lenaphobic Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	Nearly 3 weeks later and still no word	Rant	lenaphobic	/r/Divorce_Men	04/02/26 03:46 AM
12	A surprisingly positive update		lenaphobic	/r/Divorce_Men	08/02/26 01:38 AM
11	She walked out last friday and I’m struggling to cope	Need Support	lenaphobic	/r/Divorce_Men	21/01/26 07:16 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	I finally understand why so many married guys are unhappy I can call my ex whatever I want. Go find someone else to bug, weirdo.	/r/MensRights	04/04/26 04:08 PM
7	I finally understand why so many married guys are unhappy Good to know you were there to witness the pivotal moments of my marriage. She was a lazy slob, a terrible procrastinator and a bad parent. I did all the parenting, the chores, paid the bills, bought the cars, maintained the house and yard. I didn’t care about that because I loved her too much.	/r/MensRights	03/04/26 09:44 PM
9	I finally understand why so many married guys are unhappy I just went through this. Long dry spells, thought my wife was my soul mate, greatest person on the planet. She divorced me earlier this year. The withholding of sex is such a big indicator of a woman not being in love with you/being done with the marriage, be very careful. Never thought it would happen, then bam out of nowhere and she became a totally different person.	/r/MensRights	03/04/26 05:18 AM
71	Why the hell should a guy nowadays consider marriage? Going through a divorce right now. You tie down assets, make promises, plan to spend your life together and vow to never leave… and that usually means absolutely nothing when the wife is packing her bags and planning her next relationship or stage in life. Men almost always get screwed, even in amicable divorces. Never assume the woman you love now is going to be that same person in 5, 10 or even 20 years from now.	/r/MensRights	06/03/26 01:01 AM
6	Theorhetical question - Can men just identify as women, and not change their appearance to gain some privileges? Let me just tell you, as a transsexual woman myself, that women don’t respect us even if we do change our appearance and genitals. Still lumped in with men. So no, I don’t think that works outside of very slim and heavily liberal social circles.	/r/MensRights	04/03/26 08:57 PM
4	Survey: Most Say Men Should Pay for First Date in Hetero Couples Fuck that. I’m paying for my food, you can pay for yours. So many women take advantage of this to get free food and ghost the guy after.	/r/MensRights	11/02/26 08:00 PM
2	A surprisingly positive update Thank you. It’s sad that it will take a divorce to lead to this, but it’s the best I could have hoped for.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/02/26 04:09 AM
2	A surprisingly positive update Amen. I hope the best for everybody here.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/02/26 04:07 AM
1	A surprisingly positive update I totally get it, seen it happen. But she’s always been the kindest and most selfless person I’ve ever met. Guess I’ll see if that changes throughout the divorce process.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/02/26 04:05 AM
1	A surprisingly positive update Will do. Got a lot to learn about the legal system.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/02/26 04:01 AM
1	Any other men here feel like you were left for dead? Yup. Mine was always meeting with friends prior to an argument. The friends always conveniently had bad relationship experiences. Many women would rather communicate their feelings to a friend and get bad advice, rather than just open up and talk to their husbands and try to work things out.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/02/26 01:20 AM
7	I began disliking women over the years now becoming soon 30. You don't understand men's rights if what you took from it is "all women bad." Think you're looking for r/misogyny.	/r/MensRights	30/01/26 08:18 AM
12	I began disliking women over the years now becoming soon 30. I totally understand not desiring sex after having bad experiences, but this just reads like incel ranting. Not every woman is bad.	/r/MensRights	30/01/26 03:50 AM
1	She walked out last friday and I’m struggling to cope Thank you for all the advice. I sent her a very long message like that last night. I have a loaded question though, what do I do if she refuses to contact me and has turned off my daughter’s phone? Do I go barging into her parent’s house and take my daughter or do I treat it delicately right now and leave her alone? We both work weird hours, so her parents have always babysat her while we were at work. I don’t know if she is being entirely spiteful here and is just doing what is convenient for b…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/01/26 10:25 PM
2	She walked out last friday and I’m struggling to cope Thank you. I really do hope you are right.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/01/26 07:55 PM
4	She walked out last friday and I’m struggling to cope You are right. I think I’ve been in denial for a long time. I’ll fight like hell for my relationship with my daughter and do whatever it takes. Thank you for this.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/01/26 07:51 PM
3	She walked out last friday and I’m struggling to cope I do want to save our marriage. There have been so many ups and downs where things get better then suddenly drop off. Haven’t been to therapy. We’ve been dead broke since 2023, I lost my well paying job and am stuck at a dead end one, which hasn’t helped. We are both depressed and could benefit from therapy, and if I have to find a way to afford it I will. She bolted because she always completely shuts down when anything is wrong. I’ve gotten the silent treatment for basically anything that she …	/r/Divorce_Men	21/01/26 07:49 PM
4	What do you all do when you don’t have a support system? Going through the exact same thing. She has a family of 40, coworkers, friends. I just have my mother. Reached out to friends and they just said their condolences. This is a long, dark road you have to walk by yourself. Men are expected to shoulder the burden. If you need someone to talk to, DM me.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/01/26 07:02 PM
4	I am a transgender woman and I can say: female privilege is real ...what point are you even trying to make here?	/r/MensRights	28/10/25 07:14 AM
125	I am a transgender woman and I can say: female privilege is real (Ex?) transwoman here who had to quit because of lack of insurance/funds, the difference is night and day. But when they find out that you’re biologically born a male, the switch up with how they treat you is horrendous. And it’s not just female privilege, it’s pretty privilege as well. Attractive women walk among society like they are gods, they are handed everything on a silver platter. Attractive men are still treated poorly, they just get laid and used more often. It used to make my stomach …	/r/MensRights	27/10/25 10:31 PM
16	Why are so many young men struggling with erectile dysfunction? The truth is, a vast majority of men do not find women with mustaches and armpit hair attractive. Doubly so for those with the modern feminist attitude. Regardless… that is not “body shaming”, body shaming is when you dislike something someone is unable to control; like your height/face/stature/birth sign, which feminist women consistently turn down men over. You can shave off body hair, what you can’t do is shave off a bad attitude and moral platitudes. What “real man” is going to take a woman …	/r/MensRights	23/08/25 12:02 AM
183	Why are so many young men struggling with erectile dysfunction? Women are congratulated for being obese, hairy, rock men’s haircuts and expect to be a power dynamic in relationships. Meanwhile men are shamed and passed over for being slightly overweight, short or physically weak/disabled. The writing is on the wall for why men aren’t attracted to modern women that practice feminism.	/r/MensRights	22/08/25 08:19 PM