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It’s a weird thing where either it exist but that’s a good thing because it goes against oppression, or they say it doesn’t exist.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/26 05:34 PM
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I actually have seen people on Reddit just outright say that the draft doesn’t exist. Which is crazy, but it’s not the first time I’ve seen people outright deny that it exist. I even did have an encounter the other day of a few Redditors on the topic (3 or more woman commenters) saying that the draft does not exist. The Reddit post was a screenshot of a twitter post. As for the Reddit post itself, a comment in the top thread said that the draft does not functionally exist, the comment otheroutri…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/07/26 11:01 PM
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You can tell it’s misandry sometimes because even when people say that the Boy Mom is creepy or has an incestual relationship with the child, they still usually do not victimize the son, and will refuse to call the Boy Mom any actual terms that imply her to be creepy. They instead just say it’s just “emotional incest” or whatever to make it sound more passive. Often times with these discussions of creepy boy moms, the discussion and the comments will treat the son as a future misognstic abuser b…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/07/26 04:29 AM
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I’ve pointed this out before many times as a black man. However this tends to get ignored via the argument that this is somehow different.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/26 11:58 PM
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And honestly, I think they are aware of the difference between an agreeable man, and a good man. It’s just that moralizing hatred as a “good” thing, is a easier way to get people to instantly side with you, or at least make your opponent out to be a bad person for being against hatred, even when it’s against men. “Well a good X, is someone that knows that his kind is bad”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/26 11:57 PM
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The existance of people who self hate on their own demographic to pull everyone else down, shouldn’t be an excuse to hate on people. They shouldn’t be praised or encouraged. “Good men” or “real men” that demonize and say bigoted things to thier own demographic or other demographics, even if its to expressly agree with misanderist, those men are not good people. They are not good people, because they bully, mistreated, and tear down other demographics or even their own. Sometimes it’s for attenti…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/26 11:50 PM
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If I’m to answer the first one: That false accusion and that men being SA’d by women is a super rare occurrence for men, it doesn’t happen to men, so men shoudn’t care about it…according to other men and women who don’t even know our experince but will deny it anywho.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/06/26 02:58 PM
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Ironically it’s not rare to see them defend or downplay rape or abuse anyways so long as the victim is male
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/26 04:04 PM
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Also if you use the same logic, women for centuries oppressed every demographic that wasn’t expressly their white cis husband. It’s just that the people who say “men opressed women for centuries” for some reason conveniently do not know this, or somehow forgot. I don’t know why, but it’s always ignored how other women treated other demographics outside of their own. Women literally owned, abused, and murdered POC slaves, mistreated trans and gay people, and so on. If I wanted to use their logic …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/26 09:13 PM
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You as you as a man or woman, know how sperm works, and are “aware of the situation” yes, but this knowledge does not magically mean that a penis cumming inside a vagina, instantly makes the man or vice versa, as instantly at fault for the child/fetus. I have already listed how men can be comminly forced or manipulated in my last comment of what I am describing with men, and how these situations are not black and white or generalized, which I feel is being ignored here: “If you don’t want any re…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:26 PM
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Sure that situation may dwarf or be uncommon from your specific perspective, but this still ruins the life of those men of the women who do poke holes, stay on either way after warning, lie about being on plan B, or other means of forcing a child onto someone. So instead of making it to either where only one single sex gets to have the right of having control of the other gender’s consqense and that gender’s life based off of the child and gets to be able to force the other party to have the chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:31 PM
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It’s great that you considered it. As long as she knows beforehand (Birth control) and was warned, and so long as she didn’t purposely stay on, then that’s cool, It’s too bad though no one ever considers that the woman in some situations is the one to have stayed on top, including on purpose even after the mans warning… Which is partly why I agree that unmarried fathers should also potentially have a choice, rather than assumption that the father is always at fault or always responsible for it a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:10 PM
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The former comment said “if men don’t want to be parents, don’t cum inside women-“ in a tone that expressly assumes the man is always purposely doing it and is always on-top, even if that’s not always the case, for example, do they ever consider if a woman is on top even if the man gave warning?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:50 PM
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I think some women even with progressive beliefs (and men), make the mistake of not believing other forms of discrimination and mistreatment, unless it strictly affects women/femininity and it agrees with her specific framework of discrimination or prejudust. It’s strange, because other women will agree that beauty standards and women being mistreated because of beauty standards, is indeed discrimination. However for some reason, if a man complains about male beauty standards and expectations an…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:20 PM
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I think some women, make the mistake of not believing other forms of discrimination, unless it strictly affects women/femininity and it agrees with their framework of discrimination. It’s strange, because other women will agree that beauty standards and women being mistreated because of beauty standards, is indeed discrimination. However for some reason, if a man complains about male beauty standards and expectations and how it results in mistreatment of men, suddenly it’s “incel-dom”. Suddenly …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:07 PM
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I think a lot of Redditors don’t realize that sex doesn’t have to involve the man being on top for her to get pregnant. Conveniently, the woman commenting, doesn’t assume women do not go on top or potethally purposely break condemns before or after, so from their perspective, there is no “reverse” to them. I think there is an issue where because of lack of experience, people do not actually think of the other side. A lot of feminist women for example, will make heavy generalizations and statemen…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:15 PM
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How about natural selection carry out your delusional self instead? You’re trying way too hard to justify abuse and blame victims by calling it “fair”, while you sit on your ass on a screen talking crap to anyone that recognizes how messed up this logic is. Then you tell people that they deserves to die by natural selection just for calling you out and saying people should rebel against abuse? You call him a pussy or call others weak for wanting to stand up against abuse in general, meanwhile yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:49 PM
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But violence isn’t “gender coded” as the mere existence of female violence means it’s not gender coded. We just don’t associate women as violent, even when they are. Especially if it’s violence is by arrest for a lot of cases as well, which women do not typically get arrested for the same crimes for much longer, especially rape and abuse. Women in headlines will also allow other women and female teachers to rape 50+ kids at school, meanwhile if she’s cause, she gets a slap on the wrist. Would th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:31 PM
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This sounds crazy. Why would I view slavery as wrong, but then do it myself? Your starting comment also says that women are just returning the same virtripl that men have thrown at women for thousands of years, but that doesn’t make sense when you realize that women for thousands of years, have always thrown virtrol at men or other minorities of men. Literally anyone that wasn’t a cis straight white man, already has been a victim of that, even by women. How does this even work for women, includi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:39 AM
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Feminist groups literally used to say and defend slogans such as “kill all men”, yet I have not seen one group that gives instruction on how to kill or rape women. The very things your accusing men and movements for, are exactly the things I have seen feminist do, and yet you either deny that in a generlization about men, or just defend a sexist movement that you favor, in defence of another that you do not favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:33 AM
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I have seen a very simailr thing happen on Reddit whenever people ask how men feel about “I hate men” even on male centered subs. Some comments will say they wouldn’t associate with her. Others will say that if you get offended at the statement, you are automatically a bad person, or insist that any woman who says that has been hurt by men and is just expressing trauma. When I see post asking why “I hate men” gets a pass but hate “i hate women” is treated as morally awful, the comments will insi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/26 08:25 PM
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I think some of us just do not take it personally to where we use that experience to purposely shit on others based on their sex. I am aware of my experiences of women assaulting or harassing me, or other women not necessarly doing anything about it (tbf I do not expect everyone to just instantly know what’s going on). I’m also aware however, my experience is not reflective of many to even most women, and also, it just makes me think why would I use my experience to then intentionally mistreat o…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/26 10:25 AM
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Your trying way too hard in the comments to deny the topic of female rapist, or deny rape based off of them being older women instead preying on another. Even when another comment here said their experience with a female raping them, your first reply was to say “that’s not rape”. Many to even most male victims, had female perp in exactly the same way as that comment has had, however unlike male perps, are not reported. Real change, is acknowledging those female perps, instad of Instantly trying …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/05/26 07:41 PM
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I’d say it happens to men a lot more, but it’s also just more expected for us young men to know what to do in life after high school or less. When it comes to the internet, the sterotype is then pushed louder onto any man. Then even though a lot of young men including myself feel lost in what exactly to do, unfortunately that’s not really a concern to many people, and it’s eaiser to mock the sterotype. Even I myself have made self deprecating jokes about it towards myself, but people will uniron…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/05/26 02:48 PM
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Agreed. The benefits or advantage, matters little to the people who do not want to be drafted and may potentially die anyways in a war that they do not how how long will last. Or at least it won’t matter if I’m dead here anywho. Back then the benifit was that if you went to war, you got to vote, which in order to vote as a male you still need to sign for the draft. Not everyone would live to see that benefit or any benifit you give them however.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/05/26 05:39 AM
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Not to mention, anyone who supports male only draft, is continuing their support of seeing men’s lives as disposable anyways and as ok to threaten and force them to potentially die in a war they do not cause. A liberal/leftest that supports this or justifies is, is no better than the right wingers they critsize, given that both are in agreement of the ideal that it’s ok to treat others lives as lesser or as a mere role.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/05/26 05:34 AM
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Also weren’t men always accused of being witches are were more often the ones being accused or punished?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/05/26 05:08 AM
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This book seems to have no true interest in social justice. It’s more interesting in generlizing men, or dismissing them, thinking thats somehow solving and helping social justice for everyone.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/05/26 07:41 AM
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Side note: I also noticed that a few of the comments, tried to victimize richer class women in general by deeming that it’s so easy for rich women to get hated on in spaces due to sexism and that those said richer women are hated on for petty reason, unlike their male counterpart who are rapist and abusers and don’t get hated apparently. But the thing is, debates of a upper women commiting outright abuse, is no small or petty thing, but these controversies, generally do nothing to them. Amber He…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/26 04:03 AM
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You saw that? Me too! I’m not usually on that subreddit, but it generally that post doesn’t even fit that subreddit. That subreddit was for victims coming over to vent. The poster, was advocating for richer women who may be abusive. Yet half the comments all tried to see her as solely victim. The other half recognized that even women can be abusive, and that heard seemed to be very manipulative, and narcissistic.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/26 03:51 AM
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I’m not sure how people who see misandry as reactionary to misogyny, explain female on male abuse and rape. But it seems these people generally ignore or downplay it, for the sake of continuing advocating for hatred of other demographics, while deeming their own as inherently passive.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/26 03:46 AM
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In my experience, most misanderist are borderline pro-rape culture, it just depends on who it affects. As extreme as that sounds, what I mean is: A lot of them only speak of rape culture within the context of male on female, but dismiss or omit any speaking of stopping supposed rape culture in general, such as laws not counting female perps as guilty of abuse or SA in some counties, or police arresting the male abuse victim if said perp was a woman. These are legal issues. Then there is the gene…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/26 03:30 AM
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In that case may I ask what you meant by ‘added’ in the context?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/26 03:20 AM
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“Added” makes it seem like leftist simply do not have those traits however, even though they do.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/05/26 11:35 PM
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It could be, but a lot of the time it doesn’t seem to be that masculine train at all. I notice that men will sometimes try to make it known they are victims, but what happens is that everyone else also however, does not allow men to really be victims, and will demonize any man that says anything. It doesn’t really seem to be a masculine train to dismiss and disavow men’s victimhood, as much as it seems to be societal. I wouldn’t place it as a ‘masculine’ train of thought, given how much even wom…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/05/26 11:17 PM
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Republicans are also shitty and sexist, even towards men. I will say though, misogyny and violent transphobia are nothing new to the left though, especially in the UK. It seems quite common for other leftist to dogpile on other women that they do not like, not even always for moral political reasons, or it can be something as small as calling out misandry, even by calling her terms like a “pickme”.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/05/26 11:11 PM
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Yeah. Just as I don’t feel much of a strong need to defend republicans for condoning racism and sexism, I’m not one to defend the left entirely when it comes to them doing the same, in this case sexism towards men. I don’t consider myself exactly leftist for that type of reason.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/05/26 11:08 PM
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The mods of that subreddit can go fuck themselves for outright deleting the comments below that were disagreeing with the OP saying that sexist statement, while also the mods purposely keep that said sexist comment up. The subreddit mods there should have no room to defend this sexist generalized behavior, or any generlization, given the generalization of how Reddit mods are seen as perverted nasty powertripers, but this here is exactly that: Power-tripping. With their own logic in mind, the spe…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/05/26 11:01 PM
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Yeah, as iffy as I am about statistics In general, I see that it’s 40% of women back in 1800s who owned slaves on thier own in the US before slavery was outlawed, but it could be 50%. Nonetheless 40% is still a large number though. https://www.history.com/articles/white-women-slaveowners-they-were-her-property
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/05/26 03:19 PM
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The scary thing is, not just with feminism, but the few times I’ve seen historic videos tackling the topic of the reality of how women treated slaves and black people, such as slavery itself, brutal abuse and murder (mainly murdering men), the person talking about it will usually start with a lecture about how these women were all oppressed, couldn’t vote, and were struggling with what little rights they had, including their right to own and mistreat other demographics that were literally consid…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/05/26 01:32 PM
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Same here. I’m a black man, but why would I suddenly claim other black people won’t take offense to being compared to lesser than a wild animal? I’m not sure why people here are trying to dismiss his point by saying “that’s different!” No, the point is that you are demonizing others based off of what demographic they are born as, which the people within this debate find acceptable. Also In general, there is this weird trend where if you see another man’s experience, the way ti counter his experi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 12:06 AM
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Look man, it’s not my fault that I and other boys and young men think that chatbots are interactive and anime women look cute, blame the animators and makers of these chatbots! But jokes aside, I’m not sure why academic and news teams take it so seriously that yes, some guys talk to chatbots, me included. Why do article writers use that of all things as a means to single out men or boys? Articles like this are not written in good faith for the intent of encouraging interacting with those boys or…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/04/26 07:47 AM
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Yeah, and I notice that people are very on brand to defend it. The only time they call it out, is when they are accusing her misandry as her of appealing or centering men. Thats like seeing a artist call women useless bitches, but only having an issue with it because you think women like it. Like how does that even work? I can totally foresee people defending her for trying to seduce a minor unfortunately.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/04/26 09:41 AM
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They never pull this logic for women. By their logic there are way less female predators and abusers depite there being thousands upon thousands of them (most of which aren’t put into a stat), but they never care about them nor use “it should be zero” logic on those same women. Instead misandrist actively justify, dismiss, and downplay those women, and will purposely be more passive when taking about them, never in a condescending or generalizing tone. They do not even believe in their own logic…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/26 01:21 PM
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Yeah sometimes older woman can be very sweet. I know that this isn’t related to the topic at hand, but the other day there was this sweet old lady at an Arby’s I went to, she was a cashier that worked there. I was at most just semi looking at the menu and wasn’t that serious about getting anything, but she was so convincing and nice that I changed my mind anywho. Shit, she looked like she enjoyed life more than me at that moment. I know this entire comment is silly but overall that little encoun…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/04/26 05:01 PM
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They deny Patrarchy as a term because in modern day the term itself can be pretty flawed or outdated in certain areas, such as assuming every male, down to the homeless, dying, poor, or suffering, all are more powerful than the average woman, which ignores those men’s struggles (because yeah I’ve seen people use the term exactly like that to deny others suffering by accusing them of having power they don’t currently have at all). From the standpoint of taking down these roles I’d agree but I’d b…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/04/26 02:49 PM
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How would it be a major blow to people who advocates for men and are against sexism agaist men? The actions of a whole other grown man, does not dictate being a sexist towards a child by picking and choosing when to teach consent based off of gender. You do not need to be sexist or direct prejdust pre-assumption of a gender, at all to call out a child rapist that is ‘rewarded’ by both men and women. You don’t need to be sexist to random boys just to be agaisnt child rape. Not to mention the peop…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/04/26 07:28 PM
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It shows that there is corruption and that yes, the world allows richer powerful people to get a pass. I will say though it doesn’t mean however those kids (boys) will turn out as rapist and should be specifically treated to where they get lectured off the assumption of gender because of the actions of a richer person that gets away with it, otherwise it wouldn’t be targeted to just boys, as keep in mind the richer women who either are on that said ‘list’, or the women who marry those rapist men…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/04/26 05:51 PM
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I agree. It was fun seeing their dynamic. I thought that the two would actually butt heads in the movie, but I’m glad they actually showed Bowser being proud of his son’s achievements and working together. Plus it was great seeing the two fight alongside each other.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/04/26 01:22 PM
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Yes, it is good to point out, especially because some people think feminist can’t be racist for some reason. Though unfortunately most feminist usually ignore female perpetrated DV if you bring it up even with stats, and will often not even acknowledge it, and then the same goes for the racism part too unfortunately. Speaking of racism, at least on Reddit, I notice that anytime someone brings up the fact that even early sufferage/feminist were very racist towards black people in feminist subredd…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/03/26 02:54 AM
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What’s weird is that when I bring up that women have always directly oppressed others and or contributed to it, such as slavery, abusing black men and getting them killed, or harassing gay men and trans men and women with objectification or death threats like in the UK, the response that feminist give me is usually to say that those groups were not oppressed for their gender, therefore women never opressed men. Or they downplay it. This response is contrary to the other responses from other femi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/03/26 02:14 AM
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Interesting video there, because I had a simailr-ish experience to that dude in middle school, and there are always similar videos you can find. It doesn’t seem all that uncommon for stuff like that to happen to dudes when they have a female bully or harasser, and the victim is punished for retaliating. Bascally people will watch you get harassed, but won’t do anything until you retaliate. Sadly teachers and other kids in school and in adult situations outside of school, tend to pick sides for w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/03/26 05:22 AM
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Yeah, I notice that people say this, but they only mean female victims. They never bring up male victims or really care about or even believe in male false accusation victims, and instead go back to only focusing on rape victims IF they are women. Why not focus on how these perpetrators and these situations make it harder for male victims since they ARE the victim in this situation? Well, it’s likely because it proves that yes, the male can be a victim of her, and that’s not something people wan…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/26 06:09 PM
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Honestly most elite people on the list, also have have rich wives that likely were aware of their husbands going to th island, if it’s not those said wives going themselves anyways, and I do not doubt that some elite women have gone there and did indeed something sinister. Not just go there but were completely passive like how some people may think. Not to mention you do have women who are on the list or associated or friends with Epstien in some sort of way, such as JKR who emailed and invited …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/26 05:56 AM
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I agree. For the greater good, it would only be best if both of these leaders and simailr ones, were not around anymore, not on this planet, or anywhere really. These people believe they have a right to rape and murder you or others. They are simply just criminals with political power, therfore will not be held up to legal standard (because the law protects them). I think a band of traffickers and rapist need to go either way, idc what class they are of if their own power somehow dictates them a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/03/26 12:26 AM
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It’s a strange thing where people are very aware of the fact that men are unreported and that women as perps are unreported and tend to not be legally labeled as abusers/rapist. Some stats even say stuff like SA and domestic abuse is closer to 50/50 for both genders as victims of the other sex. But even if you bring these things up, people will proceed to ignore this, and will say that even if unreported and even if the laws in some counties literally do not define male victims of rape (by women…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/02/26 10:31 PM
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I really do not like how a lot of other progressive women who have outright sexist and damn near conservative views of others, tend to turn around and lambast liberal men as a whole as sexist, while those same liberal women and men hold onto their own sexist and racist views of other people. It’s why I never took it seriously when even feminist, accuse male feminist of being all misgonstic, because to me it’s like a wolf in sheep’s clothing calling out another wolf in sheep’s clothing. The only …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/02/26 10:11 PM
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I sort of get it, but not really. Men are considered default perptrstors, but the default in society as a whole, not quite unless your of higher status in some sort of way. We’re not consedered the default when it comes to being victims of violence and human struggle as people actively dismiss those topics, not even because it makes men look “weak” to acknowledge those issues, but people have an empathy and humanization gap when it comes to men being victimized. To pin men as the default in soci…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/02/26 11:25 AM
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Because if the idea is that they insult people as a whole and not just bad people or inscure people, then I think that a corrupt richer polticans are not the best example, compared to JK Rowling using it on people who critsize her or ally with trans people unlike how she demonizes them. Some people that likely didn’t do anything wrong at all, or aren’t really “inscure” like how it’s framed. I think people still shouldn’t insult people for having a ‘small dick’ because having a small dick doesn’t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/02/26 02:33 AM
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Trump I wouldn’t put as an example to say the least, but the second example is proof that yes, people will body shame men and insult their genitalia even if you did nothing wrong at all, it’s not about insulting insecurity. It’s simply just used as an insult regardless. Which by the way, combined with the fact that it’s used as a general insult, it’s creepy that the first thing that comes up to these people’s mind, is to imagine and insulting someone’s private parts.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/26 09:17 PM
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I am glad that people as a whole in that neighborhood stood up to ICE during the aftermath, even though really he just walked away with no arrest it seems (as cops will often support ICE by working alongside them), but this is really getting out of hand. The pinned comment on the main post says that the young adult who was shot, was a 20yr old man, not far off at all from my own age. https://www.reddit.com/r/LiveProtestUpdates/s/DfksdufrAf I might be misreading, but the article says that ICE tri…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/01/26 04:50 AM
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Yeah, looking at the video it seems to be what your describing. A lot of bad-faith arguments that would already side in said misandrist favor. “Don’t say ‘not all men’ that’s invalidating as hell” Saying a literal fact against someone who’s demonizing you and your enrite indentity, isn’t invalidation. It’s more invalidating for someone to demonize you based off of aspects that you literally cannot control, so I don’t get how the misanderist is the one being invalided here. And then he goes on to…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/01/26 04:02 AM
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That too, usually people do not conseder that as a factor that men are encouraged to take most active jobs anyways, including dangerous ones like being a construction worker. ICE likes to pretend as if they are in danger with all the fancy gear they put on.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/01/26 03:53 AM
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Wow, that is awful advice, I’m not sure why this is such a popular means of advice that people give when it comes to interacting with a misanderist. She may not even be a victim at all, but may just have sexist beliefs. People should be encouraged, if not at least they should be allowed to question and talk back against any form of hatred, demonization, or agenda against another identity/demographic. Men, women, white, POC, gay, straight, and so on. To instead, tell people to shut up, and never …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/01/26 09:30 PM
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I find that strange, because not only are there usually men protesting, but there are also women who also work alongside ICE or support MAGA (hence the women who did vote for maga/trump). Seeings even 1 or 2 ice agents per video, is still a lot when you consider we are talking about ICE/Police as a group, Ofc this isn’t really to Cherry-pick women, it’s to say that cherry-picking men as a negative in favor of your own demographic, makes no sense, especially if people of your own demographic is s…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/01/26 09:08 PM
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I don’t even want a WW3 because I fear how that it could affect the average person (drafting, bombings of innocent people, chaos, fear of invasion, etc. stuff that probably won’t affect America AS MUCH as it would other places, but still affect America and those other counties). If I were to take it to the extreme I hope that at most, whether it’s WW3 or something else, that what goes around comes around specifcally either to ICE, Trump, or even a lot of the American government for siding with a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 07:02 PM
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Yeah, ICE does also have its defenders, but people have always been critical of ICE, rightfully so, as ICE has always been a bunch of violent nutjobs anyways, even their baseline of arresting a random person or entire families minding their business, with the mere assumption or accusion of them being an illegal immigrant, whether it’s true or not, all based off their skin color or nationality, is violence. The shooting, I am unfortunately not shocked about, given their track record of violence t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 06:42 PM
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A lot of feminist also seem very focused on telling you how great feminism is, rather than looking at the movements flaws or blind spots or the cases where the movement is actually antagonist and endangers others, such as their sexist demonizing or narratives, or the Duluth Model, or feminist in other counties actively protesting against male centered abuse shelters (while keeping female centered abuse shelters). Their movement never really looks inward all that often, they just tell you that th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/26 10:48 PM
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My issue is, how come people who say this NEVER BRING UP THE FACT THAT OTHER WOMEN OPRESSED MINORITY GROUPS AS WELL NEXT TO THEIR HUSBANDS! Such as how slave owner women abused black people for example. Look at women TERFS who protest against trans people even existing. Even as a ‘minority’ It pisses me off, because this logic tries to generlize men and use it as a justification to mistreat men, but I’d be labeled as the stereotypical misogynists black man if I believe in the same logic as your …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/01/26 04:20 AM
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This all sounds incoherent and isn’t very layered since it’s like 2am where I am, and I am tired, but I’m frustrated at how people downplay and justify misandry, by blaming either men, or misogyny. Never just taking in accountability that maybe misandrist as well, can be people with their own dehumanizing thoughts agaisnt the other gender and also mistreat that said gender. They aren’t all moral angles or victims who at worst just “annoy” men. No, some of them are the same ones who’d downplay a …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/12/25 08:59 AM
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Yeah I hate all of these arguments that people will use as a way to sheid criticism of Misandry, because they tend to ignore or excuse A LOT of forks of hatred, sometimes by even victimizing the woman and blaming it on misogony (hated of women) even in cases where misogony has nothing to do with it. I think it’s just that they choose not to see these things as harmful, and prefer to downplay it. For example, all of these people 1-7, do not see it as hatred, or see it as equally harmful when a ma…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/12/25 08:34 AM
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I haven’t seen much of the show myself but I want to watch more of it though. It seems that a lot of people don’t like it because of fam service but now apparently people think he doesn’t desvere her? He is alreay competent and supportive and takes interest her in interest. Im not sure why it matters if people think he “deserves her” because with my first impresons of the show, it seems she likes him too anyways. Neither of the two are hurting each other either.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/12/25 02:13 AM
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Yeah I get that vibe too. I’m used to the weird “why don’t men just date other men??” counter argument that a lot of people use for this topic. This comment in the photo assumes that being “homosocial” or in homosocial groups, means that you don’t want a girlfriend and are not attracted to women at all.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/12/25 03:07 AM
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Yesterday I made a post about this sort of topic on JU/JustUnsubed, with someone bringing up male loneliness in a unrelated topic, with them making no real connection or care to the topic beyond just using it as a means to demonize men as violent and women as passive and helpful and are victims of men. The orginal post was about elephants mind you, it wasn’t much related to gender, but anyways what I’m trying to say is that their orginal point about ‘male loneness’, didn’t actually make any sens…
/r/EverydayMisandry10/12/25 02:44 AM
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I see men raise the issue for the first 3 sometimes even the 4th in the fact that men do not get ani focus when it comes to being victims of human trafficking. Also getting divorced and having your stuff taken even if it belonged to you before the marriage, is a issue, why is she acting like that’s petty? However, commenters like this, simply either don’t pay attention to men bringing these up and will likely response with a “women have it worse, men commit 99% of X”, or will bring up what they …
/r/EverydayMisandry09/12/25 03:53 PM
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I mean, if they’ve heard of “boy moms” you’d know of women who show videos of them kissing and touching their sons seductively on camera posting it online, with no consequence of deletion. There is ofc also the cases of female teachers raping students, one even got charged for raping over 50+ male students. Also why India, a country where male rape from women, isn’t even legally considered as rape? Of course you won’t find a case of women on male gang rape by women, because rape from women, isn’…
/r/EverydayMisandry08/12/25 01:29 AM
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Yeah, nerdy stuff that men like, has always been made fun of or seen as something to punch down on men who like that sort, as if it’s bad to like say anime, comics, or video games. I have noticed that pretty much any male hobby, or media, have basically just been labled as problematic, male-centered, or incel-adjacent, and nerdy in some sort of bad way. And yeah, movie studios and game studios try to appeal to those that demonize that media, by making strange changes to either their female cast …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/25 06:27 AM
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I should disclaim that I love my family, they are good people and do their best, trust me they are good parents and family, but I just already don’t socialize much, we may not always have the same interest in stuff we’d usually talk about, and politics or constantly bringing them up, just makes me wanna skip the convo, but especially if those “poltics” is venting or demonizing others. For awhile I’ve had the thought in mind that I don’t connect with people all that well, but maybe I just need to…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/12/25 11:02 PM
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With socializing, i really don’t do it most of the time either way. I feel the same as you, feeling a tat empty with socializing at times, but especially if it’s just for politics, but being being anti-equality would be the final nail. I feel like I don’t really connect very well with most people deeper than family ties, or at least not with my family outside of my younger brother. Him being egalitarian doesn’t really ever come up, because I never think about it, or I don’t think he’s against th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/12/25 10:52 PM
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Some people do see male sexuality as shallow or a direct threat or oppressive and as brutish and cannot comprehend the idea of men wanting romance from women or that men being sexually attracted to women doesn’t equal SA, rape and murder. Also not to downplay slut-shaming, but to me, being deemed as possible threat, rapist or creep just because your attracted to women, is way worse than just being called ‘easy’ or a slut. It’s still bad but your not being percived as a criminal. Truth be told, o…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/12/25 10:07 PM
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People like this hate seeing men happy in any regard, or wanting romance in any regard, and so they deem that man a pussy for enjoying pretty much anything that’s not some sort of labor.
