FTFY | /r/askTRP | 10/06/16 05:48 PM |
| 5 | What do you guys eat everyday?Yeah I'd highly recommend you take that photo down. And move to another state. And change your name. And grow a 4-foot-long beard. The RP hate is strong. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/16 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Leadership...my focus.Yet you expect yours to be of consequence to others... So basically, you're the entire internet personified. Well done. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/06/16 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Concept of holding frame and sexual talk at dateDon't fuck a co-worker. Ever. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/16 05:46 PM |
| 4 | My wife killed the love birds I got her as a birthday presenthttps://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/4nanix/my_wife_killed_the_love_birds_i_got_her_as_a/d42bjqn | /r/askTRP | 09/06/16 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Strange CaseSo I'm gathering that while you are seeing other people say "wrap it and you'll be fine" or some variation of that, you're probably still looking for someone to actually point to the code in the matrix and identify this for you. So here it is. She's being honest because she truly is just looking for a fuck. No woman actually trying to LTR you would admit that. We say "all women are hypergamous" and that's true. But not all the time. They're fickle creatures ruled by fickle emotions. To simply as… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/16 07:57 PM |
| 0 | [FR] How I Used Two Dates in One Day to F-CloseClosing when you can't feel your dick is a waste of time and energy in my book. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/16 07:08 PM |
| 6 | Johnny Depp's now ex-wife Amber Heard was arrested for domestic violence in 2009I was mid-sip of coffee reading this and just made a little "urp" sound. Managed to contain the coffee but dammit man... | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/16 12:21 PM |
| 8 | [FR] She broke up with me twice and I'm still fucking her (or how TRP helped me keep the plate spinning and avoid oneitis)Your reading comprehension is poor. End of conversation. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/16 04:43 PM |
| 14 | [FR] She broke up with me twice and I'm still fucking her (or how TRP helped me keep the plate spinning and avoid oneitis)given the lazy ass that I am TRP has never been and never will be a good place to look for a "quick fix." Nothing of value is accomplished without effort. Be prepared to put in the necessary effort or move along, my friend. Edit: In addition, given your submitted post history and the comments on those posts, you're a feminist. Therefore, I doubt you're actually here to gain any real knowledge or insight. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/16 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Finally heard something anti-TRP that I must say stumped me . . .Same here. This is actually what sealed it for me when I gave up the pursuit of religion / spirituality. "The search for God is absurd?" "It is if everyone dies alone." The only God I serve now is myself. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/16 02:20 PM |
| 3 | Finally heard something anti-TRP that I must say stumped me . . .Roberta Sparrow drops RP knowledge | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/16 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Quickie: Best way to fake alpha body languageI read this string of comments aloud to the other guys in my office this morning. We were all howling laughing. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/06/16 02:09 PM |
| 1 | On learning to live with lessNo kidding? When I owned a boat, I had a marine grade AC unit that was ideal for cooling small spaces and it was small and portable (though technically a 2-man lift according to the warning labels I completely ignored). Might be worth checking out if you have the interest/curiosity, thought it sounds like your solution is working well enough. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/16 02:15 AM |
| 31 | Article about 60 year old Mel Gibson dating a 25 year old woman. Comments are full of shaming language & Red Pill GOLD!This. Can confirm from personal experience. Edit: .... that horse girls are crazy. Not that he's a smooth operator. Obviously... >.> | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/16 10:04 PM |
| 3 | On learning to live with lessWhat's your solution for A/C? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/16 09:48 PM |
| 113 | Article about 60 year old Mel Gibson dating a 25 year old woman. Comments are full of shaming language & Red Pill GOLD!Not to mention that besides being young and beautiful, she's talented. She's the most decorated American equestrian vaulter of all time. The last thing any of the women commenting vaulted was the couch when the pizza man rang the doorbell. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/16 06:15 PM |
| 4 | Alpha Compassion is compassion because it does not expect reward.My money can create more money (via interest, investments, etc.) with no requirement of my time. Neither my money nor my time can create more time. This makes time the more valuable commodity. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/16 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Status and SMV: Older guys, how does the social hierarchy work as you leave the school setting?This may get removed and you may be asked to take this question to the asktrp sub. For now though, I'd say that most of your socializing will be done at your workplace once you've settled into a career. Some workplaces are more clique-ish than others. So the hierarchy might be quite obvious or it may be a little more fluid or perhaps even barely existent. Regardless, simply being alpha and representing yourself well will not only get the attention of others but will also improve your ability to … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/16 10:14 AM |
