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Field Reportlemano/r/seduction31/10/13 05:24 AM
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Field Reportlemano/r/seduction30/08/13 07:20 AM
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Yup, this is spot on. But if he tries them out and is still not interested by them, then it's perfectly fine.
/r/seduction16/01/14 09:36 PM
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I disagree with your assumption that OP must be pessimistic, and arrogant simply because he has different interests than most of society. There's nothing wrong with not having the same interests as everyone around you. It makes you stick out more. And I see where OP is coming from, why would he invest his time into researching something he has absolutely no interest in, simply for the reason of "fitting in." On the other hand OP, it makes it a lot harder to socialize when you have absolutely 0 c…
/r/seduction16/01/14 08:39 PM
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Yup, same problem here. And I'm just constantly rejected, without any success at all. Quite disappointing
/r/seduction14/01/14 02:30 AM
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I just wanted to add a little tip here. "You have to be the man you want to be even when no one’s watching. This is how you become natural and authentic; it becomes who you are." To do this, I always think that a cute girl I want to bang or really like is ALWAYS watching me. Even if I'm walking down the street alone, I'll subconsciously think someone I want to impress is watching me. This helps at the beginning and eventually you just start acting like the guy you want people to see you as every…
/r/seduction17/12/13 07:03 AM
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It would help OP, and others reading if you suggested ways of doing this? Or provided resources, please.
/r/seduction30/11/13 06:51 AM
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This... makes a lot of sense
/r/seduction30/11/13 06:25 AM
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I've had the same problem, for me I think it's the fact I don't want to be "stuck" with one girl. I don't know how old you are, but if you're still fairly young you might just not be ready for a serious relationship. If you're older that might be the case too. Some of the other reasons posted on here make a lot of sense too. You just gotta think about what you really want and try to find out what your reason is.
/r/seduction30/11/13 06:03 AM
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I was in the EXACT same position as you. Virgin, desperate, lonely, depressed because I wasn't getting laid etc. But I was 18, and this was a month before my 19th bday. I was really excited about turning 19 (legal age in my city), and I just kept telling myself "I know I'm gonna get laid this year. I just feel it." And I truly believed it, and because of this I didn't worry about it. I thought of it as it had already happened, so I didn't think about me still being a virgin. Of course this is ha…
/r/seduction30/11/13 05:59 AM
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LOL please share the story
/r/seduction20/11/13 02:45 AM
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Either you left out all the techniques you used, or you're a very good looking guy. And you didn't need much. Because from the way it's written it sounds like she was already attracted to you without you doing much.
/r/seduction12/11/13 01:25 AM
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"he was impressed how 'easily" i had stolen the girls attention" He might've gone the other way and tried to help OP with the girl. You're assuming that guys are always "jealous assholes."
/r/seduction10/11/13 09:30 PM
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Finding HB's that are alone is the hard part. I go to a commuter college, where the only people there are to interact with are the ones in your classes. I don't have many friends, nor a social life, so don't get out much. I've tried changing this, but with factors like my parents, and curfew it, and living in a boring city there really isn't much to do. (I know this all sounds like excuses.)
/r/seduction01/11/13 08:41 PM
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Ok well in terms of "building attraction," I'm talking about seducing almost... I've only had a deep connection with one girl in my life, she told me everything about her. A lot of things she hadn't told her best friends at the time, I told her some stuff. But I'm a very reserved guy in general, about the stuff deep down in me. Needless to say she was my one-itis. I knew I was friend zoned, so I cut off all communications with her, haven't talked to her since I joined the community. (Friends adv…
/r/seduction01/11/13 03:40 AM
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I meant both, I was never emotionally attracted, nor was there any connection to the girl from my side. They were strictly girls to stick my penis in. [I know that's shallow, but that's how I see all girls. :( ] I'm not too sure what you mean about my approach to conversations? I'm perfectly fine socially, I can carry conversations about anything. I have a harder time with building attraction from the girl towards me. (Not sure if this is what you're asking?)
/r/seduction01/11/13 02:43 AM
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OK this explains a lot. I was a virgin till recently, and have had a few F-closes since then. I thought sex was just not as good as I built it up to be. But it's possible it's because of your points here, I was never emotionally attracted to any of the girls I've slept with. Strictly sexually. I don't find myself ever being emotionally attracted to girls, not in over a year at least. Know anything about that? ( I'm serious, I just see them as things to sleep with. Especially because I don't like…
/r/seduction01/11/13 02:21 AM
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Hey, I just came across this. Just wondering if you all decided to join the existing lair or if you guys have ever met up or anything? If not, we should get a bunch of guys, and do it!
/r/seduction01/11/13 01:44 AM
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Yea but when you don't get F-closes all the time, like me. No connection sex with a HB8 is better than my hands.
/r/seduction31/10/13 04:20 PM
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Yea that's what I think to. But I wish I had done it earlier in the night. Thanks though!
/r/seduction31/10/13 04:15 PM
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This was the 1st date. The first time I met her we were both under the influence of substances, therefore there was no interaction or me being "boss." This time frame was to have a good night at the beginning. But after I found out she was a stoner it changed to I just want to fuck her. I didn't know how to get there though.
/r/seduction31/10/13 04:15 PM
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Yea I think you may be onto something here. I felt like she had more power over me all night and I just wanted to fuck her. I was too caught up in trying to sleep with her that I didn't care about what else happened. But i was in more of a "lets see if shes worth it" mentality. But once I realized she wasn't, instead of telling her off I kept pursuing to try and sleep with her. Thanks for the insight.
/r/seduction31/10/13 04:12 PM
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I was driving then going home after. I still live with my parents. And I wasn't in the mood because I'm sick.
/r/seduction31/10/13 04:11 PM
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No I don't. I still don't know how to get them.
/r/seduction31/10/13 04:10 PM
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How old are you?
/r/seduction14/10/13 06:09 AM
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I was wondering why I wasn't getting any replies. Thanks
/r/seduction18/09/13 02:56 AM
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Sorry for the confusion. I know she wasn't a virgin. I was.
/r/seduction01/09/13 01:17 AM
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Your name says "Vancity." Assuming you're from Vancouver, have any suggestions?
/r/seduction20/08/13 05:36 AM
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I 100% agree with everything you've pointed out. I'm in the same boat with the yellow fever. But live in Vancouver, which is pretty much the Canadian equivalent of LA. And finding Asians that are looking for something casual is incredibly hard. And the Asian males in media certainly doesn't help. There is no positive outlook on Brown men in the media... :s
/r/seduction16/08/13 10:39 PM
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