letfalltheflowers Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	He won’t go down on me - how do I address this? Completely agree!	/r/RedPillWomen	14/06/20 07:39 PM
7	How do you ladies deal with anxiety around knowing men almost unanimously prefer women in their early twenties I agree here! There’s a 12 year age gap between my husband and I and our relationship just flows together and has way less anxiety involved than my ex who was closer to my age.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/06/20 02:28 AM
6	What do you respect the most about your man? I grew up in a similar fashion to you OP. But I am completely different from my family and work hard to embrace my differences within myself. That being said there are so many things I respect about my husband! Just to name a few- His consistency, his work ethic, his ability to plan, his pragmatic attitude, his direction, his ambitions, his ability to actively listen and find solutions to any problem, the way he takes care of our family, his integrity, the way he can keep me calm in any situatio…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/03/20 05:49 PM
5	Is It Okay To Go Back To Someone You Rejected? My advice would be to look for someone else. And really think deeply about what you need/want and who you want to be. Me at 18 is a complete world of difference away from me at almost 30. I am glad I didn’t end up with the types of guys I was interested in back then! Now, I am happily married to the best guy for me, he checks every single box I ever had. Don’t settle and good luck.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/01/20 05:30 PM
5	What is the correct way to communicate when something is bothering you? I find that just being factual without having an accusing tone works really well. Like one of the posters above said “you doing (annoying behavior) is (preventing me from being productive/bothering me because, etc)	/r/RedPillWomen	23/12/19 06:52 PM
7	Can't handle lack of romance/affection in my LDR... am I being immature? I don’t have advice in all of this and I know all relationships are different but if he wanted to spend time with you/talk more with you. He would. That’s one thing I know for sure. As someone whose LDR turned into us happily married and living together, one thing I can say is that while it takes a lot of work to be in a LDR I never once doubted his love and care for me. At times we were (and occasionally still are) in timezones that are 8 hours apart, and he would (and does) wake up at 4am his …	/r/RedPillWomen	16/11/19 09:06 PM
1	How do you feel about someone trying to look good (as we are told we should) but look significantly different without makeup? This!	/r/RedPillWomen	13/09/19 02:40 AM
4	Woman offers a threesome with my husband and I. No problem! Good luck with your current situation.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/09/19 03:24 AM
51	Woman offers a threesome with my husband and I. Trust your gut. Personally, after the threesome comment, I wouldn’t have let her come over to the house or meet the kids, except if you wanted things to head in that direction. She made it clear what her intentions are, listen to that. I might have a harsh point of view, but I am fiercely protective of my household. I only trust a select few to invite into my personal life. Not everyone is a quality friend. They have to prove that to me (just as I do to them) before we take our friendship farthe…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/09/19 02:23 AM
1	Homeschooling Check out r/homeschool.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/08/19 02:35 PM
3	If you love something set it free? My best advice is to ask him what’s up point blank. If he is genuine in what he wants then this shouldn’t be a problem. Be up front with him now, to save yourself from going through the same type of heartbreak later. Especially since he has a history of changing his mind.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/07/19 12:12 AM
2	If you love something set it free? Has he given you a reason as to why he decided to get back in touch after so much silence?	/r/RedPillWomen	13/07/19 10:20 PM
7	If you love something set it free? I might have a different perspective than others here. But I say be wary. You can still talk to him as you please, but be careful of letting your feelings (or old memories) cloud your judgement. I was in this situation once, except the guy only tried to come back to me after a failed relationship he decided to pursue instead of me. I told him to kick rocks, and he should have been more careful with his choices. I am with someone else now, and have never been happier in my life. Good luck.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/07/19 08:29 PM
8	Love it or List it? Personally, I would not go for someone like that. He sounds desperate at best and also a bit unhealthy, like that intenseness can switch to crazy-town very quickly. I am not a high-energy personality, I have fun but need things to constantly be chill to feel safe. If you are on your second date and already having second thoughts, it would be best to be honest with him about that.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/07/19 05:38 PM
–	Gratitude: What are you thankful for? I’m grateful for where I am at in life right now. I’ve fought chronic depression/anxiety for over half my life. My teenage years were pretty bleak and I didn’t think I would make it through. I’m in my late 20’s now and last night as I was bringing the hose in from watering my front yard I was hit with this amplified feeling of “wow. Here I am.” And I am so glad and grateful to be here.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/07/19 03:49 PM
3	How long should I wait to give it LTR status? Agree with you too, seeing a post with this kind of content here made me raise an eyebrow.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/05/19 09:38 PM
9	How long should I wait to give it LTR status? Sounds like he hasn’t made the break-up with his ex public with his (and her) family because he is keeping an open option to go back to her. I wouldn’t stay around for that if I were you.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/05/19 09:33 PM