| 5 | Alpha Compassion is compassion because it does not expect reward.Really great post. I've always felt that donating time is more of a sacrifice than donating money. You can always make more money but you have a very finite amount of time left. Choosing to donate some of it, particularly with no expectation of recognition, is the true sacrifice. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/16 09:57 AM |
| 46 | If you'e not escalating, you're wasting your precious timeLesson learned my friend. I think one thing that we don't always like to acknowledge here is that game is 10x harder than lifting, eating right, or anything else RP recommends. Of course, no one's going to really mention that too terribly much but at the heart of it even the most alpha dude out there is gonna stumble or flub a social interaction now and again. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/16 12:00 AM |
| 3 | New Design#FREETHEMANNIPPLE | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/16 09:56 PM |
| 11 | Do not underestimate the power of her friends and familyThis goes to whole other levels too. My ex-wife initially didn't want custody of our son. It was only after she went home to live with her mother that she got shamed by her mother into pursuing custody of our son. And of course she won because she has the V. Bottom line - I dont have my son based solely on her being pressured by family into taking him from me. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/16 07:20 PM |
| 3 | The Loserdom ParadoxTRP tends to lean toward the idea that the only limit that can be placed upon your development is yourself. I think that this particular self-limitation is the one that affects the most men in modern times. We are simply used to having everything happen quickly and don't know how to be patient because we are required to exercise patience so infrequently. I work in IT and see it all the time. A user double clicks on an icon and when it doesn't respond instantly, they click again. Pause. Again. Pa… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/16 06:45 PM |
| 22 | The Loserdom ParadoxWanting fast results in self-improvement is a result of a character foundation of looking for the path of least resistance It is also worth adding that we live in a society of instant gratification and have been conditioned to think that we can have everything we want right now. Want a pizza? You can order one online right now. Want to know what the capitol of Uruguay is? You can google it right now. Want a six-pack and double your current 1-rep max? That's going to take a fuckin' while, buddy. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/16 05:48 PM |
| 14 | New DesignThis looks classy as hell. Well done, gentlemen. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/16 04:37 PM |
| 4 | "Change"I see this all the time with my wife. Every six months or so, she initiates some kind of "big change." It might be something as simple as rearranging the kitchen (4 times in the last 2 years) or as significant as changing her whole diet. Regardless, she is a change addict. She needs that feeling of progression. When asked why that is, she has no explanation other than "I just needed a change." I simply find it mildly amusing. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/16 03:01 PM |
| 18 | How To Turn A Girl On (By Doing The Opposite)You're trying to generate traffic to your website so that you can make profit off of the insecurities of men. You sir, are scum, and what you're peddling is not welcome here. No one wants to pay $13 for your green happy hippo powder. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/16 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Getting your shit together when you've ruined your life with opiate addictionNobody here knew all this from birth. We've nearly all got wasted years in our lives. I don't say that to make less of what you went through but rather to tell you're in good company, brother. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/16 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Getting your shit together when you've ruined your life with opiate addictionFantastic post. Congrats on claiming your freedom, OP. It's well earned. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/16 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Went clubbing and failed twice.Small price to pay compared to the benefits in my book. To each his own though. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/16 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Went clubbing and failed twice.Get a dog. Go to a dog park. Dogs are the perfect hook. Also try the beach, public parks, library, the list goes on. But seriously get a dog. Edit: Once you've got the dog, check out places that will let you bring it inside too. Dog-friendly restaurants, PetSmart, etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/16 10:00 PM |
| 16 | Went clubbing and failed twice.Took the advice from two lesbians Jesus bloody Christ man... I should've gamed her from the beginning. Yep. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/16 09:53 PM |
| 4 | On addictionGoddamn that was well written. I tip my hat to you sir. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/16 09:48 PM |
| 7 | Went clubbing and failed twice.Girl #1 - Yes. If she's already grinding you, feigning disinterest isn't necessary. You're not trying to start a conversation in an elevator. If she's actively rubbing her body against yours, you're good to go ahead and amplify at that point. Girl #2 - So while I understand that it was a LGBTQ parade weekend, "Are you gay?" might not be your best opening line. You shot yourself in the foot from the get-go. Hence all the maybe laters that really just mean no. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/16 09:43 PM |
