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She deleted the post, thankfully I had a chance to read it. The whole time, I was thinking in my head how she put herself into this hole of “I NEED to be a surgeon to be happy/successful/ attractive,” and that her husband had to be like her (but better) in order for her to be attracted to him. (Talk about ruling out 99.9% of men automatically) but then later on in the comments admitted she didn’t even want to practice medicine. What? I’m so happy I found this sub and know my own hypergamous natu…
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/18 01:42 PM
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I would love to read your write-up of your fake Male bumble profile! That sounds super interesting.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/18 09:14 PM
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Perfect, just what I was looking for. Comments like yours are why I come to this subreddit for help. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/18 09:13 PM
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Amazing, thank you for all the advice and I will do this all! I’ve wanted beautiful nails for so long 💕how long did it take you for you to see noticeable results? What’s the timeline between your before and after pic?
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/18 10:43 AM
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Read your post and your nails are so beautiful! I’m not a nail biter but I do have “weak” nails and they don’t grow to be thick like yours. Are you saying that filing them is better than cutting them down for growth? I just started taking a biotin supplement so hopefully they will grow stronger, but they have always been weak :/
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/18 10:54 PM
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Ooh this is a tough one. Giving up control to a man with an active addiction is a no-go, you can’t really trust your captain to lead if he falls into the following three categories (according to author Laura Doyle: ) has an active addiction to drugs or alcohol is emotionally or physically abusive to yourself or your kids -has cheated on you in the past I would recommend you to read Doyle’s books (surrendered single and surrendered wife) for more info. It’s tricky because he is in rehab, but it s…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/18 12:50 PM
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Yes I feel like this is the elephant in the room. OP we need a little more context. I’m fairly new to RP myself and been learning a lot too, but being a single mom is a huuuuuuuge quality you have to take into account and can’t simply ignore.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/18 06:39 AM
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Oh my goodness so glad you started reading it! I literally started it and finished it within a day. Makes you think, right? I’m only 23 and I’m sooo glad I read it at this age! I definitely used to have a super long list (not as long as the author’s though, lol) and would write off guys for petty reasons. Best of luck in your relationship, it sounds like you guys have an amazing thing going, definitely something I aspire to have! ❤️(Especially the part where he was your first- I’m still a Virgin…
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/18 04:20 PM
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I just finished reading the book “marry him: the case for settling for mr. good enough” where the author tackles this exact question, extensively. Recommended read. Although I wouldn’t put your situation as “settling” since it sounds like you are both equally matched. Btw your fiancé sounds hot, 6’5, lean, muscular, advanced degree, loves you and cares for you? Girl, get that on lock. ASAP.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/18 07:44 AM
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I can totally imagine this. Like I wrote, even guys who post "artsy"/model pictures of themselves occasionally on social media just turn me off so much. The first thing I do is question their sexuality, honestly. I think my thought process is: Why does he crave to be liked so much by his looks? Is that the only thing that he has that gives him confidence? There probably isn't much else about him, then.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/18 06:53 PM
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I think that the image isn’t saying that liking the outdoors is a dealbreaker/unattractive, it’s just saying that it’s not inherently what is attractive. Rather, it’s the sense of adventure/ being willing to tag along and get “dirty” sometimes that is the attractive feature.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/18 12:06 PM
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Thank you! Yes. I think this is correct. It's great to have a career and to be intelligent (I consider myself very well-educated and pride myself in this) but it's another thing to think that men as a whole find it hot or would pick me over other women based on this characteristic alone. There's an author who co- wrote a very popular dating book with a guy (who is actually responsible for the book's basic premise, she just gives her perspective as a woman here and there). The book itself is very…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/18 03:46 PM
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get out of the kiddie pool, and go date a better guy who you both admire and respect. This is something I absolutely needed to hear. Thanks for writing it
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/18 02:12 PM
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I definitely see your point and this is probably something I need to work on as well. I'm really glad this sub exists because I feel like I'm learning so much about myself and the world, and really heading in the right direction here.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/18 02:10 PM
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Thank you for asking this because this is something I struggle with too. I’ve read all the commenters’ responses and I think the root of the issue (for me) is that I have a “single independent woman who don’t need no man” attitude, even if I don’t mean to, and that’s SUCH a turn off. Like you, I also go after guys I think are “lower” than me somehow. Ughh. It’s hard but I think it’s a defense mechanism so that we don’t get hurt if they reject us. Btw I know you’re getting roasted for saying you’…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/18 01:14 PM
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Thank you for your comment! I agree with you, and I think the people commenting disagreeing didn’t even bother to read the links I posted. “Appearance first” to men seems to be the equivalent of “Confidence/Power first” to women. That’s certainly the case for me, anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/18 10:16 PM
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Thank you for your perspective, it makes lots of sense and I can totally see where you are coming from. I wish (and hope) that other men take this much time and effort to think through their wants and needs for future partners!
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/18 05:44 PM
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Yes absolutely, I am decently attractive and have a good personality, I just thought that my accomplishments would be "the best" part about me that men would like. So that's what I emphasized the most. I was wrong, obviously!
