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| 0 | "I don't want a relationship right now" - How do I answer that to make her "change her mind"?No there isn't. She made herself clear to you without room for interpretation, her response is significantly more honest than what most girls give. This isn't some form of flirting or playing hard to get. Disregarding her feelings and what she said is both disrespectful and rude. The actual reason for her not wanting a relationship is not relevant. You should do reading on oneitis, calibration and flirting. If you were to earnestly ask a friend not to do something you felt strongly about and the… | /r/seduction | 16/09/13 01:24 PM |
| 1 | "I don't want a relationship right now" - How do I answer that to make her "change her mind"?You don't. If you're able to, you accept her as a friend and circle back around to the issue in a few (6+ maybe?) months if there is still chemistry. From the sounds of it though, you probably aren't able to just see her as a friend. In which case tell her "ok" then move on and don't look back. | /r/seduction | 16/09/13 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend gave this to me during a mutual breakup, to me this is what seduction is all about.Agreed. I am in the same position. I am known by many people as the person to goto when you want to meet new people. I don't get a whole lot of reciprocation for that. It's soemthing I've just come to accept. | /r/seduction | 26/08/13 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Hey Seddit, how does being exhausted/sick/not in the mood change how you play your game? Do you handle yourself differently? And what things do you do to keep yourself shipshape? How much time per week do you spend recovering vs in the game?Most of it is with friends. Swing dancing twice a week, drinks/dinner with friends 2 other days and usually something random 1-2 other days. I get cabin fever pretty easily and don't exactly like being at home in the evenings no matter how shitty I feel. Time is limited enough as is and if I'm not out a majority of the nights I end up not seeing some of my friends for weeks at a time which I'm not cool with. | /r/seduction | 20/05/13 06:59 PM |
| 4 | Do girls get intimidated by good looking men like men get intimidated by good looking women?If you're an attractive guy, there isn't a whole lot you can do while standing across the room. When you open her though what she wants to know most of all is "Is this guy a normal guy?" Because of your looks she's put you up on a pedestal if your job to bring yourself down to her level, to stand on even ground with her. As soon as you do that, she'll be comfortable. It's a Goldilocks balancing act but with practice you can make it happen. You also need to calibrate. Some girls won't approach bu… | /r/seduction | 09/05/13 04:51 PM |
| 11 | Do girls get intimidated by good looking men like men get intimidated by good looking women?You ever seen that 30 rock episode about the life of attractive people? If not you should. It's like asking someone "What's it like to be white?" most people can't answer because they never think about it. http://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1daoqb/white_people_whats_it_like_being_white/ | /r/seduction | 09/05/13 03:28 AM |
| 99 | Do girls get intimidated by good looking men like men get intimidated by good looking women?Yes. I have plenty of female friends and they basically swoon at good looking guys. Girls have just as much if not more approach anxiety than men. Girl's have the additional pressure that if they approach they get labeled as a slut or as easy. That label can easily change the dynamics of an interaction from "oh potential long term" to "one night stand". | /r/seduction | 09/05/13 12:27 AM |
| 5 | How do I stop putting every girl that shows interest in me, on a pedestal?Kickass Academy just posted an article today that can explain this. Basically there's a basic premise conflict here: You are looking at this in the perspective of attracting a single, specific female. By acting disinterested towards a single female yes you are sending signals of disinterest and you won't attract her specifically The problem is this is exactly what you're trying to solve. By targeting a specific female you are already putting her on a pedestal because you are trying to "impress" … | /r/seduction | 11/03/13 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Turning the conversation sexual?I am having a similar problem as the OP. I am good at isolation, casual kino including pulling close and getting compliance but I have trouble escalating past that. | /r/seduction | 11/03/13 06:56 PM |
| 1 | So I was just browsing around, and felt like I could offer a huge tip...That is so weird... I moved in and my new roommate's response was "why do you have so many trashcans?" I have 4 myself, not including the ones she had too. | /r/seduction | 08/03/13 12:05 AM |
| 4 | How tall are you and how does it affect your "game"?6'3" C-C-C-C-OMBO B-B-B-B-REAKER!!!! 6'4" here. Also unable to hear up here. | /r/seduction | 05/03/13 06:55 AM |
| 2 | A quick realization I had this weekend that helped me and may help others. A crappy FRPro tip: if you stick it in her before you get in, it can actually go pretty well. If she's a dry one normally it may be problematic but for the average girl it should work. If it slips out gotta start over so don't slip out. Extra points go to whoever caught a similar explanation to hot tub sex in the HBO show The Newsroom. | /r/seduction | 05/03/13 06:50 AM |
| 7 | So many dudes are screwing up Qualification: How NOT to Qualify + How to Qualify for realDude, you're my hero haha. I am completely failing to qualify people and its definitely hurting me. I'm always "interested" in people so I don't screen out too many. Looks like I have my practice cut out for me. | /r/seduction | 17/01/13 07:23 PM |
| 0 | How Do I Get A Woman to Remove her Mustache?Negging. She's already aware she has one, you're going to make her even more self conscious by pointing it out. Don't be a douche because that's exactly how you're coming across right now. | /r/seduction | 26/06/12 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, what have you all found as the best advice for staying out of the friend zone?Love this advice. Thanks for the validation. :P jkjk | /r/seduction | 26/06/12 01:13 AM |
| 2 | Why do so many people on here think confidence=assholeSorry, going to have to disagree with this as well. You totally can "just" walk into Mordor (sorry reference was obligatory) You don't need a reason to be confident. Yeah it's easier if you have something to be confident about, but its not necessary. When I first started out I had no confidence. I was a total wall flower, had trouble even introducing myself. Then I said "fuck it", punched nervousness in the throat and walked up to someone and introduced myself. Never looked back since. I had not… | /r/seduction | 23/06/12 01:45 AM |
| 3 | Why do so many people on here think confidence=assholeI think the better phrase of this is "Nice is necessary but not sufficient." Most "nice guys" are just that. Nice. Nothing more. Everyone else is more than nice. You need to be both nice and confident, among many other traits. Almost cocky to a fault. Keyword: Almost. Being nice isn't a weakness. Only being nice is though. It shows that you don't have enough confidence in your own life to prioritize it above others when it matters. It burdens the girl because generally nice guys will not do anyt… | /r/seduction | 23/06/12 01:03 AM |
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