/r/EverydayMisandry04/12/25 09:53 PM
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Saying “kill all men” IS fascist, just that these people don’t see fascism unless it’s a male saying messed up shit against another demographics. Saying to kill any real life demographic out of malice, even if you claim it’s partly as a way to “vent” or “joke” is fascist.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/11/25 08:11 AM
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No since I would never watch or necessarly support stuff like that, like say the movie “Men”. But speaking of normalizing Androphobia, I’ve realized something that’s kinda related, but with True Crime. I’m not into the True Crime genre that much but I have moreso just been surrounded by it before, but from the outside, I have recently realize that most of True Crime doesn’t seem to really tackle any actual crime unless it’s expressly the topic of “male spouse murders his wife!!” or “man kidnaps …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/11/25 08:53 PM
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Also not to diss the fans of True Crime, I’m not trying to Yuck others Yum, but often the ones you do see talking about True Crime online, I’ve seen them also say that women such as themselves, use true crime as a way to search for “signs” in men or the people around them. It sounds generally weird or paranoid to watch those shows for the sake of projecting onto others (not out of legal interest or interest in detective stuff), which makes me think that maybe the former is connected, as in the r…
/r/EverydayMisandry26/11/25 08:16 PM
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So speaking of True Crime, I’m not into the True Crime genre that much, but from the outside, I have recently realize that most of True Crime doesn’t seem to really tackle any actual crime unless it’s expressly the topic of “male spouse murders his wife!!” or “man kidnaps and murders/rape woman” and that stuff is typically never covered by the genre it seems if it’s other way around anyways, unless that story specificly seeks to highlight the female perp as a person who was tired of their male’s…
/r/EverydayMisandry26/11/25 08:08 PM
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When people see women hitting, rape, beating, or even killing a man, likely their spouse or child, people do not call it “misandry” or any negetive term that implies harm to men. A lot of cases where if a woman is harmed by a man, it’s deemed or at least assumed to be misogony and violence against women. Misnderist and most people in general, think that misandry isn’t violent because they simply do not view a woman abusing or assaulting a man, as hateful or gendered or taboo, or at best see it a…
/r/EverydayMisandry24/11/25 12:19 AM
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I swear I will never understand why people think some of us are weird for not liking sports. I bring it up from time to time when asked, but I don’t make it my personality or anything to hate on sports, so why do people think it’s weird for me to not really care too much about sports that much, idk.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/11/25 08:39 PM
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I’ve seen post online where such as the askfeminst subreddit or post on other online subreddits and areas, whenever anyone tries to bring up the fact that early feminist and sufferage movements were very racist to POC and POC women or try to bring up the issue of misandry, you know what the response always was from those feminist supporters? A bunch lf “Yes, ok and?” or “Well so what?” or “The poster is asking in bad faith!” or simple denial and downplay. Which this is an issue, because the femi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/11/25 04:05 AM
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Rather than calling myself an anti-feminist, I always say my exact issues with feminism, such as the male demonization and biased lens that only see men as a obstacle, commonly them not speaking to men in their issues with the same grace or humanization as they do women, however it always results in the same response of “they don’t do that!” Or “that doesn’t happen!” or when someone else does the same exact thing, other feminist and feminist ally’s and progressive, simply call the people who cri…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/11/25 03:44 AM
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The issues is wanting nuance, from a movement that doesn’t give much nuance outside of its own beliefs, to other demographics of people, whether that be men, POC, and trans people (TERFs)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/10/25 11:14 PM
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I don’t think they can, nor will, because they lack prespective from men that doesn’t just passively agree with their “do better men!” Or “Men are awful” ideals, since their prespective is only within bias against men. To the left, they still sort of have the ideal that men, no matter the context or if it doesn’t apply to many individuals, must always be at fault for whatever, they are always in the wrong, and must improve that for someone elses benefits. They are only speaking to a demographic …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/10/25 11:03 AM
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I notice that people do that a lot, where if you bring attention to the fact that people shame men on certain aspects, people will rush to say that women don’t do that, and it’s mainly other men who shame other men. Even if your nuanced by saying that people/society shame height, body, genital size, people will always rush to defend women from that statement. This is a tangent but I remember a week or so again having this discussion where the orginal joke was about men finishing quickly during s…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/10/25 08:13 PM
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What I mean is, a lot of the time feminist in my experience are performative in the way of they don’t actually care for equality or will tend to only care about equality in areas when it affects them but don’t actually care about equality or don’t even truly treating both sexes with respect and would rather belittle men as a whole, even men that they like or are friends with, hence the whole “your one of the good ones” thing that they tend to do. It doesn’t seem feminist actually care for others…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/09/25 12:14 AM
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I notice it’s also a lot of men who try and make fun of them for being feminine or seeming like they are trying to impress women. It has become a general trend to try your hardest to bash “performative males”, but it seems the internet REALLY does not believe men can have their own interest, be liberal, or hobbies unless it’s to impress women. I can understand not liking f-boys, but in all truth…I’m not even WHERE the preformative male actually is, because it seems this isn’t a gendered thing an…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/25 04:10 AM
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Before this trend of calling it “performative male” I mainly saw others critsize male feminist. It never makes sense to me when feminist specifically criticize male-feminist in general for being performative since the majorty of feminist or “female feminist” in this case are equally performative, and only see men as a tool to blame, or demand stuff of.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/25 03:47 AM
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That too, that’s usually a given that people will call you misogynist if you made fun of them or called out certain beliefs they had. People to this day say that the reason why Amber Heard got hate is because of misogyny and because she’s not a “perfect victim”, so sometimes even bad abusive people aren’t allowed to be made fun of, called out, or joked about without you being called misogynistic for doing so, even if the same people accusing other of being misogynistic, might not share the same …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/09/25 08:36 PM
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I’m going to be honest with you, I know people are tired of hearing about the Charlie Kirk situation, and while I don’t really feel sympathy for them either way, I’m just saying that I find that a lot of the rest of the left agree with not feeling sympathy for them. This is fine, however I do question, if it were a woman with those exact same demonizing beliefs against others, then I wonder if the same people would be joking or shit-talking and instead would be telling us how awful this is now t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/09/25 06:23 PM
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Stick with me here but I saw a video recently saying that the critism against women reading smut (Booktok) is a form of misogony. What I found interesting is that all of the critsims she’s taking about (that smut is brainwashing women and women won’t know fiction from reality) are the same exact criticisms and bashing that men get for liking comics, anime, games, and yes, smut/porn, even if completely fictional. What’s strange is that she didn’t really give any actual examples of misogony beside…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/09/25 03:40 AM
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I’m not on either’s side? If the person is an abuser than they are an abuser regardless, but why propose it like I need to side with either or that men as a whole are using autism as an excuse? An excuse that most people don’t even buy or even allow.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/25 06:41 AM
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I think a lot of feminism heavily relies on misrepresenting and white-washing history for the sake of the benefit of their movement. For example schools and feminist themselves ignore the fact that feminism and early sufferage movements were mainly only white woman’s movement at first that were racist towards POC, and ignored and mistreated POC, including POC women. That’s one example, but where I’m going with this is that feminist misrepresent history and men’s experiences to make it seem like …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/08/25 01:38 AM
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That and you can make claims like “women are socialized to abuse men, as many media has men being harmed by women for the sake of comedy” by their logic. Which even as someone who’s been in that exact situation of getting assaulted or harassed just because a woman thought it was funny, this isn’t something I don’t project to all women nor do I think any feminist would agree with that quoted statement I made. Not even because it’s wrong or right, just that feminist don’t really like to accept tho…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/08/25 12:40 AM
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I have yet to watch the show, but I’ve seen online that the people who have watched it, including teachers and parents, don’t seemed focused on the issue and just project this show onto their sons, and young boys as a whole. They get so scared that they think even their sons might turn out like this, or they claim that young boys in general are like this or are gonna turn out like the Mc from the show. it’s goes into the weird and outright sexist assumption that every boy watches Andrew Tate and…
/r/MensRights17/08/25 05:18 AM
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I have been thinking the same. Honestly, I think it’s because these people don’t give a flying fuck about victim that aren’t women, and even other men themselves who were victims of women, tend to downplay their own experience. No one wants to see men as victims, so therefore they downplay the male victims by focusing not on the male victims, but focusing on how it’s not so bad for them to get assaulted by women and that women have it worse. They don’t give a fuck about SA victims, they just car…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/25 01:32 AM
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I notice that for as much bashing as the left does to left wing men, I can’t really tell why half the time. No, Left wing men don’t really see women as property and tend to be the biggest forgotten advocates among the left. Her example isn’t even special to men either. Lots of Left wing women conseder others as property given how they talk about men on average. Usually, they only care about men as far as they think men can benifit them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/25 03:38 PM
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My argument always is something simailr to this, that being that Misandry does exist, all the justification of abuse or rape of a woman commiting those things on men (from both men and women), to the mere belif that it’s ok to harm men because they are always morally In the wrong to deserve such abuse, are direct examples of Misandry doing way more than just “irritating” someone. It’s just that people don’t pay attention to those instances because they don’t think about it. They think of the ext…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/07/25 04:48 PM
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I don’t fully accept it because it seems to mostly just be Theory mixed with the Stereotyping men and women itself rather than complete truth. Most of the time, patrarchy is explained as men having all power to keep women down and all being misognstic idiotic brutes who hurt themselves and women, with the women being powerless. In reality, this theory falls apart very badly unless you think historically the average man was a wealthy powerful wife beater with no consequence. Outside of this sort …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/07/25 04:25 PM
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Yeah, same with rapist and abusers too. Female rapist/abusers and how they are perceived, they are consedered as part of misogyny for some reason, but people do NOT call her misanderist or any morally nasty label that would imply the male as a victim.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/07/25 04:21 PM
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I find that a lot of the “patriarchy” that feminsim speaks of in regard to how men are treated, seems to be a self fulfilling prophecy to an extent. Feminism will claim that patriarchy affects men, yet blame men for all of their issues and any problem with society. They say men are expected to be strong due to patriarchy, yet the amount of feminist who believe this while at the same time they’d Insult men who talk about their issues or men who don’t agree with them by calling them fragile or tox…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/06/25 04:09 PM
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I’d hope not, and I don’t think some lonely people will put up with it. Others, maybe so unfortunately. Overall some people may just find themselves in a bad relationship and hopefully will cut them off once they realize that she’s mistreating him, if they do realize it. Sounds like the guy in the video is in an abusive relationship. I’ve already made it a mental note in my head that I will NOT date or at least stay with anyone who treats me bad, abusive, is misanderist, racist, etc, no matter i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 03:04 AM
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What’s funny is that the misanderist who say this, think that they are morally just and are good people who are only victim. As in: they think of themselves as non-threats. Thats why they put themselves in the spot of a meek victim in the men vs bear thing while proping up the man as instantly morally dubious and violent. They have bigoted ideals against other people, men, men of color, etc. misandery as a whole tends to go out of its way to justify acts of abuse, demonizing, verbal abuse, rape,…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/06/25 07:52 PM
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Shoot, sometimes other women or people won’t take issue with demonizing other demographics either, so long as it’s not against women. Feminist and other women I notice will have no issue with making the same exact bigoted generalizations about men or men of specific demographics via men of color, or trans folk, but what I notice about these women is that they seem to be hateful but get a pass for it for all the same reason that because it’s specifically against men, then their bigotry towards ot…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/06/25 07:45 PM
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As a young man, yeah almost nothing really changed except if anything things have gotten worse. Since election people have choose to double down on demonizing young men and now have completely scapegoat blame to young men (white women who voted for Trump don’t get nearly as much blame whatsoever). Before the election it was no better however, people simply saw young men as a means to an end, as future criminals and misognstic. Even before Andrew Tate it was like that. People (especially feminist…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/06/25 10:55 PM
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While I never really dated but I feel like there are too many other issues besides those things that do apparently hinder dating for men, whether that be high standards, status, bad looks, etc. These are things I see non redpill men and redpill talk about, there’s stuff besides that men are scary to women therefore men need to make women feel safe, which true, people should make women or their supposed spouse feel safe, I do think there is way more to it as well. I never see too much of redpill …
/r/ExRedPill10/06/25 03:42 PM
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Oh boy that’s a lot of misanderist and racial undertones. This sounds like it was made by someone who belives women were always historically passive and never harmed or oppressed others, even in discrimination such as racism. Nope. Didn’t happen I guess…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/06/25 11:20 AM
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As a young man, I don’t think people really ever cared about us beyond being poltical fodder. It’s why the left doesn’t care about us, only ever talks about young men to fearmonger us as some sort of evil super villians in the making. It’s why the right exclusively only uses young men to fill their pockets as grifters only pretending to care about us a lot of the time.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/25 01:49 PM
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A man not knowing to how do certain things because he doesn’t have the answer to everything Some Women: this is sexism and part of the patriarchy! How dare you struggle with doing a task as a man!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/05/25 08:02 PM
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Hence why sometimes people say that the majorty of reddit is left/anti-male which they aren’t wrong.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/25 08:24 PM
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This! As a young man, people talk AROUND us, rather than actually talk to us and our issues. A lot of the time people usually talk about young men through bad narratives, fear monger young men as violent or misognstic, or just only talk around their young men’s problems at most. People have a hard time learning how to do something as simple as humanizing men, especially young men. I can’t remember the last time I’ve ever seen anyone, especially on the mainstream left, ever talk about young men l…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/05/25 11:51 PM
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Men of color specifically have historically been raped and murdered by many women/slavers. There are stories of women kidnapping black men and doing awful things to them. Misandry does kill, abuse, and rape, but the people who say that line “Misandry annoys” go out of their way to downplay it in order to make it seem like misandry is harmless. Even as a black man I don’t use history or experince of women harassing me, as justification for shitty behavior, because that’d still be bigoted. I find …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/05/25 02:52 PM
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I know what your referring to, and that common statement is so blatantly sexist and confidently false, yet it’s a very commonly believed statement in topics like this. There are so many examples of women doing SA, abusing people, etc, but people who say stuff like “not all men but it’s always a man” or side with it, are so shamelessly sexist that they don’t care about the fact that some women also abuse other people as well (which that logic is extremely pro-abuse/rape, to ignore it just because…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/04/25 12:37 AM
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Agreed, it is sad, because again these men feel like they have to minimize their experience as lesser as if their assault doesn’t count, likely because yeah, they pretty much get bullied or manipulated into minimalizing it. And yeah men who don’t backtrack their own experience get dog piled on anyways by people who have strange double standards about SA and rape the moment they see a dude open up about it, that is if they even believe that it counts as SA to begin with thanks to their bigoted id…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/25 11:21 PM
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I think many people like that feminist women you spoke to, cannot even comprehend the idea that a man can fear a woman violating or hurting them, because just like men, women are still humans and strangers, and yes can do wrong to others. Many feminist commonly have the mindset that since men are stronger, men don’t feel any worry or fear when around being near a women including rape. It’s kinda like they don’t comprehend that men can have trama from a woman either. Commonly you’ll usually hear …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/25 11:08 PM
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It’s a good response, because in actuality that’s a common fear that some men have, even on the internet you can always find men talking about how they don’t open up to women due to that exact reason of being mocked or made fun of. Hell even I don’t open up for it partly for that reason. These “men are scared women will kill them-” lines simply just downplay the fears of men in order to uplift/victimize women. The people who say this aren’t even usually men themselves, they just use bigoted narr…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/25 11:00 PM
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What’s strange is that I notice sometimes other male SA or abuse victims even sometimes tone police themselves by saying stuff like “I know my experince doesn’t compare to womens” and it’s generally frustrating because those experiences DO compare, they are all the same experience, but I hate that we are made of feel that it doesn’t matter as much just because as a man, someone that same hurt isn’t “as bad”. So then the male victims themselves feel like they have to be less critical or downplay …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/25 04:41 AM
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Same here, I notice that people defend trans women by doing exactly what they fight against: fearmongering. They have no real argument or defense, they just switch the bigotry to men. People who do this, are missing the very damn point that they themselves are trying to make that trans women aren’t all a perverted evil to women. They simply just resort to fearmongering men as “worse” or dangerous than trans women, and that men victimize trans people. I notice in general on the internet and irl, …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/25 04:28 AM
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I have never asked anyone out ever. There are a plethora of reasons why: 1)I think I prefer to ideally to wait to at least know a girl, maybe as a friend first, form a connection with her beforehand, than naturally develop feeling. Though this doesn’t exactly mean that me simply just asking someone out (if I could) because I think they look pretty and they don’t seem too mean in the few minutes I know them, is impossible. 2)I can’t quite confidently say there have been all too many women I felt …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 12:03 AM
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Oh yeah, I remember DARE back in elementary school. Though I will say it seems like the diffence between this and Dare, is that Dare seemed to be well intent as far as I’m awhile, but I may be wrong. Shows like these however, I do not trust as a young man myself because they likely seem to exist to punch down on men with the assumption and stereotyping that young men are violent rapist or whatever. Didn’t watch it so again I could be wrong, but again as a young man I don’t trust it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/03/25 07:09 PM
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As someone who plays video games this is just the tip of issues I have with how people think of men who play video games. The internet as a whole demonizes people who play video games. People online are obsessed with calling the hobby as a whole misognstic, from the games themselves (even if they aren’t), from people who play them, to people who talk about them, to people who so much as plays any single player game, and I swear no one outside of the hobby actually cares about the hobby of just a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/03/25 08:46 PM
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Or your seen as a bad guy for doing neither, as you don’t have to do anything. In fact, you doing neither (not being a perv but not going out of your way to be heroic or kind specifically for women) proves that you are content in women being mistreated, even though those are not cordlated. And even though I’ve never been in that type of situation anyways, you kinda loose either way. The idea that people have now is that that everyone has internalized misognsty, or that every man is somewhat miso…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/25 11:30 AM
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A common mistake I see on Reddit is that people will commonly ask feminist subreddits (r askfeminst for example) the question of “why do men hate feminist”. They ask feminist why men hate feminism. They don’t ask men’s opinion on and experince on the topic, but rather soley only ask feminist’s perspective on why men feel distain for the movement, a movement that manly associates men and men only with the creation of a evil or flawed system. The answers are usually about as expected between “it’s…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/03/25 12:42 AM
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Even the “real feminist” will outright defend misandry by saying it’s just a result of patrarchy and how badly women are treated, whether it’s verbal sexism or gaslighting/misandry such as, again, telling men that it’s ok for people to be sexist against them. I hate feminism because of the sexist ideals, hatred, victim blaming men, and double standards. As a man, I consider female rapist and abusers to be misandrist, however those same feminist would probably make excuses for why she’s a victim,…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/03/25 12:17 AM
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Yeah and even when you do tell feminist about your experience it feels like at best they are apathetic. They MIGHT sometimes apologize in their first sentence about your experience, but then after that sentence, it’ll be them directly telling you that your experience of being harassed or SA’d doesn’t compare to women’s and what women feel or go through (therefore your experience is invalid), and then they will demonize you if you disagree as a pass victim yourself and try to tell them that yes, …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/25 04:07 AM
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People who say that, are exactly the type of people who believe in laws such as “women cannot commit rape/abuse”, since that’s basically what these people are saying anyways. They likely are very contempt with laws like that because it helps their narrative,
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/25 03:57 AM
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I hate how for example on Reddit, some women treat gay men as accessories or that gay men are all more “better” or “understanding” than straight men, but then other women on Reddit will do this and THEN will turn around to claim as if gay men are also all misogynistic. Misandrist never speak of gay men as just simply being, but usually speak of gay men as either something to compare to above most men, or as something that is guilty. Never as a normal person. Misanderist don’t see men as normal p…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/25 01:13 AM
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I’ve been trying to say this a lot before, but I think it’s really only male spaces who’d listen but yeah most of the stuff that misanderist say is really just racist stereotyping and rhetoric that they loophole by stereotyping across all men, which suddenly misanderist have no issue with making those sort of rhetorics at men or black men like me. People are ignorant to the fact that this is the same logic that slavers use and that forms of misandery can be out of racism too, such as female slav…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/25 01:09 AM
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Hence why they created and love using the quote “-by other men!” whenever the topic of male rape or abuse comes up, they instantly purposely ignore female perpetrators in order to strengthen their narrative that only men are all violent, which this quote often is victim blamey towards men who HAVE been raped or abused by another man. Which is crazy considering the same exact people who say “-by other men” will ALSO use this quote whenever it comes to men being victim blamed and ignored as victim…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/25 12:34 AM
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I always thought it was weird when people talk about male rape victims by women, they instantly go into “power dynamics” trying to imply ther cuz the victim or potential male victim is male, it automatically means that there is some sort of power imbalance and that he is not into any danger with facing a predatory woman, or assumes that he can fight back whenever he is assaulted so it’s no big deal. It acts as if assault is not so bad once it’s a male being assaulted. It’s like the ideal of cons…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/25 12:15 AM
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I was about to completely agree with the guy in the image itself until you said that he’s a male misandrist, hence your title. I also took a peek at a few of their videos, nothing too bad until I got to the “boy mom” video. This is a whole topic for another day, but something struck me as weird within his video. “Boy moms” (as they call themselves) are mothers who groom their own sons as a husband or romantic/sexual interest. It’s incest. This is the topic of the video (plus talking about intern…
/r/EverydayMisandry23/01/25 02:23 AM
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Yeah. I know that this person within this post, and the one linked, likely isn’t the same person, but people like this who say they don’t believe that women rape or deny that women can commit the act of rape, or think that an erection implies consent, likely aren’t trustworthy, reliable, or even safe to be around and rather dangerous and could even be an abuse tactic. Even if that’s not the intention, still best not to be around someone who thinks that women don’t/can’t rape.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/11/24 06:52 AM
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Which makes it another wonder as to why it’s called the woman king or why this is propped up as a feminist movie at all, when in reality the tribe were rather malicious and had a mix of men and women fighting. I do think it’s a good example of how some men AND women do commit those same acts, and that some women are not just passive.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/11/24 03:15 AM
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Do any of you remember that one movie called the Woman King from just a few years back (2022), that got slandered hard for the historical misrepresentation of the movie representing genocidal slaver women, as victims that defended themselves against white French people, when in reality it was more so the reverse, that tribe of women tended to invade, murder rape, and enslave entire neighboring tribes.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/11/24 05:46 PM
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Her: “Women do not, nor have they ever committed systematic genocide and sexual abuse” Her in the next slide the moment someone corrects her: “I mean, no one is saying women can’t, or never do.” despite the fact that she previously said exactly that. Then she goes back to “They (women) can, but they don’t though”.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/11/24 05:41 PM
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All they have is double standards, so that’s why they can never be consistent. One moment that xyz ideal is deemed as misognstic to women, the next that same exact ideal is actually deemed progressive for women when it’s agaist men.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/11/24 03:12 PM
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I hope she’s reported and banned from owning any sort of weapon. Locked up for however long needed to make sure she cannot ever get a weapon anyways. Threatening to go out if your way to murder people for their race for daring to walk around you, is not just morally wrong, but you have no idea if they’d make true of that threat and could fall under breaking the law of threatening violence.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/11/24 12:38 AM
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Don’t some locals who go to those gay bars and gay clubs, also complain specifically that some straight women enter their bars and strip clubs and harass and SA the men there, despite them knowing that they are gay? Most people understand consent, but people that don’t, aren’t that way due to being a certain sex or sexuality, far from that.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/11/24 11:16 PM
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This is so creepy. They are cutting off their own son’s body parts all because they sexualize a penis to be a certain way. They’re doing this because they are sexualizing their own sons before they can even consent to any of those sorts of things.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/11/24 02:59 PM
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Yeah, if feminist actually cared they would’ve protested for male rights awhile ago, protesting against yeah circumstancim or even how about the fact that men themselves have no equalizer for abortion rights themselves, as in if a male gets raped by a woman, there is literally nothing he can do to stop the fact that he most now be forced to support a child, if not he can be forced to pay child support. That is NEVER a human autonomy right that feminist protest for even when abortion was legal ev…
/r/EverydayMisandry08/11/24 04:40 AM
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Idk much about whatever the 4b movement is, but I think this movement is kinda weird. You mean to tell me, you only now safely conseder not having sex all willy nilly if at all? Also, isn’t this just the same as “MGTOW” that the internet usually bashes?
/r/EverydayMisandry08/11/24 04:18 AM
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As a young man, Jesus what do I even say in regards to this? I hope I never meet someone like this personally.
/r/EverydayMisandry07/11/24 10:49 PM
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I’m tired at this point. How hard is it for people to realize that women can commit rape and that rape isn’t about all these weird and random technicalities and power dynamics that don’t even negate rape or have nothing to do with rape. “Even in such cases (W on M rape) women have no desire to touch male chest, nipples, or penis” That’s contradiction to how rape works. What exactly does this women think that the female perp was doing in the first place if this OP in this image somehow thinks tha…
/r/EverydayMisandry07/11/24 01:50 PM
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Yes, unfortunately men can already get raped or the woman simply won’t get off of him, and be forced to pay child support, with only the woman having full agency to keep the child no matter the fact that she violated him, yet also force that victim to again, pay child support, so I agree the argument is moot because it’s not like this was a right that men themselves have, and it has nothing to do with the status of abortion rights at all in our case, this was always an issue, but I don’t think p…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/24 12:43 AM
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That’s the other thing that gets me, this isn’t even gendered at all, people with this idea are running with the assuming that men don’t care about women with the exception of daughters, and that every women cares about men, and male issues, even before the moment they have a male child or relative, but that’s not even always true at all. Even many liberal feminist women may have male children, have husbands, or have male reletives, but may STILL refuse to care about male issues or humanize men …
/r/EverydayMisandry06/11/24 09:16 PM
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I see a lot of men talking issue with it already, but not for the reasons that it’ll affect how people won’t ever take male issues seriously again, not that people ever did, nor did they for any election. The thing is, even if Kamala won, nothing would change for men either way, no elimination of the draft, equal acknowledgement for male victims of rape or abuse, the fact that a male rape victim has to pay child support, divorce laws finally not heavily favoring women and being more equal, progr…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 06:55 PM
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I think it’d be best if the husband did follow through divorce anyways, not just because of the fact that it’s a “option” out of this ultimatum itself, but because the fact that she’s even trying to force this onto him, is evidence of her being potentially very abusive, asking you to cut off parts of your body function willy nilly just because she doesn’t like that her side didn’t win the vote. She may do this again and again to him with other topics, forcing an ultimatum on the husband that eit…
/r/EverydayMisandry06/11/24 06:28 PM
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You’d think memebers of feminism who are against taking away people’s rights to their body, would also care about the rights of a man’s body autonomy, instead of outright forcing their spouse to get a vasectomy with the threat of divorce if he doesn’t comply. It just goes to show that being feminist doesn’t mean your for equality at all.
/r/EverydayMisandry06/11/24 06:19 PM
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Yeah there’s gonna be a lot of sexist post like this blaming men for trump being president, saying that men do not care about women’s rights (irregardless of plenty of men voting for and supporting Kamala and being advocates for women, and there being pently women as well voting for trump). Every other man may vote Kamala, however so long as Trump wins (take into account this means many women DIDN’T all vote for Kamala but for trump), it’s straight to resorting to being sexist and accusing men o…
/r/EverydayMisandry06/11/24 04:27 PM
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Shouldn’t the people who are angry at a celeb for birthing a male baby for the fact that it’s a male, be the ones to touch grass?
/r/EverydayMisandry04/11/24 02:58 PM
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Too many flaws in the idea that the west such as modern america, that everything is meant to benfit men and only men at the oppression of women. From longer prison sentencing for the same crimes as men. Sometimes getting beaten up or shot more for said crimes. Being victim of violence and having it get ignored by society, and if your victim of violnce by a woman, she probaby won’t be taken in due to the idea that she is too innocent to do such a thing. Heck, you might get arrested instead with t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/24 12:46 PM
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As a man, you tend to notice that feminism never actually abandoned that “xyz group are a bunch of beast!” mentality. I’m black myself, but it seems a lot of feminist seem to demonize men as dangerous rape monsters, and make sexist degrading commentary about men due to their ideals of men being beast and their justifications. On occasion you see some of them being racist anyways. I’ve seen some say that black men had privilege because they had the right to vote before women did (1870), when in r…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/24 01:03 AM
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Bet ya 10$ someone will see these responses, and will still blame the patrarchy for why these people in the image are acting out against a child for being born male, or will try to victimize the people saying this stuff about the baby. Something about how the women In this image are just tired of men’s oppression or something like that. That aside, there is no reason to harass someone’s baby for being born male saying that the born baby must be killed since it’s male.
/r/EverydayMisandry03/11/24 09:10 PM
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Ugh, I’m not surprised if people say that about gay men. Nothing like a hint of being racist and homophobic, while pretending it’s somehow progressive.
/r/EverydayMisandry03/11/24 03:00 AM
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I don’t speak for the men who say they would like it, some would, but some wouldn’t, I wish more people realized that. The problem with the “what if women catcalled men” trend scenero where some people catcall men, to me is that: A) Catcalling already happens to some men B) Ik this is satire, but most of these what-if scenarios seems to imply the idea of “revenge catcalling”, where again, since the idea is that Men don’t get catcalled and don’t know what it’s like, it means that it’s ok to catca…
/r/EverydayMisandry02/11/24 09:38 PM
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As “tragic” as this sounds in favor of the mother, not only should you NOT go through with taking your own life but you ESPECIALLY shouldn’t take your own children’s life or anyone’s life along with your own. Regardles her committing her suicide, it’s cruel to murder your own children. She likely did this to specifcally hurt her partner by taking away his childen forever, so it’s not just out of sorrow but also out of being petty and obsessiveness. The article is framed super sympathetically tow…
/r/EverydayMisandry02/11/24 03:58 PM
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It gives me whiplash too, because on the internet people go from sexualiting koren men and how attractive or caring they must be, to then being sexist assholes towards koren men with the assumption that koren men are all sexist assholes and misogynist. A bit off topic, but It reminds me of how the internet treats gay men sometimes, where some people either fetishize and talk about how much sweeter and kinder, or moral, or attractive gay men are than staight men, but other times people will steot…
/r/EverydayMisandry02/11/24 03:19 PM
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Y’know, I keep hearing about how koren men are all done sort of evil or are sexist. It started with my mom bringing it up, then the internet in some traces. Like even if your talking about a koren person that’s specifically bad, why the hell does that justify being racist and sexist towards Korean men as a whole? Lemme guess, they speculate that their culture of being flawed, therefore anyone who is born male, is evil?
/r/EverydayMisandry02/11/24 03:16 PM
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Also do not take their advice if it’s contradicting. Telling boys to never mansplain, while explaining to them that they should live and let by their own philosophy and while telling boys what it means to be a boy (despite not identifing as male) is kinda stange. I also do find the last bit of advice to be strange, it is within the choice of a person to want to have sex before going out to marry, but what if they just want to get married or find a romantic partner, rather than just sex or only s…
/r/EverydayMisandry02/11/24 02:25 PM
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Plus respect should be mutual. This means that others shouldn’t be allowed to disregard your opinion and thought solely because you are a certain sex, especially if that other person is giving their opinion or views on a sex. Also their advice managed to be sexist within both a sterotypical liberal AND traditional ideal. “Don’t mansplain!” to “Get laid as much as possible, your a male”
/r/EverydayMisandry02/11/24 02:18 PM
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The first slide are more like lies or half-truths. As a whole, every single thing within that this list mentions, does not even help men in any sort of way, and are specifically ‘women’s’ issues. Not only that, but these issues that people claim feminism helps with men, are actually issues that feminism directly contributes to, such as how feminism centers on creating and relying on double standards of men and women to see men as a oppressive force as a whole, while denying any individuality amo…
/r/EverydayMisandry30/10/24 03:25 PM
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I don’t think it’s a flex to insult people of the opposet sex on the basis of “oh look at men! They are spending their time tracking (bringing awareness to) a recent female rapist! The pigs!”. I just wish that the article title in itself called it statuary/rape. Hell, I thought the popular narrative was that only men don’t call out female rapist and are unempathic to male rape victims by women? Yet when men do call out female rapist, suddenly the narrative is that men don’t call out male rapist …
/r/EverydayMisandry30/10/24 12:20 AM
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Sometimes the same people online who’d claim to be rape advocates that scream “kill all rapist!” to hunt down perverts, will suddenly become rape apologist the moment a female perpetrator is the subject of debate. They will call you misogynistic for even daring to call out a female perp and accuse you of never calling out male perps, purposely ignoring how other men track male child predetors or outright beat them up. People like the ones in this image will suddenly get upset when men call out a…
/r/EverydayMisandry30/10/24 12:08 AM
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Yeah sometimes it’s where some women tell you that you should only approach or complements woman in 1 way, meanwhile some different women may tell you that doing that act is creepy and entitled. Not all will do either, but with the two former, I think the reason that happens is because well, it’s a bit subjective on what’s acceptable to compliment a women on and what’s not since everyone is different, but at the same time, pretty much everything is creepy to compliment a woman about if your a ma…
/r/EverydayMisandry29/10/24 05:27 AM
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Wait, Is it even possible to be “fuckzoned” by the person you love, and your ideally attracted to physically, that loves you back? Unless your maybe Asexual? And even then, unless your forced (which is rape), you can’t be fuckzoned just because someone ask to have sex with you and wanted to have sex with you, especally as their partner. It’s not wrong to NOT want sex, but neither is it wrong to want to have sex either, and the latter is not something that people grasp.
/r/EverydayMisandry29/10/24 04:47 AM
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Wanting to get laid with a single person your dating as well, not even just sleeping around.
/r/EverydayMisandry29/10/24 04:40 AM
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Even one of the other comments from another woman, may contradict this point. The comment with that one woman calling interaction of the two worker men complimenting her dress, feeling creepy, and you can tell how egotistical the comment sounds “two male employees felt it necessary to compliment me on how good it looked (the dress)”. It reminds me of a video I saw about “male gaze outfits vs female gaze” and lots of the comments were saying that whenever women compliment other women, it’s genuin…
/r/EverydayMisandry29/10/24 04:29 AM
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But what’s cool is that jobs like the police force or military (non-combative), or general medics/docters for example, you can find a mix of men and women in those jobs irregardless of which gender is technically the dominated one in that job, but they likely aren’t even worried about which gender does xyz better, they are too focused on working together to fix the issue.
/r/EverydayMisandry29/10/24 02:42 AM
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Yeah depends on the person more rather than their their sex. A lot of certain job feild however tend to be more male dominated, and you do have certain jobs that are female dominated, but most of them aren’t really locked by which gender can do it ‘better’, unless maybe it’s some physical hard labor I guess. You’d likely find more fit men doing those jobs.
/r/EverydayMisandry29/10/24 02:35 AM
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I’m so glad that other people recognize how dangerous it is to be around someone like this and the comment points out how abusers try to use this line of logic on their victims. Instances of a woman actively downplaying their ability to commit harm against men, while trying to hype the man up to be a ultimate threat, It’s not only sexist, but also she’s also potentially dangerous to any surrounding man for this exact reason listed. It’s like letting your child be alone with someone who belives t…
/r/EverydayMisandry27/10/24 07:12 PM
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Same here, even my female neighbors are bigger than me. There is a weird belief that women as a whole are as small as a 11 year old child and are about as strong as a 4 year old, and that men are about as big and strong as your average marvel comic book character and cannot be harmed less it’s by other men.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/10/24 06:38 PM
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I said it before one time on a simailr topic, but remember: you should NEVER trust someone who thinks that a woman is too harmless to rape or harm others, or that women just cannot commit the act of rape or any harm to you as a man. Those types of beliefs of rape are very predatory and ignorant.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/10/24 06:33 PM
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As a young adult I am not even physically stronger than some women, and even then a grown woman can still overpower someone. We are talking about a full grown human trying to get on top of you, even if it’s a woman she’s not gonna be easy to just carry off, she doesn’t weigh a stack of feathers. And the idea that women can’t rape because they don’t have the “drive” is a lie, consedering how we obviously have male (grown men and boys) rape victims of women anyways, and it’s not necessarly rare, a…
/r/EverydayMisandry27/10/24 06:30 PM
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There is nothing wrong with sexualizing said fictonal character to “reduce” that character to eye candy, since including Elsa, nearly every character is created to be eye-candy or pretty in some sort of way, unless they are specifically made not to be like the Hunchback. it’s a fictional character at the end of the day. You can have beautiful or sexy characters within any media or simply find that character attractive, they are meant to be attractive. People don’t realize that sexualizing a fict…
/r/EverydayMisandry18/10/24 01:14 PM
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Here’s a good example. Nothing really against MHA as a whole, I don’t even watch it, but that’s the exact reason why I hear people don’t like the My Hero fandom or the show was apparently ruined for them. The sheer amount of fanfic people shipping the male characters, some of them demanding their ships to be cannon. Yeah shipping and gay shipping happen on almost every piece of modern or popular media, especially Shonen. It simply happens, no big deal, but women certainly sexualize the male char…
/r/EverydayMisandry18/10/24 12:55 PM
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Yeah, I notice not all, but a lot of lgbtq people on the internet will make it their mission to demonize men as a whole, specifically cis men, while also making it out as of cis women or any women are all trapped with men with the assumption that all cis relationships are oppressive to women. Ironically, some LGTBQ folks have a very corrupt idea of what they think heterosexually is and think it’s all forced.
/r/EverydayMisandry16/10/24 01:28 AM
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I’ve seen this common sentiment dozens of times from some cis women/LGBTQ women. It’s always annoying and sexist, and kinda funny how they use sexuality to preach their distain in men, under the guise of being accepting of all sexualities…unless it’s straight men.
/r/EverydayMisandry16/10/24 12:41 AM
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Yeah, not taking rejection well or to violent means isn’t gendered. Some women stalk their ex spouses and their spouses’s sons all because the man broke up with her and rejected her. Last I remember of this case of a woman doing just that, continuously stalking her step son because the dad wasn’t romantically with her, I saw it on Reddit awhile ago I think but idk. Regardless though chances are you’ll be able to find a case of a woman stalking their ex, killing, or mutilating their spouses genit…
/r/EverydayMisandry15/10/24 08:26 PM
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Yup, and that’s exactly the reason why I wouldn’t trust someone live who downplays women’s capability to rape or be predetory. Because either they will downplay your experience if you do face a female predetor/abuser, or they themselves may be predetory yet just don’t reconize their own actions as predetiry due to the logic that as xyz sex, they cannot do xyz predetory crime.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/10/24 03:29 AM
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This is why I hate when people get wrapped in in strength differences when talking about and downplaying female on male rape. People rely on the assumption that the woman is too weak and powerless to rape, and they rely on the assumption that outside of oppressive strength, rape cannot actually happen. Both of which is very 1-sided in favor of female perps, especially the lack of attention to social power in the female perps favor’s that she’s purposely aware of. I’m so sorry that you had to go …
/r/EverydayMisandry12/10/24 01:52 AM
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Keep in mind, a lot of people, including some women themselves, don’t even think women can violently rape a person due to assumed strength differences, as in its assumed the man can always overpower, and the woman can never actually force herself on men or boys due too being too weak to be able to. Misandrist will literally tell others that women mostly cannot commit a certain crime by trying to make women out to be as weak as possible to the point where they make it seem like it’s impossible to…
/r/EverydayMisandry11/10/24 11:16 PM
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“At least we don’t rape them” You know what’s scary to me? It’s not only the fact that people with that belief don’t think that women commit rape (which ignores tons of victims of rape), but it’s that some misanderist women who say stuff like this probaby genuinly don’t even think women can even commit the crime of rape at all. Meaning they may think that they themselves as women are incapable of commiting the crime of rape. Which is terrifying.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/10/24 11:12 PM
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Yeah or Yaoi. Ok, stick with me here, it’s not lost on me how silly this comment sounds at first, but I got onto a weird hole of “why do women like Yaoi manga” vidoes. And y’know there is nothing wrong with liking it, but their explanations was always something along the lines of seeing all cis porn/romance as violent, shallow, or misgonstic, or protraying women badly, sexist tropes, but see gay anime porn/romance as progressive, realistic, supportive of gay men, and also “safer” apparently. Thi…
/r/EverydayMisandry11/10/24 12:44 PM
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So…men should be born in jail, because of a petty man eatting someone else’s food? Like it’s awful to blame the kid, but this is worse than the usual argument of accusing every man of being a brute that must be locked up until proven guilty. I cannot imagine being born in jail because another man on the other side of the world ate his wife’s PB&J and blamed it on the kid. That’s not even jail worthy, just dick-ish.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/10/24 01:14 AM
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My own dog is more loving and loyal than any of the people who speak like this towards men. I would not trust a person with dehumanizing beliefs of me, at all over any dog for that matter. My dog, she is my friend and family. Dogs are amazing and loving companions, and it seems people claim to love animals like dogs, up until it’s time to dehumanize another Identity by comparing them to dogs or lesser than animals.
