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Looks are one part of things. If you lack confidence it will negate your good looks pretty fast. You need preselection and social proofs to help out the looks. If you are not a good talker it negates your looks. However if you have looks your job is easier... But that is easily negated.
/r/seduction29/12/19 06:40 PM
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You start indirect comment on what they are doing and ask what muscle groups they are training... Really anything it doesn't matter so much. Then soon as possible make it look like you just realized they are cute and say, wow... You're cute, like a cat. Then immediately ask another question or make a comment. Sounds corny but there is something about that phrase that works wonders. You only get a bad reputation if you do it too much so for me its not the main place. One or two should be fine. Ma…
/r/seduction10/09/19 11:38 PM
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Tinder suks butternuggets get em cold approach in the daytime
/r/seduction06/09/19 10:56 PM
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Look up how to get out of the friend zone on youtube.
/r/seduction04/09/19 03:25 AM
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Everyone gets rejected... Remember that. Nobody is attractive to absolutely everyone.
/r/seduction04/09/19 01:47 AM
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Malls, grocery stores, gym anywhere women are! You totally dont need a busy street, just a relatively busy place people have to go to. Some prefer indirect approach in smaller communities. If you go for loads of same day lays, you will run out of targets and people willfigureout what you are doing so keep that in mind.
/r/seduction04/09/19 01:44 AM
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Its just a numbers game. Even if you just say whatever random shit do it enough and you will get laid. Ignore the weird ones and don't expect too much from ioi's they mean almost nothing. Try doing it with no ioi.
/r/seduction25/08/19 06:56 PM
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I think its dumb necause nobody talks nc of the headphones. I flag them down and make a statement about what I see. But yeah the headphones piss me off I never wear them.
/r/seduction27/07/19 09:18 PM
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Get into daygame... Youtube search it. The idea is you approach lots of girls and start talking. Over time your anxiety diminishes so you feel confident to have conversations with anyone. Its the only real fix that gets to the root of your problem.
/r/seduction22/07/19 02:27 AM
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Start small if you both are uncomfortable. Tell her "I sometimes go to starbucks for 10 min after work, come with me"
/r/seduction21/07/19 04:23 PM
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Thats average more or less. Ju$t bang hard and choke her a little and pull her hair.
/r/seduction21/07/19 04:14 PM
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Keep doing what you are doing as long as you direct approach like that you WILL see results
/r/seduction19/07/19 04:14 AM
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Dont be to agreable. Disagree and say you dont like stuff you really dont like. Dont use an upward inflection in yourvoice. Tease her by making mild fun of her with a big smirk. Toms videos explain it all
/r/seduction11/07/19 11:49 PM
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Don't be sweet or nice. That's dull and boring and kills attraction because you are always playing it safe and not teasing or disagreeing with her. Don't go too far on the teasing it has limits.... You have to know what you are doing. Get into daygame and approach random girls on the street or shops.
/r/seduction07/07/19 05:09 AM
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Approach random women and realize yoy dont get rejected because of looks itsbecause of your not confident behavior. Get into daygame it will teach you all the stuff
/r/seduction07/07/19 03:41 AM
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Dude no don't ever be the nice guy. Nice plays everything safe. Nice is dull... Boring. Look up tom torero on youtube and follow that. Good luck!
/r/seduction07/07/19 03:38 AM
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And yet how many guys are too afraid to approach a girl and when they do they look liked scared little puppies and wonder why they get rejected and blame their looks not their lack of belief in themselves...
/r/seduction07/07/19 03:30 AM
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Your texts have to be minimal and only raise them if she does
/r/seduction06/07/19 05:24 PM
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Daygame is well noted for tons of rejections. Each one makes you stronger. Some will be successful though and it makes it all worth it.
/r/seduction06/07/19 05:21 PM
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Girl already has guy figured out before convo takes place. Approach a girl from the veryfirst with confidence or not at all.
/r/seduction06/07/19 05:14 PM
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Warm up by just starting saying Hi... I just want to say that you look very nice... Have a nice day and then go. After a while just choose one to keep at it and progress from your opener to your stack. Use your stack to get the topic and converse about using assumptions and then a question alternating between the two.
/r/seduction06/07/19 02:23 AM
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Its in a series called daygame dynamo... Should be a link in the description.
