letsindulge Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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10	Look for three things before asking a woman out You should feel it. Like in your soul, a strong desire to kiss her - your mind will tell you when it’s right... in the moment. The feeling doesn’t always work, but it is right like 90% of the time. It’s like a biological trigger. You will sometimes be hit with a waive of anxiety right when you have the feeling. If you feel it, ignore the anxiety. Stay in the moment, and go for it!	/r/seduction	19/02/19 01:42 PM
89	Holy fucking christ i'm lonely You alter your neurochemistry based on how you interpret events. Your brain doesn’t know what a “failure” or “success” is, you decide that - and your brain releases the appropriate neurochemicals. You’re filtering your life through failure, rather than seeing those events in your life as successes. You moved out, you got in shape, you went on 4 dates you wouldn’t have otherwise. Those are fucking wins, but your brain won’t give you that unless you’re conscious of the failure/success interpretati…	/r/seduction	11/12/18 06:29 AM
8	What to do when she asks "Are you hitting on me?" “Clearly”	/r/seduction	11/04/18 03:29 PM
8	Is it normal for a man in his 20’s to not like casual sex/ hookups? Thanks	/r/seduction	19/10/17 05:10 PM
4	Being rich can be a problem! How do I explain a complicated career and significant wealth? I usually don't tell them what I do/have, and don't go out of my way to show them. Joke around. You work at McDonald's or something. They sense that you're bsing them but laugh - it's disarming and not intimidating anymore. Never been an issue unless I noticed I was subtly increasing my status with things I said until they felt a weird gap. Don't do that. It's a turnoff for everyone.	/r/seduction	20/08/16 06:42 PM
4	[Question] How to approach & pick up girls at a concert/festival? Turn off the "talking" part of your brain and just be present in the moment. Don't go with an agenda, or seeking any sort of outcome - just be fun. Talk to guys, girls, groups, etc. Then, your natural machine should take over. Best + easiest way to approach it from the facts you've presented.	/r/seduction	29/05/16 07:03 PM
2	When you should ask a girl out on dating apps (Hint: sooner than you think) and failing to be direct or to give the illusion of choice	/r/seduction	29/04/16 07:04 PM
2	When you should ask a girl out on dating apps (Hint: sooner than you think) Maybe 5-6 texts. Something more casual, or a tease. Then a request in which I convey all the terms - like "I'm off saturday, lets grab ice-cream"	/r/seduction	29/04/16 06:46 AM
2	When you should ask a girl out on dating apps (Hint: sooner than you think) I used to say something slightly witty or teasing at the beginning, banter off that for 3-4 message, and say "text me - easier xxxxxxxxxx" Worked 80% of the time.	/r/seduction	28/04/16 02:14 PM