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Do y’all seek out women who have nothing to offer you as far as you’re concerned?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:05 PM
1

Yeah I’m not gonna date someone I’m not attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:53 PM
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None of the men on here will believe you when you say you are single and happy. They couldn’t bear the thought, and it makes them feel better to believe that single women are kicking themselves for not giving them a chance and are miserable. They cannot abide a single, happy woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 12:06 PM
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As if women back in the 1950’s weren’t self-medicating with pills and alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:59 AM
3

Personally, if I have nothing in common with a man and he can barely maintain a conversation, idc how hot he is, we’re never gonna fall in love or even get past the first few months. Being hot is a great entry point, but there has to be some depth behind that hotness in order for a relationship to happen. I don’t understand how people can build a relationship solely off physical attraction and almost nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:56 AM
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Yeah I think you do. I think almost everybody wants to be thought of as a good person. You’re giving me MGTOW vibes though so I don’t think we’re gonna see eye to eye
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 12:55 AM
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“Obviously”? Do you know this guy? Cause I don’t. This “woe is me, the world is unfair, no girls wanna sleep with me, fuck everything” attitude is not making the world any better, and not making women wanna sleep with you. It’s making the world worse, and actively repelling women. You do you, just don’t blame women for not wanting to be around you when you’re the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:36 PM
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Random strangers don’t owe me anything. I don’t expect anything out of men, especially not to “don a cape and save me”. Why are you putting words in my mouth? All I said was good men don’t do good things because they think it’ll get women to sleep with them. They do good because they are good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:34 PM
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Women can be shitty people too. There, I admitted it. I have no problem admitting this. Hell, I’ve done shitty things. Everybody has. I don’t see your point here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:31 PM
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“Why should we men do anything for you women especially when you do more to make us not want to help you”. Just curious if you think this statement reads “good man”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:28 PM
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I don’t think all guys are like that. But there are guys who are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:27 PM
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Not all men, no. But I’ve been around men before, I know what many of them are like. Just because you aren’t like that doesn’t mean other men aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:26 PM
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There’s a difference between goth and depressed, bitter, sad, dejected, and angry at the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:24 PM
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Sure, but 3 back-to-back, of not only cheating, but leaving him for another “better” man? That just seems unlikely
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:24 PM
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Well then that’s great, kudos to you. You sound like a decent guy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:23 PM
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They could not encourage it, not high five him, not call him “the man”, not make it seem like he’s cool for sleeping around and treating women poorly. They could call it out as bad behavior instead of idealizing the men who do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:36 AM
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No…there’s clearly a difference. Being “pump and dumped” is the epitome of disposable, replaceable, and only being used for sex. Her perception is not wrong in that instance. And everyone has the right to complain, I’ve never said otherwise. Complain all you want. But you can complain without blaming an entire gender for your own damage. Men have done me dirty, but I still like men. Maybe you didn’t understand my last comment, but I literally said “I don’t blame all men for the actions of a few,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:26 AM
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I think it’s just weak to use past bad experiences as excuses for present bad behavior. I do it too sometimes and it’s something I have to actively fight against. To me it sounds like you’ve given up because you’re not getting laid…aka the only reason to be a good person is if you’re getting sex out of it. That’s why I keep saying your mindset is the issue. Your framing of things will inevitably leave you feeling the way you do about yourself and other people. You’ve taken a few bad experiences …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:15 AM
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Just because your perception is that you’re disposable, replaceable, and only being used for attention/validation does not mean that any of that is true. So many men see women not wanting to sleep with them as a reflection of their own self-worth. They think women who want to be friends with them but don’t want to date them are just using them for attention/validation, when in fact those men are just using those women for potential sex. When they don’t get it, they think those women were leading…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:04 AM
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No, I think an entirely separate problem would arise. I think rapes would skyrocket, I think aggression in men would increase exponentially, I think hatred towards women would explode.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:47 AM
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So what I’m getting here is that you’re unattractive physically, have a negative outlook on life, have low self-esteem, aren’t willing to trust anyone, have kind of given up on trying to better yourself, and seem to blame women for all these things…but it’s a woman’s fault for not giving you a chance & dating/sleeping with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:44 AM
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Have you tried to…idk…better yourself? Work on fixing the things that allowed you to be taken advantage of by other people? Tried to build up resilience and self-esteem? Tried to work on your appearance and health? Identified those personality flaws that have gotten you to the mental/emotional place you seem to be in? It’s hard work, not everyone can do it. But you can’t expect people to want to be around you with this mindset/outlook. Give up if you want to, just stop outsourcing the blame. I h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:11 AM
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So this defeatist, nihilistic, “look out for number 1” attitude is working for you then? I’m not even saying women will sleep with you if you’re a good person, because that’s not the case. I’m just saying this mindset of only doing good things/being a good person in order to get laid is a serious issue. If your motivations to be good hadn’t been so that women will sleep with you, then you wouldn’t be so deeply bitter that it didn’t work. Also, maybe it didn’t work because your motivations are ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 01:31 AM
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This is the mindset of a “low value male”. Maybe being a good person didn’t get you laid (as if that should be the goal), but being a bitter person who’s given up on even trying to better themselves and the world around them will definitely not get you laid (as if that should be the goal). Basically, change your mindset & your motivation…stop looking at everything through the prism of “will this get women to pay attention to me”. As a woman, the attitude you’re projecting is repulsive. It’s simi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:57 AM
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I wonder how many men give unattractive women the time of day…how many men look past a woman’s appearance in order to learn her personality and fall in love with her heart instead of her looks? All the men I see complaining about women not giving them a chance because they aren’t good looking & tall behave the exact same way towards unattractive women. Crazy that men think women are shallow for not dating men they aren’t attracted to….I’m not gonna date a guy I don’t think is attractive just so …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:50 AM
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Yes. That’s what finding a partner is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:42 AM
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Reading shit like this makes me want to completely dissociate from the male sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:40 AM
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Did they all leave you for other men…or did they just date these men after your relationship ended? Because if you had 3 women consecutively cheat on and leave you for other men, that’s unbelievable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:34 AM
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This sounds like a way to avoid all responsibility for creating the world you want to live in, and placing it all on women. “I can’t change him, only the women he’s sleeping with can, so I won’t do anything to try. If those women fail it’s their own fault. After all, boys will be boys”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:29 AM
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This might be the crux of the issue. “Why do it if it won’t get me laid?” Because it’s the right thing to do. Good men don’t do good things because it will get them laid, they do good things because they’re good people. Good men are rare, and when you only do things because you think women will sleep with you in return for doing them, you’re not a good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:25 AM
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“Men can’t change so women need to do all the work.” It’s women’s fault when they sleep with you and it’s women’s fault when they don’t. After all, men are too dumb to override their primitive monkey brained nature. This just sounds like weaponized incompetence. Akin to “I don’t do this dishes/laundry/vacuuming right so my wife does that stuff for me now….”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:20 AM
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Was there any evidence that she was not fit to be a mother? If not and you were asking for full custody (as in the mother does not get to take the children home with her at all), then I’d get why the judge would say “kids need to be with their mom”. Cause they do, at least some of the time (if she’s a decent mom).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 07:41 AM
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Right? If I was dating a guy and found his Reddit account, and saw he was making the comments that so many guys here are making about women, I would dump him immediately. It’s such a big red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 06:25 PM
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It’s still very active today. Oh so it’s normal in South America to film the girls you’re hitting on and post it to YouTube as a tutorial for all your socially awkward followers? Thats what it’s become. And im Argentinian and Ecuadorian, so I know that what the pick up artist community is today is not “normal South American flirting”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:10 PM
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Im old? I’m 28.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:16 AM
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I’m sure that’s easier to believe for you than the fact that maybe they’re all just not that into you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 11:18 PM
13