/r/seduction06/07/19 02:16 AM
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I think there's a whole lot you stil need to learn about girls. With touching start with really light stuff then slowly let it get more sensual then go for some kissing. That could lead to sex. If you get last minute rejection, agree and say this is happening too fast and keep making out. A lot of the stuff pickup artists do is very useful when dealing with girls. The more you look into it the more you will find that screwing up just one small thing can ruin everything. I reccomended going throu…
/r/seduction06/07/19 02:11 AM
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Daygame: https://youtu.be/Q-Sehh-yD-c
/r/seduction06/07/19 01:58 AM
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I hate clubs too. Screw clubs and bars.... Get into daygame its awesome for introverts. You get lots of rejections bit when you hit paydirt it's awesome and totally worth it.
/r/seduction06/07/19 01:57 AM
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Get into daygame and it will change your life https://youtu.be/Q-Sehh-yD-c
/r/seduction04/07/19 08:46 PM
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Go watch this seies on his channels... He explains it all better than I can. The series is called daygame dynamo.
/r/seduction25/06/19 09:54 AM
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Oh and heres a link https://youtu.be/Q-Sehh-yD-c
/r/seduction25/06/19 12:51 AM
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Learn how to seduce girls using daygame it will solve all of these problems.
/r/seduction25/06/19 12:50 AM
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The best way to do that is get into daygame and have lots of women so it wont matter
/r/seduction25/06/19 12:29 AM
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Hes also got a ton of good stuff in his podcasts i listen to it while driving to work lol
/r/seduction24/06/19 11:53 PM
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Stacking is a topic you use or create. A stack MUST NOT be a question. It is a statement. An easy rule to use for a good stack is "say what you see". You look european... You are from Norway aren't you? A good stack leads to the vibing phase where you tell a flirty little story about the topic. There are four videos you need to go through in this series. Put pen to paper and start making up your own little lines and stories as you go. It will all become clear
/r/seduction24/06/19 11:49 PM
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Dude yeah get a plan... I avoid bars and stick to stores, malls, the street, parks, etc. Develop solid game. Learn to "not hide your dick" and flirt and tease. Avoid too many questions, make half of what you say statements or assumptions. Repeatback to her what she said. Don't forget kino escalation to get them aroused. Have a solid structure first like this: https://youtu.be/Q-Sehh-yD-c
/r/seduction24/06/19 03:56 AM
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You lack escalation techniques. Check out Tom Torero's youtube channel. Get to be more of an artist with your game. Escallation uses kino escalation look it up on youtube.
/r/seduction24/06/19 03:50 AM
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I had the same problem two youtube channels helped. FarAboveAverage and Tom Torero. You are mr niceguy thats a big problem. https://youtu.be/Q-Sehh-yD-c
/r/seduction24/06/19 03:46 AM
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I had an idea yesterday about non responders... Create an event and invite all and as them to bring a boyfriendor friend. You need about 6 girls to get this to work. The girls will realize that they all know YOU and this will result into them being attracted to you. Play with them all try to kick back with your arms around 3 or 4 of them.
/r/seduction24/06/19 02:21 AM
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The complement in the video is perfect not too much not too little. You never stop with just the compliment though it will leave them high on the princess pedestal. So go straight into the stack and tease just a little. Tom is one of the best out there.
/r/seduction24/06/19 02:16 AM
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Women have lots of options and dont focus on one guy. Women prefer a guy with lots of options... Its called preselection. Get your daygame going and get several girls in the mix. This will actually make her have more not less interest in you.
/r/seduction24/06/19 01:09 AM
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What helped me most is Tom Torero's youtube channel and another one called FarAboveAverage. Get into daygame by following Toms videos https://youtu.be/Q-Sehh-yD-c
/r/seduction24/06/19 01:03 AM
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Yeah and goes without saying... Dont renew and leave fast
/r/seduction24/06/19 01:01 AM
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It makes it harder to come for me... If you are an easy ejaculator and last like 2 min it might help i guess
/r/seduction23/06/19 11:23 PM
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You need to have more options and step up your daygame bro
/r/seduction23/06/19 11:22 PM
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Ok then well lesson learned is never move in w a gf. I never do this because over time the law recognises them as common law wife. Its bad news dude.