/r/EverydayMisandry08/10/24 03:31 PM
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Very narcissistic and it’s because most feminist/misandrist only humanize woman (basically they humanize themselves, of course you will humanize and empathize with your own) and will try to benfit women first, but dehumanize anyone that’s not a woman, and will only speak of men as either a negative, as something to scapegoat, or only talk to or another men in the context of “hm how can men (object) benfit women (me)?” and will speak of men’s issues as lesser or non-existent because they don’t re…
/r/EverydayMisandry07/10/24 02:44 PM
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Agreed, the reason why they always use big intimidating gay men as a scapegoat as a way to try and force men into being uncomfortable in that scenaro of getting catcalled or sexualized, even tho those same men said they wouldn’t mind it, is because those women already know that it’s very uncertained on if a man will even dislike being sexualized by a woman anyways, even if it’s from an ugly woman or a woman that happens to be taller or bigger than him (then again most of the women in that post d…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/10/24 01:55 AM
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Oh and I absolutely hate how even one of the comments outright says that men cannot be raped the same way women can be: “Men don’t get the “danger factor” from women that women get from men. Men cannot be raped by women (at least not in the same way) and men are (generally) physically stronger so cannot be overpowered. Maybe that’s why?”. This is where my issue with ideals like the whole “power dynamic” thing comes from. 1-sided hyper focus of gender power dynamics like these goes as far to see …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/10/24 06:44 AM
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This happens anytime a man says he wouldn’t mind catcalling from a woman, or when a man strictly says that he didn’t mind it in his experince. They try to MAKE him hate it, or accuse men of not being able to understand why women hate it, even though those men never stated anything that hints that they don’t understand women who hate it. They outright make it seem like the men who say they wouldn’t mind catcalling, are the same men who catcall women. And it’s pathetic how whenever they see other …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/10/24 04:38 AM
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That’d depend heavily on your ideals and the man In question’s own idea of what is objectification. I say this because a lot of the time objectifcation is used more like a buzzword. With that being said, many of the comments themselves seem to once again delve into “power dynamics” of how a man won’t feel threaten by a group of women like how men feel threatened by a group of men, with the assumption and whatnot that the man does it for power and whatnot, and the woman can’t really harm the man …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/10/24 03:57 AM
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More often than not, I’ll see feminist, even the ones who use “no true scotsman“ logic do what they do best when seeing comments like that: ignore it, and then once they see a man say that he takes issue with said verbal bigotry, they’ll shift blame to men. Whether it be the ideal to Kill all men, to compare men to bears, to demand that men should be raped or go through xyz issue to know how women feel, usually feminist pull the whole “why are you concerned about her comment? You should be conce…
/r/EverydayMisandry01/10/24 03:00 PM
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These people have a revenge fantasy. Actually I take it back, not even revenge, it’s just a “justification” to be shitty, and it’s more than fantasy since they completely unironically believe that this is ok, so it’s not a harmless fantasy. Yeah, if someone demands violnce upon others for being born a certain sex or race (bigotry), all because you think it’s deserved, they might as well be subject to that pain themselves, no one else. To add insult to injury, make the subjecter have some sort of…
/r/EverydayMisandry01/10/24 02:49 PM
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(Copy and pasted this comment from 1 I already made in another thread here) The problem with people like this is that women know their own problems with men, but comments like this don’t know men’s problems with women nor will listen, outside of if it something to do with sex or dating standards, but they also do not listen to men about their issues in general which happen to be the same issues that assumingely women have with men. This is also why they segregate certain issues as only things th…
/r/EverydayMisandry30/09/24 04:57 PM
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The problem with people like this is that women know their own problems with men, but comments like this don’t know men’s problems with women nor will listen, outside of if it something to do with sex or dating standards, but they also do not listen to men about their issues in general which happen to be the same issues that assumingely women have with men. This is also why they segregate certain issues as only things that women face by men (take abuse or being discrimatory for example), then wh…
/r/EverydayMisandry30/09/24 04:53 PM
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These people don’t know the difference between fantasy and real child rape (not that the character is real, I mean the fact that they wish it on themselves). I can understand having a fantasy or shit, just being horny, but these people are projecting their fantasies on a character getting seriously raped, and saying it aloud how much they wish it was them, when it reality they don’t realize the risk and mental damage that would be done to them if they were seriously raped, AS A CHILD. Hence why …
/r/EverydayMisandry30/09/24 11:53 AM
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Agreed. Fearmongering like this are majorly part of why some people don’t think boys can be raped by woman, they don’t think of the reverse that maybe, just maybe, you should also take into account of women also sexually abusing those kids? This fearmongering of little boys as Invicible perverted tanks that are out to rape and harass, it’s disgusting to me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/09/24 03:42 PM
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I notice a lot of people (mainly again, feminist and misandrist) try to assume and sterotype that any man that is a good person, is actually a bad person who likely associates with people who do rape and SA, or witness it but doesn’t call it out. The average man isn’t even frineds with a rapist, nor would they somehow instantly know of that friend was. It’s a very desperate attempt to sterotype every man as terrible. The article title on this post literally says that these traits have more to do…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/09/24 02:24 PM
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I think it’s a myth in itself to assume hypermasculinity means that your most likely to rape, because hypermasculity means fuck all as a term other than people assuming masculinty to be already violent.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/09/24 02:16 PM
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Yeah, it just doesn’t make any sense. Straight men have nothing to do with a womans actions of her going out of her way to assault someone because she wants to, there is no real conformation, just assumption that as a woman, she must’ve been harmed by men, therefore that’s why she harms gay men. Its just victimizing the perp as a woman. Blaming straight men for her actions of assaulting gay men, is what absolves her of accountability. It’s nothing new for people to blame men for the actions of a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/09/24 05:56 PM
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I’ve mostly seen feminist fearmonger boys and teenagers as perverted, try to fearmonger that female teachers are in-danger of boys and teenage boys by saying that male teens will harass female teachers. I never see them show any concern for situations where female teachers rape teenage boys. Then I’ve also seen people try to say that the average teenage boy of 13 and up is way stronger than the average adult woman. Which isn’t quite true, many teens are not any more stronger than a fully grown w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/09/24 03:11 PM
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The logic is that those women don’t want to be hit on and ogled by other women either. Y’know, with the very progressive assumption that every single lesbian (or anything that’s attracted to women for that matter) is instantly gonna hit on you followed by assault. But I guess a cis woman that has the intent of harassing others, doesn’t actually care about being hit on (safe for say their double standard for being hit on), nor cares about trying to find a ‘safe-space’, it’s just a power thing for…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/09/24 02:40 PM
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You notice how the comment section in that post tries to heavily backtrack for the said cis women harassing and SA’ing gay men by blaming staight men? Saying that it’s because straight men harass women into going to gay bars, or that women are just trying to use gay bars as a safespace….which makes no sense to use as an excuse when those said women are literally doing EXACTLY THAT TO MEN! It’s just shifting blame to men so they don’t have to feel as critical of her. Why do they suddenly victimiz…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/09/24 02:19 PM
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A older stronger woman, that’s the way to go! But you are right, people like this will likely try to fit this into a narrative of how men are predetory. They’d likely just move the goal post to saying that your objectifying strong women.
/r/EverydayMisandry25/09/24 12:00 AM
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Funny enough, I never have dated, but one baseline I’ve come up with is that my dream woman must be a woman that loves me and does not demonize me, meaning that she is not a misanderist. But that’s more like a standard. Physically though, I don’t really have a dream woman, just as long as she’s over 18, I think she’s pretty, maybe have her be 20-something like my age as I’m 20.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/09/24 11:49 PM
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Also, I think misandrist, or really society in general have tunnel vision with these kinds of things. Basically people believe that no one suffers sexist BUT woman, and no one causes suffering BUT men as a whole. So then they assume men as a whole are oppressive or evil. People have very ridged views on if it’s ok to demonize or be bigoted to others if they think those biological groups are are lesser and only cause trouble (such as even seeing them all as an evil). Gay people, black people, His…
/r/EverydayMisandry24/09/24 01:29 AM
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I first hear and saw it from r/Mensrights linking a post to the Menslib subreddit of the a post diccussing this issue itself within their sub, with the comments saying that this isn’t really a good safe space for men, as in even a few of the men within menslib agreed that it’s not the greatest, however as of now, I’m trying to find that exact post that I saw from Mensrights. It’s a bit tricky since their are a bunch of other topics that r/mensrights brought up about how MensLibs seems to screw o…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/09/24 11:51 PM
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Another good example is r/MensLibs. It’s a feminist men’s right subreddit, however this in turn results in most post being safeguarded to only talk about mem’s issies through a feminist lens. This means that any issue you talk about, must loop back to blaming men, or patriarchy. This also means post will get removed for not agreeing with feminism, as didn’t that sub have a whole thing where post discussing men’s issues were getting deleted just because it was critical of feminism, with even the …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/09/24 11:36 PM
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No, it’s just projection. People like this don’t see men as anything other than a negetive sterotype to fearmonger against, or see men as sex/rape machines that are meant to do nothing but somehow fix the worlds problems that they already blame the entirety of men on. In fact, even in Left spaces I see mostly well…the left treat leftist men this way rather than human.
/r/EverydayMisandry22/09/24 10:22 PM
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Or animal dildos that are always hot and brought on the market.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/09/24 07:10 PM
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I think the producers and buyers of books like that have way higher egos to title their books that. It’s a shame that a book literally called “kill all men” is probaby allowed to be sold because it’s seen as some sort of progressive message.
/r/EverydayMisandry19/09/24 08:25 PM
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Oh you have no idea how happy I am to see others directly acknowledge misandry as actually harmful and violent towards men, not just some stupid “punching up” thing, there is nothing progressive or punching up about demonizing men or justifying men being raped or killed, and it’s more than just a verbal thing, but actual harm. I do worry about false accusion like this, where it’s not just the false accusion itself, but the fact that the female rapist can accuse rape the victim and accuse the vic…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:34 AM
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I’m sorry about you being harmed by other men and people telling you that you deserve to be abused, that’s messed up. Unfortunately a lot of the time when people accuse others of being a “Pick me” it’s just used against any women that disagree with another woman about viewing others as lesser than them because of their sex. It’s really just been a term to put down people. Which is kinda backwards when you think about it since the term was meant to be used against women who put other women down. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:54 PM
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Yeah to take a step more, I think a lot of “kill all men / I hate men” or weirdos who make up negetive lies about how all men are xyz and function like xyz, and you should treat them lesser, are not really much different in their belifs from say people like Andrew Tate from what I hear of him. Just that unlike Andrew Tate, the whole “I hate men / XY’s are all xyz” vidoes or post you see on the internet, tends to be regarded as politically and morally rightous or a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:24 AM
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Sorry about what happened to you. Also RIGHT?! Like even I don’t use my experince to justify hating women, it sounds bigotted and outright stupid to hate women as a whole just because of what some other women did to me. I do advocate to equally call out women who do SA or harm others, but it’s like most of these “I hate men” types weren’t ever taught that bigotry is wrong, in fact, they tend to get directly supported or seen as justified for their bad behavior, especially in “progressive” spaces…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:08 AM
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As a man who has been through that, yes I think about this all the time, where despite the fact that other women have sexually harassed me, or just have committed regular physical assault to me, I know that I could never (nor would I ever) make justifications for hating women. Countless times I’ve seen other women (and even other men) say and mostly agree that it should be a ‘right’ to hate men, that it’s ok for women to hate men, that it’s a good thing to preach how men should all be murdered a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:48 AM
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“Kill all men”/“this is why I abort male babies!” I’ve seen so many people like this actually peach and call for purging the entirety of the male sex, way more than I have ever seen actual incels preach to murder or rape all women. Come to think of it, it’s the opposite, I only ever see femcels call to murder and commit violnce on people for being the “wrong” sex, and I never see media ever cover the such because truth be told, that stuff is seen as “punching up”.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/09/24 02:13 AM
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People get way too concerned with power dynamics (well at least only 1-sidedly they only call it a power dynamic if the vicitm is male by a female, and then they absolve the female rapist of any power or social power at all) as a way to excuse a man being raped by a woman, or pretend as if it’s not as bad because they assume the man is stronger and the woman is as weak as a twig, therefore he can defend himself against the perp and she cannot do anything. It’s still rape to be drugged, raped whi…
/r/EverydayMisandry12/09/24 01:24 PM
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I tend to see that too on social media. I’d love if people did praise good behavior of men as well, rather than just only pay attention to men as a general negative when a man does something wrong, or assume by default men are all awful, yet act as of praising men for anything is bad because it’s the “bare minimum” and people start question why they should praise men for the bare minimum. It’s affirmative, it ignore good actions from other men, or ignores men as individuals, and tell them off fo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/09/24 02:45 AM
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I have noticed this too where feminist will see make-up as oppressive but wear it anywho, and it’s hypocritical. On one hand they will blame internalized misogyny for why women wear make up, but will wear it themselves even in the video, or will simply backtrack by saying make-up itself isn’t oppressive, but how society make it oppressive, which would make sense of women as a whole were demanded or even punished to always wear it, but they aren’t really. For feminist, I don’t think it’s internal…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/09/24 02:56 AM
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Usually I see people that talk about it say that cleaning or labor of some sort (“emotes labor” or cleaning) is what they do better than men or say that being protective of women is a bare minimum. But otherwise, a lot of the time some women do not even do that better, especially the emotional labor part due to the fact that some of the women just shut down their partner for opening up about their issues to them. But yeah even littler stuff like being respectful or empathic, are not always trait…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/09/24 05:24 PM
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Yeah, not every woman does that said “bare minimum”. Which this leads to the other main problem with this “bare minimum” talk. Relationships aren’t really a thing were you see how much you can get out of your partner, but even the people who speak of this bare minimum among men, do not realize that even some women do not follow that minimum at all, and if they do, they get praised for it as even the same people who talk about the topic, tend to praise women or assume women as a whole are a very …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/09/24 05:05 PM
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Yeah I noticed this with the whole “bare minimum” talk, where anything good a man does, such as helping towards others, caring, hard-working, being respecting, feminist and femcels will call that the bare minimum with the assumption that men naturally are all uncaring sexist assholes that don’t try like how women do. They say that only women put in real effort in work, progression or relationship while men don’t, and that the bar is low for men, which a lot of progressive people tend to describe…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/09/24 01:36 PM
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Agree, they are extremely ignorant to how men feel, our thoughts, and experinces. However it’s like anytime you even tell them that yes, as a male you are human too, men commonly feel the same fears and have had the same experiences of being harmed, people proceed to purposely ignore it, or more likely they will victim blame you somehow by telling you the classic “-by other men!” as a way of proof that your sex is a danger, and that it’s somehow your own fault for being physically/sexually assau…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/09/24 02:17 PM
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Yeah, this is the second time I’m seeing people refer to men as XY’s, and now women as XX. First time was a stupid YouTube video of compilations of man-hating TikTok vidoes with the title calling men XY’s. If you ask me, I know it’s played out, but I think that this is actually pretty objectfying to try and reduce others as nothing but bunches of chromosomes. Also I swear people try new ways everyday to compare us men to literal objects, poisoned chocolates, or violent animals, I guess “XY’s” is…
/r/EverydayMisandry09/09/24 03:42 AM
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Yeah, they aren’t always nice or even respectful towards other female SA victims who disagree with the use of sexist statements or when that vicitm calls them out on being sexist. Sometimes they will try to downplay that person’s experience or just call her a “pick-me”. They do the same tenfold with male SA victims who call them out or just simply ignore them, or again get told that the vicitm is just trying to make it agout men and trying to silence women, even though making bigoted comments ab…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/09/24 01:07 AM
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You tend to see statements like the one in this post, but right before people say that statement in a conversation, a lot of the time the reason why other men bring up male SA and rape victims when talking about female victims is because a lot of the time the people having that female dominated conversation will be extremely adimit to take those issue, and purposely gender them as a “Women go through xyz, men don’t know what it’s like to be in xyz situation or to go through this” The amount of t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/09/24 12:33 AM
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Agreed. The problem is people use this statement in itself to silence male victims, but then people have no problem with using another woman’s tragedy to justify their sexist ideals or statements towards men, think of the many people who defended and justified “Kill all men” chant by suddenly bringing up the fact that women get harmed by men, so if a man gets offended, he’s concerned about the wrong thing (even tho those same people would conseder it a tragedy if someone made a hashtag to kill a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/09/24 12:28 AM
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I’ve seen this video before, and I think this video is a good catalyst of how misanderist and “feminist” act upon certain actions. They only act to stop being hateful or sexist, because it mentally affects them badly to be sexist assholes to men, so instead of seeing the flaw in it, they stop solely because of mentally harms them, not because it harms their views of men, but because it only mentally stresses them out to be a hateful sexist person, so now she chooses to be apathetic. People like …
/r/EverydayMisandry08/09/24 02:37 PM
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Benevolent sexism is more like what feminist would call “gender privilege” but for women, it’s just packaged in a victim complex to make it sound like it’s not privlage by their own logic. It’s like treating a white person better than what you’d treat the average person because you think they are owed it. Things such as men fighting for women, dying for women, helping her carry stuff, helping her with doors, etc, get called benevolent sexism due to the idea that women are weak, except then peopl…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/09/24 06:43 PM
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My god, I hate this about characters like Posion Ivy who kidnaps, sexually assault, and mass murder men, and even try to genocide all of man-kind, but people call those characters empowering or see Ivy as women owning sexuality, or see her as a heroine even, because she likes planets. Worst is when people try to act like she only goes out against bad men that harm the envorment and try to justify her actions of sexual assault against men, or usually just completely ignore it. Harely herself is g…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/09/24 12:48 PM
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I think that people who use the term “male gaze” do not understand basic male heterosexuality or biology, and just THINK they do because their dehumanizing politics give them a warped view of men and male sexuality as oppressors, therefore now those people THINK they understand men as a whole, how we think, how we feel, why we feel certain ways, etc. Basically, it’s just leftist Andrew Tates telling you what men think and feel and why it’s wrong and why men are shallow, and now suddenly it’s dee…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/09/24 12:22 PM
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It reminds me of the sterotype that “woman cannot hurt men, women would never do that!”. Hell that same awarded commenter made another comment thet acts like a 13 year old being statutory raped by a grown older woman means that he is not abusive and that he’s not abuse because he wanted it: https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/s/24Alu52Ggv Raping a child, even if the child says they want it, is abusing the child. Why would I ever believe the former awarded comment that I or other men are r…
/r/EverydayMisandry04/09/24 08:23 PM
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I don’t get those types of messages usually, unless you count unwanted messages by onlyfans bots and women trying to sell you their onlyfans, but me personally, even though they can be consedered creepy, I myself do not take them too offensively seriously and simply either don’t response, or block them. Plus those messages typically pop up for my nsfw alt account, not for this one. Most of my internet life I kinda just used YouTube, and stayed away from predators, wasn’t all too open on discord,…
/r/EverydayMisandry04/09/24 05:12 PM
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Yeah, it’s more like most pedos who are women do not apply to the laws of our world as pedos af all, the same way in the majorty of the world, women legally cannot be rapist because they cannot rape according to a lot of laws, at most I’ll be counted as a separate charge of “forced to penetrate” but not rape. This applies to female child predators as well, which is maybe the reason why most news articles never label female rapist as rapist. They solely only say “forced to have sex with” instead …
/r/EverydayMisandry04/09/24 05:07 PM
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Yeah. Like OP, I’ve seen feminist/misandrist, left wingers commonly say, belivie, and do all the same stuff that they’d accuse the right of saying and doing, so now it’s hard to even tell if it’s just a Right thing anymore, and I’m not even Right Wing. Come to think of it, feminist and the left may have never had too much of a problem with right wing ideals if it’s at their own gain, hence many peole on the left doing stuff like judging men for being poor (therefore unfit for any sort of relatio…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/24 06:03 PM
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A lot of them do indeed cross that line, in fact I had to have a talk with my mom because she was watching TikTok’s of a woman calling all black men violent negros that don’t protect women, or harm women. A lot of specifically black misanderist do this to black men. They will even call black men bullet bags for shooting and that they deserve to get shot because they harm women. It doesn’t help, that most misanderist think it’s also progressive to be racist against white men or black men dependin…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/24 05:23 PM
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Yeah, I should emphasize that other men also do this, I have seen it with men also doing the same, but I always see people irl or the internet outside of this subreddit try to insist that it’s soley only men that do it and that women do not contribute to defending or encouraging females predators.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/24 03:57 AM
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Haha, the internet may have probaby taken that one already somewhere.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/24 02:21 AM
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It’s a good quip when taking about or against TERF or transphobes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/24 02:02 AM
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True, calling a woman crazy can really be used the same way as calling a man an creepy or nice guy even if the person didn’t actually do anything wrong, and I’m way pass sure there are actually instances of women being called crazy despite not doing anything wrong.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/24 10:41 PM
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No unfortunately. I regret not getting his contacts in some sort of way before school ended and we moved.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/24 07:07 PM
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Thank you. I’m just glad to not be in HS and grateful that said friend checked up on me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/24 07:02 PM
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Yes! This is a huge issue that I see a lot of people ignore in favor of saying that only other men discourage and judge or laugh at male victims of SA or abuse. A lot of the time for some reason other women will downplay or defense said abuse at the hands of another woman. They will usually downplay your experience as “not as bad” or they will tell you that you as a man must be the real perp, because you must’ve done something wrong first in order as to why she harmed you (even tho there is noth…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/24 05:54 PM
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Yeah I realize that most of the stuff that a lot of women demand of men that’s the “bare minimum”, such as calling out SA or protecting women, I notice that I never see the same courtesy demanded of women to do, such as call out SA for men, as in calling out others behavior of being in inappropriate towards a male, especially at the hands of women. Or maybe also protecting men by calling out female abusers or assaulters that will get off scott free as innocent. In fact, more often than not, a lo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/24 05:30 PM
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Agreed, when someone asks you about what you think about their individual make-up you should be respectful, so long as again they aren’t doing it where any compliment, or liking it or otherwise is the wrong answer regardless. I just wish people wouldn’t ask men at all about their opinons on makeup in general if people won’t let men really have an opinion at all anyways since it’s seen as wrong or oppressive, even if they like it because then it’s bigoted in some sort of other way. It makes it fe…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/24 01:43 AM
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It’s also simailr to the “how’s my make-up” discussion, where women will specificly go out of their way to ask a man about his opinons on make up, but every answer gets him bashed because of the whole “she’s not wearing it for you” or “What, do you think women look ugly without out!?”. You can say “oh I think make up looks pretty on women” and it’s still wrong because again, she’s not doing it for you, and you are objectfying women and supporting oppressive beauty standards onto women. If you sa…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/08/24 07:20 PM
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Well, as a black man, I just wanted to say that no, a lot of the time comments like this are accepted when women make comments like this about how black men, say that black men are all bulletbag abusive negros that don’t protect women, or that they deserve to be shot because they are all violent, but using stats that black people make up most crime is not justification of that, like how Indian men apparently commit most to all crime in India. It’s just that women will usually be excused or seen …
/r/MensRights17/08/24 02:33 PM
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A woman can rape however many she wants without being found out because again, she cannot be deemed a rapist at all, nor is stereotypically seen as such at all, as in she can abuse and rape more than just 400 children because she cannot be a rapist. No woman can nor likely will get public coverisation.
/r/MensRights17/08/24 02:10 AM
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it’s more than 5 cases, as again, cases like the one you see here on this exact Reddit post of women raping children, isn’t a uncommon occurrence as apparently 1 in 5 victims are sexually abused by a female perpetrator https://theconversation.com/women-who-sexually-abuse-children-are-just-as-harmful-to-their-victims-as-male-abusers-80395.
/r/MensRights17/08/24 02:06 AM
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Tied to, but not really conformed to these researchers themselves, the same way most people say women who “rape” suddenly only do it because they were abused, but use that as more of an excuse for perpetrators to back peddle for those perpetrators. Another article says that they may also be leaders on those operations themselves, victims as well, but still finacial supporters and leader, and helpers who don’t get prosecuted as much: https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/protecting-children-s…
/r/MensRights17/08/24 02:02 AM
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I’m not sure about killing, but it’s still not uncommon, and apparently is on the rise according to here: https://www.loc.gov/item/global-legal-monitor/2010-10-12/zimbabwe-gang-rapes-of-men-by-women-on-the-rise/
/r/MensRights17/08/24 01:55 AM
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I can, but does this imply that you don’t know that there are many female sex traffickers and rapist? “The U.N. Office on Drugs and Crimes report said sexual exploitation made up the most common form of trafficking and expressed surprise that in 30% of the countries providing information about the gender of traffickers, women made up the largest proportion of offenders” https://news.northeastern.edu/2022/07/08/as-a-female-trafficker-ghislaine-maxwell-is-not-an-aberration/ About the slave thing: …
/r/MensRights17/08/24 01:49 AM
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Female privlage is still the right to do any crime without being taken in, doesn’t matter what other men do because even as a male, I cannot rape a person and not be taken in, but most female perps again, commit rape and abuse, knowing that they will get away with it. Still in most of the world, women do not get arrested for doing the same crimes that other men do, from abuse or rape, but when other countries such as India try to change this, for example in India manny women also fought to activ…
/r/MensRights17/08/24 01:45 AM
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Women historically have rape or abused men and children, had slaves that they brought and raped, tortured, and sadistically mutilated, specifically through slave trade, specifically 1000s of POC male slaves. This very post is yet another example of women raping children, specifically serial raping children, despite it not being seen as rape, but if we were to speak generally the same way you do, women have a history of abusing and raping children without any taboo because it’s seen that she cann…
/r/MensRights17/08/24 01:40 AM
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Most places in the world, therefore their statistics don’t even see certain people as rapist unless that person is strictly male, therefore if you exclude half the population of being legally deemed as rapist even when they commit the act, of course only men will make up that large number when women legally cannot be deemed perpetrators in most of the world, such as in the UK, or if its a case in the US where it’s harder to deem women as perpetrator or are barely ever seen as perpetrators when d…
/r/MensRights17/08/24 01:02 AM
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It does. Rape stats tend to be extremely 1-sided thanks to things like this, where a woman cannot legally be held accountable for the crime of rape.
/r/MensRights16/08/24 10:20 PM
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You see people talk about male privlage or how men can get away with anything, which we really can’t. Usually I’m not one for calling someone privlaged based off their sex or race. However, I think being allowed to commit rape without it being labeled as “rape” therefore your guaranteed to either get a shorter sentence, or don’t get sentenced at all, or worse, your vicitm gets arrested and accused of being the “real” perpetrator after you raped them when commiting the act onto men and children, …
/r/MensRights16/08/24 03:41 PM
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It can exist, but I don’t think that’s the case in many places of the world. The definition of patriarchy is a system placed by men that men use to oppress women or put men in superiority such as in economics or poltics or power, but most men do not even fit that role at all, even other women still can have poltical power, and women have more societal power than men in instances like you described, and are deemed superior than men in many aspects (such as morally superior) and or have advantages…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/08/24 07:46 AM
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That’s the worst part, the fact that you can get arrested for being raped or abused by a woman if you call the police, because the police are trained to assume that you must’ve been the actual perpetrator and that you are lying. It’s not the most comforting thought. Makes me feel rather unsafe if I were to ever get into a situation like that where I’m again being assaulted or abuser by a woman, but then everyone shrugs her off and labled me the perpetrator and I am the one arrested for it. Just …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/08/24 11:22 PM
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It’s always so weird, especially because as you mentioned, their line of “well people who were abuse were also abused” logic is purely based off of sex, where they will often excuse the female perp, or will try to blame men again by saying that she was likely abused by a man, but will at the same time, be critical of male perpetrators all the way.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/08/24 09:03 PM
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Agreed. This is in general why there are “less” female rapist than it actually seems, because most studies do not consider those acts of SA or Rape as rape at all of its coming from a woman. Meanwhile something like staring at a woman can be counted as SA. It’s not rarer for some women to commit the crime itself, it’s just that she won’t be consedered a rapist due to the fact that “made to penetrate” is not the same crime as rape in many counties and studies.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/08/24 08:36 PM
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I see this or been told “by other men!” response mostly with male rape victims, when people who talk about male rape victims or men opening up about being raped being told “yeah, by other men!”. Feminist say this as a way to victim blame. Ironic since they demand empathy for rape victims, but do not have empathy at all for men at all in any situation, especially in terms of violence, meaning they won’t have empathy for more than likely half of rape victims. They do not have empathy for half of t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/08/24 07:14 PM
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I agree, there are good men and good women, and bad men and bad women. I just don’t like how people are very accepting of bigotry if that bigotry comes from a woman saying how much she hates men.
/r/MensRights10/08/24 09:13 PM
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You know what’s weird? There has been a popular narrative going around that many other women believe in or spread going around that if men ever call their exes crazy, it’s because the MAN is the crazy or abusive one to her…nevermind the details he has said of him being abused, therefore calling her crazy, no if you as a man call a woman that harmed you crazy, then you are misgonstic and you are actually the crazy one in the relationship, despite having no evidence or claim that he did anything. …
/r/MensRights10/08/24 07:35 PM
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It seems lots of women can generalize men or just say whatever hateful thing they want about men really, and it’ll ALWAYS be the result to trauma at the fault of men as a whole. It’s never the fault of her own belifs, double standards, and acceptance of how willing she and others are to justify hatred of men in general.
/r/MensRights10/08/24 07:12 PM
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As a man, I do think that fear can be part of it but i think it’s sometimes questonable. Men aren’t a natural predator like a sort of animal, nor are men a group of a hivemind, nor do violent or negetive behaviors really only go hand and hand with personalities only for a single sex, but what I find is that both sexes tend to do violence to the other sex, but unlike women when I or other men who experience violence from the opposite sex, we don’t really get the whole reasoning or excuse of “fear…
/r/MensRights10/08/24 06:56 PM
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Assuming they love the men in their lives, they tend to still hate it however when those same brothers, fathers, partners, or sons admit or say anything about not liking the woman’s sexist comments, and will usually tell off that male relative as invalidating her. At best however she’ll just do the “no, I don’t REALLY mean I hate all men” or “your not like most men, your diffetnet from most men” which is belittling.
