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Bro if you go back to dating her you really have no self respect. She left you to go fuck someone else don’t even make her a plate cause it sounds like you’re still emotionally invested in her.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 08:52 AM
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I have adjustable dumbbells too and began working out with them since the start of quarantine because gyms have been closed in my state. I made very big noticeable progress in the 6 month mark. Just search up dumbbell exercises for arms and make sure you are eating foods high in protein. Doesn’t matter how much you work out, you’ll never get big if you’re not eating the right amount. Include lots of meat in your diet.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 06:32 AM
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Did you ever consider maybe this women see’s you as just a friend.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 03:45 AM
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Go to the gym, go outside for walks, do sports, do body workouts at home. Most of these things won’t be available until covid is over tho so I suggest just buying a pair of dumbbells and do home workouts.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 03:44 AM
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Sounds like you’re doing everything right man. But remember you have to feed the girl scraps, you can’t go overboard with this red pill stuff or else the relationship will end eventually. You have to show acts of kindness out of nowhere give her a lot of compliments and kiss her and tell her you love her and then pull back and be cold with her. You gotta balance stuff out basically. Continue to work on yourself and make yourself the number priority. Continue to increase smv, your social circle, …
/r/askTRP26/11/20 10:18 PM
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Just screenshot the posts that you find most helpful
/r/askTRP26/11/20 05:22 AM
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Bro I used to be in your situation, just drop her and the friendship don’t even try to get at her. Once she sees you as beta she will never see you as anything else but a beta.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 07:56 AM
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With that mentality you are.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 07:33 AM
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Whats wrong with Oregon, I live there
/r/askTRP23/11/20 06:31 AM
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I wouldn’t ignore her text. She didn’t say no to the idea of walking back to your place. Just come up with a witty response but set the date up, if you do everything right she will go back to your place
/r/askTRP19/11/20 01:03 AM
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No you can’t act like nothing happened that’ll lower attraction and make her view you as a bitch. Say something along the lines of this “if we’re gonna continue what we had going you’re gonna have to make it up to me.” And then proceed to making her suck your dick everyday for a month straight and make sure to nut in her mouth. But only use that if she texts you or calls you, don’t make the first move.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 12:18 AM
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I wouldn’t text or hit her up first as it may come off as you’re needy. Wait for her to make the first move and then go from there.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 12:10 AM
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First of all now that you’ve discovered the red pill the only thing you should focus on right now is improving yourself in every way possible. Forget about women and stop chasing for a year. (Don’t get this confused with going full monk mode you can still talk to women and fuck them but don’t make them a priority at all for right now) start lifting, developing a skin routine so your face isn’t oily or full of pimples, get on a good diet, develop a good sleep schedule, basically do everything by …
/r/askTRP17/11/20 09:44 PM
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Bro those happy couples you see in public, you don’t have any idea what their relationship is actually like, you only see a little bit. When me and my ex were dating we dated for like 9 months. Anyone on the outside could have sworn me and her had a happy good relationship. We would always hold hands, kiss, hug each other, walk each other to class, skip school together. But in reality the relationship was shit behind closed doors. I wasn’t getting enough sex, she would start problems out of nowh…
/r/askTRP17/11/20 06:19 PM
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Similar situation as you. Me and my ex broke things off March and I’ve been on my self improvement journey for 9 months now. Best way to get revenge is by improving yourself, making yourself better in every way and then dating/fucking someone hotter and better then her in every way possible. She will eventually see you pulling all these attractive women and she will definitely feel some type of way.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 06:48 AM
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Bro what the fuck. Are you fucking stupid. If I was in your situation I would give her the ultimatum of telling her guy friend he can’t stay or she gets dropped. That’s just disrespect if she considered it or asked you if should could bring him over. She should’ve just told him no and that’s the end of it.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 06:32 AM
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So how do I get out of this effect
/r/askTRP15/11/20 11:24 PM
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Nothing wrong with wanting to be famous, in fact it’s a big motivator that’ll push you to work harder to get there. Just make sure you get famous off something you like to do.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 08:43 PM
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I’ve been eating good, lift everyday, and I’m not depressed. I still get boners and get turned on but only in person, just not with porn or nudes.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 08:31 PM
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If you don’t like what you’re girl is doing she has to either stop it or she gets dropped. The red pill is about putting your needs above others and having respect for yourself. If you didn’t like her behavior and she didn’t wanna stop she simply gets dropped. Plus if she didn’t wanna stop her bad behavior it just shows how little respect she had for you and why would you wanna keep someone who doesn’t have respect for you?