/r/seduction23/06/19 11:19 PM
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Then you dont need to chit chat... Go for it and ask just like I said.
/r/seduction23/06/19 11:10 PM
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Yeah just work on your material bro you gotta have better stuff to say than that... Maybe you just coasted because she showed interest? Still follow the rule never assume anything it messes up your game. Use a great opener, great stack, and vibe it untill the hook point.
/r/seduction23/06/19 11:05 PM
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Great its your place... Man up and kick her out. Dude you could have so many options and new pussy all the time... Step up your daygame like this https://youtu.be/Q-Sehh-yD-c
/r/seduction23/06/19 11:00 PM
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Yeah just stop with the bs comments shes already ready keep talking and you are telling her to put you in the friend zone. Stop any text for 2 days then ask her just like I said. Step up your daygame too, 10 approaches keep them 10 min long https://youtu.be/Q-Sehh-yD-c
/r/seduction23/06/19 10:57 PM
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Yeah step up your daygame 10 approaches a day every day for 10 days. Youll get the notch by then https://youtu.be/Q-Sehh-yD-c
/r/seduction23/06/19 10:53 PM
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How long have you known her
/r/seduction23/06/19 10:52 PM
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You need to get into daygame. Approaching random girls you dont know cools down the anxiety. Focus on the fundamentals and fix anything as you go. Anxious adhd people like myself thrive doing daygame. This and other vids will help https://youtu.be/Q-Sehh-yD-c
/r/seduction23/06/19 07:50 PM
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Dude leave your roomate alone. You have no other women so focusing on one makes you look needy. Get more girls using daygame... Look into this stuff: https://youtu.be/Q-Sehh-yD-c
/r/seduction23/06/19 07:46 PM
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You need to have a game structure and some material to keep things going. You need some memorized routines like "strawberry fields" and teases to spike things up. And you need good solid daygame skills. Use this guy, not the one you mentioned https://youtu.be/Q-Sehh-yD-c
/r/seduction23/06/19 07:42 PM
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Why care? You should have multiple options if you approach women regularly in public.
/r/seduction23/06/19 07:39 PM
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Toxic relationships happen because you allow it. One powerful tool we have to keep women in line is the power and threat of walking away. You have not used it and are still afraid to use it now. Use it and stop being so weak.
/r/seduction23/06/19 07:37 PM
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"Lets do drinks Wednesday" Dont ask permission. Request. Looks much better than pussy niceguy "hey can we do drinks thursday?" Omfg The more girls you have at once the better you need to get more otherwise you look needy and desperate
/r/seduction23/06/19 07:34 PM
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Your game is all rapport. You come across as a friend and hide what you really want. Get back to the basics and use the attraction phase of daygame and flirt and tease dont be mr friendly niceguy. The basics include attraction as you see in this vid https://youtu.be/Q-Sehh-yD-c
/r/seduction23/06/19 07:29 PM
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"Three of my favorate things, lol" You must already know her because right here she looks ready to meet up but you just keep talking. Bad move. You were ready to counter with... "Great lets do it next week Im open tuesday or thursday" Get more girls too so she knows you have other options... It makes them want you more, not less light you might expect. Get more using daygame like this: https://youtu.be/Q-Sehh-yD-c
/r/seduction23/06/19 07:23 PM
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Its a test to check out how you value yourself and your confidence. Shes also looking at your game skills. You waited too long to approach... Five second rule... You had nothing interesting to say... No game... You ejected... No balls and confidence. Failed in pretty much every area right there. Get your game up to snuff. https://youtu.be/Q-Sehh-yD-c
/r/seduction23/06/19 06:59 PM
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Get into daygame. All of the hobbies and stuff ate nice but waste time. Chat up girls on the street using daygame. You live in a perfect area for it. Go through this stuff and get your daygame going. https://youtu.be/Q-Sehh-yD-c THIS is all you need to change your life, if you do it, it will.
/r/seduction23/06/19 06:49 PM
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Look up daygame on youtube Tom Torero is the best one.
/r/seduction01/06/19 01:43 AM
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Horny energy is the best incentive to approaching women.