| 1 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kid (Part 2)That it does, my friend. That it does. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/16 09:35 PM |
| 4 | Upbringing makes the child - YOU have to make the manMy indifference might be what keeps the ship sailing. But I don't feel like that's sustainable. Because sooner or later, I am going to want something new. You're right, it is. Your indifference is part of why she's still working to please you on a daily basis. Honestly, brother, it sounds like the ship is sailing on exactly the right course and you're trying to over-steer. Just hold her steady. You're clearly intelligent if your writing is any indication and one thing I've noticed about intellig… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/16 09:27 PM |
| 1 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kid (Part 2)Agreed. However, I was at least fortunate that she was a firm believer in shaving. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/16 09:04 PM |
| 20 | March of the Freak ParadeNeo is The One. And he doesn't need true love because he swallowed the fucking Red Pill. Also Unfortunately for Nu Males, there are no prizes for beating yourself in the dick while apologizing. God I haven't laughed that hard in days. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/16 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Lifting on a Budget of $0.00 - A Guide for the Complete FailureExcellent information! Thank you sir. I tip my hat you, Doctor Advanced BioChemistry! (I liked that you edited to include the Remedial BioChemistry bit. Had me cracking up. Well done, my friend!) | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/16 10:22 PM |
| 2 | Lifting on a Budget of $0.00 - A Guide for the Complete Failure"Siri, what is the difference between lactose and sucrose sugars?" "The answer is about -3.97 grams." "... smartass bitch." | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/16 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Lifting on a Budget of $0.00 - A Guide for the Complete FailureBahaha! That's excellent. Thank you for having a sense of humor UrsusG. Others seem to be sadly lacking in that area. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/16 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Lifting on a Budget of $0.00 - A Guide for the Complete FailureI'd love to hear it! I look forward to you posting about it someday. I've been posting my own story recently but decided to take a break from it (it's pretty dark stuff) and post something a bit more light-hearted like this. A little tongue-in-cheek humor seemed like it would be a nice change of pace. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/16 08:45 PM |
| 12 | Lifting on a Budget of $0.00 - A Guide for the Complete FailureWhen I was a kid my dad had me hold my arms out to my sides with gallon jugs full of water. That's actually where I got the idea for this post. Though, it was admittedly for punishment for being a "smartmouthed little asshole," not to necessarily promote fitness. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/16 08:39 PM |
| 3 | Lifting on a Budget of $0.00 - A Guide for the Complete FailureThat's excellent! Congratulations! Your story captures the essence of what I wanted to convey. That anyone in any situation with any means can get fit. That's really awesome. Also, big kudos for going into the medical field. It's grueling work, I know. There aren't nearly enough of you guys out there. No one really thinks to appreciate doctors, nurses, MA's, etc. until they really need them. So thank you! | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/16 08:34 PM |
| 4 | Lifting on a Budget of $0.00 - A Guide for the Complete FailureAlso a great option for some people, particularly the city dwellers! I personally grew up in a VERY rural area. The closest town (and therefore park) was 15 miles from where we lived so this unfortunately wasn't much of an option for me as a teenager. Thankfully, they had lots of gym equipment in the Army after I joined! | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/16 07:56 PM |
| 6 | Lifting on a Budget of $0.00 - A Guide for the Complete FailureAbsolutely a great resource! However, their DIY stuff, while very cool, still mostly tends to make the assumption that you have the ability to get to a hardware store and that you have the money to buy supplies like cement mix, PVC pipes, etc. If you have money/transportation or you have those things around the house by chance, that's fantastic! However, this is for men who absolutely have no transportation, money, or job and is limited to basic household items that are extremely likely to be av… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/16 07:19 PM |
| 2 | On the subject of process. A revaluation of values.You know, I'd been looking for a new hobby to pick up. Now I get to find out if "how to make a fur coat out of cats" will trigger my employer's network monitoring software. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/16 01:58 PM |
| 1 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kid (Part 2)I may very well do that. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/16 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Megyn Kelly spills RP truths on Howard SternThe overall message of the post regarding not being clingy, etc. is fine. Personally, I consider TV to be the equivalent of a bag of Doritos for your mind. There's rarely any real value to it and whatever value there might be is covered in a layer of shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/16 05:07 PM |
| -1 | Megyn Kelly spills RP truths on Howard SternTRP is not the media. In fact, it's quite the opposite. Your logic is fallacious / nonexistent. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/16 04:54 PM |