/r/askTRP15/11/20 07:47 PM
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Two years ago I used to have panic attacks out of nowhere. Not the panic attacks/anxiety girls talk about to make themselves look “quirky” nah like panic attacks so bad I had to go to the emergency room multiple times. One day I told myself I didn’t wanna feel this way forever and I made myself to stop caring about whatever I was scared off, I told myself if it happens it happens oh well nothing I can do about it so why even stress. I often had anxiety and panic attacks about things that haven’t…
/r/askTRP15/11/20 11:24 AM
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I would try smashing her mom and her, if the mom is paying all the bills she deserves a little love too lol
/r/askTRP14/11/20 06:43 PM
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Ya I would definitely spend less time with her while you’re going through with drawls. In the mean time practice holding frame around friends and people you interact with at work/school/outside.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 06:40 PM
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Next time you’re all together and they tease you just say “nahh were just friends and that’s the way I wanna keep it.” You don’t even gotta say it in a assertive way but they’ll get it.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 06:37 PM
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I used to think like this. “Oh idk if I look good enough in this picture.” “Oh nobody commented on my picture I’m gonna delete it cause people will see me as a loser.” Until at some point I just said fuck it, if I like the picture I’m gonna post it. If you have a picture of yourself that you like and you think you look good in it then go ahead and post it.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 07:07 AM
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Since you’ve barely just started talking to her, I wouldn’t recommend going ghost completely, high chance she might lose interest. Not texting her or talking to her for days works good if you have a long term or someone who you’ve already built a connection with. I say keep texting her but do it every few hours, text her at 1pm don’t reply to her until 4 pm.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 07:03 AM
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Bro this post is pointless you know the answer. She obviously texted you again cause she’s not getting enough validation from her beta male orbiters and wants to see if she can still pull guys and make them simp for her. She just wanted validation and you gave it to her by having a conversation with her, doesn’t matter if she hit you up first. What I think you should do is stop texting her just ghost her and if she hits you up again don’t even try catching up just be straight forward and ask if …
/r/askTRP14/11/20 06:59 AM
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Time will heal you but it’s up to you to give yourself the closure you want/ need. But for right now keep yourself busy, workout, make goals, get better financially. Just keep yourself busy.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 06:52 AM
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This is a good option if you have multiple plates and a rotation, cause you’re not needy. But if you don’t have plates or a rotation ask for her number.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 08:54 AM
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The way I got into the red pill was by watching tons of red pill YouTube videos. Watch AMS, Stephiscold, FitXFearless.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 10:26 AM
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Bro there’s no such thing as “I’m not ready” if a girl is attracted to you she will give it up. One of my ex girls used to date this guy and they were a thing for 8 months, she never gave him sex she always told him “I’m not ready yet” but when they broke up and me and her started dating she gave it up the first month we started dating.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 10:23 AM
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From experience I’ve decided it’s not even worth hitting up old plates doesn’t matter who stopped contact. Old plates usually never have the same interest they had at the start. Sure maybe they’ll still be interested and maybe even have sex with you but it just won’t be the same.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 09:34 AM
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Your therapist is trying to turn you into a beta male. She’s probably gonna tell you “take her on dates, meet her parents, and then when you guys have been dating for 5 years have sex with her.” You’re doing good, keep it up. Dating is just a numbers game so ask as many women as you desire, the more women you ask the more women coming over you’ll get.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 08:30 AM
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I don’t remember what the exact video is but I just know it was from stephiscold
/r/askTRP08/11/20 09:29 PM
