letmetheheckout Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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8	An indifferent man I noticed you invoked them purposely ignoring your online stories. It is better to refrain from posting such stories if your goal is to soley catch their attention. That screams neediness and they can smell that shit from a mile apart. As for the other mentions, you match the energy, you don’t chase, you get on with your life and start ignoring these online games which drain your energy and lead to despair and low self-esteem.	/r/seduction	20/10/24 11:06 AM
7	She is USING you if you are in the friendzone, this is why... We surely do, I have some girl friends and I personally learned a lot about women thanks to them. I think he wanted to say we don’t really need those friendships originated in the failure to seduce a woman. It’s completely different from organically trying to befriend a woman. It would be like a constat reminder that I fucked up making the girl mine, at least for me. Not an ideal friendship scenario.	/r/seduction	12/10/24 12:49 PM
29	How to avoid the friendzone (the hard truth) Why did you repost this?	/r/seduction	10/10/24 08:43 AM
9	Does showing too much interest kill your game long term Please do expand	/r/seduction	13/05/24 09:58 PM
14	I can’t get over a girl, is there anyway to regain her interest? Move on. It’s better to invest all that energy in yourself or some girl who treats you well.	/r/seduction	26/03/24 07:47 PM
2	Invited girl I met at a party to another party I’m hosting. Her response was just “I will”. Does that mean anything? I wouldn't be able to cope with the frustration if someone asked her out before in the meantime. I'm not saying you should rush, just try to see her sooner if you can	/r/seduction	01/11/21 10:02 PM
5	Invited girl I met at a party to another party I’m hosting. Her response was just “I will”. Does that mean anything? She will probably show up. Why wait till the next party to see her again, though? Assuming you were both drunk, how would you know you like each other sober, if you met just at parties? (this works if your intentions go beyond a ons)	/r/seduction	01/11/21 09:42 PM
6	How do you get past the feeling of “I don’t want to be a bother?” I think you're putting too much weight on it, way more than you should. I mean, imagine someone tried to present you a product you hate, you would simply tell them you're not interested and expect to be left alone. I don't think this action bothers you; it would however bother you if they insisted and carried on with it. That's how I see it, if you get a rejection, don't go beyond it and you ain't bothering no one. It would be a shame to not try. Some girls are shy and won't show any signs that …	/r/seduction	21/09/21 08:46 PM
4	What do you do to get over women you genuinely like? See other women, work or pursue your interests Don't allow yourself the time to give her attention Recently got over a one year disappointment quite easily like this. You have the right mindset, tho, good luck	/r/seduction	21/09/21 08:30 PM
1	How to handle a girl's date invitation for a few days later? Dude, if they make you question the way you're talking (texting), just screw them. If they were really interested, you wouldn't be asking yourself if you did ok because you really did nothing wrong. The way you handled it shows that you're available but not too available. Never change your ways for anyone. Good luck (You can wait for them to contact you - that's a more or less clear sign of interest or reach out yourself, but be cautious and don't get invested too much at the beginning)	/r/seduction	26/07/21 08:46 PM
3	[deleted by user] You might be interested in some sort of activity she is doing, for example you see a picture of her hiking and ask where it was taken because you'd like to go there yourself. I guess the overall idea is not to start kissing her ass from the beginning. Conversation can be built without 'pedestalizing' her	/r/seduction	23/07/21 07:59 PM