lemonbrains Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Has anyone really changed from being a "nice guy" to being a "jock"?? If yes, what are some noticeable things that you did that made it happen? I realized being nice and being passive do not have the same meaning and usually when referring to the "nice" guy implies the guy is passive and not very assertive. Once you start gaining self confidence and telling yourself you deserve what you want and you do not have to sacrifice yourself for what everyone else wants, you'll start to get it.	/r/seduction	13/06/13 11:46 PM
1	What are some topics you tend to focus on when first meeting a woman? Whatever, my sense of humor has evolved into a monster and I can't talk to people that don't find bullshit entertaining. I just tell them they're not funny. It's a bold neg.	/r/seduction	25/04/13 10:56 PM
1	I may have discovered gold Oh, I haven't seen anyone playfully role play. Prescribing dick is a bit overkill to say the least. I thought we were original lol I also try not to read much about picking up girls and just do it instead.	/r/seduction	25/04/13 10:45 PM
1	I may have discovered gold Way to miss the big picture. I was hoping we could all assume I was intending on evolving this into a more efficient technique for getting girls to do what we want.	/r/seduction	25/04/13 10:10 PM
1	I may have discovered gold Well ya of course, I'm just seeing if other people will try it out and get back to me this weekend. I'm curious of other people's results.	/r/seduction	25/04/13 10:09 PM
9	College FR: "Hey, could you watch my things for a minute? I'll be right back." "Yeah, if you promise me a good joke when you get back" Now the whole time shes gone, shes thinking of a good enough joke to tell you. EZ She comes back and tells you the joke. You say "haha thanks i needed the mental break. What are you studying for, nerd? (or something that better relates to the scenario)" Boom conversation. God I'm good. *edit. Just realized I answered in the scenario someone asked you to watch their shit.	/r/seduction	24/04/13 04:23 AM
1	Questions from a girl, and in return I will be candid about what girls want. You're crushing hard and he's playing off it. If anything he'll hook up with you and go right back to his girlfriend.	/r/seduction	24/04/13 04:07 AM
0	Girl gave me her number first Yes, unless she texts back eventually. You should have made fun of her for giving u her number through her friends so she may have felt obligated to justify herself enough to text back.	/r/seduction	24/04/13 03:52 AM
5	What is going through your head when you are talking to a girl? I could totally use a cig right about now	/r/seduction	24/04/13 03:48 AM
1	How do you play the texting game for a long period of time? Text them then give off a vibe that you're having way too much fun to text back.	/r/seduction	23/04/13 01:53 AM
16	What are some topics you tend to focus on when first meeting a woman? I like to bullshit my conversations completely. Normal conversations are boring, and I've heard it all, so I have to entertain myself. Lately I've been thinking of movie plots and acting like that's my life. Or act like a movie is real and come up with a conspiracy about it. "I was studying abroad last semester when I was kidknapped and got hooked on heroin. Right before I was about to get sold into sex slavery, my dad came and saved me. Now I'm here." Eventually they'll catch on and start sayin…	/r/seduction	23/04/13 01:47 AM
0	Dancing and dealing with cockblocks? because grinding is beta and creepy.	/r/seduction	23/04/13 01:33 AM
2	General Advice for an awkward guy going into college. You must not drink very much, or go to a party school where the social life revolves around parties. If you did some of the things I've done drunk when you were sober, I'd question your character although it was completely acceptable behavior when around a bunch of drunk people. Drunk game =/= sober game and there's nothing wrong with that. I do understand what you are saying and agree that sometimes people develop drinking problems where they rely on alcohol to get them through life, but that i…	/r/seduction	23/04/13 01:30 AM
2	General Advice for an awkward guy going into college. Getting drunk doesn't imply inner anxiety problems. In fact it can act as a gateway to enable you to do things you normally wouldn't soberly. Then you can see that you can do that when you're sober, giving you that confidence. Not everyone masks their problems with alcohol. Try going to a bar soberly. Everyone is annoying as fuck, so I get drunk for my own sanity, not because I'm scared to talk to them.	/r/seduction	22/04/13 08:18 PM
1	What is the etiquette for dance floors at parties? Meh. Perhaps we have different experiences.	/r/seduction	19/02/13 04:15 PM
3	How to approach a girl who is eating in a crowded food court in a table with a bunch of girl friends Say you're on a scavenger hunt for whatever reason and ask them to fulfill one of the tasks. It can be anything! Ask them to build a human pyramid with you in the middle, then take a picture of it.	/r/seduction	19/02/13 05:40 AM
1	Can someone give a general script? You want to hear the line "You don't act like most frat guys."	/r/seduction	19/02/13 05:34 AM
