lepanto1571xoxo Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Should women be able to vote?	Discussion	lepanto1571xoxo	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/19 07:14 PM

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1	[Q4Women] How would you react if you caught your male partner cheating on you due to a lack of sex? Would still feel betrayed but it’d be understandable. Would be sad, and initiate break up as it seems best for both involved. I would prefer if he were upfront about his frustrations	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/19 07:19 PM
1	CMV: Older man - younger woman pairings are indeed exploitative ....of the man Well what if all women have to offer in the first place is looks and fertility? Then it doesn’t matter :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/19 07:06 PM
1	Discussion: does anyone think that it's "less bad" for either men or women to cheat than the opposite? It’s equally a betrayal either way	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/19 06:59 PM
1	You cannot be pro-male and pro-female. The sexual and relationship market places are a zero sum game. To want better for one sex, is to want things to be worse for the other. You can trust when you realize that people have non sexual market place related motives. If you can’t trust them as a man/woman at least you can trust them as a human being. There comes a point in a relationship where two people love and like each other in a way that transcends sexual attraction, without excluding it. Perhaps one or both could do “better” but that’s not the point. They share something that can’t be quantified or replicated, and would never throw that away. Imo a good relationshi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/19 06:57 PM
3	You cannot be pro-male and pro-female. The sexual and relationship market places are a zero sum game. To want better for one sex, is to want things to be worse for the other. No one used to think of it this way. For most of history, men and women permanently joined their fates together at an early age through marriage. Only with an increasing number of men and women living separately for several decades of their early lives, do the sexes think of themselves as separate voting blocks with completely separate interests. This is not the reality. Everyone pretty much wants the same thing—to be happy, respected, and fulfilled in their relationships. Sure there is a supply…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/19 07:35 PM
2	Q4W - Do you care about the n count of your male SO? Yes I care. I want someone who sees sex as a way to connect and express love, not a recreational activity. I want someone who can be faithful, make commitments, and practice self control. I don’t wanna be one in a long list of flings. Generally anything above 5/6 gives me pause. Context matters tho. 6 relationships is better than 3 random hookups.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/19 03:26 AM
2	Almost nobody loves other people unconditionally, love is always connected to conditions There’s a difference between love being transactional and it being conditional. Non transactional love exists, many people sacrifice for those they love and receive little in return. Love is not just exploitation or exchange, it defies economic reasoning. Unconditional love does not exists. Even with the most giving partner, you still need to be yourself and be the person they fell in love with. You can’t just check out. Even if they aren’t getting a fair trade, the partner needs to be getting s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/19 02:40 AM
1	Why is being taken care of and provided for not seen as a privilege? Because being constantly taken care of harms you. A fed duck doesn’t know how to hunt for itself. A pet can’t survive in the wild. One of the best ways to subjugate someone is to make them dependent. Also work provides meaning for a lot of people. Not saying SAHMs are oppressed but it might feel oppressive if it was your only option	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/19 02:32 AM
1	The best thing a 'top tier' man can do for society is to find a quality woman and engage in monogamy. Good on you for finding a woman you’re compatible with and care about. But if you think so highly of her and her values, why would you be afraid to marry her? Why wouldn’t you want to give her assurance that you’ll stick around after her looks fade and she gave you your children and the most valuable years of her life? Honestly curious. I don’t know many young family minded women who don’t want marriage on some level. When she says she doesn’t want marriage, I doubt she is being honest Also the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/19 01:00 AM
1	Marriage / Engagement Discussion Timeline That’s a good sign, I’m sure things will work out well for you both :)	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/19 03:47 PM
10	Marriage / Engagement Discussion Timeline Just bring up how excited you are for it, and see if he matches your level of excitement.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/01/19 09:16 PM
2	Morality and character are secondary complements compared to wealth, appearance & social status. Do you agree or disagree? Attraction and shared values are both important and I don’t think you can have a long term relationship without either. But you can be attracted to someone who is, say, objectively a 6/10 and have a fine marriage, but your marriage is gonna be hell if you only agree on 60% of important values-related things	/r/RedPillWomen	22/01/19 04:21 AM
1	how to show him I care? Second this. My boyfriend really appreciates calf/foot massages after he comes back from a run.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/01/19 04:14 AM