letgravitydecide Archive

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6	How to get rid of my conditioning of being intimidated by attractive women People who don't give a fuck don't even bother leaving the house. You'll never stop being intimidated. It's a signal that action is required. You can become practiced at acting in the face of intimidation. Not just with women, but with life in general. Intimidation lets you know that this opportunity is one that matters to you. You can become an intimidation seeking missile, someone who moves toward uncomfortable situations instead of away. Outcome independence might be a useful goal, but it's a…	/r/askTRP	05/07/18 08:55 PM
2	I'm going to commit suicide If death is an option, what else might be? There are so many paths that ordinary people never think to take, because in doing so they risk everything. You're already prepared to do that. Suicide is one great leap into the unknown. But you can have great leaps multiple times in this life. With your calm and logical thinking you can probably see that, if you make a radical enough change, the parameters of your outlook may also change. Survivors of attempted suicide by jumping often remark that upo…	/r/askTRP	28/06/18 03:26 PM
3	How do I be more "myself" and present with people? There is no "self" that you can tap into to become present. You are already present, but you are thinking. Thinking gets you caught up in thought, causes hesitation. You're here now, on an internet forum, doing homework on how to do something that you already know how to do. Socializing is often easiest without thinking, but you've probably gotten used to leveraging your ability to think as a solution to most of life's problems. It's just not that useful in casual banter. All the people saying t…	/r/askTRP	17/06/18 01:35 PM
2	Looking for blog The Gervais Principle?	/r/askTRP	09/12/15 04:23 AM
19	I asked a girl to pay for herself on a first date. I didn't feel good about it, but felt I had to stand my ground. She said she was leaving for an overseas trip soon and would like to see a movie before she goes. To me, this is the first red flag. He has offered an activity that would allow them to get to know each other, and she puts up a counter-offer of an activity that allows her to be entertained without getting to know him. This shows lack of interest in him, and betrays her willingness to go on a date with someone just to get a free movie. Accepting her counter-offer communicates that you don't care w…	/r/seduction	04/06/14 05:08 PM
5	How to receive compliments from a woman at a bar? Simple "Thank you" or ignore. You're not obligated to mock appreciation. You're not obligated to return a compliment. You're not obligated to strike up conversation. But the door is wide open, the woman has approached you, so this is easy mode for you. Just do what you want, and don't analyze what she says. Give her some attention or don't, it's all context. Personally I just agree with compliments. If a woman says to me something like "I like your beard," I'll say "me too." If I'm interested in…	/r/askTRP	22/05/14 03:03 PM
22	Facebook post by one of the hottest girls on my FB. Really hit a chord for me. It's intoxicating when somebody --you're attracted to-- is so unapologetically who they are. FTFY.	/r/seduction	07/05/14 07:21 PM
2	Crikey, I've lost my Mojo. You can do everything right and still lose. At least you weren't married. Girls are flighty. Don't blame yourself too much.	/r/seduction	10/01/14 09:33 AM
1	Happiness is overrated -- it's better (for a man) to be right than to be happy. TRP improves your quality of life. It’s not clear how long the experiment was intended to last No set termination period and only one couple used in the experiment. Extremely low research standards prove nothing.	/r/TheRedPill	18/12/13 05:43 PM
16	Just finished the audiobook of No More Mr.Nice Guy from the post on /r/seduction...here is my issue with the book. (he went out of his way to put me in a class that was full long after registration) In this case your professor did you a favor. He's given you value already, so your offer of wine will be a reciprocation. You're expressing gratitude with a gift. This is good! It communicates your recognition of the value you were given, and is not over or undervalued for the gesture you are making. Gifting isn't "nice guy" unless you're bribing someone or otherwise being needy, which doesn't sound like is the c…	/r/TheRedPill	15/12/13 06:20 AM
12	Fear of Rejection isn't the only fear in Approach Anxiety Approaching people on a London Tube carriage is probably the biggest exposure to social fear you can get. And yet, compared to other places you might approach, the Tube is a place with a minimum of social repercussions. Much less than places you go to be around the same people every day. There is definitely a norm about not bothering people in confined spaces, but lo and behold, strike up a conversation with a stranger on the train and it all kind of melts away. Yes, others may be able to hear y…	/r/seduction	09/12/13 09:16 PM
19	[Off topic] Keeping a girlfriend once I've got one Never stop building attraction. The frame you set when you met her is the frame you have to maintain now that she's your girlfriend. If you relax into your former habits she'll wonder why you've changed. You'll get into "not who I thought you were" territory soon after that, and she'll be gone. EDIT: Just read this: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1epgwd/above_the_game_part_8_relationships/	/r/seduction	30/11/13 07:38 PM
0	Be a fucking value giver Negging is way overused. Women know about it and will blacklist any dude who does it. It's an advanced tactic and only useful on high status women who get hit on a lot AND put up a bitch shield. Most women you'll encounter either don't know why you're being such a jerk or can instantly sort out you're doing that pickup thing.	/r/seduction	29/07/13 07:31 PM
59	Something that accidentally humbled and HELPED me. Nobody likes the sound of their own recorded voice.	/r/seduction	11/05/13 05:52 AM
-1	Fun Personality Test to give girls Psychology runs into some major problems with the scientific method. http://www.arachnoid.com/psychology/	/r/seduction	08/02/13 09:39 PM
1	women with dead husbands/boyfriends:how do i approach without coming off like a slimey vulture? Sounds like you're already acquainted, so just think of something fun and invite her to join you.	/r/seduction	18/12/12 09:58 AM
4	Game Against Alpha Joe This is interesting. I tend to either answer such questions truthfully (but without elaborating), or just say I'm not interested in talking about it. Otherwise I just seem evasive, which makes the situation more awkward. Reading your post, I'm wondering: were all of these people acquainted before meeting you? Were you the newcomer in this situation?	/r/seduction	05/04/12 05:38 PM
2	Total fucking fail - Huge realization. There are opportunities, EVERYWHERE. Exactly! So are you done worry about this one?	/r/seduction	13/01/12 08:58 PM
8	What exactly is flirting? I once heard flirting described as "prolonging interaction beyond what is considered appropriate between acquaintances." It's a little dogmatic, but my take-away was: hold the tension. Don't be the first to pull out of a moment. Hold eye contact longer. Hold a handshake longer. Allow her to break that contact instead of "giving up" first. Anything more advanced will be predicated on having the self-control to sustain and guide the interaction. Show that you won't knee-jerk react to an emotionall…	/r/seduction	03/01/12 04:16 AM
24	Everyone is alpha. It isn't necessary to be good at everything, just to enjoy living and have fun. Would an alpha avoid, for example, singing Karaoke simply because said alpha doesn't sing well? As long as it's not a desperate attempt to gain approval, and is done in the spirit of enjoyment, it's alpha behavior. Alpha means confident even in an unfamiliar situation.	/r/seduction	02/03/11 06:46 PM