lemikistu Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	24 Hours On Girl's Tinder That is absolutely right most of them are for attention. Let it be messages or Instagram followers and such. In different forms but still attention. When you are alone with her you don't have all that thirst man around her so you are desired as she actively spend time with you and you have her attention. You are only male there. Online is totally different. Looks are very important but it is pretty much EVERYTHING in online dating and for many people in online dating real life too. sad thing is …	/r/seduction	01/03/20 11:16 PM
32	24 Hours On Girl's Tinder Funny enough Brad Pitt would do pretty shit probably because no one would believe that it is him lol. Btw this numbers are crazy. Shows how ego feeding online dating can be for women.	/r/seduction	01/03/20 10:25 PM
44	One Approach Every Day Challenge - Day 5 5️⃣ Congrats, glad you fixed stuff based on feedback.That is how you improve. Honestly you might not sense it yourself but not using words like maybe would make you look much more confident. Expecting anything more after rejection such as being friends is sign of neediness so when you ditch that you go for so what if you reject me I find someone else attidue. You just drop it soon as you don't have same goals. Having that mindset makes you more calm and you look more confident. Opposed to insisting …	/r/seduction	28/02/20 01:24 PM
1	[deleted by user] It looks like we are almost on same page lol. I agree we weren't there so we can't judge. Just saying this kind of stuff looks creepy and won't give you any advantage. So there is an chance that she might be creeped out too and from reading convo I more believe that it wasn't comfortable then to believe it was tbh. In the end it is risky unnecessary bad stuff. I agree that OP should keep approaching too just he has to change his style in next one and understand that what he is doing is not effec…	/r/seduction	28/02/20 01:02 AM
1	[deleted by user] I understand that but we have to draw the line on what is regarded as successful and what isn't clearly. Approaching women and sticking to that ideal regardless of the content isn't good idea. You can approach yes and you probably should to maximise your chances and game BUT big BUT you should not approach in situations where other people might feel uncomfortable or you shoudn't turn the process into something others feel uncomfortable. That was what I was referring to. That cannot be regarded a…	/r/seduction	28/02/20 12:33 AM
6	[deleted by user] Yeah I mean trying and such as I said in my other response is good practice and definitely confident booster. However being pushy just spoils that. It wastes further time for you and you can creep others. So not good. Well I haven't been there but If she has rejected him 2 times it doesn't sound like she been comfortable. If she has boyfriend you as stranger pretty much have what to talk her about? She isn't interested romantically which she mentioned. So then you turn and say as friend 1) that …	/r/seduction	27/02/20 05:54 PM
0	[deleted by user] Look I am okay with trying cold approach that is good practice nothing wrong with that. However if you turn interactions to this it would not go anywhere and you mess up all the effort you put. You basically can cut it when you supposed to and don't leave other party in stress and don't waste time yourself. Simple as that. This is bad for both parties. Asking a coffee as a friend is just plain lie and both parties know about it. So let's pass that.	/r/seduction	27/02/20 05:49 PM
16	[deleted by user] He asked same questions initiating contact. İf girl says she has bf she either told you a lie which you should leave her or she has a bf you should leave her. Then you don't go and ask for a coffee as friends everyone know reality here , then when she says she doesn't even want a coffee as friends you don't get her Instagram. It is just plain creepy and me getting downvoted would not change this fact.	/r/seduction	27/02/20 05:39 PM
-3	[deleted by user] It isnt success if trying is overridden by being creepy. Yes there is an effort but in a bad sense , it is not healthy. It isn't about results you can try normally and fail issue here is insisting that is big no no.	/r/seduction	27/02/20 05:29 PM
29	[deleted by user] This doesn't look like a success.... Regardless of whether she has a bf or not she is not interested. You should of dropped it and not insist that is creepy. She didn't even wanted to be friends so i don't see the point here. She probably just wanted another Instagram follower and hoped you won't bother her lol.	/r/seduction	27/02/20 04:58 PM