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lethatshitgo/r/ExRedPill18/10/23 08:54 AM
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lethatshitgo/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 05:03 AM
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That’s a really bad mindset to have. Your perception creates your world.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/25 07:38 PM
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Though lately, it’s now all women. I’ve realized that I’ve only ever wanted a girlfriend as a status symbol and never cared about anything else. Idk it sounds like that’s not as normal as just being picky. Coming from someone who is really picky. Not saying there’s anything wrong with it, if it doesn’t bother you. If it bothers you, you should figure out what’s making you feel that way.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/25 10:29 AM
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This is so interesting, how’d you end up figuring that out?
/r/ExRedPill13/02/25 05:16 AM
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I’m open to it. I dated a red pill man for two years and slowly ended up being red pill myself. As soon as I got out of the relationship, I was able to see a lot of the BS. But I still struggle with a lot of the ideology that’s been burned into me. I feel like because I’m a woman my take would be interesting, it’s a really different experience from men in the red pill world. It has not been fun and I really miss when I had no idea what any of this ideology was.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/25 05:15 AM
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This seems like a really deep rooted issue that most people haven’t dealt with before. I don’t think this subreddit will be able to help you with the fact that you’re not attracted to majority of women. Most people won’t relate to that, even red pill. You might have to track that feeling back down to the root to really find your answer to this question.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/25 05:13 AM
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The same reason that attractive people do. Unattractive people are not aliens lol. They also experience the same kind of love and hormones that attractive people do.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/25 05:10 AM
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I’m an attractive woman, in my last relationship I was dating an attractive man. (He was redpill, I eventually was for a bit as well, hence why I am here.) His sex drive was low, no hate at all toward him, he couldn’t help it. My sex drive has always been ridiculously high. I felt like I was in a sexless relationship for the two years we were together, and we’re both pretty attractive people. Not sure if that put it into perspective well, but basically how attractive either person is, has nothin…
/r/ExRedPill13/02/25 05:08 AM
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There’s a lot of good YouTube videos and books on the art of not giving a fuck, I think that’s actually a name for one of the books. I think you should really spend a lot of time looking into those ideologies. Caring what people think about you to this extent is exhausting. As for bitterness towards women, I don’t really have an answer for that. I’m a woman, so I just don’t understand it. I’m assuming you’ve had a decent amount of bad experiences, but depending on how old you are, there’s no way…
/r/ExRedPill13/02/25 04:48 AM
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You have literally no idea what you’re talking about.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/25 11:49 PM
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I dated a red pill guy for 2 years, and actively saw this play out in all his relationships. Family, friends, work, and myself. My opinion on it, is that it’s just literal manipulation to play this game in relationships. It removes everything genuine from it, and makes relationships (especially friendships) dull and superficial. Life becomes a ladder to climb, even in your own family. People will pick up on it, people will distance themselves. I’ve seen it in real time, people who are having a g…
/r/ExRedPill01/02/25 04:45 AM
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Red pill is most commonly known as a dating theory that a lot of incel types engage in. It’s not really an insult, but that depends on your perspective of course.
/r/ExRedPill28/01/25 12:22 AM
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A red pill man ruined my life. The red pill movement makes me so angry because it takes people who’s heads are already in a decent place, and then misguide them. They abuse real knowledge and information and advice and twist it. Glad you left and got out of there. Being in a red pill environment taught me a lot about the world, but also completely destroyed my perspective on the world. I’ve spent the past year healing from it and am turning out wonderfully.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/25 02:45 AM
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Because I was only really introduced to it through my ex and then I realized my ex was a delusional idiot.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/24 06:05 AM
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Also I’d like to add that believing in true love will make the black pill beliefs dissipate very quickly. True love cannot actually be a belief in your brain at the same time as believing in black pill or red pill, I know because I dated somebody who was red pill and for awhile became red pilled myself. True love died for me when I was in that relationship. I was so scared id be stuck in those mindsets after that relationship ended, but my belief in true love brought me back to reality.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/24 06:48 AM
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There are many good replies in here that will be better than mine, but as a woman, attraction has a lot more to do with confidence and chemistry than it does looks. To be completely blunt, i and many others women I know have found ourselves attracted to generally unattractive people but when you have those hormones going off in your brain, it doesn’t matter, they are beautiful in your eyes regardless because the chemistry is just there. You’re thinking too much into it. Life is very fun to compl…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/24 06:45 AM
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Please be worried. I dated a guy for two years like this and ignored them as immature things he’d grow past by ‘falling in love with me’ and I was wrong. If he is exhibiting controlling behaviors and has lied a lot about other things, he is not healed enough from the red pill/incel mindset to treat you good. That relationship left me in shambles and I ignored so many red flags that were literally EXACTLY the same as this one.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/24 10:04 PM
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This!!! It’s so sad to me that just a sweet single boy has been lied to by the internet into thinking he’s anything close to an incel.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/24 03:26 PM
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Don’t become the guy that entertains 4 girls at once without open communication about it. I know I may be speaking too soon on somebody I don’t know, but I know that red pill teaches men that women are attracted to men with high body counts and it is not true. Women appreciate and value loyalty just as much as men.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/24 03:18 PM
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lol apparently 😭
/r/ExRedPill09/05/24 11:26 PM
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Yes, red pill trains people to control and manipulate by intermittent dopamine texting.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/24 11:37 PM
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My ex would say stuff exact like this. One of his favorite was “you love painting a picture” because I have a good vocabulary???? (My vocabulary isn’t even that good)
/r/ExRedPill08/05/24 06:01 PM
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Yes, lol they really do. It was so funny to me watching him get his first real big boy job and him being shocked at how normal adults act.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/24 06:00 PM
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Me too, I unfortunately still miss him sometimes but I know now how bad things were
/r/ExRedPill08/05/24 04:54 AM
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yes for sure, my red pill ex would completely tune out whenever I would show how smart I am. i think he was also a narcissist but when we first started dating, our debates on his red pill theory would anger him so much bc i was making points he never thought of before. His excuse was always ‘you don’t know the girls that went to my high school’ like bro you’re 20??