| -2 | Megyn Kelly spills RP truths on Howard SternI'm seeing too much of this around here lately. Stop getting your examples of what RP is from media and television and politics. Unplug your television, take it outside, and fling it over a rainbow. Anyone you find on TV is saying/being something that's been processed through a filter a dozen times before you ever see it. If you want raw, real, homegrown examples of RP men, read the sidebar and look for posts by mods, vanguard, and endorsed members. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/16 04:29 PM |
| 9 | Love and the High Value Man TrapI got a few questions though: You didn't touch on the subject of multiple plates. I infer you do have them, since you can just walk away from someone if they aren't behaving properly. Be careful of that kind of thinking. You seem to imply that not having plates means that you can't walk away. This is false. Even if you're in a monogamous LTR or are only spinning one plate, ALWAYS be willing to walk away. Dread will never be effective if you're not willing to follow through. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/16 03:13 PM |
| 3 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kid (Part 2)Agreed. I also spent my teen years in a small town and it truly was completely unavoidable. This was particularly true when considering that teens have their hormones jacked up to 11 so any sense of loyalty often goes out the window when the scarlet haze of lust sets in like a morning fog. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/16 02:32 PM |
| 4 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kid (Part 2)My initial reaction to your comment is "Trust me. I'd love it if none of this was true." However, if that were the case, I wouldn't be the man I am now. I've since resolved not to live a life of regrets. If this is what it took to get me where I am now, then I'm glad of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/16 02:23 PM |
| 1 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kid (Part 2)I can only speak the truth. What anyone does with it is their own business. Not my responsibility. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/16 01:59 PM |
| 2 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kid (Part 2)"fuck like rabbits" is a quasi-common phrase. For instance: "Hey, Sean, you look tired." "Oh hey Ben. Yeah, I barely slept last night. My new roommate got a girlfriend and they've been fucking like rabbits." "Ah yeah I know how that is. Just tell them to shut the hell up or at least ask him to put a ball gag in her mouth." "Yeah..." yawn "I might do that." | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/16 01:54 PM |
| 11 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kid (Part 2)Pro level might be stretching it a bit but thank you. Honestly, I just read a lot. I always have from a young age. I've always felt that mastery of language is more likely to improve your opportunities in life than anything else. (Sounding smart is often more important than being smart in the corporate world.) The best way to master language is to read works by those who are already masters of language. Reading is lifting for your mind and is just as important as taking care of your body. I lift… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/16 12:41 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on listening to music when doing things like walking somewhere, shopping, working out etc? I am going to stop this habit.I lost it at tibetan throat singing | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/16 10:39 AM |
| 1 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kid (Part 2)Thank you sir. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/16 10:06 AM |
| 6 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kid (Part 2)As long as you're moving forward and growing, you're on the right path. The pace at which that happens is set by you and you're the only person you're accountable to for that. I wish you and your son well, my friend. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/16 03:13 AM |
| 8 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kid (Part 2)Investing in yourself is the only investment that has 100% guaranteed returns. Good luck with your father. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/16 02:38 AM |
| 9 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kid (Part 2)Tell you what, let's save that for Part 3. I'm not being coy or withholding. There's just a lot more to it and my reply would end up being the length of a whole post. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/16 02:30 AM |
| 17 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kid (Part 2)Wow. Well thank you for saying so! | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/16 02:27 AM |
| 1 | SovereigntyYou know, I just read it again and realized you may be right. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/16 02:23 AM |
| 20 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kid (Part 2)Damn, I should have had you write the TL;DR instead. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/16 01:44 AM |
| 26 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kid (Part 2)Being a gentleman is the problem, my young friend. Not the solution. I'm sorry about your father. That's a hard thing for a son to see. I've found, quite often, that women don't have the stomach to stick with a man through a hard time such as that. Particularly younger women who've never had to deal with anything difficult in their lives yet and simply don't know how. To answer your question, I don't fully trust anyone. And I won't be that vulnerable again. But that's not to say I don't take any… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/16 01:40 AM |
| 62 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kid (Part 2)In fact, you're correct. She later did. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/16 12:14 AM |
| 48 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kid (Part 2)I know what it's like. You feel like you just woke up and wonder how you've been asleep for so long. Keep reading and start lifting if you aren't already. I overlooked the lifting component of TRP for a long time. I can't overstate its importance. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/16 12:13 AM |