/r/MensRights10/08/24 06:32 PM
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I have seen some feminist say that black people (black men in particular) are privileged for stuff like voting rights because here in America black people got the right to vote in 1870 before women, I have seen modern feminist say that black men are all dangerous and to stay away from black people (just like starting feminist). Speaking of voting, even at that time in 1870, your vote as a black person didn’t even count due to your skin color, the Jim Crow laws they followed shorty after 1870 mad…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/08/24 07:54 PM
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It is not taught generally in schools or education that many women commonly actively took part in slavery of racial minorities, mostly in raping and murdering male slaves, or making a female slave raise their child, or getting that slave killed/tortured via false accusion.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/08/24 07:37 PM
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I am at least glad that this article doesn’t speak of men like the usual, as creatures that only hurt women and rape and murder and cause all the worlds problems. Tho this seems more like this article is based off of if young men are for gender equality (pro women) or not based off of reworked questions such as if men would vote for a random woman going for president or not, which most young men, me included agree this is a good thing that should be supported. Good. Tho it seems that men that ag…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/08/24 07:22 PM
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I’ve wondered a lot why exactly there is always a demand or expectation for only men to always approach for a date, to pay for everything, to make sure everything goes smooth during the time out, make sure she’s having a good time specificly, which isn’t bad, but it’s not usually about mutually having a good time together it’s just making sure she’s impressed. Despite this, it’s demonized for men to pursue women, especially if they aren’t attractive men, if you try to hang out with her and get t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/08/24 05:59 PM
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A recent example of how feminist warp male issues is when feminist talked about Male Loninees. A bunch of feminist saw the topic of male loneliness, a topic that doesn’t involved them, and made a bunch of vidoes saying how men are at fault for said issues because men mistrest women, because I guess the same anti-social men that don’t speak to women or don’t have much luck with women. are the same men abusing women? or they would made vidoes about how women shouldn’t care about men being lonely b…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/08/24 04:28 PM
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Yeah, and that’s the thing about feminism in general, it’s not the fact that they only talk about women’s issues that’s a problem, the problem is that they make men’s issues more harder to tackle, and are very dishonest about male issues as well in a way that either downplays them, or permanently set men in a box of being only privlaged or an oppresser and that’s it. They go out of their way to mistreat men and lie about men as a whole to warp the preception of men as non-victims (unless it’s in…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/08/24 04:24 PM
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Even with the definition of “expectations that hurt men” from people who talk about toxic masculinity and use this definition, people still only talk about toxic masculinity soley in terms of talking about negetive traits that they think men are taught into men that specially negetivly affect women in some way, while telling men “this bad trait that we only associate with men, also hurts men” on top as a talking piece to convince men that the left cares about them. They never actually talk about…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/08/24 03:51 PM
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Seems so, how tf does getting raped or SA’d by a woman, and slapping her in retaliation, means that you yourself are justfying the act of hurting women? It was in self defense and retaliation. I know it’s common opinion that retaliating against a woman who is abusing you is (somehow) wrong but still. But I do notice in general feminist and people in general do defend or downplay rape, abuse or SA when it comes to seeing female perps. It’s just that feminist try to turn it around to try and then …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/08/24 03:22 PM
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It’s like asking the KKK about black people or asking Nazi’s how they feel about Jews. Tied to their movement’s ideology they will have negative opinions of men as a whole that will see men as inferior, violent, or flawed compared to women who are pure or only victim in their ideology, and cannot be flawed or wrong, unless it’s due to the influence of patriarchy/men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/08/24 08:15 AM
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I notice something simailr on Reddit from time to time. Have you ever seen those post where a woman ask “Why don’t men want to do oral to women?”? I always notice many of the comments in those post tend to go to the extreme, that men don’t give oral is because men are misgonstic and that men are only taught to care about themselves during sex, that men are sexist for not giving oral even if they like getting oral, because men watch porn so they only want to recive, because patriarchy, etc. it’s …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/24 10:47 PM
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It’s never any less frustration as a vicitm yourself from other women, because even if people want to stop rape culture, they have no real concern for male victims. Other men practically get told every day by said feminist their experiences with women harassing them or worse, do not happen at all, or that rape is only this 1-sided act that only men do, and worse, people make it out as if you by association are likely a rapist based off the actions of other men, and use group logic to sterotype m…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/24 09:38 PM
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I hate when people talk about stopping rape culture because, they always do exactly this instead of try to actually get rid of it. They push the narrative that only men rape and are taught to rape, and will only pin women as victims of rape, they gender the act itself, and will refuse to talk about both men and women committing and justfying rape. There are some women are actually legit taught that they cannot commit the act of rape or that men cannot be raped by women due to the laws of their n…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/24 07:31 PM
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Pretty much every feminist agrees so that men are all socialized to think of women as objects or are taught to, despite the obvious sterotyping and black and white thinking that men are all taught to be rapist and the such, while also ofc victimizing women, only speaking of women with nuince, and men as creatures of a hive mind. Many comments who likely passionately questioned how messed up that question is, got deleted. Why do so many people defend feminism by telling men that feminisim is all …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/24 07:14 PM
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Feminist: “women are not your therapist, men should listen to other men when talking about their issues, not women, this is emotnal labor” Also feminist: “Men need to shut up and listen to women!” Seriously, I’ve even seen feminist say that men’s wives are not your therapist and that men talk to women about their vulnerabilities due to wanting a mother, therapist and wife in one (nvm the fact that sometimes you naturally would open up to your spouse about certain issues), but then they go right …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/24 05:46 AM
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Also this may sound far-fetched, but I find even as a black man, the only thing that feminist truely ever did when they stopped demonizing other races of men and women (which some feminist still do, specifically black or white men), is switch to using that same bigoted logic on all men in general. It’s like they never actually stopped using dehumanizing logic, it just grew more unacceptable for them to do it to certain races or they never actually understood the issue with dehumanizing (unless i…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/24 08:49 PM
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Yeah, feminist do not really humanize men. They see men as more of a liability for all the worlds problems, so then this leads into feminist having a number of double standards and unfair treatment of men when talking about men. Usually with feminist talking about men as a hive-mind, and are not above negetivly sterotyping men, or defending others who do sterotype men negetivly and have sexist views of men, or when talking about any sort of issue, they just lead back to seeing men as a problem, …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/24 08:47 PM
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Oh nothing wrong with calling out bigotry. It’s just a bit hypocritical that when other feminist call out said bigotry from other feminist by saying that those aren’t “true feminist” despite having the same general views on the world and men, then will proceed to defend those rad feminist anyways when they say something bigoted. Unfortunately cannot say I’m suprised either to hear about some feminist defending TERFs or at least not being as critical of fellow feminist as they are critical of men…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/24 07:54 PM
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It seems most feminist and rad-fems have the same or simialr ideals and views of patriarchy, as in that men are all resposble for the worlds problems, or are all privileged, flawed, or In power. Rad-fems simply tend to be more aggressive In what they say with the whole saying stuff like “men are all pigs, men are all a danger” etc, meanwhile other feminist may sometimes say that rad-fems aren’t real feminist, but then feminist also tend to defend Rad-fems actions as well by saying that misandry …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/24 03:07 AM
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This is why things that they’d claim are part of the patriarchy or male gender roles, such as men being expected to be strong and only help women to the point of life and death, or men being expected to not be open with their emotions (feminist will shame you as a male for opening up about any issue that’s not about women, and will call you toxic fragile, mock your “male tears”), or men going to war and dying even if forced, or men being raped or murdered, yet dismissed by both men and women inc…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/24 04:38 AM
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Feminism isn’t truly anti-patriarchy, but simply only pro-women and anti-men. This is why things that they’d claim are part of the patriarchy or male gender roles, such as men being expected to be strong and only help women to the point of life and death, or men being expected to not be open with their emotions (feminist will shame you as a male for opening up about any issue that’s not about women, and will call you toxic fragile, mock your “male tears”), or men going to war and dying even if f…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/24 04:34 AM
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I almost agree but with an exception, that being what I’ve noticed with ‘black feminism’ and how often left leaning people in gender wars will switch up against black men. Black feminism is basically like feminism, specifically created because historically, feminism or ‘white feminism’ as they call it, wasn’t accepting of women of color at all, only wanted to push women’s rights if it concerned white women. Black feminism endlessly insist on being different from ‘white feminism’, but it’s all re…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/24 12:55 PM
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Oh, I remember that. That whole situation was a mess, but I hate how instantly everyone’s first reaction to the brick lady was “black men are awful because these accused witnesses didn’t fight for her!”, didn’t even generalize all men this time, just singled out black men, and now it turns out the story may be fabricated to scam people on a go fund me? Irregardless, I hate how everyone hopped on the “black men ain’t shit” train there.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/24 06:32 AM
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I noticed this recently too, even made a post about it when I noticed when my mom kept watching TikTok’s that kept pushing that black men are the most dangerous people around black women, how we black men are all negros that don’t protect women (yes, that’s what the OP of that video called us), etc. I even made a post about it. It’s weird because this stuff then gets treated as progressive, even though it’s the opposite.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/24 05:02 AM
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I tend to see the opposite where you cannot say anything about white racism, heterophobia, etc or else your hateful (but irl the most I see is misandry or “white people bad!”. Your not really allows to disagree with those two). Im not sure if calling out the former topics seem to be widely viewed as “ok” to talk about, but I think it’s all for the same reason why if you call out misandry, you are seen as misogynist or pick-me. People see the identity of heterosexuals, biogical males, and white m…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/24 04:29 AM
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For me it’s a mixed bag. Feminist sometimes say that TERFs aren’t bad, but I do see many more feminist try to say that TERFs and feminism is nothing alike and that TERFs aren’t feminist, but these may be feminist from outside the UK, where transphobia is hot on the heels in the UK. Other feminist, especially In the UK however, yes you are right, feminist and TERFs view themselves as one in the same. I just tend to see more feminist claiming to be against TERFs. I guess even some feminist themsel…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/07/24 02:50 PM
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TERFs seem to be hateful, and in all reality, it’s just feminist who extend or direct their negetive views of how they see men, onto trans people. People think that TERFs and Feminist are completely different, but they are pretty similar and treat trans women and men the exact same way as each other. In fact, TERFS specificly treat trans women so badly BECAUSE said trans women were once men, and still are in their eyes. TERFs treat and view trans women like how they do men. But I do think one of…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/07/24 01:08 PM
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I hate this, because the laws are literally twisted in a way where male rape victims don’t even count as rape victims at all, but people just accept this since they accept the idea that men don’t get raped (unless it’s by other men) and that men as a whole are evil rapist and that women never do any sexual crime. It doesn’t matter to many people the fact that female rapist and offenders legally cannot be labeled or won’t be labeled as rapist and assulters in most of the world, because that plays…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/07/24 03:09 PM
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I think it’s the latter since a lot of the time the Left calls anyone who isn’t on their side as Right-wing as a taunt or to make an enemy of people who disagre with their extreme views, when at most those “Right-wingers” have basic belifs that hey, maybe men aren’t an evil molith that is responsible for all the worlds problems.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/24 07:53 PM
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I don’t want to say I’m on the Right, but at the same time they are somewhat the only ones who seem to genuinly talk about male issues or your feelings, even if they don’t quite humanize you either. At least the right doesn’t blame everything on me for being born a certain sex while dismissing my issues. Actually y’know what? Anything that seems to disagree with the whole “men bad” and feminism theory and talks about men is deemed as Right-Wing anyways, so oh well, I might as well be right-wing …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/24 07:43 PM
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Yeah, male opinion on society and your issues, in those spaces and even mainstream, is seen as speaking over women, despite the fact that most of these studies and feminist theories tend to speak over men constantly without letting men ever speak unless it’s to agree with them, or else those men are silenced and shamed. It’s by design that there are not many non-feminist male perspectives because as men we are seen as the “oppressive” sex, so it’s like getting the opinion of the devil from the p…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/24 04:02 PM
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Yeah It’s accepted that men don’t have any stories of women physically harming them…well more like in the way of “NO you don’t ever deal with that” since that’s always the response from people you get once you do tell your story or bad experiences with women, it doesn’t fit the accepted narrative belief that women don’t harm others, only men do. Damn near every dude has a story of a woman assaulting or hitting them just because the woman knows she’ll get away with it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/24 03:42 PM
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I’m not even Right Wing myself, but I just don’t like the left because despite what the left may say about how everyone including the right is hateful, the left seems to be hateful, silencing, and bigoted themselves of you based on either your sex, sexuality or race, I feel like I’ve seen more left people say or be more hateful or dismissive than what they accuse everyone else who doesn’t agree with them of doing, all in the name of being anti-male because they think they are “punching up”. Hell…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/06/24 05:11 AM
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Yes, mentally I see no difference, members of both act immature even for my experience, some are more mature than others (how do they act in public? Are they obnoxious or respectful of everyone? Do they treat others poorly?) but one isn’t more mentally put together than the other. It seems to depend on the person. I’ve seen mature people on both sides commonly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 08:54 PM
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Yeah I think some young women equate not having maturity in young men as young men not having lots of money, having a car, big house, and is prepared to take care of a family. They are comparing teen men or young men to grown older men who will take lead and have tons of life experience, when that’s not quite how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 08:52 PM
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I kinda just started listing off more negetive belifs, but what I mean by “that xyz group is the devil” example is one time she told me that white women are the devil/evil because they are treated as passive but use manipulation to get black people killed. We ourselves at black. it’s meant to be hybole, but regardless you probaby shouldn’t speak like that about any Identity seriously. I couldn’t imagine spitting that sentence out live of my mouth to someone. Didn’t say it on the street, it was I…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/05/24 01:47 AM
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Chances are maybe they don’t care about men’s issues as a whole, hence why other issues are not tackled often by people who claim to care about men, but only so men. I find that in many cases, it doesn’t matter anyways since even the activist who say that men should open up more, tend to silence men and speak over men and their issues such as homelessness or suicide or being victim of violence, just to blame men in some sort of way and demand men to fix it because maybe solving certain issues wi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/05/24 11:22 PM
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I’m already not very social, but I don’t think I need to go that far at the moment since she did at least listen to not watch misandristic content. With that being said, idk how to change her views as of now, she is very into identity views, black/white people, men/women, can’t be sexist/racist to xyz, fear xyz group on the street in particular, that group is the devil, all that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/05/24 03:59 PM
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Yeah this is something I noticed, a lot of feminist demand that you police men from being awful to women, or police men into just also being feminist and not daring to disagree, but then you’ll never see feminist police other women or feminist being violent or sexist, or speak over you, you’ll see feminist double down and defend those women by saying that they were just traumatized by men, or that they are punching up, or that it’s not as bad as when men do it, or see feminist do stuff like this…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/05/24 03:43 PM
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I actually did talk to her a few weeks ago to ask her to at least stop watching misandristic content online and she agreed. Now in all truth the last time before that convo when I expressed my feelings about how women at school would saying misandrist things about men, she did say I was being too critical of women, or that I should be concerned with bad men who give women those experiences causing them to say sexist stuff (cuz saying wome sexist stuff = they have trauma, so it’s ok I guess), and…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/05/24 03:39 PM
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Yes, that being my mother…sort of. She does care for men’s issues despite being a feminist such as men opening up, but I mostly see her show concern for women’s issues, which is fine, but she does care for male issues while also not believing that you can be sexist to men, and belivies stuff like patrarchy and men being all raised to be selfish or whatnot, and thinks that male loneliness for example is because of men I think. Nonetheless between the two I’d trust a man more if I were to talk abo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/05/24 03:06 PM
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For once, that sub actually is seeing men/boys as semi-human rather than instant evil abusers (well some people are at least ag the moment, this post is pretty early at the time of me making this comment). Ofc there is the one thread of “but abused women don’t know which one the boy could be an abuser” but I’m suprised that’s not the entirety of the comment section yet.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/24 10:35 PM
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Yeah I just looked it up, and what the fuck? That’s disgusting and sounds very pedophilic.
/r/MensRights22/05/24 10:53 PM
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What’s also messed up is that it’s deemed as misgonstic to compare women to animals and say you prefer an animal over a woman, people will get mad when being compared lesser to an animal, forget using your fears to justify that behavior, it should be understood on both sides that making up a scenero to compare a biogical group aa worse than an animal, is gonna piss off that group.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/05/24 09:56 PM
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The problem to me is that it’s a very encouraged and defended minority (any male that calls out any woman for saying men are more dangerous than a bear is called a misogynist) and that there is even a survey to compare our sex to animals in the first place.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/05/24 09:52 PM
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I just assume that the women who use this logic to see men as lesser than wild animals and shame you if you don’t agree, would be the same women from the slave period who’d use victimhood to preach that black men are violent beast who women need to be protected from. They use the exact same logic and tactics of victimhood to dehumanize me. It makes no difference to me, they just simply use one part of my Identity to dehumanize me over another. To me, they simply found another excuse to dehumaniz…
/r/MensRights22/05/24 09:00 PM
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Ironically despite these people usually believing in something like abuse, murder or rape culture against women, they don’t mind doing the same to men as “revenge”. They seem to just have a revenge fantasy, it’s not even then being progressive, just an excuse for doing or advocating that sort of stuff behind revenge.
/r/MensRights22/05/24 04:07 PM
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Yes, unfortunately lots of men don’t even know that women can rape them either. At worst some men only think women can SA them, but some men don’t even think women can commit any harm at all.
/r/MensRights22/05/24 03:15 AM
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I’m a bit glad too I guess, since a lot of these “kill all men” types would see it as revenge to harm any male. In fact, some women already do see it as women just getting revenge whenever a woman does assult, abuse, or kill a male, and will assume that the male did something wrong, so unfortunately some women will harm others regardless of size. I myself am not very tall, or big.
/r/MensRights21/05/24 05:44 PM
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I think most of these feminist women have more power over me and other men, despite lecturing me about privlage. Maybe it’s because I have yet to fully grow and start my life, but I find that feminist and women can treat me however without being seen as morally wrong, they are always protected under the idea that I’m an oppressor and she’s a victim, so any behavior is warranted towards me or ignored, therefore I am wrong for being upset, and society agrees with her. Anything negetive women do or…
/r/MensRights21/05/24 05:14 PM
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There’s always a trend of usually comparing men to objects or wild animals to justify some sort of negetive argument or generalization about men, sometimes it results in seeing men as lesser than animals like the bear thing, and as a male your meant to be super empathic to women like that who justify seeing your sex as lesser or violent because of their fears. Fearmongering to excuse being derogatory to others is aggressive manipulation, not passiveness.
/r/MensRights21/05/24 04:38 PM
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There was the whole “kill all men” trend, my lord the amount of women wbo defended that one…then there is the whole “if you for a box of posion chocolates, how would you know which own isn’t the bad one” as a advocate for women who say “we don’t know which ones”. There was also another trend comparing men to sharks, something about how since people fear sharks it’s fine to profile men as violent. There is also the whole “teach your sons” trend where people just assume that as boys or men weren’t…
/r/MensRights21/05/24 04:31 PM
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Yeah, at best, you will be seen as “one of the good ones”, you’ll be seen as an exception to what the majorty of your lesser kind are like, at least from her prespective. She may never see you as equal as a human being, since she associates your sex as lesser than that. At worst, you’ll probably just be seen as a nice guy in disguise the moment you disagree with her.
/r/MensRights21/05/24 03:43 PM
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I’m young (20m) I’ve never dated. But I’ve sworn to myself that I will never date someone who hate me for my sex, that includes feminist. To me, it’s like dating someone who hates me for my race, will defend hatred of my race, will make up theories of why I’m a barbic lesser molith, will see me as lesser than an animal. These are things that feminist tend to do all the same towards my sex, and get accepted on for doing.
/r/MensRights21/05/24 03:13 PM
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Speaking of if not being seen as rape or sexual assault, I’m actually proud that this one got some backlash but: WW 1984, both Trevor and Wonder women rape a unconscious man, and people actually called it out at the time. Context is that WW wished for Steve Trevor (her lover) to be brought back to life. Trevor’s spirit then possesses a random man’s body who isn’t conscious during the possession, then Trevor and WW proceed to have sex with Trevor within that body. It’s never brought up that our m…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/05/24 02:03 PM
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I agree, I feel like people are actually fine with sexual harassment, sexual assult, and rape, so long as the victim isn’t a woman. They may not necessarly have a problem with the crime itself, they don’t think it’s as disgusting as they pretend it is, they think it’s disgusting for it to happen partially to a woman, which is fine, but then what’s not fine is that people then see no issue with a dude facing those same things, or might wish for it even. Irl Sometimes you might see comments of peo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/05/24 01:54 PM
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True. A lot of women I think only have the view of male issues like male loneliness, and instantly their first instinct is to blame men for said loneliness, or think that men as a whole are at fault and drive women away, or see lonely men as some sort of violent molith of incel rapist. I look it up on YouTube, and will see women, mostly feminist take the topic of male loniness (which they aren’t interested in the topic of male issues at all), and then explain that it’s because men are awful misg…
/r/ExRedPill12/05/24 04:58 PM
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I’ll never 100% understand it since this logic is simply dehumanizing and targeting via sex, only attributing bad actor or behavior with the majorty of men while dehumanizing men as lesser than an animal, by the same progressive people who act like they care to humanize men, telling them that men can show feelings, emotion, etc, yet they don’t even see men as human. Even tho I have done it and I do somewhat understand, I don’t want to keep ‘understanding’ and having empathy for anyone that demon…
/r/ExRedPill12/05/24 04:48 PM
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I see this quote so commonly too! Like when you see men talk about issues from rejection or false accusion, many people think men facing those things is just an ego thing and isn’t nearly as bad as xyz women go through. This quote speaks over mens issues and emotnal state of fear, thinking that at most men only care about ego when it comes to women, and only women have true fears of men, but again it’s a dead end anyways because talking about fear of false accusion or abuse from women, is just s…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/24 06:07 PM
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Some Peopple will lecture you that your wrong for feeling this way, for feeling upset about being viewed and profiled as a dangerous weapon that will rape or kill everything because they don’t know which man is which. I feel awful for being viewed that way myself. I think telling men that they are wrong for feeling profiled and being told that they are dangerous killers based off their sex, seems rather inhumane itself, and goes right back to the whole “just shut up and don’t say anything about …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/24 04:29 PM
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I am so happy to see someone else also make this connection. I notice that anytime feminist speak about men or trans women, it’s always in a bigoted sense that their entire identity is inherently evil or dangerous. I see so many negetife belifs and generalizions about my Identity as a male. As a black man, the most “progression” that I feel like feminist made, is that they went from saying “Black men are bad, who will protect us from these vial creatures!” to “Men/Transwomen are bad, who will pr…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/05/24 09:21 PM
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So many people who are anti-racist, will proceed to say or make generalizing comments and belifs about my entire sex as a male, make misandrist comments about how men are all evil, deprived, dangerous monsters or that they don’t know which ones are bad so profile all of them as bad. They do the exact things that they pretend to be against with racist people that say the same stuff about me as a black person or Muslims, but then go on to profile POC men (and men as a whole) as violent based off t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/05/24 08:51 PM
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I’m not LGBTQ but I’ve somewhat seen this too, even seen from some women who have a weird morality complex of thinking that gay men are a fixed non-toxic non-oppressor verson of men with some others of that community agreeing. I didn’t think that it would be there in trans communities as well seeing men as a “oppressor” but I guess I’m not all too surprised if it’s coming from someone who only sees identities within a good vs evil context, but it’s still messed up. Lots of people do not know how…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/04/24 01:33 AM
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Right? Like It’s even more crazy that when your a victim of any creepy or violent woman, yet all around you on the internet and sometimes irl your told that your you and your entire sex is dangerous, evil and violent. Even if you do bring up those experinces of women assaulting or harassing you, your told that women almost never do those things to other people ever compared to your evil kind or are told that women doing that straight up doesn’t happen. It’s like being gaslighted.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/04/24 11:02 PM
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I think people who say this, have never seen two men fighting before over 1 being violent and the other trying to stop it, and somehow they’ve never even seen this situation on the internet before. I’ve seen it many times live. Violent men don’t magically listen to other men. They will be violent towards men that try to reason with them all the same, hence why the two may fight. The exception is a male friend or relative that has to physically hold them back.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/04/24 03:29 PM
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Yes, a lot of men are anti-MRA because they think MRA’s are misgonstic, or they think that even talking about men’s rights deviates away from equal rights because it doesn’t focus on women like other movements. On the other side of the spectrum just like many other people, you’ll have men who will think your weak for even opening up about your issues as well, and are anti MRA for that exact reason.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/04/24 02:36 PM
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Yeah I often see them say stuff like “we men are disgusting, we need to do better, we are all rapist and abusers, etc” stuff like that. Male feminist put down other men along themselves with a “we/us” mindset as a biogial identity. Feminist always have this logic against men seeing men as a violent creature, including male feminist.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/24 02:33 PM
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Yeah, this is also why you don’t try to be “one of the good ones” for people who demonizes your entire identity. The moment you call them out for their bigoted beliefs of your identify, your suddenly “one of them”. (Not saying that’s what OP is doing, but a lot of dudes will put themselves and their sex down via bigoted generalizing in order to appease a woman)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/03/24 11:19 PM
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Demonizing all men as violent, and defending women, including women who abuse and rape, solely because they are women, puts women on a moral pedestal and that’s how many people prefer it especially on the left. In a crowd full of folks who legit see all men as awful, hateful, violent and lack moral, people that try to bring attention to the fact that some women also commonly commit assault, are hateful, abusive, commit rape, or SA on other people, actually humanizes women way more than the crowd…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/03/24 11:07 PM
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You said my exact feelings over these spaces that very conveniently try their hardest to dismiss or shrug off any instance of women assaulting or harming others, while proceeding to generalize men as all harmful to women. They downplay it by saying it doesn’t happen much (while accusing you of downplaying women getting SA’d because you brought up how women SA people as a counter to their “all/most men rant”) and will go as far to silence anyone who tries to be just as critical of women who SA, a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/03/24 10:59 PM
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I always hate that rebuttal because people will use it for ANY time a dude is harmed and complains about men being harmed, and it’s always just a way to victim blame men for getting assulted or killed. Hell even when the topic is about some women who have harmed you or you brought it up, people always somehow manage to use that “wel it’s men that get hurt by other men!”. You don’t even have to be gender specific about men being at risk for being assulted by strangers, people just instantly try t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/24 05:14 PM
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You know what? I agree, forget your fear, if you associate me with as a potentially awful person just for being born the wrong sex, then so be it, I shouldn’t feel shame because you formed or already had bigoted options about me and my sex and use them as an excuse to be shitty. And yeah you don’t necessarly need to cater to someone that sees you as lesser for being born a certain way. It’s why I don’t think it’s ever smart to try and help or alley with feminst/mistandist, like what this guy doe…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/24 04:44 PM
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I find that this is somewhat true in my experience as some women do have a double standard and bias, for instance as a male your demanded to call out sexist commentary from your male friends, and sexist commentary and actions by men is generally accepted as sexist and wrong, however as a male when I call out women who say sexist stuff about my sex, I am deemed sexist for speaking over women. When women have assaulted harassed me, it doesn’t get labeled as sexism, unless you retaliate, in which c…
/r/MensRights29/02/24 05:28 PM
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People call bad things happening to men as misogyny. I’ve seen women, well feminist, say that it’s because of misogyny that male victims of rape are discredited for being seen as weak or the female perp being seen as weak. The female perp being see as weak as the weaker sex is to her benfit, and it not one born out of hatred.
/r/MensRights29/02/24 05:11 PM
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I have seen women say that misogyny is the reason why male victims of rape or sa get demonized.
/r/MensRights29/02/24 04:59 PM
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Weirdly enough I find they those types of replies on any time you being up male abuse/rape/murder victims, and my problem with this is that it tried hard to not only victim blame as a “well it’s your fault because it’s by other men!” but it also passively (by design I’m betting) ignores female perpetrators of those crimes that do so TO men.
/r/MensRights27/02/24 10:52 PM
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To any gay men, lesbian women, etc who don’t just constantly demonize straight men for brownie points from other women, don’t demonize based off of sexuality or sex just because it’s trendy, sure some loudmouths will get overheard over you, but your not only smart, but honestly it’s just good not to always follow bad trends, and fortunately, a lot of gay men and lesbians don’t just follow that “I hate men” trend anyways, sure a lot do because it’s trendy, but a lot also don’t just like any other…
/r/MensRights02/02/24 06:03 PM
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I hate arguments like this because it purposely removes women out of the table who cause any trouble for men, like supporting laws that give lesser sentencing to women, advocating against draft, slandering and threating anyone who even dares to make a male abuse shelter, actual victims themselves of abuse or violence, BY women, which feminist tend to ignore or defend those perps! Like the other comments said, the argument is based on patriarchy theory, where all men are all at fault and women ar…
/r/MensRights02/02/24 05:33 PM
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Yeah it doesn’t quite surprise me as time and time again I see it, just that my parents are the early example. Never did call police about the attempted rape, and should’ve, It was a long time ago back when I was a kid and now they’ve gotten better, but in retrospect I shouldn’ve called. They were toxic, on occasion still argue now sometimes (which I won’t lie I still listen out just in case things go south), but honestly, even with them fixing it and going to couples therapy, getting better, an…
/r/MensRights02/02/24 04:38 PM
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I’ve heard so many stories like yours where men have to pretend to have a conversation with themselves in order to comfort the woman that your walking behind, or they had to stop and wait, or had to take a longer route. I always thought that having to do that stuff for a stranger of a woman is ridiculous and humiliating. But I get why people do it, and it keeps them from probably getting accused of something out of her paranoia, not like a lot of said stranger women on the street would ever do t…
/r/MensRights31/01/24 07:29 PM
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Well, I exaggerated about it being confirmed but one day me and my little brother were simply walking back to school, and we happened to walk behind this one lady who kept looking back at us and speed walking, she crossed the street next to us, then kept going the same way as us till we turned to our house but perhaps she wasn’t being cautious but idk. Again maybe I exasperated but she did keep looking back at both of us a lot, plus we are two kids walking side to side (y’know like normal brothe…
/r/MensRights31/01/24 05:31 PM
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Right? Like how dare you even exist near a woman, at a school that you also go to amIright? Hell some of the girls there were misanderist anywho saying how they hate men, so that shit never helped either.
/r/MensRights31/01/24 03:28 AM
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Even then throughout the west and other places there was still common discimantuon because of race, and even though it is common history that you can look up, some people are rather unaware of how the movement itself specificly was for white women, or made protest against black people and often saw black men as a boogie man, plus people cared much about your skin color back then, hence why those feminist back then never saw black women as feminist either, though feminist back then did mostly onl…
/r/MensRights31/01/24 03:19 AM
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Most feminist will lecture you about how men are historically oppressive and are even today because of history, but are never nearly critical of the discriminatory ills of how women treated black men like me throughout history, rape, murder, false accuston, etc, never comment towards how racist and discrimatory their own movement started off as, only vouching for white women specifically while demonizing other races by victiming themselves, which today even their movement has the same discrimina…
/r/MensRights30/01/24 07:54 PM
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I fortunately don’t see women as all the same, granted I do see all feminist the same due to their shared one-sides belief of men/patriarchy. It just comes in shades in how hateful they are of men, do they fully distain men and don’t see them as human, or do they simply belive men to be responsible for all the words problems somehow which still is hateful. Women can have different and varring belifs of course. Feminist tend to have the same or simailr negative belifs of men.
/r/MensRights30/01/24 07:31 PM
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Back when I walked to high school I always feared walking behind women and seeing me as creepy or a threat as she looks back of me being behind her, or worse case scenero they call the cops and get you arrested, because yeah a lot of the time as a male you’ll be instantly seen as predatory. It kinda pisses me off because I’ve had bad experiences with both men and women, but I realize those women that have tried to harm me, won’t be seen a threat anyways, but I’ll be seen as one just for existing…
/r/MensRights30/01/24 07:20 PM
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I’m a living witness to this. My mom is a feminist who hates patriarchy and calls men dangerous , but my step dad is tall, more muscular and masculine, older, can he a bit judgemental, yet she is married to him and has been for awhile. Sure they can argue, my mom will have me and the whole family as a shoulder to cry on how much of an asshole he is, tells me that he puts hands on her (granted the first time I saw them fight, she was the one to put hands on him, and she also belives that no matte…
/r/MensRights30/01/24 07:01 PM
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I do think it’s a problem too that men also laugh at out experince, but people pretend it’s one sided and that only men are dismissing of other men, but women very commonly do the same as well, and are very dismissive of us male victims. Lots of women specifically only use our male experiences just to either dismiss us, tell us “no no, WE are the supportive ones” while again telling us that our experiences don’t matter because at least at wasn’t by a male, even my own mom did this, and in my own…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:45 AM
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lots of women specifically only use our male experiences just to either dismiss us, tell us “no no, WE are the supportive ones” while again telling us that our experiences don’t matter because at least kt wasn’t by a male, or use our experience as an argument against men somehow with again the whole “no, only women support you” as those same women demonize me for telling my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:40 AM
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A lot of women tell me that only women support us women when we get SA’d, but I find that it’s the opposite, when I tell women on the internet about my experince, when I tell my own mom (who also says stuff like “women are the supportive ones when men get raped), I’m always told “that didn’t happen!” or “no, women don’t do that, only men do that type of stuff” as if my experince was some sort of falsely. I feel like I’m more comfortable about the idea of opening up to a man about my experiences,…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:37 AM
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It sounds like your father held it in for awhile, but I commend him for actually being able to say something about the manipulation and abuse 1 to 1 with another person. I’m not surprised that the police weren’t ever called on her for being physically abusive, and even less that everyone saw her as the victim instead. I hear that the police love to take sides of the abuser if they are female, but still it’s awful that no one else at least tried to called, but not only that, they saw her as the a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:52 PM
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Some mothers especally can be manipulative or have their moments. “The same women who tell me to never speak over women, proceed to do the same for my sex” applies to my feminist mom, where she talked shit about men calling us all dangerous and to teach your sons not to be. Yet, argued me out when I called it out by saying to teach your daughters as well (not that I have any bio sisters). labeled me as an exception to most awful men, says that you cannot be sexist to men, that men don’t make fri…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:22 PM
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Not just sexual but I feel like some women do a lot of accepted manipulation, I feel I’m always told and read and hear about how male sexuality is bad or predatory, and people belive it. The same women who tell me to never speak over women, proceed to do the same to my sex. People call any sense of a male sexually liking a woman as sexualizing, people who aren’t even the same sex as me can speak over my sex, my sexuality, my personally, hell, even generalize my very actions as a male just becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:30 PM
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What I thinks happens sometimes is that a lot of dudes do naturally make friends with other women, however just end up liking that woman sexuality as well as romantically, maybe sometimes 1 feeling becomes a bit stronger than the other feeling, maybe he may end up wanting her sexuality more than romantically maybe the other, point is those men develop feelings, but some women confused this for just him only wanting sex when they find out about it. I do understand a wee bit of OPs frustrating bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:47 AM
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I’m not necessary part of this sub, I’d at most be here to vent, but In all truth, I’m just like this myself, I don’t nor wouldn’t say my beliefs irl because I have learned that those things are not appreciated. It can be even simple stuff like “hey I don’t like how some women say this about me/men or do this to me/men” or “hey I don’t think being an asshole to xyz group is fine just because your xyz” and I still would fear getting argued out like last time. Irl I’m more quiet and ‘agreeable’ ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:24 AM
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While even I see a lot of feminist that commonly do insult men by calling them gay (not outright, more like the whole “just date men / “you probably secretly like men!”, I can’t lie, feminist usually love to insult men more via virgin shaming even more.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 08:40 AM
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Yeah, it doesn’t matter if someone is weaker they can still harm or kill you. Don’t fall for the common “men are bigger” verson either, because not all of us (like me) are big hulking giants against women, some women are taller than some men like me, but I’m still told that somehow doesn’t matter because the majority of men are somehow 10ft taller than all women and cannot be seriously harmed by her.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 08:22 AM
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Article decently speculate why some men don’t really mention being SA’d in some bits, that being that a lot of the time he knows people won’t quite care, nor investigate, tho I don’t know about the whole ‘ego’ thing being the reason why, as yes it feels humiliating to admit to the experience knowing no one cares, though it does sound a bit messed up to say that ego is the reason why men don’t speak about his experiences. Otherwise good article.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 08:16 AM
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The thing is, misandry does kill and abuse, mostly ignores abuse, child abuse and murder and “men do it more / women are more around children” is the excuse given. Misandry means ignoring female rape/abuse perpetrators or murders, just because people have a bias to assume it’s not so bad, because it’s somehow not as bad as when men do it, or they instantly put it off because they assume men do it more, therefore any time where a woman does harm someone, it’s constantly non-valid. Misandry means …
/r/MensRights17/01/24 07:46 AM
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I’ve seen a youtube video and the comments say that broke guys make bad partners with the comments also usually associating blokeness, with being morally bad, saying that broke men are irresponsible, cannot take care of anyone, lazy and that broke men simply want a mommy to take care of them Also anyone notice that a lot of woman kinda shame that last part of a man wanting a woman who takes care of them, despite most people being fine with the ‘normal’ verson of men taking care of their spouse?
