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| 14 | I (21M) made a date (20F) uncomfortable through text. How can I apologize/ fix it? | Conversation | lepremierhomme | /r/seduction | 23/06/20 11:18 PM |
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| 1 | I (21M) made a date (20F) uncomfortable through text. How can I apologize/ fix it?UPDATE: https://imgur.com/a/JTHtASv Hey, I was wondering how I should address this. She initiated kissing the second time so I think she is retrospectively questioning if it was the right (though she seemed really into it at the time). We live in a more conservative religious area btw. I feel that and my subsequent texts might be why she is questioning herself. | /r/seduction | 29/06/20 06:27 PM |
| 1 | I (21M) made a date (20F) uncomfortable through text. How can I apologize/ fix it?UPDATE: https://imgur.com/a/JTHtASv Hey, I was wondering how I should address this. She initiated kissing the second time so I think she is retrospectively questioning if it was the right (though she seemed really into it at the time). We live in a more conservative religious area btw. I feel that and my subsequent texts might be why she is questioning herself. | /r/seduction | 29/06/20 06:26 PM |
| 1 | I (21M) made a date (20F) uncomfortable through text. How can I apologize/ fix it?UPDATE: https://imgur.com/a/JTHtASv Hey, I was wondering how I should address this. She initiated kissing the second time so I think she is retrospectively questioning if it was the right (though she seemed really into it at the time). We live in a more conservative religious area btw. I feel that and my subsequent texts might be why she is questioning herself. | /r/seduction | 29/06/20 06:26 PM |
| 1 | I (21M) made a date (20F) uncomfortable through text. How can I apologize/ fix it?UPDATE: https://imgur.com/a/JTHtASv Hey, I was wondering how I should address this. She initiated kissing the second time so I think she is retrospectively questioning if it was the right (though she seemed really into it at the time). We live in a more conservative religious area btw. I feel that and my subsequent texts might be why she is questioning herself. | /r/seduction | 29/06/20 06:26 PM |
| 1 | I (21M) made a date (20F) uncomfortable through text. How can I apologize/ fix it?UPDATE: https://imgur.com/a/JTHtASv Hey, I was wondering how I should address this. She initiated kissing the second time so I think she is retrospectively questioning if it was the right (though she seemed really into it at the time). We live in a more conservative religious area btw. I feel that and my subsequent texts might be why she is questioning herself. | /r/seduction | 29/06/20 06:26 PM |
| 1 | I (21M) made a date (20F) uncomfortable through text. How can I apologize/ fix it?UPDATE: https://imgur.com/a/JTHtASv Hey, I was wondering how I should address this. She initiated kissing the second time so I think she is retrospectively questioning if it was the right (though she seemed really into it at the time). We live in a more conservative religious area btw. I feel that and my subsequent texts might be why she is questioning herself. | /r/seduction | 29/06/20 06:24 PM |
| 1 | I (21M) made a date (20F) uncomfortable through text. How can I apologize/ fix it?Yeah, you're right about that. I feel especially stupid because she was already down and I never bring up sexual things through text unless the girl does. But I tried it because I saw some videos about improving text game on a Youtube channel called Playing With Fire. The guy gives pretty useful advice but I just applied incorrectly here. Edit* After making out a bit I could tell she liked it so I pulled back (push/pull). She's a college student living with our parents for the summer and had a c… | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 10:07 PM |
| 1 | I (21M) made a date (20F) uncomfortable through text. How can I apologize/ fix it?I think I escalated okay. We made out and then she made brought up how she liked the way I carried her and how it seemed "dominate." The only reason I tried to get sexual through text was because I read some posts on how it leads to open discussion about sex and builds excitement for the next meetup etc. I'm not texting too much. Actually, before the 1st date she told me she didn't feel comfortable going out so I had to call her to build trust and comfort. You're right though in that I should ha… | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 07:43 PM |
| 1 | I (21M) made a date (20F) uncomfortable through text. How can I apologize/ fix it?the poisoning of the drink joke sounds a little rapey (unless there's context that I'm missing) Haha its something we joked about on our date. But I definitely agree, it was a stupid thing to bring up regardless. I was thinking of saying "hey Maria this is Uber support, I wanted to see if we can discuss your last riding experience." Its part of a running joke we have since I drive for Uber sometimes. I feel it'll get a response. On the other hand, I can say "Hey our first date was fun and the se… | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 04:19 AM |
| 1 | I (21M) made a date (20F) uncomfortable through text. How can I apologize/ fix it?what about Saturday night? Be ready Saturday night. This is bold and could work but I doubt she'd answer right now. I'll need to rekindle the interest first. | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 01:38 AM |
| 1 | I (21M) made a date (20F) uncomfortable through text. How can I apologize/ fix it?I can see why it looks like that but I am talking with other chicks and everything. The thing is a few months ago I was in a situation where I went out with a girl who was also in to me but then fucked it up by too gamey. So I keep getting these high value girls that I have chemistry with and then fucking it up by coming across as a fuckboy or something. BTW she was uncertain. She asked texted me after our date asking if I thought we had chemistry and basically said we need to give it more time.… | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 01:32 AM |
| 2 | I (21M) made a date (20F) uncomfortable through text. How can I apologize/ fix it?It's a bit strange and too sexual in the context. I think this girl already thought I was a bit of fuckboy so in getting sexual I confirmed it to her. There's good ways to apply sexual banter through text but I just did it wrong and scared her off. | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 12:45 AM |
| 1 | I (21M) made a date (20F) uncomfortable through text. How can I apologize/ fix it?Thanks for the response and yeah I can see how its a strange/cringe. I was thinking of saying "hey Maria this is Uber support, I wanted to see if we can discuss your last riding experience." Its part of a running joke we have since I drive for Uber sometimes. It seems a bit more casual then what yours and then I can address it once we talk. I was going to wait a week but maybe a few days should do it. | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 12:41 AM |
| 4 | I (21M) made a date (20F) uncomfortable through text. How can I apologize/ fix it?Fair enough. I know it comes across like that but on the date I escalated well and she was the one qualifying herself. I just think it came across as too sexual too soon. It wasn't suave and I don't want to be labeled a horny freak. She had been very responsive before and then I fucked it up. I'm trying to learn from this so I don't fuck up again. edit spelling | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 12:36 AM |
| 1 | I (21M) made a date (20F) uncomfortable through text. How can I apologize/ fix it?Normally yeah but I think I gave off too much horny/fuck boy vibes. I passed all of her shit tests in person but over text I came across as weird in general. She didn't answer my last whereas before she would initiate so I gotta work on getting her interest and regaining frame. | /r/seduction | 23/06/20 11:57 PM |
| 5 | I (21M) made a date (20F) uncomfortable through text. How can I apologize/ fix it?I mostly said it to jokingly flirt and because on our 1st date she said she liked that I was dominant etc. so I thought sexual topics were okay. If she doesn't ghost I'll try to recover. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 23/06/20 11:40 PM |
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