/r/ExRedPill07/05/24 05:55 PM
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I dated a red pill man for two years and it fucked my brain and morals up beyond belief. Like BEYOND BELIEF. I am not kidding. I felt brainwashed for a long time and sometimes I’m scared that I still am. Don’t pay any attention to that red pill stuff, it is designed in a VERY manipulative way for a reason. We do not expire at 25, not even close. 25 is just when our brains are becoming fully developed, it’s just the true start to adulthood. And any man who DOES believe in the red pill ideology, i…
/r/ExRedPill26/03/24 09:45 PM
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I don’t know how old you are but I felt that way for awhile, until love eventually found me. Even though I feel like I can rarely socially connect with anybody, it’s actually happened to me twice now. My only advice, even though I am a girl, is to be careful of who youre giving your heart to, even if it is like a ‘too good to be true’ kinda person.
/r/ExRedPill23/03/24 06:23 AM
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As someone who dated someone who is red pill, it is because they are manipulative. They know what to do because they’ve spent hours studying it. They know how to hook a girls emotions and then use it against her to keep her stuck in the relationship and under their control. It’s a very swift thing and is often an unconscious thing that wasn’t meant to have bad intentions, but it’s harmful nonetheless. Especially for people like me who have extremely anxious attachment styles and can very easily …
/r/ExRedPill18/03/24 02:01 AM
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Just need to look in the right places. Most women I’ve met are just looking for a genuine love. In my experience, it’s younger and chronically online woman that really have mixed up morals around income and dating. At the end of the day we all have an innate desire for true love, and if you keep your heart open and go to the places you think that person would be, you’ll find them or they’ll find you.
/r/ExRedPill16/12/23 07:42 PM
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He would instant break up with me if I did what he did the past few nights, I know he would.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 06:00 PM
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He’s never done it before the past year I’ve known him, just this week he went away. Thought we were on the same page because we talked about it before he left.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 05:33 AM
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I’ve told him before, he usually just says he thinks they’re funny but idk it’s just so much. It feels personal to me, but maybe he doesn’t have me in mind when he’s watching them and liking them.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/23 10:57 PM
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Celebratory hands 🙌
/r/ExRedPill19/08/23 06:42 AM
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And then there’s also Andrew Tate out here putting his cock in every girl who he sees fit and it’s not cheating because he’s a man? And he wonders why good women don’t exist, it’s because they’re hiding in their comfy house far tf away from men like him. You really think you’re gonna find a woman with traditional values and at the same time genuinely loves you, while you’re giving yourself over to other women? Nah.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/23 04:26 AM
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Literally. Red pill says “respect me and give me sex when I want it, but if you leave me or i leave you you can’t have sex with anyone again and you better not have had sex with people before me because both of those make you low value”. It bothers me to my core because it’s like these people pretend to not realize that atleast 70% of men on earth have used the promise of love or teasing loving gestures in front of a girls face as a way of manipulating girls into having sex with them. Atleast on…
/r/ExRedPill15/08/23 04:23 AM
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Even from a red pill stand point this boy would be a beta LOL he seems lame af. To me it seems like you’re all he could get to toy with and ‘try out’ his new red pill knowledge on, and I’m so sorry for that. Because you seem like an incredible and very down woman. You seem like a genuine person, so it truly is his loss because that is rare nowadays. Even from the twisted red pill standards, this dude is a sad case. If he really was an ‘alpha male’ he would’ve already been going after women who ‘…
/r/ExRedPill14/08/23 04:05 AM
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I thought my bf wasn’t into red pill anymore because he doesn’t watch it anymore or act crazy, but reading this post has me in tears rn. This has been my life since atleast May. Go 24 hours atleast once or twice a week with no word from him, everyday I feel like I’m begging for a response. It’s literally agonizing. It’s so painful and to think this could be some tactic he’s using on me, breaks my heart and terrifies me.
/r/ExRedPill13/08/23 01:08 AM
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