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In an age where teenagers record all sorts of dumb shit on their phones, they couldn't record themselves doing it with a hot teacher....what a useless generation.
/r/MensRights15/06/17 03:07 PM
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Thanks, man. You've been more than helpful. The only way I'm going to answer my own questions is if I go out there again and try it myself, can't hide behind my screen forever.
/r/seduction13/05/14 08:36 PM
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I find that I bore myself out of the conversation when I ask about what she does, where she lives or went to school...sometimes I have nothing really good to say, so I start talking about that boring stuff for lack of a better idea. I just want to rail her without going through the 'small talk'. My friend says I should just tell her that if that's how I feel. Because that's actually being honest with my intent. Sound about right?
/r/seduction13/05/14 07:57 PM
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Actually, they are usually very sexist or racist, but because I don't take those things seriously- I find them comical because they're ridiculous yet true when you pause and think about it, kind of what people are thinking but will never say. I guess I get confused on whether I'm expressing myself or saying it purposely to 'not give a shit' or get a rise out of her.
/r/seduction13/05/14 07:54 PM
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Can you tell me more about picking up towards closing time? I DJ so I'm literally around at the end of the night, and I always notice a few stragglers.
/r/seduction13/05/14 03:58 PM
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Would getting a hooker and doing the deed just to get it over with help?
/r/seduction13/05/14 03:56 PM
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Not the response I wanted to hear, but one I needed. Looking inward, sometimes my actual thoughts are pretty messed up if I said them out loud, and I'm afraid I'll offend people- and they probably will. But I mask my true thoughts and feelings with 'politeness' and 'being nice' because I feel like they can't handle the truth. Either that or I overshoot and become too much of an asshole. Anyway, you've given me a lot to think about.
/r/seduction13/05/14 03:55 PM
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What did you do to resolve them?
/r/seduction13/05/14 04:18 AM
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I guess it's just that we fixed all the symptoms but never actually addressed the mindset operating behind it. At the end of the day, the girls can still see right through us. I feel like they can smell my bullshit, but when it comes to the assholes, they can't smell theirs. I actually felt like I fixed the disease but the symptoms are still there. If you feel like reading, this is the rant of how I've been feeling lately: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/25deik/a_rant_about_selfimprov…
/r/seduction12/05/14 10:38 PM
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I have a lot of trouble with this. Most of the time, I don't even know if the words coming out of my mouth are an extension of my true feelings, or I've been conditioned by society so much I can't tell the difference or when I'm being too 'safe' and filtered. Guess my question is, how do I turn off my filter when it comes to women? (Filter is necessary in things like say, my job).
/r/seduction12/05/14 10:34 PM
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You are creating a false dichotomy between "PUA" and self-improvement. PUA means picking up girls and having sex with them. Seduction is not incompatible with honesty or self-improvement. Are the two really separate or do they go hand-in-hand? If they're separate then that means I am successful at life, but I suck at women.
/r/seduction12/05/14 10:33 PM
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At the very least, put steps to an outcome you want clearly in your mind, and avoiding actions that deviate from the path to that outcome. Can you elaborate on that? Curious.
/r/seduction12/05/14 10:31 PM
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What about some people who say by working on yourself and 'inner game' first, you naturally use the techniques because it's a result of the confident, attractive behavior you've developed. In other words, they no longer are techniques, more of a natural game kind of thing. PS- I have no clue what I'm talking about, seriously. If I did, I'd be getting laid.
/r/seduction12/05/14 10:30 PM
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I feel like I have been passed over so much that I have little to no regard for how they feel like if I'm leading one on if she wants a relationship. If she likes me and sleeps with me, then I'm not responsible for her expectations beyond that as long as mine are met. I know that makes me sound like an asshole and a very unhealthy way to live but I'd rather take fast food than look through the garbage and starve every day.
/r/seduction12/05/14 10:28 PM
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Read Models by Mark Manson. He was a former PUA gunslinger and got tired of the same things. He teaches you how to get quality IN quantity.
/r/seduction10/05/14 10:50 PM
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Read No More Mr. Nice Guy. What you thought PUA 'solved' was really a band-aid solution to deeper issues. Issues that can only be fixed by improving your life without women. The book talks about the layers of a cake. The four main ingredients are: have at least one healthy social circle of guy friends (could just be 2-3 guys - no girls allowed), strenuous exercise (weightlifting, running), have a career you enjoy, and have/perform a passion/hobby you love. Women are not part of the ingredients, …
/r/seduction10/05/14 06:22 PM
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This is just my opinion, but I've followed RSD for a bit and realized their ways are not really for me. It complicates the process and makes picking up girls a stressful, mechanical, and inorganic experience. And for very good reason. They are a business and can only benefit from making you feel like you have more to learn. I've read a lot of stuff, some helpful, some not, but I found the best teacher is yourself and to go out and figure it out on your own without sticking to a plan, but using w…
/r/seduction10/05/14 06:14 PM
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I actually meet with a No More Mr. Nice Guy group every two weeks and I brought up the same exact things. I said, "I've done the work and then some, but still aren't getting anywhere". Everything you said rang so true for me, and I thought I was the only one. It almost makes me feel like more of a failure sometimes than when I didn't try at all, because it's almost like I put my best foot forward, and it still wasn't enough. What annoys me is that guys who are more needy, less attractive, and ha…
/r/seduction08/05/14 09:33 PM
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I've been there and still have that from time to time. There's always craigslists' missed connections =]
/r/seduction08/05/14 09:03 PM
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You're on the money. When I'm inside the train I would only approach if she's giving me good signals. Mark Manson says we should not be afraid to approach because it inconveniences them, we are approaching because it's we're going for what we want and it's more important than their convenience. I think he said we're "inconveniencing ourselves by not approaching". Then again, if she is going to be non receptive as a result of being inconvenienced then I'm going to thus be inconvenienced, and it b…
/r/seduction08/05/14 09:02 PM
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Great point, I seem to forget that ultimately everyone only cares about themselves and will remember me for about 8 seconds. I guess my only excuse is I personally feel uncomfortable doing it inside the train, and is putting myself on the spot as much as putting her.
/r/seduction08/05/14 08:58 PM
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Thanks for sharing your experience. I try to remember that different things work for different people and I have to figure out what works and is comfortable for me. I've done a few headphones too but I absolutely HATE when I gesture with positive body language and a smile, and they don't take them off and give me an eyebrow raising "what do you want?" kind of look. At that point I just want to say forget it, I'm not interested in women who lack manners. What if I needed directions? At Grand Cent…
/r/seduction08/05/14 08:57 PM
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I feel like we're the same person. I started this journey a year ago and had to work my way out of approach anxiety, inhibitions and what have you. When I was in college, I had the whole college experience but I might as well have been the same as you because I just went to class, and returned to my room to play games. The parties sucked and I was emotionally closed off to my roommates despite being friends with them. To this day I have made over 500 approaches. I've approached on the street, in…
/r/seduction08/05/14 02:58 PM
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