lethargical46745 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
22	What is your position on femdom?		lethargical46745	/r/askFDS	30/06/20 12:47 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	What is your position on femdom? Thanks for your reply, but I never said anything about "gentle femdom", I said "genuine femdom", which I referred to precisely as putting women's pleasure first instead of the porn tropes present in most femdom, which are there mostly for the men's sake.	/r/askFDS	25/07/20 12:55 PM
6	How should men approach women they find interesting I understand. Thanks for explaining. I've always felt that because women have to go through extra trouble and risk because of pregnancy, and because they are physically more delicate (and I don't mean this in a patronising tone), it is perfectly justified that men take more than 50% of the burden on many things. What you said adds up to that. But it seems like society is not ready to say this openly in public.	/r/askFDS	02/07/20 04:31 PM
1	How should men approach women they find interesting I understand most of your post and I am sorry about the 6x statistic, it makes me cringe in shame towards my own gender. But I am not sure of what you mean with the last two sentences. Do you mean that a woman should never be in love? Doesn't that prevent her from being fully happy?	/r/askFDS	02/07/20 09:47 AM
3	How should men approach women they find interesting she still loses because STD’s have more negative affects toward women. Men can act as conduits for disease and show no side effects. I didn't know this. Do you have some source? I am not doubting you, I just would like to learn more about it because it is something I had not thought about before, and I would like to be able to bring this up if I am discussing with other men about this. especially if this man is trying to keep his genes in the gene pool (aka have kids) But women also need to repr…	/r/askFDS	02/07/20 09:41 AM
5	How should men approach women they find interesting (I am a man, I am not sure if I am allowed to reply here). In my opinion, this boils down to the fact that to make an omelette, you need to break some eggs. If you want to succeed you need to take risks, and you need to be able to accept that you will be rejected quite a few times, and be able to cope with that. Men with fragile self-esteem are not attractive anyway.	/r/askFDS	02/07/20 09:09 AM
23	A question for guys I want to improve myself as a man to be able to make a woman happy one day because that would make me feel complete. It seems like women here are more honest about what they want and makes them happy, so it is a very good source for me to learn. RedPillWomen has some okay parts and overall I think it is not so far from FDS but they often seem to settle to compromising with attitudes that are pernicious for them. And with all due respect, although AskWomen raises some valid points about shit wo…	/r/askFDS	02/07/20 08:53 AM
1	What is your position on femdom? I understand that a super-weak man is unattractive for a woman, and it also repulses me in a way. I would like to be submissive in a masculine way. Lift more than now (I am only doing it once a week), take the initiative, but considering the goals that she has set (like I am the driver and I take the short term decisions but she is the one that decides where to go, except whenever she wants to drive too, of course), and in case there is a conflict, putting her first. The literotica idea sounds g…	/r/askFDS	01/07/20 05:53 AM
1	What is your position on femdom? I think in practice what could work for me is something like 80/20 for her/me. These numbers are just an approximation, but the idea is that making it 100/0 may require, as you say, either the woman to have very extreme tastes or her to do things just as a role (and I really don't want that), and it may also be difficult for me to withstand in the long run without breaking down. Maybe something like 80/20 would naturally fit a woman's natural tastes without being extreme. I just like the thought…	/r/askFDS	01/07/20 05:45 AM
1	What is your position on femdom? "Original femdom" is not something that exists as a movement (not that I know of, although it would be nice if it existed) but I just referred to what is the literal meaning of the term. Yes, it is my impression that some women don't like too submissive men, even if we try to be so in a masculine way. We still come off as spineless. I sometimes think that I should try to look more dominant and assertive while still respecting women, but it is a very difficult equilibrium and I become very afraid…	/r/askFDS	30/06/20 01:29 PM
0	What is your position on femdom? I am sorry that you went through that and that you were disappointed. I am not perfect, I still feel attracted to some things like lingerie and heels which some women here may rightfully find an objectifying chore, but I don't see myself as "requiring" them because it would make everything fake. I may perhaps see them as a treat or prize. In any case, I personally find the whole gender inversion subtype of femdom as a huge turn-off. It is very icky. I like the idea of a man that is submissive in…	/r/askFDS	30/06/20 12:16 PM
-1	What is your position on femdom? The problem is that most so-called male "submissives" have an agenda and just want you to play a role that usually will not be what really makes the woman happy. There is a minority subset of femdom that is actually about putting the woman first. I am not claiming to be fully there because I have admitted, I also have a weakness for the woman being openly dismissive towards me (not always but at times), and that would only be genuine with women who truly enjoy that. But my point is that genuine,…	/r/askFDS	30/06/20 11:48 AM
-8	What is your position on femdom? I do believe that sometimes people cannot be completely equal, but some differences can actually make us complement each other. But I am sorry that you had to do that just to please him. I am very much against that.	/r/askFDS	30/06/20 11:22 AM
6	What is your position on femdom? What comes to my mind: making food for her (I'm not an expert but I think I am an okay cook and people have praised my dishes), cleaning the house, doing my best to fix the parts of my behaviour that she doesn't like, giving her massages (real ones, not excuses for being gropey), and when it comes to sex, putting her pleasure always first. Also: being a good provider for her. I made a new paragraph for this because I feel like it needs to be qualified to avoid a misunderstanding. I mean I like t…	/r/askFDS	30/06/20 10:33 AM
1	What is your position on femdom? I don't think I can call it a lifestyle if I am not living it for real hehe. But thanks for your kind words.	/r/askFDS	30/06/20 10:06 AM
2	What is your position on femdom? Thank you for your feedback. I must admit that I like the thought of a woman being loving with me and treating me well, but I also like the idea of her being evil sometimes and belitting and humiliating me. I sometimes feel a switch inside me that changes depending on the external stimuli. I understand that many people may think I am somewhat broken for this reason. This is probably one of the reasons why I have had so little success with women in life.	/r/askFDS	30/06/20 09:38 AM
1	What is your position on femdom? I understand what you say and I am not trying to use femdom as an excuse to save the other kinds of porn, my question is just whether you think femdom is okay in a relationship and/or porn. The experience you describe is quite common. I admit that sometimes I also feel drawn to that kind of stuff where the woman is as evil as possible but I also recognize that it is a fake show to satisfy the man. Actually, I have come to the conclusion that a lot of femdom porn is what I call "morally sadistic"…	/r/askFDS	30/06/20 08:12 AM
5	What is your position on femdom? When it comes to what I consider genuine femdom: that her wishes and pleasure come first, and his main pleasure is vicarious (i.e. he enjoys the feeling that she is enjoying everything).	/r/askFDS	30/06/20 08:02 AM
-2	What is your position on femdom? I completely understand that pushing a woman to adopt clichés of femdom porn is just a charade designed for male pleasure. I admit that I am sometimes a bit torn because I like a few of these clichés (not most, but a few like the heels and such) but I also heavily dislike the fakeness and the realization that many women may not really like them and they may boil down to a chore. The latter makes everything a lie. In an ideal world one could have both things, but if I were in a real situation and…	/r/askFDS	30/06/20 07:37 AM