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Adulthood is hard for everyone. But having a victim complex and trying to do oppression Olympics doesn’t help anyone.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 06:50 AM
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https://open.spotify.com/episode/6nP0LIJhOagTlKWPZxrYNy?si=k7N7CCoPQciYCQl8fNCN_g
/r/ExRedPill13/02/23 06:17 PM
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Probably bc the social media allows people to. Bari Weiss just did an episode about this on her podcast
/r/ExRedPill13/02/23 05:15 PM
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The stats regarding rates of domestic violence with lesbians I’m pretty sure is cumulative of over a lifetime which includes if they had previous relationships with men
/r/ExRedPill05/02/23 09:46 PM
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I guess I always imagine this being worse the more west you go. Why is it more like this in Slovakia ? Bc a lot of the people I know in Western Europe are basically pretty removed from it unless they are in an elite uni or consume too much anglo media
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 02:50 PM
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Ugh cringe that’s awful. It sucks so much. Life was so much better pre 2017. Since the pandemic it became next level. I hate that it has spread to Europe. But still when I’m there even in woke cities it feels like people take it less seriously / care less so it’s more tolerable. I think people recognize it more easily as an American import
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 02:41 PM
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I agree 100% about liberalism. That’s crazy it’s this bad in Slovakia… is it also copying the race stuff ? I have lived in / am from Western Europe and I felt like it was a TON better than North America. It’s like this in cities the most but you can easily find people that disagree and if you leave the city it feels pretty removed from it all. I’m living in Canada now and I have to say it’s even worse here than the US bc at least the US has an opposing side with some traction… even though they c…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 02:12 PM
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I guess it depends where you are and what circles you run in. I’ve moved around a lot and now actively avoid the toxicity and only give my time to people that are not so closed minded. In North America it’s tough… it takes time… but it’s possible. I’ve also lived outside of NA though where it just is not so extreme. But yeah I feel similarly from the other direction. I’ll confront aggressive male behavior or red pill types and it makes me understand why women get so defensive about feminism. It …
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 01:48 PM
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I’m a woman and sometimes I browse these subs out of curiosity and it makes me feel the same way. It makes me internalize some of their misogyny as well but I also feel really bad for these men. Idk it’s very confusing. To be honest I feel similarly on subs about feminism, it’s also a lot of man hating, though it’s maybe not as overtly violent as red pill stuff it’s still pretty hateful and unsympathetic. Idk I think victim mentalities have really done a number on society. And the internet. I ha…
/r/ExRedPill25/01/23 06:40 PM
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Isn’t that what you just did to me? I’m basically just making the point that men and women both have similar struggles, though perhaps in different ways from a different perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 07:45 PM
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How do we know which men are the good ones ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 07:29 PM
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I’m married. I’m not burnt out. I’m speaking pretty generally here from what I’ve observed over the years
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 07:19 PM
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Ugh agreed. JBP has helped a lot of men and gives genuinely good practical advice. As a woman, his advice has even helped me. Work on myself incrementally, take responsibility, and get over a victim mentality that has plagued the western world, especially North America. It’s so crazy he’s lumped into a category with a literal criminal like Andrew tate just bc he’s a social conservative. Being a social conservative =/= a sexist misogynist criminal. I’m not even a social conservative but I think t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 07:10 PM
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As long as you think only in terms of men vs women tribalism rather than treating people as individuals you will probably continue being alone and isolated 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 07:03 PM
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Okay socialization theory is exactly what has caused the surge is trans identified youth. “Trans” is a social construct, not sex/gender. Trans is something someone does, it’s not something that someone is. How can a female report to feel the same pressures as biological males before going on hrt ? they are not males, so they are only imagining what male pressures mean. No amount of hrt or cosmetic procedures changes this. If they feel the same pressures, it’s merely a human experience, and is no…
/r/ExRedPill24/01/23 06:17 PM
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How do the females that transition to being men know what male isolation/alienation is like before they transition? Or even after they transition? Even post transition they are still females. They are females only assuming what it feels like to experience the world as a male, but it does not make them a male. To transition means that a female will only ever be a masculinized female, and a male a feminized male. It doesn’t mean they are literally changing sex. The cases of detransitioners that I …
/r/ExRedPill24/01/23 05:42 PM
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You’re just repeating what I am already saying. But you use it as an excuse to blame half the population for this when most women are struggling with it themselves as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:19 PM
