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1	What are some secrets men dont tell women? Yikes, okay. Here we go, I guess. Again, not a deflection. It didn't shift focus from the primary topic. It didn't shift focus from anyone or anything. It was a question that pertained to the context of the discussion. You just didn't like the implication. If a man doesn't do that, he's basically never getting sex. So, men are forced to do these things by women, because women choose to not do these things. No. This is such a child-like way of thinking. Men are not forced to do anything. Damn. Ta…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/25 02:09 PM
-1	What are some secrets men dont tell women? First of all, that's not what a deflection is. as though women have absolutely no agency and no ability to figure out a man's intentions herself. Are men expecting women to be mind-readers now? Women have set up a beautiful game of heads she wins tails he loses, and then get mad when men call it out and stop playing. That's funny because what you've just done is essentially the same thing. A lose-lose for the woman who doesn't want to be used for casual sex. If she participates, she feels used. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 02:11 PM
4	What are some secrets men dont tell women? Because it oversimplifies a dynamic that exists because women cannot tolerate honesty from men. Is it really that women cannot tolerate honesty, or simply that we don't want to be used for sex?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 01:58 PM
–	Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that. In this economy? Most people can't afford that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 02:23 PM
2	Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that. Yes, I could technically have a supply of dozens and dozens of bottles. But then that would require more kitchen spare, more time to organize, etc. See how this works? I'm aware that cold, delicate cycles extend the life of most clothes. But remember how I mentioned that most of my daily laundry consists of soiled baby clothes? They need a heavier duty wash cycle. I also prioritize efficiency. The difference between you and me though is that I'm looking at the bigger picture as well as long-term…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 02:22 PM
2	Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that. You seem incredibly out of touch. Separating everything by color isn't obsessive. It makes clothes last longer. Different fabrics require different types of care. Not everyone has a wardrobe full of polyester. God forbid a family wants to use actual dishes in their home and not paper plates and plastic cutlery, lest they be accused of needlessly making things more difficult for themselves. But I'll humor you. If I switched my family to paper plates, it would hardly cut down on chores/the mental …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 03:05 AM
5	Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that. Yes, I do laundry almost every day. I have a 10 month old. He still spits up a lot, and is learning how to eat solid food. Plus, diaper blowouts. I don't think you're in a position to be telling me to stop changing my kid's clothes "so much." There are only so many burp cloths, bibs, onesies, etc that I'm willing to buy. So yeah, most of it gets washed every day or every other day. Sure, folding takes about 10-20 minutes, but finding that 10-20 minutes can be really difficult depending on the da…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 01:47 AM
6	Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that. Haha what? You can't be serious. Do people who work outside the house never have any house chores either because they're gone 9-10 hours a day? Or are moms with kids just expected to use their homes only for sleeping so we don't create messes that we need to clean? Most of my daily chores as a SAHM have nothing to do with the daily messes. It's laundry, dishes (because yes, we eat mostly at home), and pet care. Then there's weekly chores that are deep cleaning type jobs that also wouldn't be all…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 01:20 AM
14	Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that. How do any of those things reduce the amount of housework the mom has to do?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/25 05:53 PM
2	What do women mean by "good dick"? Why do you think the other answers aren't honest? As a woman, the response your replying to is probably the least accurate to me out of the rest of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 02:21 PM
2	It's not offensive to ask for dna test It's pretty telling that the evidence you have is "this thread or any other thread about paternity fraud." Maybe you should get off the internet and touch some grass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/25 09:22 PM
3	It's not offensive to ask for dna test Why not just tell women to not commit paternity fraud We do... Both genders are told not to lie and cheat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/25 06:46 PM
5	It's not offensive to ask for dna test Then don't be in a monogamous relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/25 01:41 PM
1	Women tell that men don't approach women because they're scared. If you think that's what I said then you missed the point completely. Women are not getting creeped out by shyness/awkwardness. Shy and awkward guys are doing creepy things without realizing it, and women are rightfully getting creeped out by creepy behavior. Not awkward behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/25 01:38 PM
0	Women tell that men don't approach women because they're scared. It's not a backwards explanation. It's simply an explanation. If he had approached smoothly and confidently (OR been hot) it wouldn't have been labelled inappropriate. Couldn't disagree with this more. I can't tell you how many times I've been approached by confidently creepy men. Or even men who would otherwise be considered conventionally attractive but end up shooting themselves in the foot by saying something vulgar/creepy. It seems like you're hyperfocused on one very specific type of man, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/25 02:28 PM