Yeah OP has no self awareness
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:31 PM
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You sound like a terrible person. Are you active in the pickup artist community? If so, thank god those women got rescued by the “waddling hobbit”.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:30 PM
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What are you actually mad about? Not getting laid? If a guy I was hooking up with got this bitter about my friend coming and getting me (I did go to the club with her after all, you’re a stranger, she’s my friend, I probably shouldn’t have ditched her to go make out with you in a coat closet), aka cock blocking you, then thank god she did cause that is not attractive at all on your part and is a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:26 PM
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For women who get crazy periods, they should be allowed to get a doctor’s note and some sick days for that, but most periods are not disabilities and do not require days off.
/r/MensRights06/03/22 05:30 PM
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*only females menstruate. There, better.
/r/MensRights06/03/22 05:45 AM
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Women will stop dating you for money when men stop dating women for their looks. It’s a trade off. I’m sure you could find a humble woman who would just be grateful to have your attention, but those aren’t the kind of women you’re going after. If you expect her to be hot, why is it wrong for her to expect you to be well-off? Both sides here are transactional, you’re just pretending that one side is worse than the other for some reason.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/12/21 11:52 PM
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Do you ever think to yourself “not all men” whenever someone says “Men are rapists”? Probably a similar thing going on here.
/r/MensRights06/08/21 07:37 AM
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