/r/seduction22/05/19 11:08 PM
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Its all in your voice tone and expression on your face... If you are tentative and unsure of yourself yah creepy af
/r/seduction21/05/19 11:17 AM
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I open by coming up to them and stopping them or approach them sitting down and say "Hey I just saw you back there (point where youcame from) and wanted totell you.... You look reallynice" say itlow and slow looming deep into their eyes
/r/seduction20/05/19 10:25 PM
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Have structure to your game. Memorize a couple of flirty stories to tell. Use the same lines for every girl you talk to but switch them around a bit to fit each person. Do you watch any pua channels on youtube to help your game?
/r/seduction20/05/19 10:21 PM
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Does that sound normal to you? I hope not. Hopefully shes just testing you girls do that to see if you have the nuts to stand up to them.
/r/seduction20/05/19 04:56 AM
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It's not odd just asexual but make sure to find someone that feels the same if you feel the need to have a partner. I've known people online that married an asexual partner and it caused lots of pain.
/r/seduction20/05/19 04:53 AM
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Honestly I think you need to get your inner self sorted out first. I think there's things you need to know about women and how to handle them before you proceed. I would look at Tom Toreros video but then listen to his podcasts on his youtube channel. I see a number of problems in the way you are dealing with this girl and even if you get her there's still going to be problems you will face with women down the road. You arent even sure how much you like this girl right now. I say getyourself sor…
/r/seduction20/05/19 12:28 AM
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Looks like she wasnt ready for sex yet. Intetesting that she was the one escalating flirting. Next time make sure that is you the one that escalates. For sex women need to be led up to it by verbal then physical escalation. If you really want a girl let your intentions known. Its hard if you are not sure in the beginning... Maybe is better to focus on someone you are more sure about. I think you could benefit a lot from daygame and make sure to get to know a lot of women and get this stuff all s…
/r/seduction19/05/19 11:46 PM
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Looks are only a foot in the door its their confidence and communication skills that seal the deal. Ugly guys get laid too you have to play to your strengths. Look at these awkward guys with nothing picking up girls.... https://youtu.be/Q-Sehh-yD-c
/r/seduction19/05/19 07:52 PM
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If she took the cheek ones fine just slow down dont get butthurt and keep escalating the flirting. Sounds like she needs more physical flirtation to get into the mood to accept it.
/r/seduction19/05/19 07:50 PM
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Get her used to going there before hand its a psychological trick. Find some excuse like "I need to feed my fish" buy a small fishbowl with a fish in it. Or any lame excuse like that. Excuse for coming over can be "i make an awesome ceasar salad" Or want to watch a movie, have some tea or coffee desert etc. Be sure you are escalating flirting from verbal to touch during the date to make the moment right. If you get last minute resistance pre empt her like "maybe we shouldn't do this" if you sens…
/r/seduction19/05/19 07:46 PM
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Reason I ask is its really hard to say why she starts ignoring you and reverse engineer the whole thing if you didnt just say hey, why have you been ignoring me? I have found girls do the deep stare at you even after you have missed out. So its obvious if she started ignoring you something went wrong. Let's look at common mistakes. Guy starts talking to girl and is too nice... Comes across as a friend and can not escalate to flirtation. Just another indirect nice guy. From the get go a guy needs…
/r/seduction19/05/19 06:57 PM
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So girls respond to you based upon your very first interactions with them. If you come across as the friendly jokey guy you are perceived as the friend and thats it. Make your intentions known from the get go. Heres a vid on the system i use... It should be helpful even in a club setting but things can be different in that setting for sure... Still you should find it very useful. Get pen and paper out and write this stuff down. https://youtu.be/Q-Sehh-yD-c
/r/seduction19/05/19 06:25 PM
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Alright thats better lol. Have you talked to her?
/r/seduction19/05/19 06:18 PM
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Why on earth you spend a whole year into ONE girl? You have placed yourself into a position of scarcity, not one of abundance. Stop doing that. Its actually unattractive to girls. Youtube search preselection.
/r/seduction19/05/19 06:05 PM
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Dude, dont ask girls what to do. They will instantly place you into beta male catagory and the advice they give will be crap. Get a system of game. I see so many guys trying to do stuff but they are doing just whatever occurs to their mind. This stuff is counter intuitive so you are probably doing most things wrong. You need to follow a system of game which is like a scaffold while making a building. After you have lots of experience things come more naturally and the scaffolding disappears. I l…
/r/seduction19/05/19 05:59 PM
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Do you know how to be more aggressive or are you just winging it? You did do some good stuff but you can't come across as just a friend to these girls. Do you have a system of game you use?
