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Just try it. Most people are too afraid to even try. Of course dont do this out of the blue but first do some lighter kino to see how she reacts. My favourite tip is staring at her lips for a few seconds and see how she reacts.
/r/seduction02/12/17 01:55 PM
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Since you are going to a rave id suggest just frequenting the smokers room and try meeting other girls there. Since you and probably a lot of other will be on the M making it really easy to just approach anyone and start talking(and probably even hugging) them. Also if you didn't know already it is basically impossible for a guy to have sex while on MDMA since hardly any blood goes to your wiener.
/r/seduction30/11/17 07:02 PM
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They shit-test to see if you are a fuckboy. I always replied with "No, only to the cute ones" and then a smirk, worked great.
/r/seduction19/11/17 08:17 PM
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You can read up on all that today. No excuse not to know. Do you have any good sources for this? Most stuff find is clickbaity, cosmo-like advice.
/r/seduction08/11/17 02:59 PM
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Yes I meant that you should stare at their lips once you feel like she could be ready for the kiss, it is a great way to see if she is ready for it.
/r/seduction05/11/17 06:21 PM
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What works great for me is just stare at her lips for a few seconds and then look back into her eyes while sort of smirking. See how she reacts. You could even tease the girl by doing this multiple times in a row without going for the kiss. This drives them mad and sometimes even makes them engage the kiss.
/r/seduction05/11/17 11:29 AM
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Yes we made out before that(we made out the first time we met even). But you have to keep the attraction high right? Also she is still a virgin(we are both 19) so she wants to take things slower which I am fine with
/r/seduction28/10/17 04:35 PM
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What do you mean with that?
/r/seduction28/10/17 04:15 PM
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Of course not, but what is the harm in texting anyway, at worst I am still improving on my textgame(which is pretty weak). She comes over to the city where I study and she seems into me so I just want to stay in touch untill she comes over.
/r/seduction16/10/17 06:50 PM
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I am not looking into a relation, just kind of trying to keep her interested until I get the chance to do her tbh
/r/seduction16/10/17 04:29 PM
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What works best for myself is going to parties(mainly open parties or just going to the club/bar) and approaching there. I feel like most interest is generated through good kino/eye contact rather than through words. For the kino just start with high fives and occasional taps on the shoulder and see how they react to that, if they are not creeped out by that take it a step further and repeat.
/r/seduction16/10/17 09:44 AM
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I think he means, no matter what you look like there will be always some girls that are attracted to your niche of looks.
/r/seduction15/10/17 06:07 PM
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Why don't you have succes with girls? Do you not approach enough girls? Are you not aggressive enough with the flirting? You probably want to start approaching more girls and then build from there. I feel like the most important aspects to start working on are: Eye contact, Kino(physical escalation) and posture(this should be fine assuming you work out). The confidence will come after approaching enough
/r/seduction15/10/17 10:52 AM
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Your problem isn't having onenitis, it are all the reasons you named yourself. you think too low of yourself and have zero confidence. Read some of the self-development post on this subreddit, start going to the gym and pick up new hobbies(preferably ones where you get to socialize with others)
/r/seduction29/09/17 10:42 AM
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Seduction went through some major changes. It is not about manipulating girls, it is about improving yourself and increasing the number of girls you talk to(which naturally also leads to more hook-ups). There is a part of seduction about how to talk to women, which is not manipulating. It is just how women want to be talked to(otherwise it wouldn't be effective). Also why care what your virgin brother says? What foundation does he have to call you out if he isn't succesfull with girls himself.
/r/seduction27/09/17 09:17 PM
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I agree with this. Ultimately you have built up the escalation to a point where it just feels natural to go for the kiss as the next step. I think saying "can I kiss you" would be a sign of validation seeking behaviour/insecuirity which could be a mood killer.
/r/seduction27/09/17 09:14 PM
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Based on my experiences and this sub the anwser probably would be: For shops/in public(or daygame in general) it is probably more effective to go for a direct approach. making clear why you are approaching her rather than talking around it with some random small talk. For the gym it would be the best to just socialise with everyone in the gym and not just girls. This way it will seem natural and less creepy when you chat a girl up. For bar/night club you could go a bit more casual/non-direct wit…
/r/seduction26/09/17 05:26 PM
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All looks well so far, I guess. Maybe you were acting a bit needy towards the end? IMO someone with true abundance/natural game would say something like "We won't do anything you are not comfortable with" but still continue teasing her. The text she sent you afterwards are enough of a confirmation she is still very into you though
/r/seduction25/09/17 06:33 PM
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It is really good in my opinion some real solid advice. Me and a friend benefited greatly from it though it might be a bit lengthy and repetitive sometimes.