0	Women tell that men don't approach women because they're scared. From my experience, women act creeped out most often when a shy, akward guy approaches them non smoothly. Ok. And in my experience, a lot of men who identify as awkward and "less than smooth" are actually missing a lot more social cues than they realize. And maybe that's not their fault, but it's also not the woman's fault for being creeped out when a man is hitting on her without looking her in the eyes. Or is trying so hard to make eye contact that he's basically leering. Those things are cree…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/25 02:15 PM
0	Women tell that men don't approach women because they're scared. So no most men aren't terrible nor women Yeah, that was my point. Just because you don't understand someone's logic doesn't mean it was misused or misframed. I encourage you to re-read the conversation. Let me know if you have any questions. The rest of your comment was just misogynistic drivel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/25 01:57 PM
0	Women tell that men don't approach women because they're scared. Sorry but that logic doesn't hold up. Why do so many women's experiences portray men as terrible? Does that mean most men are terrible?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/25 12:40 AM
0	Women tell that men don't approach women because they're scared. Most women are decent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/25 11:03 PM
3	If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating them If that's what you need to tell yourself, sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/25 08:58 PM
0	If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating them He's not. Just because you are wired to think a certain way doesn't mean all men are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/25 06:46 PM
1	Women tell that men don't approach women because they're scared. I haven't seen anyone wear a pink hat since like 2016, but sentencing disparity is a feminist topic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/25 06:41 PM
1	Women tell that men don't approach women because they're scared. I'm a feminist and I condemn behaviors of women all the time. I did it in this thread. My entire social circle consists of feminists as well who won't hesitate to call out toxicity regardless of gender.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/25 06:31 PM
1	Women tell that men don't approach women because they're scared. Same with men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/25 06:24 PM
1	Women tell that men don't approach women because they're scared. If they're calling you creepy for genuinely not doing anything wrong, then yeah they're shitty people. However, if you recognize that you're not as social/well-adjusted as an average person, is it possible that you may have accidentally ignored some social norm or crossed a boundary without realizing it? (I say this in the most kind way possible. Not trying to be accusatory whatsoever.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/25 06:18 PM
3	If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating them I would definitely be more self-conscious if they were his type, yes. I don't think it would be a deal breaker though. I do find my husband's friends to be very pretty. I just know he has a type and they aren't it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/25 06:14 PM
1	Women tell that men don't approach women because they're scared. I think women have explained plenty. Most of the time it's men approaching women when the situation is not appropriate, and/or not knowing when to back off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/25 06:13 PM
0	Women tell that men don't approach women because they're scared. Right, so like I said. If the person you approach is decent and you're genuinely not being creepy, you won't be called a creep.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/25 06:12 PM
1	Women tell that men don't approach women because they're scared. They sound like shitty people. Again, like I said, decent people are not name-calling others who are just existing. I will say though that a lot of men think they're acting fine and will tell a story as if they've been a perfect angel and are basically being chastised for existing, when the lived experience of the woman involved is vastly different. (This is not directed at you, just something I've noticed.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/25 02:11 PM
-1	Women tell that men don't approach women because they're scared. Yes, and a decent woman can see that and wouldn't accuse him of being creepy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/25 01:47 PM
3	Women tell that men don't approach women because they're scared. I'm not sure what you mean by "correct"? Are you saying a woman being creeped out by an approaching man (who isn't intending to be creepy) is incorrect about feeling creeped out?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/25 01:21 PM
3	Women tell that men don't approach women because they're scared. That hypothetical woman would fall under the "not a decent person" category. However, I do think men vastly overestimate the amount of non-creepy men being called creepy. It's much more likely that he actually is being creepy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/25 01:12 PM
3	If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating them I'm married now, but when I was single one of my criteria for dating was that the guy who I was interested in had to have at least platonic female friend. My female friends thought I was crazy but I always felt like it was a red flag when a man didn't have any friends who were women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/25 01:10 PM