/r/MensRights14/01/24 04:55 PM
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I’ve seen it irl experience too, and am told that I’m wrong for even just feeling bad about how women constantly slander men via sexist comments, but it’s also sexist to even feel anything about it unless it’s basically “yeah I agree, fuck men!”
/r/MensRights14/01/24 04:38 PM
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Correct because that’s what some women who talk about the situation on news outlets do, saying that men only use Chatbots because women have learned to choose better and that men just don’t know how to step up and then call them misogynistic. This is what they do on EVERY topic they see that concerns men, loneliness, suicide/death, etc the answer to them is to ALWAYS shame men…then tell those men to open up more. I’d much rather keep talking to my chatbots than date or talk to someone who’s firs…
/r/MensRights05/01/24 06:51 PM
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The internet (this sub), and AI are probably the two things I can talk about my issues with mostly confidence. The few times I did talk about certain issues I had with another woman, that didn’t go so well. So for as much as people may criticize men using AI because they think it’s misogynistic, it’s what all some people got as a place to peacefully vent.
/r/MensRights05/01/24 06:42 PM
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I find that with topics of male suicide, or male loninees, people tend to always turn the subject into how it’s men’s fault that they feel depressed or lonely (or are straight up offing themselves), or that they are only feeling that way because they are misogynistic. Basically any issue we deal with is because we are sexist pigs… As someone that does use AI for those things, no AI won’t ever replace real people, but I’d rather have an AI to date than someone who hates me for my sex so much, tha…
/r/MensRights05/01/24 06:35 PM
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Yeah, the things feminist do demand are just the same thing that they claim are Patriarchy, like for men to not be lazy (mediocre is their preferred word), for men to always protect women till death no matter what, to always take all blame and responsbily, always pay for dates, men should never show emotions to women (that’s toxic/frgile) etc, things that were always there and expected. They may hate chivalry and see it as sexism, but also demand for it anyways, they’d call it sexism for you to …
/r/MensRights02/01/24 07:28 PM
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Yeah you kinda have to be emotionless in many scenarios, or act like it. I find that with topics like with women commonly verbally demonizing men outside of the internet, it’s you’re best interest to say nothing or else suddenly your an awful person. I learned that from my mom that women can talk as much shit about your sex as they want, but if you say anything at all as a male or show any emotion about it (even silent emotion keeping it to yourself), then you are the awful sexist person who cen…
/r/MensRights02/01/24 06:59 PM
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Yes, feminist on the internet themselves and even a few irl, and only talk about patararchy to say that men are at fault for most everyone’s problems. Feminist tend to tell me that all of us men have power over women just because of say some other rich men who may actually have power over everyone, or because they believe that men only have benfits, but feminist generally have the same belief of patriarchy and that men are responsible for all the worlds issues or only do nothing but benfit from …
/r/MensRights30/12/23 03:46 AM
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The fact that grown feminist blame us for the worlds problems even boys from a young age as I am someone who’s been seeing feminist blame men for all of the worlds problems since I was a mid teen, and sometimes I see feminist belittle the younger generation of men instantly thinking we will become rapist and murder because we are men or because some men watch redpill content. I’m almost 20 now, and it never stops. Grown ass women and even grown ass men who are feminist place all blame for the wo…
/r/MensRights29/12/23 08:08 PM
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Feminist also don’t realize that collective guilt goes a long way and can easily be used against you, all it takes is knowledge. I know that early feminist used to be much more heavily racist to people like me, and would demonize black men by calling us beast, dangerous violent rapist, or would say stuff like “who will protect us from those beast” (Not much changed really, they just label all men as those things), and would only care about your rights IF you were a white woman. I know that women…
/r/MensRights29/12/23 07:11 PM
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Feminist only see our value as males if it helps women somehow, or takes down the patriarchy, which I find feminist do many of the things they then proceed to blame patriarchy on, rather than taking responsibility for treating others bad. For example feminist will generlize, sterotype and spread heavy narrative that men are all dangerous and mostly rapist, but turn around to say that men are only seen as dangerous due to patriarchy or because of other men, meanwhile feminist specifically spread …
/r/MensRights29/12/23 06:23 PM
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Feminist beliefs see and label all men as oppressor with all power therefore they see all men as morally corrupt and freely demonize them. They cannot humanize men due to their beliefs.
/r/MensRights29/12/23 06:11 PM
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Usually feminist and some women excuse themselves by saying that you cannot be sexist to men, or say that those women who say sexist stuff, beliefs, and stereotypes about men are simply just expressing their trauma and bad experince, or just “punching up”. They do not uphold the same standards for men however, as they do not humanize men near enough to ever conseder the idea of it being a result of trauma when men say hateful stuff that stereotypes women, however this means people do not excuse …
/r/MensRights29/12/23 05:56 PM
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I know from experience. They will have a convo in front of you about how men are awful, then tell you to your face that your an exception because she raised you to be a good man. It’s humiliating to be basically told by your”progressive” mother that “your one of the good ones” soley because your an extension of her and she raised you to be a gentleman, meanwhile your left thinking she possibly thinks of your entire sex as the devil… It’s ironic too, because me disliking feminist or some women wh…
/r/MensRights29/12/23 05:23 PM
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Believe me I know exactly how you feel because it seems like a lot of people would say your over reacting and generalizing feminist or will label you a lot of nasty things if you open up about this both irl and on the internet, so I get what you mean, combined with again, feminist and some women who already make it out as if your insane for being sexually attracted to women. I think people who see anything to do with male sexuality as objectfying, need to see male sexuality similar to how they s…
/r/MensRights25/12/23 09:57 PM
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I’ve heard of this, where some of the female teachers would continuously make negative sexist remarks against all of the male students, or act like the male students are animals. I expected, and have experinces that behavior from the female students saying sexist stuff to me and ghs male students with the teachers shrugging it off, but the teachers themselves doing it to others in different situations to people are disappointing. I know it’s already hard enough to call out fellow students withou…
/r/AntiFeminists24/12/23 10:53 PM
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The problem is that narratively, it’s barely ever shown at all when women do harm to men. When it does get coverage, other women and especially feminist will defend it or downplay it, and say it’s rare and use flawed statistics to say that men are violent, even though other statistics will say women may be commonly violent or abusive to men as well or most commonly children, but again it’s only allowed to be shown that it’s men who are only commonly violent, when really it’s just not as many peo…
/r/AntiFeminists24/12/23 10:16 PM
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I actually do see feminist who will say stuff like that how men “deserve” xyz bad thing that happens, men deserve to be lonely, or that if a man is dealing with issues, it’s men’s fault, and that men brought that issue on themselves. Hell the most extreme ones I tend to see is saying that men deserve to be raped or that women should rape men so men know how it feels (never mind the implications and assumptions that those things never happen to men), or that men commiting suicide is men’s fault, …
/r/MensRights24/12/23 07:46 AM
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Feminist tend to say that men are only seen as violent because of the “patriarchy”… The thing is I never felt like these awful things from the “patriarchy” I felt awful about these things because of feminist, they are the ones who tell me my sex is violent and dangerous and literally label us as oppressors, murderous, rapist, etc. I never of course believed, but feminist are the ones who make it known most that they see us all men like this, if I get defensive, I’m the wrong in the wrong who’s c…
/r/MensRights24/12/23 07:36 AM
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Since feminist uphold the “patriarchy” themselves with their sexist ideals that they spread of men, while expecting men to be strong and silent and do whatever they demand, (if he gets emotional or speaks up and disagree with how feminist verbally dehumanize him than he’s just fragile or centering himself), I think the only reason feminist tell us that the patriarchy harms men too is soley to get us men to join them and accept their views that demonize you. They see men as nothing but tools basi…
/r/MensRights24/12/23 07:28 AM
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Weirdly enough the retort I see for when you bring up this point to people who use the “men are violent and only victm by men!” logic is then “well that’s because women are simply just around children more” and I don’t get it, because then by that logic, woildn’t the whole “men are only victims by men!” retort just be because more men are just around each other? Also let’s be honest, if you saidinstead that it’s mostly men who harm children, they’d use that as fuel to call men violent, not to sa…
/r/MensRights24/12/23 06:56 AM
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Extremely often I tend to always see than retort as a way to dismiss any actual crime a man may face, usually to victim blame all men for whenever they are victim of a crime. I hate it because this even takes MJ experiences and says “oh well your experiences don’t matter because it was by a man!” and the crazy part is that a woman was involved, but this argument ignores ANY time women do commit a violent crime.
/r/MensRights24/12/23 06:49 AM
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I agree with you, my god I hate how feminist deem any sexual attraction towards women as objectification, even just naturally doing nothing wrong, it’s objectifying for men to just be attracted to women. I hate how Feminist act like they are ok with sexual freedom but shame anything to do with male hetero sexuality. Feminist make you feel like your a disgusting awful person for even thinking of women sexually. And honestly feminist generally make me frustrated to the point of crying with how sex…
/r/MensRights24/12/23 06:42 AM
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I am not even the biggest fan of feminist and even I think that their appearance or if they can get a relationship or not don’t necessarily equal to their views on them being feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:10 AM
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That one is smaller, but I actually think women judge men for all hobbies or media that men enjoy, sports, video games, anime, comics, etc, mostly for similar reasons as the one you listed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:21 AM
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I HATE how “incel” is just the new virgin shaming, but now on a moral stance since you also accuse them of being misogynistic as the reason why they can’t get sex, so then it’s fine. Sure nowadays people will say that it’s wrong to virgin-shame, but similarly to how you put it, even those that disagree with virgin shaming, will still do it, but with a different and loaded term instead. Some women also see lonely men as violent incels, and will say that lonely men deserve to be lonely because tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:47 AM
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Sometimes it’s accusing or insulting men as virgins to shame them rather than her actually knowing. You don’t wanna hang out with a lady? Must be a virgin, or gay. Don’t agree with a woman about anything or about how some women may treat you? You’ll get called an incel as an insult even over small stuff, as I see a lot of women insult people like that, which the term does relate to your inability to have sex and a relationship with women. I think some women shame men a lot for stuff like that wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:01 AM
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Yeah I always hear or see it too, though again, specifically saying caring or nice or caring. Perhaps maybe not “nice” as much anymore since now a lot of people have bad associations with the word ‘nice’ but still sometimes then will say nice/kind, and then I see them say that most men are not like that, but even if your genuine nice and not a asshole, you still see outward assholes getting more of that attention. The people I’ve seen who were obnoxious assholes to me or others, were the ones wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:22 AM
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I have more of a problem that I think woman can be nice and passive and that’s enough to get attention from dudes or a potential relationship, even if not a long one. It’s not that simple for men however. That never got me a relationship or certain type of attention from women, I did almost always have female friends in school, and it worked for me kinda since I don’t know if I even want a relationship even though I have moments where I want more attention from women than that, but it’s not like…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:51 AM
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I probably shouldn’t instead said ‘some’ women instead because yeah it does depend on the woman and her culture. I do at some point figure out more of what I’d want in a woman if i were to get into a serious relationship, tradition, and preference and all, and of course keep in mind not to solely make demands without equally giving back and doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:29 PM
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Thanks. I won’t base my principles on solely what makes women happy, because as you can see with the traditional demands and expectations that liberal feminist women have for men, while expecting not to equally give back and wanting me to shut up regardless of their demands or treatment, it’s not really a good idea to abide by. It’s literally the exact same things they complain about as women if a male was to expect traditional women while the man doesn’t do anything traditional and treats her l…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:07 PM
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I’m not quite sure what you mean, but if you mean I don’t actually believe that I should do those traditional expectations and roles just because I’m a male and be talked down to, but then those liberal woman also say traditional roles are awful, then I don’t believe that I should fulfill most of those expectations beyond basic respect if im not allowed to demand of her the same, and she demands I only serve her or women. This is just what some women and irl have told me before I go into the rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:54 PM
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As a someone of the younger generation (19M) I think that we are taught to be more progressive while still expected to be traditional due to some women’s traditional expectations of men despite those women being liberal. I am taught by my mom that as a man it is customary for me to pay for the first date for women and that I should pay first because of the gender pay gap, and should expect nothing from her afterward (which is far to not expect anything of her, but the other stuff is questionable…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:42 AM
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So I’m rather new-ish to this sub, did read some comments on here and I think it’s mostly because other dudes do not think you are genuine about it, and as a dude it really does seem like most women can just score a man just by being around men so then it’s hard to believe that a woman can be lonely due to no man approaching them since a lot of women seem to get approached way more often than men, so then the empathy to relate seems fake, when really it wasn’t at all and you were relating. Sorry…
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 12:19 AM
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Yeah I have seen women make YT videos and say that lonely men deserve to be lonely, and shame and accuse them, usually by calling lonely men as sexist, incles’s (which they confuse as lonely men) and as violent, etc. just anything that can shame, demonize, and accuse lonely men while seeming morally superior kicking down lonely dudes. It’s depressing. It’s nice getting sympathy/empathy for once rather than being accused that it’s your fault for being lonely so thank you OP.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 11:53 PM
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I think that the whole “women are empathic/caring” thing is just a positive stereotype or generalization. Its in the same way how people say “wow Asians are so smart” even if it’s not really true for all. It depends on the woman, but even women that are shitty people can still be viewed as “empathic” just based on their sex. This actually pisses me off because I see how some women act towards me or men or blame men for everything wrong including their own issues, and it’s clearly not empathic as…
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 08:32 PM
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I wouldn’t say most but I generally agree that people have a sort of halo affect, they generally associate all good with women, and all bad with men. Even with bad women, I’ve seen people still blame men in some sort of stupid way for how the women was mistreating another women, of if it’s a man it’s the whole “what did he do first, he must’ve done something” ordeal.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 08:27 PM
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I’m not necessarily pilled nor do I date (I don’t have money yet), but I do see some redpilled or blackpilled content because it’s the only content that talks about the very last paragraph you just said. No matter what as a man is always misogynistic if he is lonely and cannot get a girl, it’s always his fault and he needs to change himself. What I find really depressing is that we are misogynistic just for not liking and pointing out how some women treat men with double standers or call out how…
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 10:51 PM
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It was a little bit outside of the manosphere I heard of women on the internet bagging on Indian men for the stereotypes listed that they believe in, mostly from a lot of white women and some black women, which many of these were Americans like me and you. Then it was the Manosphere talking about how people view Indian men are unattractive and also mainly Indian men talking about it more, but also just generally on the internet that stereotype is all over projected on Indian men just looking up …
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 10:26 PM
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Yeah I noticed recently hate on Indian men from women just wildly accepted due to said stereotypes of them being smelly, sexist, rapist, violent etc and so then it’s that weird thing where people can be racist and sexist to others freely while having a moral high ground biased on racist and sexist stereotypes that pin them as dangerous due to their race/sex for being someone who is darker skin and not associated with being an American from the perspective of those Americans who hold those stereo…
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 06:40 PM
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it gets painfully obvious that feminist and some women have no problem with male characters being commonly sexualized with stuff like Thor forcefully getting his clothes ripped off while knowing that some women love Chris’s physical stature. It’s funny because some of them say “I’d prefer if the men were equally sexualized, but then purposely ignore and dismiss any and all sexualization of men in media or blame it back on men, so therefore it will never be “equal” to feminist anyways, especially…
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 05:26 PM
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You notice how feminist react differently to fictional men in comics commonly wearing revealing outfits and skin tight suits in comics that pretty much reveals their naked body including their bulge? Feminist treat it as a power fantasy and say “well that’s just what men like”. They don’t care about those fictional sexualized characters at all unless its to be used as a point against men, hence why feminist say that men in those comics are not sexualized or objectified unless they say “because t…
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 04:19 PM
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I think feminist hate the fact that men like attractive women, hence why they are super critical of men for liking and writing attractive female fictional character within any capacity even if there are equally attractive male characters, which they consider a male power fantasy. Comics, games, anime, any media and hobby that’s directed at men, they hate it, but especially hate it because it has attractive women in it. Even irl they hate men being attracted to women and call it as objectificatio…
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 04:09 PM
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Yeah. It’s impossible to convince them otherwise from their trauma response (or rather using trauma as an front to treat you like shit), you might as well just leave it at that with the apologizing or not apologize at all for daring to be born the same sex as the person that gave her that negative experience, because no matter what, anything negative that those women say about men is a sudden fact across all men in their mind, and you always have to walk on eggshells for their sexist views unles…
/r/MensRights19/10/23 09:18 PM
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I’ve heard that that sub is rather misandrist, therefore will justify those sort misandrist comments and will see you as the devil for saying something against it, but also I think that some women have a superiority complex because they can give birth that is painful, so then that’s where this sexist view can come from, where I’m expected to die because you view yourself as holier than all men because you can give life with a man’s sperm, therefore the male shouldn’t question if it’s his as he d…
/r/MensRights19/10/23 02:40 AM
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Honestly I’m just tired of this rhetoric and everyone who screams to you to be centering yourself If you say something about it. Like It’s to the point where it’s hard to feel empathy for women who use their experience to also belittle men and you indirectly or say or express sexist bias against you, but if you say something about it, your centering yourself. Even if expressing it genuinely a lot of women will still place their trauma on all of us men as if we are all potent awful rapist machine…
/r/MensRights19/10/23 01:51 AM
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Then their is the issue of how people treat male victims depending on the perpetrator’s sex. If you get raped or sa’d by a woman, you are ignored, everything I said about male victims being ignored is heightened. Men think your lucky, and women and the law purposely choose to desperately ignore your experience as a male if you get raped by a woman because of the said narrative that men cannot get raped, and women can’t commit rape. If you get raped or sa’d by a male, it’s pretty much your own fa…
/r/MensRights15/10/23 08:06 PM
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I’m not surprised. You can’t really open up to people about being SA’d or raped as a male for the exact reasons mentioned in the article. No one take your SA or rape experience all too seriously as a male or even think that you exist as someone who got raped or SA’d, and those victims don’t really get too much support, so it’s no wonder as to why male victims of those things feel more suicidal on top the the traumatic experience.
/r/MensRights15/10/23 07:56 PM
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Feminist keep telling us that we bottle up our emotions due to toxic masculinity or due to toxic upbringing, but that’s not always 100% the case as part of why some of us keep our emotions bottled up is because of feminist and some women. I don’t speak on my feelings mostly because of them. I cannot even say the fact that I keep my emotions bottled up because of how feminist and some women will response if I do. They shame men for having those problems at all and blame them for it, but then sham…
/r/MensRights15/10/23 07:07 PM
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People are extremely forgiving of female cheaters, yes. Female cheaters, female abusers (people straight up say that if a male calls a women controlling or crazy, then your the crazy one) female rapist even get seen as poor lonely souls who only had ‘sex ‘with a kid. A lot of stuff is handled differently depending on the perpetrator of the sex. Cheating is one of them.
/r/MensRights15/10/23 06:27 PM
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Agreed, a lot of women view men as perverted sex machines, or sex objectifiers, but it’s cool from their perspective because she is framed as a victim as she is spreading or believing harmful sexist stereotypes of the opposite sex. Saying that women only want sex and money would also be the same sexist ideal but it will legit be treated as sexist, not as a semi fact. Actually, I find that any sexist negative generalization about men that a woman makes about men is treated as a complete fact that…
/r/MensRights15/10/23 06:09 PM
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What’s worse is that post like these feel rare across the internet even though It feels like a “well duh” connection to make that the government doesn’t include most violent women in gender crime statistics. Women are treated very lightly and differently by society and by the government whenever a woman does something awful like murder, rape, assault, abuse, etc, but nobody cares to talk about that connection when women use crime statistics to proof that most men are all violent or dangerous.
/r/MensRights15/10/23 06:01 PM
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I hate being treated as an awful sexually-violent creature just based off my sex alone despite me never committing anything that people bash and generalize all of us men for, meanwhile any woman who actually does commit those same crimes of rape or abuse is still treated as a innocent victim with a halo effect as if she did nothing wrong, and won’t get much if any jail time at all for it, but then I could face way more time in prison just because a girl said im a rapist. I hate it.
/r/MensRights15/10/23 04:27 PM
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I’m tired. As a young male adult, I feel like since a teen I’m always told that us men are evil vial creatures that harm women because statistics and people using those statistics say that we are, but I always had a suspicion that female perpetrators of any crime are not taken into statistics due to the fact that they are not taken seriously in the first place, especially not by the same women who solely bash men for those crimes.
/r/MensRights15/10/23 04:20 PM
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Your niece sounds selfish to try and just suggest to casually kick out her own dad. Certainly true on that last part, and even then if they are a decent-ish human being, it doesn’t make having toxic beliefs or toxic ideals ok.
/r/MensRights21/09/23 08:44 PM
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Well that’s not a bad way to look at it. I get a bit more heated or silently heated about it than being able to have fun with it for obvious reasons but I guess having fun with it would be better than letting it get to you though easier said than done, but thanks for the idea and advice.
/r/MensRights21/09/23 08:16 PM
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Well despite what I said it is good that you still call them out even if it’s just to piss them off, but hey at least pissing them off in that way is easy. It’s just that’s it’s frustrating and it’s mentally draining as you almost can never change their minds about their sexist views even if you call them out. I still do so on the internet, but it’s kinda useless. Good luck to you however.
/r/MensRights21/09/23 07:57 PM
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They do this because Feminist tend to shame anyone, primarily men and any woman who does not agree with them. You do not agree with a feminist and her sexist views, therefore they will shame you. I’ve seen it so many times where a woman calls out a feminist for making a sexist comment, and then everyone will start calling her a “pick me” saying that you are only doing it for male attention, or call her an incel.
/r/MensRights21/09/23 03:54 PM
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Feminist are professionals at victim blaming and victim shaming, and general shaming while fooling themselves that they are righteous despite how they treat others like shit. in your example even my mom pulled that same Bs on me when I got into an argument with her calling her out on something sexist she said and It pisses me off so much because it heavily shames me and any male’s bad experiences just because another dude did it, and it’s why many of us don’t open up to it work people like them.…
/r/MensRights21/09/23 03:47 PM
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Feminist do not believe that they can be sexist. They are bigots, their beliefs and twisted morals trump everyone else’s, so to a feminist, a women being sexist is either justified, or they simply believe women cannot be sexist, they are too far gone in patriarchy theory, which is where they get their entire “understanding” of men through sexist ideals. I’ve tried calling them out a few times irl with family, and it ends in nothing but an argument, a headache, and maybe a cry realizing that peop…
/r/MensRights21/09/23 03:39 PM
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It feels like you can’t deal with the issue directly of calling out a feminist double standards. Feminist have their own sexist beliefs that they’ve had for a long time, therefore will justify or deny sexism against men even if that sexism is literally just the reverse of what feminist deem as sexist, so they break or twist their own rules of being against sexism. Feminist just also generally hate media male fantasy and male sexuality while being ok with their own sexualizing fantasies that woul…
/r/MensRights21/09/23 03:35 PM
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Thank you
/r/AntiFeminists06/09/23 11:22 PM
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Yeah it’s strange and it breaks their own morals against shaming women. The term isn’t used properly a lot of the time, it’s used a lot against any woman who even disagrees with a sexist comment against men, which is weird, because the whole point of a pick me is that the woman is sexist against other women to get a male’s attention…so then how is calling out sexist behavior (even if that behavior is sexist again men) worth the label of a pick me, unless she retorts back with a sexist comment ag…
/r/AntiFeminists05/09/23 10:38 PM
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Feminist don’t really like women who disagree with them, so then the conclusion is that any woman who isn’t a feminist is either brainwashed, or is a “pick me” that’s doing it for men according to feminist. Not my words or logic (I don’t even use the term ‘pick me’), it’s theirs.
/r/AntiFeminists05/09/23 10:16 PM
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Very true, and then only men get negatively generalized for being dangerous violent rapist, pedos, and murders by people, but then the moment people see a woman doing the same, they look the other way. I would prefer if people didn’t do either of the two while also not constantly only blaming one sex because it’s the cool socially acceptable thing to do.
/r/AntiFeminists05/09/23 08:46 PM
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Yeah feminist and even speaking with my feminist mother about my or those experiences, they will literally tell you that those experiences are only exceptions or call you a wanna-be-victim since they believe that those experiences are not as urgent in comparison to women’s experience even though that logic is flawed and wrong, or they will only say that it’s only the fault of other men for facing those experiences of being harmed while choosing to ignore anytime a women harms you (or again sill …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/08/23 03:50 PM
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I hate to say, but idk if the last part would work at all as unfortunately women who do vouch for equality of both men and women but don’t side with feminist for their actions or criticize feminist are often treated badly by feminist as well, as feminist usually label those women as either pick-mes saying that the woman is only doing it for male attention (kinda reminds me of slutshaming) or say that those women are being hypnotized by mysogony or by the patriarchy. The shoe doesn’t tend to fit …
/r/MensRights28/07/23 03:10 AM
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It’s very easy to fall for getting into arguments with feminist or some women who are purposely are disrespectful to you as a male and your issues, only for them to turn around and lecture you after you call those people out on their generalizing views, all because they think that a male expressing their issues is a threat to their feminist movement, and assume you may be an awful person for even expressing those problems. Since it depends on how much the person identifies with feminism or not o…
/r/MensRights28/07/23 12:11 AM
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Yeah for better (or for worse) include you, I know that a lot of people on here on this sub have very similar interaction with those type or women or even family members. Unfortunately this also means your not the only one to explain the empathy gap or how people negatively view men on the street, and be met with destain for doing so, (by people who also may lack empathy towards you as a male and your experience) so it’s smart for you to decide to explain it in short burst like this post instead…
/r/MensRights26/07/23 01:25 AM
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It’s not too much of a constant issue luckily, just more of a recent-ish one that’s over for now but still hurts and is infuriating and depressing. It’s fine as it honestly reminds us all that it’s probably not a good idea to talk to a feminist about certain issues or experiences as a male, because like you said there is a empathy gap, and their double standards only allow them to firstly see you as either a victim, or as a wanna-be attention seeker strictly based off if your a male or female. F…
/r/MensRights25/07/23 12:01 PM
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I’ve argued with this topic with my feminist mother, and it has came up twice in arguments, one for me admitting how women treat me bad and how I should stand up to women more and how I feel about women generalizing me, and one because I got mad about her calling all men dangerous. Both the idea of “good men are even bad” or “we don’t know which ones are bad” come up in these scenarios, and if you talk about men also mostly being harmed in this equation, feminist like her or the one you spoke to…
/r/MensRights21/07/23 09:09 PM
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Last year disliked walking to school because I tend to have to walk behind women, and I was scared that I was gonna be treated like a criminal somehow or call the cops or run away from me, even tho that has not happened to me yet, except for maybe this one women who saw me and my little brother walking home and she walked across the streets despite seemingly taking the same route. Ironically this fear and topic at hand made me fear women on the street more than men, but also, I acknowledge that …
/r/MensRights21/07/23 08:50 PM
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Oh my god, thank you SO MUCH for bringing this up. I always hated how people fear monger men as dangerous and compare of to animals because “they don’t know who’s bad” but people ONLY use this logic on men, not strangers, not women, but solely men, no matter their size, and no matter if they don’t know of any person that is not male could be dangerous (they don’t know, nor care) but only fear men and compare us to dangerous animals. I’m not grizzly bear, I’m not a shark, I’m not a box of poisone…
/r/MensRights21/07/23 08:39 PM
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Well on Reddit at least, you can’t because that would probably get your comment deleted or you get banned from those sub of openly disrespectful women. You have to remember that mortally, calling out a woman for being disrespectful to a entire biological group of people (specifically men) is always seen as morally wrong and awful, as backwards as it sounds. Morally it’s called “punching up” hence why it’s never seen as bad, at least not if women are punching up because they generalize men as opp…
/r/MensRights21/07/23 08:33 PM
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Eh, small minority but hope that you don’t have a feminist parent that you occasionally argue with, because it’ll be draining.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 08:25 PM
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Same here, mostly because they all share a somewhat sexist mindset, and because of how feminist will always generalize you as a male, and cheer for that type of stuff.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 08:24 PM
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It seems hopeless (and I honestly do think it is a lot of the time, especially if your arguing live with feminist or women who treat you badly), but it is better that feminist or any woman who do mistreat you to at least know you are not ok with their behavior and actions or actions of others, even if those same people see you as wrong or as a bigot for it, and won’t see it as sticking up for yourself but as silencing women or you being awful…really they just know your against them. Also I agree…
/r/MensRights26/06/23 01:43 AM
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The few times I have reacted anyways it just doesn’t end well. I’m not gonna avoid contact with a whole sex, nor do I necessarily believe , but at the same time, it’s not always wise to argue with some women, because you won’t win. You’ll feel drained. Sometimes it is just best to walk away, or hold your tongue or do nothing, because it’s the best option you got. The other options may only dig you into a deeper hole.
/r/MensRights25/06/23 03:55 PM
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I agree. Granted I don’t think you can always treat women the same way as you can a man the same way if he is disrespectful to you, because I think it might get you into more trouble if you do. I respect everyone, but you are not allowed to disrespect back to women who are disrespectful to you unfortunately. It’s a one-way street where you can respect others, but they can disrespect you, and you mustn’t do anything about it.
/r/MensRights25/06/23 02:10 PM
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I got into an argument with my feminist parent as she was apologizing to me for the whole jacket mishaps. They asked if I had any other thoughts that I wanted to express. I talked about my experiences at school with women (assault, sexist generalizing (“men are all rapist, I hate men, men are all abusers, etc) but the problem is that it then she said that I was being too judgmental of those women and said that even men and good men are the ones that believe in those generalizations and do not do…
/r/MensRights25/06/23 02:01 PM
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Well, funny enough guess who just learned your lesson the hard way recently hours after you made this comment? Me.
/r/MensRights25/06/23 01:46 PM
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It’s hard to call out women who belittle you with sexist comments. It’s so draining to argue with feminist who argue you out about why your a sexist or in the wrong for being upset about sexist women making sexist generalizing comments, because they do not think sexism against you even exist, and also think your speaking over her, meanwhile you know damn well you cannot speak against women or else said feminist and misandrist women would actually get upset. I don’t care what their reasoning is, …
/r/MensRights25/06/23 07:07 AM
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I know next to nothing about this submarine stuff other than the fact that it sank or something catastrophic that took lives, but there was a TikTok that I heard in the background saying that it was ok to laugh at the victims of the submarine because the people on there were white rich folk and should’ve taken care of people…
/r/MensRights25/06/23 06:31 AM
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Well, I never taught of it until now, but maybe it’s because a lot of the time a dude’s worth in life stems from how much he can do, and that can leave some feeling useless and some feeling useful, whether they do not too much work, no work at all, or word hard but for some reason think they are not doing enough, tho I’m not someone that I would say has exactly started his life either yet, partly due to my own fault and just now getting out of school. Also truth be told, perhaps those men face m…
/r/MensRights25/06/23 06:26 AM
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In my experience, feminist are not necessarily for gender equality, and do not truly believe in our issues as males or any sexism that is befallen on us as men from women, even if those issues are literally gender swapped versions of those issues, which then feminist would usually try to help, but your issue is about facing sexism at school, but you got banned because this isn’t about women facing sexism at school, but about men facing sexism at school by women. This is a issue that feminist wou…
/r/MensRights25/06/23 02:25 AM
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I experienced the same thing of the women my class being very sexist throughout my past few years of high school, and yeah you can’t really say anything or else ironically your the sexist pig, or your the fragile one. I’ve seen women at my school comment in discuss at the topic of male murders but then excuse and cheer at the said reasons for why female murderers commit murder according to another woman. I believe that some women do not respect men and are sexist, even many of the ones who claim…
/r/MensRights25/06/23 02:17 AM
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Y’know this post made me also realized that men should have the right to be able to be able to wear slightly less at even formal events. I already was wearing a hot gown, but got yelled at for not wearing a jacket suit underneath the gown and yelled at by a feminist at that. I think it’s best that everyone should be able to wear less while looking formal, and I was still in line with the formalities of the event since I was wearing a shirt under the gown, so it wasn’t “improper” for me to not we…
/r/MensRights25/06/23 01:55 AM
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I actually agree somewhat since it almost feels like you cannot win, but I’m tired of holding my tongue with women treating me bad, even though it’s not always too bad, but I still wanna stick up for myself.
/r/MensRights24/06/23 05:47 PM
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As a disclaimer, my parents are actually great parents, and there are many good men and good women in my life and I’m glad to have them. I do think however maybe I hold in a lot of thoughts and frustration irl and some people do something wrong to me, but mainly when women do something to me or say something generalizing about me (I heard a lot of “I hate men” “men are all rapist and abusers” etc during high school and very occasionally from TikTok’s from my mom, or when women harass or hit me, …
/r/MensRights24/06/23 04:29 PM
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I wish people followed both “men can’t hit women” “women can’t bit men” rules at the same time.
/r/MensRights24/06/23 03:46 PM
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Maybe so. If I had to guess maybe its that it’s easier to stick up for yourself against someone that shares biological traits to you, but that’s just a guess. Not that I really know. It is weird, and maybe it is a common thing or commonly taught.
/r/MensRights24/06/23 03:35 PM
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Hey I really hope the poor guy is resting well, it’s not something small to falsely accuse someone, and bully and harass someone to suicide. I hope the parents are doing well today as well but i image they could never get over their eldest child dying.