| 53 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kid (Part 2)Thank you. Fortunately, no I don't. We were only together for just shy of 3 years. Judge didn't feel alimony was necessary. Small blessing. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/16 11:55 PM |
| 2 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kid (Part 2)Thank you sir! | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/16 11:52 PM |
| 36 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kid (Part 2)Frankly, I don't. After that, it's hard to truly believe in anyone other than myself. Hell, it took a while before I was able to trust myself either. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/16 11:44 PM |
| 32 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kid (Part 2)shrug It's not something I've done much of until just recently. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/16 11:06 PM |
| 1 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kid (Part 2)Nor should you. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/16 10:51 PM |
| 107 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kid (Part 2)Whatever you do, don't think I'm special. This happens to some guy somewhere every fucking day. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/16 10:31 PM |
| 61 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kid (Part 2)I've never really tried to describe it before and have certainly never written this down until now. This is my first attempt, but I think you're right. There aren't really words. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/16 10:07 PM |
| 1 | SovereigntyQuite true. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/16 08:32 PM |
| 3 | SovereigntyTry to think back to that time and put yourself in OP's shoes. When you just got out of boot, you probably felt like you'd conquered the greatest challenge of your life so far... because you had. It was the hardest thing you'd done up till then because you were so young. I felt the same way when I got out of boot many years ago. The fact that he's young enough that he hasn't encountered anything harder yet doesn't lessen the significance of that accomplishment, particularly at this point in his … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/16 04:51 PM |
| 17 | are non closeted gays happier and less stressed out than straight men?This is grass is always greener thinking. I know this because I had a long conversation with two of my gay friends several years ago about this very thing. I was coming out of a breakup (this was pre-red pill) and whining and whinging on about how women are evil and blah blah and waxing philosophical about how they, as gay men, had it so much better since they were gay and never had to deal with women. The answer I received from both of them is that gay LTR's and marriages are often just as frau… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/16 02:18 PM |
| 1 | LTR only if marriageAgreed. I think the problem is a failure to view time as a resource which is just as valuable if not perhaps more valuable than money. If someone offered to sell a guy a 10-year-old used lawn mower for $2,000, he would walk away immediately laughing to himself. Yet that same guy will invest months in a LTR which is absolutely draining all his time. I tend to think of it like this: If I make $X per hour, and spending time with this person today will cost me Y hours, then is this interaction worth… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/05/16 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Simple but hard-to-swallow message for a RP life: Don't drink booze.Sorry just now saw your reply. I wholly advocate not getting married. Some guys swallow the pill too late after they're already married, kids, etc. so there's that to consider. But I'd never advocate getting married. Similarly, if you've never had a tendency to drink, then obviously don't start because why would you? There's nothing but downsides regarding health, smv, etc. However, if you were already a drinker before you swallowed the pill, I'd say try to scale it back to weekends only and the… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/16 10:39 AM |
| 3 | Shouldn't dread game work even more on mothers?OP, ignore my comment below. TFA's saying what I was trying to say with my bear metaphor. This is your answer. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/05/16 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Shouldn't dread game work even more on mothers?Yes. "Cash and prizes" = your kids, alimony, child support, house, cars, etc. Anything you've poured your time and energy into. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/05/16 06:18 PM |
| 3 | Shouldn't dread game work even more on mothers?I'd say this is a double-edged sword. They're not going to act any differently than an animal in the wild. If you threaten a female bear, she may back down and respond as you wish (not eating your face.) If you threaten a bear with cubs on the other hand, you may still get the same reaction of her backing down or she might just wreck your day like Leonardo DiCaprio in the The Revenant. Though in this case it wouldn't be your literal broken bleeding body but rather losing all your cash and prizes… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/05/16 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Straight from the Whoreses MouthCode Green! https://exposingfeminism.wordpress.com/shaming-tactics/ | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/16 03:08 PM |
| 1 | What is an archetype: King, warrior, lover, magician rebuttedOne of two things just happened. Either A.) I just read a TRP post or B.) I just played Dungeons and Dragons with an autistic kid. Still not sure which. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/16 03:00 PM |