-2	Women tell that men don't approach women because they're scared. Here's the thing. I promise you that if you're not creepy or a jerk then no one is actually telling you not to approach women. (Unless we're talking about specific situations, like a woman in public with her headphones on.) It has nothing to do with looks, height, wealth, etc. If you're a decent person and you approach a decent person, then there will be no issue, even if she isn't interested.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/25 01:04 PM
1	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. Women who prefer deeper penile–vaginal stimulation are more likely to have vaginal orgasm Did you miss this part? Are you aware most women do not prefer deep PIV? So of the minority of women that do prefer deep PIV, yes those women prefer larger penises. This still makes them the minority of women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 04:15 PM
–	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. Not disagreeing with you, but what would you say is the worst? Because I'm having the hardest time conjuring a less attractive pose.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 01:53 PM
–	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. I mean, I don't think my husband particularly minds it, but I would be surprised if most men like the look of clenched ass cheeks and an un-arched back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 01:49 PM
–	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. you need the guy to have sex with you in a specific way so that you can orgasm, in a position where he practically has to do all of the work. Which is perfectly fine, obviously you can have your preferences. No, actually, he doesn't have to do all of the work. If this were true, women wouldn't be getting off so easily when they go solo. I prefer a certain position when having sex, but I'm still the one performing clitoral stimulation on myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 01:46 PM
–	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. Of course he doesn't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 01:43 PM
1	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. Oh yeah? There's science that says that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 01:43 PM
7	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. I guess we’ll never know. Oh, I know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 02:45 AM
10	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. I can't get off on top. I don't really care who is in control as long as I'm being stimulated in a way that gets me off, and I can't physically get that sensation in cowgirl. Only position I can consistently have an orgasm in is prone with my hips angled forward, which isn't exactly the nicest view for the guy. It's one of the reasons I was never able to get off with anyone before my husband. The guys I slept with didn't really want to do it in positions that didn't also look/feel good for them …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 02:41 AM
8	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. What exactly is preventing women from stimulating their own clitorises during sex? I dated not one, but two guys who would remove my hand when I did this. One of them said it made him feel inadequate. The other thought he could do it better, so he would remove my hand and replace it with his own, only to not stimulate me in a way that felt good at all. And when I tried to show him how, he would say things like, "Yeah I know, I got this" or "I know how you like it." Except... no he did not. I was…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 02:35 AM
9	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. Most women who orgasm from penetration have experienced sex with a man who had a particularly large penis. Nope, not at all. And most women I know wouldn't agree with this either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 02:29 AM
9	Size doesn't matter to women until it's their own partner who's small. Maybe because a "tight" vagina means a woman isn't sufficiently turned on. The vagina expands and becomes easier to penetrate with arousal. Every woman is different though, and there's bound to be some variation in how vaginas feel. I think it's pretty common and normalized for men to express preference for a certain feel, and I've certainly never seen them shamed for it. Even when it comes to aesthetic preferences. I mean, there's literally a porn subreddit for every type of labia you can think…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 01:35 PM
14	Size doesn't matter to women until it's their own partner who's small. You are trying to say, that most women don't enjoy biggers sizes than 4-6 inches and are in a "world of pain"? YES. Porn is not real life. It's crazy that this is such a common ongoing debate when the consensus among women is literally always "bigger is not better." But men won't listen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 01:20 PM
1	Q4M- Why don’t men believe the women who express that the fit and strong photo on the left is sexy, sensuous, sensual, broad, masculine, and generally better looking and more arousing to her than the photo on the right? Oh, I was just trying to point out how he doesn't really have visible abs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 07:02 PM
1	Q4M- Why don’t men believe the women who express that the fit and strong photo on the left is sexy, sensuous, sensual, broad, masculine, and generally better looking and more arousing to her than the photo on the right? lol tell me you go to the gym 3-5 times a week without telling me. I have no idea what this is supposed to mean but I don't work out at a gym. And yeah you kind of proved my point about how everyone seems to have a different definition of what a "dad bod" is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 06:54 PM
