lejohanofNWC Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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12	My school offers a Women-only Rape Defense Class. A lone girl replied-all to the entire student body and faculty to ask why men are not allowed. Major Props I doubt it's as much about preventing assault as much as it is making women feel safer so that they are more likely to rent apartments where you live.	/r/MensRights	04/04/17 02:05 PM
1	What do you have that makes your interesting and gives you value that others don't? I'm a bit of everything. I'm kind of a hippie, a preppie, a hick, a skater, a gentleman, a douche, an intellectual, the shit, a loser, motivated, lazy. I'm everything and nothing at the same time. It's weird I have no idea who I am or what I want to do which actually really fucks with my game a lot but I think it's pretty damn cool.	/r/seduction	25/05/15 04:30 AM
10	Girl I'm around a lot flirts with other guys in front of me? Do you have an actual relationship (friends, acquaintances, etc) or just a geographical proximity to her?	/r/seduction	14/05/15 02:48 AM
2	When I'm alone I fantasize about women; when I'm with women, all my sexual desires fade away. Not at all, I think I'm always going to be a guy with a 'cute' personality. I'm trying to fap less, quit smoking, and get some muscle so my sex drive is higher and maybe I'll look sexy instead of cute. I don't know about you, but I'm also not that funny and it's not going to change. My battle plan is asking questions, listening intently, slowly pushing the conversation until it gets deep 'cause that's my jam, at that point I try to do some kino. It's a critical friendzone or something's going to…	/r/seduction	04/05/15 05:05 PM
17	When I'm alone I fantasize about women; when I'm with women, all my sexual desires fade away. I've often wondered if my parents' lack of, at least open, affection for one another is a cause of some of my problems. I don't actively blame them because I've got to take responsibility for my own life. But my dad was depressed and my mom as overworked, there was lots of love but not much between the folks. My friends who's parents showed more emotion and not even love just emotion have far better 'game' than me.	/r/seduction	04/05/15 08:02 AM
1	I've realised that my main problems are having an awkward vibe and lack of conversational skills. Best ways to fix both of these things? An easy solution that works great for me is just asking questions. Don't worry about asking somewhat obvious questions, just let the lady talk, look her in the eyes, and smile. Within a few minutes you have probably found things you have in common, gotten a good sense of who you're talking to, and probably something you can tease her about. I also like doing this because as someone who does a lot better one on one it will tend to pull you apart from a group. I'm just beginning to learn this myse…	/r/seduction	04/05/15 07:18 AM
2	The Science of Awkwardness [13:55] Thanks for posting, bro. I think this actually might help me out a LOT.	/r/seduction	21/03/15 02:01 AM
2	How to escalate past grinding at the club? Grindings easy man, just listen to the beat and move your hips side to side like a metronome. Put your hands on her hips and hold her against you. Move your hands around a bit, kind of like you were cuddling and trying to turn her on. If she seems pretty into it after like 5-10 minutes just kiss her.	/r/seduction	01/03/15 12:10 AM
8	anon gives some advise They don't say no, cause of the implication.	/r/seduction	18/02/15 02:18 AM
12	Girl invited me to watch a movie at her place. We obviously won't watch the movie. So how to initiate sex ? In my experience, so take this with a grain of salt, you're going to watch the movie. For about five minutes. Don't be afraid to sit/lay down directly next to her, if she was explicit about the sex part the movie is just a super easy excuse for light conversation and cuddling. From there it's up to you how you want to get that first kiss, maybe you tease her and you laugh and smile at each other and you just go in for it. Maybe you're cuddling and you compliment her something along the lines of …	/r/seduction	08/12/14 01:32 AM
-1	I guess I have approach anxiety; but get me with the right person and I'm not socially hopeless. I don't think I am qualified to approach your needs in entirety, but I feel like you might have a case of oneitis for friend number uno. And by the way bro, a weak person cannot admit their weak. By at least accepting the fact that you might be, you have proven that you are not. Much Love, Peace.	/r/seduction	22/11/14 05:34 AM
1	I am just too emotional, any tips? Dude, I feel for you, I was dating this girl for about a month when I fucked up real bad. She had quite a reputation for getting around and I called her out on sleeping with someone else after I had fallen asleep at a party we had gone to. She hadn't, I was just really insecure and assumed I wasn't capable of making this beautiful outgoing girl happy even though I was. To make matters worse, and this was dumb of me I know, we worked together. I had to face this truly beautiful and sexy girl two …	/r/seduction	22/11/14 05:23 AM
1	How to deal with aggressive, forceful people? I agree, a lack of response, essentially hardly noticing over the top behavior is pretty bold. The behavior OP described is designed to draw a response and the people who act that way feed off of reactions. If they visibly affect everyone it will put them at the center of attention, which they NEED, they are far more vulnerable than anyone else in whatever social interaction is happening. If you deny them that spotlight, they kind of just shatter and either keep on acting more ridiculous making …	/r/seduction	19/11/14 12:48 AM
6	I pussied out, but I wonder if this situation happens to a lot of people Dude, don't be worried about looking foolish in front of your friends. That's the nature of the relationship with most of my close bros, and I kind of assume that's the standard with most true friendships. If he's trying to act alpha and being an ass about it, call him the fuck out: "hey (insert friend of u/idontestdogs's name), maybe I enjoy hanging out with my friends and not (insert embarrassing story here)". Part of that inner game that seddit talks about all the time is not putting up with …	/r/seduction	04/11/14 02:32 AM
2	How do you guys close the deal? (Initiate the hookup, ask for head, etc?) I'm not a pro, but I've learned one thing, do not ASK for head. Just let it happen if you're lucky enough for it to happen.	/r/seduction	05/09/14 04:21 AM
7	[FR] Odd situation at a party last night, #-closed but then... Hey man, you probably should have saved her number, if she's cute she might have cute friends to set you up with but don't worry if you talked to every girl at a party you've got nothing to worry about. I also see no problem with being direct, assuming you're on a related topic, you know? Don't steer the conversation from the Ferguson riots directly to "DO YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND?!?!?!?!".	/r/seduction	18/08/14 12:55 AM
2	Home for the summer from college... need help with "small town" game I come from a rural town, like /u/RandianHero replace the meth and skinheads with a mixture of blue collar workers, hippies, artists, mixes of the previous three, and seasonal dwellers (New Yorkers). I wasn't shy in high school but I did not have the confidence to chase after the caliber of women I've always wanted. I've made some pretty dramatic changes to my external/internal self image during my first year in college (at university). In high school I had tried, with honestly pretty moderate s…	/r/seduction	07/05/14 09:48 PM
11	Question about asking girls out as a high schooler Hey dude, I read your conversation with Viper and he's spot on, but DEFINITELY ask her in person. Asking through facebook is like having a screen between you two and makes it seem like you couldn't do it face to face. Doing it in person projects an important level of confidence and you can gauge her reaction WAY better.	/r/seduction	25/11/13 08:12 AM