/r/seduction19/05/19 05:43 PM
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It's a foot in the door. Being a limp wristed nice guy will get that door slammed in your face. Have the balls to approach a girl and keep her interested, the looks don't matter much.
/r/seduction19/05/19 04:59 PM
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Tell them you met at the place you first met in person.
/r/seduction19/05/19 03:00 PM
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It would be funny though lol yeah dont do that literally
/r/seduction19/05/19 02:57 PM
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Again, another guy that needs daygame. Follow this system it will help with running out of things to say. Get pen and paper write it down and make up you own shit and scenarios too. https://youtu.be/Q-Sehh-yD-c
/r/seduction19/05/19 07:38 AM
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Being a nice guy is a failed strategy. Its annoying because its insincere and also girl repellent. Be direct and let people know what you want. If you dont like something calmly say so. Dont be a jerk though most annoying thing in the world is a guy that is a jerk because his nice guy persona got shit all over. Being a nice guy ruins your confidence too. Its the cause of all your ills bro. Start walking with your head up and look people in the eyes when you talk to them. Confidence is self fulfi…
/r/seduction19/05/19 07:32 AM
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Ok ima help you out. Get pen and paper and write this all out make it your journal. Use this vid https://youtu.be/Q-Sehh-yD-c
/r/seduction19/05/19 07:12 AM
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I like feminine girls. A girl that acts and looks like a guy is a huge turn off. People always say be yourself. Wel, some years ago I would act more feminine to try to relate to girls better. It was girl repellent. Not only that, my true nature was introverted and lacking confidence and subject to feeling bad about myself. If I just accepted this was the way I am id be in a shit boat today. How we are is not always acceptable and if we choose to remain so, we have to accept the consequences.
/r/seduction19/05/19 06:49 AM
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No dont do it, you are putting yourself in the friend zone category if you do that. Be up front about your intentions from the get go. It looks like "I just saw you from over there and had to come tell you that you look really nice" look deep into her eyes and say it low and slow. End the interaction after talking about 10 min with "I have to go but I think you're very attractive and would like to meet up for drinks (or coffee) sometime next week" That way she knows what you want and assume you …
/r/seduction19/05/19 06:35 AM
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Do you have a system for your game?
/r/seduction19/05/19 06:04 AM
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Daygame is better to do alone. Pick up ladies on the street then you have girls to take to the club. Be warned if your body language is weak your girl will get stolden
/r/seduction19/05/19 05:13 AM
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You should get into daygame. You are focusing on one girl too much... That scares them off. You have to come from a position of abundance not oneitis. Even ugly guys can do this. Hetes a link i found helpful https://youtu.be/Q-Sehh-yD-c
/r/seduction19/05/19 03:58 AM
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Lol Awesome advice. Burning balls are all the motivation a guy needs
/r/seduction19/05/19 02:51 AM
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Do you watch Tom Torero's youtube channel? I was just watching him approach a girl and from the get go he brings out sexual attraction with seemingly small moves that are actually huge. Its important to start right away. https://youtu.be/phn8q5EKhtc Also I liked this vid that showed some cool things to do on a date https://youtu.be/kmZa-dtruFI
/r/seduction19/05/19 02:47 AM
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Yeah that's the problem you have to present to her what you want she isn't going to take the lead bro
/r/seduction19/05/19 01:37 AM
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You start with small verbal flirtation... A raised eybrow at something with a second sense then some more flirtation then introduce touch. Exami e jewelry tatoos etc play touch games like hold my hands while i count to ten without smiling or laughing etc escalate more by getting closer touch her hair arms etc you get the idea
/r/seduction18/05/19 08:49 PM
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Research daygame and get to picking up girls.... The more you do it yhe less relevant the old stuff will be
/r/seduction18/05/19 08:44 PM
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Maybe she wanted a lover not yet another male friend? Remember, don't hide your dick! As puas often say lol
/r/seduction18/05/19 08:43 PM
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Ah lol i just watched a youtube vid that mentioned it as current news haha
/r/seduction18/05/19 05:15 PM
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Try wheeling its fine
/r/seduction18/05/19 02:46 PM
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The media finaly found a horse to beat other than pewdiepie
/r/seduction18/05/19 02:42 PM
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Youtube search how to stop being the nice guy
/r/seduction18/05/19 02:48 AM
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Youtube search how to stop being the nice guy
/r/seduction18/05/19 02:48 AM
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This also assumes they conciously know the reason which is probably more related to female evolution, psychology, and physiology.