| 4 | Straight from the Whoreses MouthYou make them feel bad for doing what they want to do but can't do right in their faces You make them feel bad for doing what they want to do but can't won't do right in their faces | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/16 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Just took the pill- Any books for the wife to read as well?Came here to say this. If she's the sociable type, she may find either of those subs more to her liking than a book. Depends on what format works for her personality type. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/05/16 01:55 AM |
| 13 | Simple but hard-to-swallow message for a RP life: Don't drink booze.Right, so no intelligent thoughtful discourse between men. We are here to simply regurgitate the sidebar ceaselessly or gtfo. Got it. Sounds like a plan. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/16 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Divorce Update: 3 Months In.This is the equivalent of "umadbro?" Trolls gonna troll. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/05/16 03:14 AM |
| 37 | Simple but hard-to-swallow message for a RP life: Don't drink booze.I think he's protesting exactly the right amount. If we don't entertain opinions other than the one initially presented then we turn this whole thing into an echo chamber. And fuck if we're going to make an echo chamber out of TRP then let's just hang it up and head over to twoxchromosomes. Dissenting opinions are what lead to growth. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/16 02:59 AM |
| -1 | Divorce Update: 3 Months In.Good man. Keep your chin up, brother. While I know there's a bit of a "same old shit as everyone else, what else is new?" tone to your post, try to remember that while your story may be common (I've got one similar myself) that doesn't make it any less important. Young RPers read this stuff. I saw a post on the main RP sub the other day by an 18 year old. These kids need our examples of what not to do so they can avoid our mistakes. That alone is a more than worthy reason to share, even if it do… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/05/16 02:17 AM |
| 5 | Vasalgel Donation PledgeCan confirm. Vasectomy produced no appreciable difference in my day-to-day other than sore balls for a couple weeks and a monumental as fuck sense of relief and security. Otherwise, I'm the same guy. Edit spelling | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/16 11:01 PM |
| 5 | Women over 30 of this generation ?I didn't. In retrospect, perhaps I should have just so that the option would be there if I ever chose to exercise it, but ultimately it's not a huge deal to me. I'm pretty "meh" about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/16 10:53 PM |
| 8 | Women over 30 of this generation ?Jesus seriously? Tell him you've got kids already. When I did mine I told him I already had a child and didn't want more and he just said ok and did it and I was in my 20's at the time. He didn't ask for any proof of my kid's existence at all. Though you might want to try a different place. Not the same one. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/16 10:23 PM |
| 3 | Women over 30 of this generation ?I've been following vasalgel's progress for a couple years now. You're right it's pretty amazing. I'm slightly skeptical (it seriously is like someone telling you they discovered the cure to cancer) but if it's all it's cracked up to be, I agree we're going to see monumental fundamental changes in western society. Edit: it occurs to me that I just compared children to cancer. While I did mean what I said, let's pretend I found a more eloquent way to say it, shall we? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/16 10:11 PM |
| 4 | Women over 30 of this generation ?If and when science ever develops something for men that is as inexpensive and effective as the pill contraceptive is for women, that number will come down drastically. This might sound silly but I truly and firmly believe that a viable and convenient male contraceptive is the only way to save our species as a whole. It's either that or we give NASA and other world space agencies the US military's budget until they develop starships, warp drive, and find us somewhere else to live. Obviously, the… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/16 09:11 PM |
| 33 | Women over 30 of this generation ?One thing to remember in this is that biological imperatives never change. While societal norms and trends might fluctuate over the decades, their DNA is hardcoded with their instinctual drive to procreate. Therefore, while These girls aren't a whole heap of fun to be around socially, especially at weddings is true, they're still going to be attempting to follow their instinctual drives. It will essentially be "there's no good men anymore, but I really want a baby." Meanwhile, men also have a si… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/16 04:36 PM |
| 2 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kidI hope so, it's damn fine advice for someone who this is happening to currently. Frankly, I wish I'd done it back then, but it is what it is now. Whole point of the post was to help young guys going through a similar situation so I hope they read what you wrote. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/16 03:23 PM |
| 1 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kidYou have to understand the context. This was all 9 years ago when she was 21 and young and stupid and thirsty. She's had a very long time to grow up since all this happened. She's actually a damn good mother now. I obviously would never entertain a LTR with her again due to trust issues, but she does do right by our son these days. She loves him more than anything and it's obvious by how she treats him and provides for him as best as she's able. She's actually got him in a private school because… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/16 02:24 PM |