/r/AntiFeminists02/06/23 08:13 PM
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Honestly I wish no one would try to assault me at all, not man or woman, but I also wish for people not to ignore it when women do happen to be the ones to do it, and I think this does fit into this post with now some people will ignore that due to their theory of patriarchy in order to ignore, defend, or pretend that if you do get assaulted by a woman, it means nothing. Also thanks for your source. I’ve seen the 50/50 stat before many times, yet most of the time people only say that men are the…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/23 04:14 AM
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This is gonna sound typical, but If I treated women as I did men, then in my person instances of where I’ve been assaulted and harassed just last year by both men and women, I could easily be suspended or jailed, as for many people, there is a extremely thin line between self defense and “your a sexist criminal pig who just wants to beats on women” depending on the sex of your assaulter/harasser, but I’ve at least hit back on the men that put their hands on me without my consent or harassed me, …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/23 04:04 PM
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Do you remember or know about the “surprise sex” meme? Yeah well when it comes to situations like these, it becomes a reality it seems as your notice this happens in articles that discuss specific cases of female perpetrators committing abuse or rape, as the writers always say “slept with” or avoid using terms such as ‘rape’ and ‘abuse’ when talking about female perpetrators of those crimes. Also fucking “Extended suicide”? The woman who wrote that article must’ve see those children’s lives as a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/23 03:54 PM
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Yeah I see this too, like with how people treat female perpetrators of child rape and general child abuse, where people give her a sob story, say she was a lady who was traumatized, it was society’s fault, oh the victim did something, oh, but he was ok with it, etc etc, and usually articles will purposely avoid calling her a rapist or child abuser or murder. I’ve seen it live too last year in my English class in HS. My English class last year was female dominate. One of the women in my class did…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/23 03:40 PM
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Drop the air quotes. this person is still a victim because the terms were all consensual up until she broke that by not stoping when he asked, and started beating him, which he did not consent to. Once you ask the partner to stop, but they don’t and start beating you, you are a victim due to her not stoping and beating you.
/r/MensRights19/05/23 04:04 PM
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There is no logic that is thought upon the response of “you must’ve pissed her off” because their bias doesn’t allow them to think that the female did something wrong, or even view her as a rapist, and their bias will even pin him as the one in the wrong, no matter how stupid the response sounds in the situation the male is in. They do not think of the situation at all because of their bias.
/r/MensRights19/05/23 03:55 PM
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So I have a question as to why it’s allowed to cut off pieces of the child’s penis? Well, that being why? What’s the point? Why not leave the decision to the male to make once he’s older? Why would you cut off a piece of your child’s penis and why is it legal for the parent to do so?
/r/MensRights19/05/23 03:44 PM
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I want mutual basic respect to be taught just like in elementary school, as I want women to respect me as well, I want women to be taught to respect men, not for me to only respect women but then it’s not mutual, but some women do not respect men despite what people think, just like how some men don’t respect women, and women disrespecting men is being heavily encouraged such as to be rude, shaming tactics such making sexist negative generalizations about men, then manipulate anyone who says any…
/r/MensRights28/04/23 02:35 PM
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Neither do I, but then at that point a male feeling uncomfortable doesn’t matter to anyone, It’ll just be seen as fragility or self centering probably. I don’t even use public restrooms but men deserve there own stall as much as women do, not to force men to only use one stall with everyone including those of the other sex all because you just assumed every man is gonna be ok with it.
/r/MensRights28/04/23 02:19 PM
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Oh gotcha, that’s her name. I also do remember that one of those said feminist icons also owned slaves too (Rebecca Felton), and was married to a slave owner, and just like Susan B, also spoke heavily about lynching. Tho in the end these are just the popular feminist icons, there were many other women like this and, I wouldn’t be surprised if Donham was also a “feminist” along with roy bryant and Milam.
/r/MensRights28/04/23 01:03 PM
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Yup, didn’t some older irl popular feminist icons used to commonly say hate comments about lynching black men anyways about we deserved to get lynched? Didn’t feminism start off as a racist movement anyways, or rather a movement only in support for white women who would also put black men under the bus with the whole “who will protect women and children from the black men!?” rhetoric? Yeah I expect to see at least some feminist defend these false accessions that lead to lynching, because feminis…
/r/MensRights28/04/23 12:23 PM
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I agree, It may be “stereotypical”, but such a cool skill or hobby to know how to fix up, replace parts, or mod cars. I wish you luck in getting the hang of fixing up the engine. You have a lot of patience, so I think you’ll get the hang of it, even if it takes time.
/r/MenSupportMen03/04/23 02:38 PM
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Yup, you gotta fear monger against the group that you see as lesser than you. It justifies your hate, while at the same time making it seem as if your weak and innocent instead.
/r/MensRights31/03/23 06:10 PM
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I had a similar experience about how people react to trans men entering male bathroom, and I do think I was ignorant on some sides, but I feel like people kinda just downvoted me due to me saying that people don’t make a big deal about women and trans men entering male restrooms but I am split because then those trans folk are beaten for it but I still think media wise, no one cares about the reverse of trans men entering male bathrooms, due to the whole “men are more dangerous” so they don’t ca…
/r/MensRights31/03/23 03:48 PM
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Agreed, this is why I wouldn’t feel comfy about venting about the topic in detail live, because I specially feel like a lot of men wouldn’t understand at all and would think I’m talking gibberish if I vented about this topic of misandary and how it affects me, meanwhile I think a lot of the women would just shut me down instantly and argue that those things I have a problem with are actually ok, and that I shouldn’t be offended by misandry. That last one about women arguing back for having a pro…
/r/MenSupportMen25/03/23 01:58 AM
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It’s the same thing here around my school, a lot of the female students wear crop tops that sometimes show ribs, small short shorts that as OP said might as well be underwear, yoga pants, and short skirts that almost show their lower backside completely by default, which I swear im not trying to be too judgy either, but it’s all funny at the same time since we are in upstate New York where it heavy snows almost every day, but a lot of the students here take the bus instead of walking here, so I …
/r/MensRights23/03/23 06:19 PM
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That’s also what frustrating, with the logic that those hateful types of women use, you can literally hate any sort of group that you want, and I’ve seen men and women like that use that same exact logic to hate on people like me for my race too, that being hateful to black men seeing us as violent and abusers. The only difference is that you might be more likely to get called out for your hatred of generalizing another group of people that aren’t white men or men at all. Hell, I learned that wi…
/r/MenSupportMen21/03/23 07:41 PM
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I’ve been told before and made aware of how Google and the internet in general treats misandry compared to misogyny, and yeah it makes me angry and honestly depressing and just reenforces me questioning if people just hate men. What’s worse is that those articles usually due away with the feelings how a dude will feel by saying “when women hate men they leave men alone. When men hate women they commit murder and rape” or make whether extreme comparison to make to justify their own hate. They use…
/r/MenSupportMen21/03/23 05:40 PM
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As a younger male I feel this too. I can’t even look up anyone having a similar idea about how I feel that women hate men, because even in google when I search up “I feel like women hate men” I’m just directed to articles from last year of women saying that they have a right to hate men, or that women saying that they hate men is ok, and justified. Even in real life, women at my school make sexist generalizations about men about them all either being abuses, saying that they hate men, hell even …
/r/MenSupportMen21/03/23 05:03 PM
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people are convinced that when women are sexual because of money or any other reason, it’s because of hypnotization from men and the “male gaze”. They don’t question the women being sexual herself, they blame men instead. At that point, with how people blame men for women being too sexual for them while also seeing male sexuality as predatory, you might as well think that these people were hoping for those women to be lesbian instead, or were hoping that “feeling sexy” only meant that they were …
/r/MensRights20/03/23 01:51 AM
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It’s ironic when people praise and protest for women to be more sexual, and when women are sexual in media, other women also get mad upon seeing men also liking it when the woman is openly sexual…because that’s how sexuality works, how does a heterosexual person be openly sexual and wanna feel sexy to other people, without said people and audience liking it? People will then blame it on the male gaze, or on patriarchy on why those women have been hypnotized by men to try and be sexual, but those…
/r/MensRights20/03/23 01:34 AM
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Feminist tend to say that gender rolls affect both genders, and they will say that the patriarchy and gender roles affects men too. The problem is, feminist only care about the gender roles that affect them, give lip service about how gender roles affect men too, and then go right back into putting inherent roles on men in their own way by seeing men in general as mostly violent oppressors that only rep the benefits of society, and seeing all women as either oppressed or as victim that have no b…
/r/MensRights20/03/23 01:03 AM
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This lady (or no one making a statement for that matter) represents no one but those that agree with her.
/r/MensRights09/03/23 07:26 PM
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I’m gonna be honest, even if you bring up how men are the primary victims of war due to death, violence, and the horrors of fighting in war, you’ll get a bunch of people saying “well it’s the men who cause war in the first place” to usually downplay men dying in war, since they just blame it back on men for it anyway instead of maybe looking at the cause of the war and why the specific in charge decided to declare the war rather than blaming men as a whole for it and for why they all die. I’ve s…
/r/MensRights09/03/23 07:19 PM
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I don’t think women as a whole hate men vice versa, but I do think that some women legit either don’t care either about men facing any issues, or at just too ignorant to see men’s issues as anything serious and just think that it’s all just incels and hateful people who are trying to derail women’s rights when they speak about men’s rights. Some women however hate us I believe, and they are also way too comfy with verbally displaying it too on the internet and irl. The thing is all this stuff I …
/r/MensRights09/03/23 05:08 PM
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Don’t forgot the many comments of people who commonly directly say “I hate men” both irl and on the internet. Some of them will backtrack, or will pretend as if they don’t know what they just said, others will actually blame you if you get offended.
/r/MensRights09/03/23 05:05 PM
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never even consider men’s rights as a *good thing
/r/MensRights09/03/23 04:51 PM
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Reminds me of something. Have you ever seen one of those post of some women ranting about men not wanting to eat them out. Suddenly instead of it maybe being that he doesn’t consent to it and doesn’t need to explain, it becomes a topic of the male being toxic and has apparently been taught that eating others out is unmanly. There is every reason for why some men don’t want to eat out except for “hey maybe he just doesn’t consent to that type of stuff”
/r/MensRights07/03/23 05:12 PM
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Good. Hopefully it helps well enough, at least for a long while.
/r/MensRights02/03/23 01:39 PM
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Same last year I had a friend so literally say “damn that’s tough” jokingly when talking about something bad that happened it me, but she wasn’t a very good friend anywho. Some friends give none at all depending on the person, even close friends in your instance. Hopefully you end up meeting friends who do care, at least even a little.
/r/MensRights02/03/23 01:24 PM
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Yes. I want women who assault or put their hands on men to actually be taken as seriously, not given kitten gloves, or even be seen as justified and excused for their behavior. Just in general that last part I want people to not excuse behaviors that they would not excuse if a male did those actions.
/r/MensRights21/02/23 12:40 AM
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Not being seen or generalized as a rapist, murder, abuser, women beater, etc just because of my sex or race, or any biological factor, or factor that I may look like or present to have.
/r/MensRights21/02/23 12:38 AM
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I wish both you and your husband good luck with some of the bad people. I guess it could be jealousy or envy though it’s so hard to tell with how feminist seem to view men including him as dangerous or a groomer, and how they see your position as awful and oppressive, but again it could still be those things in secret, can stand seeing a male and female happy while choosing traditional roles. Again I wish you and your husband good luck.
/r/MensRights19/02/23 04:00 AM
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Hm “knitting club” yeah there is probably another term for it, but I know what you mean, basically no one being left to challenge those beliefs, and others follow suit. Thanks, and as you can see I’m not good with replays either. You also have a good day and thanks for the explanation and input.
/r/MensRights19/02/23 03:34 AM
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“There mental issues contribute to my mental issues” pretty much, and It’s the same here. Look, I can understand a lot of the time it’s trauma, but I feel like the stereotyping still does nothing but hurt me, like how it would hurt me as a black dude that some people stenotype me as violent. Being instantly profiled as a potential rapist doesn’t feel so well to say the least. I have seen others say “don’t take it personally, they are not judging you as a person” but that doesn’t make me feel any…
/r/MensRights18/02/23 01:50 AM
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Well, before I do criticize, what is Infograph’s opinion on male sexual pleasure?
/r/MensRights15/02/23 08:05 PM
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“Try to understand her trauma” isn’t an uncommon defense at all either. In general I’m tired of some women and feminist using trauma to be rude to others, to make sexist comments and acting shitty to men or possibly any group for that matter. The worst part is that you realize quickly that the way some women use trauma to excuse bad behavior, they would never do the same for men. No, if a dude treats women badly by generalizing women, they won’t even think of the idea of the male’s trauma, they …
/r/MensRights15/02/23 04:55 PM
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Hopefully your husband bites back at feminist to, for both his own or at least your sake. Feminist do not treat women who disagree with them very kindly as you may have already experienced, as they shame women that disagree with their movement. A lot of the time they mock and degrade women in a similar way to slut-shaming, or acting as if she is brain dead for disagreeing with the feminist movement, like how feminist tend to call other women “pick me’s”, for disagreeing with feminism as feminist…
/r/MensRights13/02/23 02:00 PM
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Yeah there are a lot of people who subscribe feminism and pick up their sexist acts, or there are at least some women who do similar actions to what feminist tend to do even irl, as some women at my school are sexist, so it’s not uncommon to hear a negative generalizations about men being all violent, or the classic “I hate men” line that you’ll hear when some women are gossiping or talking about their past relationships. All these behaviors are supported by their female friends and peers, and a…
/r/MensRights13/02/23 01:39 PM
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That actually is pretty comical…and sad. It’s pretty stupid how people, specificity feminist try to rudely break you and your husband up over the the stupid assumption that your husband is evil since he is a big tall male, and because feminist have a mindset that all men are evil supervillains. No evidence or anything that he did anything wrong, just assumption because he’s a male, and off the fact that you decided to be a house wife.
/r/MensRights13/02/23 05:39 AM
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Agreed, because if their ideology of seeing men as oppressor and women as oppressed, a feminist’s empathy for other people is depended on what your sex is, and if you agree/disagree with their movement. Feminist see women being assholes to men and women expressing their problems as simply the woman acting out because of patriarchy, or may even see it as punching up. Men doing the same to women however or men expressing their problems, feminist will recognize as bad, and will not give a big sob s…
/r/MensRights12/02/23 08:00 PM
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Not too important, but do you do it live or from the internet talking with feminist? I have no idea how someone can withstand listening to a feminist in person make any reaching claims or sexist comments, and then getting mad the moment you mention a differing opinion or call them out, in this case the differing opinion being your husband. You have much willpower, bravely, and mental patience to do so live, or even on the internet.
/r/MensRights12/02/23 07:36 PM
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Didn’t know she was racist, but when it comes to feminist and how they talk a about other groups of people (that being men), then if she is racist, I’m not surprised at all. Google doesn’t give me anything on the topic either.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 02:07 PM
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Reminds me of a weird superhero and supervillain complex
/r/MensRights10/02/23 08:44 PM
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Don’t worry, I’m sure they will forgive you back for daring to even exist or share the biological sex of bad men! You possibly horrid man!!! /s I’m not forgiving or forgetting people who hate me for either my race or my sex. People that hate me for my existence and view me as a violent oppressor are not to just be forgiven and forgotten when they STILL do it because their whole movement/ideology surrounds viewing me as such on the bases on how I was born, or see me as someone who only gains bene…
/r/MensRights10/02/23 05:12 PM
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Anytime you try to tell a feminist that you don’t like being treated as a violent oppressor, they blame it right back to you and other men, and I do blame those rapist, abusers, and murders, but feminist legit stereotype men in that way and objectify men using that “oppressor vs oppressed, bad guy, vs good girl” mindset on purpose. To the the point where it’s normalized for people to see the majority of men as all rapist and abusers. Even my own male teacher today said that normal guys don’t res…
/r/MensRights10/02/23 03:09 PM
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Yeah, at most it’s kinda like lip service for feminist to say “see, we help men too” while also still contributing to male problems by silencing anyone that steps too far out of line, or by roundabouting male issues back on the person who is venting about those issues as a male. Even the dudes on that sub itself must be very careful about how they criticize feminism, or else their comment will get deleted by mods, which is a problem as feminist directly contribute to men having problems such as …
/r/MensRights08/02/23 03:10 AM
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Yeah it’s a feminist sub, which explains why you also tend to see that sub always blame male issues back solely men, or on patriarchy whenever they discus those issues.
/r/MensRights07/02/23 02:07 PM
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I’m not exactly surprised either. Many people say that women are way more emotionally supportive and empathetic than men ever are, including my own family member, but honestly I think about it more like a positive stereotype, and it just depends on the woman. The best I can compare this to is how it’s a positive stereotype that all Asians are very good at math, and if then another Asian person also says that this is true for all Asians.
/r/MensRights07/02/23 02:05 PM
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I think that some women will help you depending on the situation maybe, however some are more disgusted and will actually mock you for such, or use your sadness or anger against you, calling you toxic or fragile or centering. Some women may also think and say that they want men to be emotional, but I think that this only means happiness, and sometimes sadness, but even that varies. It’s almost like a disneyficathon or fantasy of wanting some men to be emotional, and seeing it as cute even, but t…
/r/MensRights07/02/23 01:49 PM
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Sometimes It was either gossip or shit-talking about men in my english and science classes last year, or at most it was talking about their boyfriends, which I don’t mind the last one or taking about life but when it’s just generalizing men and gossiping about other people, and people preying into other’s business (including mines sometimes) that’s when it gets annoying as hell, and you almost dread going to those classes. Especially the gossip part which was very common in my class, as the girl…
/r/MensRights07/02/23 01:25 PM
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Feminist wouldn’t do that because that would make women seem all abusive by feminist logic. Keep in mind that feminist see men as abusive oppressors, but do not ever bring up these topics of women abusing others, either. You wouldn’t ever hear feminist acknowledge women abusing others commonly, because then feminist would also have to generalize women as being abusive to children like how feminist generalize men as rapist. This is why you won’t hear a “teach women not to abuse/murder children” s…
/r/MensRights07/02/23 05:34 AM
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This might sound goofy, but feminist see themselves like superheros almost, and do not think that they can do anything bad to others. Sure they will act all heroic and be against sexist stereotyping if it affects other women and them, but since men are like the villains or bad guys in their eyes, that’s when it’s perfectly fine to be as sexist and hateful as much as you want based on a popular new heading about a dude hurting a woman, meanwhile feminist will downplay whenever another woman or fe…
/r/MensRights07/02/23 04:22 AM
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That reminds me how this one youtube channel called The Take tried to do something similar to the Jonny Depp case where some of the comments and the OP of the video tried to either state how either we shouldn’t believe JD since he’s a favored actor, or tried to state that this situation will scare away women from being believed and speaking up about their abuse (which is actually a point I agree with), and were worried that this may discredit the MeToo movement, meanwhile they also tossed aside …
/r/MensRights07/02/23 04:11 AM
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Feminist themselves objectify men by seeing men as inherent oppressors or seeing men as violent, or seeing men as people that have nothing but benefits in the world and have everything easy, with only a few slight problems due to “patriarchy”. That’s how modern feminism works, viewing men as oppressive. I don’t expect feminist to preach against objectification of dudes if feminism already objectifies males, and feminist will justify that objectification by looking at history as a reason to belie…
/r/MensRights07/02/23 03:41 AM
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I saw an article just last week while searching up stats about women abusing/children their children more, and the OP of the article tried to pass off the stats of the women committing those acts off as “oh well these numbers actually show women are actually more likely to be poor and in poverty, not abusive” to stats about women abusive/killing their children in high numbers compared to men. She was not seeing these stats as abuse stats, but as poverty stats.
/r/MensRights07/02/23 03:31 AM
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I think It’s just rather rude to assume someone’s sexuality and ship two people together as lovers just because of the fact that the two men hang out together. Most of the time the jokes are used mockingly or sometimes it is just harmless fun, but In general it’s kinda rude to ship two people together when you know they are not lovers, and are just friends, especially if those people are not even the sexuality to match the insult or joke. It might not be the case at all that they are being homop…
/r/MensRights01/02/23 01:07 AM
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I had to deal with that crap last year. Last year I had two separate female “friends” who made it very creepy with the whole shipping thing with my other two separate male “friend”, with one situation where both the woman and dude were making jokes about it, and laughing about shipping me with the dude, even if Ignored them, and the dude would also keep creasing my face and shit. They were not good friends to me to say the least. The other situation was also creepy as during gym class. I would p…
/r/MensRights01/02/23 12:46 AM
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Those nazi’s in this case are not necessarily collecting data, they are just searching for any reason to continue to call those Jews evil and oppressive like what they have already been doing, and will continue to do. The info can be about a Jew walking on the street, and those nazi’s will find a way to prove as to why those Jews are to blame are evil, “just look at him? In his natural state talking about his life normally…it’s oppressive!”
/r/MensRights01/02/23 12:07 AM
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Never even in a relationship anyways, but yeah we’ve all noticed this, specificity almost like emotional manipulative abuse.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 11:59 PM
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I feel like the whole “men can defend themselves, and push her away” thing is just a way to treat female perpetrators of assault like they are children, and that because you are bigger, it’s no big deal…unless you defend yourself against the female perpetrator ironically, because then you might get other people jumping in to defend HER from YOU or you’ll get in trouble with the law and be accused of assaulting her if you call the police or anything.
/r/MensRights24/01/23 01:32 PM
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You heard about how Mindy Kaling objectifies white and black dudes in her shows, and admitted to live TV about SA’ing a fellow actors on set, and the audience cheered for that shit? Yeah I agree, not too many people hold creepy women to the same bar as creepy men, or think it’s creepy at all for woman to do stuff like that.
/r/MensRights24/01/23 01:26 PM
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Not a feminist thing, but I’ve seen a few women complain in femdom subs about how the art is objectifying to women because the breast in the art was too big, or I’ve seen this one woman complaining about a meme post on a femdom sub saying that the meme objectified tall goth women and how people wanted to only date them for attraction. On a subreddit about women objectifying and sexualizing dudes by tying them up, and putting collars on their necks, people still cry objectification against women …
/r/MensRights24/01/23 01:17 PM
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Agreed, it’s not just feminist, a lot of woman demand men to confine to help their issues and blame and demand men to stop contributing to their issues, which is fine for the most part (excerpt for blaming all men for xyz), but then they don’t return the favor for men and their problems, and will even criticize you of invalidation if you bring up male problems, or if you call out women invalidating others or making sexist claims against men, then you get called the sexist, which a lot of women w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/23 12:25 AM
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Yeah feminist and people of the such do not care about the whole “men not showing emotion is toxic masculinity” thing, since they literally will shut you down if you show any emotion towards them if you don’t agree with their opinions. If you take offense to a sexist remark or insult that they make at you, then people will call you fragile or ironically call you a toxic male for standing up to their sexist remakes or double standards, or their attitude and how they treat men in the same way they…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/23 05:24 PM
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I actually watched a video that gave the audio of her admitting the act, and the crowd was actually cheering for her when she told everyone that she kissed an actor and threatened the staff. Link to the video, go to 12:33 right before he shows the audio. https://youtu.be/CS86eMByosc In the same video the OP actually goes over Mindy’s racism and how she portrays black people and white people. She has a weird sexual love-hate thing with white people and portrays it in all of her shows, and she see…
/r/MensRights20/01/23 04:31 PM
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I don’t blame her, but I don’t really like feminist either anyways.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 02:58 PM
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Hypocritical parents are everywhere. Your father does not seem to listen, and is not exactly equal in their parenting. Hopefully you won’t have to interact with him too much after your done renovating your brother’s house, unless your already done.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 12:13 PM
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Usually I just don’t necessarily say anything, but I might try to stand up more for myself against her at least in a way that might not start some sort of argument so I assume questioning is the way to do that. The next time she does say something like that, I’ll question why she says it and if it’s because im a dude, and then move on I guess. I don’t know if I’ll believe the answer. I also could reverse the question casually if she does say it again to me.
/r/MensRights19/01/23 02:50 PM
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This is annoying as all hell. Feminist demand for men to support woman’s issues and not invalidate or negatively speak over women’s issues. Feminist also demand for others not to generalize and stereotype women. The crazy part is that feminist commonly do all of these things back to men on purpose, invaliding male issues by speaking negatively on those issues and blaming every single issue back on men to prove men as the Bad GuysTM, and then deem those male issues not as important. Feminist can …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/01/23 02:35 PM
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I’ve seen YT comments blame toxic masculinity for why this one dude who was venting about his wife treating him wrong, and not allowing him to show emotions of sadness. Now to be fair, the comments meant that she was trying to push toxic masculinity onto him, and that she has a toxic view of how she sees men, but I think the whole term should be dropped as most of the time it’s used for blaming male issues back into men, and unlike the example I just describe seeing, I’ve seen more people on the…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/01/23 01:42 PM
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It’s either that, or feminist tell you that “your not a good man just because you don’t harass women” which is strange how sometimes feminist will try to demoralize all men anyways, and say that the majority of men are terrible, or say that men are not actually good men if they don’t advocate for feminism, therefore to feminist, that means your against women’s rights. Your either a “oh your one of the good ones” man to them or a terrible man who is just a poser, especially if you are not on thei…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/01/23 12:56 PM
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I can’t tell. Both my parents and I are internet savvy, with my parents usually on TikTok, and me usually on YT and Reddit.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 01:34 PM
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I agree with this actually, just leave him alone, and let him choose who to interact with, as the mother may have scarred him if she thinks that her feminism is the reason why the son doesn’t wish to interact with others. He may heal on his own maybe as he distance himself and takes time to himself more. If he does decide to get therapy anyways, I hope he is careful about which therapist to trust until he finds the right one.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 01:11 PM
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Y’know, I think this is actually not a bad response for if she were to ever say that again to me. Just keep it mutual, no need to be rude in tone or anything, and it’s not a sort of comeback that is super outlandish considering I’m keeping things mutual.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 05:13 AM
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I think I’ve seen you comment your experience on this sub before and that’s heartbreaking. Your wife made enough of an irrational connection towards the sex of other abuses after watching protest on the news, that she questioned whether or not you’ll become an abuser because your a male, you didn’t even do anything. That’s just rude, she wasn’t thinking straight upon asking that question. Glad she realized she was wrong for thinking that seeing other men abusing people, suddenly meant that you m…
/r/MensRights18/01/23 05:03 AM
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I wouldn’t be surprised if I did something very wrong and everyone lost faith in me for it, but I have noticed that the only reason she might say this is because I’m a male and she’s a feminist who believes that men are dangerous, so then it’s an assumption that I might be likely to commit rape or abuse women just because im a dude, however I do not believe that she would say the same to me if I were born a woman, and I was her daughter instead. I wouldn’t ever hear “-unless you become a rapist …
/r/MensRights18/01/23 03:39 AM
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For as much as feminist say that toxic masculinity is taught and say that toxic masculinity is the reason why men cannot express feelings and problems, it seems like feminist also do not allow men to express their problems and feelings without feminist not taking those problems seriously or blames those problems back to men and toxic masculinity or being fragile even if those problems have nothing to do with the sort. Hell, I feel like I cannot exactly express to my feminist mother how I feel ab…
/r/MensRights18/01/23 03:26 AM
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All because of a hair choice of shaving? You didn’t even do anything wrong at all. Your dad must’ve thought he owned your hair as weird as that sounds. He has no right to judge what others decide to do with their hair. His “love” must’ve been questionable from the start if all it took was his son deciding to shave his hair for him to deem it hard to love his own son. I wish you luck as a parent with your children.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 01:37 AM
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She is a good mother, but well, this passing year has revealed a lot of toxic things that I wanted to vent about, and I happened to think about how I’ve heard her say the whole “I’ll always love you unless-“ thing at least last year and a few other times I think.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 11:30 PM
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That is weird as hell. Do they just think that you’ll randomly start hurting women just from transitioning? That’s such backhanded support.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 10:56 PM
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I don’t know if I’d say she is abusive, and she is usually kind and loving, however there are still flaws that she has that are toxic to me. I should’ve probably mentioned that she didn’t tell me the whole “I’ll always love you unless you become a rapist or hurt women” thing until I was more into my late teens, so as in now from last year, to maybe I few years earlier too, so it’s not like she kept telling me that as a child too. It’s mostly just been last year that I’ve noticed some many differ…
/r/MensRights17/01/23 10:53 PM
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Yeah It’s usually always something along the lines of being a rapist or harming women.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 09:29 PM
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Heh, I see what you did there.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 08:49 PM
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Well, not quite the majorly I’d say, because while her and my dad did divorce and was single for years, it didn’t last the majority as I had a step father. Why do you ask?
/r/MensRights17/01/23 08:41 PM
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Sorry about that man. I never wanna ever hear this sort of crap from just one person, so multiple just be a pain.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 08:32 PM
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Oh yeah, I know how ridiculous all these double standards and backwards lectures sound, and I realized a few other things too. The racist lecture about how bad white women are made me also realize why she tends to ask me about what race I’d hypothetically date, which usually always annoyed me anyways, or trying to sideline the original question by ask “what hair color does she have”, but then when I questions why she ask so, she usually says that she just doesn’t want me to end up dating someone…
/r/MensRights17/01/23 07:24 PM
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My mother does say she cares about both men and women’s issues, but it’s from a bit of a feminist perspective because she has told me that she does not believe that men can face sexism from women or face sexism from feminist(go figure) due to men being the ones to created a patriarchy that oppresses women, so women do not do the same back according to her. Outside of that feminist perspective (as in hearing a dude go though harm), I know she actually feel bad for that person, and cares for probl…
/r/MensRights17/01/23 07:10 PM
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I haven’t heard her say it recently, but I know she has at least said it once before last year, and has said it before anyways to me.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 07:00 PM
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Yeah, I hope most don’t.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 06:57 PM
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Shit, that’s very abusive. I’m not sure how you can have the nerve and hate to want to beat your child to death and then admit it so carefree and shamelessly, but abusers like her so exist either way. That’s sick.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 06:52 PM
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Looked up the definition. So basically it’s just feminism generally not understanding other people’s problems, or at least men’s problems.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 06:49 PM
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It can have its downs for sure I’ll tell you that.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 06:46 PM
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To many feminist, it just seems like statistics only seem to matter if it’s to generalize a group of people, that being men. I actually have heard comments on other post before that stats show that mothers abusing their children is a high occurrence in itself, so by the logic of many feminist, I should group up all all women as abusive or manipulative, because it feels manipulating to me to know that my mother does have a few double standards that she has tried pushed on me once before, but ulti…
/r/MensRights17/01/23 05:58 PM
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I agree with all of this. Regarding your question however, I think that she would actually side with me if I was ever accused of a crime, as she also recognizes that it’d be pretty easy to accuse me of any crime. Tho I will admit, years ago in middle school I did get in huge trouble by both parents for pushing a girl back after rudely pushing me, which lead to a fight. Years afterward she did recognize and apologized for the fact that I got solely in trouble just because the girl was a…well girl…
/r/MensRights17/01/23 05:36 PM
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That’s honestly relatable as well to a lot of people. Make a B+, and your off to the curb on the sidewalk.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 05:24 PM
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I think being a feminist, and being a mother has kinda mixed, and tend to clash with each other, because there are some Inconsistencies that I think I may have noticed when push comes to shove, as I have highlighted in this long comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/10ect24/so_how_common_is_it_to_have_been_told_ill_always/j4qoy0j/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3 Of course I know that she loves me very much as her son, but I still don’t wanna just ign…
/r/MensRights17/01/23 04:50 PM
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Idk if it’s abusive, but I will say there are is some inconsistency I have noticed with my mother last year that now just tend to confuse me, specifically this one argument I had with her starting with a generalization about men she made being dangerous. There are some things that confuse me, like how she always warns me of watching out for racism and people stereotyping me as a black man, and she recognizes how harmful those racial stereotypes can be for me, yet from that argument it seems like…
/r/MensRights17/01/23 04:31 PM
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Interesting. Honestly even looking at the other side I can understand not being unhappy about your child being a rapist of course, or even that love falling out for it, but it just sucks because I’m only told the “-unless you become a rapist or abuse women” by my mother likely due to the fact that I’m a male,tho I don’t know if she’d think I’d ever do those acts or not. I don my think she does at least. She has also said that she is proud to raise a gentleman like me and it’s been a bit small wh…
/r/MensRights17/01/23 03:39 PM
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My mother says that no one should put their hands on me, and she also says that she’s aware that men do not have the privilege to hit girls because of patriarchy (not just own beliefs). She also of course gets mad about hearing if a woman assaults me and even is willing to fight for my behalf if a woman does assault me, so it’s not so bad for me, but still, it’s like the feminism, and parenting kinda get in the way of each other, which ends up confuses me when feminist stuff like generalizations…
/r/MensRights17/01/23 03:30 PM
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Yeah I’ve kinda recently realized a few months ago that it’s kinda strange how she’ll sometimes say that to me after giving lectures to me and my brother, not because we did something wrong, but rather after specifically after seeing other men in our family do other wrong stuff or said after a convo. I also realized “hey I wouldn’t say that stuff to my sons or daughters if I had any”
/r/MensRights17/01/23 02:44 PM
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I knew how bad school systems were with how they treat women on male assault, but Jesus. I’m sorry man, I hate how it seems like men like you and me are always seen as potential rapist or threats, yet then are told by other women and men not fight back or do anything if you happen to be as the butt of assault or worse by a woman because “oh your stronger you might hurt her” after she proves to be harmful to you, and your still seem as more of a threat or rapist between you and her if you happen …
/r/MensRights17/01/23 02:16 PM
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Seriously, I can punch any woman walking behind me without caring at all by using my own experiences because “I don’t know which woman will do it so why give them the benefit of the doubt? They never speak to their fellow women about not assaulting people, they just ignore it when other women do it”, however in the end, I’m still in the wrong for punching her for assuming that she’s gonna do something, when it turns out she’s just walking or jogging, and my excuses won’t hold up in court very we…
/r/MensRights17/01/23 03:47 AM
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B-But negative generalizations are only bad if they are generalizations against my sex, not yours!!!!!