2	Depression, introversion, and seduction. If you lie to yourself enough, eventually you'll believe it. Hence, you should quit lying to yourself about your beta-ness and just start telling yourself and everyone about your alpha-ness.	/r/seduction	19/02/13 05:30 AM
1	ADD/ADHD and Seduction You don't need meds, you just need to dance more. Find a new opportunity if a girl says no to dancing. When I get drunk, I dance around like a little fairy cause I can't sit still. More than enough girls love the energy as they usually have synonymous energy.	/r/seduction	19/02/13 05:19 AM
0	As a woman with a mediocre appearance, how to do I attract and seduce men who are appearance based? Fuel his ego and agree with him that he is the most bad ass person in the room, but don't give him many complements besides the ones he gives himself.	/r/seduction	19/02/13 05:11 AM
7	What is the etiquette for dance floors at parties? They love seeing a guy shuffle. I like to try and incorporate swing dancing with it.	/r/seduction	19/02/13 05:05 AM
12	What is the etiquette for dance floors at parties? I completely disagree. If you know how to dance by yourself and do something besides the awkward bump-and-grind, feel-this-random-boner-on-your-ass dance, the girls will come to you. Hence the dance floor IS a special place where you don't need to approach. He's still being a man, just seducing them by body language.	/r/seduction	19/02/13 05:03 AM
8	I'm a shy, awkward, average looking guy who has slept with over 50 women. I'm 27 and lost my virginity when I was 20. Here is my story That's not really the mindset you want. It's like dancing or playing a sport; you have to make moves based on rhythm. It is whenever the movie scene and connection feel right, otherwise it will seem forced and chaotic. But I guess everyone starts somewhere.	/r/seduction	02/01/13 05:42 AM
11	How to make it clear you are interested in her sexually, without looking like a perv? i always respond with "at least you're pretty"	/r/seduction	03/12/12 06:33 AM
8	What are some good "games" you play with girls? For example, 5 questions Neat, now have you thought of any yourself?	/r/seduction	28/11/12 01:54 AM
1	Hand them your cell phone when asking for a number. Here's why. they also spell their name correctly which is a load off the ocd person. it's all around easier and more effective in every way.	/r/seduction	07/07/12 09:06 PM
0	I ask a lot of questions here, so I thought I should share a tip that's worked for me and finally start contributing to Seddit. Yeap, and I agree. They are just begging to be picked up if they are on their phone.	/r/seduction	29/06/12 11:06 PM
9	Whats a good reply to "Im good, how are you?" By not saying "How are you?"	/r/seduction	29/06/12 11:03 PM
2	I ask a lot of questions here, so I thought I should share a tip that's worked for me and finally start contributing to Seddit. You read my comment without upvoting me, didn't you!?	/r/seduction	29/06/12 11:02 PM
4	How much does the dating/seduction game change when you become old enough to go to bars? Its like moving from checkers to chess.	/r/seduction	29/06/12 10:45 PM
1	Extended texting game before having a first date; how to do it? you should never talk through a phone unless its planning to hang out. Don't give away your conversation before having it. That's how people run out of things to say.	/r/seduction	29/06/12 10:43 PM
1	Those of you who open directly during the day, what is the most common reaction when you say "I thought you were adorable and had to come meet you"? I don't know where you're from but that's not a taboo round here and walking up to a girl to call her cute is considered desperate and unoriginal. You obviously think she's cute if you approached her. You have to tell her how she belongs in the environment. The last girl I picked up, was playing on her phone, so I walked over and said, "I didn't realize this was an iphone party, you seem bored -introduction-" that being said, telling a girl she's cute should not be a topic statement of the conve…	/r/seduction	29/06/12 10:26 PM
1	So exactly, how willing are most women to having sex the same night? who cares? all of them most likely want to have sex with you.	/r/seduction	29/06/12 10:18 PM
2	Seddit, what are some of your go to questions when the conversation lets up? Also, make them rate shit on a scale of 1-10, then make fun of them for going above the scale because girls always do.	/r/seduction	29/06/12 10:16 PM
2	Dates with Older Women Older women want to feel younger and be around that sort of eager sex drive.	/r/seduction	29/06/12 10:09 PM
2	just teased her cool	/r/seduction	29/06/12 10:06 PM
2	I think I realized why I'm so shit at this. It was alien for everyone at one point. Just shut your brain off before talking to a girl. You can't think while your actually playing your game because that's when you fuck up and doubt yourself. You think afterwards. Reflect. Realize what you can improve on and what would have been a better approach for that situation. Replay it over and over in your head so that you'll know to do it during your next game. It's taken the best guys years and years of practice. Expect to fail... a lot, but it's …	/r/seduction	29/06/12 10:02 PM