/r/seduction18/05/19 02:46 AM
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This also assumes they conciously know the reason which is probably more related to female evolution, psychology, and physiology.
/r/seduction18/05/19 02:46 AM
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This also assumes they conciously know the reason which is probably more related to female evolution, psychology, and physiology.
/r/seduction18/05/19 02:45 AM
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This also assumes they conciously know the reason which is probably more related to female evolution, psychology, and physiology.
/r/seduction18/05/19 02:45 AM
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You gotta look at it from the girl's point of view bro, they get hit on all the time and its always same old shit. turn those q's into assumptions/statements
/r/seduction18/05/19 02:33 AM
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You could make those questions into statements by making assumptions, which are inherently more interesting and different. I think you could really use something like this: https://youtu.be/Q-Sehh-yD-c
/r/seduction18/05/19 02:28 AM
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Do you have a plan of what to say or were you going to ask the questions of doom? Hi How are you? Are you in school? Do you come here often? Girls get asked questions like this so often they become bored when you ask them like that. I couldn't figure out why they always seemed to look like that until I researched game.
/r/seduction18/05/19 01:18 AM
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Lol yeah i look pretty crappy and im old but 15-20 rejections per phone number is worth it. Id hate to try it in a club though.
/r/seduction17/05/19 11:58 PM
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Try daygame but 6 out of 7 os good! 1 out of 10 is good i get abou 1 out of 15
/r/seduction17/05/19 07:34 PM
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Girls are very put off by lack of confidence so make sure if you feel like that fake it tiil you make it bro
/r/seduction17/05/19 07:32 PM
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Oh and if you don't already have a system for daygame you should probably get one
/r/seduction17/05/19 05:28 PM
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If she takes a day you take a day and a half... Don't yext more than she does. You probably fucked that all up
/r/seduction17/05/19 05:26 PM
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Daygame... Just dont like clubs its all preference
/r/seduction17/05/19 05:16 PM
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Id say no you already blew it youll look like a stalker. Just find some other random girl on the street to chat up
/r/seduction17/05/19 05:13 PM
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You get desinsitized to it... They cant hurt you remember that. Everone can always say no thats the worst that can happen put away the ego its steictly a numbers game
/r/seduction17/05/19 02:48 PM
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Dude fuck online dating it sucks ass. You can get better if you just approach girls on the street
/r/seduction17/05/19 01:59 PM
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You should not get oneitis go out with many girls by chatting them up on the street and geting phone numbers
/r/seduction17/05/19 01:55 PM
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Why care about what people will think of you? Now if you are doing it there every day sure but here and there every few days is just fine. Shows you have balls
/r/seduction17/05/19 01:29 AM
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You start with verbal flirting and if recieved well escalate to touch. You can start with a game where you hold her jands and she must not laugh or smile while you count to 10. Search for other games like this too. You could also hold her hand and explain the meaning of each finger etc. Keep flirting and teasing with teasing dont do it too much and you have to use push/pull. Search youtube "daygame how to escalate"
/r/seduction17/05/19 01:23 AM
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You sound like you have studied daygame a bit. Having a system or checklist of the basic stuff is important but it is also important not to go overboard with advanced techniques. Have you seen this? https://youtu.be/Q-Sehh-yD-c In the beginning just go as basic as you can. You wil be stressed and get brain freeze. If you are visibly nervous, don't be afraid to say so just say it with a smile and not all sheepish and chodey. :) I did that because I was visibly shaking, but she said wow, it takes …
/r/seduction16/05/19 01:26 AM
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Nothing wrong with oneitis if that's what you decide to do. A lot of people use Tom Torero's advice just to get a girlfriend. If you suck at communication you have to start somewhere. Tom encourages people to make up their own stuff as they progress. Confidence comes through exposure and practice and it has helped me from brain freeze and having nothing to say. To me many pua channels are very shallow but Tom goes deep into everything in his youtube podcasts.
