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Coming from a recent breakup with a similar situation I can only tell you to question her and if you wanna be with her! I mean look, how many problems will you run into for the rest of your life? You wanna take this burden all by yourself? I agree that you shouldn't be whining about shit but when she behaves differently when you explained your problems genuinly and with confidence, she only wants the good sides of you. Thats not a relationship!
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 10:31 AM
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Im honest with you, this is probably the most fitting comment of this post. I agree that my insecurity played a huge part of this happening but it does not make my point less valid. If you're commiting I think you should be trying to get to the bottom of why this person is inconfident with his issues. I can certainly say that I'm a confident person in many areas but so I'm not in other areas. My moral of the story is that you should invest in a person when you make a step into a commited relatio…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 02:07 AM
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Right but I'm talking about an issue which is nothing that it could be pretended before noir is it lasting for a long time. This is the point why I initially posted here because if something is only temporary why fleeing from it when you're in a relationship. Possible answer: Because I dealt with it weakly and not because the issue itself.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 09:36 PM
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This comment is very true and I think I will take this failure now to get back on track in life which will make me more happy myself.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 08:26 PM
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I'm honest with you, I probably didnt handle it well, but this is also part of the problem right? I was not confident with this issue but I also didn't hide it. I spoke with her about it and since then things became different.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 07:15 PM
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You are not missing any information. Well 1-2 arguments before, nothing serious. Define "bad issues"?
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 06:36 PM
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Because I wanted to rescue the relationship. She said she was not happy, not that she wants to break up with me.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 05:40 PM
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Bullshit. I had many relationships, this is not true.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 05:39 PM
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Well good example that there is no problem for fat guys to get girls ;) all they care for is emotional stability, well shit that I could not give this to her..
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 03:56 PM
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My 2017 isn't good at all either. Look, I honestly think it depends how you express things. When you say you shared your problems, did you look for affirmation and confirmation from her? There might be a difference between saying "Hey look, I'm not well but I'm dealing with it" or you constantly tell her your problems in hope she'll comfort you. Retrospectively I did the latter, I did not tell her once but a couple of times I have problems which I guess resulted in her feeling to comfort me (whi…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 03:22 PM
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Sorry to hear that dude. Hope you're doing well by now?
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 03:03 PM
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That was during the breakup, not afterwards. As I said when she said its over I immediately cut off any contact.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 02:53 PM
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Interesting story. Something I would like to add here is that my experience shows that anger is the least dangerous of being "out of frame". The worst is affirmation or begging. So you're good ;)
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 02:40 PM
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Nice to hear that you're happily married together for such a long time by now. Wish you all the best!
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 02:35 PM
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I'm not asking because I don't understand it. I'm asking what made you think she had nothing to offer from reading my post.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 02:20 PM
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I'm a fat guy too, but I don't take this as an insult.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 02:18 PM
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I like this comment. But out of interest, could you express more on what you mean by "Worth a lot more than she was able to offer"?
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 02:16 PM
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I'm certainly a beta but self reflection is the first step to change. I'm confused by "provider as fuck", isn't the man a provider by nature? Provider and protector: You can't protect a women by showing weakness or emotional instability, but taking her out (provider) does not seem counter productive to me?
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 02:08 PM
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Sorry to hear that dude. Experience comes with time!
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 02:05 PM
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Right sorry, I answered the wrong post :)
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 01:51 PM
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You're not alone. I care, always, but with every failure I gain more confidence in "not caring".
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 01:42 PM
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Thanks dude, at least I get some affirmation from you guys.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 01:37 PM
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Just out of curiosity but why would you think I come up with a story to post in TRP? I'm utterly sad yes, but I have better to do than inventing stories to post on reddit..
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 01:35 PM
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This. I fucking shut my mouth from this day on.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 01:33 PM
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I don't think so. As I said in my OP I was okay with being casual while she then send me messages saying "I'm constantly thinking about you". But I agree that I also wanted it and kinda convinced her with nice words to start a commitment. Don't see any shit test in that though.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 01:03 PM
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I can tell you that she has not a big friends circle and she benefited financially from me (going out with her, paying stuff we enjoyed). Also I wanna point out its been 2 1/2 months, not sure this counts as "a lot of time ".
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 12:50 PM
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Thanks for the compliment but this story is as true as it is written there.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 12:46 PM
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Thinking about it I actually have a similar female friend. She's one I always express my feelings to and she is kinda still after me. But I simply don't want her in any way. But don't you agree its not the same expressing your feelings to your SO or a random female friend. The depth isn't the same
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 12:45 PM
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Is it because you kinda don't care when you tell her? Maybe showing weakness has a subtle art of caring/not caring when you express it? I can truly tell that I did care about her and that I spoke with her about my problems because I wanted her affirmation.. I literally wanted her to tell me "Its all going to be good.."!
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 12:37 PM
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A fucktoy that wanted a committed relationship...
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 12:25 PM
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Guys tell me what world we're living in if not a committed relationship is the place to find comfort and support. I know this question appears to be rhetorical posting it in this sub, but I honestly ask you?
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 12:23 PM
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Definitely agree. I jumped into this way too quickly but as I knew this person for so long I kinda justified the quick start. Stupid question though, whats CC?
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 12:16 PM
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Thanks for your words. Mark my words though if she's going to contact me I will let you know.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 12:15 PM
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Just wondering if I'm confirming my behaviour by deleting her or if I should remain "I don't care"? Whats the experience on this.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 12:10 PM
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Guys there is one thing I'm curious about. Do you think it was TRP way of accepting her break up the way I did? I mean saying "Fine, if you've made your decision then this is it" and then deleting everything? What do you reckon?
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 10:35 AM
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The big mistake I did was not whining in the first place but I asked her if she did not want to say anything or give me an advice about my problem. Because she was not really impressed about my hurt.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 09:28 AM
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True that. Funny thing I have missed to point out in my OP. When we had a brief chat that she's not happy anymore I confronted her if she thinks it would be coincidence that she started to decline being happy when I told her about my problems. That was the first time I heard her raising her voice saying "Goddamnit no, there is no connection between your problems and me not being happy". I smirked.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 08:58 AM
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