| 1 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kidThat's high praise, brother. Thank you. Having done something similar, I can tell you that there is no sweeter revenge than success. 100% accurate and this is what I live by. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/16 01:44 PM |
| 1 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kidAgreed but at this point I'm fiscally successful. The amount I pay for child support doesn't reduce my own standard of living to any appreciable degree and it improves his standard of living tremendously because she's still working a near-minimum-wage job. Can confirm she does actually spend the child support on him, not on superfluous BS. If I don't miss the money and he gets shoes and clothes and food out of it, then why not? I'd buy him that crap anyway if he was here with me primarily instea… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/16 01:35 PM |
| 6 | Dealing with women's sexual pastsTo be honest, this might only be bothering you because of your age. All the girls you know are either virgins or, like the girl in your story, have only been with one guy. In another 5 years, you'll be lucky to find one who's had less than 5 partners. And quite frankly, it won't bother you that much anymore because it will be more normal to you. Regardless, a woman's sexual history should be of no interest to you. Being threatened by what some other guy has done with her puts that guy above you … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/16 10:35 AM |
| 16 | How do YOU deal with loneliness?Massively underrated comment. Thank you. Extremely helpful. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/16 06:35 AM |
| 3 | Foreigners Dating Women in South Korea: An Inside Perspective (Ask me anything!)Can confirm #2 in a big way. My son's mother is technically white but very dark-skinned (Cherokee heritage). When we were in Korea, she always got dirty looks for being with me, a lighter white man, despite us both being American. Once, when we were getting on the subway, a young Korean woman very deliberately knocked her down HARD by elbowing / body checking her. We missed the train as I was picking her up off the ground. SK folks are serious about their racism. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/16 09:32 PM |
| 2 | If you're weak, they'll leave you.Absolutely. I don't want to put anything in my body unless I'm 100% sure I know exactly what it is and how it affects me. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/16 09:12 PM |
| 2 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kid100% accurate. I'm sharing specifically so that the younger gents here who find themselves in this situation can realize this fuck-up in particular and hopefully avoid it. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/16 07:42 PM |
| 2 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kidHA! Yeah a buddy of mine married a Korean national while we were there and they've had nothing but blissful marriage. She's extremely loyal to him. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/16 06:51 PM |
| 2 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kidYeah that plan needs to get changed asap and right now you have the upper hand. If your lawyer can get your case on the calendar quickly then he can demonstrate that mom hasn't been utilizing her rights to visitation and that, in the interest of the stability of the children, it would be best if the father retains sole physical custody. This will be particularly true when they're school age since they obviously can't be flipping to different schools each year. You have a very limited window to g… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/16 06:00 PM |
| 29 | If you're weak, they'll leave you.The key to this: "the meds do effect my moods.." Women want that solid rock foundation. Unshakable and immovable. Even if she knows it's the meds talking, he didn't just suffer physical injury but rather she perceived that he'd become a different person, no longer in control of his emotions. And women wonder why we never want to take the damn meds. I'll barely even take an asprin. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/16 05:56 PM |
| 2 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kidYou need legal advice on this one based on your individual state laws and the state laws of her state. Don't give her those kids without being 100% informed and fully confident. "Pretty much the entire 2 years" is likely NOT enough in the court's eyes to establish the residency of the children but check with a lawyer. You can likely get your answer during a free consultation. If you're even slightly in doubt, don't give them up unless you are compelled to by the custody agreement. If you're not … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/16 05:47 PM |
| 3 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kidJesus. That's brutal. Good luck to you in finding her. I hope she's receptive to reconnecting if you do. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/16 04:58 PM |
| 1 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kidAbsolutely. Tell him I said good luck. It's a hard road but worth it in the end. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/16 04:52 PM |
| 1 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kidIf he doesn't make enough to afford one then frankly I don't have much in the way of advice. The mistakes have already been made at this point. Best he can do is do his best to put his emotions aside and remain stoic when dealing with her. Don't let her use the kids as weapons to push him out of his frame. He can't control what she does and he can't control how the legal system is going to treat him because of his gender. The thing he can control (perhaps the only thing he can control) is how he… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/16 04:33 PM |