/r/seduction16/05/19 12:59 AM
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Go tou youtube and watch Tom Torero's stuff. Many people use his advice not to be a pickup artist but to just get a girlfriend. Another interesting channel is faraboveaverage. He goes into detail about how and why eye contact in one of his videos.
/r/seduction16/05/19 12:49 AM
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I tried going slow and conversing but alas, it didn't work. Then I found pua and all the angels sang with heavenly voices from above
/r/seduction16/05/19 12:36 AM
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Lets not dismiss all pua has to offer... It stresses inner ggame and convo skills. Youtube search tom torero
/r/seduction15/05/19 07:32 PM
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How long did you wait before replying? Girls have this thing of thinking you look needy if you reply too soon. Wait 1 1/2 the amount of times it takes. If she doesn't reply leave it... Its a dead lead for whatever reason.
/r/seduction15/05/19 05:32 PM
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Too much comfort and rappirt. Make your intentions known right away but subtle. Tom Torero has some videos about it on youtube and how to spike
/r/seduction15/05/19 11:30 AM
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Meet girls on the street search london daygame model for beginners. Ditch those 3
/r/seduction15/05/19 03:12 AM
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Congrats for the guts to do it. However.. That is not game and you will face a 100% rejection ratio. Watch this... I can't believe how many people who think they know game really need to see it. https://youtu.be/Q-Sehh-yD-c THEN go and try it and you will see EVERYTHING about the interaction will turn out different even when you are turned down. I have not had an unpleasant experience yet except some that are in a hurry are annoyed but the others were flattered and sweet and let me down nicely. …
/r/seduction15/05/19 03:08 AM
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How old are ypu
/r/seduction15/05/19 01:33 AM
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You and me bubble tea tuesday (NO question mark!))
/r/seduction15/05/19 01:30 AM
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Make it a statement. Your modeling agency made you get rid of that nice thick booty you used to have. Add on the question.. Right? Personally though i refrain from comments about body parts and if asked i just say i like it. Dont feed the ego monster
/r/seduction15/05/19 01:23 AM
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Do you wait after her text or immediately send one? If she takes a day you take a day or longer. Girls have a weird thing about thinking you are meedy even if it isnt your intent
/r/seduction15/05/19 12:56 AM
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Yeah doing that about 10x gets a lay but its an average. Some have boyfriends or other guys they are in love with and chasing. I have found girls lives are complicated so flaking out is common and lays often dont stick around. Some want to but im not looking for that atm
/r/seduction15/05/19 12:46 AM
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You are obviously a horrible bitter person good luck with a personality like that
/r/seduction14/05/19 11:23 PM
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Yes.
/r/seduction14/05/19 11:15 PM
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You yourself said you now can talk to hot girls comforatably. That makes it all worth it. At first of course it is not authentic. Neither is making shit up on the spit though. Whay you gonna say? Hi how are you? What do you do for work? Where do you live? Do you have any pets? Boring. Learning real conversation skills is very valuable and thats what daygame helps with. And when you get good at teasing, flirting, and escalating.... Slaying pussy. I get a number in roughly 1 out of 15-20 and I am …
/r/seduction14/05/19 11:11 PM
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Look up daygame on youtube and watch how they do it. Tons of infield daygame for beginners out there. You CAN do it. Not being boring is a learned skill for most of us.
/r/seduction14/05/19 11:01 PM
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Maybe you ask too soon... You need to build attraction and interest first. Dont hide your dick and come accross as a friend. Let her know what your i intentions are by body language and flirtiness while talking to her. If she doesnt like the flirting part you would know theres not much point in asking for a date. Excuse yourself and approach more girls until you can get a number. Make sure your daygame technique is on point.
/r/seduction14/05/19 10:59 PM
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Thrice
/r/seduction14/05/19 10:52 PM
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Nope you are wrong take that black pill bs and throw it away. Daygamers prove every day what you are advocating is not true at all. Until you experience day gaming played well, you will never know. But if you dont want to slay any pussy, go right ahead believing that... Its your loss.