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/18 05:30 PM
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Thank you! I am glad I understood everything correctly. Honestly, still trying to come to terms with this. All my life I've connected my worth as a person (and woman) to my accomplishments in college/careers. I'm glad I found this out at 23, though. I don't want to be a miserable 30-something, wondering where the time went and why I don't have a fulfilling relationship with a man yet...
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/18 05:09 PM
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I definitely didn't! I always tried to impress guys by letting them know how smart and accomplished I was. I felt like they needed to know I was a "catch" in the intelligence department...and RIGHT AWAY, as soon as possible. This only worked to alienate these guys. It wasn't that they were "intimidated" by me, it was that I was coming on way too strong and trying to compete with them, essentially acting like a man.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/18 05:06 PM
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Not sure if this is what you are looking for but recently I’ve cleaned up my Facebook and Instagram pages. I don’t even post on these anymore, but I took down some pictures that could be perceived as “slutty” or somewhat suggestive. Even though I’m a virgin, I don’t want a future romantic partner to go snooping on my pages when he’s getting to know me and find something that makes him think I’m low-value. I basically went through my page and thought, “if my future boyfriend’s mom saw this pictur…
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/18 09:17 PM
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Oh my god. Are you me? Seriously we must be the same person ....except I’m 23! Literally every part of your comment other than your age is 100% me. I’ve already seen so many improvements and reactions from men in my life (not just possible romantic partners, but my dad, brother, and random men) from implementing RPW tactics. Have you got a long term bf yet? I still haven’t, but I also haven’t tried to date just yet, until I get settled into a job and new routine (just graduated college). I feel …
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/18 09:03 PM
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Omg yes to everything but also that last paragraph! One girl in particular from college was the definition of skinny-fat, ironically she was an exercise science major and I was a business major. Anyway, she was used to being “the hot girl” in her classes (we went to a small college) and I’m actually fit with muscular butt/tiny waist, etc, the works. When we finally had a class together (business elective) this girl would actually stare me down and mock me with her friend whenever I talked. It wa…
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/18 12:47 AM
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Ha, love this, and your transformation sounds so much like mine so I 100% believe it! It’s amazing, isn’t it? ❤️ I don’t have a long term bf (or bf at all) but I’ve definitely noticed that as I’ve gotten better looking, women are just more competitive towards me in general- SPECIALLY hotter women. In fact, “plain” or “ugly” women are a lot nicer to me, in a “I want to be your friend” type of way, and while I get the same from hot women, I also get THE nastiest pushbacks from “hot” women. Idk whe…
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/18 12:15 AM
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This is one of the wittiest comments I’ve read on here in a while 😂 I died laughing haha
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 10:21 PM
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This is fantastic, thank you for sharing it. This is because after braving the world, men need a home. That home is not a house. That home is you. Words to live by!
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 03:56 PM
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Thank you so much, I just went ahead and bought both of those books! I've read the Surrendered Wife and Queen's Code. I'm waiting for the Surrendered Single and The Case for Mr. Good Enough to arrive in the mail. I'm excited to dig into all of these! <3 Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/18 02:43 PM
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Forgot to mention that the man helps in household tasks also, like some of the cooking, some of the heavier cleaning, and yard work. I agree with you though, you never know what’s going on “behind the scenes” but i can be fairly certain that they are happier than the average couple.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/18 12:24 PM
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Omg I agree. I grew up around tumblr feminism (from when i was 14-21) and part of me just knew that there was something off, that it wasn't the answer and that it wouldn't make me happy. I'm glad I found this sub and it just feels so much more natural and right for me, getting in touch with my femininity/submissiveness without any caveats or apologies is SO fun <3
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/18 03:29 PM
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lol I know, it's less ironic than you think! While I do cardio 3-4x a week, it's usually low impact or short duration (a long walk or short run!). The mountains around my area are super steep and take 1-5 hours, that would leave me sore for days. It's hard to explain to people that while I love being in shape and exercising, I dislike hiking with a passion...it's akin to me avoiding burpees (the worst exercise ever created in mankind).
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/18 01:56 PM
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AWESOME :) ! Good luck!! It looks so fun, I am just worried an active sport like that would impact my bodybuilding routine, and/or give me more bruises (I bruise easily!). Pole and roller derby are two sports that look so interesting to me!
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/18 10:00 PM
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Omg I LOVE IT!! I totally 100% recommend it. Watch the top videos on Youtube about how to do it, and read the amazon reviews (people write tips and tricks), because the directions on the package leave much to be desired. My lashes look SO perky and beautiful, I almost forgot to put on mascara this morning! This is the kit I bought, less than $20! https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B073DQRJQV/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o03_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1 And the best part is, you save a ton of money (it costs around…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/18 09:59 PM
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It's not! I think the issue is that many people who list "hiking" as one of their hobbies actually only do it maybe once a year. Or they consider a short 10 minute walk in nature a "hike." I personally find hiking super hard and tend to avoid it at all costs lol
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/18 09:53 PM
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