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Bro I was going through this too, missed my ex bad for like 5 months after the breakup, didn’t think I could get better then her. Wanna know what helped me move on? All that time that we haven’t talk or seen each other since the breakup she has been texting guys, dating guys, and fucking guys, she doesn’t fucking miss me and at this point has most likely forgot about me. I know you miss her bro but just know she already forgot about you, she’s getting dicked down as Im writing this, bro in that …
/r/askTRP07/11/20 06:19 AM
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I love telling this story. So I met a girl and I didn’t really like her so i friendzoned her for like 2 years, she chased me all those years but I never gave her any attention and only led her on and then pulled back when she thought she had me. Like one time she invited me to homecoming, I told her I’d be their but never showed up and went with some other girl. Anyways a year later I get tired of dating and just fucking around with girls without it going anywhere, and so I check up on this girl…
/r/askTRP07/11/20 06:09 AM
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Before I was red pill I used to be like this and managed to keep a girl around for a year. I should’ve won award for being simp of the year, I would forgive bad behavior that shouldn’t have been forgiven, I would cry in front of her, I bought her gifts all the time. But guess what, in the end I lost her. You can be a beta simp and keep a girl around for a while but best believe eventually she will leave him
/r/askTRP06/11/20 10:59 PM
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Some of the things you mentioned I used to struggle with so I’m about to give you advice and Solutions and just know I’m talking from experience not just saying shit. Two years ago I had really bad anxiety, I would get anxiety attacks out of nowhere to the point where I thought I was gonna die and had to go to the emergency room like 3 times. Im currently anxiety free right now I no longer get anxiety attacks, I actually don’t really care or worry about almost anything anymore. What did I change…
/r/askTRP06/11/20 10:51 PM
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Best thing you can do is don’t say a word to her, just ghost her completely, ignore her until she’s spamming your phone or even better comes looking for you in person. Once you know she’s desperate and you have the power, she’s gonna have to suck a lot of dick to make up for her bad behavior
/r/askTRP06/11/20 09:54 AM
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me and my ex were arguing and I began crying in front of her like a little bitch. Was on YouTube the next day and came across a red pill video it was like a miracle sent from heaven. 8 months later now I’m here and let’s just say Things have only been going up since then.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 09:46 AM
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Yep exactly. Honestly I think In both of our cases it was right person wrong time. When me and my ex dated in the beginning she would show high interest she would do everything for me, if I knew about the red pill I know I coulda kept her around for a very long time. Nothing we can do about it now, improve your smv, get women with higher smv then her, stay focused on your purpose and what makes you happy. You got this g.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 08:53 AM
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You and me are in similar Situations. I dated a girl for 8 months, it’s been like 7 months since the break up. The relationship ended because I validated her to much and lost frame. She would shit test and I would never pass. She would cross boundaries and I would let shit slide because I was so in love with her. The first few months after the break up I didn’t really care or think much of it but right now for some reason I’ve been having dreams about her and find myself looking at old pictures,…
/r/askTRP01/11/20 08:27 AM
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Don’t reach out. If she texts you first then you can plate her but reaching out first will just give her a huge ego boost. If she never texts then it’s whatever on to the next.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 08:18 AM
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I used to know a girl that was submissive, really into me, would always forgive me no matter how many times or how bad I fucked up and I ended up leaving her thinking there was better out there. I got with girls that were similar and were submissive and all that but I never really found someone again that was crazy into me like that one girl. If she’s loyal and submissive and still into you just stay with her, your gonna avoid so much stress and drama. If she was your girlfriend or something I’d…
/r/askTRP25/10/20 06:46 AM
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Yes this is very beta behavior. You’re already emotionally invested and you’re not even in a relationship with yet lol. you already lost. I say drop the whole thing just ghost her.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 06:02 AM
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I was thinking if you do choose to reply to her maybe something like “new phone who this.” Or “I think you got the wrong number” would be more effective cause it shows you’ve moved on. Responding with oh ok will let her know that you know it’s her and you still have her number.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 05:18 PM