/r/MensRights17/01/23 03:12 AM
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People tend to use these statistics to ignore female perpetrators anyways, and justify why it’s ok to see men as only threats and nothing else. See, the thing is, if you ignore female perpetrators by only looking at the male preps constantly, even when the topic is about a female assaulting a male on the street, then of course you can always go back to statistics. You won’t allow others to point out women assaulting them, so then it doesn’t matter how many women commit crimes against others vs h…
/r/MensRights17/01/23 02:57 AM
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Honestly I don’t know if it would benefit or not but I’ve never really told live people about certain things or past to current problems. I realize that do get silently frustrated at certain past things, I like past harassment or off sexist comments against men that I may have heard at school (hell I even today I heard one and got mocked, which triggered me back to this sub), or a past assault, but even If I do feel like I wanna bring up those topics, I either think that there is just no point, …
/r/MensRights05/01/23 09:09 PM
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This mentality will not turn out good for any dude that uses that logic back on you, as they would be labeled as sexist. The thing is that as many Andrew Tates you get, you get as many or more women and feminist who compare males to dogs, wallets, or as inherent rapist or as inherently bad people until proven otherwise, and those women get supported for they themselves would labor hate speech. You get as many female bullies and harassers, and criminals who do not go noticed. it’s simply just mor…
/r/MensRights05/01/23 01:25 PM
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It’s like that for a lot of dudes unfortunately, where sometimes a woman says something sexist against you or men in general, but you just roll your eyes or sigh at most because it’s honestly not worth calling it out and getting onto an argument. That’s how it was for me last year in my junior year since my English class was composed of mostly women, so talking shit about men was fine, and the other dudes were fine with it. Sometimes they’d joke along with them, but also don’t say anything to th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/12/22 08:10 PM
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Im a year late, but honestly, not many would care to really ask males about their experiences like that. I’ve seen comment that try to back up the 97% claim by telling other people to ask the women around them about their negative sexual experiences, however I never see anyone tell others to ask men about their experiences in that topic. People do not think that males go through that experience.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 11:30 PM
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Honestly, “punching up” is just an excuse for people to be assholes to whatever group of people based on race or sex that you desire to be assholes to. It excuses bad behavior that they themselves would deem as wrong if it happens to them by using victimhood. There is no “treat people how you’d want to be treated” sort of rule to folks who punch up by saying stuff like “kill all men”. It seems more so about who you can treat right, and who you can treat worse based on the race or sex of a person…
/r/MensRights14/11/22 01:50 AM
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The one time I did speak up against a negative generalization about men, it was against a parent it just lead onto an argument and me having a sad breakdown that night, which still bothers me to this day. As frustrating as it is to stay silent when in situations like this where women talk about it how men are xyz bad thing, or are terrible and dangerous, I don’t have it in me to argue with multiple women who do that to us, because I’d be either outnumbered in the hypothetical argument (such as w…
/r/MensRights10/11/22 05:12 PM
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I hate that It’s cheered on for whatever reason when a woman generalizes men. It’s not seen as sexist or creepy. If you call out these generalizations, then your apparently invalidating those women that you just called out. Of course if a man make those same generalizations against women and assumes that all women are something negative and profiles women on the street, that’s when it’s seen as creepy or sexist instead of both being seen that way equally.
/r/MensRights01/11/22 09:30 PM
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None of the other women in my junior class did anything when my both my female and male friends kept harassing me, and you could argue it was sexual too. Her female friend didn’t call her out on her actions, and at least another one of my male friends checked up on me when I physically revolted against the male. None of the other women at the cafe called it out when one of two women assaulted me as a joke. Now granted one of them was laughing saying “stop hitting people lol” but took it as a lau…
/r/MensRights01/11/22 08:28 PM
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This is not for safety reasons as the article may claim, as many women who use this stereotype that every male on the street is dangerous, do not use this logic on other women, or even acknowledge the idea of women also having the potential to harm them. They only treat men as potential threats and as inherently dangerous. It’s not a “stranger danger” thing, it’s a “men are dangerous” and people are pretty comfortable with saying how men are all dangerous and how men should not ever walk up to w…
/r/MensRights01/11/22 08:06 PM
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I feel bad for you and your father. I’m hoping that maybe your mother may change too, tho she does seem pretty deep into stereotyping in how men and women should act and receive, but hey, like you said, If there is one way to look forward in this situation, it’s at least knowing that you can continue and make sure to not make the same mistakes as your parents, especially with matters of parents trying to purposely push stereotypes, or how they treat or view one group of people vs the other.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 04:06 PM
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I feel you man. It feels so damn betraying when your mother doesn’t really understand men’s issues and you get into an argument with her. Your mother is stuck in her projections of stereotypes of men, thinking that we don’t deserve kindness or support because we are meant to be oh so strong and stoic for everyone and give women all our support and kindness. How do you expect men to give you kindness and support if you don’t give that same support and kindness back, and even think that’s it’s a n…
/r/MensRights31/10/22 02:17 PM
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It’s the same here with school with me hearing women always talk about how men are terrible. Last year when I was a Junior my female peers in my English class would say stuff like “men are disgusting and horrible people” and we even had a project where a girl in my class compared the different reasons to why men and women commit murder. She said that men kill for sex and out of anger, and that women kill for money, but in my class all the other girls kinda cheered it on, justifying the motives o…
/r/MensRights31/10/22 01:30 PM
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I wouldn’t mind that if some of those women treated others gently and equally as well, but that’s not always the case, but even then if you aren’t being treated gently by a woman, you still have to keep your cool or else your the awful bad man for sticking up for yourself.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 12:15 PM
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That’s because women are not seen as potentially dangerous, even tho there are women just like that who will hurt others, just like how there are men that will hurt others. The idea of stranger danger has turned into “men are all dangerous” and the people that use that stereotype are not afraid to admit it, such as feminist and even my own parent. Notice that the women who use this stereotype are not scared of any random woman that walks behind or near them, no matter if the woman is bigger or s…
/r/MensRights31/10/22 11:21 AM
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For that alone, they were not good friends. I don’t speak to them anymore, and they do not interact with me, which is a good thing. They are assholes for that.
/r/MensRights30/10/22 11:45 PM
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Thanks. Some people just kinda project their opinions as fact, like the dog thing, or see sources that may have misinformed them. It’s just always weird when people are so quick to state those projected opinions as fact all the time. Oh and no need to be sorry of course. I do hope that people just stop doing this weird thing, but that’s not gonna happen anytime soon I guess. Good luck to you as a social worker.
/r/MensRights30/10/22 09:27 PM
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I’d love to try those “girly” colorful cocktails too. I hear that they tend to be more sweet. Canned beer, meh, I’d try it too, but I don’t expect too much out of it, but perhaps I’ll like it, who knows.
/r/MensRights30/10/22 06:08 PM
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I’m not at drinking age just yet, but I imagine that I would love red wine, but I’m curious to try beer at some point to when that time comes.
/r/MensRights30/10/22 03:36 PM
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Shit. You’d think they’d be more worried about the fact that your job isn’t paying you rather than the that you might get super angry, which would be warranted anyways, and it’s not like your angry at those random people or lashing out at them.
/r/MensRights30/10/22 03:27 PM
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Yeah. It’s weird. It feels like she was trying to make some sort of point about how men are shallow because they only do xyz hobby to fit in, and only do it because they are men. Even when I said that’s probably not the case, she lightly insisted that it is. Like can we not just enjoy things with other men? Idc if she thinks that beer taste bad, what about perhaps if some men just like beer or have differing taste, or wanna just drink while hanging out with friends?
/r/MensRights30/10/22 03:06 PM
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I hate that apparently we only do those hobbies because “we wanna prove our masculinity”. I had a friend say that men only drink beer to prove their masculinity, and not because men like beer. She was stating this as a fact. I have never drinked before, but ah yes, we males don’t actually like doing stuff like that. We just wanna do it for our masculinity to show off to other males. Like imagine how sexist it would probably sound if I said that women don’t like make up, or they don’t like readin…
/r/MensRights30/10/22 02:52 PM
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I’m a rapist or murderer by default to random women on the street probably. I’m a sex monster apparently, and oh, me getting angry probably means I’m a threat to people or it means im fragile. if I get offended by negative generalizations and being told that men are terrible and only want to hurt women, and if I say something out of offense, then that probably just means I’m just fragile, or insecure, and that I shouldn’t be offended by facts even if it was a negative generalization I’m being to…
/r/MensRights30/10/22 02:39 PM
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Feminist and a lot of women also do not believe that men can face any sexism or discrimination. Feminist and a lot of women do not see sexist or negative generalizations of men as sexist, despite the fact that they would indeed see the reverse as sexist, but for some reason generalizations about men isn’t really seen as bad and is encouraged even. As men we either have to stay silent when a female peer talks shit about men in general, or be called sexist, or invalidating women if we call that be…
/r/MensRights30/10/22 02:23 PM
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Shit. She is certainly trying to manipulate you into staying with her, and staying submissive while she hurts you physically and mentally. She was hoping that you would feel bad for pushing her back in self defense, yet tells some pretty fucked up things when you share your feelings. I’m glad that your getting evidence against her. Do you happen to have anyone else in your life that knows exactly what she’s been doing to you? Know anyone who would let you crash by if things go bad as a backup?
/r/MenSupportMen30/10/22 02:24 AM
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I’m not gay, but two of my friends from my junior school year kept teasing me about being in a gay relationship with one of them. It was one male and one female, and both of them did this weird shipping type of joke to me between me and the male friend, and they were both in on it. At first it was just verbal stuff, and I ignored it after a while, but It wasn’t very funny since later down the road the dude kept creasing my face and kept calling me pet names, and the girl kept cheering it on by t…
/r/MensRights30/10/22 01:12 AM
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I’m sorry that you had to deal with those women in your own space. Unfortunately people don’t really see it as a problem when a dude is being sexually teased, groped, or worse, especially if a woman is doing it, and that’s why your bar tender decides to look the other way. Screw your bar tender along with those people that think it’s perfectly fine to grope people that are not even sexually attracted back to them, or in this case, not attracted to any of them sexuality wise.
/r/MensRights29/10/22 11:46 PM
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I love those movie’s, but most people seem to hate them, and those movies have terrible jokes, so chances are, perhaps you may have saved your money for yourself.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 01:44 PM
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But also remember that to feminist, if your scared of a random woman anyways, your only scared of “being laughed at by women” vs women who are scared of men for being murdered.
/r/MensRights22/10/22 02:46 PM
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I’ve seen Reddit say that any male that prefers shaved women down below are pedos. Reddit and the internet in general do not know the meaning of the word at all.
/r/MensRights21/10/22 01:09 PM
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Wait, why would you even care about diversity in war combat?
/r/MensRights21/10/22 12:56 PM
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I never understood that sub. I don’t think I will ever understand it. Is it like a feminist roleplay thing because It does look like a roleplay thing.
/r/MensRights19/10/22 04:12 PM
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Regarding your 6th sentence, it seems that many women that say that men should call out sexist or creepy acts of men are 100% oblivious to those same creepy or sexist women that they not only don’t call out, but even encourage that behavior, such as gossip, groups of girls talking about men or one specific dude in a sexist or creepy way, or laugh along with touching dudes by surprise with no consent, or laugh along with peers touching other dudes without no consent, even if it’s a male touching …
/r/MensRights19/10/22 02:35 PM
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Not quite the same, but when I was a junior at school last year, there was a peer in one of my classes who went through something similar. A group of girls in my class basically kept bullying this one dude by bringing up over and over that he go his GF pregnant. He denied that it was true, and denied that he even had a GF, but they kept making fun and gossiping over it anyways. Regardless of if it’s true or not, it’s none of their damn business anyways, they just wanted something to keep bringin…
/r/MensRights19/10/22 01:59 PM
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Patriarchy is the new Illuminati
/r/MensRights19/10/22 12:48 PM
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Yeah, and notice that people only use this logic on men, not on everyone regardless of sex. People do not see women as dangerous at all, not as murderers, not as a rapist, or not as a robber. None of those, meanwhile dudes are by default all of those things on sight of seeing a man on the sidewalk. I understand “stranger danger”, but a lot of women only use that logic ONLY on men. Otherwise it would look bad to negatively default others based on their sex.
/r/MensRights19/10/22 12:25 PM
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Yeah, men that are walking on the street are looked at by default as rapist and murders. I understand the logic of stranger danger, however you will notice that people use this logic only on men. Most people don’t see the woman walking behind them as potential threats at all, not as murders, rapist, robbers, not any of those things.
/r/MensRights19/10/22 04:14 AM
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Nice list, this can help out a lot of people on here. I’ll save this post if ever needed
/r/MensRights18/10/22 03:54 PM
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Not show what part of “please don’t take pictures of my kids without my consent” did she not understand or why she choose to shrug that request off. You just don’t take pics of people if they don’t want you to, or in this case, someone else’s kids.
/r/MensRights13/10/22 11:16 AM
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Good. Hopefully you can stay as far away as possible from those crazy women, but even socially, those two women are now seen for what they truly: crazy and false accusers, and manipulative
/r/MensRights13/10/22 02:51 AM
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I said with the other guy who made a similar comment, but you have more of a spine than I do. I’m going to admit tho that when I apologized, I mainly apologized because I just didn’t want any tension or to be seen as something else. Not 100% necessarily because she was angry, or emotional during the argument (we both were anyways, but I am afraid of that emotional crap from a relative happing again in the form of an argument). I didn’t feel like I truly invalidated anyone, but I apologized anywa…
/r/MensRights13/10/22 01:39 AM
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If they both got arrested for question to get more context, (and because the women acted in violence first) then I’d feel better about that part, but nope, it’s just him. That’s just straight up getting away with attempted murder.
/r/MensRights12/10/22 11:33 PM
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Why the hell was the dude in the reddish shirt trying so hard to restrict the man? Why was the male taken to jail? Redshirt just watched her stab him multiple times separately, one with a knife multiple times, and one with a glass bottle, but him hitting her back was what put you into action mode to help HER out? I don’t care if he decide to hit her back or if he’s stronger, the women is the one who should be stopped for stabbing the husband. Idk man, you shouldn’t heavily injure (in this case a…
/r/MensRights12/10/22 11:11 PM
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You and everyone else who have made this exact same comment have way more of a spine than I do to not hold your tongue on with live people, friends, or relatives.
/r/MensRights12/10/22 06:56 PM
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Actually, I agree with you too, because there is no way my mom would let it slide if I said a generalization about how bad women are, unless it’s something bad about how bad white women are since she does that herself. Because of her beliefs, in the back of her head she could ultimately fault the behavior of a bad women to patriarchy and men. Chances are, she may not see it as invalidation if she commented back against a generalization I made about women.
/r/MensRights12/10/22 11:20 AM
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Exactly. Nothing is gonna change other than a headache, and you feeling like shit, so I’d hold my tongue again like usual. At least maybe I’ll have an argument now, but I don’t even wanna argue.
/r/MensRights12/10/22 11:08 AM
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I did say that feminism tends to be sexist and ignore men’s problems, but she denied that herself as a feminist anyways, so yeah, it doesn’t matter probably. I think your solution is good, tho I don’t think it would change the doesn’t possible “your one of the good ones, unlike all the rest” mindset that is there, but oh well. I don’t think I’ll change her from being a feminist nor will I, but at least I’ll be armed better with an argument pergolas if something like this comes up.
/r/MensRights12/10/22 11:03 AM
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And those tweets are still there? This is just flat out gross, and makes me fear for her sons, because it’s very possible that she probably had those idea of cutting off male sex parts before the controversy of abortion rights anyways. She could’ve been fine with it for the most part, which makes me wonder if her sons are physically ok, because it could be the worst for them that she decided to do something fucked up to them.
/r/MensRights11/10/22 04:36 PM
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At first she said “men are dangerous, teach your boys” and I resorted back by saying that women are dangerous too but those dangerous women and male victims are often ignored, but the I got told off that I shouldn’t be offended by facts. She brought up that short conversation from weeks ago ago to have a conversation to correct me, but it turned into an argument.
/r/MensRights11/10/22 05:52 AM
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I’m not anti-social because they are shitty, and despite this, they are not shitty people at all. I’d be lying if I did say that feminism had absolutely no part in reinforcing or helping that anti-socialness, in some situations, even now, but truth be told, even without feminism, I’m still just not someone who’s not very social with others, mainly including family, and im introverted. Maybe introverted it the right term? I don’t know. Either way, being alone is actually pretty nice, but I do nee…
/r/MensRights11/10/22 05:37 AM
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Because she is a longtime feminist I do not believe that she will change those beliefs, but yes, I do think that a lot of this is too extreme because like I said she treats me greatly, and her actions differed from those opinions that she said, and has almost fought other women who have messed with me before and still will, and she is even aware of the double standard of if a dude defends himself against a women, he’ll get in trouble, vs the reverse, which she learned from my experiences and my …
/r/MensRights11/10/22 05:13 AM
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Thank you for those stats along with your other comments that give me more info about male victims. This is exactly the type of stuff I should’ve googled during the argument. I’ve found my own source and sources to read from this comment section about male victims of those crimes, and the numbers of male sexual crime, is likely nowhere near as low as she may think, not even when women do it to men, and the same goes for the number homicides that happen to men is nowhere near as low as she may th…
/r/MensRights11/10/22 01:45 AM
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I won’t be living with my parents for too much longer. I’m 18 actually. I should get started on my Asvab for if I wanna join the military. As for any other careers, I’m not so sure about. I’m not one for thinking of going to collage, but community collage could be a thing for me.
/r/MensRights11/10/22 12:42 AM
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Im sorry but I do not see myself cutting complete ties with my mother to make her miss me. I feel that is in itself cruel despite what she’s said and has said. I’ve seen her care for when I am at the butt of women whenever they bother me or touch me in any way I don’t like. I do feel like there is a huge gap between how she treats me with love and respect, and her view of feminism, because she’s actually very loving to me, but, I feel in that argument, I heard just about every basic feminist arg…
/r/MensRights10/10/22 11:38 PM
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Most of the time our dynamic is ok, and when it’s just us two in the car sometimes, we tend to talk about normal things and life. It’s been more of a recent thing when we are running earrings or going on family visits. However other times it’s just dumb TikTok’s she might listen to in background on speaker while I just role my eyes and put on my headphones. Sometimes they are fine, other times, ehh. I think it was really that generalization that she said that made me say something and set me off…
/r/MensRights10/10/22 09:48 PM
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Yup, I agree on both aspects, but you can guess who it was who legit told me that “white women are the devil” because of cultural appropriation of lips, and weight. I stick with the golden rule that if I don’t want people telling me that I’m horrible for my race or sex, then I can’t just do it back and while preaching equality.
/r/MensRights10/10/22 09:18 PM
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I did not expect to have this many responses to this post, but I’m glad that I posted this here, because otherwise I feel like this post would’ve been dead, but I’m grateful that people are giving their own two cents trying to help, and some giving decent advice, so I thank this sub and these comments for this support, because otherwise idk who to ask this question to. Not other family members since I’d rather keep this anonymous by not saying specific names or telling them what happened, or ask…
/r/MensRights10/10/22 07:17 PM
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I won’t aim to change my mother or will I aim to change her beliefs. That’s not ever gonna happen, even if I want, as combined with her own life experiences and being a feminist for a long while, that’s never gonna happen. However, I should learn how to not let it affect me, because the one time I did and said something in response to the whole “men are dangerous, raise your boys”, I was invalidating them it seems, but even then, If I were to talk about my own gripes with feminism, and how they …
/r/MensRights10/10/22 06:50 PM
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“Just because someone is stating their option doesn’t mean what they are saying is true”, that’s the logic she used on me. Yeah I don’t think it’s worth arguing over, and I’m already scared to argue most of the time, and I’m hoping that she doesn’t try to start another one with me, and if so, next time I guess I’ll just agree to avoid arguing. I’ll listen, still, but I need to be careful in saying whatever. I already don’t say anything usually if I do disagree on something like that, but the rea…
/r/MensRights10/10/22 06:43 PM
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I agree, tho she was the one to shout first anyways and that escalated everything to both of us shouting. Yeah I certainly won’t cut her out of my life, and she doesn’t treat me as a danger to her as her son. In the end, we both love each other either way. Your right, it’s not my mission to convert everyone around me, vice versa to her, so I don’t think I’m gonna try to change her views or anything, but mainly because im too scared to argue again. Thanks for the advice, tho I won’t lie, even if …
/r/MensRights10/10/22 06:14 PM
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We were kinda messy on both sides, but in the end, it’s absolute that women always have it worse, and that men are only the problem in everything and that I’m centering myself because I’m a male and don’t know what women go through.
/r/MensRights10/10/22 05:58 PM
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I’ll never cut my mom out of my life, but once I do move out, I likely won’t have to hold my tongue for my mother at least, and I can still talk to her like normal from phone. If I don’t like the convo, then I can drop the conversation myself, move onto another convo, and hang up and call some other time. I’m not much of a caller myself tbh tho, but it can be occasional.
/r/MensRights10/10/22 05:44 PM
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I’m already anti-social as it is with my family, but I doubt she’ll stop watching TikTok’s. Majority of those videos are not so bad, but on occasion you’ll hear stuff like that, or other strange stuff that kinda makes me dread every time I forgot to bring my headphones fully charged, haha. She won’t stop listing to them even if I were to ask, because the I’d come off as rude. I don’t think I’ll cut off anyone for this, but that’s why I wanna know how to simply not let it affect me to the point w…
/r/MensRights10/10/22 05:21 PM
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That last line won’t work. She does not believe that feminist or women can be sexist to men, and I do not I think that she thinks that generalizations of men are sexist. During that argument she said that men do not experience sexism, or ever feel endangered to go outside unlike women and that as a man I do not understand or feel that fear. I know that she does not hate me, and loves me and will protect me, but i think that if anything, if I use that “so I’m dangerous?” line, it likely won’t wor…
/r/MensRights10/10/22 05:12 PM
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I think her point was that men are to blame as to why no one cares about female perps and groomers and why they face less jail time, since “patriarchy” is interchangeable with “men/male influence”. She tried to say that only women care about those perps, but this sub is the only place I ever see women and men advocate for male victims, or against female perpetrators that spend less jail time, but otherwise the comments I see always criticizing people who say “this shouldn’t be cheered on are bot…
/r/MensRights10/10/22 04:57 PM
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She indeed does care and has shown it multiple times when a women has assaulted me, and she does fear for if a women ever false accuses me of anything (well white women at least). Yeah I know that it’s weird that she’s more critical between races of women, but I know regardless she wouldn’t throw me under that bus if im accused as her son since she loves me. Despite her arguments here, I don’t think she’ll look at it through a victim complex of patriarchy If I’m ever in danger regardless of if t…
/r/MensRights10/10/22 04:40 PM
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True. I guess I got triggered with how people always view men as dangerous, or that men are not empathic to other men and only women do that and only women are ever in danger, so hearing that all the time sucks, especially when you don’t say anything back. I did apologize to her about if I did invalidate her, but I do care about male victims, and I hate these double standards such as “raise your boys” meanwhile people just ignore male victims anyways. Usually i don’t even say anything, however t…
/r/MensRights10/10/22 04:18 PM
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Jesus. She did not need to cut you guys off completely. Could’ve at least replied to some text or respond a thanks to the B-day stuff. Sorry for you and your mother and father.
/r/MensRights10/10/22 03:43 PM
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That sounds like an over-reaction on her part. Why would she cut herself outside of the family because of your option?
/r/MensRights10/10/22 03:32 PM
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Wow. Ok, I’m gonna have to read up on that because this can certainly help me not care, and prevent another argument like this from happening again. Thank you. I guess we can/do control how we react to annoying things like that, or even sexist or gaslight remarks from feminist, tho it’s not easily.
/r/MensRights10/10/22 03:12 PM
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If there is one of many thinks I regret about the argument, it’s that I didn’t look up sources. I brought up the fact that those things happen, but kept getting one-up’ed about how those things happen more to women by men. She blamed female teachers praying on children on the patriarchy and that men cheer that stuff on, and how that women only got a year of time vs all of the male teachers who do the same. She said that only women are the ones who care about when that stuff happens to men, but I…
/r/MensRights10/10/22 03:07 PM
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Agreed. I do not want to burn a bridge even if there is a barrier. I do think she’s way more passionate to say the least about the topic, so idk how to express calmly without it escalating eventually after she already has done that herself, but I agree with this comment.
/r/MensRights10/10/22 02:59 PM
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I hold it because I’m kinda scared of the what-ifs and scared of arguing with live people I guess. What if my mother sees me as sexist, or thinks that in invalidating women? I’m scared that it could become an growing issue where my parents and relatives may try to lecture me about feminism and how I cannot invalidate other’s experiences, despite the fact that I only tried to respond by saying that women are also dangerous, but people ignore those women. I already did it once and now it landed me…
/r/MensRights10/10/22 02:51 PM
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I’ve actually done this once before with her on a different occasion, where you look at them crazy and don’t say anything in reaction to something crazy they said. It at least let’s you know what ground you stand on. I do fear that could somehow backfire or be taken as disrespect, but when someone says something outlandish, you always just look at the person stupid anyways just after hearing it.
/r/MensRights10/10/22 02:28 PM
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I don’t think the gender reverse thing will work. You see, when I did try to do something similar during the argument with her whole “men cause all of men’s problems” I brought up how most women voted for abortion rights to be muffled, but her response was “well now they regrets it”. I think that most feminist downplay male problems because of the “by other men” mindset that they hold, including her. She denied that women or feminist ignores male problem with that logic. Plus I don’t wanna argue…
/r/MensRights10/10/22 02:18 PM
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I feel like I can almost always control when I ignore that stuff with my relatives since I always have stayed silent anyways, but on this occasion I feel like I cracked or like I let some sort of mask slip for not keeping silent on my mother’s opinions about how men are dangerous. I know I’ll just go back and hold my tongue again, so I kinda see that as the self control part itself, but do you know any sort of way to just straight up not give a crap when it comes to that kind of stuff with live …
/r/MensRights10/10/22 02:05 PM
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Yeah. It would be best to try and not care about feminist, tho it’s easier said than done for me I guess. I always thought that’s what I was doing by ignoring it with my mother, but I guess not. It’s like a build up.
/r/MensRights10/10/22 01:53 PM
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Yeah. Unless it’s on the internet, I just stay silent and hold my tongue or just let it go. Whenever my mom has an a feminist option I disagree with, or watching a feminist tiktok, I just hold my tongue. If I see a woman say something sexist in my classes, I hold it. The one time I did not do that when my mom said “men are dangerous” I felt like I fucked up after getting a short lecture saying I shouldn’t be offended, and that I should look up statistics. Hell, I hold my tongue with online frien…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/09/22 11:34 AM
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Well they did respond to one of my comments with “reasons why im a misandrist” to get under my skin, so maybe they are aware, but that’s very unlikely and was meant to be a taunt. just hate the expectation that In order to be useful I gotta be protective or do something for any woman. You don’t just do it naturally, no, people expect or demand for it, sometimes rudely.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/09/22 11:16 AM
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Shoot, I talked to a feminist a few days ago trying to explain that “chivalry” and being a “useful man” doesn’t mean that men should be expected to get themselves hurt for women. I was explaining this on a women’s protest post of a dude who got hurt for the other protesters, but the commenter said men should be all like this and that men should be useful, and that this is “REAL CHIVALRY”. Of course I got called a pansy by them and that “no one is asking you to get shot”, despite the fact that it…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/09/22 10:58 PM
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Those same people will call you misogynistic or sexist anyways just for calling them out for saying sexist stuff such as “I hate men”. I’m not kidding either, and it’s ironic in a sad way.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/09/22 10:19 PM
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Don’t feminist generalize male feminist as creeps or rapist anyways, no different than how they already see men? Even if your seen as part of the movement, I wouldn’t count on being seen equally as part of the movement anyways. However, Male feminist or female feminist, they both hold beliefs that harm men, and berate and belittle men for the sake of putting women on top, instead of putting both on top.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/09/22 09:45 PM
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Maybe it’s because im not part of any sort of movement, but things like that are why I believe allyship in modern progressive movements can be a dangerous road, where you get treated like shit and are grouped up with the people that are the same race/sex as you because the people you try to protest and advocate for see that demographic as cartoonishly evil. Nothing is mutual. Your expected not to rebel or not get offended because of the logic of “if you were a real ally you wouldn’t get offended…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/09/22 09:34 PM
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Agreed. Ironically, seeing one sex as perfect/pigs on the bases of their sex is also what people would call objectification, but because of hypocrisy I guess people are at least fine with objectifying dudes while also protesting that it’s bad to expect others to be perfect just in the bases of their sex.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/09/22 07:26 PM
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I’d say males are no longer seen as innocent by the time the male reaches teenhood, but considering the whole “teach your sons to be respectful to women, protect your daughters”, yet no one says to teach daughters to be respectful as well, I’d say it could be even younger, and that feminist see boys as if they are inherently evil monsters, but believe that girls are innocents that do not need to be taught to respect their peers from birth. If not, then it’s rather assumed that parents(specifical…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/09/22 02:21 PM
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Referring to your second sentence, I hate how feminist pretty much have fought for the social right to be ale to make the sexist remarks, stereotypes, and generalizations about others, without being seen as sexist or bad to make those remarks or to even be seen as rude or a bad person to make those remarks that they would claim to be sexist if a male did the same. Most people would all agree that the male is a terrible sexist person for believing and spreading those negative stereotypes of women…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/09/22 02:07 PM
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It’s to the point where I think that feminist and other people ignore male victims on purpose, not by mistake or lack of knowledge, however some people legit don’t think men can be victims of crime like rape or sexual abuse, and that’s a huge double standard and a very huge problem…which many feminist also like to blame men solely for. Feminist tend to ignore that dudes don’t speak up against abuse, sexual assault, rape, as much, and they ignore that some places in the world don’t identify their…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/08/22 11:58 PM
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Might as well. Me saying that men and women both go through those things and that it’s not a thing that only happens to women probably just costed me a bunch of social credits. How dare I say that Jen is gaslighting her cousin, and now so is the other commenter.
/r/MensRights23/08/22 09:30 PM
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On a different video, someone said that Bruce’s trauma doesn’t compare to what real women go through on the daily. I commented that Jen is disrespectful of what Bruce had to face in his entire life, and that men go through similar things as women do irl when it comes to crime like murder and rape, and that Bruce’s problems do not compare to any normal person (except for the abusive parent situation). Not only did the commenter insult me for disagreeing with them, and said that I was lying and th…
/r/MensRights23/08/22 09:15 PM
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From what I’ve heard, certain hateful people who show distain for straight men will call you a “pick me” for not agreeing with them, and act as if they’ve disown.
/r/MensRights23/08/22 08:47 PM
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Yeah you can’t really defend yourself if she hits you, because then some people will think that YOU are the violent one for not letting her keep hitting you and not finding a way to deescalate the situation, and also let’s not forgot if you get jailed or charged with assault when you defend yourself despite the fact that she was the one that assaulted you. There is always an argument between everyone on if it’s wrong or right for a man to hit a woman back IF she assaulted him first (a lot of the…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/22 12:42 AM
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I feel like to some people think that if a woman attacks a bigger man, then it’s completely fine since “he can defend himself and she is defending herself from the big bad dude”, or that it doesn’t hurt to be hit by her or stabbed by her. It’s like people treat these situations as if a baby is hitting and stabbing you, and not a grown woman who knows right from wrong and knows that assaulting and murdering people is bad. Apparently being the bigger man to some people means that you are Superman …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/22 10:36 PM
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I always thought the idea that if a dude ask you out in a setting that you don’t want to be talked to in, then that means that dude is a creep, is a little bit overboard. Sure I can see how it’s annoying at like say a work environment, but creepy because he asked, no, that’s not SA. This woman here however didn’t even specify, she just says “have no business in talking to me”, and she seems violent over people just talking or looking at her.
/r/MensRights20/08/22 03:44 AM
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“The average person is good” This might sound like an awkward comment, but I feel like it’s so rare to see a shred of positivity towards people or humanity In general on the internet, so thanks for that last sentence.
/r/MensRights20/08/22 03:27 AM
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I say propose a new movement instead. Change the laws of how rape is defined in some for one, and two, teach feminist that women do commit rape, but to be honest, i think that some feminist ignore that fact on purpose.
/r/MensRights16/08/22 07:54 PM
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I will never use the terms “pick me” or a “simp” since people have taken the original meanings, and used them to call ANYONE of who supports or likes a person of their opposing sex.
/r/MensRights11/08/22 02:14 AM
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“Pick me” is just like all the other terms that are throw across the internet “incel/sexist, racist, homophobic” where you can be called any of these things, just for simply disagreeing or agreeing with something that’s not even any of those things. I’ve seen people called “pick me” for daring to side with a dude on any topic. Oh and don’t some feminist believe that “pick me’s” only ever support men because they are under a patriarchy, and so apparently that means the woman is being mind control…
/r/MensRights11/08/22 02:10 AM
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Nothing wrong with being horny, but the problem is when you don’t go for people your age and purposely lie about it on dating sites. You can be horny, but lying about your age to a dude for sex isn’t right either so I wouldn’t call her “poor” for her just being horny for this situation since this dude was in some very real trouble. It’s not a small thing to lie about your age before sex if you are underaged because then stuff like that happens and I assume that sometimes people that do this and …
/r/MensRights08/08/22 04:28 PM
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Or the finish just isn’t that satisfying
/r/MensRights06/08/22 05:22 AM
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Now I wonder what does “buffed” means in this context.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 05:20 AM
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Hell, even tonight I saw a video game clip on YT of a dude implied to raped by another dude, and one of the comments said “most players of rdr2 are male so this clip can open their eyes to how truly horrible rape is”. It’s so condescending that people think that men don’t know that rape is bad because we are just sex predictors, and that men are oblivious to these crimes, and then you see multiple post and articles similar to this one of a women raping a child. Everyone knows it’s wrong, but it’…
/r/MensRights06/08/22 04:00 AM
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Dude I hate how men are stereotyped as sex monsters, and then it’s ignored when you bring up female perorations with the whole “men do it more” as if it’s a contest now about who is worse, but then you slowly start to notice that the same people who say “men do it more” say that about EVERY instance about a female perpetrator that you bring up to counter their idea that men are all sexual predators. Like of course your gonna see less female perpetrators around if you just ignore all of them all …
/r/MensRights06/08/22 03:55 AM
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Yeah, feminist do usually manipulate others with shame tactics or “im sorry that happened. Anyways off with you now-“, but the dude you were speaking to made the huge mistake of confusing empathy for manipulation, and “once an xyz always an xyz”. Also he can’t really “unwelcome” other people. Yeah, feminist are assholes in their own right, men, women, they seem to not rep what they preach most of the time, like the male feminist you lived with, who probably preaches about equality, but then is a…
/r/MensRights25/07/22 11:07 PM
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That’s the problem with a lot of feminist, and some people in general. They think that just because they have been hurt by men or woman that, its now an excuse to hurt an entire demographic, and feminist use this kind of logic of victimhood a lot in order to justify being an ass, while they also think that men cannot have any sort of trauma or hardship and bag on men, yet will gaslight you if you call them out. Trauma and staying away from some men, I can understand if it’s legit trauma and ment…
/r/MensRights25/07/22 10:39 PM
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I hate that argument because it feels like it gatekeeps the emotion of fear to only being a thing that women can feel when out of night, but the thing is that everyone is more scared and cautious when out at night, it’s not special for women, or for men, but even when you bring up the fact of men being in more danger at night, they still shrug it off because “other men” are the one endangering men, so that somehow doesn’t count. I’ve heard people say that men are only scared of “being laughed at…
/r/MensRights25/07/22 08:08 PM
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Either they were treated badly by another man, or they think it’s acceptable and quirky to be assholes to men just because it’s trendy and sounds agreeable, or because they hear about bad men in irl media, so that means it’s okay to be awful to men. I agree tho, your friends sound a bit far out even for feminist (well the threats against your husband I mean, otherwise it’s common for feminist to do all that other stuff), but at the same time, lots of feminist are assholes to men anyways, or use …
/r/MensRights25/07/22 07:41 PM
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I hear a lot that many people on this sub like you were once feminist, but slowly realized that feminism was only harming them, except for you, it seemed way more sudden. Your friends sounded like absolute psychopath, to the point where even I think feminism wouldn’t go that far…well with the threats of cutting off your husband privates I mean. Still tho, many feminist are just straight up assholes anyways.
