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1	Been feeling good and confident, got into a strong relationship and lost it. Where to go from here? I'm going through a similar situation right now. After a lot of personal development I've landed my first serious relationship, and I've started to feel like I'm riding on the validation I get from this girl. One way I think about it is that this is an entirely new range of situations and emotions you don't get to work on while you're doing your PUA thing single. Being the man you want to be in a relationship takes just as much work as being the man you want to be single.	/r/seduction	07/12/13 12:41 AM
2	No more seddit until 100 sets! I'm in. I've spent months reading pickup and done only a handful of approaches. Let's do this!	/r/seduction	28/10/13 11:20 PM
4	A Fucked Up Guys Guide Part II After reading these posts I have to say it seems I'm in a similar mental frame as you. Ever since high school I've had a very beta attitude towards life and used a myriad of excuses to stay in my socially awkward shell. I'm in my senior year of college and despite reading pickup materials for months I've made little real progress besides around ten drunk number closes and a few dates that fizzled out when I didn't escalate. I thought I'd mention a few additional things I've been doing that seem …	/r/seduction	20/09/13 08:23 PM
-8	How Do I make the people around me feel comfortable? In my opinion this is the wrong attitude to have. You should strive to be your own confident self, and allow that persona to attract people that are comfortable with it. You can try to make others comfortable, but at the very best you'll make everyone else secure while making yourself miserable.	/r/seduction	01/09/13 10:42 PM

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