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Don’t listen to him, responding with “oh ok” sounds like your butt hurt. Just ignore her it’ll drive her crazy lmao
/r/askTRP20/10/20 08:24 AM
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Exactly, completely agree with you on working on those 4 things. As for watching them, I clicked on the video cause it popped up on my recommended and I was curious to see peoples thoughts on the red pill from the outside. People really have this view on the red pill like it’s a bad thing, I think they just never got a good example of the red pill and that’s why they talk down on it.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 05:03 PM
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Women are biologically programmed to mate with the strongest man and the man with the most resources so what’s your point
/r/askTRP15/10/20 04:22 PM
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Take what you need from the red pill but don’t abuse it. I know I’m definitely getting married cause having casual sex for the rest of my life sounds miserable, I want something meaningful at some point in my life. The red pill is just a tool that you use to get better options and it helps with keeping a girl around. Get all the knowledge you can and use what works for you.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 04:11 PM
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So you are looking to get into a relationship and keep it? You gotta go to the purple pill sub for that g. Red pill is about getting laid but most importantly learning to be happy by yourself, finding your purpose and not relying on a relationship or women for happiness.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 07:31 AM
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I was in your situation once, but it wasn’t a one month relationship, 3 years bro. We end up breaking up and I’m sitting in my room asking myself “what now” “maybe I should text her and try to work things out” “I’m sure we’ll get back together, she wouldn’t throw away our 3 year relationship.” I discover the red pill, I didn’t have much of a choice it was either be sad and stay crying over the breakup or try something different. Watch red pill youtubers, take in all the information you can, if y…
/r/askTRP15/10/20 07:28 AM
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I think this is good. Some men settle for less and end up making a girl that didn’t meet their original standards a long term thing. Don’t ever settle for less, don’t long term anyone if they don’t meet your standards. That’s why we have plates, we fuck plates until we find someone that’s worth ltr.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 07:19 AM
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The most alpha red pill youtubers are black. Go watch AMS, FITXFEARLESS, and StephIsCold. They taught me everything the red pill had to offer.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 07:14 AM
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You gotta find your purpose, your passion. When you like doing something you will have no problem spending hours by yourself doing that thing. I love playing instruments and making music I sometimes spend 7 hours just writing lyrics in my notebook and making songs with my guitar. I don’t even get on my phone or leave me room in that whole time. Why? Because I love doing it, those 7 hours go by like nothing.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 07:08 AM
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You’re doing it all wrong asking for their numbers. Always give the girl you’re number. Put the ball in her court. If she’s interested she will text you and if she’s not then she won’t text you and you won’t waste time having pointless conversations. Also 10 minute conversation is way to long. Keep the conversation short. Ask her what her name is, tell her you would like to take her out and get to know her more, and that’s it. Having conversations with her will kill the mystery and is just a was…
/r/askTRP15/10/20 07:04 AM
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Enjoy the rest of the trip, leave the hotel and go do fun stuff like hit a bar up. You might even be able to fuck her if she sees you having fun and enjoying the trip without her. Make sure she doesn’t see you butthurt you gotta maintain frame show the hoe you’re unfazed. When you get back home from the trip ghost her.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 07:00 AM
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Something I’ve learned over the years is, once the Relationship/fling is over its over for good, even if you try to have something again with her and she agrees she will not give the same energy she gave before. I have been in countless situations where I have fucked around with a girl and we stopped talking and when I tried talking to them again months later they would talk and even act interested sometimes but In the end it never worked out. Just drop it, don’t waste your time.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 06:50 AM
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If she’s blowing up your phone and stuff then that means she learned her lesson lol. Your now in a position of power so take advantage
/r/askTRP12/10/20 04:54 PM
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I mean ask yourself this, do you really wanna fuck her on a dirty couch/bed with crumbs and stains?