/r/seduction18/09/17 08:14 PM
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Alright that brings some context. I live in europe and people hardly take pictures at least while on the dancefloor. for myself I kind of try and not use my phone completely while im out in town(except for taking numbers of course)
/r/seduction17/09/17 06:05 PM
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Am i the only one weirded out by OP taking pictures all the time? if i were a girl and suddenly this guy would insist on taking a picture i would either assume he is massive validation seeking of he is going to mastrubate to them when he gets home. Could this be a reason for them leaving after a while?
/r/seduction16/09/17 08:31 AM
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Show her you are not okay with this. I would have probably straight up tell her that i am not going to play game or just would have walked away and chill with some other people at the venue ignoring her.
/r/seduction15/09/17 06:04 PM
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As stated in the OP, Models by Mark Manson is so good. I finished it 2 weeks ago and learned so much despite through this book even though being into pick-up for a few months already. I am reading How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie at the moment and I like it. It is more focused on socialising and business but it explains the basic foundation for social skills well.
/r/seduction11/09/17 01:38 PM
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Thanks for liking it. The ending is probably less of a succes. We kissed a few times(and in hindsight i could have gone further but was too scared/oblivious). But it was still such a great night and milestone for me since it was my first kiss and the first time where I was actually really satisfied with my game. Anyways. Just go for it! People at festivals/similair events are often way more excited and open to party. Just don't focus solely on "wow im at a social event, I got to talk to girls no…
/r/seduction10/09/17 08:20 PM
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Last week I was at a festival somewhere around college. I was pretty tipsy and pretty hyped because some suprising good band had just played. I saw a girl somewhat glancing my way, normally I would have thought about approaching but wait for the right time or anything which usually ends up to nothing. This time I though "Dude this girl is totally glancing at my way because she wants to talk to me and more ;)" and just straight up walked up to her and we had a great night together. I think this w…
/r/seduction10/09/17 08:09 PM
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Why would a girl fake being into it while at a festival where she could also be having fun with her friends
/r/seduction06/09/17 08:34 PM
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I can tell that at the moment at least the last one was very much into it so this can't bethe reason
/r/seduction06/09/17 07:28 PM
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Agreed, so basically not put in so much effort that it hurts, problem solved. I don't know but sometimes I feel like I like a girls personality so much that it already hurts letting her go after one or a few dates. EDIT: I was thinking if having abundance would remove this, I don't think so. Some girls are superior in terms of your subjective attraction. So if you meet someone who is top-tier then it could still hurt even though abundance. The only situation where this isn't valid is when you ha…
/r/seduction06/09/17 06:25 PM
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Next time I'll try this. In what do you mean "thinking about you"? she will think about me anyway but I guess will get more feelings of doubt if you don't text right away?
/r/seduction06/09/17 11:03 AM
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like i said somewhere else: "I got her number after like 15 minutes of interaction because i already knew she would give it. after this we talked for another 3 hours and did some kissing so im definetelly not some random dude"
/r/seduction06/09/17 08:46 AM
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I got her number after like 15 minutes of interaction because i already knew she would give it. after this we talked for another 3 hours and did some kissing so im definetelly not some random dude
/r/seduction06/09/17 08:46 AM
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I met all of them through cold approaches in nightgame. spend 1-3 hours with them and k-closed this one.
/r/seduction06/09/17 08:44 AM
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Since it is a college(assuming it is a university) im gonna go with Eindhoven or Delft maybe?
/r/seduction05/09/17 09:55 PM
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what do you mean? the pictures on whatsapp?
/r/seduction05/09/17 09:49 PM
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ugh thanks i was this close to writing an apology for something i thought i messed up. is there any situation where you can reply without seeming desperate? I think i may have messed up by telling her friends she bit my tongue a lot which I was unaware was a sign she wanted to go further
/r/seduction05/09/17 08:45 PM
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pretty confident it did. If only i'd known before. well lets hope next time i meet here things will go further ;)
/r/seduction05/09/17 12:35 PM
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like i said above not an accident and she did it multiple times and then bit my lip once. what i found weird was that she never wanted to do 'normal' kissing
/r/seduction05/09/17 10:14 AM
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definetely not an accident. she bit on it 3 seperate times and once on the lip
/r/seduction05/09/17 07:26 AM
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Those seem more like shittest but it is hard to tell through text. Maybe you want to make some more smalltalk since you never even talked to her on the bus?
/r/seduction30/08/17 11:38 AM
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Yes i had somewhat the same situation. I just told myself "okay I should have done that, but now I know ill do it the next time" and tried to move on.
/r/seduction26/08/17 07:17 PM
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