2	Q4M- Why don’t men believe the women who express that the fit and strong photo on the left is sexy, sensuous, sensual, broad, masculine, and generally better looking and more arousing to her than the photo on the right? His obliques are defined pretty well, but I wouldn't say he has defined abs on the left. If a woman's abdominal area looked like that, people would not say she has abs. Also, it depends on how you define "dad bod." It seems like everyone has a different definition for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 05:49 PM
13	Q4M- Why don’t men believe the women who express that the fit and strong photo on the left is sexy, sensuous, sensual, broad, masculine, and generally better looking and more arousing to her than the photo on the right? I'm a fit woman and I find the left version to be more attractive. Both versions seem pretty fit though. And I do prefer a fit physique to a beer gut. But I'll take the softer version of fit over the chiseled version of fit any day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 05:21 PM
–	The obsession with getting women to “admit” they prefer big dicks is hurting men The majority of attractive high self esteem women that enjoy sex are size queens. This is so wildly untrue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 01:48 PM
–	Unattractive fathers are better off having only daughters. If these men are successful enough to afford expensive reproductive technology, and find a woman who wants to reproduce with them, then maybe your claim is false.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/25 10:09 PM
–	Unattractive fathers are better off having only daughters. How does one "prioritize having a daughter?"	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/25 09:42 PM
4	How turned off would you be if before sex, he pulled out a consent form? That's because it's an incredibly unkind sentiment given how prevalent and unavoidable rape can be. Can you honestly and genuinely say that you think substituting the word "rape" with "accused of rape" is the same thing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/25 06:40 PM
4	How turned off would you be if before sex, he pulled out a consent form? Yeah, you know that response would get a man ostracized. Women have been told since the dawn of time that it's our responsibility for avoiding rape, while at the same time being told we are irrational when we want to avoid men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/25 05:23 PM
8	How turned off would you be if before sex, he pulled out a consent form? I would say that if you're going to tell me what I think or what I would say, then you clearly aren't debating in good faith, therefore I'm done engaging with you. But for what it's worth, you can be a dork ass loser and be accused of rape. They aren't mutually exclusive. An irrational fear coming true doesn't mean it was never irrational. You can be right and also suck as a human being.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/25 12:42 AM
3	How turned off would you be if before sex, he pulled out a consent form? No? Men will literally fuck a grapefruit. And I'd tell a grapefruit fucker that he should be choosier with his partners as well. Even though a grapefruit can't make rape allegations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/25 12:31 AM
4	How turned off would you be if before sex, he pulled out a consent form? Sure, because law enforcement can always be trusted. Once again, I am trying to explain to you that consent can be coerced off-camera. I would say no to that because of how absolutely fucking unhinged that is. I also wouldn't want law enforcement having a literal sex tape of me. But most importantly, I wouldn't want to fuck some dork ass loser with a go-pro strapped to his head because of an irrational fear that I'm going to try to ruin his life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/25 12:28 AM
4	How turned off would you be if before sex, he pulled out a consent form? No, I'm saying they should be choosier with who they trust/fuck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/25 12:13 AM
5	How turned off would you be if before sex, he pulled out a consent form? Here's the thing: we don't actually know how many accusations turn out to be false. A lack of conviction doesn't prove that the accuser was lying. You said in another comment that there were red flags for your friend's ex-girlfriend. People need to stop fucking people with red flags.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/25 12:10 AM
11	How turned off would you be if before sex, he pulled out a consent form? Again, even that wouldn't be considered "proof of consent." Audio and video can be doctored. Consent could have been coerced before entering the recorded space. There are so many reasons why this idea is stupid. No one is condemning it for no reason. We're condemning it because it doesn't work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/25 12:05 AM
12	How turned off would you be if before sex, he pulled out a consent form? Neither. The answer is to simply not sleep with a woman you don't trust.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/25 11:49 PM
11	How turned off would you be if before sex, he pulled out a consent form? It's being met with this level of dismissal because these ideas don't actually provide "proof of consent."	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/25 11:44 PM
24	How turned off would you be if before sex, he pulled out a consent form? You are statistically more likely to be raped, even as a man, than you are to be accused of rape. Not even specifically a false accusation. Just accused in general. So yeah, if a man tried to pull this unhinged behavior with me, I would be so turned off. A sex consent form isn't even a thing. It proves nothing. It's also something I would only expect an actual rapist to think of. To even come up with that idea is such weird behavior. are men supposed to just continue rolling the dice and hoping …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/25 11:41 PM