/r/askTRP05/10/20 05:37 PM
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The RP knowledge is supposed to make your life easier not harder 😂 it’s quite the opposite for me, I use to overthink things related to women when I didn’t have rp knowledge but now I don’t overthink anything when it comes to women. Part of being red pill is not over investing in women and by you thinking and wondering “oh why did she flake on me” “oh why doesn’t she like me” it sounds like you’re getting emotionally invested. Focus on yourself and don’t spend time wondering why she did what she…
/r/askTRP05/10/20 05:30 PM
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I used to feel the same way, I used to think back on so many opportunities that were ruined over stupid reasons. Something that helped was having this mindset, if I could attract 9s and 10s once I can do it again.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 05:54 AM
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If you agree to follow her rules be prepared for her to cheat/leave you/ lose all respect for you. The only reason you have been with this girl for 8 months is because you’ve most likely kept frame and she sees you as a alpha male but by you agreeing to her rules she will now view you as beta. Don’t submit to her even if it means the relationship ending.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 07:41 AM
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Don’t blame women, blame the simps. When men stop simping and validating women when they have done nothing to deserve the validation that’s when we will see real change. Imagine if us men set high standards for women, women would stop having sex with multiple guys cause they wouldn’t want they’re value to decrease, they would get a real job instead of only fans, they would not cheat so society doesn’t view them as whores. I’ve seen men marry women with only fans, I’ve seen men stay with women th…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/20 09:28 PM
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Sometimes I miss the way I used to think. That true love exists and a women can actually love the real you. I remember how happy I used to be in my last long term relationship, I was a beta blue pill simp and always let the girl get her way but I was still happy. But then once the relationship ended I released those happy moments were just small moments and most of the time I was being manipulated and used in the relationship without even noticing it. When I found out about the red pill I was ma…
/r/askTRP24/09/20 07:14 AM
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How many days do you recommend?
/r/askTRP23/09/20 12:11 AM
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Bro you just described my exact relationship, cute girl, ended at 7 months, we break up and I go no contact and she texts me getting mad at me, leads me on. It’s been 6 months since we’ve broken up and all I can say is, the way you deal with the break up will determine whether you get over it or not. When me and this girl broke up I started working out for the first time in years, I improved my style, bought a car, have a nice paying job, and I’m so much more confident then what I was back then.…
/r/askTRP21/09/20 04:06 AM
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All women say they want a nice guy that doesn’t play games with them and manipulate them, it’s a lie. Women need excitement that’s what they crave most they want new experiences and if you’re just giving them the same sex, same conversations, same everything then she will leave you. If you create a stable environment where both of you never fight she will get bored, she wants to fight she wants to feel feminine she wants a man that is dominate and whatever he says or does happens. Back to the qu…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 07:41 PM
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There isn’t some truth to the red pill, it’s completely true. Red pill is just you being aware of females nature. But not just that, the red pill is a lifestyle that teaches you to be alpha in all types of situations not just with females. There isn’t nothing toxic about the red pill, you’ve probably just had a bad example of the red pill. I recommend you watch AMS, he is a pretty good example of what the red pill actually stands for
/r/ExRedPill08/09/20 11:28 PM
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day 100 your getting laid for sure if not sooner keep it up
/r/seduction24/07/20 05:37 PM
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keep making it seem like your not interested then, you have to make yourself unavailable so the more busy you are the better. Keep it up bro but stay away from that over nice stuff especially if they don’t give you a good response like the one she gave
/r/seduction14/07/20 12:46 AM
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Bro her response is telling me she is not that interested in you, if you want her interested in you then you have to make it seem like your not interested in her. It sounds like you were simping .
/r/seduction13/07/20 11:16 PM
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