/r/seduction14/05/19 09:16 PM
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Most efficient thing is look at tom torerro's youtube channel. You can chase after that pussy or get more better pussy out there. Look in his podcasts theres one on escalation. Got it: https://youtu.be/5lqON_n1ig4 https://youtu.be/fj_i2gzu_b8 And make sure you got the basics right https://youtu.be/Q-Sehh-yD-c Go slay some pussy man
/r/seduction14/05/19 07:38 PM
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Dating apps a waste of time you need a volume of girls not just one. Daygame the streets look it up on youtube. Fake it till you make it with your confidence. Without confidence no girl will ever like you.
/r/seduction14/05/19 05:15 PM
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1 and 3 sound needy. Always take time and a half longer than them to text back. Mixed signals means your game is not on point... You are not building attraction good enough. Practice more your daygame
/r/seduction14/05/19 02:51 PM
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Noted for future reference thanks. Note to self: avoid barstools. Never liked them anyway.
/r/seduction14/05/19 02:47 PM
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Nope thats wrong cuz you look good and ive seen plenty horrible guys with hot girls. They dont go by looks like we do they look for balanced alfa traits being an asshole suggests beta and they aren't attracted to that. Stop fucking shit up by doing beta stuff man
/r/seduction14/05/19 09:51 AM
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You have a chance but you are in danger of the friend zone. Up your game or suffer the consequences. You need to spike and escalate your game.
/r/seduction14/05/19 02:54 AM
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Oh well yes i have a problem taking teasing too far and can come across as one too much push with no pull attached to it. Im not an asshole though so its not all bad. But being an asshole is just as bad as a nice guy... Both are out of balance. You better fix that brotha
/r/seduction14/05/19 02:46 AM
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Your game must be horrible. What you say is almost statistically impossible. I would only believe it if you were a needy, lacking confidence, supplicating nice guy. You look fine. I question the truthfulness of what you say though. Youtube search london daygame model maybe it will help.
/r/seduction14/05/19 01:45 AM
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You need to have the same thing by using daygame to chat girls up. You will make plenty of female friends that way. As a man we have a lot more power than many realise.
/r/seduction14/05/19 01:37 AM
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Wow I am posting this a lot.... So many need to hear this. Heres the whole routine in one video. https://youtu.be/Q-Sehh-yD-c Basicly say they look nice. Then make a statement about her... You look latina, are you from mexico? Yes? Hmm when I think of mexico I think of you, on a beach, pina colada in hand with the sun on your face. Is it with or without alcohol? Without? Oh so you're mamas good little girl With? Oh my mother warned me about girls like you... Anyway its like that watch the vid
/r/seduction14/05/19 01:31 AM
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Don't ask for the date. Don't make her set a date. Text like this: Friends rock climbing tuesday, come with me (dont use a period) She says no? Get her logistics. Text: What days are free for you? If she doesn't answer don't text back. Let her text back and get a date with someone else. Litterally get them off the street or a mall or grocery store. Btw, this is a really inefficient way of getting a date. You need to come from a position of abundance. Girls actually like a guy more if he has othe…
/r/seduction14/05/19 01:21 AM
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Being a people pleasing nice guy doesnt work. Its irritating. It backfires. Just be direct. Be balanced. An asshole is out of balance and worse than a nice guy. Stop trying to avoid conflict by being nice. I bumped into a guy at work and hes like oh sorry! I said why i bumped into you! Dont do that you are being a nice guy, then i pushed him and said are young to say sorry now? Does that make sense? Then he's like ohhhh... I get it. Girls are not attracted to nice. They like a guy that is straig…
/r/seduction14/05/19 12:44 AM
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Go on youtube and search London Daygame Model. There's nothing to be ashamed of if you go up to a girl and tell her that she looks really nice today, but if you do it all sheepish like you may get shamed. Do it with confidence and people will see you have balls. You will be a hero. Walk with your head up and look people in the eye, don't always avoid eye contact. Here I have a link https://youtu.be/Q-Sehh-yD-c
/r/seduction14/05/19 12:26 AM
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Search daygame on youtube and you will see attraction from females comes in the first moments you meet her and you have to follow specific steps to build it. The longer you wait the harder it is to build attraction later. These girls have seen you as a friend for too long. From the moment you meet a girl you have to make your intention clear. Then you build attraction. Learn daygame and get several options to think about, not just two. Dont be a friend... Be a lover. That's what they want.
/r/seduction14/05/19 12:10 AM
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I listen to Tom Torerro on youtube check his channel he has a playlist
/r/seduction14/05/19 12:00 AM
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