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I don’t think it means women don’t have to bring more to the plate. Women often do more housework and childcare while also expected to have careers. It might look different bc historically the expectations were also different but I think women are also being demanded to do more. And frankly i wish gender debates and conversations would reference at least ONCE how this is influenced by how neo liberal economics have really hurt communities and family life, instead of one sex always blaming the ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:40 PM
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Just the article, I haven’t taken a good enough look at the APA docs. The article I’m having a hard time taking seriously bc it is taking on the perspective of socialization theory which has been disproven. Yes socialization and culture do matter to a certain extent but it’s way over stated. I think a lot of young girls grow up confused bc of it, I am sure the same could be said too for boys, but I am a woman so it’s easier to speak from my perspective. Im not saying we should go back to traditi…
/r/ExRedPill24/01/23 02:19 PM
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Similarly if you’re the hottest woman ever they still don’t see your personality either, they just want to fuck you. Doesn’t mean they want to date you. So it doesn’t really matter how many matches or lack thereof one gets. It’s objectifying and dehumanizing either way
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:56 AM
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Yeah that statement is unfounded and ridiculous lol. But I guess I just push pack bc socialization theory can also be harmful to people
/r/ExRedPill24/01/23 05:53 AM
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I don’t agree that there is no biological influence to behavior, that totally negates the effects of hormones. I recommend reading up on the research of Carol Hooven who focuses on the social influences of testosterone. That being said. I do think increasingly there is a need for men to have their own movement for their own needs and growth that is more positive and less hateful than what we’ve seen seen previous.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/23 05:35 AM
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The constant oppression Olympics of who has it worse has got to stop. Dating apps suck for everyone period. Between men and women perhaps for different reasons, but as a woman that’s used them I can’t say I had positive experiences with them even if I was getting more matches than the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:27 AM
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WHAT. I’m a woman and ok maybe this isn’t helpful but that’s tall to me and literally the height of my husband. Ik there’s maybe women seeking insane height but they are not the majority. Idk where you are but maybe travel a bit :) you’d be considered pretty tall by other countries standards
/r/ExRedPill24/01/23 02:33 AM
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Yeah exactly I also remind myself that even in the worst times like the Holocaust or when the Roman Empire fell people still lived there lives and got married and had families. And compared to those times we are a lot more fortunate. I wish people would keep this in mind instead of blaming everyone else tbh bc blaming people to feeds into the toxicity. I often debate with myself and wonder if this is also just a part of growing up and nearing 30? But part of me knows that people used to be kinde…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:23 PM
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That’s great. It just takes more time to build a google circle of people here I think. I’m starting to as well and luckily I am married to a really great guy (who is from Brazil). But it was really rough to even get to this point and I was SO confused and frustrated and hurt in my first year. Peoples behaviors were bizarre and I kept trying and trying and people were just gross like holding politics against you, the passive aggression, dishonesty, insecurity, ghosting, I never experienced anythi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:27 PM
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Yeah or they don’t even want to put in the work. They’re quick to judge and play games and then expect the fruits of relationships instead of just enjoying the process of getting to know one another. In europe I’ve had a lot of nice short term and casual relationships with people where we remained friends or I could still contact them if I needed something. It didn’t work out due to circumstances and no one takes it personally bc no games were played and the time spent together was appreciated. …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:50 PM
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I felt romance and dating was fun when I lived in Europe. North American culture sucks. It is very transactional and selfish and if you show attachment then you “lose”. Its fucking bizarre. Europe is catching up in this way a bit since everything is becoming Americanize but it’s not as extreme. People still meet through friends, at work, they don’t need to only use dating apps. People make an effort and keep in touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:37 PM
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It seems that incels blame women for their problems but the red pill looks down an degrades woman ? Idk just seems like different forms of hate
/r/ExRedPill21/01/23 01:49 AM
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I guess they seem opposite but the same to me as the red pill seems really toxic and woman hating as well
/r/ExRedPill21/01/23 01:00 AM
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doesnt red pill kind of do that too -- except they share manipulative tactics to get women? i bet theres a lot of overlap
/r/ExRedPill21/01/23 12:26 AM
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i thought they had the same ideologies ?
/r/ExRedPill20/01/23 11:20 PM
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I don’t have a story and I’m not a man but you should watch some interviews with psychologists that do research on incel communities https://youtu.be/R5exndEoqjM Meghan daum’s unspeakable podcast has an episode as well that’s very good
/r/ExRedPill20/01/23 05:36 PM
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