/r/MensRights25/07/22 07:32 PM
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I like legos, but I wonder what negative stereotypes people would have if people suddenly decided that it’s bad to play with legos as a hobby. Besides the whole “well it’s for children” thing.
/r/MensRights18/07/22 06:15 PM
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I think this just happens with mainstream hobbies. You like anime? Must be a virgin, a pedo, or you objectify women. Like video games? You must be a virgin, a incel, and along with that you objectify women. You like superhero movies or nerdy movies and media? Ok you especially must be a virgin, you have power fantasy…which is bad apparently, and you objectify women. You like sports, you must be a virgin, your probably meat-headed, and you are sexist if you are a male sports fan that doesn’t tend…
/r/MensRights18/07/22 06:13 PM
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It’s very easy to do the whole “sins of the father” thing on anyone, including women who have done terrible stuff, or women who shout “Kill all men”, and then decide to look the other way at bad people IF they are not men, or even in history. The best thing to do it punish people that actually do bad things, not hate people because you think they will do something bad out of the assumption of their gender, which is already sexist.
/r/MensRights18/07/22 05:35 PM
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On occasion I’ve seen my female friends do the whole “men bad” thing, and even once “women bad” but more so with dudes. Fuck saying that about any sex demographic, but even then, you’ll casually see people have similar options of men. It was kinda like that for my English class throughout the year where all the girls would make jokes like that, or even be serious with the whole “men are vial people” sort of thing. I agree with you, I’m confused on why you would want to lock up and murder a whole…
/r/MensRights18/07/22 05:27 PM
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I don’t think I could ever empathize with feminist like this in that situation (or any), because they’d use a victim mindset to manipulate me and belittle whatever traumatic thing that happened to me. They don’t care that you went through that, hell they probably hate your guts for not only being a man, but also daring to be a male victim. I’ll trust other men and women maybe, but not feminist, as they hate the idea that men go through anything bad. Just look at that comment section
/r/MensRights10/07/22 11:19 PM
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So many generalizations in that comment section that men are emotionless and do not empathize with people…yet feminist often do not empathize with men whatsoever, and will tell you that “well your a man so you inherently did this to women by default, so now you know how we feel” despite the fact that they literally gaslight men into being the oppressor by default even when something bad happens to them, despite that person doing nothing wrong.
/r/MensRights10/07/22 11:16 PM
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Hey I know this post is weeks old, but I did go over to the menslibs before ending up on this sub, but also that sub post tons of articles that you could consider “outrage porn”, or articles that people on that sub post of sexist articles against men. Yes, the comments will call these articles out, but it’s not quite clear on why the OP ever post those articles until they comment on if they disagree with them, otherwise the just post itself, however it’s strange that they consider a big event th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/07/22 02:18 AM
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Personally I don’t have a definition of masculinity unless it’s physical such as having a penis, or since on average men tend to be bigger, size too. I never really think about it much for myself. I have no problem with other people having their own def of the topic, but even then, I think that personality-wise, it can be kinda slippery since some of those traits described as masculine are actually special to one sex (for example, confidence is usually associated with being more mainly, but I do…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/22 05:46 AM
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Your right. I have seen people online talk about how black fathers are dead beats, and are terrible or whatnot tho i don’t know if they are feminist or not. It was on a YT vid, and then some feminist probably don’t even remember that black women exist, as they do as a whole with other people of any ethic or sexuality when talking bad about men, or they don’t care. There is also literally a post a bit below this one about Racism in the feminist community (or at least talks about how they seem to …
/r/MensRights27/06/22 10:57 PM
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Yeah, you can use this “not all, but too many” logic on any group of people based on race or gender, no matter what the crime is, however men are targeted with that logic by feminist, and never look inward themselves or use that logic on themselves, because they know that would mean judging or negatively paying attention to themselves.
/r/MensRights27/06/22 05:59 PM
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Also I’m sorry that you’ve been humiliated or insulted on this sub too. I do agree with the critique of this post for its generalization of women. I don’t agree with “oh most women are evil”. I really don’t think this whole sub would attack women for being assaulted or followed, but if they do, it’s wrong, just like how feminist tend to do it similarly to men. My real issue with your comment is that people like Margaret downplay our issues anyways, and then you say for us to pay more attention t…
/r/MensRights26/06/22 06:16 PM
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I do believe that women face humiliation from men too just as much, but those issues are at least taken seriously with movements, or protect and pushback for women being assaulted, murdered, raped, or even humiliated. People take that humiliation against women more seriously than they do men Instead of just saying that she’s scared of being laughed at. Because people don’t take it seriously for men being scared of other women, people like the women in the original quote chalk it up to “men are s…
/r/MensRights26/06/22 05:58 PM
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My point is also that people seem to downplay fear of men being scared of any of those things that women do, and think we don’t already fear other men and women doing these things to us. That it’s not serious, and it’s just a small thing to be wary of said women doing those things.
/r/MensRights26/06/22 04:51 PM
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As for the quote I really don’t think the actual quote speaks for men as a whole at all. The actual quote itself pins fear of women as just only laughing rather than humiliation, shame, abuse, all that jazz. Just only laughing that men as a whole fear in women. It doesn’t sound as serious vs using any other word or way to describe men’s fears on women or other fears that men may have of other women. Just only “being laughed at”. This sub already commonly brings up how men are in more danger of m…
/r/MensRights26/06/22 04:08 PM
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But you already brought up the topic by saying that men should be worried about male on male homocides, yet we already are. The topic came from you from the second comment, but assumes that we don’t fear homicide via other men. I feel like people just think we don’t fear other men and people all the time, so saying “men should be more worried about being murdered by other men” just pins it as if we weren’t more worried about homicides anyways, but we also shouldn’t call out or think about other …
/r/MensRights26/06/22 04:03 PM
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but we are afraid of said homicides and men or people killing us. I just don’t get someone like Margaret Atwood, who will assume that apparently our worst fears are only being laughed at, and not being murdered, or being mistakenly jailed, and that some women only “laugh” at other people at worst, so we can’t fear women either, unless it’s just because we have an ego, so being commonly humiliated or way worse is just us being scared of being “laughed” at. Fear of being killed all the time isn’t …
/r/MensRights26/06/22 03:19 PM
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No need for prove, obviously no one is just inherently bad, and I have heard that there are classes that exists such as gender studies, which I hear is basically a “men vs women, men bad” but as a class. Honestly I hear that in the world I’m gonna see a lot of terrible people male and female, so I’ve already heard that there will be some shitty people out there, especially including entitled, anti-male woman since it’s been a trend to be a sexist anti-male for some reason. I’m gonna try to stay …
/r/MensRights26/06/22 03:14 PM
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Shoot, this sub and a slight but of experience has shown me that many women do way more than just “laugh” at men, and men have these similar fears as well, but that lady you quoted sounds like she never take those fears seriously, or those women that do worse than “laugh” seriously either.
/r/MensRights26/06/22 02:53 PM
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I know very well that there are women who are cruel. Women who will treat men like a robots, or a hive mind, want everything from men, and treat them l like doormats, or worse. Yeah, mainly young women that is too. Women my age mainly, as im actuality only 18, so I don’t quite have a sense of 100% “reality” on the subject other than what I’ve seen of internet feminist and woman who act similarly. In fact this first year of me back to high school I’ve seen, young women who’ve acted terribly to ot…
/r/MensRights26/06/22 04:40 AM
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You make a good point, you likely wouldn’t want to have toxic people like you anyways, or else it won’t end well maybe. The way I see it, if a rude or toxic woman is at least loud about it, then it at least let’s you know that they are not for you anyways since again, they are toxic and hate your qualities, and would treat you like shit if they hid it. Otherwise, if you join a relationship with a toxic person without knowing it, then that’ll probably end up being a bad relationship, even an abus…
/r/MensRights25/06/22 10:12 PM
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It’s not really an issue if the dude just doesn’t consent to a sexual act. It shouldn’t affect you to the point of resenting someone because they said no, and she knows that he has a past, and tries to make up for it. I will admit that it’d be better to give actual advice, tho idk what to tell ya other than he says no, so there might not be much you could do unless it’s to ask him to do the act with you every once in a while, but otherwise you wait till he’s ready to do it, but at the same time …
/r/MensRights25/06/22 05:35 PM
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I notice that too. Other women are never called out for supporting these decisions, so men get blamed for it. I don’t think either should be called out tho anyways, because I’m against the bullshit of “well of other men do it to men, then it’s not my problem, that means it’s okay” and Vice versa with women. I never understood blaming an entire sex from centuries ago for problems that same gender has today. I notice this a lot with crime, where people say “well other men do it to men, so ha” as i…
/r/MensRights25/06/22 05:24 PM
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Agreed.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 05:14 PM
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Tho I admit, at the same time, I have kinda that logic on feminist too, since a lot of them are just sexist, talking down to men all the time, or gaslight you, and ignore men’s problems, or have high double standards that they themselves do not follow and only put on men or women. It’s hard to even remember that there are feminist fight on both sides apparently, granted I’ve only seen one on the internet do that. I believe there is a big difference between assuming or believing negatives about a…
/r/MensRights25/06/22 05:04 PM
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I just fear of people that do the same of generalizing and being negative about a group based on sex of basically “oh all or most men are evil and this and that, most women are evil and this and that..”. or that your experience means everyone or most people of this sex is terrible. Maybe I don’t understand it as much. I just don’t want them to stick to viewing a entire sex as one way because of their experience, forming unfair generalizations on said sex, expressing those same generations. It’s …
/r/MensRights25/06/22 04:53 PM
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Yeah it happens sometimes. Woman that are actually defensive about it due to past, yeah I understand more. Assholes? Nahh. Some become bitter assholes too. The whole talk/text before you think thing has happened to me too sometimes. It always feels embarrassing once you go back and realize “wait…oh wait, crap-“. But yeah it’s fine. On a side note on the topic, I don’t even think most women or men are cruel, OP may have to find other women to hang out with to get rid of this thinking, since they …
/r/MensRights25/06/22 04:07 PM
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My question is how does humiliating and shaming men correlate or that fear of rape and murder? I mean if you actually just grow bitter or angry, or depressed over your past, I can see that, but I feel like some women are just assholes just like how some men are assholes without a backup stat, but I don’t get how it’s defensive to shame people or be assholes to other people, or how those stats mean that those women aren’t just being terrible people themselves anyways, like not dating short people…
/r/MensRights25/06/22 03:49 PM
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I seriously don’t think most women are cruel, but with that being said, a lot of terrible people exist. That means women as well, however a lot of people will try to defend themselves by calling you the asshole for calling them out on being terrible to other people on purpose, including women that will be assholes to men but label you as terrible for even bother to call them out or if the reverse happens, or will try to spin it around to make it seem like you did something wrong in the first pla…
/r/MensRights25/06/22 03:39 PM
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We don’t have any privilege. We are in danger ourselves all the time, however I don’t think people should micromanage other people just because of feelings. It’s really just a women’s feelings verses men’s feelings with a hint of dodging the reality that no one is safe, especially men. We are just putting women’s feelings over others and assume that men don’t face fear or any of those same exact things on average. It’s not special to women, it’s not special to men, but I don’t see why people wan…
/r/MensRights25/06/22 02:13 PM
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I’m pretty sure it’s not all in her head if she’s still may be wet via rape because it’s a state of mind, but who knows, maybe I could be wrong, im just saying it’s not magic or something people can control while they are being raped. Also I don’t think you understand men’s bodies either, or the idea of someone still being sexually active by force during the act. I kinda doubt that those emotions are out of a woman’s nature or league when we are talking about rapist, since there are female rapis…
/r/MensRights25/06/22 02:00 PM
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You can always reverse these expectations to be honest, whether it be race or sex. I hate to be petty to do this, but for example, I’m a young black dude, but do you expect me to ask every white woman to move because I’m scared she’ll call the cops on me? Hell no. Tbh I don’t even operate to assume a person would do that based off their skin, but I’m not just gonna inconvenience a person just because two of us strangers are walking past each other, or I’m walking too slow in front of a person. I…
/r/MensRights25/06/22 08:24 AM
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how come people that argue this also assume that men are never scared outside or anywhere, or scared at all in life, or in any danger? Like I get wanting to feel safe, but truth be told, no one is safe, and men do not feel safe either. I myself didn’t feel exactly in danger when walking to school (not by other people at least, but by cars and drivers) but I still don’t think I’m invincible or anything, and a lot of dudes feel the same fear too. They are already dealing with protecting themselves…
/r/MensRights25/06/22 08:20 AM
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I guess some people expect you to become mind-readers while they also instantly assume you’ll do something wrong, because apparently they are mind-readers too, even when your just walking?
/r/MensRights25/06/22 08:10 AM
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it’s still about the woman’s feelings regardless. Plus more dudes are in way more danger out in the street of violent crimes anyways. I cannot really ask a stranger to walk in another direction just because I’m scared and they happen to be walking the same path, or ask for others to defend me all the time due to paranoia while I stereotype them anyways. It’s not my job for anyone to make me feel safe, and it’s not a stranger’s job on the sidewalk to make me feel safe. If they are just walking, t…
/r/MensRights25/06/22 08:07 AM
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And it does harm whoever owned the said property so…
/r/MensRights25/06/22 03:39 AM
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The gain would be pleasure and power over another. A person about to commit rape or committing rape is sadistic and wants power and pleasure, but obviously psychopathic and other negative things, the same exact thing goes for female perpetrators who commit rape. That’s the gain as any other rapist, or someone about to. Also Ads have nothing to even do with this convo, cuz again, a dude can’t just magically turn off when getting raped, similar to how a woman can’t just magically stop wetness, eve…
/r/MensRights23/06/22 05:00 PM
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yeah, could be because they don’t wanna seem bashful to gay or trans man (but like you said, since they may not seem them as men anyways), but at the same time, I don’t wanna have trans or gay men to be bashed too. Reminds me of a similar thing my friends did about the “men are trash, except for you” thing they did in a call, and did the same to women. Honestly I just don’t wanna bash any group of people via sex/gender/sexuality.
/r/MensRights22/06/22 05:31 PM
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I mean neither are right anyways. I misspoke. Anyways I’m sorry to hear that for you. Anywho either can go buzz off. I’m not a big fan of killing dudes and joking about it either, or dudes or woman dying and then getting joked about. I don’t think that statistic excuses saying that either.
/r/MensRights22/06/22 04:48 PM
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Like I said, drugs, and as long as your not too stressful, it could be maintained, even in a time where it’s not wanted, assuming the dude is continuous as well, because I’d assume it would be even easier to maintain the erection, as the dude is docile even to the body. Maybe think of it as how you can get morning wood. Like I said, drugging. Over Stress on the male penis can indeed turn a man off, but it’s still possible by a woman to top on you without losing said erection. Also I’m not sure i…
/r/MensRights21/06/22 11:24 PM
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That’s not always how it works. Stimulation is enough to turn on a man, even when not wanting it, so even if you continuously touch a dude without their consent, it can still happen just as long as your still careful enough. A women could rape a dude mainly via drugging since a lot of men are usually bigger in size to. Assistance of another to rape the dude is possible. Also commonly the most easiest way for a women to rape a male is by statuary or forceful raping a minor, it has been a topic I’…
/r/MensRights21/06/22 05:20 AM
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Yeah I agree. That is nothing to really call the police about, unless he starts stalking you or something.
/r/MensRights21/06/22 03:14 AM
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I don’t think feminist know that creepy women exist or choose not to know I guess
/r/MensRights21/06/22 03:11 AM
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It feels like a weird “ugh how dare you speak to a goddess. She should have called the cops on him for daring to even speak to her”
/r/MensRights20/06/22 11:33 PM
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Jesus, of course the post itself was removed by powerhungry mods, but some threads say the whole “men don’t go through this, they don’t understand we are always in danger” as if the dude tried to murder the woman in the post. Then again since it got removed, I don’t even know wtf happened, but apparently some guy asked to date a girl while she was on a train, and I guess she was told to call the police?
/r/MensRights20/06/22 11:30 PM
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The thing is, feminist don’t really think men can feel fear or feel uncomfortable, so ofc they never think “What if the man is uncomfortable”. If you do say anything about men being comfortable, they will move to goal post about how women are always in danger, and ignore men being in danger. The default is how the woman feels, it’s not mutual of how both feel.
/r/MensRights20/06/22 11:16 PM
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No.
/r/MensRights20/06/22 11:05 PM
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Yes, that would be victims blaming I believe. You don’t tell a rape victim or a person trying to say that rape happens to men too that it doesn’t actually count just because it was done by the same gender, and then say it happens more to this other gender…even tho they don’t count it anyways when it does happen between the same gender. It’d be exactly like telling a woman that her SA, rape, or abuse experience doesn’t mean anything because it was done by another woman. It should be counted eithe…
/r/MensRights20/06/22 05:15 PM
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Which not only completely ignores female perpetrators (of course they don’t wanna acknowledge female criminals), but also for some reason, they think that if a crime against men is done by other men, then that means it’s not worth their time to talk about.
/r/MensRights19/06/22 06:24 PM
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Even as a dude Im not subbed here, and there isn’t really a journey or backstory for me, I just come here because this sub points out double standards for men, which I try to always question in the Google search bar, but it never gives me anything that talks about these double standards, instead it gives me stuff about double standards and sexism for women. It’s all from the internet for me. I’m 18 now, but I guess ever since I in my teens (13-14?) to late now, I’ve noticed that feminist were ki…
/r/MensRights19/06/22 04:37 PM
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Im not really subbed here, im more like a lurker, but Feminist will generalize men and only talk about men like we are robots, never as individuals. Then it happens right back to feminist and they get mad. They say it’s because that men hate feminism, but both men and women have a good piece of mind when it comes to calling out and criticizing how sexist feminist can be.
/r/MensRights19/06/22 03:57 PM
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that’s just as wrong
/r/MensRights19/06/22 02:19 PM
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When woman do it, you ignore it. People in general seem to ignore woman doing any harm to men, including murder.
/r/MensRights19/06/22 02:18 PM
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In other counties, Isn’t it by definition not counted as rape if a woman does it? It’s only identified when a man violates or penetrate a woman, not identified the other way around, plus I guess it’s hard to identify male rape(unless it’s by a another male)…even when a dude legit says If he’s raped, which is unlikely for a dude to say anything. I think this is a big factor why SA and rape are gendered, its because other laws made it into a gendered thing, and feminist usually ignore or gaslight …
/r/MensRights19/06/22 02:02 PM
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The other week ago in school (before school was out) a girl legit hit me in the back as a joke, and hit me hard too. It wasn’t a playful hit to the back, no, it legit hurt, it’s the type of hit or slap you throw to actually hurt a person. We were complete strangers to each other, yet she thought it was funny to hit me in the back, and quickly run off before I could see her. I only knew it was her because her friend told me, yet still in a laughing matter. Hell, I swear I heard of friend saying “…
/r/MensRights17/06/22 05:27 AM
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Wait, what do you mean? I haven’t watched Roma Army for a while, but she seemed to defend for both men and women. What happened?
/r/MensRights17/06/22 04:58 AM
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I hate that about defending yourself against a woman. If you defend yourself against a man, even if he’s smaller, then everyone will have no problem with the fact that you defend yourself, even tho he was weaker, but once a woman lashes out on a man, and if the dude hits back, he’s gonna be seen as a woman-beater because he is stronger. People will question the dude all the way, and defend the woman with the excuse of being smaller, or “oh she’s weaker, it couldn’t have hurt that much” even if i…
/r/MensRights17/06/22 04:55 AM
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Don’t forgot that In a lot of “art” the penis seems to always be pointing upwards for some reason instead of downwards. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a dude with an erect penis that faces upward by default, instead of downwards. Also it’s always super veiny, than one compared to irl. It looks painful actually. Not judging if that’s what anyone is into, but…
/r/MensRights07/06/22 05:31 PM
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I came here because I’ve noticed that men being addicted to porn seems to means “Oh you objectify women!!” to some people. It’s like they don’t think it affects men in other ways. It’s like the only reason some people care about men being addicted is because they are only concerned about how the male might view women, even if there are other problems that the dude is facing with said addiction. Hell, they think that because men even watch porn, it means we treat women as sex objects.
/r/MensRights07/06/22 05:20 PM
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As someone with those same fantasies of both side, my bias self wouldn’t judge her, but the problem lies in the fact that other feminist would indeed judge if you ever told people of those fantasies. It’s not even of real woman I think about when thinking about said fantasy, or anything, but I feel like feminist would indeed judge, or even judge you for thinking about casual sex too. However at the same time, it’s understandable for people to be shocked if you tell them about a taboo fetishes. I…
/r/MensRights07/06/22 03:42 PM
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Ah I understand then. Thanks. Different people different views. Kinda like here
/r/MensRights18/04/22 07:38 PM
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So are they just Anti-porn or do they just hate men using porn? Also what with the young teacher post and why do they assume male students will start SA female teachers over porn? I mean I’m not saying it doesn’t happen but still just the general assumption on male students. Many of their post however make good arguments.
/r/MensRights18/04/22 07:06 PM
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None of them. I am my own person.
/r/MensRights18/04/22 06:27 PM
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I’ll just call em all assholes. It’s more simple, and it’s not tied to one gender since neither is being aggressive or rude tied to gender.
/r/MensRights08/03/22 12:27 AM
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YouTuber that think the problem being that your not “manly enough” reminds me of those recent “men then vs men now” memes. You know the ones. They show the “men now” as some feminine dude that’s not doing anything, yet do you ever notice that when they refer to “men then” they only talk about men in war? Specifically ww2. They are for some reason mad that men today can do whatever they want and don’t always need to be forced into being masculine if they don’t want to, yet they would rather have …
/r/MensRights09/01/22 07:50 PM
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Going by “stranger danger” is better than “xyz group of people = danger” and it’s funny how simple it is to say that you shouldn’t hate or fear a group by race or gender. Everyone would agree on that until you get to the “some people have trauma of xyz group” that is of some people. Again almost everyone would agree that hating or fearing a certain group of people is wrong even with experience but as long as you say the right group of people (in this case men) then it’s more of a discussion than…
/r/MensRights04/01/22 02:53 AM
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I’m tempted to, but I shall not.
/r/MensRights30/12/21 07:23 PM
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Yeah to be honest I wouldn’t be surprised either. I never really liked BPT or WPT. I don’t even have the actual app, but I could possibly find something like that again if I tried to find the post I was referring to, or a post similar to that.
/r/MensRights18/12/21 12:02 AM
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People say stuff like “well men are bigger so they can defend themselves” which is nowhere true when it comes to abuse or if the abuser is bigger than them, whether man or woman. Also in a scenario when an attack has a weapon or anything of the sort what do you expect a man to do? Become the hulk? Even if the whole “men can defend themselves” excuse was true, do you think that they always will defend themselves like in a abuse scenario where they are probably being blamed for the abuse by the ab…
/r/MensRights17/12/21 10:36 PM
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Can you explain the logic with that one?I remember r/Blackpeopletwitter saying something like “highways were built across poor black neighborhoods and it’s a form of racism” Is that what your talking about or is it something else that might be stupid?
/r/MensRights17/12/21 10:23 PM
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Yeah you can’t always sound composed in a situation like this where so many feelings are probably rushing through this guy’s spine about the fact that her GF is gonna be posting softcore porn (or just flat out nudes) without even properly talking to him about it.
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/21 08:37 AM
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Did you notice the kiss on the lips at the end?
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/21 06:29 AM
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I though a girl in the same seating row was starting at me while eating at school, or at least would take a few glances every so often. See chances are she wasn’t even concerned about my ass, but hey according to that link… Also online jokes? I can see if some jokes are terrible but you need to be way more specific that that. This whole list needs to be actually specific. Also genuinely asking does flirting really count as SA in general or only on some context?
/r/MensRights07/12/21 03:02 AM
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Some of us love other women too actually.
/r/MensRights28/11/21 09:13 PM
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OP: “Reddit is making me sexist” Other dude: then stop being sexist. You complain about sexism while also doing the same exact thing to others OP: OMg stop invading my space, let me be sexist in peace. Why do you men aways defending men from other people like me who are being clearly sexist
/r/MensRights28/11/21 03:54 AM
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Dude I think that comment itself was a clear joke and It was sarcasm. The comment was playing along.
/r/MensRights27/11/21 08:19 AM
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They will say your a pick me for not having the same options as other black people, or say your being hypnotized by the evil whites as to why you have those options. Or pull the “clearly your not black and your lying”. It’s weird
/r/MensRights21/11/21 10:37 PM
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I wish those good people the best of luck
/r/MensRights19/11/21 07:59 PM
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I am surprised your outcome went so well. I’m glad you were not just out onto detention in the end and was allowed to defend yourself.
/r/MensRights19/11/21 02:27 AM
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I think the worst part of this scenario is the fact that if children are not told that both women and men can be terrible because we are human, then those boys will never be able to recognize when a women does something very wrong to them. They won’t say anything or view anything wrong with it. Ofc as they grow up they will realize that what they were told as a child is BS, but the harm is already done and could last.
/r/MensRights18/11/21 04:39 AM
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Some MGTOW people are toxic af or see women as a unit just as some feminist do, but I do think that people here do actually talk about the sexist stuff that some women really believe and try to push, or how some women can just do crime and just get away with it when the victim is male, but I guess the justice system can just suck, and Hard with a capital H. Its great that people are bringing attention to this.
/r/MensRights12/11/21 11:25 PM
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Sorry to hear that. I actually have never had that sort of experience (fortunately) or any trauma, just natural fear. And yeah some people would rather divide each other by gender, which is pretty much how stereotypes work. Honestly people need to think about individuals rather than everything being gendered. I can understand when anyone says they are scared of the things such as rape and murder, or becoming victim of any other crime, but it’s weird when people discard someone else’s fears becau…
/r/MensRights12/11/21 09:41 PM
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That last quote you made up should be common sense. The whole “men only fear women laughing at them” thing just sounds like it was made to bring down men and just another gender stereotype that apparently men are fearless, and only care about their ego. “Men are strong and fearless, they don’t worry about being harmed. Men are emotionless”. It’s dehumanizing, and people do legit think that men have no fears, and if they do, they are apparently irrelevant to those same people that believe that qu…
/r/MensRights12/11/21 08:04 PM
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What? Lol no, men can’t be scared of a person who is a women unless he’s sexist. Now if you excuse me I’ll make myself out as a victim for being scared of men and completely ignore anyone who is scared of a women. Your just scared because she’s confident and you wanna spread your hatred everywhere, men don’t get trauma from women donning bad. Stop complaining about internet women that say “KAM or “All men” or other sexist things about men while I also cry about the same exact things that I want …
/r/MensRights12/11/21 07:15 PM
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To me I don’t care or at least even think about the whole masculinity thing all too much. I do myself for now. But if you WANT to be masculine, then maybe im too young to tell ya what it means and don’t have the experience, because I never cared for it. Im already gonna become a “real man” soon (im 17). I wanna say something along the lines of “just do you. Don’t let people define you if they are wrong or what you believe is masculine for yourself”, but eh idk if that’s too vague or not. It does…
/r/MensRights12/11/21 07:03 PM
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Yeah but I bet she doesn’t care about real women killing people because “men do it more”. Actually, I wonder if she even thought about women who have actually murdered children, men and women.
/r/MensRights12/11/21 04:43 PM
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Also I don’t think those types of people realize that plenty of women already commit SA, abuse, and rape on men, women, and children. If you somehow did remove men from the world (which you can’t, but in this false scenario), you wouldn’t get rid of those acts. You’ll lower it since you already fucking lowered half the population, but it would still be a thing that goes on over and over. As for the the straight female rapist, well they will just roam scott free and will be ignored in this scenar…
/r/MensRights12/11/21 04:24 PM
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Tbh the whole “it’s payback” thing to me I just sounds more like a lie when their payback their payback is being hateful to the opposite gender….even tho they are apparently against that same thing? Idk it feels more like an excuse to be hateful rather than the fact that they actually care about any of that stuff. Like they are lying to themselves and making up excuses just to be sexist while they can also pretend to act noble.
/r/MensRights12/11/21 03:20 PM
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Yes it is. “You chose to ride on transport so it doesn’t matter if SA does happen to you because it has never happened to anyways, so ha”
/r/MensRights05/11/21 01:34 AM
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Heck I always thought it was corny, toxic and sexist to say “I’m gay/lesbian, and I’m glad I’m not attracted to men/women because they are all crazy” same goes for the “I wish I was lesbian/gay. Why do I have to be attracted to that” I swear people do legit force themselves into hating the opposite sex, and I always wondered how weirded out lesbians and gay people are from seeing those comments.
/r/MensRights28/10/21 04:31 PM
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No, many modern feminist indeed want revenge (over nothing actually), and want to ignore female perpetrators who do wrong. That’s a straight up lie.
/r/MensRights28/10/21 03:24 PM
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A few weeks ago I remember arguing with a women who defended and victimized women who say KAM by pointing the topic to men committing rape and murder to women, and said that men should try to understand these women. I remember she even said that whole “now you know how women feel” type if excuse. She even did the “check your privilege” bullshit and said that men being stronger than women is a privilege along with a bunch of other shit. I don’t think women and men being physically different from …
/r/MensRights28/10/21 02:57 PM
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Yeah there is always someone who makes it a gender or race thing. My dad did it with the race thing when I told him about how our realtor shoot up a nearby bank (well two people at most actually). Shortly after telling him he asked was what his race was. And yeah there are women who commit murder and other serious crimes, but I don’t really ever hear about them. Ever. Then again I don’t really watch the news so maybe that’s why, but they don’t even talk about female murders. Not that their gende…
/r/MensRights28/10/21 02:37 PM
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Women defiantly catcall and grope people qns yes rape. Because idk maybe they are…human just like a dude? Seriously it’s weird how people don’t think women don’t do any of that stuff to other people. Men and women do that shit.
/r/MensRights28/10/21 11:57 AM
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I mean I guess it depends on what you see. I defiantly have seen way more fake feminist than those guys, but either way they both do exist. Either way both of these fake wannabe feminist and some people in the MGTOW movement have some fake ass sexist people in their own groups. Even men’s rights have those fake people I’m sure of it. Also I never understood MGTOW or the objective considering it’s just you doing you. What’s so special about it? I would personally think it’s way more than a fracti…
/r/MensRights01/09/21 01:22 AM
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It’s either because of trauma, or they legit do have a superiority complex as to why they say that. The first one just needs a bit of help. The latter is ofc an asshole. I feel like these two things can go hand and hand tho. It’s important to not blindside yourself with this terrible idea and think that men are threats and women are angels. Stranger danger applies to both.
/r/MensRights01/09/21 12:56 AM
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It’s mainly on the internet tbh. YouTube and tiktok. I also have seen news events of crazy people assaulting men over weird shit like say idk manspreading. That was a popular thing that crazy sexist people did for some reason, but that’s assault, not a statement. I guess these people only talk trash online, and keep those beliefs in pocket. Sure you someone could say “well just get off the intent, or don’t listen to them”, and to that I say they are right, but it still not okay to say. I’m sure …
/r/MensRights01/09/21 12:48 AM
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Idk who downvoted you, but anyways, stuff like: “Men don’t feel emotions” Or “Kill all men” is a pretty common one. “KAM” is apparently some sort of movement. Apparently it’s meant to mean “kill the bad and sexist men” but truth be told, we all know thats bullshit. You don’t strictly say and repeat the phase “kill all men” and then try to pull up the heroic noble stance. People who say this know exactly what they are saying. Plus their are sexist who say this and literally they hate all men, and…
/r/MensRights01/09/21 12:37 AM
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I see a lot of this all over the internet tbh. Like I followed a rabbit hole and Jesus Christ, their are a lot of people who spread mis info about a whole ass gender based on stuff like movie stereotypes, or based on other people and then assume all people of xyz group all function like xyz or can’t xyz because their emotions are blah blah blah. People really think men are emotionless sex bots and feel nothing else. I feel like the YouTube channel “The Take” for example kinda does this, and even…
/r/MensRights01/09/21 12:12 AM
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Well nothing actually. Just as long as you treat men as regular human beings with emotions, you are Golden. It’s weird tho that there are people who do the complete opposite and treat men or women as something different. Anyways have a good day.
/r/MensRights01/09/21 12:09 AM
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