| 9 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kidThis would be good advice is I was still 22 and the divorce had just happened. Perhaps you didn't read the "EDIT" portion at the bottom of the post? This was all 9 years ago. He's been raised as my son for the last 9 years. I have him with me every other weekend and all summer long. We even play PS4 every Wednesday night too online together. Bottom line -- whether he's mine or not biologically at this point is totally irrelevant. He's my son. No test changes that. That said, the kid looks exactl… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/16 04:27 PM |
| 3 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kidI got an Associate's in IT and went on to get a job with an international law firm. I've since moved up the ladder there within their IT department and am quite happy with my success so far. Bought a house and settled down. Son has his own room along with a big playroom/den area as well. He's well taken care of. I spent a few years pretty bitter afterward as you might imagine. Eventually leveled myself out and started making life decisions based on my intellect rather than emotions. Haven't look… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/16 04:18 PM |
| 3 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kidYes, but I have no problem paying it. I'm grateful that she does actually use it for him instead of just blowing it on dumb crap like some single moms do. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/16 03:27 PM |
| 2 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kidYou can find the original at redd dot it/4isjqn or just check my history. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/16 03:12 PM |
| 3 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kidIt's excellent. See him every other weekend and all summer. We go camping, do home improvement projects together, play video games, etc. I try to teach him something new each time I see him, which I feel is an important part of parenting. He's growing into a hell of a young man. I rarely have to discipline him at all in fact. He's just an overall damn good kid. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/16 03:09 PM |
| 2 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kidThe rule cited was "2d: Not your fault." This was clearly false as I specifically mention the things I fucked up in the post. There's an entire paragraph in the post dedicated to outlining specifically where I fucked up. Therefore, this was a non-reason. I still feel that no actual or valid explanation was provided. So again, I can only assume the post was threatening in some way. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/16 11:39 AM |
| 8 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kidActually pretty good. We co-parent and generally agree on parenting approach and practices. This was all 9 years ago so there's been plenty of time for the bad blood between us to subside. We never talk shit about each other to him and if we have a disagreement with each other about something regarding him (which is pretty rare,) it's never discussed in his presence. Parents that talk trash about the other parent to their kid are the lowest scum. It's not a child's job to be a fucking therapist.… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/16 11:01 AM |
| 52 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kidI was a code 3 for re-enlistment based on how they put me out. This basically means that because they put me out due to a family hardship discharge, they are going to operate on the assumption that that hardship continues to exist unless proven otherwise and even then they've gotta make an exception. Bottom line, technically it's possible but unlikely. Ultimately, I moved on, did college, got a good job working a for a law firm and I've moved up the ladder there too. I can more than provide for … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/16 01:10 AM |
| 74 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kidThis. Exactly what happened. Guy got off. Military police, just like civilian police, watch out for their own even when they're wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/16 01:05 AM |
| 60 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kidYeah that's what I was trying to do until I started getting censored all to hell. I've been sitting on this for nearly a decade and never told this story publicly. To be frank, it took a fair amount of fortitude to put this out there but I figure there's folks who could learn from and appreciate it and hopefully not make some of the same choices I did. I massively underestimated how true that was based on the overwhelming response I received... right up until I was silenced. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/16 11:16 PM |
| 482 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kidI copy/pasted. The TIFU post that ended up on the front page had 2700+ upvotes, 3 gold, and 491 comments at last count. I'm still getting comments on the original post and getting PM-bombed by a ton of people outraged that it was removed. Relationships sub doesn't want anything to do with me either. Reddit can't handle a story like this being front page. I'm being silenced. Edit: If trp mods want to sticky or sidebar this as you suggested, I don't mind. The whole purpose of this is to help other… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/16 11:05 PM |
| 92 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kidHe's 9 years old now. I've thought about it now and then but at this point, it wouldn't change a damn thing. I'd still pay the child support because I want to provide for him and I'd still see him every other weekend and summers... because he's my boy. No test is changing that. So why waste the $50? (Or however much it would cost) All that said, he looks exactly like I did at that age and his personality is just like mine too, so I have little doubt that he is mine biologically. His mother actua… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/16 09:55 PM |
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